Culture and Religion
Title description: 28 April 2021
Why do we practice appeasing ancestors?
Only few of us can dive deep in this topic of ancestors and share insights,why because mankind had drifted from his core roots to something else, we as individuals we have Choices to review how do we believe on ancestors, as we have been emphasizing on this segment that, our believes created us, we have been conditioned to follow what our ancestors requires us to perform or comply to ,so the reason we appease ancestors is because we are connected spiritual with the dead ones, we can argue about how ancestors never existed but you can relate to this statement once you hit the rock bottom and you are told your ancestors have turn against you and all you should do is to perform a ceremony for your ancestors , we appease using different tactics, a prayer or a fasting session is part of appeasing what you worship, it take time to understand how religion and culture are all multifaceted, but some how they link each other, like us as individuals we don't exit before some people make us to exit, that's why we see our ancestors as connecting chains of life, because sooner we are going to join them. They are various reasons why we appease our ancestors you can check the following:
- We want guidance for our careers
- We seek protection
- We don't see anything working for us
- We want to appreciate what they have done for us
- We seek spiritual Clarity
As you learn how we as individuals have our reasons why we appease ancestors, it's your choice to choose how you relate to this topic because Christianity has made African people abandon their cultures, so we should remember Christianity didn't come from Africa but had affected most individuals.
Why do we honor the gods?
It has been documented in our biological historical manuscripts, that African people have been worshipping gods, before the arrival of Christianity on our African continent, we have this responsibility to research how did we arrive to worship certain things and why remember we are who we are today because of the DNA code which we have inherited from our forefathers, it's very important to seek clarity about why some people worship God and others, gods, you should remain focus on which element serves you better, because if you believe in something we don't have a right to isolate you or argue with you, but what will remain a working contribution is to respect what you honor as your pillar of strength. We honor what our beliefs say, so you better check which tribe of beliefs are coming from and why you honor those gods, and what you benefit.
Why ghost hunt us ?
How many of us can sleep in cemeteries?
Few of us who are not happy or may be mentally challenged, are not aware that our negative thoughts are called ghosts and positive thoughts are called God, so this journey for clarification remains to confide to the only independent thinkers that's why you can read this text but never understand anything because this subject requires accurate thinking and calmness, we have been conditioned to fear ghost, and this should be checked because your imagination is powerful to Create scenarios which can convince you that you are hunted by the ghost, because when it comes to the spiritual path, we Struggle to prove evidence because what's happening it's based on illusions and it's hard to prove on physicality where is the ghost, so to remain Focus you should note this: ghost exist only on your imagination.
Can culture destroy your self-confidence?
We have converse about how Abuse is increased by some of this Cultural powers, because we can tell you Today, most people are still controlled by Culture and they refuse to accept they the chains of Cultures are so hard to break away from them, how many of us we have been taught to become man enough and to act like ladies , so this powers have shaped how we are confident today, many of us we have been destroyed inside by some of our Cultural conspiracy and practices, because self confidence says a lot about how you were raised and what you know as an individual, many of us we have been taught to work hard even though we don't understand what's the purpose of doing this activities, today we are struggling to become Confident about what we want to achieve because we are mostly conditioned to think that money is a root of all evil, we lack confidence to pursue wealth because we don't have Confidence to check what's not working on our lives, Remember we have told you about how Culture limits our thinking and the ability to question, because some cultures don't require us to question certain things that's why we can suffer, you can Review your upbringing and Check how your confidence was damaged from school, church, to work , we have wound's of low self-esteem and we should take personal accountability to fix this patterns.
How can culture help us to understand history?
Cultures as we can confirm it's evolving, but what remains common is that we still practice those steps left by our ancestors, so we should remain focused on how history has shaped us and research where we come from and where are we going, everyone has a Culture, it depends how you practice it and how you understand it.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 27 April 2021
Why some dreams can make the marriage succeed?
Before we get married we all have dreams of seeing ourselves as successful, but no one plans to have a failing marriage, you as partners those dreams you have each should be documented because often spouses miss the point of matching their dreams with their marriage, most of us we just enter into the marriage only to realize later one of us is reluctant to pursue his or her dreams and this can impact the success of the relationship, to whenever you don't talk about your dreams you end up losing your vows, so those dreams should be guided by goals and plans because your marriage success will always come from your ability to act on those plans you have and how you implement them.
Why marriage Goal's matters?
Marriage is the goal, why because if you fail to work on what is uniting you then you will line for a divorce, we have talked about how goals play an important role in our lives, and we have documented powerful insight in our book called Goal's toolbox, why Goals fail and What to do, it's an ongoing challenge for married people to keep on pursuing their martial goals because as we have told you recently, when we meet our partners we have good terms to see the relationship between us succeeding, but along the stage of the marriage we end up losing the meaning of what has connected us at the first place, it was love not hate or Abuse, so we should take into consideration that as spouse's we have to set goals for our marriage and keep on reviewing how we implement them and we have to be open mind to understand that all marriages have their challenges and worst-case scenario.
Why honesty can reveal marriage's strength?
Preferably as individuals we trust people who are honest and open to change, when you and your partner seat down and explore this topic of how honesty is important then you have open a success gate for your marriage or relationship, we have this tendency to avoid to stick to what we want , if you don't want lies don't entrain them, set your path clear and be willing to face all the consequences which comes along with your approach, honesty can reveal your relaltionships or marriage Strength, because you and your partner how you Trust each other will be shown on how you treat each other, as spouse's we should remember that love is kind and pain is bitter, so whenever you begin to treat each other as garbage bags then you should be aware that your are destroying your marriage, honesty doesn't requires more words but it had to be tested on actions, if you don't trust someone don't get married to them, save your life and time , because sometimes we neglect to question why at first should we trust this person to spend our entire life with them, Marriage is union, to succeed on it you should be honest and humble, and be willing to learn from each other.
Why common efforts can save the marriage?
How many times should we emphasize this statement:
Communication is key to working out your marriage or relationship issues and progress.
Conflicts can come but we should be aware that every problem has its own solution, the most problematic situation we have encountered with many Spouse's is this: Partners are not willing to learn how to communicate to each other, most of them, rely on reading the mind of each other and this increase more problems, because all successful marriage or relationships are all common to one thing which is , the power to seat down and Communicate, but most of us we are not willing to learn how to communicate because we think Arguments are tough to handle and keep up on them, when you get into a marriage or relationship with someone remember you will argue and you will have problems which requires joint efforts in order to overcome the situations, so you need to review how is your marriage or relationship Communication system is structured, some of us we like to Communicate our issues after sex or before it , but often of bedroom's, let's warn you , people who like to solve problems on bedrooms never find Solutions, because beds are created for sleeping not for solving problems, that's why we are sometimes triggered by emotions to attack one other during the sleep time, and to resolve this , you need to agree as partners they we all have the same powers to hold each other accountable and we should talk matters on the table not during sleeping time, bed is for sex and sleep not for complaints.
Why do marriages fail?
As married people or those who are willing to enter this journey, we should warn you about the dangers which can lead any Marriage or relationship to fail, check the following:
- Pride to ask for forgiveness
- Blaming each other
- Nagging
- Complaining
- Unsolved matters
- Changing each other
- Misunderstanding
- Lies
- Empty promises
- Revenge by cheating
- Inability to set joint Goals
- Wrong careers
- Poor sex
- Financial mismanagement
- Religious conflicts
- Health issues
- Doubts
- Comparison
- Low self-esteem
- Not complementing each other
- Advice from the wrong people
- Abuse
- Unplanned children
- Drugs and alcohol
- Too much social media
We have listed 100 key elements which can destroy your marriage or relationship but we have this one key factor that destroys most marriages and relationships, which is: The loss of love, most of us don't review how we love each other, we neglect to check this topic because we think because we are married we are in love, we realize later that love has left the marriage because we didn't nurture it, Love can solve your failing marriage or relationship because we understand that Love humbles us and it has its standards of how we should treat each other, so when we restore the love we have for each other we have overcome most of those dangers which can lead us to end the marriage if you want to achieve your marriage Success you should seek help from experts who are married and seek external help about how to tackle certain challenges because it takes joint efforts to make a Successful marriage
Startup Business
Title description:26 April 2021
Why common vision builds a viable business?
A business is built based on a vision, whenever partners cannot understand the mission of the enterprise then is unlikely that the business will succeed, because a Startup Business as discussed is a research Platform, whereby you as Entrepreneurs will be testing your concept and learning how to pivot along your business process, so your common Vision plays an important to help you map out your plans and how you want to execute your startup plans because with good common Vision your can build friendly lasting relaltionships with your co-founders because what is a business without a common joint Efforts which leads partners to something worthy? A vision is a connector because it units minds and ideas into one thing, that's why every business when it starts has its type of vision which aims at guiding that particular business.
Why does research helps to grow the business?
They are different types of traps that can harm your you can check the following:
- Misunderstanding
Every time whenever you and your team start to neglect to utilize correct Communication techniques which can enhance all to be on the same page, then you are inviting idleness because people if they don't understand they don't act and this can increase your problems for not achieving your vision.
- Procrastination
Any Vision which is not guided by execution techniques will end up in vain, that's why as a Startup Business owner you should be aware of this monster called Procrastination because it has harmed many businesses and dreams.
- Doubts
Most of our doubts can harm our vision, that's why you should be very careful about what you doubt and how are you going to handle that particular doubts.
- Fear
Visions have sizes, some can be big and others small, so you need to check your mindset and what you fear about that particular vision because once you fail to analyze your fears you will have problems with inaction.
- Wrong team's
Wrong teams are dangerous because you won't achieve anything with them more than failure, so you better remove them as soon as possible.
- More ideas
Ideas don't count if you cannot implement them, so be careful about this notion of having more ideas that don't yield any results.
- Lack of skills
- Emotional problems
Any inaction comes from our emotions, why because we should feel good or bad when we want to do something, so oftentimes most Entrepreneurs don't do things that make them feel bad that's why they end up not achieving anything which is based on their Vision.
- Team conflicts
Arguments are necessary for any Startup Business but they should be professional and based on good working ethics, because if we don't remember what kind of vision are we pursuing then arguments will rule us
- Missing deadlines
If you miss deadlines you will add more failure to your plans, so whenever you see any kind of inaction pay attention to what created it.
Why vision should match the actions?
It has been an emphasizing activity on this segments of business, Research is more important because we fail to grow our Enterprises because we cannot study what we are doing wrongly and what is working for us, remember any business is a research platform, it doesn't matter how big or small is the business, but at the end, all businesses should understand what they are doing and how they are delivering those services to their respective customers, so Research plays an important role to grow any business and it can help the business to analyze which resources are Viable and which liabilities should be checked and removed out of the plan.
Why Startups are opportunities zone?
It's now time you have an understanding of what is called opportunity markets, any business that starts if it cannot solve any valuable problem won't make it, because any opportunity you venture into has to solve your customer problems and add value to them, so we live in unprecedented times whereby options are more than actions, it doesn't matter how many opportunities are unfolding for you, but what matters is how you benefit from those opportunities, any market has its opportunities, you as an entrepreneur you have the responsibility to study and Innovate based on those market gaps you have spotted because it takes time and effort to analyze some opportunities as they require diverse skills and experience, so Check your business opportunities carefully.
Why growth requires a Curious mindset?
Curiosity is what creates opportunities, you can conduct your observation and check, how many businesses that Master curiosity is not successful?
You can learn that the most important tool you have is to understand how to use your mind and to match your skills and experience with the opportunity because growth in any business requires attention and curiosity, that's why some businesses can grow faster than others and it's all about Understanding which niche requires your Innovation and how can you dominant that particular segment, so curiosity is what should move you as an entrepreneur because you can discover many opportunities and Select which once fit your goals and plans, curious mindset is often than ones which create what today we call rapid technologically Breakthroughs, so pay attention on what is it that your curious about and check how can you Innovate that particular curiosity.
Career and Work
Title description: 25 April 2021
How to check Opportunities traps?
Caution is important once you venture into something new because most of us don't check full details about the opportunities we are signing into, that's why we are scammed and robbed, so it's very important to evaluate your agreements before you can sign anything because opportunities can trap us into the problematic situation which ends up stealing out overall peace.
To review any kind of opportunity you enter into check the following:
- Why should I take this opportunity
- Do I have the necessary skills and capabilities to work out this opportunity
- How did I know about this opportunity
- How many people are successful or failing on this opportunity
- What is all about this opportunity
- How long will this opportunity last
- What kind of risks and doubts comes along with this opportunity
Once you take this questionnaire you will see if you are suitable for that opportunity or not and it is very important to be honest, because wrong opportunities waste time and effort.
Can opportunities reduce our actions?
It has been said on time and time again in this manual about paying attention to your options and distractions, yes it's true they are different types of opportunities which can reduce our actions, because as it has been discussed on point number one about questioning yourself if the opportunity suits you or not, because if you take wrong opportunities you will have to reverse your actions and start again to look for better opportunities which match your skills and experience, so if you check amongst individuals who have Succeed and those who are failing you will see some of us we are reluctant to change our goals and the directions of our plans even though we are failing that's why our actions end up seen as a waste of time, so you should choose carefully so you can act on what is right for you.
Why skills should be active?
Any skill you acquire is an asset or liability, so according to our educational systems, skills are mostly challenged by the rapid changes of new Technologies which makes most individuals irrelevant in the new market, so it's becoming more challenging to test your skills because the market is moving so fast in pace whereby your degree or school record is becoming obsolete within five years, so to remain active on your skills you should pay attention towards your industry trends and check which skills are needed for a long time and how can you acquire those skills as soon as possible, today a school degree requires more analysis testing so you can get value from what you have studied for, that's why it's very important to check our career segment whereby we delve deep inside into details on how to choose a long-lasting career and how to test your skills across different industries.
Why opportunities are now Automated?
We are living in the fourth industrial revolution, whether you want it or not, automation is now being forced on us, look at how covid-19 had change the game of working, we are now obligated to work remotely and this shows how developed and how far Technology is taking over our jobs because most of us in this new technological world we need to have Viable skills which can help us to remain relevant, because Careers are now Automated and it will take us time to match our capabilities with this Innovation which keeps on creating new horizons of opportunities, and it's very important to study how your Career is becoming automated so you can do something about that because jobs sooner or later will be based on Technology and most people will remain unemployed, you should revisit this text by 2030 and you will confirm the truth.
Why you should think about your next action?
As pointed out above you should be aware of these new technological advances which can harm your future, you should familiarize yourself with new skills which can safeguard your career, the reason is very important to think about your next action is because anytime your company or the industry you are working on can adopt new technologies which save them costs, and this will lead you to retrenched, so be careful about how you Structure your next move because we live under an automated world, nothing is guaranteed so keep your head up and check what's happening and how can you safeguard your career because Innovation will your over on most jobs and left many people desperate and jobless.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 24 April
The power of success you should be aware of ?
Success is essential for your life, so it's very important to take this subject very seriously, because, at the end of our lives, we are remembered for our success, not failures, so it's now time to understand how your success plays a role on your entire life because if you don't strive for success you will join those individuals who complain about how it's hard to become successful, and how life is unfair, you should remove yourself from those individuals, because we can tell success can discriminate, you can be seen if your not successful, so your better not join that line of those people who are not successful, there this peer which comes with success:
- The power of options, contribution, choices, selection, network.
When you are successful you have options to apply your desires and wants because Success as discussed is a broader subject and you need to understand which type of success does it fit you because your goals will tell you what type of success are you looking for, either debt success or asset success, so make your selection.
Why do options comes from success?
How many of us wish to fly to basic places such as Dubai?
Many of us have that dream to see the island, but how many of us will go there?
1% out of 100, so this shows how you should make sure you become successful so whenever Other's make wishes for you it's a reality, you can use your options as pointed out above but money plays an important role to give us those experiences, that's why you should have streams of incomes which can cater those dreams.
Your options can reveal your affordability, that's you should be financially stable to access some adventures because the more your options allow you to live your dreams, the more you are successful in your game of life.
Can success lead to intelligence?
No success can lead us to intelligence but it can help us to gather tools that can enhance us to extend our success.
Which success is dangerous?
Shortcut success is one of the reasons why most people never become successful because people confuse speed and progress, it doesn't matter how fast you are as long you are progressing in the right direction is all waste of time and energy, so you should start to study how many people succeed from shortcuts, you will see most people prefer to use shortcut more than accurate methods because it's tempting when you are not successful to think that shortcuts can accelerate your progress, that's why most people end up becoming trapped by huge debts and think after what they have done, there's no free money, it's a process which Industrial thinker's use to trap many people to live under this normality called debts, that's why we suffer with depression and anxiety because we have made wrong decisions which take a long time to be reversed.
Why success is not studied?
The study of success is reserved for thinkers, it's not that people don't want to study success because the information about Success is privatized and is controlled by most of the Wealthiest people and we should understand that Success has its consequences and techniques which you have to be familiar with them. Success is not studied because is often treated as an individual matter, and we all should choose if we want to be successful or not, that's why some of us end up seeing the need to study success as a waste of time and effort because we have given up on our dreams and goals and it's not easy to reprogram your mindset once you believe success is for some people, not you, that's why we hate to study how other Successful people end up becoming so Successful because we feel as though we are so stupid to ask that's why we fail.
Health and Life
Title description: 23 April 2021
Why understanding what's inside you matters?
Anything that's happening on you is based on your conscious mind and how you handle your thoughts, success is matter of understanding how you stack your actions, most of us we don't even bother to check and evaluate what's happening inside our imagination and mindset, we ignore this activity because we know it's hardwork to do , you cannot move ahead if you don't take a look at why your thinking is not functional, we are afraid to face ourselves because we have been taught to avoid self inquiry, we blame how circumstances take over our attention and time and forgetting we are the ones who have influence that particular situation to take place, self evaluation requires honesty and transparency because you cannot fix your thinking if you lie to yourself, people who understands what is happening inside themselves have the advantage to do something about that than those who don't know , remember if you know the problem of your car you can send it to a car mechanic to fix it, so like your life if you see error and chaos', remember you have power to fix it.
Can accurate thinking increase your health?
Eating fruits and vegetables is one of the recommended activity to increase your health stability, so accurate thinking is like eating fruit and vegetable you know what will happen to your body and emotions , so we have the ability to think, but only 1 % of individuals can master accurate thinking, because we have been brian washed by most of knowledge house's which confuse us from exercising our independent thinking, you should ask yourself why school don't teach people to think but expect you to think accurately, we still have a long to correct human thinking because most us we end up living chaotic lives because we used wrong techniques of thinking,we always wonder what's happening, only to realize that you have planted negative thoughts to drive your life that's why you feel overwhelmed by circumstances and challenges, accurate thinking is power because if you begin to think independently and accurately you can be able to solve your life problems, remember what the old sages said , as you think so you become, ask yourself as your reading what are you becoming , happy or miserable and check what is the cause of that particular situation.
Why good health is based on simplicity?
How many times should medical doctors tell us about the importance of eating healthy and choosing good habits?
We know the basics of health, we know the results which come from eating fruits and vegetables but because we have this tendency of ignorance we digest wrong food and accept to feel better, simplicity is one of the best keys you should understand if you want to increase your health awareness because it's your responsibility to make yourself healthy and happy no one will do it for you, that's why you should review your diet and your thoughts.
Why gratitude matters?
Who are the happiest people?
- Those who complain
- Those who have gratitude
You should make your conclusions, but from our side, the happiest people are the ones who are Gratefully for what they have and what's beyond their control, miserable people most of them don't appreciate their own belongs, because they live under this rut of lack and they always complain how life is so unfair and challenging, you should learn this statement:
- Even successful people have their misery but they balance the situation.
- Miserable people don't balance their thinking that's why negative thoughts drive them.
The truth is this, we all have choices to allow negative or positive thoughts to drive our lives, if you use Gratitude you will see changes in your attitude, most people are not poor by chance they are poor because they don't appreciate what they have, they Focus on problems more than Solutions, once you become a successful thinker you will start to focus your attention on finding solutions for your life.
Can thinking pay us?
Ask yourself this question:
Who are the most paid people?
The most paid individuals are those who think, because they come up with solutions which solve problems for mankind, so it's very important to return your potential of thinking and take action to apply your thinking, money is a friend of those who think accurately, your can check who is more successful, you will notice this skill of mastering thinking, so your skills can be limited but your thinking is infinite.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 22 April 2021
Can Awareness confirm our happiness?
Awareness creates attention, whenever we are aware of what's happening inside our headspace, we can start to confirm if we are happy or not, most of us we rely on outside confirmation to declare if we are happy or not, often seek approval to confirm if we are happy because we have been taught to see happiness as something which is created by external circumstances more than our thoughts, we end up believing that Achievements can make us happy, how many of us who have academic credentials but still suffer from unhappy life?
We have to analyze how we confirm if we are happy or not because some of us think money will make us happy wherever we want to shy away from our thoughts which makes us miserable, from now on you should review your confirmation about happiness, because your words can tell you what's happening about your happiness, whenever we are not happy we confirm the situation by saying we are not happy, we end up becoming unhappy, confirmation if a powerful tool on your mind, once you say your are poor or broke you end up becoming those confirmations, so be aware of what can lead you to lose your power to confirm what is beneficial to your health, peace, and happiness.
Why do we tell others if we are happy?
We are human beings who are bonded by nature to relate to others, so whenever we are happy we feel a need to tell others so maybe they can feel what we are experiencing, so sharing has been a human connection, from birth to death we share something as individuals, so Happiness is one are we always wish we can share with others because we feel more content once we share our feelings and see others accepting those feelings, so happiness can be shared using different tactics, and actions, but once common thing we always use is to smile and laugh, so whenever we smile we can evoke emotions of love, care, passion, and understanding, that's why our faces can tell if we are happy and angry, so you better start to check how do you share your happiness, because sometimes our happiness can be ruined by sharing it with wrong people, so be careful because most people are not happy.
Can happiness be taught?
Happiness can be taught to those who can understand how to analyze their thinking because as individuals we can learn but we have the tendency to ignore the most basics things about life, so many of us can be happy once we start to review our thoughts and check which thoughts make us feel terrible and start to remove those thoughts, the Problem about learning to be happy is this :
- Happiness is something that is located within you, so it means you should learn about yourself.
Most of us we rather ignore learning from ourselves and comparing our happiness, that's why people never become happy because they don't pay attention on thy self first they want to use someone else's happiness to be theirs that's why suffering is always available.
To learn to be happy is to think independently and study your thoughts and your behaviors because no one can do this for you, happiness is a choice but you should make that choice.
Who can destroy your happiness?
They are many things we can point out as happiness destroyers but we have this obligation to tell you the truth:
- You are responsible for your happiness.
Once you own up to this mentioned truth you will be free from all these activities which lead us to be unhappy, it doesn't take a long time to understand what makes you unhappy that's why we have this attitude of knowing what makes us unhappy and we forget to study what makes us happy, so we can know many things which make us unhappy and embrace those things, so start to think creatively about how you want to be happy and be happy.
What's the difference between happiness and pleasure?
Many of us confuse pleasure and happiness, let's break this confusion for you;
- Happiness is a thought
- Pleasure is a craving
If you crave you can find something which can ease that craving, that's why today we have so many people who are depressed because they seek pleasure only to find out that most of our pleasures create habits that end up making us miserable and end up suffering, pleasure can make us feel comfortable for a temporary moment that's why you should understand your pleasures.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 21 April 2021
Why do we consult with adults about culture?
Adult are often seen or known as custodians of cultural knowledge, and as we learn and review how adults play this role of telling us about the culture, then we can understand why often we have this dependency on consulting adults once we need some Cultural knowledge advice, it's been on our family hierarchy and our biological footprint that says, only the old ones know more than the younger ones, and the truth still prevails, we rely on adults to provide us with guidance and interpretation of many challenges and situations we encounter, so it's very important to understand this link between age and knowledge because all they are guided by time and experience that's why you need to understand how your Culture functions and who are the leaders of the knowledge which is being shared amongst your tribes.
Can everyone be cultural?
Everyone is part of culture because Culture is a broader subject and you need to review what confuses us to think that Culture is part of performing Spiritual rituals, we owe ourselves this Research because oftentimes people are confused by what they fail to understand the meaning of words and how people sometimes blend them just to fit their conclusions, people who say Culture is about rituals should start to rethink those conclusions because this ends up contributing towards increasing ignorance about Culture and neglecting to understand our history as individuals, Religion is built from Culture, that's why Every Religion has its language and knowledge hubs which aim at conditioning certain people to behave in a particular way. Never judge how we are Cultural beings, just observe and see how people are obeying Cultural norms which they don't even bother to question but pretend as if they are not Cultural.
Why do we have cultural clothing?
As discussed we are African beings who have designed our attires which represent us, so today our attires are treated as casual but the truth is this, we have transformed from one generation to another but what remains common, we still value our roots, the reasons why we have Cultural clothes are as follows:
- Pride
- Confidence
- Memory
- Identification
- Language
- Commonality
- Sense of purpose
- Love
- Connection
- Power balance
- Promotion
We promote our Cultural outfits once we keep on wearing them.
How to check your cultural beliefs?
It's simple to check what you fear and what kind of doubts and hope you have about your life and review what has created those beliefs, as individuals, we have inherited many beliefs from our parents and friends unaware, that's why you need to check who has influenced your behaviors and why, because sometimes we get stuck on life by failing to check this believes we live by, any belief has its limits, benefits, and consequences, but often because we like to look at the good side we don't pay attention how our beliefs create our realities, we turn to Think that someone can Change our believes whenever our friend, teacher's, parent's, and associates have done damage on our subconscious mind to fear our self and believe that something will change for our lives, people never achieve anything worthwhile without using their own believes, as noted from the Holly book, as you believe so you become.
Why do we follow cultural conspiracy?
Conspiracies have built what we call taboo's today, but we have our thiniking which helps us to create even more powerful conspiracies which end up guiding our lives, people, as pointed out above, are driven by beliefs some they are aware whenever others are not even aware of what's happening about their Believes systems because we are Programmed to perform certain things on autopilot and wonder what's happening whenever we can figure out our lives problems, to conspire is part of maintaining a secret, that's why we as individuals who came from African backgrounds to this date we are still afraid of witchcraft and others taboo's, these Conspiracies have been instilling on us and we have roots within ourselves which maintain this fears, how many we still comply to taboos?
Many people still are trapped under this normality of conspiracies, ask yourself why people don't have sex if there's a funeral at their house, you will see that mankind is controlled by powerful beliefs and we don't even take a look at why we can't do certain things, because we have been taught to avoid asking quality questions, why people wear black clothes on the funeral, why people don't sleep with black blanket, you can start from there and review how our taboos have shaped our thinking and how we practice these conspiracies.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 20 April 2021
Why Prayer helps marriages last?
This question posted above is broader yet the answers provided here will come from christianity point of view, marriage according the bible is regarded as one of the highest honour one can engage on, because it's within marriages whereby families create the children, so the phrase which concludes that prayer is essential for the success of your marriage is regarded as powerful and valid, within the marriage of christianity prayer is the bedrock of all concerns, because as noted from the book of wisdom married people are given counsel to pray constantly for their union to succeed, because temptations are always available and one who keeps the vow of prayer indeed he or she can save the marriage, it take both spouse's to connect their goals to God and the omnipresent will provide, so we have been told that death will do us apart so what makes all this christianity marriages to last is the ability to remain focus and honour god from the vows which both spouse's have made before him , so the progress and the success of marriage according the bible is lead by god that's why Spouse's put all the trust on their god.
How should Religion be adopted in marriages?
We don't have a standard plan which can be used for making sure married people adopt the Religion in their new unions, as individuals we come from different backgrounds and we have our Religion which Guides us, from the standpoint of Christianity, followers are required to marry within the church, why because is to protect the linage of the family, so Religion, it is not understood it can destroy the marriage, because conflicting, beliefs can ignite arguments and ongoing problem which can compromise the marriage to fail, so the only option use currently to make the Religion to fit its grounds, is to understand how to marry or get married within your line of believing so you can be able to enjoy your spiritual journey without any interference.
Why respect matters for both spouses?
Respect is the entrance of peace, if all Spouse respect their commitments on their Marriage vows then success will always be available because no one wants to be disrespected or be into a marriage whereby he or she is taken for granted, so respect is a tool that plays a very important role in determining the growth of the marriage because if all spouses can understand and use respect, they can be able to solve their differences and come up with working solutions, so it doesn't matter how long you have been married, all that matters is how you as partners Respect each other and keep your vows active because respect keeps love and care so you shouldn't compromise these elements.
Should spouse's pray together?
Why not, yes Spouses should pray together as they have sex together, so married people should understand that prayer should be mandatory, because sometimes we give sex more time than to pray and once we get into trouble we pause to have sex and start to pray, so it's better to balance the two because they can be different but all play an important role, according to the bible when we marry us unit hearts, so it's not necessary to pray alone if its required, because you are one as you are classified as married people, so whenever you keep on praying together you can deal with the temptations.
Why Religion should be checked before you marry?
Can you wear your shoes upside down and move smoothly?
No, because it will feel uncomfortable, so this applies the same to how you choose the partner you want to get married to, the Religion and culture and behaviors are always important because if you fail to tick these boxes accurately you will live under depressing circumstances because marriage is a long term Commitment that's why we should know what we want and how to love each other, because if we mix religions and when it comes to practice them one party undermines the other Religion then the marriage won't last because as individuals we are Spiritual beings so it's better to check before you can select and sign the proposed journey because you are liable for your choices.
Startup Business
Title description: 19 April 2021
Why Rewards can increase growth for your Start-up?
You as an entrepreneur you should remember you are the one who can reward your team and get rewarded by the level of results you get from the market, whenever you want to analyze your startup growth you should review the importance of incentives, because as individuals if we are rewarded about our work we turn out to do more and we can even unleash our creativity so easy, rewards are very important when it comes to Motivation and growth, so if your team is motivated to strive for results and you reward them then growth won't be a challenge on your startup because we need the motivation to excel.
Can incentives influence creativity in any Startup?
As pointed out above motivation plays an important role when it comes to increasing your startup growth, you can test this scenario by dividing your team into two groups, the first one will get incentives and the second one will remain on their salary, you will see how this framework work's, those who receive incentives will be more interested into the Innovation and the entire project success compared to those who don't Recieve anything, so creativity can be unleashed once we feel we are getting paid for your intelligence and those efforts we contribute towards the startup.
Why startup companies should be innovative to Grow?
Innovation can separate you from other companies and it's very important to pay attention to how you implement your proposition because Innovation is important for your Start-up Success, because if the enterprise is unable to maintain constant Innovation.
Why growth requires Skills?
Any Startup Business goes within different types of stages and growth, but it depends on what type of skills your team and you as an entrepreneur has because sometimes startup company owners ignore to check what kind of skills they have and how they can borrow some skills from others experts.
Which Growth is important for a Startup?
As discussed above startup business growth goes with stages, so as an Entrepreneur you should review which type of growth is important based on your business stage because all businesses can differ so the right answer will come from your startup stage level.
Career and Work
Title description: 18 April 2021
Can Priorities determine our actions?
Life is a sequence of understanding how to handle Priorities and non-urgent matters, overall your productivity will be determined by how you use your time, and how you apply those resources you have at your disposal, once you start your day you either become aware of your priorities or you just enter the day aimlessly, so our actions can reveal our Priorities because they certain types of actions which are a must within a day and you as an individual you should plan your day so you can understand how you apply your actions because even procrastination is one type of action which often goes unnoticed so in order, I align your actions and review your key Priorities check the following:
- Actions
- What kind of actions are very important for your daily success?
- Attention
- Which part of your day requires attention and how should you devote your attention?
- Productivity
- Which kind of working environment makes you productive on your day
- Alignment
- How aligned is your goal with your habits?
- Results
- What kind of results should you attain every day?
Why do we fail to follow our Priorities?
They are common underlying reasons why we don't follow up on what is our key daily priorities, and as we navigate on our days we end up feeling lost and confused forgetting we have missed what was supposed to be done and it was important, whenever we fail to comply or honor our priorities we end up living a lie because our priorities are tight to our core values so once we begin to compromise our values over our comfort zone then we are inviting more failure and struggles, as individuals, we have more excuses to give about how and why we missed our key daily priorities but remember your excuses won't pay bills for you, so if you don't act on your goals you are delaying your success, we have noticed two creators that help us to missed or fail to do what we have planned for our day:
- Distractions
- Everybody can be distracted but only a few can retain their focus and do what's supposed to be done for the day, we live in a new modern technological world whereby distractions are more and we should Guide our focus so we can protect our priorities and actions, because if you allow internal or external distractions to drive your life then your hiding into the failing part because if you cannot focus on your priorities who do you think will focus on them besides you?
Don't compromise your values and goals just because you want to accommodate your bad habits, do what is supposed to be done and you can do something else.
- Not disciplined
- If you're not disciplining to focus on what are your daily plans and actions your priorities will be missed because most people are not disciplined to finish what they have planned to do, Remember Successful people are disciplined individuals that's why they can grab opportunities and multiply their assets so if you want to become successful on your priorities you need to practice discipline to act on your daily goals.
Can actions motivate your plans?
We have analyzed this phenomenon called self-motivation in our Book called why Goals fail, as individuals are empowered by the progress that's why we don't mind striving for it every day and only to discover we are collecting small wins which create our achievements so once you start to win you can convince yourself to add some new additional power to act a little bit more, so your actions towards your success can determine your performance, so we have looked at this two elements:
- Achievement
Some achievements can ignite growth and creativity that's why we all seek achievements because they play an important role in our daily lives, so your actions will determine your success achievement and you need to understand that to win you should maintain your motivation, especially during those testing times and keep your head up and keep your attitude positive, because if you don't achieve you can end up becoming miserable and jealous so it's better to focus and act
- Momentum
Momentum is key when it comes to mastering your action capacity consistency because the road to success can become challenging that's why most people don't make it, your need to maintain your direction of those things you want out of life and keep on searching until you get what you want.
Why self-honesty can help you to act?
If you are not honest about your priorities then how will you become honest about your actions?
Self-honesty is power if right now you reading this text and you know you are not honest about your key Goals and keep on lying or postponing your plans then it's time you face yourself and be honest about who are you kidding? It's not that people cannot find what they want, is because people forget to do what is supposed to be done they allow chaos to take over and then blame circumstances and it's cheap to do so but remember your excuses won't pay bills for you, so if you are not honest about your plans and goals you are wasting your life because it's your time that's being wasted on lies, not this text, so check this factors:
- Commitments
- Are you concerned and committed to what you want?
- Clarification
- Are you specific about your targets and deadlines?
Why being busy should be checked?
How often do we get used to failure and end feeling as though that is what life is all about?
Quite often we can experience that situation because we can be busy with wrong things and think we are progressing only to realize we have wasted our efforts and time, so you should not buy into this normality of people who always say being busy is good, you should be concerned about what makes you busy and what kind of results are you getting from that busyness because even Distractions can keep us busy so be careful before you waste your life on this subject of busyness, check how this goes with your busy Priorities:
- Wrong work
- Are you executing the right tasks?
- Progress checks
- How do your measure your progress and results?
Success and Wealth
Title description: 17 April 2021
Types of success challenge you will face?
This basic two challenges which come with success:
- Management of success
Most of us are searching for success and at the arrival, we find ourselves unable to deal with Success, check how many people succeed but end up returning to poverty?
Plenty of people end up returning to poverty not meaning unable to buy food but debt poverty, we should begin to review how successful people handle this dilemma because we are not taught how to balance between debts and essentials, we live from paycheck to paycheck and wonder why are we looked as successful but on our reality, we are poor because we are working for debts, not for our assets?
Success should be studied and understood because is a living subject that confuses and challenge many people, you need to double-check how you manage your success and justify if your success is making you rich or broke because management is based on two sides: progress and reverse, meaning your success can be yield you results which makes you success but your debts can reverse your progress as you should slave for them until they are done, so this challenge about success should be referred to your financial advisor but check because broke people can give you broke counsel, so choose the ones who are living the reality of success not the book knowledge about money.
- Jealous issue
Your success can attract enemies, but you should be aware that your progress is more important than critics because people by nature are gossipers so you can't stop them from reporting about your success but you can make them keep talking by achieving more than how you should deal with Jealous that comes with success.
Why does spending more destroy success?
Ask yourself this question who succeeds among these people:
- The person who spends more than he earns
- The person who spends according to his Earnings
The answer is simple those who spend beyond their means of earnings end up becoming more broke and depressed than those who spend according to their respective earnings, when you have entered the wrong road of spending more than you end you should change the direction because that habit is dangerous and it can keep you on job's which you don't like just to pay debts, so your success can be destroyed by not understanding how debts functions because you can sign contracts and realize later you have entered into a hive of bees and there's no turn back until you complete your payment terms.
Debt is good for those who can understand it and take advantage of it but to those who don't know about it, it's better to stay away from it because this type of road can destroy your progress and damage your name if you don't honor your payment terms and everyday individuals are taken to the credit bodies and it's becoming a norm that failing to pay is good but ask the relevant ones they can attest debt is dangerous because it goes with you and it blocks your progress.
These are three phases that can reveal your success:
- Earnings
- Savings
- Multiplication
Can success be all about finance?
No that's not true, success has different versions, everyone who has lived had Succeed in something and we sometimes overlook these small wins, because we live in a new world whereby material possessions are advertised left and right and we think success is all about those particular things which always contribute on our immediate attention, we owe ourselves this lesson to check that success is broader subject and even by reading this text your collecting knowledge Success which contribute on your chosen areas of goals or plans, Success is a game of small wins that's why we are successful in the eyes of nature.
- Balance action
Once you learn to balance things you will discover that financial success is one thing in your life, not the whole part of your life you still need other areas such as happiness, freedom, health, family, friends, peace, love, sex, knowledge and other relevant key components of success so it's a collection of components which makes a greater successful life, ask dieticians about balance they will tell you about how our body requires certain nutrients to function better so this applies to success money alone cannot make you successful, or if you don't believe just check your wallet and check if you are successful afterward?
It's all about combining these components mentioned to be successful.
Why does success change us?
No it's not success that changes us but our thoughts about success can change us when we feel we are successful, that's why to consider that someone has changed you should look at their attitude and personality characteristics and how they stop to do some other things, so Success most of us we have it but we want more of its exposure that's why we seek approval and competition and it's within our nature to search but not within our capacity to control what's beyond our reach, so success cannot change us we allow to change our characters just to fit into a new space of the new lifestyle we are adopting, improvement is key but it should be managed accurately, this some of the basic indicators to help you to analyze if success is changing you:
- Bad Attitude
- Show offs, bragging
- Vanity or egotism character
- Success revenge
Can everyone be successful?
Yes, why not?
These are basic elements that can make us more successful:
- Goals
- Vision
- Purpose
Notably, as discussed everyone is successful just by breathing you are successful in the eyes of the dead ones and nature because the basic need of life is to breathe and other things are just benefits because if you can breathe it means you are dead, and so don't take this for granted because many people have realized how their precious breath was when they reach their death bed so be careful about this normality of thinking your not successful your indeed Successful it depends which kind of success do you have.
Health and Life
Title description: 16 April 2021
Can emotional problems destroy our health?
Ask yourself how often you feel anxiety and anger?
Some of this Emotions are necessary but not always important to help us on our health, because anger can hurt you body, and it's very hard to accept that your are driven by anger , because our families and friends some can impart anger on us and we end up becoming miserable and confused what's happening about our emotions, whenever we can't maintain control of our emotions our lives at risk, because we do without thinking and this activity has cost many people to pay hefty prices on their lives, because anger or temper those weapons don't require doubts they want you to act despite the challenges or any wrong doing, that's why we should be aware that some relationships can hurt us and left wounds on our emotions, the most Emotions that is often taken for granted is Love, why because people think love can tolerate all emotions, that's why once our health start to decline, we start to see how love Emotions have hurt us , because there's a connection between love and hurt and the difference is the emotion between.
Why do we fail to understand our emotions?
Our emotions are always available even by reading this text you're using your emotions to go through this subject we are talking about, but what is common about choosing is to understand that whenever we use our thoughts to make our choices we end up feeling as we have said, that's why we require our words to confirm our feelings, whenever you begin to distinguish a choice and an emotion then you can find the clarity that some emotions are natural and some are man-made that's why we can choose to allow certain emotion to take place on our reality and avoid some emotions, to be aware you need to focus that's why some of our emotions can trick us and make us function on autopilot.
Can emotions function without choices?
We don't fail by chance but because we have missed the steps, so these are common creators to make us unaware of our emotions:
- Rejections
- Bad habits
- Hurt
- Temper
- Ignorance
- Believes
- Comparison
- Harmony
- Knowledge
- Secrets
You can expand the list yourself but one thing that makes us unaware of our emotions is ignorance because we are conditioned to follow only Good emotions and resist bad emotions, how many of us resist accepting that we are not happy but pretend to act happy?
Misery is guaranteed once you begin to refuse your emotions because they are your emotions not the other way around you need to understand that how you feel shape your thinking and how you act, that's why angry people act recklessly it's their state of mind, which controls the emotion, so this is your lesson, any emotions is a button which requires your confirmation, so you have the power to press and pause your emotions.
What is emotional intelligence?
"Daniel Goldman" has nailed this subject accurately, he talks about awareness as a behavioral pattern that has shaped the communities, the Intelligence of our emotions comes from our awareness to accept what's happening and be willing to learn what's beyond our control, any intelligence is based on standards and practices, mankind can be emotionally intelligent once he gets to know what's happening within himself and on his immediate external world, because from traditional schools emotions are not addressed or given attention on that curriculum because we have this tendency that says emotions are reserved for love and grief that's it's hard to teach people to pay attention on their own emotions because they know few sub facts which controls or make their emotions.
Why we are controlled by Emotions?
We are not controlled by emotions, we are controlled by our thoughts, like a flight is not controlled by the clouds but by the engine and the controls that the pilot is pressing. Your actions are controlled by your emotions which come from the thoughts of your mindset, we can't control something we don't understand like a car if you cant drive it won't be possible to take it somewhere, your emotions are like that you need to understand how and what creates them and what's the benefits of those emotions.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 15 April 2021
Types of Happiness problems we are facing?
Humankind is facing hectic challenges when it comes to dealing with obstacles that affect our roadmap to find and use your happiness, happiness can vary from one person to another, but the remaining fact is this, people to use happiness some prefer to feel it, so they are key underlying Problems which can prevent is from being happy:
- Unable to accept your Emotions
- Thinking you can change others
- Not knowing what you want
- Inability to think independently
- Comparing yourself with others
The many barriers which can prevent us from being happy, but it remains our responsibility to find solutions that can fit our personalities so we can practice our happiness, some of us we are unable to track or accept our feelings, and we keep on refusing to take control of our feelings, we end up living on a reactive mode, rather than on a responsive approach, happiness is a problem to most of the people because they define it as an external component, that's why some feel happy when they are on parities or ceremonies to mention few.
The most common cause of our unhappiness is the unawareness of what's happening inside ourselves.
When we know we can do something but if we don't know we can't do anything.
Why does human beings have the power to create happiness?
We have innate powers to create our own realities, so happiness is a choice because you need to choose what you want to happen on your life, the word happiness comes from the word called happen, whenever we dedicate our kind attention on what we want to happen our lives we end up seeking solutions to fix those problems which prevent us from accessing our happiness, you need to check this differences, people who want happiness to happen on their lives take action to do something about what they choose to be things that define their happiness, and people who are unhappy they don't choose what they want to happen but accept what's the circumstances gives them,that's why we should remember that it's our priority to choose wisely when it comes to what gets inside our imagination and mindset, because some people require to flash their old thoughts in order to get this new reality that happiness is self made activities which can be supported by some external resources if you know how to link them into your life.
Material possessions cannot make us happy if we don't understand how to link them to our core values and purposes.
What's new can make us feel good for temporary moments, that's why it's hard to find happiness in material possessions, when your wallet is full you don't bother about worrying about its emptiness but how to multiply it, so happiness cannot be measured because is not a tool, nature has awarded mankind the power to think and select.
Should happiness become a goal?
Happiness can become a goal but you should remember all goals are limited, so whenever we put our happiness on those a target based we end up losing the meaning of life, because if it's all about achieving Happiness then mankind will be trapped by this misery called endless chase of meaning because happiness is based on awareness and goals are based on activities which require external execution, so to be aware of this complex issue about setting your happiness as a goal approach, you need to ask yourself this question:
- Will you be act to act to achieve your happiness goal?
How many people set happiness Goals and achieve them including you if you have tried?
Only a few people can achieve those Goals because oftentimes we like to set goals without asking the right questions that's why we fail, so be careful about linking your happiness to goals, because Happiness is what you want to happen right now and goals are something's which your not in control of their results that's why no one can prevent you to be happy but people can delay you to achieve your Goals, so notably, you are the one who should decide which part works for you, setting happiness based on goals or just taking full control every day to be happy the choice is yours.
When can happiness be prioritized?
Happiness has no time you can be happy anytime and everywhere, there's no vacation or any adventure that can make you happy if your thoughts are miserable, that's why you need to understand how your mindset functions before you delve deep into this subject of happiness, because as discussed we are the one who make happiness to happen to us by choosing what we want to align our attention to from day to day basis, so your own priorities should be checked because they can contribute towards making your day a happier one or the most miserable days or weeks , as individuals we own this power to choose and we have the capacity to change the direction of our thinking and do better on what we want , Today we have this tendency of giving distractions more attention more than silence and peace, if your life is driven by bad habits your into a serious vicious pain points, because you should begin to distance your unnecessary time consuming activities from your own key day to day priorities, we should be aware the happiness is a our breath is always available, all we need to do is to pay attention and appreciate.
Why do we hate happy people?
We don't hate people who are happy we hate the bad character that is within ourselves that makes us unhappy, it doesn't matter how you hate those people who are living a happy life, what is important is that your wasting your time and energy because they can't change to be on your state of mind, that's why those who are happy mostly they like to avoid this who are unhappy and there's truth to this approach, people who are not happy can drag you to their unhappiness isssues and they can recruit you to join in by consuming your precious time, we should be kind those who are gloomy but it doesn't mean we should associates with them if they don't want to change, because some people have this tendency of taking away the peace of others, that's why it's very important to review who are the most people who are not happy on your immediate circles and start to pull yourself on the side way , because happy people are always hated for what they are doing and believing in , even by reading this text you can judge yourself as a hater or a lover of people who are happy, hate doesn't benefit anyone it only adds more problem and frustrations that's why it's better to avoid the unhappy ones if possible for the sake of your peace, if your want peace you should be aggressive on your choices and choose what works for you it to avoid the haters works for then move ahead because there's no law that restrict you from being happy and choosing who to associate with for the sake of your health and peace and even time sake.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 14 April 20211
Culture and religious powers
Power has been the most common subject of all wars because leaders always are seeking ways to extend their powers, so whenever they cannot find any collective balance with other leaders, the only option available is to test all side's powers on battlegrounds, so it's been an ongoing task for may Cultural leader's to fight for powers and this has implications on their tribe's because some cultures end up becoming obsolete once the power balance is handed to another leader who won the battle.
- Dominance
Its been documented in our biological historical manuscripts, masculinity has played a role in creating fights, so even today dominance is still available, in some cultures men are rated on a higher hierarchy, so it's all about this powers were shaped for us to be used that's why, some cultures are still fighting for this character stations which we have mentioned, man has and is always fighting for his position within his culture, either based on material possessions or spiritual upliftment, so cultural knowledge is based on power, it depends who is controlling it on the family or community.
- Leadership
This phenomenon of leadership has done more damage to our Cultural footprint, Leaders were the ones who start battles, and the whole community will feel the pain of the results, so patriarchy is still active, because they are some Cultures whereby a woman cannot lead the tribe of that Culture, so it's show's power is still on man.
- Language
Archeologists, scientists, Religious leaders, and many other experts, all have agreed that language is one of the most important aspects of our Cultures, but this language has created wars and Solutions, because some leaders couldn't give their powers just to adopt other languages, that's why today some people are not interested to learn some other languages due to this historical pain points which shows that some language has power over the other, like English is a dominant language controlled by world-leading Economies, we as Africans our common language is Swahili, but we still struggle to teach and collaborate to promote our language.
- Minerals
Who can argue more than how the previous wars have done to our Modern world?
Our minerals can lead most people to fight, and Power today is taken by the Westerners, we are suffering to access our homemade minerals because we were controlled by education and laws which limited us to extract our minerals, we don't know what's happening because we have been given the wrong information about how our cultures used to benefit from this home soil.
- Research conflict
You can go to any Library and confirm the facts, most historical books which talk about our cultures were written by white people, not black ones, these powers show how language and education have shaped our Cultural knowledge, and how can an outsider narrate something he doesn't understand?
We should inquire about these knowledge limitations, even today leading research bodies are led by who?
- Culture
The language had created culture because we have to interact with others by sharing information, so Cultural knowledge was gathered by our forefathers using different mediums to Archive it, but wars on this subject have multiplied from one generation to another, Culture protects us as individuals, we all belong to certain tribes which rule as humankind.
- Food
Survival has shaped how our Cultural knowledge had been documented because Mankind is focused on surviving, so today we are still learning to understand how our forefathers survived and what kind of techniques they used to succeed.
- Money
Money has shaped the world conflicts, those who have it more have access to buy weapons which can overcome others, you check how our black histrionically background says about money, it's limited because the success stories of our Cultural knowledge are not documented as many as white stories, we have to study how money is used to control Mankind because our lives had shifted from basic survival to endless chase of pain and wonder. Money to some is a Culture to some a tool it depends on which category you fall into.
Why do we fail to question cultural practices?
How can you question if you have been taught to abide by the rules which say only adult people can question, you as a child you should follow what's been said?
We have no power to question because we have no skills to crack this Cultural knowledge. After all, if we can't question why should we do certain things?
Remember we have told you that Culture acts as a protection unit for mankind, so we are afraid to be isolated, so that's why we are even today afraid about certain Cultural aspects, taboo's for example most of us are still toeing the line about them.
- Criticism
We are afraid of critics, check how you handle your critics, because our Cultures are very good at criticizing us and setting up limitations, things like :
- You won't succeed if you don't do that particular ritual.
- Reality
- Fear
Fear cannot take place without any awareness
- Programmed
- Mankind is Programmed to perform certain duties
- Isolation
Isolation has been used to increase our Cultural knowledge to become powerful because if you were not following the rules, the leaders was having the power to remove you from the community and you can be deserted by all members of the tribe, even today it is happening in some families can disown you.
Why do leaders fight for cultural knowledge?
As discussed fear is playing a role to shape our Cultural knowledge, we have been taught to fear our ancestors, we don't know why but it's been an ongoing activity for most of us as individuals, and we are still struggling to review why should we fear our ancestors, because if people who have passed away have most powers, then we should review this subject because often our Cultures can praise the wisdom of the dead ones, so it's a challenge to investigate because we are still learning how our is our subconscious mind connect to our spirit and ancestors.
- Learning
Who should teach people about their ancestors?
As you live one day you will become an ancestor, so learning about the closed field of death is technical because we as living people have not yet died so that's why it's challenging to connect dots about how our ancestors function, but thanks to the wisdom of the dreams and prophecies, today we can answer those questions because the knowledge about the death is becoming accessible to most of the people, remember people Previously they were not allowed to question the topic of ancestors.
- Adopting
We are indeed following without even Understanding, when people are told to solve their Struggles most are given tasks to appease the ancestors, so we have subconscious mind biases which control this activity because we are afraid of exploration of our Struggles, that's why we can tell if something is not going well but shift all the results to our ancestors, as we like to say our ancestors are not pleased about us.
- Death
- Imagination
Some ancestor's Connections are championed by our imagination
- Fear
Who doesn't fear the unknown?
We can fear but it doesn't mean we should not ask, so it's better to review your thinking and ask yourself how far you fear your ancestors and why
- Media
The media has blocked how our Cultural knowledge is been advertised.
How can cultural thinking affects your psyche?
As a scholar of this type of knowledge, it's been a hardworking activity to analyze these subjects which go hidden and end up shaping our thinking, this sub facts can tell how Cultural knowledge has shaped our thinking:
- Thinking style
Take a close look at how many people think based on what they have been taught?
- Character
Check what some personality says about certain Cultures? Either rich or poor
- Clothing
How many of us own up to our diverse Cultural clothing styles?
We have too many Western clothes more than our Cultural clothes.
We should ask ourselves what's happening with an African child?
- Emotional
Some other Cultural tribes are known as short temper and others are not, do your research on your environment you will see
- Skills
In some cultures, skills are required to extend the tribe and you can check who are the richest families and check the skills, here we talk about private specialization which is only reserved for certain people.
You should review what has created your thinking style.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description:13 April 2021
Why married people should stick to their vows?
This are the reasons:
- Trust management
- To maintain honesty
- Commitment to each other
- Love maintenance
- Sticking to vows shows care
- Progress comes once vows are honored
- Vows if respected increase support
How can a union succeed if all parties don't take a look at what was the purpose of their onset connection?
People when they meet each other they are kinder, and loving, so as married individuals, it's very important to review your vows because love is created by complying with your agreed vows, I never meet any married couples who have vows which are nagative, but I have met married people who have vows which are based on hopes, aspirations, dreams, improvement, understanding, care, love, peace, freedom, support, attention, protection and any other aspects, so above we have listed some key elements which drive vows to be relevant and active.
- Do you trust each other as you begin that relationship?
- Are you honest with each other?
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- Are you still Commitment to executing those vows you have agreed as partners?
- Do you Love each as it was at the beginning of this relationship?
- Are you still caring individuals who used to do whatever it takes for that relationship?
- Does masculinity or patriarchy lead the marriage or is it all about a balanced equation?
- Do you still support each other, in challenging circumstances?
All spouses should review those questions it doesn't matter married or not, we need to get all the basics right.
How to trust each other as spouses?
Trust unites hearts, whenever spouses pay attention to trust everything within the relationship, no one wants to spend his or her time with a dishonest individual, so trust can destroy or support the marriage or any relaltionships, we have selected 10 questions you should review so you can analyze your trust:
- Listening - Can you listen to each other without any judgment or interruptions?
- Keep promises - Do you keep the promises you make for each other?
- Arguments - Do you have time to check which arguments extend your Conflicts?
- Be open to possibilities - Are you willing to learn from each other and seek external help if possible?
- Learn from each other - Do you accept your uniqueness as partners and embrace your strengths?
- Accept your uniqueness - Do you understand you can't change each other? But you can assist each other to see change.
- Common Goals - What's the purpose of your relationship or marriage?
- Support - What kind of resources do you need to improve your marriage?
- Forgiveness - Do you understand how to forgive or do you need to take some lessons?
- Health - Do you follow basic health practices as partners?
Trust plays a role in how the marriage will succeed or not because as individuals sometimes we neglect to study how we trust each other, that's why we end up moving from one Marriage to another because we can take our trust for granted but once people show us who they are we blame and become angry, trust is a subject of happiness because to enjoy our lives together you should trust each because love connects but trust confirms, so it's very important to understand how Trust helps us to succeed on our marriages because no ones enjoy being lied on that's why even cheaters Require some people to trust them to remain cheaters, so trust is an asset for your marriage because they are many things which can sabotage or compromise your marriage trust that's why we have given you,10 questions to ask each other and see if you are still on the trust level or you have drifted to something else which sooner can destroy the relationship or Marriage.
Why Sacrifice safe marriage?
People who sacrifice end up finding Solutions, any marriage can hit the rock bottom but it depends on how the Matter is resolved because most of us know how to start relationships but we don't know how to remain in healthy relationships, we can sacrifice our hearts and energy but if we cannot find the meaning of why do we want to be into a relationship then is all waste of time, because people when they get married it's all about building the family, but have we been taught about how a family Structure is based on sacrifices?
Your times and efforts will be required to be compromised because if you join forces with another person to live together you should remain aware that love is based on attention and care so if you don't want to sacrifice those precious resources, then you won't be able to build any successful marriage or relationship.
We have included some guidelines which can help you to understand your sacrifices in any relationship or Marriage:
- Commitment Are you committed to your marriage and how do you know?
- Understanding - Can you listen to your partner?
- Control - What controls your marriage, is it money, freedom, happiness, depression, competition, anger, prayer, problems, or solutions?
- Contribution - How does each of your efforts received within the marriage? Is it taken with an appreciation or for granted.
- Connection - What connects you as partners within that marriage?
- Care - What do you sacrifice to remain a caring individuals for each other?
- Confessions - Can you open up about anything that's bothering each of you or it's all about secrets?
- Collaboration - Can you help each other when you need some support?
- Concerns - Can you talk freely if something doesn't align with your thoughts.
- Communication - Do you know how to communicate based on love languages?
Who should make decisions for the marriage?
All relationships can differ when it comes to making decisions, some people prefer the man to take full charge of making decisions while others prefer to make decisions based on a common equation which means a 50: 50 decisions ratio, but our families are fragmented because even today most women still make household decisions and man make a garden or improve decisions, so we have added few Components which can help married people to Understand the Power balance of their decisions:
- Masculinity - How does dominance play a part in your marriage, do you feel you are oppressed or are submissive to what is offered?
- Change How do you adapt to new changes within your marriage, things like social media rules and barriers to your marriage?
- Challenges - How do your overall marriage decisions contribute to your daily challenges?
- Struggle Have you checked which decisions are adding to your marriage struggles? Things like keeping quiet while being hurt inside...
- Structure How are your marriage decisions Structured?
- Times How many times do you check your marriage decisions?
- Efforts How do you analyze your marriage efforts which come from those decisions you have made?
- Understanding Do you understand the marriage decisions you are making or do you need additional support?
- Leadership How is your marriage leadership style Structured?
- Financial Do you know to manage your marriage financials?
What is a healthy marriage?
We can give you ingredients of what makes a healthy marriage but it depends on you as Partners and how you will cook the recipe, these are basic elements that should be included once you want to have a successful healthy marriage or relationship:
- Freedom - Are you free to become you?
- Happiness - Do you understand that happiness is a choice?
- Love - Do you know that love is a decision?
- Goals - What common Goal's you have as Partners?
- Support - How do you support each other from struggles to success?
- Care - Do you care about each other?
- Forgiveness - Can you let go of those arguments that trap you to move ahead with new changes?
- Peace Are you at peace with that marriage or relationship?
- Prayer - Can you pray together - Resources management
Can you manage your marital assets and liabilities?
A healthy marriage comes from how you select your goals and devote time to execute them because no one can make things healthier for your marriage if both spouses cannot plan what they want out of the marriage because all Partners when they get married they are having wishes to see themselves living into a healthy marriage, but wishes are important but you need to plan and take action, because it takes join efforts to make a healthy marriage and somehow challenges will shape your happiness and memories, so you need to understand and review what makes a healthy marriage and seek external help if possible to create your marriage roadmap.
Never confuse care with money, because money is a tool whenever care is internal Emotion that can differentiate if someone loves you or is all about material possessions. If care is not available it doesn't matter how much you have the marriage is toxic, that's why financial stable married people cheat or get a divorce, because care can tell if hearts are no longer connecting, so check how care is important because your heart is more important to be given attention on those elements mentioned above.
Startup Business
Title description: 12 April 2021
Why unplanned issues destroy Startups?
Unplanned activity always destroy any focus of your progress, when we don't follow up on our plans or keep up with them we end up procrastinating, this is key factors that destroy startup if they fail to plan:
- Wasted resources
- Executing wrong tasks
- Increase of doubts
- Ignoring mistakes
- No direction
Why growth can attract more opportunities?
Opportunities are selective because when we have more options we turn to become indecisive and we end up not taking action to grab those opportunities, once any Startup begins to show some growth any investments will be pouring on your side.
Why steps matter for progress?
In our book called Why Goals Fail we have talked about the importance of action capacity, so anything you do for the business has to be systemized, based on steps because we end up confusing basics with complex issues that's why we end up failing to win small opportunities.
Why evaluation of growth can lead to Innovation?
Growth is Power because any progress can be investigated by how the startup is growing.
Why target market determine growth?
Target market is a key when it comes to any Startup growth because any market has its barriers and if a segment is well funded or has buyers who are ready to buy your service or products then Growth won't be an issue.
Career and Work
Title description: 11 April 2021
Why Actions create resilient powers?
Resilience is power because once you begin to apply your internal power which is perseverance you can conquer many obstacles, Resilience can be learned from our actions and others, some people succeed because they have maintained the ability to preserve during hard times, and it's very critical to understand that before we can apply our resilience Power, we need to investigate the situations and check if our resilience muscle is relevant on that particular situation we are facing because oftentimes we can use our perseverance on wrong things that will never benefit us at the end of the process.
Why giving up can destroy your confidence?
Giving us is reserved to all mankind , whether your experienced or an amateur we can all give up on certain things, to become successful you need to give up on certain habits, standards, strategies, actions and relaltionships, because once we begin to understand the power of giving up we can influence our actions to the direction of our goals, sometimes we are afraid to give up because we are afraid to be judged as losers or failures, but there's a reason why we end up giving up, so it's very important to review your reasons why you should give up , because if you will allow your emotions to rule your thinking then you will make this mistake of giving up without listing key reasons why that particular situation requires you to end up giving up, so whenever you don't take your actions seriously you can find yourself persuing your goals with a giving up sprit, so it's better to learn how most people use this approach of giving up, because they often give up based on limitations and others don't know what they should do after giving up that's why true success is only reserved for the brave ones , those who are ready to give up things to add value on their lives and adopt working strategies.
It's very easy to give up but very hard to keep on pursuing your goals.
Why Sacrifice matters to get ahead in life?
Sacrifice is an element of courage and strength because to get ahead in the life you need to understand the type of sacrifices that matters because sometimes we confuse sacrifice and favors, one should understand that to leave any bad habit you should act based on sacrifice to see new changes because most of us we end up becoming unsuccessful because we don't want to sacrifice our time and energy to pursue our goals, we keep waiting for the right time to arrive only to realize that we have wasted our lives at the end, so to reduce your life regrets you need to understand which things worth to be sacrificed and what kind of favors you should do, and to get ahead you will require diverse skills to maintain your success.
Why commitment is key to acting constantly?
The contributing reason why some of us won't be successful on our goals, why because we don't understand the importance of commitment, we think of instant gratification as an option to our success, so to succeed you need to pay attention to what you commit yourself too, some have chosen to use good or bad habits as driving keys for their lives, whenever you start to commit to your goals you will require to master consistency, which means you are required to focus on your daily targets a and milestones so you can be able to collect small wins every day.
Can actions create opportunities?
Ask yourself this question:
Between people who are taking action and those who procrastinate who are the ones who end up becoming successful or failures?
The answer is simple those who keep on taking action end up becoming successful and you can tell about those who don't act what they will get.
All opportunities require you to take action, that's something you should be aware of because no opportunity can work itself, your actions are paramount when it comes to becoming successful.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 10 April 2021
Why we chase progress?
Progress is power, we all seek to attain certain sets of progress which make us free and happy, we don't chase progress by mistake we chose it because we are forced by nature to progress, so it's inside our DNA code to keep on progressing as Mankind.
As individuals we have different reasons why we need progress things like this:
- Contribution
- Success
- Happiness
- Peace
- Freedom
- Power
- Appearance
- Adventure
- Finance
- Options
Freedom is what progress is all about because we seek something to be free from something we are lacking, so freedom to become progressive is important because whenever we are free we can enjoy our lives and freedom can increase our expectations and happiness if we understand how to handle it.
Can achievement influence creativity?
It has become a chain of the circle, look at how successful people repeat the same method to maintain success, so creativity can come from different aspects like this:
- Problems
- Curiosity
- Competition
- Struggle
- Influence
- Changes
- Opportunities
- Fear
- Doubts
- Achievement
Influence plays an important role when it comes to creativity because as individuals we are often influenced by certain people, so it matters to understand who is influencing you to become creative.
When mankind struggles he can devote his attention to finding the solutions, he will use his utmost creativity to overcome those obstacles
Competition can help us to unleash our creativity because as individuals we have key unique strengths which can help us to compete and create new solutions.
Whenever an individual is curious creativity can help to answer that curiosity, because all creativity comes from our thoughts and learning from others.
Some problems can ignite our creativity because once we have solved the problem achievements can multiply.
Achievements can motivate us to add more creativity to what we do, so the achievement is the bedrock of all our actions because it's the final report of our progress.
We all have doubts, but we can manage them differently, so how we deal with these doubts can spark our creativity.
Who doesn't have fear? All of us have fears but it depends on which strategy do you use to face those fears, that's why once we have overcome our fears we see that win as an achievement because only a few people can conquer their fears.
Opportunities can influence us to become creative, and our achievements can motivate us to grab certain opportunities.
Change can force us to become creative, things like the fourth industrial revolution are forcing us to change how we do things.
Why doubt can destroy your progress?
Doubts should be checked, because they are the designers of failure, whenever you doubt you're stopping your decision, that's why people who doubt and do nothing about that particular situation end up becoming indecisive, and you cannot progress if you can't deal with your doubts, because Doubts can delay your small actions which you should execute, so whenever you are challenged by doubts you should do the following :
- Which tools can you use to deal with that doubt
- Why do you entertain that doubt
- What kind of benefits can you get from that particular doubt
- What creates that doubt
- Ask yourself how important the doubt
Whenever you allow your doubts to overcome your hope then you are inviting failure. After all, we often end up not achieving what we want because we cannot remove our Doubts the way.
Can progress be a must?
As discussed progress is a must, you are either going to be forced by nature to be progressively or by circumstances, because as human beings we are always pushed by Growth, no one can resist growth, that's why people can discover whenever they are not progressive as they want, because oftentimes as individuals we can devote our precious time to search for material possessions as a way to identify ourselves as progressive, so have the responsibility to select which type of progress fit into our lives.
Why daily activities can determine your progress?
Small steps are important because that's where most of our progress comes from, no big dream without small actions, so to make this a practical approach you should check how you execute your daily activities, Success is a matter of understanding how you spend your time because you cannot be progressive if you don't understand how is your day spend because often people get confused about progress because most of the people spend their time doing things that they don't want, that's why the majority of us we end up becoming miserable and not progressive.
Health and Life
Title description: 09 April 2021
Why Thoughts have powers?
It has been documented from the ancient manuscript, that everything we do is a seed of our thoughts, so we have the responsibility to check what kind of thoughts drives our lives because if we live a life whereby we don't check our thoughts, we won't understand what's going on with our lives.
Most of us have issues with our thoughts not about life in general because we turn to blame how we have lost the power to do what we want, just to notice we have negligent to check the power which comes with our thoughts, whenever we feel or do something we use our thoughts which some of them run on autopilot, they many scientific reasons why we become what we thought and do. After all, if you tell yourself you are not happy indeed you will be unhappy when you tell yourself you are rich you should take practical actions and keep on trying because we sometimes overuse the power of motivation and forget to take action, so the power only works once you take action.
Can thoughts change a life?
Our lives are changed by our thoughts, because we become what we repeat constantly, and our thoughts guide our emotions and actions.
The only power we have as human beings is the capacity to choose and think, that's why we hold higher Intelligence compared to other animals because our thoughts create, whenever heard of a lion that has created any house or car, but we as human beings we are the ones who are capable of making creation to come into the past, that's why Mankind is respected by all animals because we hold the highest Power which is the capacity to think and select our thoughts.
One thought can change your life because it takes only one decision to change your life.
Why do thoughts say a lot about us?
What's happening inside our imagination or mindset is often the transferred the actions that are they we end up becoming able to Judge people based on their facial expressions because a gloomy face says a lot about how upset we are, so how we choose our thoughts can affect the state of our emotions, that's why whenever we feel good people can pick that through telepathy, and whenever we are on moods we can pick that too.
How to analyze your daily thoughts?
Just check which thoughts make you feel good and ask yourself how useful is that thought and then make your decisions.
Why should you be aware about your thinking?
They various reasons why we should pay attention to what we are thinking because there's value in evaluation so check the following:
- Dream
- Goals
- Motivations
- Struggles
- Emotions
- Relationships
- Opportunities
- Solutions
- Problems
- Traumas
- Career
- Health
- Spirituality
- Finance
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 08 April 2021
Why does Indecision always lead to doubts?
We can choose do deal with our indecisions or allow drifting to take part, we have to aware about how doubts still away our peace and happiness, because we can doubt what make us happy and take something which doesn't even matter to us , because once the mindset is operating under the influence of indecision, you will focus on your doubts more than on your courage, more people are struggling with making sound decisions about the type of happiness which can benefit them, because we are raised from families whereby most of the decision are only taken by the adults, no wonder we are still chained by the misery of thiniking that happiness can be attached to only achievements , celebrations, and ceremonies, we have to check how those decisions impact us from attaining the state of happiness, because most of us we are still using the wrong model we have adopted from our parents or guardians, Happiness is a choice, you need to make your decisions, no one should decide for you on how you should be happy because the creation of most regrets are often made by giving other people the power to decide for us what can make us happy.
Why do we doubt happy moments?
A person who doubts always checks what's happening before taking any action or just postpones the entire action.
We can doubt our happiness because we are not used to it, as we treat it as a foreign partner, and we always harm our peace because we doubt and keep those doubts active whereby they end up becoming our fears, most of us are afraid to be happy, because we think too much about what others will think about us being happy, so we end up missing the chance to welcome happiness on our lives, doubts can destroy our vision, that's why we should be aware what we doubt and what we should do to remove that particular doubt.
When the mindset is operating under the influence of doubts it's hard to become happy, how many of us can reflect on our days and check how happy are we, few of us because the majority of us are not happy that's why we avoid this subject of happiness.
Why should we care about happiness?
Happiness is a garden, we should care about it so we can harvest what we have planted, all farmers can understand the stage of growing the plants, so like you as an individual who is passionate about owning your happiness, you should care about your happiness like you care about your health, career, physical appearance, and other mandatory aspects of your needs, we can lose our care if we do the following:
- Procrastinating about our goals
- Having bad habits running our lives
- Allowing our mindsets to be overloaded by negative thoughts
- Associating with unhappy people
- Ignore what's happening in our lives
People who care pay attention to what they want and maintain a good spirit to treat others with kindness and love, because if you are unhappy you won't care about the feelings of others, that's why rude people can be so miserable and angry.
Care is power because it connects us to our nature as human beings which is Love, and we should always review how caring are we towards ourselves and what we do every day. People who care about their happiness won't hesitate to move away from things or people who want to still or destroy their peace of mind.
Why do memories make us happy?
The brian is a collector of stories and memories, ancient people have worked tirelessly to help us to gather sufficient information about the importance of storing our memories, especially on our albums, because sometimes along our lives we must reflect on our lifetime stages of growth and see how did we enjoy those special moments with those who we love.
Memories are powerful because they leave prints of love and misery on our subconscious mind, that's why we can remember when someone has treated us, baldy, even though it was 10 years ago, this shows that the power of our imagination is very creative and intelligent.
People, who archive memories always keep up their journey of life, because what is life without any memories?
Nothing but an empty vessel, we are obligated by nature to collect memories either good or bad, all that matters is how you cherish those memories or discard them as an individual, people are remembered by what they did, so we should remain focused on your dreams and aspirations so one-day other people can reflect on our life stories.
The subconscious mind every day registers memories that's why we should be aware of what's happening in our lives.
Can Happiness increase love?
Happiness increases love, happy people can access alternative options to extend their love.
Culture and Religion
Title description: Cultural conspiracies, 07 April 2021
Why are our Cultural conspiracy should be checked?
Conspiracies are all justifiable, why because it's very easy and simple to create them, conspiracies can be blamed for many things which had affected the majority of people when associating with culture, things like this:
- Sex before marriage is a sin
- Prayer is for believers
- Man cannot cry
- Women hold the knife on the sharp side
- Money is the root of evil
When you start to track what kind of conspiracies are affecting your life then you can break loose from them because most of these conspiracies don't serve us any benefit rather than increasing our fears, and we shot begin to research how conspiracies take over our lives because our forefathers did things based on what was suiting them and abide on those rules they have set, so like us one day we shall be called forefathers so it's upon us to check what kind of our Cultural conspiracies works for us and be careful not to get confused about what has been said, all we should do is to check how suitable are these conspiracies for us before we can adopt them.
Why do some cultures lack evidence?
Cultural evidence is the bedrock of all the information which we rely on especially when we want to consult, so when it comes to lack of evidence on some cultures we can track the following:
- Schools or churches no longer share information about that culture
- New generation doesn't practice or follow that particular culture
- The leaders who were the champions of that cultural knowledge have passed away with the information without sharing it
- The local libraries didn't archive any information about that particular culture
- Information was destroyed by wars
When people no longer follow certain standards of the culture, then What is left will be information obsolescence, because lack of evidence is what often confuses and disempower most people, because once we stop to follow them we no longer use those standards that's why most historical cultures to this date are becoming more irrelevant, because we are now creating our own cultures which suites us.
How to seek cultural facts?
As pointed above we are keen to seek evidence to follow certain cultural standards, so these are some of the reasons why we seek evidence:
- To create rules
- To learn
- To convince others about what's happening
- We believe from the evidence
- For knowledge confirmation
- To create believes
- To solve problems
- To be able to talk sense
- To create rules
When evidence is available as individuals we don't hesitate to follow what the culture is saying to us, because we understand and comply with what we have already confirmed, so evidence can come differently because sometimes we use illusions to justify our evidence, we should go back to what we talked about which is childhood programming, most of us we already have conscious evidence about our cultures, that's why we don't argue with what the culture is saying because this is what controls our biases, so sometimes evidence can be tangible or intangible all depends who was it created, so be careful about intangible evidence because most people will just say to you that's what has to be done and we ought to follow that.
Why culture is a choice?
Culture is not a choice per say , to some of us it was imposed by our parents so we didn't choose what we want and remember we should understand that Cultures were based on groups which protects the communities against any harm, so to this date the chains of Cultures are still with us , because as discussed we were conditioned and not everyone can break lose from those conscious programming, because we are the subjects of the memories of our forefathers, because we are somehow performing certain duties and behaviours which creates those Cultures active, as an individual you should mark this fact: everything which is repeated and done automatically it ends up becoming your own Culture , that's why today we are blessed with scientific methods to trace our cultures and change them, so when you begin to learn how to choose you should understand your family history and how does it affects your sub conscious mind, because sometimes people rush to make choices which won't even happen, the childhood programming is hard to break it's a long drive that's why you need to be patient and be interested on how your mindset functions.
Why cultural powers can be dangerous?
We can check from histrionically background and review how Cultural powers how dangerous they have been because as history tells us, we didn't have rights, only our leaders held those rights and we were subjected to rules which we don't even agree to, so they are different Components of how these Cultural powers have damaged our societies lets check the following:
- Education is reserved for the rich families
- Money is for particular Religion only
- Children don't have any saying
- Women are housewives
- Power belongs to the man
- Slavery is for black people
It's hurting to open these wounds, but the fact remains, some powers which we're used they have damaged us as individuals, because to this date we are still struggling with subconscious mind biases which control us, and we don't even understand how these colonial powers have destroyed our thinking, we can talk about this factors but only a few minds can understand this, because Mankind is still under slavery whether economically, financially, sexually, spiritual and physical, so the oppression will still exit until thinker's start to remove these barriers but this will take time.
Why are our Cultural conspiracy should be checked?
Conspiracies are all justifiable, why because it's very easy and simple to create them, conspiracies can be blamed for many things which had affected the majority of people when associating with culture, things like this:
- Sex before marriage is a sin
- Prayer is for believers
- Man cannot cry
- Women hold the knife on the sharp side
- Money is the root of evil
When you start to track what kind of conspiracies are affecting your life then you can break loose from them because most of these conspiracies don't serve us any benefit rather than increasing our fears, and we shot begin to research how conspiracies take over our lives because our forefathers did things based on what was suiting them and abide on those rules they have set, so like us one day we shall be called forefathers so it's upon us to check what kind of our Cultural conspiracies works for us and be careful not to get confused about what has been said, all we should do is to check how suitable are these conspiracies for us before we can adopt them.
Why do some cultures lack evidence?
Cultural evidence is the bedrock of all the information which we rely on especially when we want to consult, so when it comes to lack of evidence on some cultures we can track the following:
- Schools or churches no longer share information about that culture
- New generation doesn't practice or follow that particular culture
- The leaders who were the champions of that cultural knowledge have passed away with the information without sharing it
- The local libraries didn't archive any information about that particular culture
- Information was destroyed by wars
When people no longer follow certain standards of the culture, then What is left will be information obsolescence, because lack of evidence is what often confuses and disempower most people, because once we stop to follow them we no longer use those standards that's why most historical cultures to this date are becoming more irrelevant, because we are now creating our own cultures which suites us.
How to seek cultural facts?
As pointed above we are keen to seek evidence to follow certain cultural standards, so these are some of the reasons why we seek evidence:
- To create rules
- To learn
- To convince others about what's happening
- We believe from the evidence
- For knowledge confirmation
- To create believes
- To solve problems
- To be able to talk sense
- To create rules
When evidence is available as individuals we don't hesitate to follow what the culture is saying to us, because we understand and comply with what we have already confirmed, so evidence can come differently because sometimes we use illusions to justify our evidence, we should go back to what we talked about which is childhood programming, most of us we already have conscious evidence about our cultures, that's why we don't argue with what the culture is saying because this is what controls our biases, so sometimes evidence can be tangible or intangible all depends who was it created, so be careful about intangible evidence because most people will just say to you that's what has to be done and we ought to follow that.
Why culture is a choice?
Culture is not a choice per say , to some of us it was imposed by our parents so we didn't choose what we want and remember we should understand that Cultures were based on groups which protects the communities against any harm, so to this date the chains of Cultures are still with us , because as discussed we were conditioned and not everyone can break lose from those conscious programming, because we are the subjects of the memories of our forefathers, because we are somehow performing certain duties and behaviours which creates those Cultures active, as an individual you should mark this fact: everything which is repeated and done automatically it ends up becoming your own Culture , that's why today we are blessed with scientific methods to trace our cultures and change them, so when you begin to learn how to choose you should understand your family history and how does it affects your sub conscious mind, because sometimes people rush to make choices which won't even happen, the childhood programming is hard to break it's a long drive that's why you need to be patient and be interested on how your mindset functions.
Why cultural powers can be dangerous?
We can check from histrionically background and review how Cultural powers how dangerous they have been because as history tells us, we didn't have rights, only our leaders held those rights and we were subjected to rules which we don't even agree to, so they are different Components of how these Cultural powers have damaged our societies lets check the following:
- Education is reserved for the rich families
- Money is for particular Religion only
- Children don't have any saying
- Women are housewives
- Power belongs to the man
- Slavery is for black people
It's hurting to open these wounds, but the fact remains, some powers which we're used they have damaged us as individuals, because to this date we are still struggling with subconscious mind biases which control us, and we don't even understand how these colonial powers have destroyed our thinking, we can talk about this factors but only a few minds can understand this, because Mankind is still under slavery whether economically, financially, sexually, spiritual and physical, so the oppression will still exit until thinker's start to remove these barriers but this will take time.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: Agreements and Leadership, 06 April 2021
Why marriage is just an agreement?
Love is an agreement of emotions, so like the marriage is an agreement of join force which is stated on a contract, so we still have work to do in order to learn that marriage is a contract that's why people can terminate it any time, but love cannot be terminated by a signature because it's one of the higher forces of life and when people join together and say they want to get married, it's a symbol of respect and honor , that's why as individuals we respect they union called marriage, but as we understand we are not perfect and we are still learning to understand how to love each other, so from histrionically background, marriage was one the greatest Success one should acquire, because as discussed on our Cultural and Religion Segments, that we are grouped based on tribe's which protects us individuals, so the meaning of us getting into a mutual contact called marriage certificate is dated back from our foreathers, even though the writing was not available but they are key marks which were tracked and traced to satisfy that the particular individual is married, so the contract is there to add Evidence that both parties agreed to join efforts to create a family, that's why we are still saying a marriage is a identification of a family Structure that's why we respect it and sometimes fail to understand how to remain married out of Abuse.
Who should lead the marriage?
Leadership is not the problem, but what's behind the leadership, so from our biological footprint, we have seen that all marriages were led by men, because they are certain facts which can justify this statement, why because men and women can differ when it comes to their masculinity powers, so man is subjected to protect and hunt, and woman are set to nurture, so we can ask how many women are violent today?
It's a biological code to trace that we as members have given man Powers to lead because they had fought wars and conquered wild beast, so we cannot agrue about this success this man have done to our communities, but today the effects of powers are starting to migrate to support woman, because the landscape of our economies has changed whereby woman can be financial stable and man are now leading based on thier masculinity not based on finance, so when we want to draw this comparison which states that who should lead the marriage between man and women, we reserved that option to spouse's to investigate, because natural man are leader's and woman are leader's supporter's, so the agreement of leadership on any particular marriage should be discussed because man sometimes overuse their powers to suppress woman, so this subject of leadership is keyed by our cultures because where we come from can shape what type of leadership is there for us to use when we enter the marriage, so let's be fair man are still regarded as leader's to this date yet because some fail to uphold good manhood standards, their leadership is questionable because abuse of woman is not what good man practice that's why good marriage is based on agreements and standards which suit all parties, so leaders can be chosen based on the responsibility they should comply too.
How to evaluate your marriage achievement?
Let's face it who wants to leave this World without any achievement?
No one.
So why martial achievements are so important?
We are tied to our memories, so when we collect our Achievements we do so just to make sure one day we can sit down and remind ourselves what good things had happened to us, so any marriage has its success regardless of how long it lasted, so Achievements are catalysts of moving us to strive for progress and improvement, so when marriage ceased to evaluate what kind of achievements are being collected that's were most problems begin because what love teaches us is to be Connected that's why our achievements are so important.
Why does cheating destroy trust?
Cheating is a game of options because you can either contract diseases or lose the one you love, so the main component of love is trust, and cheating always breaks this important component, because cheating hurts that's why no one ever enjoys being cheated, because this can make us lose Trust on ourselves and question our personalities, capabilities, appearance, and goals that's why trust is fragile and as married individuals, we should be careful about how cheating destroys marriages, so it's best to avoid this trap because depression doesn't have friends, never cheat be loyal to yourself and others when you feel someone doesn't a abide by trustworthy standards, you shouldn't keep yourself into that marriage, the fact is these people who cheat should marry the people who cheat too, what goes up will come down.
Why do some relationships succeed?
Success doesn't come by chance in any Marriage, you as individuals should plan it and always be aware of how to improve it, so let's take a look at this fact which makes any relationship or Marriage succeed:
- Finance
- Freedom
- Trust
- Listening
- Gratitude & Care
- Communication
- Forgiveness
- Acceptance
- Sex
- Goals & Love
Startup Business
Title description: Startup and Growth, 05 April 2021
Why Growth matters?
If we don't grow we end up dying, so what's the purpose of growth in your startup business?
- Business growth improves productivity and efficiency
- Grow attracts new talents and experience
- Opportunities are multiplied once you master your growth stages
- When a business cannot grow it will end up closing
- Growth investigates what's happening
When a business master the effect of growth then you won't be out of business, they are different elements that can influence growth such as:
- Paying your suppliers on time
- Employee incentives
- Good customer service
- Staff promotion
- Customer relaltionships management
- Innovation
- Continues learning
- Improving your business process
- Learning to admit your mistakes
- Dealing with failures and risks decisively
Growth is important because it measures your overall business performance.
How to design a growth plan?
Creating is not an issue for most Entrepreneurs, but Execution is the most problem with which most of these startups are challenged, in order to design your growth plan you should look at the following segments:
- Why are you planning your growth
- Which stage of growth is your business at
- When we the last time you evaluate your growth
- What kind of resources are needed to create growth
- How can you grow the enterprise
The many techniques to design your growth plan yet you should start by questioning your plan because the design phase is simple but what often matters is the reasons behind what you are doing and how are you going to implement your plan, because growth is something which most of Entrepreneurs never pay attention to, because they don't like to review their small results.
Why do enterprises fail to be Viable?
Most Enterprises fail based on what they fail to execute, because when viability becomes irrelevant then the business will hit the rock bottom of failure that's why you should study how your enterprise functions and what kind of principles the organization ahead to, these are some of the basic reasons which can lead the enterprise to fail:
- Losing key staff members
- Debts & Legal traps
- Slow market growth
- Wrong Innovation
- Lack of opportunities funds
- Poor brand position
- Late payments to key suppliers
- Too many ideas and less execution
- Poor skills and experience
- Poor organizational execution management
When failure comes not everyone can be aware of it, only those who pay attention to details, so when you begin to review your enterprise failures you can start to learn how to avoid them.
Why do skills lead to growth?
Skills are some of the key functions which make the enterprise grow because skills are like recipes that if blended by a common action can give you the best results, these are key facts that lead skills to grow the enterprise:
- Experience once mixed with the right execution plan can create growth
- Skills measure your performance
How to deal with performance issues?
Check the following measures if you want to check your enterprise performance:
- Discipline - How do you deal with distractions and use your ability to say No
- Time - How are you using your time
- Reviews - How are your results
- Targets - What kind of targets can you meet
- Deadlines - How do you schedule your tasks
- Skills and task matching - Purpose of what you are doing
- Relevance - How specific is your task plan
- Incentives - How do you reward your employees and customers
- Sacrifices - What kind of efforts do you take
Career and Work
Title description, Opportunities and Actions, 04 April 2021
How to review your options?
As you navigate on your career path, what can challenge you are the inability to review your options, because sometimes we fail to understand how options work, because we turn to forget that more options can lead to getting confused and being unable to decide what we want out of our careers, so you need to question your options like this:
- Why should I should these options?
- When did I know about this option?
- Which area of expertise is required?
- What kind of opportunities comes with this option?
- Why does this option exist?
When people fail to Question they always struggle to find the answers that's why you should make it your responsibility to check what kind of options your career has, because when you hit the rock bottom of unemployment you can always switch to other market industries as you know how you fit into the market.
Why actions design opportunities?
Who had ever gotten any opportunity without taking action?
Non, as individuals we are compelled by nature to take action, so to better create your opportunities as an individual, you need to pay close attention to the following things:
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- Where is the opportunity for me?
- Which type of results do I want to achieve?
- Why should I change my current actions?
- Who is mastering these actions and how can I learn from them?
- What kind of actions can make me successful?
Your actions only matter once they become relevant to your plans because sometimes we can act out the plan and expect to achieve what we have planned for, and this is impossible, so we need to make sure we track and trace our actions so we can correct them and create those opportunities we want out life.
Can self-esteem boost your success?
Self-esteem is an asset, when you are confident about your plans and ready to face the consequences then success is yours because sometimes we fail to check how our self-image creates us because we take ourselves for granted and be ashamed that we don't know what's happening with our self-images because we like to act but we fail to question what makes us act, so as individuals we have different types of personalities, which makes us Who we are, that's why you need to go back to your mindset and check what type of personality are you and how does it benefits you, when you select a career it should match your personality because often success can be delayed because you cannot unleash your potential on that particular work, that's why your self-esteem is your way to create your success because it will direct you towards what's fitting you as an individual.
Why do we fail to act on opportunities?
How many people are informed, yet still stuck in one place?
Many people are informed but mostly don't know how to grab the opportunities, because information overload is a new disease that is taking place in different elements of life, so we fail to act upon opportunities because of the following reasons:
- We think we got enough time
- We don't understand what we are doing
- We have big dreams but fail to act small
- We know more and act less
- We have too many options
- We are always distracted by notifications
How can you act whenever you keep on adding more information?
More information doesn't matter if it doesn't profit you, that's why you should deal with one opportunity and win it and seek the other one, the rule of thumb here is this: One step a time.
Why actions should be checked?
From the school of thought, we are taught to check what actions do take on daily activities, because with those actions we are building our careers and Lifestyle, so they are important reasons why checking your actions can help you:
- Mistakes can be avoided by checking your actions
- Learning comes from checking what's working and what not
- When you check you can gain awareness of what's happening
- Evaluation leads us to research
Those who check what's happening end up getting answers about what should happen to them so to flip the coin you are your actions, just check how you act and ask yourself what type of human being are you, and you will get the answer about your life because opportunities are selective that's why bad habits cannot sustain good opportunities.
Success and Wealth
Title description: Success and Progress, 03 April 2021
Why do we fail to evaluate progress?
How can you evaluate when you ignore failure?We struggle with failure, that's a fact and we all wish to see progress taking place in our lives, so we fail to take our small wins into review because we don't value them as success, that's why we are often angry about not progressing, all human beings are progressive, the problem is how we look at that growth and how we measure it because when you lack proper tools to evaluate your progress you will still be caught into circles of drifting on one subject, progress proves that something has been done, so we as individuals we are afraid to reevaluate our progress because we had failed to do what's right and we know deep inside ourselves that we have done wrong, so we ignore the evaluation because the answers are so bitter to swallow, so when we cannot evaluate we lose interest on what we have planned to do.
Can progress prove our success?
Indeed yes, when we are progressing we turn out to because the version of that particular goals and be the live example that what we aim for was possible and it's evident, so they are various reasons and ways why success proves our progress:
- Progress restores confidence.
- Success increases respect
- Progress can empower you to do more
- Success give you options
- When you are successful you can contribute
Progress is like freedom and happiness everyone wants it, so we strive so hard to attain these elements of life that's why with success we have the access to explore these elements because affordability can extend your options to explore more alternatives about life, so our progress is key to our confidence and character, because even we can keep it privately but inside we are the ones who know if we are not progressing as we want ourselves to be, so the key activity is to become successful and keep on progressing to contain your power as an individual.
Why success is always a matter of steps?4>
Ask a kid about the importance of taking steps?
We are taught based on steps that's why steps are critical factors that can make us successful, they are many reasons which can add to this matter of understanding steps:
- If you want to excel master the steps
- With steps, clarity can be shared
- The basics are based on steps
When we look deeply into those successful individuals, we can tell all it was a matter of understanding steps and applying them accurately, so the reason why success is hard for many people is that they use complex steps and end up getting confused that's why you should learn from how children adopt this matrix of mastering steps so they can survive the growth stage of childhood, so like you, make sure you take into consideration that small step builds your success that's why you should not avoid them.
Type of progress that builds success?
They are different types of progress that can account for your success, but let's be blunt on this matter, you cannot be successful if you cannot think accurately, so let's check the following factors which build our overall success progress:
- Capacity to say No
- Time management
- Emotional Intelligence
- Discipline
- Being Innovative
- Mastering the deadlines
- Good health
- Integrity
- Financial skills
- Continues learning
- Associating with the right people
- Continues learning
- Associating with the right people
When you neglect to question and understand these factors you will struggle to know which progress type can or will contribute to your success.
Who is responsible for your progress?
When the question is pointed at yourself, you cannot either answer or ignore it, so who is responsible for your progress?
You are the one who is responsible for your progress, why because no one can take action on your behalf, when you want something you should go after it, so the fact of the matter is this, we sometimes want, but that doesn't mean we shall get, but with the ability to keep on trying at the end something will come by, so never assume that someone will create progress for you, make sure you take full responsibility and act while time is available because progress can reveal your actions and results.
Health and Life
Title description, Health & Thinking,02 April 2021
Why good Habits matter?
Good habits are more attractive, everyone can attest to this statement, so when we are practicing good habits we stand a good chance to live a better life because, for practicalities, bad habits are more challenging and frustrating, that's why the best way is to select best habits, so the reason why good health habits matters:
- Longevity
- Reduced illnesses
- Emotional Intelligence
- Discipline
- Peace
Peace is an important element of life and good health, so when you know and understand that with your good habits you can expand your peace then it will be easy for you to choose the right habits because it takes courage to review what type of habits affects you and what can you do about them. After all, when you fail to investigate your habits you end up getting your life to run on autopilot and that's one of the dangerous spaces you can find yourself in whereby you don't know but you keep on doing that's what most people do when they have bad Habits they comply to those cravings yet they cannot study What makes that particular craving and how to remove it.
Can Health thinking helps?
Your life is based on what you think, you either thinking good or bad, so our thinking is the reflection of our external world, that's why when you are miserable this points back to your thinking and how you use your thoughts, so when you are thinking about Health you can either think based on good or bad, as individuals we sometimes fail to understand how our thinking channel our lives, we neglect to question what kind of thinking benefits us because when you begin to adopt health thinking your outer world will change because good health is a choice that's why you have the power to select how you want to think, remember your ability to choose to reside within yourself, and you should choose wisely when it comes to your thinking.
How to think independently?
Thinking independently is our core strength which makes us unique and powerful, so how to think is a greater topic which often privatized that's why not everyone can think accurately, but we can think, so the real issue here is how to master your capacity to think independently, because we have that space within ourselves whereby we can engage with our subconscious mind and our soul, so we can provide tools which can move you from one place to another especially thinking accurately:
- Use your time accurately
- Know and understand that time cannot be sold
- Accepting what's beyond your contro
- Being honest with yourself
- The capacity to say NO
- Say sorry while time is there
- Never mind if it's none of your business
- Remind yourself that one day you will die
- Face your basic fears
- Be able to welcome criticism
- Do what you said you can do
- Don't compare yourself with others
- Be patient with yourself
- Forgive and move ahead
When you start to think independently you will see a shift in your behaviors, that's why you should review those above-mentioned guidelines.
Why eating should align with your health?
Eating is like wearing clothes, you won't feel comfortable if you start to wear oversized clothes, so like your body, when you eat recklessly you will hit the rock bottom, so when we still have time to change our eating habits we should take into consideration that our health is based on our own choices, so no one will blame you or beat you when you eat badly, but only one thing will hurt you which pain, and we can change what we eat, so when you want dietary changes, you need to understand how your body and mindset operates, because we cannot be healthy if we supply one sector and neglect the other, that's why most people are still struggling with losing weight of changing bad habits, because it's all in the mind and we fail to understand how to remedy our mindset that's why alignment is important, so to change and eat accurately you should start with your thoughts.
How to deal with bad thoughts?
As Mankind we are overwhelmed, by our negative thoughts, so how to deal with thoughts goes hand in hand with how you understand your mindset because the challenge with thoughts is because they are always active and always moving us somewhere, so what we can do is to ask ourselves this question:
- How useful is this thought?
Simple but hard to comprehend, because you need to track which repetitive thoughts are taking place and select them one by one the question what's useful about them, because sometimes these thoughts can be beneficial whether we see them as negative or positive, so start by questioning. .
Happiness and Peace
Title Description: Happiness & Decisions, 01 April 2021
Deciding to have happiness thoughts?
Learning to decide is a critical path to making sure you understand where your happiness comes from as human beings we are taught to make decisions, especially for things we want, so we are never being taught how to make decisions about being happy, so we end up thinking happiness is all about attachments and materials possessions that's why we should understand that our thoughts play an important role when it comes to happiness because Negative thoughts end up becoming what's called unhappiness because when you cannot make sound decisions about how you want to control your thinking and thoughts you risk the problem of staying into that circle of indecision.
Why do decisions design happiness?
When we decide we are in control of the power of making choices when want, so once all our decisions are based on positive thinking we can design our happiness just by learning to direct our thoughts towards what we want, sometimes as individuals, we complicate things because we fail to make sound decisions for our lives, that's why often time many people are trapped by their own decisions they made, that's why to check your level of happiness you need to double-check what type of decisions do you make in your life because you cannot build a happy life by making wrong decisions.
Why misery is a decision?
Misery comes from our thoughts, we cannot move to a happy life if we don't understand how misery plays role in building us to be aware of things that can trap us forever to be unhappy, you cannot be unhappy without no reason, so many of us we shy away from the truth to confront our misery, we act as though we are fine whenever we are hunted by this monster called misery, so when we start to exercise our decisions accurately we can overcome misery, so let's check the following factors which add misery on our lives:
- Doubts
- Fear
- Sabotage
- Complaining
- Blame
- Procrastination
- Jealous
- Depression
- Sorrow
- Pain
When you are aware that misery is based on your decision you can crack the door of it and get out, because we blame circumstances whenever we are the ones who made those choices and acted in a certain way, so we are not aware of how misery is destroying our lives, we care less about how misery is taking away full attention to be happy, because we don't pay attention to what's happening in our lives, so we end up complaining why change is so hard, and why we cannot be happy we forget that no one can be happy on behalf of us, so we end up being covered by misery and sorrow and we fail to control our decisions, because we are afraid of changing our attitudes on why we take time to remove misery out of our lives?
Why happiness is free?
Who can sell happiness? No one can sell happiness, because is free and accessible to all of us, so we are all entitled to make our choices to make sure we take full responsibility for our happiness, so when we fail to know this basic truth that happiness is free and we have all the capacity to access it, and when happiness is your priority you can share it with others, but when hate is your friend your can share it, so to be happy we need to understand our thinking and thoughts, so we can get rid of those nagative thoughts which makes us think that happiness is expensive, you can ask anyone who's on their deathbed about how happiness is important because sometimes we see happiness as mandatory when our lives are about to end, so never take for granted your happiness.
How to select your happiness?
To select is easy, how many people are always saying they want to be happy?
- But how many people are living that truth?
We have this tendency to select want we want but fail to live it, so when words are shared it doesn't mean actions are correct, so we as individuals sometimes like to select but fail to act on what we select, many people know about health, but how many do they follow those basic health guidelines?
As Mankind we have biases of ignorance, that's why we take time to change our bad habits, so we are often pushed by challenges to change, and this shows that what we sometimes, choose doesn't reflect our true self, so when you select happiness you need to check your beliefs, actions, habits, decisions, and goals, because you cannot be happy by chance you need attention and awareness that's why we can feel excitement but that doesn't mean we are happy because Happiness is a journey and no one can ever reach the destination of happiness, but we can enjoy the journey, so we have powers to choose how to be happy and live by those principles.
Culture and Religion
Title description : 28 May 2021
Why some food are prohibited by some cultures or religions?
As discussed in the last segment, we talked about how our food plays an important role to structure our cultural knowledge and how we practice certain things, so when it comes to how food is being prohibited in certain cultures, we have to check the following factors:
- Allergies
In some cultures or religious bodies, certain food is regarded as allergic, not because they can affect the body but because they can increase interfere with your spirit that's why they are called allergic and member are advised to avoid that particular food.
- Believes
As noted we believe according to the levels of our understanding and knowledge, we cannot practice food prohibition if we lack knowledge and experience, because in several families or communities, people are conditioned to eat certain foods and this builds up their beliefs about what should not be eaten and never question why.
- Extinction
Animal extinction is threatened by constant animal killings, and this practice of eating meat is prohibited because some Cultures or Religions feel there's a need to save an animal from these major killings which can impact human chain survival.
- Usages
Some food can be used as medication and some can be used as a poison, so this can be determined by your Cultural knowledge or Religions practices because the user is already being decided by our leaders and governments.
- Safety concerns
To save humanity, they are certain foods that are dangerous to be consumed and this can lead them to be prohibited from any consumption.
Why do we avoid certain food?
We can avoid biological because we have experience or we are afraid of testing certain food, this are key factors which can help us to know why some people avoid other foods
- Allergies
- We have different types of allergies some are hidden and others can show up once we have eaten certain foods
- Health
- We eat or avoid certain foods because of ee want to either achieve health goals or keep on dieting.
- Affordability
- Some foods can be expensive or cheap all depending on which country you live in.
- Powers
- Supply issues
- Some food can be avoided because the supply of it is limited and only a few people can access such food.
Why we are not happy about other religious practices regarding food?
We cannot be happy about something which doesn't align with our beliefs and thoughts, so when it comes to why some people are always criticizing why other cultures or religions eat some kind of food, this brings us back to what each individual has been taught about food and what kind of believes that particular individual has, you can get clarity by checking the following:
- Limitations
- Knowledge can limit us when it comes to arguing about something we don't like or hate because some people have this tendency of limiting themselves to one kind of research and justify why they are right, we should remember that opinions can increase our ignorance if we fail to question what's the purpose of arguing about something we lack information about.
- Restrictions
- Management
- Food wastage is an issue because we have to take care of our environment.
Why food should be checked?
To master foods consumption and consideration by checking the following:
- Type of stores
- Consumer type
- Storage
- Packages types
- Labels
Why some food are linked to holiness?
Control of food makes some Religions or cultures consider the following:
- Food Procedures
- Food Producers
- Food Process
- Food Practice
- Food privacy
Marriage and Relationship
Title description : 27 May 2021
Why Desires matters?
We are all human beings and we have different types of desires some we can control and some we can't control, these are basic elements to help us to understand why our desires matter:
- Experience
Whenever we keep our desires private or public, this comes back to what kind of experience do have, take for example the desire for food and sex, some individuals are very happy to keep their bad habits privately and this can harm them and some can ask for help if they feel they are doing or consuming more of those desires, that's why it takes time to analyze what controls your life and how can you control it or remove it, that's why your experience is essential to help you judge which kind of desires matters to you and why as an individual.
- Exploration
We have the imagination, the foundation of our fantasies most are created by the imagination, we all like to explore, and that's why some of our desires can take us on this journey of exploring the other side of life and even help us to see what kind of desires aligns with our habits and why, because our ability to explore always keep us into this space of exploring our innate and external desires as human beings. The journey of exploring our desires is endless and sometimes can be good or bad it all depends on how you navigate your direction.
- Health
Some desires are healthy and some are very dangerous to our health, that's why we have to check what matters in our lives and how can become healthy along the journey of exploring our desires as human beings because some of us overdose on the use of our desires that's why our health is sabotaged or threatened by our inability to stop certain desires which makes our lives miserable.
- Routines
To maintain your desires you should understand the importance of your routines because some of our desires are on autopilot and this can affect our performance and our progress, because some of us just eat, have sex, drink, and sleep, and wonder never wonder what influence us to maintain these routines because we have already build habits which helps us to execute those desires automatically, routines should be checked so you can know which kind of desire matters to you.
- Stability
Some desires can make us feel weaker and some can extend our strength to feel energetic, you have to pay attention to what kind of stability di you get from your desires and why it matters to keep those desires.
Can pleasure lead to selfishness?
Pleasure is limited, that's why we have to understand it and respect it, because if we fail to understand it, then it can lead us to perform this type of activities in our lives:
- Greedy
The biology of mankind has pointed out that the ability to remain greedy is vested in our DNA, that's why only a few people can check why or what makes them so greedy, so can be the achievements, powers, contributions, and success, that's why the levels of your greediness are based on your pleasures which you are protecting from others, and this can be a difficult subject to explore because it requires courage and honesty to discover the truth about yourself.
- Neediness
Some of our pleasures can add this factor of making us needy because certain pleasures can help us to survive, that's why we need them, and some are natural and if not used accurately they can impact our livelihoods, take for example the problem of Air pollution, this affects us all because it threatens our health and we need good air to live as individuals, so they are many things which can make us needy, from the relationship, marriage, schools, churches, jobs, and others many things, what is important is to check what makes you needy and how does it align with your pleasures.
- Egotism
Pride if used incorrectly can ruin your dignity and strength, because you can use certain pleasures just to rub your egotism or vanity on the wrong elements of your life, so you better check what kind of pleasures aligns with your ego and check if they are healthy or dangerous on your life.
- Selfish
Biology has defined this element of selfishness because we can become selfish and fail to admit it, so check which kind of pleasures makes you selfish and why, it might something which you protect or you are keen to have, so check yourself.
- Jealous
The tradition of pleasures can be designed by your jealousy, that's why some people can destroy their dreams or plans because they fail to understand their potential, all they did was compete out of things that don't align with their core strengths and values, your pleasures can help you to judge what makes you jealous and you have to double-check this approach.
- Stubborn
The inability to check Why we are using certain pleasures can increase our Ignorance because we shall keep on doing things and fail to question why are we devoting our attention to those cravings which some don't even align with our values, you should check how you deal with your pleasures, are you overdosing or you are balancing your pleasures as an individual.
Why being greedy comes from desires?
When we are greedy, we are protecting something and this comes from our desires and fantasies, so to check this furthermore pay attention to this:
- Satisfaction
Are you satisfied as an individual?
Ask yourself this question, because we neglect to review our satisfaction and blame others as if they are the ones who have created this habit of making us greedy if you are not satisfied you should do something about that particular situation and if possible seek professional help to accelerate your problem, because once we neglect our Satisfaction we are asking for more misery.
- Habits
Some habits can extend our greediness, because we want to maintain them, take for example the use of drugs and alcohol, some people are very greedy to understand that what they are doing is harming their lives and these habits are automatic that why some are defensive and argumentative about why they are using this habits, you have to be aware of what kind Habits control your life and why.
- Emotion
Every Emotion we have has a direction, that's why we either have positive or nagative emotions, so whenever we are greedy we are always using negative emotions because we won't like to share, that's why being greedy is tough and it's painful because you have to suppress some good emotions just to entertain those negative thoughts to make sure you remain greedy.
- Pleasure
Some pleasures can extend our greediness because we can overdose on them and feel we are approaching the right path of life, take for example the abuse of alcohol and drugs, you will notice those individuals are only concerned about feeding their pleasures, regardless of what, that's why it's hard to live around addicts because they have seen things differently and they don't care about what others will say.
- Decisions
To use your greediness your decisions should be under your negative thoughts because being greedy is expensive because it requires you to become protective and defensive.
Why satisfaction is part of desires?
- Who doesn't want to become satisfied?
All human beings are seeking ways to make sure they are satisfied, that's why some can even compromise their lives just to explore this topic of Satisfaction because to remain free you have to understand what satisfy you and what does not, you can check the following:
- Will
What are you willing to do to remain satisfied?
- Habits
What kind of habits help you to get your satisfaction into order?
- Fantasies
What do you envision as something which can satisfy you!
- Passion
What kind of passion makes you remain satisfied?
- Hopes
Are you achieving your dreams?
Why do we fail to understand our desires?
They are different types of reasons why we fail to understand our desires and the come to the following:
- Religion
- Culture
- Ignore
- Skills
- Knowledge gaps
This subject will be covered in our book called the power of desires.
26 May 2021
Career and Work
Title description : 25 May 2021
Success and Wealth
Title description : 24 May 2021
Why Starting small can expand your career?
The ability to notice the importance of paying attention to your actions can help you judge if your career is progressing or not because the majority of us wait until is late to change the direction of our careers, today we are challenged by these technologies which threaten our jobs and livelihoods because we can take advantage of expanding our new careers by learning which types of technologies should we add as new skills because fourth industrial revolution is taking place and we should familiarize ourselves with it so we can find out how can we work together with this new technological advances not against them, because the future of Work is already dominated by Technology so it's better to start learning how to get those skills, you can start small by pursuing those free online courses and be step ahead.
Why being relevant can keep you employed?
Experience has been discussed previously yet we still dig deep on this subject. After all, we cannot get ahead with life if we fail to understand what kind of Experience we have and how it helps us to achieve what we want because your Experience is based on two components:
- Wrong experience
- Working experience
How often do we get stuck because we cannot understand what makes us successful or failures?
It's because we sometimes like to take action and fail to review what kind of experience or information is available or viable for our careers, we sometimes take our experience for granted because, most of us don't check what kind of Experience we have, and it's very important to take advantage of your experience as it can help you to review what kind of Skills or information you should seek to expand it to another level because oftentimes we have working experience on some other activities, the problem we nurture our Doubts and sabotage our hopes by criticizing our abilities and keep on telling ourselves we lack Experience, as discussed on above the world is changing into technological advances, and we have to embrace this changes by adopting new skills and we have to be willing to learn and apply the information, as we keep on moving ahead on our careers.
Working experience is always available if you can check the following:
- Who is succeeding in that particular experience and how long will it take you to attain that particular Experience?
Your ability to question can help you to gain experience on what you think you lack because most of us don't check we just think we Lack before we can even question what we currently have and how it helps us.
Can experience create opportunities for you?
The world is changing the direction of jobs as noted the pandemic covid 19 has changed how we work as individuals, and we are now navigating towards the dawn of the fourth industrial revolution, to remain relevant you can start doing the following or asking this questions:
- What kind of new job disruption is my career industry affected by
- Why should I change my career
- What kind of Experience should I obtain
- How will I gather the information that I want
- What kind of skills do I have
- What kind of goals do I have currently
- Who can I network with to understand these new changes
- What kind of future jobs will I qualify for
- Which country requires my skills
You have to answer those questions because we are constantly changing in a new direction and not everyone is aware of these factors this will impact the majority and leave us individuals unemployed for a long time.
Why learning about career trends matters?
Career trends are constantly advertised, all you have to do is to check the following:
- Machine learning
- Online shopping
- Automation
- Voice records
- Facials recognition
- Online bookings
- Instant payment
- Algorithm
- Robotics
- Online Learning
- Virtual office
- Fingerprint passwords
Most of us are familiar with the subjects mentioned above but how many of us understand their functionalities and how they affect our careers, these changes will slow down the human need to perform some duties by themselves, because machines are taking over human jobs and some jobs cannot be automated and once you begin to check what kind of technology is about to challenge your career you can start doing something to become relevant on the future work and stay viable.
How to respond to career market changes?
The ability to respond to new career market changes, comes to the following:
- Collaboration
- Content
- Network
- Experience
- Skills
- New Technologies
- Goals
- Industry analysis
- Finance
- Resources
To have your plan work for you, it's very important to understand that people who build these new technological advances are still human beings like us and they keep on learning, that's why it's not too late to begin your research and start learning about this factors which affect our day to day activities because the sooner we become aware of what kind of changes are taking place, we can set up a mitigation plan to stay alert and be prepared for this new changes because some of our skills they become obsolete within five years, that's why most college degrees don't work for many people, because the information is changing on the highest rapid pace and universities are still left behind to catch up with new changes, that's why covid 19 has destroyed many jobs because most companies are still searching for systems which can save them costs and increase their profits, you have to be aware of your job career.
Why results reveal your success?
We all have the desire to work for improving our lives and results, and we can evaluate the following:
- Results
What kind of results builds your success?
- Resources
What kind of resources can help you to become successful
- Requirements
What kind of laws you should follow to become successful?
- Power
How can you unleash your creativity?
- Skills
What kind of skills do you have?
Our success is a sequence of the combination of diverse skills and experience, that's why your results should be checked and measured so you can judge if what you are doing is succeeding or not.
How to get the best results?
Everyone is seeking the best results out of this life and only a few can achieve great results because it takes effort and time to align your actions to create the best results, these are fundamental components that can help us to create Results for our lives:
- Schedule
What kind of tasks are aligned on your schedule?
- Milestones
What type of targets you should meet?
- Small actions
How do you act every day?
- Resources
What kind of resources is part of your working activities?
- Evaluation
How do you measure your progress?
You can begin to review your results just by checking your actions and how you handle your failures.
Why we are obsessed with results?
These are key factors that Influence us to seek or become obsessed with results:
- Success
Who doesn't want to become successful?
- Adventure
Who doesn't want to have freedom and happiness?
- Progress
Who doesn't want to achieve?
- Pride
Who does not want to be respected?
- Contribution
Who doesn't want to help?
It's your options and actions which can make you Successful that's why you have to check what you are doing and how it improves your life.
When can results speak for you?
They are different types of reasons why results can speak for us :
- Mentorship
- Personality
- Achievements
- Conversation
- Contribution
The powers of obtaining results?
These are factors that can increase our powers once we obtain the results we want :
- Achievements
- Freedoms
- Happiness
- Peace
- Confidence
Health and Life
Title description : 23 May 2021
Why achievement is part of growth?
- Progress
If you want to check why achievements are so important, you have to look at how you feel about your achievements because sometimes we ignore to check our feelings and think that we are not achieving anything, you should remember this, either you are achieving success or failing to get your results as you planned them.
- Time
How you spend your daily time is always linked to what you want to achieve and many of us are not aware of our relationship with time, we have to remember this, to succeed you should use time properly and be willing to reduce your distractions.
- Results
Growth is maintained by your ability to keep on achieving your goals, that's why how you progress is based on what kind of results are you obtaining and how you feel about them, your results can reveal the level of your achievements.
- Experience
When we progress from one achievement to another we become confident about our achievements, that's why personal growth.
- Skills
Your skills can reveal your results if you keep on trying and testing them, so your achievements are always part of your ability to exercise your skills to attain your goals and plans.
- Contribution
Any type of achievement we attain can either benefit you or increase your stress, that's why you have to check the level of your happiness while you're achieving your goals.
Can achievement increase health?
- Love
We all love to see our bodies functioning properly, and hate to feel sick, that's why achieving a healthy body always is ranked as one of the most important achievements one can attain because your health is your asset.
- Passion
When we pursue our passions, we can feel healthy and free to live our lives, because your passion is your place of comfort where you can always keep your hopes and dreams active, so you can keep on achieving your passion.
- Sharing
When we achieve, we have this sense of need to share our abilities and achievements with others, and this always increases our health because we feel good to share as human beings.
- Desires
Everyone desire to achieve, because achievements are always motivating symbols that can assist us to keep our desires active and relevant, that's why we always strive for happiness because we feel healthy about it.
- Progress
With the continuous pursuit of achievements, we always attain the state of health, and courage to keep on achieving, that's why your progress is your protection against any challenges you can face because you can reflect on how you have conquered tough circumstances in your previous years.
Why achievement motivates our health?
- Success
- Growth
Whenever we are keeping our bodies healthy and in alignment with basic health practices, we are adding motivation to our lives, because how we see our health is related to what we know and understand about health, and we have to understand what makes you grow healthier as an individual.
- Emotions
How we handle our emotions is linked to what motivates us, because some of us are motivated by greed or gratitude, that's why you have to check your emotions and how you feel about your achievements on your health.
- Stamina
To keep on pursuing your achievements, you need to maintain your stamina as you go along the stages of your life, because how you keep yourself motivated to eat healthily and do those basic exercises are always based on your stamina to keep on taking action.
- Concentration
If you can concentrate on your health, you will see what motivates you to become healthy and happy, because your achievements can tell you how focused are you and what you should improve along your way to your success.
Can age lead to wisdom?
- Resources availability
Resources availability is one key area that can reveal that your age is helping you to attain wisdom.
- Skill Capacity
How you act is based on what you know or what you are willing to learn, the level of your skills is always based on sets of capacity, wisdom is an asset because you need skills to apply your wisdom.
- Opportunity management
How you manage your life is based on the level of wisdom you have about life and other things because age is based on experience and knowledge.
- Life lessons
All of us can are always gathering life lessons every day, your wisdom is created by those life lessons and steps you are taking to learn from others and be willing to share your wisdom with others along your life journey.
- Connected network
When we age we keep building new networks and new relationships with other people and this can extend our level of wisdom and experience, because life is based on building relationships that can help us to improve our lives and others.
Why experience is an advantage?
- Action
To become an experienced individual you have to gather sufficient information and lessons from your specialization.
Some of us are not happy when others keep on winning some challenges about life which seem as rock bottoms for us, because some people expose their lives to a series of testing and personal improvements with their lives, this gives them the advantage to keep on winning on this life because your actions can help you to understand what kind of experience are you gathering a how does it benefit your life.
Your actions can increase your experience if you can start to pay attention to how they yield those three results you have planned to achieve as an individual.
- Power
Mankind has power, and not everyone can utilize this Power of thinking independently and accurately because our lives are mostly challenged by who we surround ourselves with and what kind of lifestyles are part of our lives, your age is based on your levels of power, you can begin to check what kind of power you have on your life and how you use it.
These are basic questions you can ask yourself:
- Why should you use this power?
- When can did you mis this power?
- Which skills can help me to unleash my power?
- How do you access my power?
- What kind of power do you have?
- Results
Age can tell us about our experience as we know we have children, teenagers, youth, and adults, all these individuals have different types of experience and knowledge, that's why your results are always the revelation of our actions and goals.
- Lessons
At any age, we are all gathering information and life experience, and this creates our actions.
- Contacts
We gather contacts based on our age and experience, that's why some people have the skills of building networks or inheriting some of them from their families or key associates, that's why whenever we get older we keep people who are reliable next to us so we can get immediate attention if something can require their assistance.
Happiness and Peace
Title description : 22 May 2021
Why happiness work's with Time?
Happiness takes place in different formats but it always takes place in our thoughts and the time we are ready to explore it, when we are happy we turn to use time and our attention very carefully, because happiness is your asset and you need to check how are your spending your time because we often forget that we are the ones who spend our precious time complaining and blaming, so when it comes to your time you should be very careful about what type of thoughts are you giving attention to and why, time plays an important role when it comes to what makes us happy and what not, we need time to be happy, and we need time to be unhappy, you have to decide and figure out what makes you happy and keep on doing that particular thing, time tells the truth about our happiness.
Why healing is all about time?
Healing is progressive, we have to pay attention to these factors:
- Healing is hope
- Healing is sharing
- Healing is forgiveness
- Healing is the truth
- Healing is to accept
- Healing is power
- Healing is a natural
- Healing is an action
- Healing is a belief
- Healing takes time
How many of us require immediate healing from any hurt or depression we are facing?
Many of us don't understand the stages of healing, we should remember that when we fail to trust nature, we have failed to trust ourselves, to be happy and at peace, you should take a look at what kind of healing your life requires and why, because we sometimes ask for different types of healing at the same time, that's why we end up becoming confused when the healing doesn't happen to us, we should remain focus one healing until it happens because we can start to understand why healing is progressive.
Can happiness be a subject of thoughts?
Happiness is building by these factors:
- Desires
- Habits
- Environment
- Actions
- Emotions
- Purpose
- Achievements
- Hopes
- Forgiveness
- Gratitude
- Thoughts
- Values
- Pleasures
- Dreams
When we understand how our thoughts create our realities, we can start to add those happiness inputs step by step, because it takes time to get your life together and enjoy your time. After all, we have different types of the barrier which can cloud our thoughts to keep on thinking on negative terms and give up on what we want, that's why you should check what's happening inside your headspace because you cannot be happy if you don't understand how your thoughts function.
Can time tell you about your happiness?
Time can reveal the state of your happiness you can check the following:
- How do you deal with your rejections
- What kind of failures do you have
- Is your career path going in your chosen direction
- Are you at peace
- How often are you grateful
- What makes you feel happy
- What kind of goals are you pursuing
- What kind of relationships are you having
- How are you spending your day
- What kind of challenges are you facing
You can choose if you pay attention because time always reveals how are we feeling and what kind of results are we getting, that's why we have to check our thoughts, emotions, and actions so we can connect the dots about what kind of attention are we devoting to our happiness.
How does happiness increase health?
Happiness has these types of benefits which can increase our health:
- Healthy food
- Gratitude
- Sharing
- Laughter
- Peace
- Joint prayer
- True friends
- Healthy habits
- Good sleep
- Exercising & Achievements
Health is only increased by our efforts to change our habits and improve our lives by paying attention to those health basics we often skip because the only right time to be happy is now and you have the power to choose what you what your life to be and what kind of sacrifices will come along with your new beginnings for making sure you remain healthy and disciplined on your plans and goals because everyone wants to be happy and healthy.
Culture and Religion
Title description : 21 May 2021
Why we don't eat the same things as individuals?
Our cultures have separated us based on our food because they are concrete evidence of why some people eat certain foods and why others don't eat that food, as individuals we have different types of allergies and illnesses which some of them can tell us about which kind foods are essential for our bodies, as Cultures can differ, even how food is being Consumed always differ because as individuals, we eat according to what our cultures have selected for us and this makes us different as individuals because every Culture has its Standards of what it's own people should eat and what not.
Why types of religious food matter?
According to any Culture or Religion everyone is subjected to follow certain eating habits because foods can determine our thoughts and create our behaviors, that's why to eat is always regarded as medicine but only if you eat healthily and keep on checking what's inside your food, the key reasons why types of religious food matters check the following:
- Order
Some Religions can give their followers orders to eat certain foods because of their certain believes and conducts which that particular Religion is following.
- Suppression
They are some foods that are regarded as foods that block the spirit to access its command, that's why fasting is practiced in many Religious tribe's.
- Demands
They are certain foods that can demand us to become active and inactive, so we are guided on what to eat because of the demand and the availability of those kinds of food, take, for example, vegetarians, who believe animals will go into extinction if we keep on consuming them.
- Domination
Certain foods are consumed to activate our innate powers and desires, that's why we are always guided by our Religion on what to eat and what not.
- Thinking
There is a huge relationship between what we eat and what we think, that's why for some of us we have to eat healthy to think accurately.
Why some cultures or religions do we regard some other food as a sin?
According to the Book of wisdom, we are given guidelines of what is a sin and how to avoid it, so when it comes to our Religion we have set rules for our lives and tribes of what is regarded as a sin, to protect humanity and keep the respect amongst the community.
Why does being at peace align with your food intake?
You become what you eat often if you eat badly to will feel bad, that's the principle of life, if we can keep all the basics into practice we can become successful at obtaining our peace because it's hard to become unhealthy than to be healthy, that's why you should be aware and careful about what you eat often and what kind of results are you getting from what you consume as an individual.
Why does good food build a good life?
This is a yin and yang scenario, one side cannot exist without the other, whenever you eat healthily you are living a successful life, we should not complicate this scenario, because is guided by the natural principle which always guides us as human beings.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description : 20 May 2021
Why Love is based on actions?
Who has not noticed that love with words without any actions to back it up, is always meaningless?
To love is a responsibility that comes with different types of benefits and consequences, that's why you should check the following when you want to Judge the type of love you are having and what kind of Actions are there:
- Results
Have you noticed, that our love is based on the results we keep on collecting during our relationship stages?
- Powers
Our actions can determine the love we have
- Achievements
What we achieve is based on our actions
- Goals
How we set our goals has an impact on our way to love
- Attitude
How you control your mindset and your emotions can state which kind of love you have.
Can love to lead to happiness?
When we love we feel happy, because this is our human capacity to explore while we are still alive, happiness is the number one thing which most individuals are searching for because love and happiness all work together and they are so important to our lives. These are some factors that can add to this statement that says love leads to happiness:
- Freedom
We are all free when we love
- Peace
We love to feel at peace
- Sharing
How we share makes us feel human and important
- Desire
We use our desires to explore what we love and what makes us happy
- Options
Love gives us options to keep our lives happy
Should love be measured?
Love is always measured by our actions and results, that's why even though we don't know what size is love, it keeps on trying to measure it, these are some of the tools we often use to evaluate and measure Love:
- Size
How many times should you love someone?
Size is a mathematical equation that has to be calculated correctly because when we put size we should not be left the numbers behind, because some people have this tendency to love you based on what you give them.
- Actions
How you act has an impact on how you handle your love, because some actions can be rude and recklessly and some can add value and empower us.
- Vows
How you remain authentic and committed to your vows is always linked with how you Love
- Purpose
Your ability to explore your purpose can reveal what kind of Love you have for that particular thing.
- Knowledge
What you know about love can be measured by how have you experienced Love.
Why do we love each other as partners?
These are basic reasons why we love each other as spouses:
- Sharing
- Contribution
- Safety
- Nature
- Desires
Why does love ends?
These are elements that lead the relationship to end:
- Illness
- Changes
- Failures
- Cheating
- Lack of Satisfaction
- Wrong advice
- Poor financial mismanagement
- Unable to remain Honest
- Inability to exercise Forgiveness
- Ego & Poor communication skills.
Startup Business
Title description : 19 May 2021
Why do entrepreneurs fail to win?
Startups Negotiation have these types of issues:
- Delays
When the delay is on the motion, we always feel disrespected and taken for granted, that's why in most Negotiations if there's any delay some representatives can pull out of the Negotiation if they are not updated about the status of the delays.
- Doubts
When we talk with New strangers we turn to become protective and judgemental, because new people have their own manipulations techniques which we always pay attention to and we doubt them until we get satisfied about those doubts if they are not harming our business.
- Contract cancellation
Deals can go wrong for various reasons and you have to embrace this approach, because some individuals can Negotiate to end up canceling the contract, with you.
- Follow-up issues
Poor follow-ups can increase Negotiation issues because if both parties cannot update each other about the business progress they have agreed to reach this can add to issues of trust and doubts about the partnerships.
- Missed deadlines
When money is lost, is due to the inability to reach the targets of the deadlines, and this can affect the Negotiation process because this can harm the business profit and relationships with your stakeholders.
Why do entrepreneurs fail to win Negotiations?
Negotiations are tough and some are simply because it depends on who are you Negotiating with and how you relate with your counterpart. After all, these factors have to be checked properly:
- Language issues
Do you understand the body language and your Communication techniques when Negotiating?
- Disagreement
How do you handle disagreements along your Negotiation stages?
- Conflicting information
Are you on the same page when talking?
- Price issue
Are you in a good Agreement to agree about the profits and prices?
- Wrong targets
Do you have milestones that you have set upon your agreements to achieve your targets?
Why negotiation matters?
These are some good reasons why Negotiation matters for your Start-up Business, you can check the following:
- Assist to sell your products.
- Extending networking
- Resource collaboration
- Investment alignment
- Opportunity arrangements
How to negotiate your offering as startup business entrepreneur?
To Negotiate your business offering you have to pay attention to the following:
- Facts
Have you conducted your homework?
- Solutions
What value does your solution add?
- Problem limitations
What you cannot solve with your solution?
- State benefits
What kind of benefits are you offering?
- Fill the gaps
What kind of needs is your solution solving for?
Types of Startup Negotiations?
As you navigate on your Startup Business journey, you have to check the following types of Negotiation types:
- Conclusions Negotiation
- Contract Negotiation
- Follow-up Negotiation
- Reschedule Negotiation
- Opening Negotiation
Career and Work
Title description : 18 May 2021
How to design support motivation for your career?
To design your Career supporting motivation you have to check the following:
- Lifestyle choices
What kind of lifestyle choices aligns with your current circumstances and how do you benefit from the particular Lifestyle choices you have selected?
You need to arrange your choices according to order so you can understand what type of motivation fits you and why, because motivation is very important when it comes to helping us to grow of understanding our hopes as individuals.
- Habits
Ask yourself this question:
- What kind of habits do you have?
Most of us we can this question for granted, yet if you can check your habits are always what drives your motivation.
- Affordability
Can your lifestyle help you to afford your career path or is just temporary compromising?
- Knowledge improvements
How you seek improvements can assist you to add new information to your life
- Goals management
Do your goals align with your motivation?
Why career motivation matters?
If you can check your life, and pay attention to what motivates you, then it's time to look at the following components of motivation:
- Influence
Who is influencing your motivation?
- media houses
- teachers
- associates
- friends
- parents
- mental conditioned illusions
- environment
- Knowledge Improving
We all seek avenues to improve our progress and results, so when we start to adopt motivation we can help ourselves to arrange our lives based on what we hope to achieve.
- Networking
It's very important to understand how your relationships can help you to extend your motivation because some people can add negativity or positive vibes to your life, so you need to check who you associate with and why?
- Goal's achievements
Are you achieving your goals?
Not everyone can answer this question honestly because this is a checkpoint whereby you will know how far are you as an individual and what's happening in your life.
- Mentorship
Knowledge shared can improve our lives, so your Mentorship can assist you to check those blind spots that can impact you to get to the next level.
Where can you get career motivation?
As mentioned above our motivation can come from various avenues of circumstances or thoughts, you have to check this approach which can add to your motivation:
- Books
What kind of books are you reading?
- Article
What kind of articles are you reading?
- Experts
Who are those experts you rely on for answers?
- Internet blogs
Which BlogSpot are you reading?
- Radios
What Channels are you listening to?
- Social media
What kind of social networks are you using?
Why learning about career support matters?
The rule of thumb here is to keep your attitude positive, and be willing to ask for help because most of us end up becoming confused and blocked by circumstances which we can overcome by learning to ask for help, when you want to extend your support on your career you have to check the following:
- Options
Is that particular support available for you to ask for?
- Opportunity
Is there any opportunity you want to grab but require support?
- Empowerment
How and what kind of learning do you require from that particular support?
- Resources allocations
What kind of resources are you seeking from that particular support?
- Learning curves
What do you want to learn about that support and why?
We all have to pay attention to what kind of support we need for our Careers because sometimes there's Help outside there, all is needed is to draft a plan and seek that particular solution we want.
Can lack motivation destroy your career?
The inability to check out hopes and dreams by reviewing our motivation can destroy our careers because as individuals we work with active faith which always creates our realities, you can check the following subjects which can increase our inabilities to check our motivation:
- Lack of growth
Check how far are you progressing?
- Jealously
Check your emotion about the success of others?
- Criticism
Review your complaints and check what you blame oftentimes and why?
- Failing goals
Review why are you Failing to achieve your goals and what can you do?
- Obsolete careers
Check your career industry if there's any technology that is affecting your section by destroying jobs by turning them into Automation?
Success and Wealth
Title description : 17 May 2021
Why progress is power?
Progress is a proof of results which makes us know how far have we come in this life, we all need to progress either we are going to fail or succeed, but progress remains one important area that can increase our happiness or decrease our confidence, so we have to check the following components which help us to understand what kind of power is does our progress brings into our lives:
- Confidence
When achieve we add new additional power to increase our confidence
- Contribution
How we progress can determine how can we contribute to others and ourselves
- Options
We feel confident once we can choose our options which can add progress to our lives
- Freedom
The ability to choose what we want and become progressive can extend our freedom and happiness.
- Achievements
To progress, it means we are adding new success to our Achievements list and this can help us to determine which power we have as individuals.
Building progress for yourself is it a must?
As pointed out above you have to check what kind of progress is in your life and what power it means to you because to build your progress you have to check the following:
- Actions
- Goal's
- Experience
- Knowledge
- Careers Type
Why progress can build confidence?
Whenever we are progressing we can become happy and healthy, and our confidence can increase because when we attain certain Achievements we can open new possibilities within ourselves which can help us to become more confident, you can check the following:
- Adventure
- Healthy environment
- Medical checkups
- Less stress
- Diet
Can progress comes from inaction?
Progress has two types :
- Negative progress
- Positive progress
If you keep on procrastinating you will end up becoming unsuccessful because some of our goals and plans require us to take massive or small actions constantly, you have to check the following:
- Procrastination
- Fears
- Doubts
- Indecision
- Mistakes
Why we don't progress?
From a Career point of view, these are key reasons why we end up not achieving our goals, plans, or getting employment:
- Wrong Goal's
- New Technologies
- Wrong careers
- Corruption
- Nepotism
Health and Life
Title description : 16 May 2021
Why regrets are so expensive?
Regret can tell us what we have done or not, they are contributing reasons why we end up regretting in life, and it takes time to review what kind of regrets we have and what has created them because all regrets are common in one thing, which is a memory which you hold about that particular situation, that's why we can know what do we regret, but oftentimes we don't dig deeper to ask ourselves how can we remedy this regrets, this is some valid reasons why regrets are so expensive:
- Lying to ourselves
- Failing to forgive ourselves
- Losing the ones we love
- Unable to get back the hands of time
- Constant worry
- Peer pressure hook
- Addicted to drugs and alcohol
- Marrying people who we don't love
- Pursuing wrong careers
- Living according to others' opinions
- Cheating to our loved ones
- Not being honest
- Calling ourselves names
- Not pursuing our goals and talents
- Competing with others
- Repeating the same mistakes
- Forgetting about our dreams
- Not respecting Time
- Financial mismanagement
- Praying during the hard times & Not taking our health seriously
The list is endless but we should review it and see which category we fall into and why, because everyone has his or her Regrets.
Can poor health increase our regrets?
Poor health is an ongoing challenging matter which includes many of us because we cannot perform to our best abilities and this can impact us and others who are around us, poor health is created by many factors, such as poor environment, financial problems, poor living conditions, government corruption, poor education, shortage of food supply, poor health infrastructure, paying gaps , raising numbers of unemployment, crime and alcohol abuse, you have learned from the listed factors how this our regrets can be built by some external circumstances which some we don't have control from over them, that's why we have pointed that not everyone enjoys bad health because this requires more attention and more money that's why health education should become a requirement for every child or any adult to learn because later on our lives we end up covered by piles of regrets which some we have the power to deal with them and improve our lives.
Why do we regret it after we are old?
Previous talks have noted the importance of Understanding how Ageing plays an important role in our overall general human growth, but here comes another challenging impactful issue that affects most of us and we have to investigate how and why we regret age, here are some continuous contributing factors we should consider:
- Regrets are based on age
- When we age we gain experience
- It takes time to reflect on what we have done with our lives
- We are story collectors, so when we regret we focus on the bad stories we have collected
- Once we age we care more about what others will say at our funeral
- Regrets can reveal how we spend our time during our times
- Regrets show us our lifetime mistakes
- Aging can reveal our efforts and sacrifice in our lives
- We regret because we didn't achieve what we want
We've delved into this subject of regrets, yet there's something we have to tell you... In our obituary non of our Failures are documented even our Regrets. This shows us that we should strive for Reducing our Regrets as much as we can because time is not guaranteed, today we are healthy tomorrow we are sick and after tomorrow we are dying, so it's better to minimize your regrets and focus on your goals and plans and always be kind and own up your happiness.
Why do regrets reveal our inactions?
We have learned how our inactions in life increase our most day-to-day problems, yet we have to caution you to take your life very seriously, because if you can look around you, most individuals have piles of regrets standing on their way to success, and some have even given up on what they want to achieve because we have this tendency to hide our shortcomings and problems, that's why we end up not getting any help when we have chances to improve our lives, we should devote all our efforts to do so, because what is regret without Inaction? We mostly regret because we did something or failed to do it, that's why Inaction can reveal what you will regret about your life, later on, that's why we recommend you take this personal accountability to review your daily activities and see how they are contributing on your life happiness or Regrets.
Can doubts lead to regrets?
Doubts, Inactions, all are similar with one thing which is waiting, and we have adviced you to understand that your Actions are mostly the creator's of your results, when we allow Doubts to take over our lives, we end up seating down and regreting how life is bad on us , because when we don't understand how Doubts delays us to become progressive, then we are trapped by this monster which is called regrets, because when we doubt it doesn't mean we should avoid taking action, we have to review our goals and double check what kind of risks and regrets comes along with what we are trying to pursue, because oftentimes during our adulthood stages we notice how we failed to take action and keep ourselves less regreting and more happy, that's why your ability to sit down and explore this topic you will gain insight which can change your life and help you to minimize your life regrets, because when we judge our doubts, we should even check what kind of regrets are attached to that particular doubt and what we want to achieve, because once we pay attention to details then we can overcome most problematic situation of our lives.
Happiness and Peace
Title description : 15 May 2021
Why happiness is all about Acceptance?
How many times should we ignore that what we resist, always persists?
Many of us don't like to accept the truth that happiness is self-made and it's based on our choices, we should remember that what we accept ends us becoming our day-to-day reality, how many people have accepted unhappy life?
Most of us fail to review what we accept because it takes time and effort to understand what do you accept into our lives and what not, because Acceptance can teach us something about our choices, goals, and plans, we have this responsibility to face what we accept and why because our happiness will be created from what we always accept to happen to us as individuals.
Can gratitude increase love?
When we are grateful we are at peace, so you as an individual can start this activity:
- Learnt to count your blessings every day
Most of us forget to love because we are always chasing material possessions which of them increase our suffering, those who can be grateful always find ways to Understand how love plays a role in what we have and what not, to quote from the book of wisdom, be thankful about what you have, love your sister and your brother, how many of us we fail to review what we love?
We sometimes take Love for granted that's why when we become unhappy we become miserable and confused because indeed Love can reveal our gratitude some of us fail to be thankful for what we have because we are in constant searching for more, that's why those who can be grateful of what they have they can Love what they have.
How happiness restores hopes?
Happiness is part of hope, you can review this subject in your day-to-day routines, when you don't have hope are you happy?
No, because hope works with happiness, regardless of what you are facing your hopes can tell you about your happiness and freedom, remember hopes always keep us connected to possibilities and opportunities, that's why we should check out hopes and evaluate how hopeful are we and what is it that is trapping us to use our hopes for what we want, hope plays an important role when it comes to our general well being and our happiness that's why we should safeguard our hopes by taking care of our thoughts, applying actions on our plans because your hopes make sense once you start to see Achievements and results for what you're hoping for.
What's the difference between gratitude and Hope?
The difference between hope and gratitude is this:
- Hope is what you foresee for your future or reality plans
- Gratitude is an expression of appreciation for something
We cannot hope for anything, we cannot be grateful for anything, everything we have or want has its benefits that's why we are always searching for better ways to improve our lives, that's why hope is part of life and to remain grateful is only reserved for few people because sometimes circumstances can challenge us to forget what we should be grateful for and what hopes guides us as individuals, we can either choose to hopeful or grateful, the only choice is to choose what we want and how are we acting to get it.
Why do we lack acceptance?
We don't lack Acceptance we lack how to use Acceptance, many of us don't use Acceptance we use ignorance, and that's why we end up becoming miserable, so remember not everyone can forgive as stated previously, because we don't accept that life is unfair and we should embrace this notion that life is temporary and we have to accept that some things are beyond our control and limitations, that's why some of the people can fail year after year without taking lessons because we Structure our lives based on resistance not on Acceptance, we ignore to accept that's why we are not happy, to be happy you should accept what makes you unhappy and do something about it or else you will struggle to find the meaning of what you want and what is standing on your way to happiness.
Culture and Religion
Title description : 14 May 2021
Can food Change us?
We are changed by our thoughts, and sometimes the food we eat can impact how we see changes in our lives, that's why we should always be careful about what we eat because this can change our brain chemistry, you need to check the following components:
- Weight
Most of us don't struggle with food, we struggle to maintain our weight because in most cases we eat too much and exercise less, that's why obesity is taking over within our societies, we should seek a better understanding of why are we eating too much and what options can be used to reduce our weights because the reality of life is that we all want to be healthy, the problem we don't pay attention on basics health rules, your weight can change you and how you do things that are you have to be careful about your body weight.
- Habits
All of us human beings are controlled by habits, either good or bad, that's why your Habits can help you to change your life for good terms or bad scenarios, habits are our guiding principles which direct our behaviors that's why some people don't know what's happening when they start to default from good habits to bad ones, it's all about your habits and how you use them.
Everyone has his or her attitude, that's why sometimes how we handle matters of our daily business can be based on good or nagative Attitude and we have to check how our days are affected by these kinds of Attitudes we are using constantly.
- Stamina
Your ability to choose good food can increase your stamina, that's why food is medicine and can increase our energy.
- Character
What you eat can shape your body, and it's very important to pay attention to those small changes you see and reflect on which kind of foods influence those changes because sometimes we eat and eat only to realize we have damaged our bodies, and it will take time to recover from those damages.
- Sex
What you eat can affect your sexual performance, bad food means Poor performance, we have to eat healthy if we want to have good sexual performance.
- Moods
Food can help us to know which type of moods are influenced by what we eat, some people have allergies, headaches, and other related health issues, and their moods can be guided by what they are eating, moods are like buttons you have to feed them before they can take place.
- Believes: vegetarian
Sometimes we have these different types of beliefs which as individuals and what we should eat, that's why your beliefs about what you eat can be personal, as some people don't eat pig and others don't eat meat, so check this changes because they can affect you.
Why does food heal us?
Our forefathers have left us with this knowledge, that food is medicine, what you eat can either heal you or destroy you, that's why in some countries, some people live longer and in others, they die sooner, these are guiding facts which we have to pay attention too:
- Healing
What kind of food heals you?
- Growth
What levels of growth can you notice from what you have ?
- Power
What kind of powers do you get from that food?
- Exercising
What kind of foods aligns with your exercise routines?
- Believe
What are your beliefs about certain foods you should eat or avoid?
Can food help us to think independently or accurately?
Foods are essential Components for helping us to think better, those who don't eat healthily, often struggle with thinking accurately, because thinking is hard work and you need body vitamins which can help you support yourself so your energy doesn't get depleted once you perform your daily thinking sessions, you can begin to check the following:
- Moods
What kind of moods control your attention?
- Thoughts
What kind of thoughts repeat themselves every day in your mindset?
- Actions
What kind of actions do you take after eating certain foods?
- Performance
How do you perform after you have eaten certain foods?
- Relaxations
How relaxed are you after eating certain foods?
How we think is based on what we eat and what levels of knowledge we are gathering, and storing.
Why food builds our Habits?
This question is broader we have covered it our some of our Books, but we can summarize some key elements so you can have a basic understanding of why food creates our Habits:
- Habits cycles
Most of us eat based on intervals, we have programmed our subconscious mind to perform certain commands for us, that's why some people can eat once in a day while others can eat Many times, so our habits are based on what repeats oftentimes, that's why some of us we don't bother when it's time to sleep or brush our teeth, this happens automatically because our subconscious mind is performing those duties for us.
- Diet
What you know about diet can help you or increase your stress that's why diet is one of the new searched questions on many internet search engines, because we have pointed out earlier on that Obesity is Challenging most of our individuals.
- Health
Our health is regulated by what we eat and what we think.
- Knowledge
Your education about food can help you to choose better food to eat.
- Time
How you time your eating habits can assist you to set a dieting schedule for yourself.
Why food is life's Priority?
Food is medicine, we are forced by nature to eat because our basic human need is food and shelter, that's why food is one of the most sold Products in all walks of life, this factor makes us strive to find Food:
- Thinking
- Performance
- Growth
- Stamina
- Survival
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 13 May 2021
The power of Sympathy?
Life is a process of understanding how we love ourselves and others, when we start to learn how to use our innate power which is sympathy, we can see this type of powers taking process in our lives:
- Love
When we put ourselves into someone else's shoes, that's where we can learn how we are not supposed to judge others and we should accept them as they are because one of the greatest human Responsibilities is to love not to judge, that's why love has no colors, we all require this marvelous Power which is Love.
- Care
We can because we are human beings, that's why once the caring part of out of line we can see people becoming monsters, to each other, and once we start to learn to care for one another love and care will increase within our lives.
- Sacrifices
When we are Sympathetic we can go an extra mile for ourselves and others, that's why we are guided by Many circumstances do pay attention to what we sacrifice, because those Efforts we put in can tell us something about how Sympathetic are we as individuals.
- Honesty
The entrance of sympathy is to become honest with yourself before you can Judge yourself because when we are honest we can design a peaceful life for our lives.
- Commitments
Once we are concerned about our sympathy we can arrange our Commitments according to schedules which can help us deal with what makes us feel better and learn how to be grateful every day.
- Gratitude
No one can become sympathetic without being grateful for something, that's why what we are grateful for can elevate us to the higher power which is Love.
- Forgiveness
We Forgive for different reasons, and this can tell us how Sympathetic are we to ourselves because life is a process of understanding how to love and Forgive along the journey.
- Happiness
When we understand how to exercise our sympathy, happiness takes place in our lives, that's why we have emphasized the importance of being grateful for your life.
- Peace
Peace is only expensive if you are not grateful for your life because it takes basic Steps to build a peaceful life.
- Prayer
When we are connected to love, our prayers can tell us what we are Sympathetic about and how we want God to help those who require his mercy that's why Prayer is a connector of possibilities.
Can love be happiness?
Love cannot be happiness, love is what we do, and happiness is what we wish to feel constantly, yet some people have different versions of understanding this subject, that's why how you love can be guided by these factors:
- Attitude
Your love and happiness all revolve around how your attitude is Structured daily, because most of us don't take time to evaluate how we use our Attitudes for what we want to feel and get results from.
- Trust
If you keep on paying attention to how your happiness functions, then you can see how your love can design your happiness, trust is the huge determining factor for what we want in our lives, if you trust yourself that you can make Your life a happy journey then the universe will help you to attain that goal.
- Hope
All efforts and actions can be judged by how hopeful are we as individuals because when love and happiness come together they create Hope.
- Forgiveness
If you can remember this fact, your life will change, when you Forgive you heal yourself, when you want to love and happiness you should practice forgiveness because what is hurting you can prevent you from being happy and Loving.
Why care is all about joy?
As human beings we have this innate desire to see our lives covered by joy and Love, yet we don't take time to review or investigate what makes life to be joyful, we spend our time searching for things that don't even align with our values and purposes, that's why we have to check this subject of joy matching these elements:
- Desires
What we desire can tell us what kind of joy we have or want out of this life, our desires are somehow based on what we wish to happen to us and what kind of habits are driving us as individuals.
- Value
We have emphasized this statement, your values should align with what makes you joyful because it's very easy to lose your dreams because your values are not Structured accurately, if you want a happy life, you should do things that make you happy that's a fact and many of us we don't want to embrace this truth.
- Purpose
How you perform your daily activities can reveal your purpose or can teach you something about what kind of purpose is missing in your life, because joy comes once we begin to execute our purpose.
- Pride
Joy gives us pride and confidence, that's why once we are joyful we can exercise our capacity to care and be happy.
- Passion
Once you start to connect the dots mentioned above you will see that sometimes we make our lives to become difficult, by not checking what makes us happy and what we should stop doing, your passion is what will create yourself happiness.
- Progress
To be happy you should Progress on your purpose because life is can reflect your meaning Once you pay attention to your progress and what levels of contributions are you exercising.
Why care is power?
Recently we have mentioned 10 creators of sympathy, now it's time to get into what makes care to be an element of Power, we have to remember these key factors:
- Understanding
When we care we understand because this subject of care always works with how we understand ourselves and others, because if we care we should always suspend our judgments, and be willing to put ourselves into someone else's shoes. Too many of us lose our understanding of care because we come from families and communities which don't care, that's why the subject of care is rare on many occasions of our lives. We have to understand before we can love because sometimes we learn later that we didn't understand what was the purpose of our lives by not checking what led us to become who we are today.
- Connection
As discussed love and care connects humanity, so the reason why care is power is that we are connected as individuals, when someone feels pain we can feel it too, that's why we have Caution you to start to check how you understand Care in the level of your life because you can learn to connect dots which have impacted your life to feel as though care is reserved for certain individuals, not you.
- Learning
When we care we open our mindset to learning that's why we have to review how caring are we, because we have to learn what makes us caring and what stand in our ways to become caring individuals, we understand they are some people who take advantage for your ability for caring and sabotage our care by criticizing you, and name you as a better individual.
- Language
How we share our words can affect how the message is received by others, that's why we have to pay attention to what kind of language we use for ourselves and others, caring language is mandatory for a good life because it will create peace
- Trust
When do we care we can see how to trust, because what is trust without care?
Nothing indeed, that's why we have to take care of what we Trust as individuals.
When is time to trust?
This question reminds us of the book of wisdom, whereby the Wiseman talked about the importance of understanding time: let's go ahead and add this input about learning which time can we start to trust
- Dependency
There's time to defend and there's time to become responsible.
- Define
There's time to define what you are trusting and there's time to accept you no longer trust.
- Discipline
There's time to become a discipline, there's time to become distracted
- Decision
There's time to make sound decisions, there's time to become indecisive.
- Detail
There's time to pay attention to details, there's time to miss the details
- Determination
There's time to become focused, there's time to lose focus.
You will decide for yourself when is the right time to trust because circumstances can differ and we don't want to provide you with assumptions, your heart, and your situation will tell when you are ready to trust, but please take those 5 key elements of trust into investigation before you trust.
Startup Business
Title description : 12 May 2021
Why selling is power?
Sells can tell us what's happening inside and outside our business, because the purpose of most Businesses is to pursue profit, and the greatest power of some Businesses is to pay salaries, that's why if the business doesn't sell according to the plan margins, then this can affect the entire business structures because slow sales mean job restructuring, so this is some of the powers which sales have:
- Advertising
How many Ad's do we see every, approximately 100 to 1000 it depends on your internet usage, we have been now conditioned to pay attention to something new every day, that's why Advertising is Power and most salespeople have this ability to trigger our imaginations so they can sell us something, you can check how big brands use their sales techniques, they advertise on Tv during the evening, timeframe because all families are at home, that's why we have said sales is power and advertising increase this Power, every day we see new Advertisements left and right.
- Negotiations
When we are sold something, we can negotiate with the seller before we can buy, because selling is a process of sharing Communication which leads both parties to exchange something, that's why Permission Marketing is key on some levels because some people require more manipulation before they can buy something that's why branding can help us to deal with such matters, why because most customer trust Appearance.
- Networking
We can exchange contacts and get referrals once we have built relationships with our prospects, because networking can increase our sales pipelines, and can even lead us to potential investors and stakeholders, networking matters.
Can sells develop business opportunities?
Yes most the growth creates opportunities for most businesses, that's why we can judge a business but its ability to maintain sales pipelines because if not then the rest of the business is at risk of not profiting, that's why if opportunities are created by sales it means every sales matter because it creates growth for your business, this is some of the key features which can create opportunities for your business to analyze and multiply sales:
- Profit
Cash is King, that's why most investors often pay attention to your sales profile before they can start to look at your business at some level because your profitability says a lot about how you conduct your business, what capabilities you have, and what actions are you taking within your market.
- Management
How you handle your profit can either destroy or grow your business, because what investors can look even further is how you handle your financial process and how you keep their money safe as agreed on those agreements you have signed with them, management of profit is a broader subject and it's oftentimes.
- Jobs
The level of how many jobs your company can create can give investors a perspective on how your business is growing and what kind of resources require investment because jobs can reveal how you are performing on your business sales and how much each employee is paid.
Why Investment are attracted by sales?
From the Investment point of view, every investor is looking to invest in a business that is growing and Provides dividends for him, because the purpose of investment is to make money from your business, that's why it's very difficult to attract some investors if your business is not growing, the most important aspects most investor look at any business are this:
- Traction
Traction is something that makes most Startups never get any investments, because if the business is not having a track record of viable sales pipelines then it becomes hard to invest in, that's why we have to remember investors check the numbers, not opinions that's why your numbers can accelerate your investment attraction.
- Opportunities
If your business is an opportunity Zone, most investors will come to you, that's why your capacity to create something which helps customers is paramount to making your Business attractive and preferred by those individuals who won't lend you any help.
- Skills and talents
The types of skills you have can reveal your capacity to create opportunities.
Why Sales teams matter?
This topic of why sales teams matter we have covered in our Segments called One SME Talks, we have to take this lessons into account, because if your sales teams are not selling as required this can impact your business and even frustrate your investors, that's why training and good selection should be a priority when you recruit any new salesperson to join your team, this subjects matters, so check this :
- Profit
How you Profit lies on what your team can sell that's why you have to be careful about your sales teams and train them so they can sell your products or services accordingly.
- Management
The level of discipline and focus is very important to any Startup management team because if teams cannot execute tasks and plans as planned then failure is guaranteed.
- Skills
How you select skills or create them can either benefit or destroy your startup business
- Presentation
How your Sales teams present themselves to your customers' matters because wrong impressions can lead you to fail to get appropriate sales pipelines.
- Personality
Checking which characters fit your sales types can help you to understand who can sell to whom and what.
Why sales reveal your business Strength?
As pointed out earlier, if the business doesn't sell, it means it will close soon or later because sales pay the business expenses and salaries for staff members, that's why your Capacity to generate Profit can indeed reveal your business strength, because it will take accurate analysis to get your business strength packaged in a way that you just automate your process and get results, so these elements can determine your business strength and you have to take them into the task:
- Performance
- Innovation
- Progress
Career and Work
Title description: 11 May 2021
How to deal with your career expansion?
Every career has its level of expansion, we have to check how this growth takes place and why but these are key components of our Career growth:
- Networking
When we add new contacts to our lives, we end up adding new growth, that's why earlier on we have Caution you to pay attention to who you spend time with and What kind of results are you getting from that particular relationship.
- Industry Research
It's very important to review how your industry trends will affect your career, on the Segment we have talked about the importance of understanding how these new technological advances will Change our career and we have guided you to an extent whereby you can judge if your career is at risk of becoming obsolete or growing, revisit those lists we have shared so you can conduct your research about your career industry.
- Mentorship
We have to have Mentored, when we are becoming pursuing our success, why because most of us don't know how to manage success, that's why our mentors can help us see those red flags which can impact our career and they can even help us to check if we the career is growing or declining and again they can provide us with tools to expand our career growth.
- Goal setting
When we have goals, we have set a direction point for our lives and careers, that's why we have mentioned the power of Understanding what you are doing with your time daily.
- Self-reflection
When our Careers are progressing is very important to pay attention towards what was the aim of pursuing that particular career and what kind of results are we getting, because failure to conduct self-reflection, we won't be able to deal with our career growth
- Decisions checklist
Let's make this stick to you, if you don't check your Decision you will not know what is happening in your life, that's why when your career is growing you need to check your decisions.
Why career growth is important?
Once we begin to move from one step to another we can be happy because progress is another factor that can contribute to our happiness and freedom, you can check these Components which can extend our career growth:
- Achievements
Everyone has this innate desire to see his or her own life becoming successful, that's why we often celebrate Achievements
- Results
Growth can tell us about those particular results we are obtaining from our careers, that's why we have to emphasize the importance of paying close attention to details.
- Respect
When we achieve, we can restore our self-respect and even get honor from others, that's why your career growth is important and you should make it your priority.
- Progress
Once we reach our career growth, what will often come to our Attention is progress, and this has to be taken very seriously because progress is a weapon, it depends on how you use it.
- Contribution
We can give something once we grow from one area to another, that's why we seek growth as individuals.
Why growth can destroy Skills if not managed properly?
How many people realize later that they used to have careers that could have taken them into higher avenues of success?
Many of us have to learn these lessons, such as the following:
- Indecision
If we fail to decide we have lost power in our independent thinking, that's why if you don't manage your decision, someone will do it for you and this can destroy your Career.
- Procrastination
Whenever we don't take our talents very seriously, we end up blaming and waiting for things to happen to us whenever we should take personal accountability to pursue our goals.
- Bad habits
Only those who have this Experience at hand can confirm how bad habits can destroy our careers, check how many people lose their jobs due to bad habits and it's very important to seek professional help to address those habits which can destroy your career
- Overspending
The first rule about money, spend according to your earnings, overspending is easy but paying it back is more challenging, most of us don't understand financial techniques to lead us to success that's why we end up becoming broke while having greater careers.
- Fear of failure
You can fear but in the end, you should provide results, that's why you should make sure you break your fears into chunk's so you can do something about them.
Can career growth be a must ?
Types of growth
External growth includes the following:
- Choice's
We have Choices to choose what we want out of this life
- Changes
We are required to change our lives anytime, there are no restrictions to change your life but there's time to make those changes to take place
- Chances
Opportunities only favor those who take action, that's why our careers are within our control to see if we want to expand them or neglect growth within that particular sector Internal growth includes the following :
- Natural
All mankind is should comply with growth, whether you take action or not you are required to grow within your area of goals or wishes, that's why success proves you are doing well and failure can reveal that you are still learning to put all your pieces together.
- Voluntary
We can take this practical example when we make our minds to seek Growth, it's going to be our thoughts and personal responsibility, sacrifices, and actions which in the end will count if we have grown as planned
Why we fail to understand career Growth?
As discussed we don't fail by chance we fail because we have missed the details and steps, so many of us like to use Methods that we don't understand and question that's why it's so difficult to deal with our failures because the creation of those failures is treated privately, let's check some of the key elements of why we fail to understand growth:
- Knowledge base
You have to pay attention to what kind of knowledge you have because most of us don't bother to check this approach, that's why we often fail in what we are pursuing because knowledge can tell us what we know and what type of actions are we taking from that particular knowledge base, as discussed on our book called Goal's toolbox why Goals Fail And What To Do, we have given an analogy about how engineers Structure and break down what they know to perform certain project activities, your knowledge level should be checked if you want to succeed.
- Skills
How many people have skills which don't even add value to their bank account?
We are living under unprecedented times whereby we add more skills to our lives and do nothing about them, that's why we fail to see growth in our lives, skills are not obtained to be shelved, they are obtained to help you to add value to your life, that's why we have to question the value and the capacity of those Skills we have.
- Ignorances
Excuses are cheaper and easier to be performed, but we have this mandate to improve our lives, so we have to look at what kind of self-ignorance is driving us as individuals because sometimes we fail to get into better stages of our lives, because we don't check what are we ignorant and why.
- Distractions
Being distracted is a new commodity yet it doesn't pay most of us in the end, that's why to Grow within our careers we have to focus and remove those distractions which stand in our way to achievement.
- Competitions
Don't compete if you don't know why you are Competing. After all, when we live our lives based on Competition we end up not understanding which part of our lives requires us to grow, that's why we fail to deal with Growth because we are chasing the wrong things.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 10 May 2021
Can accountability develop strength?
Accountability is a Discipline force that should be taken very seriously, because, how many of us fail to pursue our goals in the name of not holding ourselves accountable to do what we have planned to do, our very own strength and capabilities mostly can be unleashed by making sure we hold ourselves accountable towards what we want, the only entry to success is to focus and be accountable to your plans because when we understand how to utilize our Accountability, we can employ our strength on what is right on our goals and plans, accountability means taking self-responsibility on what you want to achieve and remember if you are not careful about your plans you will end up regretting about what you failed to do while time was available to you as an individual when we do what we have planned to do we can minimize failures and errors.
Can success teach us about commitment?
These are basic elements that can enhance us to review our Commitments to the success we are pursuing:
- Results
When we commit to the journey of success what can motivate us to attain those small wins and celebrate them, because what we often commit our minds to, can design our lives.
- Growth
When we commit to expanding, either we focus on a problem or solution, we should remember the rule, what we focus on grows, and when we commit ourselves to do what we have planned, then we shall receive the results.
- Achievements
How has not seen this reality... Those who devote Attention to something end up mastering it, so like your constant commitment to what you want, this can amplify your Achievements, we should remember that all our achievements require us to put some work before we can celebrate them.
- Progress
We only attain progress if we take action, and we should refrain from this notion of thinking that achievements have shortcuts, when we are committed we can see what is working and what is not.
- Memories
Who doesn't want to cherish his or her achievements? Those who don't progress won't have good memories, that's why you push your agenda to completion so you can attain those planned memories you want to cherish someday.
- Experience
When you are committed you can gain experience on what is working for you and what you should remove from your plans, and it's very important to check what your plans require, especially on the level of knowledge and experience.
- Networking
We can commit to what we want because of those people who we associate with, some people can increase success in your life and others can decrease it, so you better check which category is your life in and how are you committed to that particular network.
- Power
Achievements can increase our confidence and powers because when we don't achieve we turn to become vulnerable and miserable, that's why you should Commit to success so you can be able to exercise your powers.
- Influence
Success can influence success, failure can increase awareness of lessons, so to better check which type of influence is running your success, because sometimes we can be influenced by things which don't align with our values and plans, so check which kind of influence are you committed to and Why.
- Creativity
When we commit to something for a long time, we end up unlocking our Creativity to master, you can check how gamers master this advantage, they make sure they Practice and make sure they follow up with steps to pass one stage to another, that's why the rule of life is to make sure you complete your tasks as you have planned them because this can give you the ability to judge the level of your Creativity on each task you take.
- Curiosity
When we are curious, we have to open our mindset towards the possibilities, that's why you should maintain good Focus on what you are doing and see what makes you curious and how are you attending that particular situation which makes you committed to that curiosity you have as an individual.
What's the difference between commitment and focus?
This is the difference between commitment and focus:
- Focus
- Attention
- Concentration
- Concerns
- Control
- Confirm
- Commitment
- Discipline
- Attitude
- Determination
- Desires
- Dreams
We have packed the list to 5 by 5 so you can review which end fits your conclusions.
Should we be committed to the success?
Yes, because these are key reasons why we are obligated to commit to success
- Goal's achievements
Who doesn't want to see his or her dreams hitting the levels of success?
No one, so your ability to make sure you take action every day can increase your Achievements step by step.
- Contribution
Success makes us contribute to something and this makes us happy, that's why we have this need to become successful, so we can contribute something to this earth.
- Options
When we are successful in our dreams, we are covered by options to do what we want and go where we have to go, but lack of success can limit your options to explore life because you will be grinding for someone else whenever your Dreams are on hold, that's why your remember you dreams, either your an employee or an employer.
- Power balance
Success is a weapon, that's why we should attain it to shield ourselves from our enemies and life potential threats, when we have the power we are fearless.
- Sense of Relevance
Success restores our dignity and strength to the levels which we want, that's why we have this tendency to respect Successful People more than those who are not successful because progress counts in life and we have to remember that to stay relevant in our success is to keep on measuring what we do so we can check the results are obtaining.
- Respect
We have this tendency to respect Success, not people, so you should understand these differences because some people can like your success not you, that's why once to fall they laugh at you.
- Responsibilities
We turn to take full Responsibility once we have Success on our side because Success gives us the ability to handle things, that's why once we are not able to fulfill our responsibilities we end up becoming worried and depressed.
- Attainments
When we Achieve we can ignite the right mindset to do more, that's why achievements are so important to human beings.
- Stability
Once you are successful you can be stable on some elements which you have struggled with during those adversary periods of your life.
- Support
We can support our dreams and others once we have attained Success, we can even support the growth of our Dreams.
Why do we fail to master consistency?
These are underlying reasons why we fail to master consistency:
- Doubts
We doubt it because we don't have accurate answers.
- Wrong skills
The payment of wrong Skills is an empty bank account, so if you don't have relevant skills you better find ways to get them
- No targets
A man with no direction is a lost man, when we don't understand where we are going or what we what to achieve we end up becoming failures who have not even tried.
- Poor planning
Check how your plan is giving you require results and review it if it's the best plan or a faulty plan.
- Overthinking
You cannot be consistent if you keep on thinking too much and acting less.
- More options
Too many options require Strategies so you can deal with your plans because consistency is based on the ranking of which option fits your action plan and why.
- Procrastination
All masters can Procrastinate but they took action, but when it comes to the consistency you have to maintain your pace by applying your small actions regardless of what is happening.
- Complex knowledge
No one can achieve if he uses what is called complex knowledge, this is reserved for experts who specialize in those respective fields of knowledge, so you to make sure you use your consistency accurate check the level of your knowledge level.
- Changing directions of our goals
You can change your goals, but don't blame anyone if you don't succeed in what you want, remember changes are easy but maintenance of them is so costly and Challenging.
- Recurring failures
Your failures can tell you about your progress and the resistance you are facing
- Criticism
You cannot criticize and sit and do nothing, you better fail not to blame without not trying.
- Distractions
You can choose your attention direction, either you are powerless or have control over it.
- Poor health
Your potential success is linked to your health that's why you should take your health status seriously.
- Poor time management
If you spend your time carelessly don't blame anyone when Misery covers your life
- Failing to check what's Working
Not measuring our progress and process
Progress reports our goals and plans Results.
Health and Life
Title description: 09 May 2021
Why age comes with experience?
Experience has its own Advantages, when we age we have gathered sufficient information to share with the upcoming younger ones, our health is part of age , why because they are some diseases and health issues which comes along with our aging , when experience is collected during our lifetime, some refer it as wisdom, because experience is a summary of learned lessons which are valuable to be shared with others, so they can reduce mistakes and have a good path on in their journey, as you have noted , ageing is biological and we don't decide when to age , this activity just happen natural, and we should remember how Experience plays an important role to extend or exchange information from one generation to another, today we are were we are because of those people who have stored knowledge and passed it to us , that's why once someone is referred as experienced, there's is something which is valuable and important, when age hit us we end up becoming memories on our way to the graves, that's why what we know we should use it because time will pass by and we have to reflect one day how did we spend our lives.
Can health growth be avoided?
Growth is Power, no one ever can avoid biological growth, we are all subjected to comply with this law, when we age we don't see until we either look at the mirror or being told by others that we are aging, we cannot pass this life stages without using growth, because the most important aspects about growth are this:
- Growth is infinite
- Growth is an advantage
- Growth is resemble powers
- Growth forces us to be creative
- Growth protect us
- Growth helps us to gather experience
- Growth leads us to our results
- Growth is what determines progress
- Growth doesn't discriminate
- Growth is natural
We are protected by our bodies and minds, as we grow we become more protective of our tribes because when we are younger we are more vulnerable, we become creative once we begin to grow because we can take action for ourselves.
Those who accept that growth is always happening can find ways to expand their growth avenues, some scientists today are working on medications that can help us to slow our aging, but we have a long way to prevent nature to take its cause.
Why worry is an action?
Worry is power , because you cannot worry without knowing what makes you worried , most of us we don't understand how worry waste or improves our attention to details , when we worry we turn out to be doubting and angry and it's very important to accept that mankind will worry but what matters is to seek solutions on how to remove that particular worry, we have touched the subject of mindset, but we still have a long journey to help you to understand your mental functions, because we are not taught about worry and how it impact us as individuals, we worry constantly and we don't appy solutions, what makes our worries is what we should investigate, because time is clicking, and we should not forget that when we worry and forget to do something about that particular worry we end up becoming miserable and nagative about life, we can worry and become powerless because there's this chemical reaction on our brians and this activity requires medical intervention, because without diagnostic approach, we can be swallowed by this worries,this are basic steps you shot appy in order to address your worries, remember is doesn't matter When your house is at fire, what counts is to save what you can:
- Why I am worrying
- What creates this worry
- How many times do I worry
- Which circumstances make me worry
- What can I do with this worry
Most of us won't bother to answer those questions because we like to entertain problems more than Solutions that's why our lives are miserable and in chaos', you are responsible to make that worry either destroy or benefit you, life doesn't deal with idleness you either going to deal with your worries or your worries will deal with you.
What's the best time to evaluate your actions ?
We have emphasized the importance of paying attention to details, why because our lives end up becoming miserable because we don't pay attention to what's happening, we focus too much on problems, remember what you focus on multiply time's it ends up growing when we focus on our vulnerabilities we end up becoming weaker, when we focus on our strength we become more powerful, everyone has this life obligation which is the ability to choose what kind of action he or she will take for his life because what we should check on our lives is how do we act, and why?
We cannot move ahead when Avoid understanding how we act and what influences us to take that particular action, day by day we are acting, as noted nature doesn't allow idleness, everyone is required to take action either you procrastinate or you take action, a the end of the day results are required, so when we allow our worries to take over our attention and awareness we end up dropping our goals and focusing on those worriers, remember your worries don't pay bill's, so check your actions by answering their questions;
- Which skills or experience does this action requires
- How does this action benefit me
- Why should I take that action
- Is this action aligned with my plans
- What kind of actions I am taking
- How I am spending time on this action
- When did it begin to notice this action
You are the one who knows how you spend your day and take action, we have covered this activity about Actions in our book called Goal's toolbox why Goals fail and what to do, we have listed the technique called 5 Minute Rule, and you will understand even more further about why some people are always ahead and why some don't know what's happening on their progress chats.
Why aging is stressful?
Who wants to age?
Only a few people Accept these facts because we don't decide for ourselves to avoid Ageing, it's a biological factor, and we are required to comply, many of us have forgotten that wrinkles and slow movement, and other related aging issues are part of our DNA codes, we have to understand that we can become stressful when we see ourselves aging because this is some of the reasons:
- We have more Regrets
- Aging reveals our results
- We didn't achieve what we want
- We judge ourselves based on the stage of growth
- We can see death when we see that we are aging
- We are not happy and healthy
- We have failed to speak the truth
- We didn't become who we wanted to be
- We spend our precious time on things that don't add value to our lives
- We are envious of the success and achievements of others
- We are the agents of the blame for how life is unfair
- We don't want to accept that life is based on death
This list can be extended to 100 inputs, but we have limited space to expand it to that level, what is important is to make sure you review how you accept how you are ageing because your body parts will change and your actions will even change while time goes by , and we should note this truth, stress is helpful for Awareness and we should check is our stress is healthy or lethal, because constant stress reflects dangers that's why you should not take your repetition for granted because they end up becoming your reality, people who think their lives are stressful, they get what they have asked for , remember when you plant an apple you will get an apple , what you put on your mind will become your reality, bad goes with bad , good goes with good , if your tired about your recurring stress ,so do something about it we have armed you with necessary tools to address your stress and worries, don't postpone do it now , your mindset can read this information and help you with suggestions to improve your life.
Happiness and Peace
Title description : 08 May 2021
Why forgiveness leads to peace?
Those who have learned about forgiveness they can confirm this:
- Peace of mind
Many of us don't know why peace is related to forgiveness, we assume that peace is something that comes from having what you want, only to realize that we should make peace with our past before we can access peace because it takes time to analyze which areas of your life requires forgiveness, the only way to identify how peaceful you are is is to review your pain points, because some wounds can change our minds and keep up into circles of traps, that's why those who can forgive they are always powerful because they can renew their hearts with love and new changes, remember when you don't forgive you are delaying your peace and happiness.
Why does happiness make us feel comfortable?
Comfort is what we are striving for most of us, even right now by perusing this text your are seeking level of conform in some areas of your life, and we should be honest about what type of comfort do we really want and why, because if your not careful about what you want and how it relates to the values, desires, goals, plans, aspirations and fantasies then you will struggle with comfortable life you want, remember you are the only person who can choose which area in your life requires comfort and how are you going to get it, most of us we don't pay attention on what makes us feel comfortable because we are always chasing things which are beyond our control, happiness can tell you about what kind of comfort you have for your life , you can check how happy you are and check what kind of comfort is your life at, and then you will understand why happiness increase our comfort, miserable people are not comfortable because they are covered with pain and worry that's why they are always looking for Comfortable life.
Who should teach mankind about forgiveness?
It has been documented from biblical content, that Mankind should practice forgiveness every day, why because if we don't forgive we should not complain when misery takes over our lives, all communities know this rule which states, forgive us for our sins, let's put this on biblical content, churches they are formed to united people with God so People can come and confess their sins, to be forgiven by God, so even on schools, jobs and other entities which helps human beings to learn they practice forgiveness and they teach it, so we should not assume that all people can forgive, because some of us we don't know how to forgive, we pretend when we say we have forgiven, if you are not aware of this tendency check when people start to fight, they reveal how you have wrong them and why they cannot Forgive you, some of this traditional Knowledge has destroyed us because we no longer practice forgiveness we practice pretending.
Why do we take a long time to forgive?
It's not about time alone, most of us are not taught about how to forgive, we are not taught how to love, we are not taught how to have sex, so who's to be blamed when we mankind go astray on what he supposed to do, forgiveness has been a problematic activity for most of us, we struggle to forgive each other and ourselves because we have this internal dialogue which always overcomes us, we take time to forget because we are always living our lives based on pain and anger, we need something which can help us to understand how to forgive and why we need to forgive, pain comes with droplets, like forgiveness, you should remember this statement, forgiveness is progressive, so most of us we don't understand how time plays a role when it comes to forgiving, we rush to forgive that's why we don't forget what are we supposed to forgive as individuals, most people don't forgive they just pretend.
Can forgiveness be trusted?
There's something about forgiveness that always goes unnoticed, the ability to confirm if the forgiveness is relevant, most of us don't trust each other that's why it's so difficult to forgive, how can you forgive whenever you struggle with trust issues?
You will always question yourself why you should forgive because some people can do wrong things to us and this can lead us to lose trust in them, that's why we sometimes don't trust people When they say sorry until they can prove with their actions that they are indeed sorry and we can grant them our forgiveness, some people have this tendency of doing wrong things and abuse this word called sorry, you should be vigilant about this attitude because most people are abused because they forgive too much and they are taken for a ride, so trust-based on actions, not words alone.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 07 May 2021, Religion and foods
Why food is medicine?
Good food heal us , bad food destroy us, every food we eat has its own consequences that's why when we eat we are either going to affect our overall general well being because what we eat has power and influence on our thinking because when we don't pay attention on our diets we end up losing Focus and eating bad food, doctors can tell us about what we should not eat but our choices should be checked because what we eat can decrease or increase our stamina, what we should take into consideration is this, we have the power to choose what we want and what not , eating is habitual , we all have this biases to always eat , but food is one of the reasons why we end up becoming health or sick, because most people we don't take food lessons into account and check what we eat everyday, because we are always in hurry to eat and we forget that food is medicine and every medication has its own consequences and sequence of intakes, so we have to understand this approach in order to make sure we remain healthy.
Can herbs be part of the culture?
Our ancestors have been using herbs, since we haven't gained knowledge that every herb is part of our healing process, we should get back to basics, because our ability to understand what kind of herbs should be used in our foods that's why some Cultures, prefer to use certain herbs.
Can we eat cultural food only?
What eat is based on Cultural practices, many of us don't know that our foods are created by Industrial Economies which control our tribes, certain countries, eat certain foods which represent their cultures that's why what we eat mostly is based on certain Cultural standards norms, and we have to research these following elements, where does this food come from and who has manufactured them because, some of our foods are mainly controlled by certain groups who impart their standards on us, and we have to understand that mankind is controlled by what he or she eats if people are influenced by the food we should be careful about what we eat because this shows that our thoughts and habits are Created, by what we eat.....
Why does food change our Attitude?
Thinking independently is part of what we eat and what kind of thoughts we entertain, Attitude can tell us how our moods function, check the following :
- Check what time are you eating
- Double-check how you feel after eating
Why do we eat too much?
They are different reasons why we eat too much, let's check the following:
- We eat for growth
- We eat for pleasure
- We eat based on what we can afford
- We eat because of habits
- We eat foods, we don't check
Marriage and Relationship
Title description : 06 May 2021
Can common efforts make the relationship success?
Effort can reveal our character and Commitments, that's why if we want to judge any relationship we should start to review how Committed are we when it comes to what we are building because a relationship is based on joining forces which impacts all parties that's why if we don't understand how our efforts create our lives, efforts can teach us about how each of us is focused, caring, attention to details, listening, forgetting, supporting, helpful, truthful, honest, loving and many more, we have to start to take lessons on what kind of efforts do we take as individuals.
Why do efforts says a lot about your marriage?
It takes time to understand and evaluate what kind of efforts are leading your Marriage into success because they are key components that can help us to find out why our efforts say a lot about our marriages, check the following:
- Truth
When we marry we have this tendency to subject ourselves to this process of telling the truth, and we should not keep this approach to our day-to-day activities, because those who make it into any marriage, can confirm that one area which can compromise the marriage is to lie and avoid telling the truth, we understand that human beings are not perfect either, but to remain committed on your marriage and your actions you should tell the truth.
- Gratitude
Recently we have to caution you about the dangers of not checking your gratitude, any marriage should be championed by your gratitude, because we choose our partners based on what we appreciate from them and what we accept as something we cannot change when all Partners begin to double-check what kind of gratitude is leading their marriage, then they can start to review what makes them ungrateful and how can they move away from that particular situation to make sure they keep their Gratitude active.
- Care
Everyone can Judge our marriages based on the level of care we give each other as spouses, why because care is a connector of emotions, that's why once we neglect to care for each other we invite ignorance and negative thoughts towards our significant other, care can reveal our efforts on our marriage, that's why it takes committed join actions to make sure you as partners remain caring for each other.
- Laugher
When we meet each other we have this tendency of accepting each other and making sure we laugh and enjoy each other, so what's important is to make sure you keep this momentum of reviewing how you laugh as partners because it's very important to remember that once you avoid seeking clarity about your Laugher, then you can be mean on each other and that's not something you as married people should do, times won't be favorable for you to laugh every day, but you should not allow your misery to overcome your Laugher as Partners.
- Emotions
Our Emotions can say a lot about how Committed are we to each other and what kind of emotions are running our marriage, that's why to better understand this you should review how you feel about each other and if there are any changes you should sit down and exchange views on how can you Improve that particular situation.
- Passions
We cannot remain Successful in our marriages if we don't allow our passions to flow and be explored, that's why in some marriages we can see individuals who take this approach very serious by making sure each partner is given time to explore his or her passion because if we don't check our passions we end up becoming comfortable and not achieving what we want, your passion will unite each of you if you make sure you discuss this further and help each other to take personal accountability to explore that passion.
- Support
How we support each other can reveal how Committed are we to each other, that's why whenever any marriage or relationship hit the breaking point, all is required is the support from each partner to sit down and talk about all matters and seek solutions to remedy the situation, people who Succeed on marriages they support each other on every level, that's why we have pointed out above about the importance of exploring our Passions as married people, and support is paramount.
- Careers
When we have different careers as married people, all is needed is to find balance on how can we run our marriage. After all, if your careers consume more time and this affects our personal space, then it's time to make sure you devote Attention to speaking to each other and see how can you make sure all Efforts are treated equally because Money can make us chase progress and avoid our significant other.
- Goals
Your ability to make sure that each partner is working on the Goal you have set for your marriage can reveal how your efforts are Structured.
- Dreams
Those who dream together and employ actions, are always succeeding, that's why to remain relevant to our marriages we should not avoid reviewing our dreams and how far are we to reach them, treat your dreams carefully so you can become successful.
- Family
How your family is Structured can reveal your Commitment, because creating a family is an ongoing activity that requires many elements and adjustments.
Why relationship is always tested by inaction?
These are top keys that lead most relationships to end up becoming irrelevant and not progressing:
- Worries
We can worry but it doesn't mean we should avoid taking action and seeking better avenues to solve our problems.
- Arguments
All Partners argue, and it's healthy but we should not exceed the limit, because recurring arguments signal the potential dangers which can destroy your relationship, that's why sometimes you should sit down and explore what you often argue about and what kind of benefits is those arguments leading both of you towards what you want or what not.
- Lies
The thumb rule of love is to avoid lying because this can affect your integrity and your trustworthiness.
- Pending issues
If you cannot solve a problem you should write it down and seek external help to solve it, pending issues can destroy your Relationship, if we hang matters we increase the dangers of breaking the relationship apart.
- Financial mismanagement
Money cannot destroy the relationship, how you handle it can destroy it, that's why we have lately suggested that partners should take lessons about Financial management to make sure all finances are at point.
- Cheating
You cheat you add more Problems, so to avoid this activity you should review what you yearn from your partner that is not coming into your reach because we don't tolerate cheating on this Segment and we are against it, so Spouse should table their matters and Concerns, Before they can seek Alternative ways to solve their problems, cheating is simple but it delays progress and it's hardworking.
- Not caring
We have cautioned you to pay attention to how you care for each other because this can affect your relationship.
Can marriages issues be solved by actions?
Yes, marriage issues can be solved by taking these elements into Practice:
- Concentration
- Control
- Collaboration
- Communication
- Commitments
- Care
- Connection
- Comfort
- Concentration
Check how you use these listed elements, and ask yourself these questions:
What kind of Commitments do you have?
How do we collaborate as individuals to make these problems turn into Solutions?
What is controlling us as partners to end up having these problems?
What are we concentrating on while fixing this problem?
How comfortable are we with this type of problem that is affecting us?
Are we still connected to our vows and dreams while entertaining this problem?
Do we still care for each other or we have given these problems powers to control our caring?
The answer you will get clarification on how some problems can be conquered by your abilities as Partners to sit down and question what's happening in your marriage or relationship.
Why actions can speak for your marriage?
Actions can say a lot about your marriage because what you act upon can lead you to the results, so check the factors which always create our actions:
- Goals
Do we have Goals as partners?
- Results
What kind of results do we want out of this marriage?
- Truth
Are we loyal to each other?
- Vows
Do we review our vows constantly?
- Solutions
What kind of solution system are we using to solve our Problems? ( Communication)
- Commitments
What level of priorities is part of us and why?
- Values
What kind of values have we set for this marriage
- Purpose
What is the purpose of this marriage?
- Dignity
Are we respecting each other?
Startup Business
Title description : 05 May 2021, Negotiations and Body language
Why body good language matters for entrepreneurs?
Language is part of our day-to-day activities, everyone has his or her type of body language he uses every day, and no one can hide his body language, we should start to pay attention to what kind of language are we sending because most of our actions and emotions are all displayed on our body language that's why we should remember that every business deal is structured based language and communication that's why you need to understand that all business are somehow, best at using their best language when Negotiating, your body language can sell you that's why you have to match your body language with your moods because what is often displayed on our body language reflects our thinking.
How to learn about body language as an entrepreneur?
We can learn body language by following this approach:
- Learn to check how you walk
- Practice reviewing how you talk
- Ask others how your body language says to them
- Look at which type of body language you use often
- Check how you handle your emotions with your body language
- Check what you fear
- Research your personality type
- Check how you breathe before you present yourself
- Review your seating patterns
People are capable of learning what can improve them, so to master your body language, you need to pay attention to your thoughts because that's where your most actions come from.
Why reading body language signs matters?
Those who pay attention to details always win, because some of us are not taught how to read body language signs, that's why we end up losing when negotiating with others, some of our body language cues don't lie that's why we have to understand this ratio, Our words count 10 %, and our body language counts 50 % that's why most people they have framed this activity to say that first appearance counts because what you display can tell us what you are, that's why we don't Struggle to point out if someone is worried or happy, we have Internal campus which helps us to know if someone is having good moods or not that's why when you begin to learn how body language helps us to Understand others ourselves even better and learn others, we can safe ourselves from danger once we see those body language cues which display danger, your can start to pay attention on those people who like to cross their hands, this means closed mind or defensive mood.
Can body language destroy your deals in business?
Yes careless body language can destroy your business deals, you can pay attention to these factors:
- Not listening
- Bad attitude
- Wrong language
- Jumping barriers when talking
- Bad eating ethical
- Being pushy or too desperate
- Being hurry to sign the contract
- Asking personal questions
- Making unnecessary jokes
- Being defensive
No one ever wins a business deal by using bad body language, because this shows how your Habits are Structured.
What's the difference between negotiations and selling?
This is the difference between negotiating and selling:
- Negotiation is based on power balance all parties have to win something to get into an agreement
- Selling is the process of manipulation and influence which aims at exchanging a product or service for a particular agreed price.
Career and Work
Title description: 04 May 2021, Career and Options
Why Options create problems?
Your career can be impacted by how you deal with your options because some of your decisions can determine which options work for you and how they benefit your overalls Career, but to state what's happening today many people don't know how to take advantage of those options they currently have, because most of us we neglect to list which type of options do we have and how can they improve our lives, we are distracted by many opportunities that's why you should note this danger of talking about many opportunities but only to find out you are not progressing, too many options can lead us into inaction, you can look how many people know but only a few succeed? We should consider this because too many options can increase your worries and prevent you to decide if you don't think independently and accurately.
Can more options lead to career success?
Success is one created by one option which increases your progress over time, if too many options were the ingredients of success many of us today could have been successful and wealthy, we have to look at how options shape our lives because more doesn't mean you will succeed, take a look at this current reality, many of us we refer ourselves we informed individuals, yet most of us we are still broke and worried about how our career will end up becoming because we have been fooled by our communities to think that our educational systems can make us Successful, we should review how many people end up becoming successful by using too many options, fewer people succeed that's a fact is which most of we don't want to face because this is a harsh truth and we have to accept that our options can tell us about how successful are we and how unsuccessful are we becoming, behind every success, there's a strategy you should look into this subject.
How to check your career options?
They are different types of analysis you can conduct for your career to Check if your options are benefiting you and how by using these five steps;
- How many people are successful in this Career
- What kind of options have they used to become successful
- Which type of skills and experience were applied by these People
- How long did it take them to become successful
- What kind of Strategies were used by these People
The Problem with most individuals is that most of us don't want to question what makes other people succeed in certain careers, we want to cook our recipe whenever there's something that can help us to understand which type of options can accelerate our success, a man who wants to go into the moon alone is a Failing man, but a person who seeks help and ask how many options makes us successful he or she can succeed because most of what we know doesn't make us Successful that's why general knowledge can increase your Failures because the majority of people only used what's general that's why many careers are not successful to us.
Should option be part of your career?
To Select we need to understand what kind of options are available for us and where they come from because it takes a great amount of effort to review your options before you select any Career today we are challenged by this new technology which makes our careers to become obsolete, so once you understand that not every Career will yield you results on this upcoming future, then it's time to select something which aligns with economic growth and new changes, or else you will post your degree on the wall, your options determine the direction of your career that's why you should research this topic in depth so you can safeguard your career as soon as possible because your current selection can reveal your results.
Why some careers are destroyed by new technologies?
Automation is cheap, and we have to check how this new technological advances are impacting our Industrial Economies, you will see most of the companies are Adopting new robotics, slowly by slowly mankind is removed from jobs because robots are cheap and most of them don't strike, or require any payment Increase, so this Reality should not be taken for granted, you can look at how covid-19 had forced many people to adopt Technology immediately, so don't wait until your career is destroyed by this new technological advances, because this new shift will create jobs few people and increase unemployment, our degrees will become unless because we don't get jobs because robots are taking over the job markets.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 03 May 2021, Success and Commitment
Why success is a sacrifice?
Not everyone understands how successful people use this advantage called Sacrifice, on our book called Goal's toolbox why Goals Fail And What To Do, we have listed 10 Sacrifices that come along within your Commitments to succeed, sacrifice is power, because how many of us we use this excuses like this:
- I don't have time
- I don't know where to begin with my goals
- I don't know who can help me
- I don't have money to travel
- I don't have the resources
- I don't want to achieve anything
- I don't know how will I succeed
- I think I can do it
- I don't have the skills and experience
- I don't have the resources
You can Review those barriers listed above, whenever you fail to analyze how sacrifice plays an important role to shift us from blame to self-accountability, and you will notice this approach once you allow your life to be run through sound decisions like taking responsibility for your actions and double checking how you sacrifice your time and effort to pursue what you want and be willing to learn along the way you will discover that perseverance can show up and it will protect you once you begin to execute your plans, remember to get something you must be willing to give something first, and as you learn from those barriers listed above you will find out which activities you should prioritize and which type of words, believes and actions you should remove from your life.
Can accountability lead to success?
Successful people are accountable and reliable, we have to understand this approach because most of us turn to fail constantly based on neglecting to study why most successful people are always given more Preference than those who are not successful, the answer is this, Successful individuals they portray these characteristics:
- Take self-accountability when Problems show up
- Follow up on pending issues
- Being punctual
- Asking questions if they don't understand
- Ability to say No
- They are more likely to stick to facts than opinions
- They always network with others
- Build their plans based on assets
- Commitment to certain good Habits
- Control their Emotions
These basic elements make these individuals the advantage to multiply their success because accountability is very important when it comes to your success, remember once you are accountable, even those who do business or associate with some will be accountable to help you grow your success.
Why self-responsibility design commitment?
No ever Commit to something without self-responsibility, we commit to certain behaviors, lifestyles, Habits, relationships, businesses, religions, cultures, dialogues, jobs, and many more because we have committed ourselves to have something from what we do, you as an individual you have to pay attention on what you are committing your life into because most of us we realize later on life about what was not working and what we should have done with our lives, so it's better to commit yourself to your goals and plans so you can minimize your regrets because those who end up becoming miserable and confused always regret about why they failed to take self-accountability towards their goals and aspirations, your abilities to take full responsibility about your life can give you a new start on what you should Commit your life into and what not, it's better to change the direction while time is still available and take advantage to do something about your life.
Why commitment is key to success?
We commit for certain reasons like this :
- We want to change
- We want to take our talents into Practice
- We want improvements
- We want to achieve our goals and dreams
- We have Responsibilities to fulfill
- We want to contribute something
- We want to teach something
- We have the skill and experience to act
- We want to create something
- We want better results
Your Commitments can change your life and it's based on how you choose the type of commitments you want to use.
Can success come with the commitment?
Cause and effect always tell us that if we don't act we won't have want we have dreamed to have and planned to execute, but your Commitments can reveal your actions and results, that's why those who can commit to seek better ways to change their lives, they end up becoming successful that's why we should not take our Commitments for granted because we can learn which direction is our life going by checking what kind of Commitments we have and why, because some of us we regret later about using our efforts to commit on wrong Commitments which don't even add value on our lives, that's why how you spend your time can reveal the level of your Commitments.
Health and Life
Title description: 02 May 2021 , Health and Ageing
Why does Time tell us about age?
Time is one of the greatest life principles', we know our age because we use the time to calculate how old are we and
how many years have we lived, the reason why time tells us about our age is this:
- Time
We are always using time and we create activities that consume our time, and it's very important to learn from people who lived before us, especially when it comes to an understanding that time is an illusion and only through your imagination you can make it exist, we should remember that our age is continuing even if we have passed away that's why time is an important instrument you can take advantage of to pursue your life plans.
Can age reveal our of health?
Health is an asset, your age can reveal how old is your body and how healthy are you , it's been documented on health scientific methods that our age is mainly influence by our DNA , you take this observation into task , check from you family tree how long is your family members have lived, because this can determine how long you will live , some people age slow and some age faster that's why your age can reveal your health, every stage of life especially when it comes to you body growth it has its own consequences and illness, that's why we have adviced you lately to seek professional help about your health and Check which blood type you belong to and what kind of food should you eat, most of us we eat foods which end up destroying our bodies that's why we age faster, and remember your body is your vehicle if you don't take care of it , no one will do it for you that's Ageing can be slow down by your ability to exercise and eat well and keep on maintaining the same sleeping patterns and decrease your stress levels by making good Choices on your life.
What's important about age?
When it comes to the Truth your age doesn't matter, we can confirm this:
- Age
How many of us have been abused by these antidotes, whereby adults use age to cover their wrongdoings?
Most of us should take these lessons into account, and check the following:
- Age can reveal Experience
- Age in most communities is linked with wisdom
- Age is a Discipline
- Age can separate mankind
- Power can be used based on age
Many of us are victims of being abused by this level of power because some adults can misuse these powers.
- Promotions can be shared based on age
- How many times have we seen this type of behavior whereby adults are given more preference when it comes to any Promotion?
You can double-check these factors, on your work, Community, and others institutions.
- Responsibilities are given based on age
- Masculinity can be triggered by age
- Age can reveal our character
- How many times have we seen how people display their age based on characters?
You can look at the following conclusions:
- Lifestyle
- language
- eating
- clothing
- believes
- Age is a symbol of strength
- We are always overcome based on age, some people have more strength than others because of age and Experience.
Can experience be part of age and health?
Our health can be linked with what kind of knowledge and experience have, age is part of health, we can draw this comparison by checking who are the most people who are healthy you will see some of them have experience of some sort and information which guides them to their health, it takes time to understand how Experience plays a role on our general well being because it takes diverse skills and capabilities to apply your Experience to be healthy, some people have already cracked this code about health and imparted this knowledge to their respective families that's why in some cultures or religions, food is regarded as a medicine and associated with principle's which Guides humankind.
Why aging is an advantage?
They are many contributing factors that can justify why age is an advantage because children and adults don't behave the same and this can point us into the reality which makes those who use age to be an advantage, how many people have been overpowered because someone has experience and wisdom?
You can check these observations:
- Many wars are always won by experienced people.
- Arguments can be won by defense and Acceptance.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: Happiness & gratitude,01 May 2021
Can a Thank you increase peace?
How many people miss opportunities to say thank you?
Most of us don't understand this statement of saying thank you, why because we align thankful getting something from others, so let's check your inner peace, some of us fail to thank ourselves, so this makes us incapable of saying thank you to other people, peace is created from your gratitude and happiness, if you can look most unsuccessful people they are the ones who cannot say thank you, and you should begin to thank yourself constantly so you can be able to increase your peace of mind and happiness.
Why gratitude is power?
Gratitude is power because if you are not grateful it says a lot about your life progress, and what you lack, those who can understand that life always humbles us whether we are negative or positive, we have a responsibility to align our values, purpose, impact, and goals with our desires, most oftentimes we forget how gratitude helps us to see better realities, we assume that negativity will serve us good part, we have to be aware of what we have and why we should appreciate it, most people don't take time to review how grateful they are because we have been sold lies to think money, the material will make us happy and be grateful, you should note this truth, never go to your grave being ungrateful, gratitude increases our peace because it helps us to see possibilities and opportunities more than complaining and blaming life.
How to be happy about your possessions?
As mentioned above your gratitude will create your happiness, all you need to do is to check what are you grateful for, and why, we live in unprecedented times whereby changes happened often and sometimes our attention is stoled by distractions, but we should be aware of what we have so we can align our goals and plans to get what we want, most of us we don't pay attention on happiness which comes along with material possessions, because we are desperate when we seek this type of materials, once we get them we move ahead to search for another thing, and this always sabotage our happiness, check how long do you feel happy about your new clothes or shoes, this temporary chase doesn't last long, that's why you should be self-motivated, and be grateful about what you have and enjoy those material possessions, remember what you have someone is searching for it, all you have to create is to list your material possessions and review how they make you happy as an individual.
Can happiness lead to peace?
We have detailed this topic about how happiness works together with peace, you can check this scenario for yourself, anytime you feel happy, review your peace, and you will notice how peaceful are you when you feel happy Peace is Power, no one likes his or her peace to be ruined, but how often do we check how other people spoil our Peace?
We neglect to prioritize what is important to us that's why we end up becoming miserable and unhappy, you should take personal accountability and research yourself and see what kind of peace you have and what has Created that particular peace, and happiness is always available for everyone ready to access it, take for example the analogy which shared with you about how you should review your gratitude and do something about your happiness, it requires courage and efforts to become successful happy because you have to tick some boxes which should align with your values, peace creates harmony and love that's why we hate to associate with people who don't have peace. Happiness leads to peace once you understand how to use your thinking and control your emotions.
Which type of gratitude matters?
We have given you a summary of what to check to point out which type of gratitude serves you the most, but what is the number thing you should take into consideration is this:
It doesn't matter how difficult or miserable it might be, remember someone today has passed away and you are still alive, so it doesn't matter how things turn out to be, your life counts because you are right now alive and it's all about how grateful are you and how do you see this type of truth, because most of us we shy away from telling ourselves the truth that we can die anytime, so the number rule of life is to be happy and be grateful about your life, or if you want to test this scenario on scientific methods, check how many sperms are deposited on a women egg and check which sperm has Succeed and why, this will remain you about that within 14 million sperms you have Succeed, and right now you are not grateful about your life, this truth should humble you because one day you will regret how you failed to appreciate what you have, check who are the most miserable individuals, you will notice People who are not happy are the most ungrateful individuals.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 28 June 2021
Why do some Religion prohibits certain practices?
They have been various exchanges of information in this segment of culture and religion, we have talked about the importance of certain Cultural and Religious practices, and let's review how some of these Religious practices are prohibited:
- Sex before marriage
- Certain foods
- Worship gods
- Sin
- Lies
We have been taught or guided from the bible how we should refrain from sin, because as individuals we always sin that's why the bible has suggested we take prayer every day because as long we live it is always part of our lives, that's why in some Religion once you begin to sin they can get you to suspend from the church if that sin can compromise the status of the church.
The bible teaches about the importance of remaining honest and telling the truth because lies can increase problems that's why in some Religious groups you are not allowed to lie especially if you make promises to God because that will reflect as a sign of disrespect if you promise to deliver something to the fellowship of God and fail to comply to it, that's why we have tights, this is private vows we make with God that's why lying is not permitted because it can cause problems for you.
In some Religious groups, fellow members are not allowed to perform any ritual which is out of their beliefs, because in some instances worshipping gods has been prohibited from the bible that's why this practice can be a violation of rules if you perform it.
In some Religious groups fellow members are given a strict selection of foods they are supposed to eat and what they should not eat, this practice is performed for various reasons such as safeguarding the soul to never be blocked by certain spirits which are linked to evil.
The book of wisdom cautions members to refrain from sex before marriage because they are concrete reasons why sex before marriage is a rule in this Religious group, if people happen to have sex before they are united by God this is ranked as an evil affair that's why sex is permitted once you have married because sex involves responsibility and some challenges that's why marriage has been given that particular responsibility to help on such, in some Religious groups you are not allowed to have sex until you get married.
How to understand religious limitations?
As you learn about how Religion is controlling the majority of countries, it's very important to draw some limitations which come along with Religion, you need to check the following:
- Control
- Options
- Contribution
- Freedom
- Independence
You have to understand that any Religion you are following has its independence this means you have to own some of your thinking, this should be something like knowing how to separate the truth from opinions, that's why independent thinking is power because in many Religious groups they are some questions which many people don't want to answer because they reveal certain evidence or biases that's why they are always limitations to your Religion and you have to check them and accept the reality.
No, ever Religion will lead people to freedom because most people are chained by bad habits and they try to give Religion some kind of responsibility to change them and this will show you that many people are still not peaceful even by following the Religion because this is some of the limitations which come with the Religion. After all, it cannot offer you everything that's why some other things are self-made by your thoughts and action and your Religion is just your guiding principle.
They are several elements which your Religion cannot help with, things like your Emotional Intelligence, you need to create it by yourself and sometimes we like to see the Religion is one station which can contribute to our happiness that's why today even those who attend church every time majority of the are not happy because they are limitations to what the Religion can offer you that's why in the bible it says you reap what you sow.
Options can vary from one Religion to another but as an individual, you own your preferences and choices that's why your Religion cannot choose for you and this can tell you how limited Religion can be when it comes to certain things we rate as options like your Religion cannot choose the right wife or husband for you, all you have to do is master your options with the right guiding principles your Religion is offering you.
Religion has tried to control the masses but some people today they start to see how trapped they were because they have discovered that Religion is not life but is a rule of life that's why you have to understand those limitations which your Religion has because control is used by power and power is based on the authority that's why you have the power to think for yourself and see what's right or wrong.
Why do some Religions claim to have all answers?
We are continuing with this question, some Religious groups have figured out how to provide evidence to their followers that's why they claim to have all the answers compared to others and this approach will vary from country to country because as individuals we are often influenced by the country we come from especially to choose the Religion of our choices that's why we always see people fighting over the Religious powers because the answers can vary but God is why we sometimes refer to God as the one who holds all the answers and as mankind, we sometimes overstep our duties by trying to convince others that we as individuals we have all the answers as we are the leaders of that particular Religion which influences the majority of people.
Why do we believe in Religion?
We have touched this subject but it is worth the extension because as individuals we live by beliefs whether we like it or not, Mankind is an engine of belief systems that are tight on his subconscious mind and imagination that's why everyone believes is something some belief in God existence and some believe in God doesn't exist that's why we believe because the mind works with believing that's why it's often controlled by what is being programmed to perform, prayer is a mental program that's why Religious groups make sure followers apply this activity of prayer so they can be mentally conditioned, because believes works with mental conditioning that's why we sometimes wonder why we believe in something so much and in some cases fail to prove the existence of it, believe is a rule of life.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 27 June 2021
Why are we Connected to our spouses?
As individuals we have to ask ourselves why we see in on our partners when we meet them because as Spouse we have different types of things which have attracted to our partners at first on during the relationship, these are some of the basic elements which connect Spouse's at the first or after:
- Material
- Success & Goal's
- Envy
- Pleasure
- Love
- Status
- Habits
- Character
- Behaviors
- Religion / Culture
- Finance & Peer pressure
How many people review this factor which plays role in what made us end up connected to our Partners?
We have to understand that love is the entrance we use to get into the relationship that's why when love starts to decline we can see the true colors of our partners as indicated people hide their behaviors with Love, that's why when someone loves you, it's a huge responsibility because it takes care to maintain love and focus.
Why attachment matters when you are in a Relationship?
Attachment plays an important role especially when it comes to revealing how you care about your relationship that's why your ability to understand how important the Relationship can be this will assist you to take your Relationship very seriously because sometimes we overlook this part of how we are addicted to our partners and we don't want to confront this challenge, many of people are addicted to their spouse's this can vary from one Relationship to another because if people are not attached it means there's no love because love allows hearts to connect that's why we feel pain if we lose our loved ones this is the indication of how attached we were to those individuals.
Why does love connect us?
Love is power and this factor makes love connect us:
- Sacrifices
- Contribution
- Power
- Truth
- Care
- Religion or Culture
- Hobbies
- Passion
- Purpose
- Desires & Goal's
Why should we pay attention to What connects us as partners?
They are different types of benefits of checking what connects you as Partners check the following:
- Communication
- Understanding
- Promises
- Care
- Vows
- Purpose
- Believes
- Values
- Control
- Concerns
Why do we fail to understand our spouses?
As individuals we are all unique and if we don't understand how to not compare ourselves with others then it's become Problem to understand our partners, these are some of the reasons which add to this:
- Restrictions
- Changes
- Control
- Competitions
- Comparison
- Fault finding
- Concerns
- Protection
- Judgments
- Jealous
Startup Business
Title description: 26 June 2021
What type of startup marketing issues most Entrepreneurs are facing?
Entrepreneur can be challenged by many Startup marketing issues such as the following:
- Targeting wrong customers
- Poor product design
- Deadlines
- Market fit
- Distribution
- Barriers of entry
- Regulations
- Unskilled team's
- Low budget
- Competing with the big business
Why marketing is so challenging?
Marketing is so challenging because of these factors:
- Competitions
- Commitments
- Consistency
- Timing
- Budget
- Customer preference
- Teams
- Technology
- Regulations
- Branding
What makes a good Startup marketing budget?
- Competitions
- Commitments
- Consistency
- Timing
- Budget
- Customer preference
- Teams
- Technology
- Regulations
- Branding
What makes a good Startup marketing budget?
These are key factors that help the startup business to understand its marketing budget:
- Reports
- Review
- Revenue
- Reliability
- Relevance
- Actions
- Agreement
- Approvals
- Allowance
- Allocation
Why Startups should master their target market?
Target market is your asset you must utilize as a Startup Business check these advantages:
- Easy the work burdens
- Solve the right problem
- Return on investment
- Growth
- Winning faster
- Improve distribution
- Cut costs
- Evaluation
- Performance
- Relevance & Encourage innovation
Can marketing destroy your startup company?
They are different types of issues that can bring down your Startup Business check this:
- Customer unsolved inquires
- False information
- Compromise confidential information
- Regulations
- Trademarks
- Poor budget management.
- Team Conflicts
- Key talents living your company
- Massive Competitions
- Pulling out of investors
Career and Work
Title description: 25 June 2021
What makes careers lack progress?
Progress is Power and is always influenced by growth, many people ignore to evaluate the progress of their careers because they look forward to only pension funds, that's why it's becoming very difficult for many people to progress in some Careers because we have people who are workers and those who are working creator's if you fall into the first category your life is in either comfort zone or you are just a normal person who enjoys earning a salary until you go to retire. And this is not a bad thing to explore but it's very important to check what you want out of this life because our goals sometimes can tell us what we are supposed to do but because we lack the courage to follow up with them we end up trapped by not progressing into our careers because if you want to progress you must be willing to learn and improve your skills that's why we prefer you fall into the second category of work creator's, this individual is influenced by growth and experience that's why they always take risks to change jobs and business if possible so they can explore their career growth and progress.
How to challenge your career path?
This topic of challenging our career path is often hidden because it always reveals our weaknesses and what we are supposed to do with our lives, many people seek to discover their Growth but the challenge is this, most of us are not ready to give up our excuses and do what is supposed to be done, that's why comfort zone is a dangerous destination you can find yourself into it especially if your goals or plans are big enough and require action, they are different types of techniques we can share with you to start challenging your career path, check the following:
- Updating your skills
- Researching your job industry
- Learning from experts
- Taking calculated risks
- Continuous learning
We have touched on this subject on many occasions if you have read this segment, it's very important to apply the information not to know more about the information because, in the end, you need results, not more information that is not benefiting you with anything, that's why you have to pick a challenge and embrace it until you achieve it and growth pay especially if you align it with the right goals or plans.
Why being ahead with some skills can safe your career path?
Remember we have talked about the importance of updating your skills especially digital skills, because we live in unprecedented times, and some people can lose job's because of machines and softwares which are taking over in some key economic industries, this is the right time to get back to basics and reflect again about how you want to see your career future unfolding, because we have to pay attention on what's happening and start to question our skills viability and relevance because if we cannot check, change won't be friendly with us but destroy our Careers, that's why we have advice you to pick new skills which will make you relevant into this new economy of work, because if you check many people they are still comfortable with obsolete skills that's why unemployment is raising and you must not fall into that particular trap because to know is to do not to wait and doubt because you don't have enough time to hesitate, what is required is to safeguard your career so you won't be unemployed or be unable to create your business.
Can progress be evaluated by your skills?
Progress is always linked to your skills, and to understand how to evaluate it you must have skills again, remember your progress is like a garden you have to know what's happening inside your garden because that's where you will discover any growth or problem that is inside your garden, we have to act on our plans, because progress happens once we have started to execute our plans or goals that's why we have people who act and those who keep on planning to act All you have to ask yourself is which category do you fall into and why, if you don't progress there's probably a real problem with you and what should happen is to find out why your progress is not happening, you must not be afraid to answer this question based on facts, because sometimes we turn to blame circumstances not ourselves that's why we cannot understand how to progress in our lives.
Why do people fail to use their skills?
People after all fail because they don't understand how to keep on acting and maintain the good spirit of not giving up, some people acquire wrong skills and this approach makes them to get trapped into this process of not knowing where to start and remember schools and universities don't care much about how you apply the skills they have taught you because this is your responsibility to do and take advantage of it, because if people are taught to apply what they have learned many universities will be closed because this comes back to matching what you have learned at school and what the economy requires from the worker who have to join into their companies or departments, that's why we fail to apply our skills because we dwell too much on theory and give practicals small time, a degree is not a guarantee of success in this 21st century because you need to apply your knowledge and be willing to learn about your new skills which can safeguard your career, we fail to apply the skills we have because we don't understand them and we don't use them frequently that's why we end relying on seeking employment whenever we can create something with our skills, but remember some skills are tight to work alone not helping you to start a business that's why you have to question your skills and what kind of value and viability they hold.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 24 June 2021
Why your rejections build your success?
Many people never checked the advantage of being rejected, because we have been taught to think that Rejections are always bad and this hidden power is always used incorrectly because of several reasons, but if you want to become successful you must be willing to be rejected along the way, if you check on the history of people who have succeeded, most of them have been Rejected many times and they kept on trying until they achieve that's why the entrance of success requires perseverance and courage, for you to build your success you must embrace those Rejections as a learning curve for your growth and improvement because most of us we ignore the lessons which come along the Rejections that's why it's becoming very hard to break free from Rejections as we progress in life.
How to maintain a good spirit while rejected?
They various mechanisms you can use to maintain your good spirit while you get rejected please check the following:
- Contribution
- Motivation
- Courage
- Impact
- Purpose
Your Goals or plans should be guided by your life purpose, this means you will be willing to do whatever it takes to achieve your goals and go an extra mile for your plans to succeed, to maintain a good spirit while being rejected requires your purpose to be bold enough so you don't fail into the trap of entertaining criticism more than hope.
The impact can assist you to maintain a good positive mental attitude especially once you start to remind yourself about the importance of achieving what you want as an individual, impact is power because it helps others, that's why your capacity to take action should be influenced by what kind of impact you want to create because that's where your courage will come from and this will help you to overcome those rejections.
We cannot be successful if we don't have Courage on our side, this obstacle called rejection cannot stand the power of courage that's why for us to try again we require Courage and hope this shows us that to maintain a good spirit while being rejected is just a mental toughness choice one has to take or apply constantly.
Self-motivation is power because no one will motivate you on your behalf that's why your courage to start is always influenced by what kind of purpose, impact, and courage you have as an individual because motivation plays an important role in our achievements because we get courage once we self especially during those hard times.
If you want to achieve you must be willing to contribute, this requires personal accountability and courage because sometimes we end up not achieving because we are too selfish to act on plans which contribute to us and others that's why many people give up on one goal because that was something which just helps them alone, so sometimes you must have the bigger purpose so you won't have the reason to give up.
How to examine your success rejections?
Most people once they reach success sometimes ignore to reflect on what kind of Rejections they have encountered because this approach brings back memories and some can be painful to reflect upon them, that's why it's very hard for some people to share the journey of their success because failures and obstacles many people don't talk about them, that's why we still suffer to find the cure of helping people to understand the importance of taking advantage of their Rejections, because sometimes we miss the experience, because Rejections always help us to improve something but because we have linked them to something bad that's why it's becoming very hard to learn from them, the only way to examine your success Rejections is to check what kind of technique did you use to overcome those rejections along your journey of success, and what motivated you to keep going on while the path was difficult.
How to overcome Rejections?
This can be a challenge because if you want to overcome the Rejections you need to understand that Rejections come with different types of stages, some can be very weak and others can be stronger, that's why your mental toughness is a requirement once you start to learn to overcome the Rejections because to overcome doesn't mean you will just succeed in one day, this activity can take time to figure it out because some Rejections are always part of growth and others can be part of your downfall, that's why you need to understand how you act so you can evaluate which area on your plan is often Rejected and how can you improve the process because we all look ahead to our expectations to be welcomed but we sometimes need tools such this:
- Contribution
- Motivation
- Courage
- Impact
- Purpose
As discussed you need to understand these five tools and be able to apply them so you can deal with the Rejections you are facing.
Why you should embrace Rejections?
The ability to embrace Rejections is related to what kind of results or benefits are you getting from the plans or goals you want to achieve because sometimes we are very reluctant to evaluate what kind of Rejections are we facing as individuals because we sometimes take Rejections for granted that's why it's becoming hard for most people to understand how to handle Rejections because we lack skills to learn about Rejections, that's why you will notice how many people fail to try again because they were wiped by Rejections and you need to have a thick skin if you want to overcome obstacle's and Rejections because the information which comes with different types of Rejections can help you improve your life.
Health and Life
Title description: 23 June 2021
Why does imagination ignite our thinking Powers?
The station of all possibilities is your imagination because as individuals we have this powerful engine called the imagination because as you can learn the world we live under it has been created by people who have imagine the possibilities of the future but take action to start building those possibilities, that's why to further investigate this check what is near you or what your are currently wearing, you will see how mankind has used the power of imagination to create certain things, and once we start to pay attention towards what is inside our imagination we can ignite our thinking powers because that's where most of the possibilities we see in the external world taking part on , because your Ability to unleash your creativity thoughts takes time and requires focus and courage because failure and criticism will always try to block you away from your own success that's why you have to check what kind of possibilities are within your imagination and begin to start taking action on what you want to create, remember as individuals we are the creator's of our lives that's why your obituary can summarize your life works and it's very important to create your impact while your are still alive.
Can success be part of imagination?
This has been documented on scientific, psychology, religion and other supporting evidence research bodies, this comes back to the phrase which says what you focus on grows, your imagination plays an important role in your success because if you believe you don't deserve success it will be that way, remember what the book of wisdom said, as you think as you become, that's why it's very important to understand how you use your thinking because it controls your life and what makes you think in that particular manner will be reviewed once you begin to apply your thinking and evaluate the feedback, as noted the creation of many objects we use today that might be material possessions or something else this were created by the same people who have the imagination, that's why to think good require you to keep on self motivating , because success breeds success if you think poor it's very hard to become successful because all is within you as an individual, that's why thinking is power because it allow us to choose.
How to study your imagination?
The only way to study your imagination is to pay attention to your curiosity and repetitive thoughts, this means you have to start using your creative energy to take action on your thoughts, if we take these practical lessons to empower ourselves with simple Techniques like setting up a schedule to evaluate our thoughts and start to apply what is inside our imagination, as individuals we don't struggle to use our imagination we struggle to unleash our creative thoughts in the external world, that's why ideas are overrated what is required is to Master Execution that's where you will see the power of your imagination because with the action we can ignite the power of creation that's why Learning to package your thoughts accurately is a skill because that's were Intelligence meets the real action and this requires you to learn even more about other great thinker's of the time so you can be motivated to keep on trying on is your innate powers.
What's the rule of thinking accurately?
Thinking is like driving you have to check the direction correctly because if you fail to do so you might else well injure yourself and others, they are concrete reasons and evidence why thinking accurately is power, because by nature thinking is growth that's why we respect people who think and do that's what the external world called doers , because if you can Check everywhere and everyday people do think but only few pay attention towards what they are constantly thinking of because we are afraid to self interrogate our own thinking that's why if you want to see how thinking is the most highest paid job check who are the most paid people and check what types of problems they are Solving this will show you how your should utilize your thinking, because to think accurately start by building health habits first and start to learn from those who master this segment of thinking accurately, remember the analogy of thinking, to think correct is to learn about yourself which means you have to check your thoughts and how you use your time on regular basis.
Why imagination is so important?
We have created our external outcomes using the power of imagination, because our thoughts once they are translated into physical action they can either produce good or bad results, that's why we have to check how we use our imagination as individuals because sometimes we can pretend to understand how we imagine but only to find out we are only using wrong techniques to unleash our creative imagination that's why to imagine is to create, then to create is to do and this mechanical activity requires an open mind to take advantage of it because as noted as individuals we are creating the problem is doubt and criticism that's why your what will make your imagination to become so important is to take your ideas into practicality and be ready to keep on improving them along the way because whenever we use our imagination we won't have fear but only be guided by possibilities and hopes.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 22 June 2021
Why happiness is a self-made?
How many people realize later how they have wasted time seeking Happiness from other people?
Happiness is self made because you need your thoughts to act according to your innate desires that's why satisfaction is an issue for many people because they have given this responsibility to others to fulfill and this approach makes many people to end up wondering why they struggles to be happy, because if you cannot be happy by ourselves how can others make us happy, we have to take full responsibility to understand what's happening inside our imagination and mindset so we can connect the dots and see what is holding us back to end up not becoming happy as we want to be , because your happiness as noted is always with you what matters is how you unleash it and how you handle your emotions as an individual because sometimes people can try to ruin your peace of mind if you don't safeguard your peace that's why you need to check who are toxic people in your circle of friendship and find out who are those who take part into a positive live and then cut those who are negative because they don't deserve your time but just one thing hello and you go away, because to create your happiness you must somehow be greedy of your own attention especially looking at who really deserve your attention and why then you will understand your own self and enjoy your happiness.
Can we be happy without material possessions?
We as unit's of mankind we have created this barriers which somehow hold us back to understand what Happiness is all about, because we have linked happiness with material possessions that's why to some people it's hard to separate the two and it's very important to check this factors that influence because attachments are always temporarily that's why we have material possessions that comes and go, we have to understand the importance of growth not greediness, why because some will think poverty is better than riches because of material possessions which makes people to end not being happy, before we move ahead let's correct that mental biases because as stipulated on this segment of happiness we have been emphasizing the importance of creating your inner happiness and owning it , so we have told you that money has nothing to do with your happiness because it's a tool that comes and go that's why even today on your wallet you might have a penny but ask yourself why it doesn't make you happy, we have to withdraw our thoughts from thinking that more material possessions or money can make us happy whenever in this current present moment I r don't appreciate anything about our lives this can give you a full description of why many people shy away to express this truth about linking money with happiness because at the end only few people can be happy once they have material possessions but this will be for a temporary moment that's why we must understand joy and peace.
Who taught us to attach happiness to money?
We live in an imagined world, whereby people have been brainwashed by media advertisements and programs that influence them to think money is Happiness, because everyone in this world can have a penny then why the world does not have too many happy people?
We have to judge these factors based on this evidence shared above because media outlets portray success as the only way to happiness that's why most people think that more material possessions or money will lead them into the path of happiness but along the stages of life, we realize how much time we have wasted chasing wrong things because at the end of the day happiness is something you must create for yourself and we have to take action and review this question, who taught us to link money with happiness?
Everyone will have someone to point out and it's very important to find that particular person and check what kind of lifestyle they're living.
Can money make us greedy?
Money cannot change us, we change our attitudes once we start to have money that's why sometimes we have this need of revenge but we can only express it once we have the backup of money that's why some people can reveal their true colors once they start to hit the ceiling of achievement because they start to refuse to help others because they live in the past memories which they have encountered which some makes them to feel the past pains that's why it's becoming very hard to help some people, being greedy is vested into our DNA code, because as individuals we cannot share everything we have ,they are certain limitations and some people regard Successful people to always be on the giving side and this can increase this norm to say money makes us to be greedy, and this is a fact no one can give alway the money for free that's why it's hard to find money giveaway campaigns unless is a charity organization, people begin with their own greediness before they have money so money is not the problem but us as individuals we have the problem to link money with lot of things that's why it's very hard to happiness if you use wrong meanings.
Why happiness can be increased by your awareness, especially gratitude?
Happiness is a state of mind which works best with the power of gratitude that's why we have to be aware that certain things in life can make us humble and others can be left us miserable that's why we have to check how we spend our time and effort because this can point us to the right direction of what increase our happiness or what is standing on our way to find happiness as individuals because awareness means paying attention to details and taking action to embrace your thinking and start to appreciate what you have as an individual because it takes time to find out what brings you awareness of paying attention to what you like and learning about your thinking as an individual because when we are happy we can teach others something about happiness not just by talking about happiness but leaving a happy life after all.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 21 June 2021
Why fighting over powers is important in Religion?
A religion cannot succeed without power, that's each an every country is ruled by a particular Religion and this tribe protect that particular country against and terrorist attacks, power is a symbol of authority that's why some Religious groups have been holding this power of controlling the masses since the down of time, take for example the power of Christianity, you will realize how powerful this religion is and what kind of loyal followers it has and what kind of message has it spread in the world because this religion has proven to majority of people how powerful it is and how it helps people, you can check inside the Bible they have been wars to retain the power of Christianity to take part on other countries, because power is something from history and to this date something which mankind always is fighting for and always protecting that's why we have indicated on this segment that we are protected by Religious groups and Cultures that's why it's very hard to enter certain countries because the tribe of the believes can know if you are a threat in their society that's why many people still fight to gain their freedom because certain things within the religion suppress their human nature, that's why power is an asset because once you have it you can own many people and things.
What is the importance of religious powers?
The last sentence of the above paragraph explain it better, why because the importance of Religious powers is to control and build assets, that's why many churches have used many people to generate income in the name of Christianity and this activity has damage the Religion because some people end up not trusting which kind of Religion is well suited for them, because the Religion has the mandate to put one tribe into one community of believes, and control them and that's the importance of Religious powers because in somehow many of us we are controlled by this Religious powers, we can refuse how we are isolated to this Religious powers but as long we are under the Community of this Religions we are members of it because as noted we are protected by this groups to mention few check the food supply and energy to will realize the government is into Partnerships with this powerful Religious groups that's why certain foods are not permitted into some countries and we never question this phenomenon because we take this practical things for granted but if the war can raise we will understand how this groups have been protecting us since, that's what Religion and culture they are protected by government rules because they hold majority of people, and this makes them powerful that's why they can control us.
Why does Religion protect us?
From a biblical standpoint, God has positioned Religion to comfort us and give us safe houses to relate with other members of the Religion we are following that's why tribes of this nature protect each other you cannot enter into their space and try to terrorize them, in that way you will be asking for war, that's why even in the bible the time of war is shared and we sometimes shy away from this truth, because we like to think as if our Religions are more perfect and not bad at all, that's why if something happens and we feel the Religion has not protected us we end up blaming our leader's, but at the end, we remain under the protection of this umbrella called Religion or Cultural powers and it's very important to understand how this two group play role into building societies and protecting mankind.
Can Religion create chaos?
As we have noted from the bible the time of war has been quoted and this has to be well researched and understood because sometimes leaders of the Religion or Cultures can wage wars against each other because of the use of power over the other that's why today we still have countries which are fighting for freedom and this chaos some are influenced by Religious conflicts and Cultural powers that's why chaos is always taking part even between members of Christianity and Judaism or Muslims, these differences have been taking place since that's why we have told you about the importance of how we are protected by this Religious powers and chaos' in many countries has been cooled down by this Religious leaders once they sit down and set an agreement to work together.
Why do we see others' religious practices as powerful?
This question comes with practical evidence, take for example Jewish people most of they are not poor because in the Jewish tribe members are required to provide for one another and assist those who are in need, and this collective strength makes Christianity appear as powerful because it has members has the heart of people, take for example the Muslim population, most people don't struggle to set up a business because the foundation of the collection is available to assist members to Create business and help the Muslim community to grow, power is used on different levels in this Religious groups. After all, it depends on how you as an individual are benefiting from that particular Religion of your choice because some people can become poor and others rich while all are in the same religious group, so this can tell us that money only favors those who take action.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 20 June 2021
Why Communication matters in a relationship?
We have to check this following elements of what at the beginning has united partners, because sometimes we meet people and it's just for a temporary moment and once we begin to realize we don't want that particular person we start to stop communicating with them, because on onset when Partners meet they communicate and this activity happens effortlessly because we don't feel as if we are pushed to Communicate with our partners, because love can make us to become open and this can even compromise us if we are dating the Wrong person, the importance of Communication is linked to love because if partners cannot talk matters it' means something is wrong and immediate attention should be devoted to the matters so joint agreements can be reach on how to handle the obstacles which made it hard for spouse to stop communicating because lack of open communication can create major stumbling blocks into the Relationship because some people can bottle matters and express them with their actions by Rejecting to communicate, that's why the first rule about Learning about your relationship is to find out how open as Spouse's are you to communicate your matters and find Solutions, what makes Communication important is how both spouse's are willing to learn and accept each others shortcomings and love each other, Communication is power because we can express what we feel and what we don't want that's why we edge you to review how you and your partner understand the power of Communication and what areas of improvement should you adopt as partners.
What makes the Spouses avoid Communicating?
They are several factors that can make spouses avoid Communicating check the following:
- Pain
- Unforgivable
- Revenge
- Ignorance
- Stress
- Affairs
- Problems
- Change
- Secrets
- Pain & Disappointments
As you check the above list you will release how we can end up not understanding why we have stop communicating as Partners, because as you can see different types of circumstances can challenge us and some can make us even more stressful, take for example the new covid-19 pandemic has done damage on many families, because people have lost jobs and this can worsen the matters especially to Communicate as partners because money can become a weapon in this case because we can avoid to Communicate with each other because we know that we cannot meet certain responsibilities and this can change the direction of how the relationship was functioning, Remember we have given you a task to check how you and your partner handle Communication and this can help you to understand those 10 factors which increase our chances to avoid to speak with our partner because sometimes it takes courage to express your self especially if the relationship is hitting the rock bottom, the only problem with spouses is the part of keeping secrets from each other that's why once the hard times arrives they cannot solve matters, and this activity can destroy the relationship, when we avoid something there's is a problem and all partners should be concerned about this so they can seek ways to find the solution to solve the matter of avoiding Communication..
What are the red flags about failing to understand how to communicate your needs?
Warning it's very important to ask before you can think for your partner because they only trap which has done many damages to some relationships, sometimes it's best to ask if you see something which has caught your attention as a change because as we get older we might be changing certain behaviors or increasing them, that's why we Advice you to seek professional help if you still struggle to find common ground to talk your matters as Partners because they are warning signs which we can start to pay attention on and this comes back to how you love each other if things have changed in a manner whereby you get annoyed by your partner that's something to pay attention too because love cannot stay when the heart is not open to love, that's why paying attention to small details can help Partners to figure out what kind of warning signs can destroy their Relationship and start to refrain from those particular things.
Why Communication is all about mutual understanding?
Communication is all about exchanging thoughts, that's why we have guided you to find out how you Communicate some Matters with your partner because at the end of any conversation what really matters is how you as individuals understand what has been said, because another trap in many relationship is misunderstanding and this can damage your Relationship because sometimes some people can pick up wrong Matters and try to make them relevant that's why Arguments should be checked because some are health and others are poisonous because if we don't care about what we are saying we end talking without thinking and this is dangerous because words can build inside ourselves that's why anger should be channelled correctly because if we care we can start to understand that some words are not worth to be shared with others because those words don't build but destroy, that's why your mutual understanding comes back to how you listen to each others concerns and taking them very serious and asking forgiveness if something is not acted properly and that's how mutual understanding should be channelled as Partners.
Can Communication lead a relationship to succeed?
Communication is what builds Success in many Relationships because when spouses meet they communicate so what can make them stop communicating is how they handle their Attitude towards correcting what is not working in the relationship that's why the success of the relationship can be judged by simple things which we sometimes take them for granted, that's why we always regret later in life how we failed to take advantage of what was supposed to become our life long relationship because we don't take time to reflect on how important our Spouses are into our lives that's why it's very important to appreciate each other while time is available because your Relationship success is built by those small wins and obstacles you are overcoming as partners, success in a relationship is a joint effort all parties must be willing to give 100 % this can help the relationship to succeed and be willing to learn and accept the mistakes.
Startup Business
Title description: 19 June 2021
Why concept marketing is key for startup businesses?
Every concept should be well researched and marketed, because if you can take a close look, you will realize how powerful marketing can be especially if matched with the right customers that's why some concepts don't take time to get adopted by majority of people because they are championed by mass Marketing hooks which some happen hidden, take for example the power of product referrals, this can happen unaware because most of customers can promote your product on behalf of you just by talking about it, that's why your concept should be able to provide value to the customer so it won't be hard for people to speak about its own offerings and how the Solution is helping them, because if the concept is complex and this will show up during your marketing campaigns because people view Simplicity is an option that's why today it's becoming more easier to use those application which are more sample and user friendly because this save us time and this is what we call concept marketing, your solution market it's self based on your value proposition.
Why Entrepreneurs Fail to understand their startup business concepts?
This topic we have covered in our YouTube channel, we have talked about the importance of paying attention to what kind of concept you Choose for your Start-up Business because this has relevance to what kind of Execution you will take for that particular business, regularly most Entrepreneurs take for granted the power of researching their startup business concept to they just jump From one idea to another without gaining any traction that's why most of Entrepreneurs never achieve much, because your startup business to succeed this trap of changing concepts without getting any market feedback can push back your startup business progress backward because if you can check most Entrepreneurs cant execute their concepts, some can cite relevant reasons but the only option for the success of your entrepreneurial journey is to Master Execution because that's where you can learn more about what is working and what you should improve on your Startup Business.
What makes a Startup Business concept viable?
The viability of startup business concept can become tricky because some Businesses can gain traction earlier and fail to grow while time goes by, that's why as we have cautioned you that it's very important to understand how research builds viable Businesses, because, without proper understanding of how Research plays a part on your startup business then, viability cannot be studied, because what makes some concepts to end up becoming viable is what kind of the solution does that concept propose to the market and what kind of user Community does it have and attracts that's why it's very important to understand who is your ideal customers why they have chosen your service.
Why concept should be researched continuously?
Concepts are engines you need to take them into maintenance and observation because many startup business concepts end up not succeeding because they lack proper planning to enforce improvements of the existing concept they have, that's why the role of updates plays an important role when it comes to helping the concept to keep on growing because your only way to keep on improving your startup business is to master the art of continuous research and development because sometimes you might be failing to profit because you are using the wrong model for your Start-up that's why research can help you address this gaps and improve your market viability because improvements mean growth that's why what you are planning to improve must be channeled by your research.
Can a concept succeed without marketing?
Sales and marketing are like yin and yang all going together that's why it's highly impossible to succeed in your startup business cannot master the art of selling and marketing, that's why sometimes Entrepreneurs takes various activities to spread their concept on different Social media networks just to create user feedback and gain insights about what is working because your Concept to end up becoming viable it has to pass the stage of sales and traction that's why we have told you about the importance of profit as a Startup Business because this can prove the type of value that you are providing, that's why sales can tell us more about what we are doing.
Career and Work
Title description: 18 June 2021
Why unique skills matter?
Everything we constantly do comes back to our skills, that's why from childhood upbringing we are trained to acquired certain skills, this means life has its own requirements to give us this responsibility to make sure everyone has a particular skill, this is in our natural DNA, because and to further investigate this subject of skills we are have to look at how many people succeed once they start to apply their skills, because if we can check from our communities and in our lives, people who take advantage of their skills they end up becoming successful and those who don't do anything about their skills they become failures of of non achievement, because skills protect us and we are obligated by natural principle's to obtain results as we grow from one stage of life into other, that's why being aware about your skill usage is an advantage to prioritize as an individual, because as you can notice we profit once we apply our skills and keep on improving them that's why selection of skills is mandatory for your success.
Can one skill make you successful?
As you have noticed we as individuals have diverse skills set , because life is a balancing factor whereby we have to apply certain skills on other parts of life and never use them again and there's another framework which we are obligated to apply our skills on regular basis that's why even from school or our immediate homes we are taught different skills this helps us to adapt and be able to face different types of circumstances and be able to use what we have , because one skill cannot lead you to success and as pointed above we as individuals we don't have one skills the only problem we are facing is how to apply our diverse skills to succeed on our plans that's why in school they trained you to memorize knowledge not to use it that's why it's becoming very hard for many people to apply what they have learned because they lack the skills of applying what they have learned and this can take time to understand and to evaluate this factors you need to check people who are already Successful and double check what kind of skills they have used to succeed but as noted today we are facing unprecedented times whereby changes happened oftentimes influenced by new Technologies that's why we have told you to choose skills which match this new changes as you progress in your career path because one skill is like a penny in your wallet that's why it's not enough to make you Successful as an individual.
Why specialization is not for everyone?
This question is Recurring we are now expanding it to another level, as individuals we have to take this practical example into account because in life we have two kinds of individuals:
- Those who generalize
- Those who specialize
The first group of people mostly they are influenced by opinions once they make their statements that's why it's becoming very hard to succeed once you are into this group of people because they lack proper skills to investigate the matters which are so very crucial in their lives and this can even worsen their ability to avoid taking action because they use the information without checking it's viability
The second group of people we hope you are part of it because it's based on people who pay attention to details and focus on facts and they double-check the information and question it, that's why this group of people always succeed because they are very curious to check the evidence and keep on acting on what is based on facts, not opinions.
Specialization is a skill you have to be willing to pick your field of choice and start to Master that particular field but this can take time to figure out because somehow you will require assistance from others to advance your Learning as you grow with your career, but it's very important to learn from other people who specialize so you can be familiar with what is going on and how some matters are handled by a specialist because skills can reveal our Specialization that's why we have given you two scenarios about those who generalize and those who specialize.
Can multiple skills open opportunities?
This is obvious as noted above as individuals we have diverse skills sets and the only challenge we are facing is how to apply those skills so we can succeed in our careers and immediate families, multiple skills mean a range of options that's why once you have identified your skills and start to apply each of your skills you will realize how success is easy for you because sometimes we miss opportunities because we take our skills for granted or doubt them that's why having diverse of skills today is confusing because most people they don't know where are should start to apply their skills and this approach is stressful because to acquire a skill and only to find out you should shelve it because it's no longer relevant it's confusing.
Why you should have reserved skills?
If you have been paying attention to what we have told you about checking which skills match the New economy then you will understand us when we talk about the importance of reserved skills because they are sometimes you will require specialized skills and the only way is to have them at your disposal that's why continuous learning is always an advantage because that's where you will discover how you grab certain Opportunities just by using your Skills, reserved skills are like spare keys you won't know when you will require them but it's very important to have those spare keys, the only way to absorb this information is to reflect your current skills and results and what new skills should you acquire so you can have a backup plan.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 17 June 2021
Why we are afraid of Rejection?
We are not afraid of Rejections without no reason behind, because most of the Rejections we are experiencing some can really touch our emotions and even make us to feel very weaker, from childhood upbringing we are somehow exposed to tough circumstances which sometimes we are required to prove ourselves how good we are as individuals, that's why it's becoming very hard to challenge your mental conditioning because we have mental patterns which support us to fear rejections, as we get older we start to become aware or not familiar with what has damage our self image, because once we get rejected oftentimes we end losing faith of being accepted that's why today we still struggle to restore mankind confidence to express his or her own view because we are afraid of criticism and rejections that's why fear of rejections only exist in our sub conscious mind and it's very important to check this factor because you might be blocked by this framework whereby you end up becoming stuck unaware or not trying to do what you want because you care too much about the opinions of others and not paying attention to what you what you achieve, we fear rejections because we have linked them with pain and misery that's why we don't want to be rejected.
How do we learn about Rejections?
Learning about Rejections is something so scarce you can come across it, because as individuals we have different types of Rejections we are always trying to break free from them, that's why today there's no school which can teach you how to tackle rejections because most of our rejections some happen unaware that's why we don't understand them, the only time we can find out about our rejections is when we want to check the results or we have set expectations but only to realize we have been rejected and this can either expand our learning about how we should look how we have been rejected or it can worsen the matters by making us to ignore what is happening, because most of people they do mourn their rejections but oftentimes this is done privately that's why it's becoming hard for us as individuals to learn about those rejections because we don't know where to start with them, because pain can control our thinking that's why we sometimes feel bad to express our rejections because we are afraid to be judged by others or appearing as if we don't try enough.
Who taught us to fear rejection?
We have adopted this fear of rejections from our parent's, families, friends, teachers, priest, mentors and other influencial individuals, because fear of rejections is a broader matter, take for example the fear of money, as we get older we become aware how the society had done damage on our self image because we have grouped certain things based on how we can afford and what others have that's why once we start to break away from our comfort zone some people can start to criticize us and became mean to us , even on school we have been rejected so much because we where judged based on Performance of results and this has increased our fears as individuals because we know that if we don't do our best we would be rejected and named by our fellow brothers and sisters that's why we have to review who has played role into helping us to build this Rejections barriers and how can we begin to break free from that particular situation because sometimes to cure something you need to find the root cause analysis of it that's why you have to understand what created your fears about Rejections and how can you find the solution.
Why do we mourn our Rejections?
We mourn our Rejections because we care about the expectations which we have set to achieve that's why it's becoming hard to come into peace once we get rejected because sometimes we give our best shoots just to find out what we have proposed is not required, but the truth growth about life in general is to embrace those Rejections and be willing to learn from them, because sometimes Rejections can help us to correct something about our lives that's why perseverance is important in life because if you lack it you cannot succeed because everyday as individuals we reject something and this is our biological footprint and we have to check it because when we start to mourn we can become frustrated and end up feeling we are not good enough, that's why people prefer to mourn their rejections privately because there's no one who will judge them but this activity is dangerous because it can destroy your focus and confidence to try again that's why it's very important to find out how can you express your feelings once you have been rejected and be able to accept the lessons and move ahead because Rejections don't have time to nurse your feelings.
Why don't want to be rejected?
We don't want to be rejected because we feel isolated once we are rejected that's why we take it personally once we start to find out we are constantly rejected by others, because this approach make us to reflect what we are doing and what is wrong with us as individuals because rejections can raise our awesomeness and even reveal internal conflicts, that's why we can be rejected but it's becoming very hard to forget about it and this can show us how much we care about our plans or goals and it's very important to accept that the road of life is filled with major obstacles which some we can overcome and some we have to accept they are out of our control and this can help us channel our actions and expectations into a balanced equation, because we cannot get ahead if we hate Rejections, because we can hate but at the end we need to achieve our Goal's that's why we have advice you to take those Rejections as your learning curves not as your stumbling blocks because fear at the end of the day doesn't pay bills for us that's why we gotta do what we have and achieve those Goal's.
Health and Life
Title description: 16 June 2021
Why sex is all about power?
Power is a current force, with sex we have to understand they are different types of energies which takes part once partners engage on sex, and this topic is broader, because to have sex individuals should use power, and this depends on what kind of power is used, because as individuals we have to take into consideration that sex can differ from one person to another and this can help us to clarify that sexual powers will always differ, because what makes power to be active is the usage of it and where it's coming from, and with health and science, information has been gathered and tested to justify why sex has important role into our lives and what kind of powers it can boost us with, and the success of using correct sexual powers lies on communication and consent as partners, because some people can abuse sex and this can even affect the health of the relationship, that's why balance is power when it comes to Power because if sex is used carelessly the consequences are always very dire that's why we have to check this factors which plays role to this emotion of us, because this can be something challenging to explore but it's very necessary to seek even professional help to accelerate your learning about your sexual powers and how you should maintain such activities which plays q vital role into your Relationship, because power is dangerous and it requires skills to be used properly, that's why your health can tell and reveal your sexual powers as an individual.
What makes sex powers from health?
Sex is a weapon from families, churches, cultures, schools, to name the few, we have to understand that sex hold one of the human nature powers which some are often used correctly, but oftentimes time sex has created lot of Problems for mankind, because majority of people regret later in life about using sex without understanding it , with sex multiple opportunities and sufferings we're conducted in the name of sex, because this weapon from family stand point it can even worsen your life problems, imagine if you can't bear children and your immediate family blame you, this ongoing challenge has wreck many families to this date, because sex was given the responsibility in some levels which are totally unfair, look at how nepotism has turn many woman to end up exchanging their bodies just to get jobs, this is all in the name of using the magnetic powers of sex , because this emotions of sex we are not taught how to control it, that's why we see man raping and this should stop because we cannot build a successful society if people use sex as a weapon to others just to advance or quench their desires over, look at how the religious leaders have tried to put fear into mankind by telling him about the sin of sex , but still today we are not complying to that message of sin , because as individuals we are natural obligated by our DNA code to use sex a biological factor to grow the population, but the fact remains sex Power is somehow based on masculinity because by nature many many use sex Powers to trap woman and some woman can use sex too to control many man, that's why as we have discussed this Powers of sex is based on who use it and how he or she understands it.
How can you analyze your sexual powers?
We cannot perform analysis without checking the importance of finding out which habits and desires drive our sexual powers, they are different types of medical techniques which are available for us to review our sexual powers, but it's very important to check how our habits control our sexual powers, as human beings we are somehow addicted to certain behaviours and actions, sex can become one of our addictions, but because we are afraid to break this silence to say we are struggling to understand what makes us addicted to sex and this depletes our energy to end up not performing relevant duties, that's why sometimes to understand the use of something you have to check how frequent you use it or desire to practice it, that's why we can become addicted but not aware that's why to analyze your sexual powers you are required to check how often you have sex and from your view do you see yourself as an addict or not, then you can check your health and what's stressing you because sometimes we can have problems which ends up making us to avoid having sex that's why to further investigate this we suggest you seek professional help.
What is beyond your sexual powers?
They are different types of things which can become challenging and we can't control them, check the power of our imagination, many people have this self image within themselves whereby it controls their desires and fantasies but unaware, that's why we have talked about the power of satisfaction, because most of us we are taught to be satisfied by others, that's why it's becoming very hard for many people to learn about what is satisfying them, because the responsibility has shifted to someone else, it's like expecting others to make you happy, this are some of the challenges most people are experiencing because what is inside your mind can only be satisfied by what kind of thoughts you use , because everyone has his or her own desires and fantasies and this has to be checked because flashbacks memories can tell you about what's beyond your control, you need to search within and check what is beyond your control when it comes to explore your sexual powers, remember the body has its own limitations and barriers.
Why do we lack moral ethics to learn about our sexual experience and knowledge?
The concept of sex education is still treated as a taboo in our communities, how can we learn whenever we are afraid to talk about sex , we have privatize the knowledge of sex that's why we have majority of people who don't know what is all about sex , and we lack this information because our cultures have done more damage to restrict our learning and treating this subject of sex as reserved for adults and how many people who are adults who really know about sex , especially what makes good or bad sex only few people can tell you the truth about sex because most people use sex as a weapon as discussed and this approach is challenging because we don't take time and reflect on what makes good sexual life, we use sex as an entry point of relieving our emotions and problems that's why it's becoming difficult to teach people about sex because their self image is conditioned to think that sex is a sin and you cannot talk about it, this are some of the barriers which are created by our religion and cultures just to restrict human beings to comply to certain dogmas, and it's happening people are afraid to talk about sex as as if it's a crime to open talks about sex because we are afraid of the unknown.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 15 June 2021
Why money is not happiness?
Money is a tool , happiness is a choice, majority of individuals confuse money with happiness, because lacking something can convince you that once you get it you will be happy, and this approach is challenging because tools have their own limitations and barriers, that's why money cannot solve all your problems but it can only deal serve purpose to allow you to access those options you we're struggling to used once you we're lacking money, happiness is what you created within yourself, that's why you cannot involve money once you start to review or investigate what makes you happy, as noted on our previous conversation we have pointed out that majority of people have money inside their wallets but still don't find any happiness with what they have , and this illusion is affecting majority of people because we think more more can make us happy whenever there's no one who knows what is more money, sometimes you have to distance your happiness from money, because that's where you can identify which area in your life money plays a crucial role and what limits money will have into your life, happiness is within your thoughts and money is a tool which can help you used those thoughts and enjoy your life.
Can happiness be brought by money?
This topic is recurring because we thought about it and we now expand it to another level, money is a tool, it cannot buy you happiness, but it can buy you material that supports what makes you happy if you want to investigate this subject in-depth, why banks don't sell happiness because money is already their asset?
We have to be careful about these statements which confuse the majority of people, money plays an important role in our lives but it depends on how we use it to create our happiness because mankind even today still struggles to understand what is satisfaction to thy self because as individuals we somehow use the information without checking it, that's why we end becoming miserable, Happiness cannot be sold, because it will have been sold out already, people who search for external happiness without checking what's inside themselves always struggle with this problem of thinking money can buy happiness, and if money will have this power to buy happiness why all of us who have those pennies inside our wallets do go and buy happiness, remember there's no shop which sells happiness, your thoughts build your happiness if you are miserable you got to solve that first. Try it on yourself and ask yourself where can I buy happiness with my money?
Should money be part of your priorities?
Money even if it's part of your priorities, money is a tool, and all tools have their advantages and disadvantages because we cannot give up our powers and say we are driven by money, we have to check our plans or goals because that's where we can discover if we have given money this responsibility of taking over our lives, everyone has his or her own choices, especially how to select what kind of priorities they choose to follow, but most people money is not their priority because in some ways money is selective because you need to take action and keep on trying until you figure out your financial strategy that's why the majority of people want money they don't need money, once money is your need it means you have to prioritize your actions to get it, your priorities can teach you about what you are doing with your life.
Why happiness is linked to money?
Happiness is linked to money because media outlets and other champions of the industry have given people a preview of what money can do within your life, that's why we find it so very easy to think that once we have money we are going to be happy, and this mental fallacy is an illusion because we live in an imaginary world, what you put inside your subconscious mind can appear as your reality, that's why it's very challenging to tell people that money won't make them happy because they have already build mental patterns which support this illusion, it's like the existence of God, some people have not even tried to get clarity on this subject because they always reason the existence of God based on what is inside their subconscious mind and their knowledge campus, money is linked to many things because it cannot speak, that's why we find it easy to give it responsibilities which some are insane.
Why misery can teach us about happiness?
Misery is power, because we often don't take this subject very seriously, that's why it's very important to understand what makes you miserable and what are you suppose to do so you can deal with that particular misery you are facing , misery is the absence of happiness, that's why we all know what we lack and we sometimes think money will help us solve this problem, if we lack we something that's why as individuals we have to study this subject of happiness and money, because what you lack you should not take it for granted because that's were most people end up becoming envious about the success of others, because they are not looking at what they are suppose to do they are paying attention to what is lacking , that's why problems don't have value if you are not willing to solve them, because that will be the reflections of how you don't care about that particular situation especially what you lack, we need to find balance because misery doesn't select, everyone can become miserable it depends which department of life your goals or plans are focused on. Happiness is always with us and misery is also with us, that's why it's very important to find out which one is driving our lives.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 14 June 2021
Why reality can create religious problems?
Some of us live under the impression that life is all about heaven and hell, or is about good or bad, this mental framework has created mental illusions that some we can't control because they have already created our day-to-day realities when it comes to Religion change is stagnant, but life is evolving, this means they are some activities which won't align with our Religious activities but they are necessary to be conducted, change is not stubborn because we choose to either embrace it or not, take for example the challenge which covid-19 pandemic has brought into the Religious structures because they're leaders who have compromise their followers lives to fail to comply to covid-19 protocols, that's why our realities about what is all about religion have changed because some of this churches have done good and bad, that's why many people have started to question the importance of Religion as in some ways had failed to protect them.
Can we stop reality and use illusions?
Reality and illusions they're yin and yang, for one to embrace one has to use the other, so we have to check what's the purpose of understanding the limitations or the complexity of this subject. Reality is part of our outside world, and illusions are located in our imagination, that's why we have heard people talking about two sides of the world, which is an internal and external world, this approach always shapes our attention, because sometimes it depends which side of the world you often use and what kind of results are you getting because our mental conditioning is based on which types of thoughts are highly impressed on your subconscious mind and what patterns does your brain follows, that's why we can hear individuals saying your reality is not the same as theirs, this is true because we have two sides of the world, that's why the ancient sages have Caution us to never compare ourselves with others because our uniqueness is our power and that's why we cannot separate this two elements called reality and illusions.
Why reality doesn't care about our religious practices?
It's time we take these practical lessons into account, because we have seen how covid-19 pandemic has put a pause on many Religious activities, and we have seen how much reality doesn't care about our lives because this change happens by Reasons and we have to accept new beginnings as we are evolving to another part of life, we as individuals we have the responsibility to either embrace changes or ignore them, because everyone has the responsibility to study what kind of reality aligns with their lives and why, because the reason why reality doesn't care is that nature is always on motion, every space must be filled with action, that's why idleness that's what reality doesn't permit, because it's either you take action or action will be taken against you, and they are no favors when it comes to nature, Mankind must comply or else suffer the consequences.
What makes us end up avoiding reality?
As individuals we cannot avoid reality, and can only ignore it for a temporary moment because life is a reality, you cannot avoid cause and effect, it's either you are achieving or failing, they are relevant reasons which make us find it difficult to accept reality and some are self-made and others can be out of our control, that's why as you begin to review your options about life it's very important to understand how you avoid certain truth's about your life because we cannot avoid without no reason that's why we have to check what exactly makes us avoid our realities and how can we start to accept what's happening and seek new improvements unless we are going to get stuck by what we keep on avoiding, sometimes we have to face the worst-case scenario just to find out who we are and what capabilities we have as individuals because your reality tells you about your life, not about the world alone, that's why you have to be concerned about your thoughts and action.
Why some realities can make you doubt your religion?
Take for example the likes of the covid-19 pandemic, this challenge has opened many Doubts, especially if God still exists for his people, because life has shown us that it can wipe us all in just a few years, and we have learned the lessons but somehow many people have lost their lives because changes such as this ones have consequences on our lives, that's why today most people have doubts about their religions because what covid-19 pandemic is currently showing us is something new that's why mankind Intelligence cannot solve all problems.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 13 June 2021
What creates respect management in a relationship?
Respect is part of understanding how to humble yourself and be able to accept others, every relationship with components of respect will always succeed, we have to check what type of Respect we offer to ourselves and why has informed us to use that particular respect because some people can mirror your respect and give it back to you, that's why we don't take it for granted once someone starts to disrespect us but because we love them we can end up compromising ourselves from telling them the truth, that's why Respect is an asset because if any partner begins to disrespect the relationship they don't fulfill or no longer honor the vows you have made together, and this can destroy the relationship because the only way to manage respect is remaining honest and caring for each other.
Why do marriages which are tightened by respect stand a chance to succeed?
Respect is ordered, and with the order, we can improve our discipline, because what a successful relationship without respect?
We have indicated the importance of how as human beings acknowledge the power of respect and how we feel if we are respected by spouses because for progress to take over within your Relationship all partners should understand what is respect and how to maintain it continuously because a relationship can be destroyed by small tiny things which can be corrected by using the Respect, this is some of the basic elements of respect which can assist your Relationship:
- Respect of time
We need to respect each other's time as spouses because time is life and if we disrespect it, we are doing harm to our lives and those relationships we are involved into because if time is used correctly, building your Relationship to succeed is very easy.
- Emotions
We need to respect each other's Emotions as a spouse's because this tendency of taking each other's Emotions for granted has destroyed many relationships to this date if we kindly Respect our Emotions it won't be hard to Respect our significant other Emotions, the only thing that can connect our hearts and minds is our emotions that's why we don't forget how others treat us.
- Promise's
The ability to fulfill your promises is very critical because it shows you Respect your Commitments and promises and spouses should keep on delivering what they have promised.
- Progress
Achievement is selective because you have to understand how to build your Relationship progress, this means all partners should commit to building something worth for their Relationship and keep on supporting each other.
- Skills and experience
We have to respect the skills and experience of ourselves and our partners because for any Relationship to succeed, we need to use our skills very wisely so we can create better circumstances for ourselves as Partners.
- Culture
Every relationship has its own Culture, we ought to be very careful about what kind of culture have we adopted and what benefits come along with our culture, respect is all about honoring those boundaries.
- Religion
You can differ with believes but what unites you is love and we edge people to select what is best for them especially when it comes to selecting which religion your matching partner has to come with.
- Health
Health is power because to remain together and explore life we need healthy bodies, that's why it's very important to encourage each other to follow good health guidelines.
- Family
You have to respect your family, and this is a broader subject but this can come back to attention, time, and responsibilities all should be Respected by all partners.
We are unique and we have to respect those characteristics, and we have to refrain from trying to change each other, we have to accept each other as love has united us.
- Desires
We have different types of innate desires and this has to be communicated by all partners because what you desire can become a challenge to your partner but common grounds should be set up so every one of you is accommodated by those desires each of you has.
- Goals and plans
Goals unite us and we have to support each other as spouses to achieve those goals.
- Financial
All partners should respect their finances, and seek external help to accelerate their financial skills and Investment if possible
- Truth and Honesty
To respect each other we have to check how we trust each other and how honest are we to ourselves because Respect is ordered.
- Privacy and Dignity
We have to respect the confidentiality of each other and protect it because that's what Respect is all about maintaining privacy and understanding what we are supposed to share with others about our relationship.
Why we should respect our partners?
They concrete reasons why respect plays an important role into our lives and those relationship we are involved into, because without respect love cannot take place, whenever we have understood the essence of respecting each other, we have conquered what often destroy many relationship out there, respect is a choice, but is one of the important character which can reveal who you are as an individual, because people can read us using our behaviours and characteristics such as how we treat ourselves and others, respect is self made, because no one can ever teach you how to remain respectful they can only teach you respectful techniques, many relationship can be attacked by continues arguments which some are handled without any respectful approach, that's why communication is not for everyone in a relationship because as human beings we have this tendency of ignorance especially if we are wrong, that's why the entry point for your relationship to succeed is to balance respect with Love, this means you have to remind yourself what was the purpose of being into the Relationship with your partner and what really unites you as individuals.
Can respect make the relationship succeed?
We have already talked about the importance of respecting each other as spouses, right now is critical to review how to make a success from that particular respect you have built as partners because sometimes relationships fail because people never checked what's happening or what is not working within their relationship, we can give you many techniques to include on your Relationship, but there is one thing we can't give away which your will to do what is right and be willing to move away if something doesn't suit you because sometimes as individuals we tolerate different types of disrespectful behaviors from our spouses because we are hoked by this name called love, that's why it's becoming very difficult to move away from any relationships, but remember if you are disrespected, do you want to live that particular Life?
We have to prioritize ourselves if we are serious about being respected by others because some people can treat you the same you treat yourself, that's why you have to check how much you respect yourself and what are your barriers if you are disrespected in your Relationship, to succeed in your bond all partners must conduct themselves with Respectful approach because love is order and respect creates care and attention.
Why respect is power?
You can ask everyone, respect is power because as individuals we believe respect makes us relatable to others and it contains our power.
Startup Business
Title description: 12 June 2021
Why brand marketing is so important?
Last segment of this conversation we have talked about the importance of marketing, right now we are advancing our talk to check the importance of brand marketing because they are different types of benefits that come from brand marketing that can help small businesses to succeed, the following factors can help any startup to understand the importance of brand marketing:
- Comment's
- Communication
- Control
- Collaboration
- Influence
- Profit
- Growth
- Users
- Adoption
- Research
Your brand is the representative of your services, that's why you have to be careful about how you manage your name against any threats because to sell something to customers you need to influence them and your brand can help you to do such, that's why there's power in brand marketing, and how customers are influenced is how you will either return or convert them to loyal customers.
Your brand should collaborate with other brands to join forces and create more leads because affiliate marketing is what makes your brand grow and it's very important to seek partnerships with other related brands so you can collaborate to get new customers and save costs.
Brand marketing helps us to control our resources once we are campaigning for our brand exposure because if you are marketing your product or service you need to have some control, especially over your capacity to reach your marketing targets.
Your brand communicates on behalf of you because what makes brand marketing so special is to make your brand speaks for you and send customers to your business because always your brand must communicate for your business.
Any brand to succeed it's very important to understand the power of Accepting feedback from the customers and learn to change something, comments come from various avenues such as customer surveys, social media comments, service inquiry
Research can demonstrate how the brand is positioned, and it's very important to pay attention to what market trends and values do does your brand stands for.
- Profit
- Growth
- Users
- Adoption
Career and Work
Title description: 11 June 2021
How is the power of automation changing our careers?
We need to look at how we used Technology on our daily basis in order to judge how automation is changing our careers and how we used to perform certain duties, today we are using online forms which can enhance us sign and scan the forms using only few applications, this Technology is changing the work life our many of individuals, because automation has already take over most of our boring tasks , and we have to understand how the future is unpacking this new technologies, because at the end of day we are the ones who end up becoming affected by new changes within our job markets, we have to check this new shift which takes us from normal to new normal, because the power of automation is championed by us as users, because we always require faster and cheaper application to solves most of our complex tasks, that's why the new normal which the likes of covid-19 has introduce has shown us how far are we with this systems of technology, because most people were forced to adopt this new technologies immediately,and this comes back to your levels of skills, because to become familiar with changes you have to add new skills.
Why some careers are now being digitalized?
Various reports and research bodies are now giving us a pathway to understand and take look at what kind of career will be 100% automated because the fourth industrial revolution has taken over within most business industries, and digital skills are now a new commodity because to succeed in this new technological advances you have to check and clarify which skills you have and how they align you're with your career industry because most people will be unemployed due to the machine doing the job's, the recent pandemic covid-19 has given most companies to adopt new machines and replace human beings because the software doesn't strike they only require updates and to hire and fire humans is very expensive that's why most careers are shifting to the digital world to cut and save money.
These are some of the industries already affected by automated jobs:
- Manufacturing
- School's
- Banks
- Restaurants
- Retail
Can you succeed without digital skills today?
The reality of success is based on what you know and being able to apply it because they are certain jobs that will always require human interaction, today we can be living under these new technological advances, but this doesn't mean you lack digital skills you won't succeed, this means you won't be capable to use those technologies, but the reality is how you as an individual choose your career because that's where you can be able to evaluate which skills you can use to succeed. Digital skills are only mandatory if you have chosen a career that requires digital skills. The history of success is dominated by those who have used Technology and those who didn't use it it's all about how you apply your skills.
Why Automation is seen as a danger to many to our careers?
Career automation is championed by machines some don't require human interaction, the shift to migrate most careers into a digital space can threaten our jobs, because if changes are led by automation some of us won't get any employment because most of our university or college degrees don't include digital skills, that's why somehow we see the increase of unemployment of graduates, this due to new world changes, even worse the pandemic covid-19 has changed the job markets and this has given the automation space to be used across many sectors of jobs.
Can Technology destroy our traditional opportunities?
Technology cannot destroy all our traditional jobs, because those machines, robotics, or software always require human interaction in some sort, that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of checking which skills you have, so you can decide which career direction are you facing.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 10 June 2021
Why rejections are important?
This topic is extended to explore other avenues which relate to this challenging topic called Rejections, because as we have caution you to take a close look at what makes our lives miserable or Successful, because as we are still living people will always reject us whether we like it or not, because to get rejected is a form of an advantage, because you can do something either to understand or ignore that lesson, rejections makes us to feel bad, but to further investigate our creativity we have to check which Rejections often happen to us or why, some of us we can try to venture into new businesses, and this can affect our lives because as in the business world Rejections are always available, you will hear the word NO left and right, that's why to overcome some Rejections you should have a thick skin, to embrace the challenges and keep on learning from your mistakes, Rejections builds our confidence, we have to check this factors which increase our Rejections and start to learn about the importance of paying attention to details about the subject of Rejections.
How to evaluate your rejections?
We have to check again and again because , as discussed this topic of Rejections we have covered it our our book, but we feel it's very important to double this conversation again, because as individuals we are challenged and sometimes affected by many types of Rejections which some push us to end up giving up in life, because rejections as pointed out they are painful, they can even reduce our confidence, that's why we edge you to double check this topic again, because if not, you will someday face this monster called the Rejections, and you won't know how to profit from such challenges which can help you to overcome that particular situation, we cannot evaluate if we don't pay attention to details, we have to check our goals and plans and see where are the Rejections coming from and why, take for example, searching for a job Opportunity, we know most of us that employment is rare and we often shy away to face this Reality, we have to check again where are those Rejections coming from and what are we doing that is increasing our chances to be rejected, some of us we apply for jobs which we don't qualify for, and this increase those rejections, that's why we edge you to compare this two elements of conversations the one we shared last week about the importance of paying attention or how to evaluate your Rejections and what to do.
Why do people reject us?
In the end, we are all human beings, we always reject each other and this is human nature, we cannot relate to everyone, that's why we cannot be friends with everyone, this is something you should check because every day we reject something either people or other things that's why we should not be angry when we are rejected, all we have to do is to accept this truth that rejections are part of life and we should welcome them and move ahead with our lives, because to get stuck in life is very easy, over thinking and doing nothing, never allow Rejections to stop you from perusing your goals and plans, remember your Rejections can make sense if they improve your life not destroying it.
What are the benefits of rejections?
We have listed the benefits of rejections but we shall extend the list so can understand furthermore:
- Resilience
- Reflection
- Collaboration
- Creativity
- Confidence
- Progress
- Power
- Passion
- Productivity
- Perseverance
What creates rejections?
This question is amazing because we all know or we can learn this from here, Rejections are created based on something we don't like or have doubts about it, take for example a salesman who sell funereal covers, oftentimes people reject the offer even though they don't know why, because we are build to reject strangers, that's why it takes time to qualify a prospect to become a customer, whenever we are aware about this factors which create our rejections, we can start to control our emotions and start to understand that no matter what good or bad we do, people will always reject us and that's the reality of life, we cannot run away from Rejections, because we as individuals we are always Rejecting others, and we have to reflect back on this subject, because you cannot find a person who cannot reject, some with ignore this truth, but they know they don't like what is offered, that's why we are the creator's of the Rejections and we have power to overcome those obstacle's which keep us posted on Rejections are j which stand on our way to success.
Health and Life
Title description: 09 June 2021
Why does exercising boost our health powers?
Exercising is an advantage because mostly our bodies require us to shake up our muscles, scientist has figured out how can we maintain our health by learning to eat foods which support or those that align with our bloodline, because exercising is a basic element of obtaining or controlling your health but as we individuals who we have choices to make sure we remain healthy or we destroy our health because your body is supported by your health, that's why there's a difference between being sick and being healthy because the feelings of health are more welcomed than those of pains, your health powers can be created by your Habits which regulate our control your actions, that's why you should ask yourself what make you healthy and what your doctor recommends for you a guide of exercising.
Can we be healthy without exercising?
Health is based on our body's functionality, it's like an engine and the gearbox, all components complete each other, like your health, you have to combine several elements to complete your Health, we sometimes overlook the importance of taking those small exercises, because we have been taught to ignore what's basic that's why we sometimes fail to even maintain small basic health practices, things like eating correctly, we know too much but we don't act, that's why your ability to respect your health comes back to what you know and do about your health because exercising is a recommendation for obtaining your health ticket or you can wait until you receive those medical bills about something which you could have solved by taking care of our small exercises.
Why do people hate to exercise?
People don't hate without any reason, that's why we have to question this:
- Do people hate good health?
- Or do people hate to work for good health?
The second answer is the most common cause of why we end up hating to take personal responsibility to make sure we take health very seriously, because we should remind you again that, there's no one who can exercise on your behalf, that's your body, you need to take care of it, because what you feel will be based on your health levels,we can't hate something which improves our lives and do something which destroy our lives,it's how you see things sometimes that's where your eyes will open, because we like to postpone small actions which end up becoming roadblocks in our lives, exercising it's a choice when your are healthy,but when your are sick and trying to restore your health it's a must, look at those individuals who struggle with obesity, they somehow consume more food and when it's time to get back to real activities of life their health start to show them flames, because your body is your engine if you don't maintain it you won't function at the optimal level that's why we can hate to exercise but at the e of the day it's good for our lives and health.
Can exercise increase your happiness?
Earlier on the segment of happiness we have pointed out the importance of learning about what makes us healthy concerning what creates our happiness, when we take care of our bodies we always feel happy when our cars are well serviced or maintained, they function better, what we can tell you is this, being health goes together with happiness, you cannot see an unhealthy person with constant Happiness, because bad habits always are burdens and they cost us more effort and energy to maintain them, that's why we can't be happy with bad habits, we can feel good when we maintain good health from food, sex, finance, relationship, learning, praying, sharing and other contributing factors which increase our happiness as human beings, because to take care of our bodies is to check what makes us feel energetic and which basic health practices we should follow.
How to understand your health powers?
These are some key techniques to help us judge our health Powers:
- Exercising
- Dieting
- Fasting
These are key components of testing our health powers because we cannot balance the Power if we don't test it, as individuals we can fast, diet, and exercise, all it's based on your responsibility to accept and take action on those options mentioned above, because as discussed we as individuals no one will take time for our health to fix it or improve it, so this remains our responsibility to make sure we are healthy and keep on testing our health Powers, the only power is to be aware of your health because the advantage of life comes back to your ability to function better as an individual.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 08 June 2021
Can happiness be read from our body language?
Happiness is private but our body language can say something about our general well being regarding the happiness we have as individuals, because sometimes our body language can say a lot about what we feel , you can take for example, a gloomy face, all we know it reflects unhappiness and pain, that's why it's very easy to read the body language of people who are not happy, because they gestures are always negative and defensive, that's why Learning about the body language can help us to get clarity about how some people behave on certain occasions, you body language says a lot about you state of mind, that's why whatever that's held on your mind constantly, it can reflect on your actions and results, our happiness is always read from our body language, because they are different types of gestures which can tell if someone is happy, take for example a smiling face, we all know that this can be related to a spark of happiness, because some people can smile but deep inside they are not happy, that's why it's very hard to confirm if people are happy once they smile, but your body language can tell you about your happiness.
Why does money speak in languages?
Money speak in languages because we as individuals don't speak the same languages, but the truth about money is that we as individuals we make a lot of ideas about money, that's why we end us thinking that money is a problem in our lives, whenever we have thinking issues about money, please take this self-research and review yourself, how many of us we are taught that money is evil, and we have not checked the reasons behind this statements?
We are conditioned to follow certain standards, and if the money in real terms speaks languages, such as :
- Contribution
- Dignity
- Bribe
- Power
- Financial
And any other aspects which make money to speak in languages we have created, then it's time to get ourselves into this investigation of how we relate to these languages, are we using the language or success or lack when it comes to money?
We are responsible to take this practical example into account because, if we don't check the type of language we use for money we are risking our lives because money relates to what you say, it's like love, it requires actions to become stronger.
Can money rule our language?
Time is the rule of life, money comes after, that's why they are lot of sayings which says time is money, we have to explore this topic, because if time is linked with money, then it means we have to ask ourselves what exactly are we doing with our time and what kind of results are we achieving, because the language of time is overrated because most people know about time but only few understand the importance of using time accurately, this applies the same to money, most of us we can earn salaries, but only few can get wealthy about what they are saving, this shows that money can rule our language, because for it to speak for you on behalf you should be disciplined to keep it save and multiply it, no wonder why in banks they don't require noise, because money is respected and how you speak about it should be checked because you can't speak bad about it and expect to get it , that's why we give you an invitation to check how you talk about money and who is helping you to extend those talks about money, and what kind of language are you using and why.
Why money can change our language?
Money is a language changer only if you want to boost others, because some of us grew up without having sufficient information or resource to cater us to have balanced accounts which makes us financially stable, that's why to reach such milestone can make us scream and be excited, and this can change our actions or languages, because some of us we don't know about self-control and how to manage our success, that's why some people can reveal their attitudes and bad treatment once the money starts to pour it their accounts, and this approach can change how they talk or relate to others because lacking money is a prison on its own and having it is freedom which requires management and skills.
Why happiness can speak on your body language?
They are different types of actions which can evoke emotions of happiness, that's why we have to check our body language because sometimes we can spend our days not happy and not aware, but paying attention to your body you can find something which has upset you and this can help you to understand how your happiness is often displayed in your body language, take, for example, surprises can make us happy and even gifts and achievements, that's why we have to be aware of what makes us happy and if possible do something to increase that particular situation or activity to make our lives happy, some people feel happy once they are healthy, so you have to pick your body gestures very careful if you want to track your happiness.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 07 June 2021
What type of religious doubts are we facing in the 21st century?
Currently covid-19 has exposed many churches , because we have seen how much and how some priest have took the advantage to rob people in the name of the Religion, and this activity has increase many doubts on how to trust churches, because their leaders has been tainted with various allegations such as rape and Abuse, and this normality has been going around since,but the truth starts to show up, because most people are tired of being taken advantage of , Religious activities has raised many questions, especially when it comes to pray for the vaccine for covid-19, because many people have lost their lives because some pastors has told them to avoid the treatment, this is doubtful situation, because pastors have been arguing with scientist about the usage of this vaccines, but yet pastors don't create their own vaccine's to help their congregation, this are some of the real doubts about this Religions, because most people have absolute believes and they end up becoming vulnerable that's why Religion is a controller to many people.
Can religion be perfect?
According to the bible nothing last forever, even with us we are mortal human beings, any Religion cannot be perfect because we are always evolving, and this makes new changes to present us with new challenges and opportunities, and within these activities, we have to adopt something which can even destroy our Religion, that's why we have leaders who are some caution about protecting their Religion and their followers because nothing is perfect in this life and so like the Religion because they are many practices which are questionable and we still lack an answer for them, that's why we are always learning about our Religion because new changes like covid-19 have taught us lesson's about our levels of beliefs, because some us we have seen members of our families beings swallowed by death instantly, that's why we are still emphasizing that our religion is not perfect because it doesn't have all the answers for us as human beings.
Why we are so concerned about religion?
We have talked about the importance of tribes, there's is something called community, why because to remain within the community you should abide to certain religious standards, and some of us we can argue , but the truth remains, that we are lead by most religious practices, especially on our believes and some ceremonies we are practicing, Religion protects human beings based on communities and clusters, take for example, Christianity, and Islam, all this groups they have majority of people who are protected by some powerful leaders and powerful followers, that's why if you want to see the protection start to wage a war against this groups, you won't succeed, because this groups controls the majority and they are well trusted, that's why we nations belong to certain Union's which gives them the wing of protection and support if something can come about , take for example,the Boko Haram, this military forces is powerful and it stands for it's Religious activities, Even today nations are still struggling to hold this group accountable for their wrong doings.
How to review your religious doubts?
As human beings we are always challenged by doubts daily, because doubts are essential components to help us to be aware of certain moves we are about to conduct as individuals, Religious doubts have escalated quickly since the start of the covid-19 pandemic, because some people have started to question the existence of God and what kind of assistance will he render to the world, because nations are about to perish with this pandemic, if we can check this are key factors which can help us to investigate our Religious doubts:
- Why do we doubt our Religion?
- How should we learn about these Religious doubts?
- What is creating these Religious doubts?
- When was the last time you encountered these Religious doubts?
You have to be vigilant about your beliefs because it takes time to find out what can doubt are keeping you trapped in your Religion.
Can doubt destroy your religious beliefs?
Doubts cannot destroy your Religious beliefs until you have convinced yourself that what you were believing in is no longer relevant to your interests, because doubts come and go, that's why one doubt cannot push away your beliefs, take, for example, pastors who are caught to be doing wrong on their congregation, yet some followers still believe in that particular church or Religion, so our beliefs are somehow rigid and it will take us Time to break free for some of them because we can be doubtful but the end of the day we still believe in whatever force we seek protection on, that's why are believers and this helps us to remain relevant or discipline to our Religion.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 06 June 2021
Why the Power-sharing matter in a relationship?
Whenever we meet new partners, we are very aware about the importance of sharing something, either is gonna be a number or something of any value, but along the journey of the relationship, they are key things which should be shared in order to make sure the relationship runs smoothly, things like your concerns, emotions, goals and other important aspects, because any relationship to understand the importance of paying attention towards what should be shared is an open communication relationship, because sometimes we fail because we don't understand that some other things should be reserved until further notice before you can disclose to your significant other, because trust should be the guiding point, because love can be shared instantly, but how you trust each other can take time, that's why we have advice you to take practice on learning about Communication with your partner so you can understand his or her own desires and you as individuals should set goals or plans to meet those desires of possible, because a relationship is an arrangement of two people who are willing to build something together.
How to care for each other?
This topic we have briefed you about, but it's time we explore it, when we love ourselves, it's very easy to extend care to our partners because it's what we are used to doing, care is an important aspect of life, and when it comes to a relationship, care is an entry point of all possibilities to succeed towards your relationship, because whenever we Care, we are in love, that's why as individuals we care more about how we feel, because our feelings are always with us every day, so if our relationships are based on care, we are likely to succeed because a caring heart is what we seek from our partners. These are steps that can help us to care for each other:
- Emotional Intelligence
- Efforts
- Timing
- Experience
- Communication
- Gratitude
- Progress reviews
- Desires
- Health management
- Goal's
To care is all about paying attention and appreciating each other by accepting our uniqueness as partners.
Why happiness is all about care?
We have pointed out this subject of happiness many times, we hope you are now aware of the creation of happiness and how it's affecting the majority of us, the reasons why care can increase our happiness are the following:
- Communication
- Concentration
- Concerns
- Connection
- Contribution
- Results
- Values
- Complements
- Control
- Collaboration
We should have acknowledged the following aspects which, can create our achievements to review our ability to care and stay away from our happiness, because it's all about learning what keeps us connected to the power of care. After all, whenever as individuals we lack care, love is no longer available, and we have to check these factors which always can increase our awareness to keep on caring for each other because love requires us to care not to judge each other or blame what's beyond our control.
When can you evaluate your caring Attitude?
The right time is now because you cannot postpone this important matter, because you might have been a victim of this problem of losing or not caring about your relationship, we have given you a roadmap to recovery your ability to understand how you should care for each other as spouse's, the time to act is now, there's no perfect time for evaluation than to take those lessons mentioned above and apply them into your relationship because as individuals we are somehow inclined to postpone certain things which at the end affects our lives, so the ability to exercise your checkpoints about your caring efforts on your Relationship.
Why love is shared?
Love is a universal remote which connects the hearts of all humanity, because what is life without Love?Nothing, as we have talked about the importance of care we have touched on the subject of happiness, and care and these two elements make love to be shared across many sectors, we have to check what level of love we have and what makes us love each other as spouses.
Love cannot exist without its sharing power of it, as individuals we are supposed to understand the importance of love and happiness, so we can keep on caring for each other, love is always available and we have to check it and how we relate our hearts to it.
Love is contagious, especially once we care for each other, we all have the skills to love, yet we are sometimes triggered by pain to end up becoming miserable once we have loved people and they start to hurt us as individuals, love is power, Love is care, love is happiness.
Startup Business
Title description: 05 June 2021 , Startup and marketing
What makes marketing so important for startups?
Marketing is the entrance of creating sales because before we can start to generate any sales lead, we have to start with marketing our services or products, marketing is part of influencing your buyers to know more about what your business is offering and what kind of benefits or value does your business offers to your customers, marketing is very important because we can learn about our target market and figure out which type of buyer's are part of our loyal customers. After all, marketing is an exercise of promoting your services constantly until your buyers qualify to buy from you and this approach can become challenging because the process of Marketing can even include the importance of mastering the psychology of influence, marketing is what differentiates most business because some businesses have mastered the art of marketing.
Why Startups should master small niche Marketing?
It has been discussed in this Segment that any Startup is part of a Research Model and Entrepreneurs who are championing those startups, should pay attention to small communities of users, which the ability to lock the niche market and keep the customers happy, because what often helps startups to grow in their ability to understand what kind of customer they are targeting and what size it the type of those customers, the importance of mastering your niche market can help you to control your resources and be able to adjust quickly to market changes because the growth of your niche is what will promote your startup to become Viable and be attractive for investment, that's why knowing about your customers can help you to understand your business, even more, better, the niche market is always available, all is needed is to render it will the Services.
Why do small brands fail to market their products or services?
Countless small brands fail because of the relationship following:
- Focusing too much on Competitions
- Inability to embrace your uniqueness
- Competing with a lack of resources
- Wrong vision
- Copying without understanding
- Jumping into many social media without any traction
- Wrong team members
- Targeting wrong customers
- Poor presentation of the brand
Brands fail once they fall into those traps mentioned above, because your brand represents your vision and what you offer, so there's no need to copy others because our uniqueness will make you thrive in your segment, you can take, for example, big brands like Samsung or iPhone, they stick to their core values and cultures, that's they are always appealing to customers, your brand will only fail if you fail to correct those traps we have listed above.
Why startup business marketing should be evaluated constantly?
We have touched on the importance of marketing, right now is time to pay attention to how we evaluate what we are marketing, this can be done by conducting customer surveys and checking your social media comments for any reviews because today we are talking about optimization, and automation, we need to track our marketing activities by pulling all the days in a form of Analytics and starts to learn which gaps can we improve and what kind of success are we obtaining from our marketing campaigns, because what can be measured can be broken into steps and targets, that's why we have the responsibility as Startup owners to understand how we market our product or service to our customers and What kind of feedback is coming back to us, and how many times do we market our product or service to our clients because that's why we can evaluate our consistency about the importance of our marketing as Startup owners.
Can small-medium size businesses succeed without marketing?
The introduction of this topic has to say it a lot, marketing is the engine of creating sales, no business can succeed without mastering the Power of marketing, because customers have choices and to match those choices, we need to market our services or products to them, that's why we have always seen pop-ups or Advertisements left and right, this is the marketing campaigns that always run because today businesses which thrive are those that can create habits within customers, take for example, how addictive is WhatsApp or Facebook or Twitter, this shows how marketing is powerful because it makes customers run automatically.
Career and Work
Title description: 04 June 2021, Technology and Career
Why new careers should be checked?
Every sector is challenged by new technologies, but this doesn't mean ever sector of employment will be automated by this new technological advances, but this shows us how Technology can help us to automate some of our boring activities just to save us time and money, Careers especially various sectors which often use the computer and machines, have to be checked, because fast forward to 10 or 15 year's most companies will be using full automatic robotics which requires only one human being to check them, so this mean those who are into any sector whereby there is a computer, you have to watch your career because it will be automated soon, check how the retail stores are adopting this new technologies, self service till points, banks are using apps instant of opening new physical branches, this is a move to automation, and those who don't adopt or add new skills soon they will become irrelevant within the job markets, that's why it's very important to check your Skills and look at what kind of technological skills you have or lack and start doing something about that particular gap on your life.
Why do we fall for new opportunities?
New opportunities are like surprise's, we just find ourselves into them without even knowing or checking how do we suit or fit into that particular opportunity, because as human beings we are victim's of instant gratification and this has and will harm many people, check the likes of scams,many people have fall into this traps of thinking they can get wealth by taking shortcuts, that's why today most people are always vigilant about what's new but only few people pay attention to what kind of opportunities they should take or be part of , because today we live in unprecedented times whereby new technologies always present us with new opportunities, and some of us we cannot keep us with this new changes, and this makes us to fall into many traps of scams and lack of adaptation, Opportunity can be available but it depends what kind of skills do you have in order to grab such Opportunities, because more doesn't mean we understand, it's just a mental cage which can affect your life if you don't check why are you falling into opportunities which don't even benefit your life, you can take for example the likes of social media networks, Many people today they struggles with habits of this platforms and some people are generating money out your attention, so it's all about balance efforts.
Can new mean change?
The word new has different types of meaning, because new to some is based on changes and to others is all about repetition, our careers as discussed they are now approaching stages whereby most of them soon will be interacting with machines and robots, that's why new changes can affect all human beings, because it depends which country you live under , some countries have figured out how to embrace this new technological advances and some countries they are still struggling to understand or adopt this new technological infrastructure advances, because new changes have already happened, during the starting point of covid-19 pandemic, most companies where forced to adopt to virtual office and some software just to make remote working become Accessible to all their staff members, this changes cannot be put aside because some companies have found ways to retrench some workers in terms of saving costs,and new normal has been adopted across many sectors of various countries, because change doesn't select, it's like weather, it affects all human beings.
Why do we fail to understand our career progress?
The fundamental issue here is this, often we as individuals don't understand how to measure our progress, and this can even decrease our motivation to see how far are we with our goals or plans because progress is a scarce resource, that's why once you have figured out how to measure your progress, you can check or know what's stopping you from attaining certain milestones because they are some actions which can destroy us or even improve us to end up becoming progressing on what we do as individuals.
Why careers are changing since covid-19 pandemic arrived?
Covid-19 has given many countries a gateway to start paying attention to the fourth industrial revolution because most of our lives today we depend on our smartphones or computers to run our daily lives, that's why many sectors have fostered the adoption of new technologies because covid-19 pandemic has created its way of how human beings should start doing things, new technological changes are now adopted left and right because our jobs some are now moved to automation, take, for example, administration work, most of the database systems are now controlled by algorithms which don't even require human beings, the new normal will affect many people because we have to learn fast and keep up with new changes or else we are going to become irrelevant into these new Economies of work, digital Economy is taking over, whether you like it or not changes are happening and to achieve your goals or careers plans it's advisable to add new technological skills.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 03 June 2021 Rejections and patience
Why rejections hurt?
Rejection are seed of criticism, and as human beings we have Emotions, this can make us vulnerable or strong because when people reject us we ask ourselves the following questions:
- What is it that makes them reject us?
- For what reason have they rejected us for?
- How should this individual reject us?
- Why have we been rejected?
Rejections can destroy our confidence because we are not taught how to handle Rejections and keep on trying until we Succeed, the level of your knowledge about how you understand Rejections, comes back to how you master your emotions because Rejections can evoke emotions which can make us to Question what we did wrong, and pain is an advantage if we can understand what created those Rejections because some people reject what we offer not us, that's why if you can check most of the rejections, can be overcome by your ability to use Perseverance.
Rejections hurt us because we don't know how to deal with them, and some of these Rejections are ingrained in our subconscious minds and this can take us a long time to get rid of those Rejections because we have lived according to what we have been exposed to and this can shape how we deal with our Rejections.
How to deal with doubts?
Doubts are always important if we start to understand this:
- Risks
- Action
- Procrastination
- Timing
- Situation analysis
Every situation we enter into can become doubtful because we cannot predict which types of doubts can come along with our daily activities, but we can learn which doubts are part of our lives, because the only doubt which can stop us or threaten us to do what we supposed to do is fear, and how you understand your doubts can help us to evaluate those doubts.
Timing is one area that can be predicted,
Procrastination can increase our doubts because it takes time to understand what creates your habits to procrastinate.
They are some actions that can increase our doubts as we start to execute them because doubts always pause us to wait for taking action.
For every Risk to be understood, we have to check which doubts we already have about our goals or plans, because risks cannot take place if we don't understand how we handle them or how to avoid any of them.
Why success comes after rejections?
Success is part of understanding, how should we deal with our Rejections, because as discussed we have to review our perseverance because success requires diverse skills and experience, that's why it's very important to Check what makes you Successful and what kind of steps, did you take which led you to that particular success, because as noted on this segment many people have to face different types of difficulties before they reach their success, most of us we miss this lessons, because we don't check this approach, and success can come once we start to embrace those Rejections and stop taking them personally and begin to learn how to handle Rejections we are facing because Emotional Intelligence plays an important role when it comes to deal with our Rejections.
Why success is hard?
We cannot Success is hard until we have tested some other things because what's often hard about success is to manage it or get it, yes success is selective and we have to accept this truth because we have to take into account the levels of actions we are employing on our daily activities because success can be harder once you fail to have a working plan which is viable because some people have this tendency of looking at shortcuts as a way to success, that's why what you do can reveal your success because what we repetitive creates our success, this topic has been covered in-depth on our book called Who told you that you are late for success.
Types of rejections?
Rejections can vary from one person to another but these are some kinds of Rejections that we often face:
- Attitude rejections
- Experience rejections
- Isolation rejections
- Relationship rejections
- Criticism rejections
- Financial rejections
- Expressions rejections
- Job interviews rejections
- Comments rejections
- Promotion rejections
Health and Life
Title description: 02 Jun 2021, Energy and Balance
Why some foods defines our powers?
The general power which comes from foods has huge power because food can help us with different types of nutrients and vitamins, we regard food as medicine because we consume good food for various reasons and needs, they are concrete evidence that can justify what we consume can increase our powers, we can check the following:
- Habits
- Moods
- Attitude
- Stamina
- Focus
- Brian
- Health
- Diets
- Hormones
- Pleasures
To focus we have to analyze what level of food we eat and how we feel after eating certain foods.
The level of our stamina is regulated by the type of food we consume every day, that's why we sometimes use supplements to increase our energy.
Attitude can differ from what we eat as individuals because some foods can reduce our energy and some can increase it.
Moods can vary from what we eat because certain moods are regulated by what we eat constantly, that's why we have this alert system that can tell us when we are feeling good or bad after eating certain foods.
Our habits are part of what we do every day because the level of the types of our habits is supported by what we eat.
The different types of pleasures which can help us to either achieve good health or destroy it, that's why foods are regarded as power in our general well-being.
Every hormone is guided by the type of vitamins we have inside our bodies and what we keep on adding to our food.
Dieting is part of understanding what type of food makes you feel better or those which increase your health problems
Health is guided by what we eat as individuals because certain foods can either compromise our health or keep our bodies healthy.
The brain is the engine of our bodies, that's why what we eat can affect our bodies.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 01 June 2021, Money and Happiness
Why money has powers?
Money has been given powers due to different types of reasons, because money is the engine of life , we require it to perform certain duties and render it to some activities, money is linked to power because we have different views about the powers money has on our lives, because so some people money increase their problems and some it reduce their stress, money has the ability to separate our powers as individuals, because certain levels of money can influence our attitudes , behaviours and actions, that's why poor and rich people all this individuals behave differently when it comes to money , because some lack it and some have it, because the power of money is based on how you understand it and what you earn as an individual, because money is just a tool, it all depends what kind of powers you give it and what actions are behind you once you have money , because money cannot change us , but it can help us to review our characters, the power of money Matters because in some level's it can restore your respect and your personality if you have lost it , and money matters because it Helps us to contribute and have access to explore our options without any restrictions, money matters because it can buy us health and freedom and increase our Opportunity and networks and money is important because it speaks for us on behalf.
Can happiness increase by money?
Various studies have pointed out that money can increase our happiness, especially when it comes to explore those goals or aspirations which we didn't afford during those financial testing times of our lives, happiness is build by our thoughts, and money can help us to explore those thoughts externally, money can buy us health, which means that good foods as noted they can boost our emotion and even increase our health, the position which money has on our lives can differ, because some people think money can buy them happiness, whenever money is just a tool which helps us to explore our thoughts and visions, that's why to be happy doesn't require you to have money but to pay attention on yourself and check what makes you feel at peace, that's why scientific studies have shown us that money cannot buy happiness but it can help us to buy material possessions which can add our temporary happiness, that's why we have previously pointed out that we can buy new cars or shoes, and feel happy but that happiness won't last long, because we as human beings we have short interest on material possessions once we have obtained them, that's why once you have any increase of your money it will make you feel happy for temporary moments, and next time you will be chasing for something else, because the happiness we want can either benefit us or destroy our lives, and your money can increase your happiness if you know what makes you happy and how to maintain that particular thing.
Why money is a tool?
Money is tool because is used for various tasks on each day , and money if it wasn't a tool we won't have be able to exchange it or see it as important tool, because most of us we forget that the meaning of money is given by our words and actions, that's why to have money it matters once you begin to have it ,but along the stages of accumulating money, you will see the importance of understanding that money is just a tool, which requires maintenance and observation from your own side , because any tool you have , it must have a good purpose and relevance so it can help you to solve or contribute towards any impact you want to achieve, tools are respected because they perform certain tasks which our hands cannot do and money is one of those tools which helps us to exchange services with others so we can get something and money is been used to buy and being saved , that's why any tool has a way to be stored and you should remember that your money is only limited to the equivalence of your tools you have, that's why the poor can tell us that they lack tools to expand their growth or wealth and whenever the rich one's are focused on protecting and multiplying their tools to increase the wealth and prosperity of their own families..
What's important about happiness with money?
The importance of happiness of money is an individual option on how he or she views this subject of money because some people have convinced themselves to be happy whenever they have money and others have taught themselves to be happy regardless of having money or not, that's why your happiness comes before money, remember money is a Tool, and your happiness is not a tool that's why it cannot be brought, and we need to understand those two difference, because the importance of life is always based on how you understand to think independently and accurately, because we as individuals we have this tendency of adopting cliches and forgetting that people when they make the wrong statement, it takes time to correct them on our subconscious mind, for example, the Book of wisdom had quoted that the love of money is the root of evil, how many people today hate Money secretly and pretend as though money is not a Problem on their lives? Money is important in life because it assists us to explore a variety and different types of things in this life, that's why money can fool us to think as though it can buy us happiness, check your wallet to confirm this statement, if you are not happy about what you have, how will you be happy with what you will have is possible, we should prioritize this subject of money, but don't worry we have covered this topic on our book called Money is not the root of evil, lack of money is the root of evil, you still have a long journey to explore this topic.
Can money make us unhappy?
Everyone has his or her concussion on this matter of understanding or clarifying what money does to them because some of us have wrong knowledge about money, that's why we don't understand that money cannot make us happy, because everyone has a cent on his pocket or at his own house, but if we can check a cent is Money, but how many of us can say that cent make us happy? Only a few of us can accept that truth, because we have been fooled to think that more money is related to happiness, as noted previously if you don't enjoy your current money how will you enjoy more money if you get it, because money is based on assets and liabilities, and some of us we don't even check what we have we just seek and only to realize that we are chasing the wind and this has to be checked carefully because money is a tool and we have to understand what is our happiness and how does it function before we can link it to money, some people have figured our this activity, for example, good food or exercising, they can be linked to what they can afford, that's why the subject of happiness and money it should be investigated by scientific eyes and open minds because you cannot understand something which you are not willing to explore it's yin and yang scenario.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 28 July 2021
Why do males hide the pain?
Man has been taught to hide their emotions, this process has damaged many men because hiding emotions have created this normality of helping man to express their emotions in various activities and sometimes man feel powerless especially if they are supposed to talk about their emotions, let's check the following :
- Anger
The man once they are angry they turn to withdraw from the actual reality and start to isolate themselves from what's happening that's why many men are struggling with depression unnoticed and this always increases their anger unware because if a man is angry but fails to understand what is causing that particular anger then this approach can be diverted to others because man is abused and they hide what happened.
- No were to go
Man don't talk about their emotions because they are afraid to be judged by others, and this situation of feeling uncomfortable, has prevented men to end up not talking about what they feel even today men don't know where to go and speak about their pains.
- Expressions issues
Man is given the responsibility to express themselves as powerful human beings that's why it becomes challenging to express what they feel because this takes away their ego to maintain that particular masculinity powers and these biases always keep man away from the truth that pain is for all.
- Fears
Man fears to talk about pain because they are afraid to be taken as weak individuals and as pointed out men are given this responsibility to appear as powerful regardless of what is happening that's why man end up becoming isolated to what they feel just to maintain this power of being a man who doesn't feel anything.
- Trust issues
Man sometimes hide their pain because they don't trust people they're supposed to share the pain with them.
Can pain be a sign of weakness in male culture?
Yes, pain is read as a symbol of weakness in some areas of male tribes, man has been taught to ignore the pain and this process is acted upon them during their upbringing as young men, because pain is reserved for a woman according to these unbalanced facts and this is happening across many societies and countries, man don't like to express what they feel but let's explore this topic further :
- Lost power
Man feels better if they hide what they feel especially in the hands or eye of their woman, but males do understand that pain is active in life as discussed man is trained to ignore what they feel just to appear as powerful individuals, and if they cannot maintain this element of power they are rated as a weak man.
- Dominance
- Values
Not expressing pain, especially in external circumstances helps man to uphold their value that's why males don't cry in public.
- Risks
Males feel at risk if they can cry in public because everyone will come and blame them even though the fault is out of their way of control.
- Rules
Pain hiding helps males to keep rules active because if they cry this can affect their abilities to advance their rule of power, especially in their families.
What makes males avoid p
ain?Society is treating men and women differently, let's check the following :
- Power
Man is given powers to control and dominate, that's why in males tribes it's very difficult to express yourself as a man of values if you lack the power to uphold certain responsibilities, that's why men don't care about pain unless it has reached its optimal level and they can't take it anymore that's why as discussed it's very rare to see a crying man.
- Respect
Man avoid pain because they seek to be respected by their woman and fellow man, that's why crying to men makes them feel they are losing respect.
- Appearance
Man likes to appear stronger and more powerfully that's why expressing pain to pain reduces their confidence to maintain their masculinity powers.
- Egos
This approach of feeling nothing or pretending to do helps men to manage and maintain their egos.
- Mental conditioning
Man has been mentally conditioned to avoid pain because if they were not conditioned man will have been expressing pain like a woman on a normal basis.
What has culture taught males about pain?
According to history men are taught to avoid what they feel and culture has been championing this approach to help man to avoid pain regardless of what's happening, these are key factors that keep this tradition of hiding pain always taking place from one generation of man to another :
- Hide
To hide in male tribes keep them balanced and respected that's why man can hide and hunt, and this hiding helps males to protect their families and egos.
- Demand
Man is demanded by society to hide their pain because this balance the strength between man and woman, that's why if a man is emotional and this can affect how his woman rank him as a man of order because this bias of saying the man doesn't feel pain is active and wild spread across many societies.
- Destroy
Pain hiding helps man to destroy man aspects of life especially when it comes to their ability to exercise their physical powers.
- Dominance
Man to dominate they should keep on hiding pain that's why man doesn't like to talk with their woman about their pain.
- Careless
If pain was an element of power man would have absorbed pain continuously without any hesitation because man is a risk-taker and this approach is to state that men don't feel pain incorrectly that's why men have to be taught to acknowledge and channel their pains accurately so they can be better versions into our societies, not monsters who kill and abuse woman and children.
Why males avoid talking about their pain?
The space of talking about pain is challenging because men as discussed don't know where to go and express their pains, let's check the following :
- Doubts
Man doubt about pain because they are ashamed of being judged and blamed by others for being weak.
- Fear's
Man fears to express what they feel because it takes away their egos and that attitude of saying the man doesn't feel anything.
- Criticism
Society is cruel when it comes to interpreting the pain of man that's why if a man is crying the blame will be shifted to him again that's why man always feels safe to hide what they're feeling to avoid this cruel critic.
- Privacy
It's very easy for a man to keep private information especially when it comes to pain hiding.
- Knowledge
The avoidance of pain is based on what man knows about pain, as discussed men are taught to avoid pain to maintain their masculine powers.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 27 July 2021
What makes desires so important in any relationship?
Every part of the body can be evoked by certain emotions that's why we have to be aware of these types of desires which control our relationships or marriages :
- Connection
Human beings are made for connection that's why if we are isolated we can even die sooner with the connection we find safety and comfort that's why we have this power to seek connection and this bias is for our survival mechanism, we all desire to love and to be loved that's why if we struggle to notice our desires we end up becoming miserable because the connection is power and love always connects us, people always seek different types of connection and some can be good or bad that's why it's very important to take your time and learn how you connect to others and what kind of connection do they seek from you, remember we are living in unprecedented times whereby distractions control many people that's why it's very important to understand how you devote your attention to several commitments.
- Control
We want to explore our desires so we can find out our deepest comfort that's why as discussed we have emphasized the importance of choosing good habits because that's where you can discover what's controlling your desires because our lives are mainly controlled by our habits and thoughts, that's why you have to check what kind of desire matters to you and how did you get those desires, remember some desires can be developed by learning from others that's why many people struggle to quit certain habits because they are now controlled by certain desires which require rotational attention.
- Content
Every desire is made of details, you can learn about your desires if you begin to question what you are doing because most of us neglect to question our actions and blame the circumstances that's why it's becoming very hard to understand what kind of desires are controlling us and why?
- Satisfaction
Mankind is an exploration symbol, people by nature have their way to get satisfaction that's why we have asked all spouses to sit down and ask each other about what desires they have and start to balance the equation because sometimes we neglect to understand that each of us we are unique and this can confuse our satisfaction as individuals that's why Communication can help you to solve this issue of satisfaction.
- Routines
We desire because we use routines that demand us to act continuously that's why your habits can reveal your routines and desires.
What makes a marriage entitled for exploring our desires?
We as human beings especially once we get married make different type is commitments which some can reveal our entitlements let's check the following :
- Vows
The power of vows is what the marriage is all about, because as we marry we have agreed to devote ourselves to one community of beliefs and start to explore our lives as partners, but what is challenging about vows is that we treat them as a wish list that's why sometimes marriages never last because we agreed on certain things but fail to deliver them with our actions, we feel we are entitled to explore each other but this can become a disaster if two partners never understand the importance of understanding their desires that's why self-awareness about what you want can save your marriage and keep all the desires intact.
- Dedication
We have different types of reasons why we are dedicated to our partners and this can leave us with this entitlement mindset which says we deserve certain things from our partners, yet it's very important to communicate your expectations because this can help you to analyze your entitlement as partners, remember we are all unique but love can unite us that's why we have the understand what makes us dedicated into our marriages or relationships this can assist us to deal with those desires which can give us a headache to remove them.
- Concern
As individuals we have this entitlement mindset which can help us to evaluate our concerns that's why it's very important to communicate your expectations and concerns to your partner this will assist you to elaborate further about your behaviors and concerns if one of you suspects there's change within the marriage but they were not discussed.
- Learning
We have to prioritize our actions to keep on learning about our desires because sometimes we have this entitlement mindset to give others the responsibility to satisfy us whenever we don't even understand what satisfies us as individuals, this can create chaos in the marriage that's why your capacity to learn about your desires can help you to express them and be willing to balance the equation because as partner our preferences can differ but it remains our responsibility to find common grounds to get into another level of agreement.
- Acceptance
Sometimes we must accept our shortcomings and our partners' uniqueness because this can help us to pause our entitlements and ask ourselves if we are too selfish to give others the responsibility which was supposed to be carried out by ourselves, we have to check out our acceptance, because sometimes our partner cannot satisfy us and this truth can destroy or make the marriage to succeed all depends on how matters are handled and what kind of skills and experience all parties have to meet each other halfway so they can fix the situation.
Why we have desires?
We as human beings desires are part of our lives that's why we have to check the following factors of desires :
- Human survival
We have survived centuries because our forefathers have passed this gene of desires into our genetic makeup, we as individuals have these survival biases which force us to explore our desires.
- Hunger
To explore our desires we have to take action that's why if our expectations are not satisfied we end up becoming miserable and feeling bitter, we have desires because we have feelings.
- Exploration
They are different types of reasons and evidence that can confirm how human beings are part of exploration from our historical history, mankind is controlled by certain desires and thoughts, and exploration is part of a survival mechanism.
- Exposure
We are exposed to exploring our desires as human beings.
- Pleasures
Mankind is driven by pleasure.
How to meet your partner's Desires?
As partners we have to check how we understand this topic of satisfaction because many relationships and marriages are destroyed by this subject of satisfaction because we don't check what satisfies us and what has created that particular satisfaction that's why we have to check the following components which can help us analyze our desires :
- Communication
We have been emphasizing this, to all of your partners, you must communicate, because as discussed when people meet they are open to communication but along the stages of the relationship they get bored and stop communicating that's why we have different types of issues with the satisfaction which some can be solved by talking to each other as spouse's, we have to check how we talk to each other because sometimes our word's can hurt others and even reduce our confidence to talk with them, that's why many people have discovered what can satisfy them but they cannot communicate this need because the relationship between partners is no longer open to communication, and this tendency has destroyed many marriage and relationships that's why we edge all partners to sit down and express their desires and fantasies
- Learning
Everyone is unique and the requirements to satisfy each other are to learn from each other and be willing to accept each other.
- Asking
The ability to ask has the potential power to help the marriage or relationship to succeed or fail, because sometimes we can ask too much and only realize our partners cannot deliver on those promises that's why it's very important to understand how disappointments should be handled and treated because sometimes as individuals we can accept responsibilities but fail to honor them that's why it's very important to talk and ask each other if something it's too difficult for each of you to account to it, remember your marriage is what you communicate and take action upon.
- Acceptance
Love unites hearts, so if you want to achieve satisfaction the only entrance gate is to accept your partner and don't try to change them but be willing to learn from them and all is history because to fulfill each other's desires is to accept that certain things you cannot do and this is what acceptance is all about, we have to understand how we compromise our desires just to think we can satisfy our partners, everyone is unique, this helps us to learn to accept and be willing to ask about what we want.
- Open to changes
We must be willing to learn and improve our marriages and relationships, we cannot satisfy each other if we are not open to changes because as we get older our preferences can change that's why continuous learning is important because that's where you will learn more about your changing emotions and desires.
What kind of desires can control us?
Marriage was designed to help us control our desires and fantasies, but let's explore this topic further :
- Addictions
As married people, we have joined addictions attachment and this can be hidden but once each partner passes away, we realize how powerful we were connected to our partners, that's why we edge married people to talk about their addictions to each other because this can help the marriage to succeed, we have to note these facts about addictions because sometimes we are addicted to people but unaware that's why it's very hard to find yourself into the divorce phase because your addictions and attachments will soon be left unattended that's why the desperation to connect is very powerful and addictions drive our lives.
It's very important to play games and explore your performance and preferences that's why adult games can evoke creativity and intelligence because we sometimes have fantasies but we are held back by doubts to communicate them, that's why we edge you to set a schedule for this activity because that's where you will discover your other side of preference which sometimes bother you if they are not fulfilled as a partner.
- Doubts
We must not be taken by doubts but we must be willing to face the facts and start to review what makes us doubt our desires.
- Jealousy
We can become addicted to jealousy but this can help or destroy the relationship or marriage because as individuals we benefit from this subject of jealousy because it serves as a protection tool for many people that's why some people prefer their partners to wear certain clothes and others prefer their partners to have certain types of friendship, this can differ from one relationship to another.
- Insecurities
We must check what makes us insecure about our partners because we should refrain from assumptions, if we are insecure we must tell our partners this can help us to deal with any behaviors which can come along the stages of the marriage.
Startup Business
Title description: 26 July 2021
Why planning startup business strategy is important?
Business history is filled with evidence to help us understand how important planning is and as a startup business you should be aware of what kind of planning can you utilize because what you plan can either benefit or destroy your startup business, but it's very important to check the following components of planning your strategy :
- Achieve clarity
Once you structure your startup business strategy according to the right plan, it's very important to understand and check what kind of tasks are relevant to your interests or goals, because to achieve the clarity you must be willing to cut all the excuses aside and bring focus into play and this can be done by just keep on asking a relevant question about what is supposed to be done on your plans or goals. The power of strategic planning is based on how you handle your execution phase, that's why oftentimes many startup business owners plans but only a few end up taking action.
- Measure performance
Strategic planning can assist your startup business to understand how to measure performance but remember you cannot measure something which you have not received any feedback from it, that's why we edge you to keep on taking action and be willing to change or correct your techniques along the way.
- Preparation
The power of strategic planning is focused on checking how and what have you prepared for your next action because if you want to clarify how powerful is your business strategy, the best way is to check your results after you have taken any action.
- Planning timelines
Targets reduce doubts that's why if your actions are always led by timelines you will have the advantage to keep on getting more results because the power of the strategy should come from your plans that's why if the strategy doesn't work what is required is to fix the planning and try again.
- Reduce inaction
The ability to plan and do is rare because oftentimes startup business owners hesitate about taking action that's why we have few successful startup businesses because the action is one of the greatest challenging elements in any business because it requires courage and strength to keep it active and relevant.
What makes a good Startup Business strategy?
Learning from the above, we can draw these lessons, as listed below :
- Research
Any type of strategy is only researched or proven once you start to take action, we should remind all entrepreneurs how important it is to understand the power of using research to make sound decisions in your startup business because sometimes entrepreneurs have this tendency of skipping research and trying to jump into the market without any concrete plan, that's why the capacity to conduct research can enable the business to grow and even open opportunities for it.
- Implementation
If the strategy cannot be implemented, you should remember this, is either people who are behind the strategy are sabotaging the action or somehow there's is a misunderstanding, if the strategy is clear, all that should follow is action no amount of hesitation is required because, as noted above you should understand the power of planning and execution, that's where you can pick your powerful strategy.
- Improvements
When you get ahead with your plans it's advisable to check how and what is required to be improved, because sometimes growth doesn't mean we should change our strategy but we need to balance change and improvements, because if not, we might end up destroying our operational strategy, that's why to pivot requires balance efforts.
- Adaption
Your startup business strategy should be flexible because if not you will be out of business soon, check how covid-19 pandemic has destroyed many startup businesses, is because the previous strategy cannot stand the new changes, that's why we always emphasize the importance of mastering the innovation phase into you a startup business
- Action
What makes a good strategy is how you execute your plans because that's where you will gather sufficient information and lessons about what's working and what not, we should keep our actions active because most of our feedback rely on those actions we keep on taking.
How to master your Start-up Business strategy?
This question should be checked because you cannot master something without doing it, that's why we have been emphasizing in this segment the importance of taking action because sometimes startup business entrepreneurs make the mistakes of copying big business strategies and forgetting that a strategy is a journey of learning what's happening inside or outside your business that's why there's no way to succeed if you don't take action and improve your strategy but to master your approach to any strategy you have or want to adopt you should check the following :
- Skills
- Training
Entrepreneurship is all about learning, and you should take these practical lessons into account. After all, as you move ahead with your startup business you should start to get yourself into this process of continuous collaboration or be trained by an expert in your chosen industry because training gives you the advantage to check and improve your business blind spot.
- Knowledge
Today we have seen many entrepreneurs who keep on adding knowledge but fail to apply what they have already gathered, to master any strategy you should be aware of the importance of taking action from what you have learned because the information cannot produce results for you if you don't take action that's why we have been emphasizing how you should understand the importance of paying attention to details and even learning to choose what you are supposed to learn.
- Positioning
Benchmarking is power because sometimes you need to use what is working for your competitors, but as discussed you should not copy if are lazy to research, because sometimes when you position your strategy it's very important to understand what kind of gaps will your strategy benchmark against.
- Research
When you have collected all the aspects of your strategy it's very important to understand how you conduct your research, because it takes time to understand and analyze what kind of data or feedback is working for your startup business.
Can strategies be changed oftentimes by startup businesses?
No, we should have this consistent approach once we start to think our strategies should be changed oftentimes, because if you want to achieve you should change your business strategy according to the feedback you are receiving from the market, and sometimes it's very important to pause before you can even try to change, big brands always use this advantage of understanding when to change the strategy, remember if you change because you are facing obstacles, then you should be aware how important it is to find the results and change from that particular angel not based on opinions, we have listed few techniques to help you deal with this challenge of understanding when and how to change your business strategy :
- Results
Get the results first and then decide what is the best direction, because if you deal with results, you won't struggle to find out what should be improved.
- Reviews
Small wins can help you to understand your progress and you should always keep your eyes open.
- Clarity
Asking a relevant question can assist to create a viable strategy for your startup business.
- Momentum
Growth comes from clarity and results in that's why you should keep on asking what strengths or weaknesses you have as a startup business and how can you balance the two.
- Feedback
To understand if your strategy is working or not, check your planning and execution, sometimes it takes time to get relevant feedback that can improve your startup business that's why the target market is very important because if you fail to locate your customers it will be difficult to draw any feedback.
Why entrepreneurs should study Startup Business strategy?
Gather sufficient information which can be documented and be willing to schedule time for your study, this means you will learn or reflect on what you are doing, countless times entrepreneurs fail to learn from themselves because we have been brainwashed to think we should learn from those who are successful in the business but neglect to pay attention towards our internal progress, sometimes startup business fails because they give too attention to learn from big brands but failing to learn from other small businesses. We have listed a few techniques to help you learn from your own startup business or others :
- Evaluation
- Collaboration
- Research
These 3 techniques can sound basic or simple but they hold great power especially if you can start to review them.
Career and Work
Title description: 25 July 2021
Why is very hard to maintain a Relationship while unemployed?
This question is amazing because of how often we judge the relationship based on material possessions, we have to check the following factors which can create some stumbling blocks to maintaining the relationship if you are unemployed :
- Adventure
- Progress
- Lifestyle changes
- Comparison
- Interest
- Revenge
- Doubts
- Depression
- Criticism
- Family politics
You can learn from this above list but the truth is that we sometimes judge partners based on finances but we forget that sometimes money comes and go that's why love should be the connection, not money alone because the most sufferings are created by thinking money can buy love for you that's why today people some like your money, not you per se that's why to become unemployed then you will see the true colors of people.
Why do people refuse to date unemployed individuals?
Let's be honest and observe the reality, most dates are championed by who can you afford as an individual because sometimes we neglect to check what we can afford that's why it seems as though people are rejecting us, you have to choose you league as an individual because that can help you to understand which type of individuals do you qualify to date and what are the requirements of dating those people, as noted people have different types of preference some can date unemployment individuals and some cannot this remain an individual choice because life Changes and we ha we have to remember that some jobs have been wiped out by covid-19 pandemic so this is a new challenge into many relationships because you are now required to make adjustments even if you were working but the job is no longer there only love and care can sustain the relationship.
What makes it so bad about being unemployed?
The reality about being unemployed is challenging because it can reduce your confidence that's why too many of us unemployed can do the following :
- Debts repayment issues
- Relationship problems
- Fake friends showing up
- Family dilemmas
- Change of lifestyles
- Lost of hope
- Financial stress
These are some of the basic elements which can impact our focus to deal with unemployment because we feel bad if we cannot afford and this question should be checked and analyzed on individual personal challenges because sometimes we can feel bad based on how we judge ourselves that's why self-motivation can assist you to deal with your challenges.
Can you lose your Relationship if you are unemployed?
This question should be answered by each individual because sometimes we don't have to generalize we have to look at real facts that's why to some people if there's no money there's no relationship at all but this can differ as individuals because sometimes other people can stick together during good and hard times.
What makes some relationships succeed during hard times?
Sometimes we should look at what really join some partners, we can observe how many plays an important role to improve the relationship yet we should look the limitations and danger's which can come with money, some partners can succeed with the little they have and others cannot make it regardless of the money they have, money can make or break the relationship all depends how the matters of money are handled because sometimes we don't check what makes the relationship to succeed beside money, sometimes people like each other for material possessions and looks that's why it's very hard to maintain the relationship if this elements are no longer available, what sustain can sustain the relationship is how each partner love one another, some people have over simplified this by saying love cannot pay bills, but we should not use cliches which can make our lives difficult that's why you should understand what really join your relationship and this key factors can make some relationships to succeed even if they struggle with money :
- Gratitude
- Care
- Family
- Joined goal's
- Love
- Honesty
- Control
- Communication
- Attitude
- Respect
It takes courage to maintain a relationship that is struggling financially that's why it's very important to understand how can you add multiple sets of streams of income as partners because this can assist the relationship to succeed in its finances.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 24 July 2021
Why your confidence builds your success?
Confidence is power and we have to check our personalities as individuals because sometimes we overstep our personality characteristics it's very important to understand our limitations and if possible we can challenge them but we must be willing to learn and accept that some other activities can be out of our control, remember not everyone can sign that's why we have to safeguard our confidence by checking the following :
- How you act with your confidence?
- Why your confidence is important?
- What creates your confidence?
- Which skills do you use?
- When is your confidence mostly sparking?
How to find out about your confidence?
You can start right now to find out about your confidence by checking the following components :
- Actions
- Attention
- Attitude
- Imagination
- Thoughts & Doubts
Our thoughts help us to understand how we think and what's happening inside our imagination because to become confident, you need to pay attention to what kind of thoughts boost your confidence and what always challenge you to end up losing your confidence because of what you repeat every day can reveal the content of your confidence.
Sometimes we have to check what's inside our imagination because, from childhood upbringing, the majority of people have been conditioned, that's why some of our fears or doubts about our confidence were imposed on us and this challenge can help us to review, our confidence because countless times we can struggle to understand why we don't have confidence but these mental biases are inside our imagination and we have to check.
Attention is power because your ability to understand and exercise your confidence is based on what kind of attention you devote to certain thoughts, as discussed we always dwell on our repeated habits, and how we use our attention can affect our confidence.
To improve your confidence you must check your actions and how you apply your plans or goals.
Everyone has doubts but what is important is to check what kind of benefits you get from those doubts.
You can check but it's very important to act.
Who can teach you about self-control?
Control is power but the content of control requires training that's why you have to check who can you learn especially about self-control because as human beings we have people who we look up to and always follow in their footsteps that's why it's very important to check from this list how can you learn about the power of self-control :
- Pastors
- Masters
- Mentors
- Teachers
- Parents
- Yourself
- Friends
- Gurus
- Influencers
- Pastors
The list is based on choices that's why you can always pick which category works best for you and start following the guidelines which are shared by those teachers.
Self-control can help you to master your attention and focus, this life can present us with circumstances and challenges whereby we can lose our focus if we are not able to master our self-control, the strength of your attention is self-control, and this process requires you to understand how your mindset operates because if you cannot control thinking, you will have to face the consequences of being controlled by others.
Control is power because it has to push you to do something that's why we have to check what kind of mental toughness have we acquired because sometimes our emotions can tell if we didn't self-control our attention or words once we were challenged by the situation.
What makes successful people appear confident?
We as members of the community we have promoted Successful people and given them this position of being confident, but the truth remains success cannot make us to become confident, if you are shy that's your natural personality and we should refrain from this statement of thinking into those categories, because sometimes people inherit material possessions and we sometimes look at them as confident because we only look at the material possessions not them that's why it's very important to study people not their material possessions but their behaviours and personalities that's where you will discover that most people cover themselves with material possessions to appear confident that's why if the material possessions is no longer available they cannot stand the hit , all you have to be aware of is that confidence is self made and you must never think others have it more than you because you as an individual you are unique in your own version of talents and strength that's why it doesn't matter how you feeling about what others says but it's matters how you feel about your self image and confidence.
Can confidence create opportunities?
We have to tackle this subject with careful consideration because sometimes we overlook confidence and never check our actions, as noted we as individuals we have different types of personalities which differentiate us as human beings but when it comes to create opportunities, our actions counts because confidence is just an additional tool which can help you unleash your creativity but you must be aware of the important of taking action because if your are confident and never take action you won't be able to create those opportunities that's why when it comes to action it doesn't matter whether you are an extrovert or introvert, what matters is how you produce results and you must take into consideration how much it will require you to keep on taking action because sometimes we give too much excuses based on how we lack confidence but the truth is that we lack the ability to take action on our plans that's why to create opportunities you are required to keep on acting because that's the only way to create, but never be blocked by this tendency of looking at how much you lack confidence, remember some people get confidence along the way because you cannot wait for confidence to happen you must take action and reflect and improve your course that's why action can help you to improve your confidence.
Health and Life
Title description: 23 July 2021
Why do we fail to commit to good health?
We should start to research our commitments as individuals, because some of us we don't even know what exactly are we commiting ourselves into that's why many people have adopted bad or good habits while they were still young, we have to remember discipline is something which you grow with it that's why it's becoming very hard for so many people to change their habits because they have lived a life of bad habits, we have to check how did we get this types of habits which end up controlling our lives, because to commit it to focus and as discussed focus is a skill and you have to use it wisely because many us realize later how we fail to focus on good health especially once sickness start to break us down as individuals, we have to commit to good health as individuals because that's where most of reserved powers are located, if we fail to commit is because we have given more preference to bad habits but as noted as individuals we have choices and preferences but we can tell you people don't prefer bad health because it's expensive and challenging what is problematic is to outwit those bad habits and sometimes it takes time.
How to understand your health commitments?
They are different types of techniques we can use to understand our health commitments let's check the following :
- Friendship
- Relaxation
- Exercise
- Sleeping
- Diet
- Environment
- Affordability
- Goal's
- Relationships
- Friendship & Habits
We can list other techniques but we have only limited this list to 10 techniques because everyone has to pick which one works best for them but we recommend you use all of these techniques when you analyze your health commitments.
Can you become addicted to money?
Money is a tool, we cannot be addicted to money but we can be addicted to what we consume from what we have brought with money, many of us never checked how our addictions are controlling our lives, if money was an addiction, we wouldn't have broke people, because addictions are always attachments of control, and we cannot become addicted to money it's very challenging to explore this matter because we have given money different types of activities that's why if indeed if. money was an addiction we would have the majority of addicts as we always have money in our wallets, everyone should check how he or she relates to money because sometimes we can attach money to various activities and when we are confused we blame money wherever we are the ones who have created those situations which have created the addiction for us, money is not a habit it's a tool because many people have lived without having money but never lived without using their Habits that's why this subject of addiction is covered on depth on our book called The power of habits.
Why you should check your financial commitments?
How many times do people set financial goals but still struggle to get any achievement?
We have to be aware of these factors that because we have to hold ourselves accountable for our commitments, they are several elements that can hold us back to achieve our financial commitments let's check the following :
- Poor budgeting skills
- Buying fake goods
- One stream of income
- Debts
- Overspending
We have warned you several times about the dangers of spending too much and earning less this attitude can destroy your progress and results, if you can pay close attention you will realize how many people have created this path of making themselves broke because they overspend and earn less money, this attitude is costly because you will suffer the consequences of not achieving your goals as an individual.
Why do we feel ashamed when we are broke?
We are not happy if we don't achieve, we should be aware of the importance of progress because that's where most of us sometimes end up getting stuck, if we are broke we should be willing to work our way to solve the situation which creates this process of being broke, as noted above some people have this tendency of creating problems for themselves by spending more than their earnings that's why they are always into debts and endless chased by bankers to get their money because we have discussed this subject of debts as we have told you about the importance of learning about which types of debts are healthy and how to know if your debts are unhealthy, beings broke is not attractive because people will just judge you whether you are financially stable or unstable what matters is to find ways to deal with your situation and become financially stable as individuals because talking won't help what is required is to fix the situation and get the results so you can enjoy your life.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 22 July 2021
Why do we fail to accept our shortcomings?
As individuals we are somehow afraid to talk about our weaknesses because society is so mean whereby we sometimes get judged by those people who we trust that's why it's becoming challenging to express our shortcomings as individuals, even from schools some of us our confidence has been damaged because we have experienced peer pressure and this has affected our confidence, to express our shortcomings is not a normal activity especially once you start to elaborate what you cannot do as an individual, because even from our families we are not taught about our strength and weaknesses that's why we find it so difficult to explore our weaknesses and accept them, most of the people don't know about their core weaknesses that's why some people can find it hard to express themselves on some areas because our weaknesses always make us feel vulnerable and insecure.
Why acceptance is power?
The power to accept is based on how you understand forgiveness because many people struggle to accept because they are still wounded by the past that's why we have told you to pay attention to how you handle your forgiveness process because sometimes we rush to forgive people whenever we feel it's convenient for us to just forgive and let it go but the entire process of forgiveness can sometimes become lengthy because wounds don't just heal immediately, we have to analyze what is it that we are supposed to accept and why because as individuals we sometimes accept things because we want to fit into certain lifestyles which don't even align with our core values that's why we always feel guilty after doing certain things, to accept is to understand your choices and decisions because what you accept you must be willing to face the consequences of it if something goes wrong, we don't fail to accept we fail to research what is it that we are accepting.
How to know about your acceptance?
They are several elements that can help us to understand if we have achieved this process of acceptance, check the following:
- Don't take criticism personal
- Open to rejections
- No longer feel pain
- New changes
- Fewer complaints
- You start to pursue your goals and plans
- Happiness is your priority
- Progress is always your concern
- You feel peace inside you
- You are open to love
These 10 elements can help us to review if we have accepted what has happened but we can even struggle to maintain these elements because as noted we heal differently that's why you have to understand which process of healing works best for you and what is required yourself to accept the situation, some of us we can end up giving up on the healing stage because we seek instant results that's why time it's your advantage when it comes to learning about your healing process, we all walk this journey of healing that's why to accept is to check and be willing to learn about what is happening because everyday pain is around the corner that's why it's all about how we handle some situation and be willing to accept that some things are beyond our control and we have to make peace with them as individuals.
Why do we avoid accepting we lack happiness?
They are different types of reasons why we don't accept we lack happiness check the following:
- Fake it until you make it
- Ashamed to be judged
- Ignorance
- Peer pressure
- Media
- Knowledge gaps
- Lifestyle
- Fears
- Doubts
- Comparison
We have to check what we lack because this area it's very important to our lives as individuals, we have to refrain from this kind of cliches which says fake it until you make it, you cannot fake happiness, this process can create problems for you because the time you dedicate for faking it supposed to be the time you start to fix what's making you end up becoming unhappy, we have to check what we use as people because sometimes we use wrong meanings and wonder why our lives are so miserable and chaotic, we have to accept the situation so we can come up with the solution, people who pretend to be happy always end up compromising themselves into a various situation just to appear happy that's why we have told you as people we have this mechanism inside ourselves which can tell if someone is happy or not our instincts don't lie that's why by faking it your are wasting your time and energy.
When is the right time to accept your life?
The only time we have is right now, we have to avoid this trap of thinking we can accept our lives once we are rich because at the end of the day your life it's what you make as an individual, if you position your life to work it will end up working for you but if you place your life under this normality of postponing your happiness and freedom then you will face the consequences of life , many of us we use wrong information that's why it becoming challenging for many people to accept their lives as a symbol of blessings, because we have given material possessions the power to control our attention and priorities that's why we take it for granted when we are told we live once and if we don't check this truth we shall reflect back during the stage of facing our deathbed that's why you should care about your life because it's a blessing which will be erased by time soon that's why you must be willing to use the right information so you don't find your life into this chaotic situations of not appreciating your life.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 21 July 2021
Why males are so reluctant to be corrected by females?
History is filled with evidence of how man has conquered tough circumstances and even by going an extra mile to create and kill anything that can disturb him, yet the progress of mankind is still under toil and worry because man has been shaped by nature to accept or decline certain standards let's check the following :
- Nature of man
Only a few men can accept to be corrected by woman, we still struggle to find why man is so ignorant of these lessons, nature consists of how man is conditioned to follow certain dogmas some have created this notion that woman cannot correct them, that's why from history man seek external help to another man because that's how man has been taught to seek any corrections but the nature of man is still under development because today many men are shifting from this conditioned ignorance to accept that woman are still valid to help them see their errors and shortcomings.
- Analysing powers
Man sometimes take counsel based on the power that's why in history men were given time to gather and listen to some of the wise men who can help then guide or pave their journey of life, so women cannot analyze the powers of man that's why sometimes many men never want to talk about this factors of powers because they feel ashamed and doubtful to discuss this matters with woman, manpower is an asset that's they view it as a symbol of respect.
- Anger
Sometimes tradition or culture has increased anger for many men because wrong information has been shared to confuse men not to listen to a woman that's why today we still struggle to teach a man how to handle a man and stay away from abuse because men are angry and they don't speak up.
- Build up emotions
Man is taught to hide their feeling just to pretend to be strong and these lessons are recurring from one generation to another that's why the man they end up resorting to violence and we wonder what's happening with these men we should check what has been feed into the minds of this man
- Male fears
Man can fear coming up as weak if corrected by a woman that's why it takes courage to take counsel from a woman as a man.
Why do many men take Advice from their male friends?
The nature of man is based on the power that's why many men feel weak to take advice from their women, and this approach has cost many men to end up becoming violent and justifying their wrongdoings by saying a man has the final word and today we still struggle to hold man accountable, especially for not listening but let's explore how man opt for counsel from another man:
- Power issues
Biology is filled with evidence to show how men compete for power and when it comes to advice it because very hard for a man to ask for advice from a woman because they cannot speak the masculine language that's why the power to men is an advantage and even a support structure for protection and man feel better if advice by other fellow men
- Trust
Man trust another man to correct them this had been going on since the dawn of time, counsel was only reserved for man alone that's why as the discussed man used to gather in groups to discuss issues which affect their families and this has given room for this man to trust the advice of this man and woman were left alone because even today this separation is still taking place man is still struggling to trust a woman with their matters.
- Experience
Some men have gathered sufficient experience by learning from this other man pointed out here and we still struggle to learn why men repeat this lesson's even though some are not correct this type of thinking is damaging many families because men are taught to lead but not to take enough responsibilities to respect and care for their woman feelings, today man is unlearning these beliefs.
- Values
Some men value the input of another man just because they want to copy their behaviors and this has been happening since the dawn of time, some men use the values of others to deal with their family matters that's why men if they cannot solve certain problems they rather keep quite and even isolate themselves from their woman, value for man means the ability to exercise power.
- Ego powers
Man feels protected in the company of another man that's why we often wonder why a man likes to meet in groups and talk, this date back to their biological footprint and makeup.
What makes males so adverse to risk-taking?
Humankind is dangerous because he has been the one who has taken the forefront of taking action, and this bias is genetically inherited, with this challenge, men have been taught to hunt and this makes them more exposed to risk-taking but let's explore this even further :
- Masculinity
For men to survive they should hunt that's why as discussed man if they cannot produce or provide they feel ashamed or weak and this approach is challenging because many men if they cannot exercise their full masculinity powers end up becoming miserable and even resorting to violence and alcohol even drugs too, because man is not taught how to handle their emotions.
- Character
By nature, men are risk-takers and these characteristics are built up into the physical appearance of man, remember sometimes men have been given tough responsibilities because they are risk-takers and they have more physical powers to handle certain activities.
- Commitment
Man can commit to die for certain ideals that's why any man can go to war because they are the ones who always take a lead to commit to helping the society to change, wars are fought by men because they are risk-takers.
- Respect
Taking risks for man help them to gain respect that's why man are always pressured to get their families into order and protected.
- Responsibility
As discussed men hold higher responsibilities because they are tougher and stronger than a woman that's why for men to succeed they should take risks to do whatever it takes to protect their families.
Why males are the ones who make more mistakes compared to women?
According to history men are leading with mistakes because they were given more opportunities to take action and even access certain things, today woman is transitioning to this equal opportunity but still, the gap is well wide open, let's check how men have been collecting mistakes from this life :
- Leadership
Wars are waged by a man who has additional powers or influence, that's why learning about how man has led this world you will notice how some men have been so greedy to hand over their powers to others because leadership for man means to control and freedom.
- Power
If a man cannot use the power they feel weak that's why man rather keep on trying or doing the same mistakes even though their woman is advising them
- Responsibilities
Learning to take responsibilities is ingrained into males mindset because if a man cannot uphold his ability to take full responsibility he is referred as weak in other terms but we should not overlook this process because today many woman earn more than man and the industrial revolution has passed whereby man have all the powers to control assets, today responsibilities are somehow structured equally that's why man always make this mistakes of thinking they can handle everything into the family, we should remember how important to complete each other's weaknesses because man can hunt but woman can connect, that's why every man if he feels tired only finds rest into the comfort of a woman and some mistakes are common because man think responsibility is only about money and power to control woman that's why we have talked about this factors which have affected the minds of man to think woman are supposed to be controlled by man but man be controlled by their habits or influence of their associates.
- Control
Man always make this mistake by thinking that controlling woman with material possessions is what can help them to keep a woman happy, many women care enough more than money because material possessions can go at any given time, that's why most women don't care about what you have but how you handle them is what they care most about because on women's side is all about emotions and for the males' side is about dominance and appearance that's why man prefer to appear stronger, and again man think money can increase love these mistakes have a lead man to end killing the woman because if someone doesn't love you regardless of what type of material possessions you have the fact remains she doesn't love you and these mistakes have taken man to even end up killing themselves for woman because they fail to control their woman.
- Exploration
Man has done great mistakes in the name of exploration, take for example the man who created a gun, this type of creation has led man to end up starting wars and even killing many animals, man has been at the forefront of exploration, from travel to knowledge man has been exploring.
What kind of mistakes most males are reluctant to be corrected?
Many can accept this truth because they feel weaker if it can be expressed by a woman, especially in the company of another man, but remember all men somehow value respect as the structure of power especially if they are supposed to appear with their woman, that's why we have talked about the way each man and woman should review their confidence on each other, this topic was covered on our other segment.
- Attitude
Males' attitude is challenging because they can involve anger and trauma that's why man if they should calm down they require another fellow man to talk with them not a woman, because even on any battlefield only man go there and calm another man to come into tables of negotiation, and this attitude about the man we have already witnessed it, especially if a man is wrong is highly impossible to accept the errors in front of his woman he rather keeps quiet until there's a safe place to accept to his woman he was wrong that's why man take time to apologize because they somehow allow their egos to drive them and even hide their emotions under this process of attitude.
- Diet
Man can change how they eat especially if they are in the company of another fellow man, that's why some men drink alcohol only with their friends and can even hide this from their women, because sometimes men feel they are treated like children when it comes to Diet because their woman always hold them accountable to certain dietary guidelines, and some man can eat junk on the street because they feel that's the only way to escape what their woman has planned as a menu, and sometimes a man can refuse to change what they eat in the name of culture or tradition, many women can affirm this and it's very challenging to convert this man to eat up eating healthy.
- Clothing
Only a few men can accept to be chosen what they are supposed to wear, but because men by nature are supposed to please their women they end up having no choice but wear clothes which they're selected by their women, we should remember men can be tough but when it comes to their woman all can loosen up because if a man cannot do what they woman says this can bring turmoil and recurring arguments, man especially married ones can tell you who controls the wardrobe, they wear clothes which are selected by their woman that's why being married for many men is a challenge because they should give certain things and adopt new one's.
- Staying late with friends
Only those who are not married can escape this challenge, because woman don't entertain nonsense when it comes to get back home, it's very important to I understand this approach because many man never understood why it's very important to be at home on time, because on the side of woman it shows care and attention that's why woman always prefer to prepare food for their man and if a man disobey this rule he is damaging his marriage because his woman will always be disappointed by his man not showing up for dinner on continuous basis, man should remember what is important, their woman or friends, and they should balance the two because this can destroy the marriage if a man is not willing to change his behaviours of staying late with friends and coming home in the midnight, you should know this as a man is either your are married or you just act to be married the choice is yours and your family will always seen what kind of a man if you don't allow your woman to have peace by not being available for her.
- Rules of the family
Man can set rules and even step up or break those rules but if a woman breaks the rule man can be very angry and even enforce violence we should not condone this attitude because we are human beings and we should be treated with fairness and dignity as individuals because if a man set rules but disobey them, then his woman is left with fewer choices to break the rules too but family rules should be respected by both spouse's regardless of the nature of power or influence because what often keep the family jointed together is the respect of rules the family has.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 20 July 2021
What makes partners confident about their relationships or marriages?
Confidence is a confirmation of caring, for each other as partners, we should remember how important it is to accept each other as partners because we all have different types of personalities and uniqueness, which often joins two partners to end up becoming successful in their marriages is the following :
- Trust
We should refrain from thinking people are not trustworthy, remember you cannot spend your entire life with someone who doesn't trust that will be unfair and even challenging, trust is an asset in a marriage or relationship because everything is based on how you trust each other to stick together, especially during those hard times, whenever we observe marriages whereby trust is no longer available, we can tell that a divorce is on the door, but as joined partners we should keep ourselves open to this topic of trust because as individuals we are not perfect but it doesn't mean we should not be trusted, but what can sustain the confidence of marriage or relationship is how you deal with assumptions of not trusting each other and address them and keep going forward.
- Character
By nature, some people have these personalities of not being trusted by others, but you should remember whenever you choose someone you have to tick the boxes accurately because if you cannot choose what you want you will be left to. what is available that's why marriage is a respected union which requires both spouses to take full responsibility to keep the confidence active, our characters can differ but love is the same that's why learning to become less judgemental can help you to learn about your character and the one about your wife or husband, it takes maturity to understand this approach but is possible.
- Care
Confidence in each other as partners can show how you care for each other, how often have we seen partners who hide from each other because they are afraid to be judged by others, whenever you choose to marry you have to check this approach because sometimes people can be confident for short term, that's why care should be checked and measured because if someone doesn't care, why should you be into the relationship or marriage with that particular individual, we as individuals we should avoid this tendency of doing favors because fast forward ahead when the marriage starts to get into troubles we shall remember how we neglected this truth we have avoided previously, caring is power and it always comes with different elements and process.
- Power
Some partners can be confident about each other because of what type of material possessions they present to the outside community, but to further clarify this tendency we should remember material possessions can go anytime, to prove this check how covid-19 pandemic has destroyed many jobs, so if you were confident about your partner because he or she is working what will happen with your marriage or relationship, we can tell bankruptcy can reveal people that's why the greatest power all spouses should remember is how to separate the material possessions from their marriage or relationship.
- Forgiveness
We as individuals have our shortcomings and errors but we should keep our marriage on the rule of forgiveness, we understand how partners can end up doing cruel things to each other but for the sake of health and freedom if you want to force yourself to forgive it's dangerous and we suggest partners should attend counseling on this subject of forgiveness because we don't know what kind of situation is supposed to be forgiven or which ones are not that's why every relationship or marriage has its limitations or process of handling this problem that's why we didn't give any answer but leave to your choices and standard of how you see this topic of forgiveness, remember when we forgive we heal ourselves and this can help us recover our confidence.
Why do some people care too about your looks more than your behaviors?
Society has done damage to our minds, some will argue with this statement but it remains a fact of life, some people choose you because you have something to give them not who you are, take for example any partner who has chosen his or her life partner based on looks, you will realize how we pick this approach because by nature we date base on our struggle or success, we pick partners who often relate to something with our lives, that's why looks along the journey of marriage they change and somehow partners should be aware that aging is not a choice is a natural principle, people do change on certain physical characteristics but what matters is the behaviors on how you handle this changes as partners :
- Doubts
We can be ashamed of our partners looks because we doubt how others will say about our marriage or relationship, that's why oftentimes very few man accompany their wives into shopping malls, this activity is broader and it requires careful understanding and thinking, because sometimes we feel bad about our partners but remain pretending to be fine, that's why on our last segment we have talked about the importance of having joined goals, things like exercising together as partners, this always increase confidence on each other that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of open communication which means if you feel looks do matters please approach this topic with respect and care because it can open problems and arguments if handled inappropriately, but remember if you have a partner who is willing to learn or be corrected some looks can be adjusted but not natural looks unless you opt for surgery but it remains the right thing to express yourself with care and empathy when you approach this topic.
- Criticism
Families or friends can criticize our partners but remember what you love is not what they love, it doesn't matter how you look sometimes it matters how you behave as an individual because as noted above they're certain appearance looks which can be adjusted, especially fashion and exercise routines but don't allow people to destroy your marriage or relationship because of looks, as individuals we get into the relationship or marriages because of we love those people unless it was a transactional love then we can talk different story.
- Judgment
If you judge you will be judged too, we choose our partners based on a variety of reasons and choices but we should remember when we grow up our bodies and looks always change and we as mature married people should check how we judge each of our appearances or looks because sometimes this topic can hurt if handle inappropriately that's why we recommend you seek professional help.
- Comparison
Adults can have peer pressure too, but this can be hidden, you should not compare your partner with others, or let yourself go and be with those people who you prefer as individuals we have to stop comparing our ex with the current partners because sometimes we can lose our marriages because we bring the old into the new, that's why we have talked about learning to understand your choices before you can marry because no one ever enjoys being compared with others.
- Control
We can feel ashamed of each other because we feel we cannot control our partners to change as we suggest but remember looks can be adjusted with various techniques if both spouses agreed to devote attention to improving your looks.
Why we are ashamed of our partner's looks?
Looks are only for appearance, if there's no appearance we won't even care about looks and sometimes people have their own choices when it comes to choosing who is best for their choices but remember we choose based on what we know that's why you should somehow reflect who taught you about the good or right woman or man, you will notice how we have this gathered memory which either helps us to choose our partners, but as discussed we have the responsibility to exercise our choices not only based on looks but even the behaviors which we value them the most.
These are some key reasons why sometimes people choose others on behaviors, not material possessions :
- Ego
Pride can sell us to others especially if we keep our egos under proper management.
- Comparison
If we don't compare we always find peace and happiness, that's why your behaviors matter more than your material possessions because if today you lose your job or business your behaviors remain with you that's why learning to choose each other based on this approach can help the marriage to succeed.
- Suitability
Sometimes we can pretend to like others but with marriage, all pretense will be waved away by challenges and problems that's why we have told you to choose based on what you value as an individual not what is suiting your temporary desires or pleasures because suitability is an essential component of Love and care, by nature some partners don't suit each other that's why you should be careful about who you choose because some people by nature are complainers, or liers so be willing to check this factors because they affect the marriage.
- Preference
We should instigate our preferences as partners because if not we shall end up compromising each into something which doesn't suit the marriage, some partners hide their preferences until you get married to them, that's why learning about each other can assist to draw this balance of understanding the preference and limitations which binds your marriage or relationship together.
- Appearance
Looks do matters, especially clothing but the greatest looks come from your behaviors, take for example someone who is drinking while wearing a suit, you will see how many people will blame that particular individual because he or she is taking the rank of that particular clothing into the ditch but remember we choose each other according to different types of characters that's why marriage is an ongoing process of learning.
Why does marriage reveal your confidence?
Take for example the analogy of going together shopping, this can show the following confidence components :
- Actions
Sometimes men or women are not comfortable walking with their partners, this challenge is there you can observe it because inside the marriage many partners forget what has united them in the first place, that's why many people realize later how they have made either good or wrong choices by marrying someone because confidence especially when it comes to sex can reveal many issues and opportunities that's why your actions to each other can reveal the confidence you have the marriage.
- Behaviors
Sometimes people hide their behaviors until they get your weaknesses that's why marriage sometimes never last because partners always when argue they use weaknesses as weapons to attack each other and this approach has consequences of reducing the confidence in each other because it can even escalate to a point whereby each partner sleep on a different room or goes to ceremonies, shopping or funerals alone, because how you treat each always comes out whenever you are outside that's why some people have always been married but they don't show up with their partners.
- Attitude
A good or bad attitude can affect how the marriage confidence works
- Honesty
If your want peace and happiness you should get married to an honest individual, and the question is how can one knows if someone is honest, check their actions, and promises because people don't lie on actions if someone is honest your heart will assist you to get the answer and please don't confuse honesty with desperation, because sometimes people can become honesty because their desperate to date you but along the process, they reveal who they are.
- Strength and weaknesses
Marriage confidence is protected by understanding these two forces' strengths and weaknesses each other because no one ever enjoys getting his or her weakness's being advertised.
Can we teach our spouses to become Confident?
We can teach each other to become confident but we should not force this activity it should be self voluntary and be guided by expert advice, but as discussed with have our ways of learning how to improve but it remains both spouse's choices to understand what kind of confidence is appropriate for their marriage, you can check the following if you want to achieve or learn about confidence :
- Concern
What makes you concerned about confidence inside your marriage?
- Growth
How can confidence in each other accelerate growth in your marriage?
- Explore
What is it that you will like to explore about confidence as partners?
- Experience
What kind of experience do you seek to discover or gather once to obtain that particular confidence you have selected?
- Acceptance
What are the limitations towards the confidence you want to achieve?
Startup Business
Title description: 19 July 2021
Why resources allocation matters for startup businesses?
The advantage of learning or research about your startup business resources matters because oftentimes most entrepreneurs sometimes hide their inaction reasoning from the standpoint of lacking resources to execute certain tasks, that's why we have been emphasizing this subject which say a startup business is a research model, and for any research to end up becoming successful,you need to keep on taking action and improve your mistakes, once you are confronted with this challenge of lacking resources, it's very important to understand how to create your minimum viable product, because sometimes we overthink our startup business process that's why we struggle to allocate even simple resources into action, and you should be aware about your understanding of deploying any type of resource you have , because this stage can either make or break your startup business, that's why learning about the basics of startup business can assist you to understand what type of resource is required for your startup business and why you have selected that particular resource.
What makes a startup business master resources allocation?
As discussed above you should pick the right framework for understanding what type of resource will your startup business require because if you can research this topic, especially on some of the successful startup businesses you realize how they master the power of resource allocation especially based on what they can afford and do, this gives them the advantage to move away from complaining about lacking money key resources to a stage whereby they use what is available at their disposal that's why it can take time to analyze which type of resource work's best for your startup business, but the only sure way to understand this approach is to list them and start applying your action based on what you have planned, check the following:
- Usability
How often you should use that particular resource?
- Reliability
Can you become effective or deliver your offering on time?
- Relevance
Are you qualified to use that particular resource or do you still require skills and experience?
Whenever startup business owners start to inquire based on those 3 factors listed above this will enable them to start finding ways to master their resources.
Why Entrepreneurs should be aware of the limitations of their resources?
Every tool has its limitations, and oftentimes we have observed how startup business owners end up using this mindset which says the internet has all the answers to their business, you should remember the internet only enable your business to reach certain customers, and it's very important to notice these limitations even though you are into the technological space you always require this approach to study how and what limitations are part of your startup business, because this research can reduce stress and even influence creativity, because sometimes once we lack something we can come us with the solution to create that particular thing, so whenever you check your resources review the following blind spot :
- Deadlines
Certain resources can add faster input and others can delay your progress, that's why efficiency should be your priority when it comes to delivering your offering to your customers.
- Milestones
If you don't check how far you are reaching your milestones is because you might be using the wrong elements of resources that don't help you to scale your small wins.
- Profit
If you cannot profit you should research how you deploy your resources and what kind of barrier are you facing in the market.
- Planning
If you don't plan how much advantage you have to use what you have, this will always push you back to think you lack resources whenever you have something that you can do that's why planning and execution should be your priority as a startup business owner.
- Budget allocation
All limitations which can help many entrepreneurs to end up giving more excuses is the lack of budget to execute certain tasks or buy key resources, this is understandable but you should not rely on money alone as discussed your ability to understand how to deliver your minimum viable product is something which can assist your startup business to end up becoming successful, budget is something which you should keep your eyes at because you might be buying wrong resources which don't return any profit into your startup business.
What creates resources and power for your Start-up Business?
As an entrepreneur you should first understand the following before you can determine your resource powers:
- Collaboration support
- Staff training
- Niche market
- Delivery of minimum viable product
- Customer profiling
Power to be determined you should keep your eye on your ability to execute.
Customer profiling is very important because you should understand what kind of customers are you focusing on and what makes your startup business qualify to reach those customers.
If you can create your minimum viable product, then you can be able to determine your resource powers.
If you struggle to find a niche market, you should remember sometimes before you can build your product or service, you should run a pilot test, because sometimes if you are new to the market some customers can be resistant to adopt your product or service that's why the ability to understand how pilot test function.
Your staff or team members can assist you to get your resources to end up becoming viable because you should remember some individuals can waste key resources that's why you should set up key operational policies which safeguard your resources.
The power of resource capacity can be extended once you begin to pick who you should collaborate with and how because what often Fastrack the success of any startup business is the power of collaboration efforts.
Can resource availability become an advantage?
Yes, resource capacity is an advantage because if you check many startup businesses end up failing due to lack of resource management or budget problems, that's why we have been emphasizing how you should keep your eyes open especially learning what kind of resources you have as a startup business. After all, your ability to understand resources can increase your chances to take action and even excel in grabbing certain opportunities, you can even have this type of advantage once you have key resources at your disposal :
- Production powers
The ability to create the promised offering
- Distribution capacity
The ability to deliver the product or service to the end-user.
Career and Work
Title description: 18 July 2021
Why unemployment can increase your doubts?
We have talked about how being broke can reduce our confidence yet we have to expand this to how we deal with doubts especially if we are unemployed, we can check the following:
- Connection
- Experience
- Skills
- Goals
- Dream's
- Actions
- Habits
- Commitments
- Collaboration
- Concerns
It matters to analyze your doubts because sometimes it hurts to lose your income but you have to check your courage to keep on trying again because your doubts cannot pay bills for you that's why it's very important to find a way to restore your income.
What makes people end up becoming unemployed?
As discussed we have different types of reasons why people end up becoming unemployed but we can still check the list and reflect :
- Government is corrupt
- Some of our skills are irrelevant
- New Companies don't hire everyone
- Companies are closing
- Jobs are automated
- The interest rate is increasing
We have to study these economic changes because that's where most of the problems are created because more people graduate yet few jobs are created this creates the backlog of unemployment that's why we have to check this fact and be willing to adapt to these changes.
How to deal with your unemployment?
How many people are searching for alternative ways to find employment?
The majority of people are not aware of these factors and this makes them end up becoming unemployed, but we can help you deal with this challenge you have to pay attention to the following:
- How often do you apply for jobs
- Experience and skills limitations
- Kinds of skills and experience you have
- Types of jobs you want to settle into just to create income
- Types of jobs you qualify to apply for
- Creating your small business
- Using technology to your advantage
- Subscribing to freelance services
- Listing people who can connect you to others
- What kind of free services can you render & Asking for help from others
This question is broader because as individuals once we hit the rock bottom of unemployment we start to freak out that's why it's becoming very challenging to explore our talents and strength just to create new ways to create new opportunities for us as individuals, unemployment doubts can reduce our confidence and even worsen the matters by helping us to give up because if we don't check our courage it will be very hard to find new ways to deal with our unemployment.
Why do we lose hope during hard times?
Life is a challenge and we have to check what we are facing because to give up it's very easy but to persevere it's something that can differentiate between success and failure that's why it's becoming very hard to deal with our failures because sometimes we get used to them and we end up not even taking them seriously but what matters is how we learn from those failures we are constantly facing as individuals because you can fail but it remains your responsibility to evaluate the results and be willing to learn about what is happening because if you neglect your failures you are increasing your life problems, that's why awareness is power and learning to persevere is a skill because most people give up because they lack proper courage to keep on trying, we understand how rejections can decrease our confidence but what is important is to find ways to achieve our Goal's as individuals.
Who should care about your financial Problems?
They are two institutions that care about your financial problems:
- Ngo's
- Banks
You will wonder why we didn't mention anything which relates to your experience, you have to know the only person who should care about your financial problems is you, we have mentioned those two institutions just to pick your attention because as individuals we have this tendency of shifting our responsibilities to other things that's why it's becoming normality to accept mediocrity because it's all about how you solve your financial problems, as discussed we have the responsibility to make choices as individuals and we should learn about how we earn money and what is required to increase our streams of incomes.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 17 July 2021
What makes people fail to become successful?
We have to be aware of this type of stumbling block which can prevent many people to end up becoming unsuccessful let's check the following:
Giving up
How many people are aware of this topic of giving up?
Some people can know the word but the actual consequences and benefits of giving up many people never sit down and reflect on this challenges, we often think giving up is always based on failing alone, that's why sometimes we never care too much about our relationship with how we end giving up on our lives, giving up on many occasions is done privately because our social is to mean to allow people to give up, and the number one problem many people are always facing is when to give up and how to preserve, because if you can check we sometimes struggle to understand how to give up even if we are not failing,we associate giving up with failure that's when you talk about giving up people suspect you have failed, giving up is power especially if you understand how to use it , because in life they are many things which don't even worth your attention that's why you should ask yourself where can I give up in my life, this question can reveal areas which requires you to let it go , because sometimes peace can only be restored by learning to give up on things which no longer serves us any purpose.
- Criticism
Whenever haters critic your progress is your responsibility to either take their words or reject what they are talking about, oftentimes people give up because they listen to the opinions of their haters that's why they end up failing to become successful, you should remember your success will hurt many people because some individuals have chosen to channel their lives based on envy and blame that's why success for them is a threat and you should be able to prove your haters wrong and silent them.
- Bad habits
Success requires a healthy body, because in the end if you are not healthy how will you enjoy the benefits of your success, we should be careful about our habits because they can cost us hefty prices and even destroy our lives, many people end up failing to become successful because they have bad habits which prevent them to focus on their goals or plans, no wonder why we have the majority of haters.
- Inaction
There's no magic, if you don't take action for your goals, you won't achieve anything, majority of people end up becoming unsuccessful because they keep on postponing their goals or plans, that's why as discussed being successful can threaten your haters because they judge themselves based on your progress and then start to utter criticism and blames, action is the seed of success that's why if you keep on acting you will somehow end up becoming successful.
- Procrastination
If you won't challenge your comfort zone, then it will be hard to get success, because many people end up becoming unsuccessful because they give too much attention to their comfort zone before even succeeding that's why it's very dangerous to become complacent.
- Waiting
Wishing is part of evoking our hopes and even keeping our positive spirit higher, but what often disturbs many people is to wish and do nothing, as noted previously actions matter regardless of the size what can lead you to become unsuccessful is to wait and wish, remember there's no goal or plan of yours which can execute its self, you are required to take action for your dreams and aspirations.
These factors can affect us differently but they end up leading us to end up failing as individuals.
Why do we end up giving up?
People can give up for various reasons but we have to pay attention to the following:
- Doubts
Whenever we give too much attention to our doubts and even wait, we might end up giving up on our goals or plans, doubts are just alerting signals, it's very important to understand this approach because if you want to achieve you will always be confronted with many doubts but what matters is your capacity to take action regardless of how you doubt the situation, because the outcome is more important than the assumption which comes with doubts, we end giving up because we doubt our skills, experience, talents, and strength, this can be caused by comparing ourselves with others that's why you should be aware of your power of taking action on continues basis.
- Low self-esteem
It's normal to lose confidence but it's very dangerous to live your life based on lower self-esteem because sometimes our words can discourage us to end up giving up on our goals without even trying that's why it's very important to check how you think about yourself and what kind of results does your thinking brings you because lower self-esteem is another major cause of helping people to end up giving up.
- Constant failure
When you reach out to the process of success you will somehow face obstacles and challenges but this doesn't mean you won't succeed this process is a testing stage and you have to embrace your failures and keep moving forward, people give up because don't know how to deal with failure that's why perseverance is important.
- Disappointments
Where they're expectations remember disappointments are near, many people end up giving up because they have disappointed those people who were looking up to them to become successful, check for example how unemployment has made many people give up and even become disappointed into what they were expecting in life.
- Loneliness
Sometimes taking this approach of learning to ask for help can assist you to end up becoming successful, sometimes individuals are shy to ask for help that's why they end up becoming lonely and even giving up on their goals, support structures are very important to your success.
- Criticism
People can criticize you but they won't pay bills for you, so before you give up on your dreams asks yourself the question, will this criticism pay bills for me? if don't hesitate to keep on acting on your goals.
- Bad habits
Learn to keep good habits, because if not your bad habits will take over your life and lead you to failure
- Comparison
If you want to fail and give up on yourself keep on comparing yourself with others
- Shortcuts
Success is a long journey no amount of shortcuts can help you to end up becoming successful, people give up because they subscribe to this instant gratification of taking shortcuts.
- Blaming
To fail is to blame and do nothing about your life, it's very easy to keep on blaming how things are not working but remember you are wasting your time, what is important is to take action, because whenever we keep on blaming we end up collecting reasons to give up on our goals.
These elements can increase our chances to end up giving up as individuals and it's very important to understand what makes us end up giving up.
How to understand your progress?
We have talked about the importance of paying attention to details but it's very important to document your progress as follows:
- Win
Small wins matter regardless of what is happening you should always cherish your small victories because that's where you can build your self-motivation.
- Improvements
Life is a stage of progress, if you want to achieve you should be aware of taking your dreams or goals into action because what matters is results not opinions, that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of paying attention to details and keeping your self motivated towards what you want.
- Learning
Everyday life teaches us something, you either take the lesson or ignore it
- Failures
Whenever we fail we should pause and reflect on the plan and check which steps we missed and then get back to the action.
- Uncontrollable
Sometimes learning to accept is power regardless of what is happening you should understand there are some situations or challenges which are way beyond your control and what will set you free is to accept that sometimes you cannot control certain things all you can do is accept and appreciate this truth.
These five steps can help us to gather sufficient information about our progress and even research what we can do and what is beyond our control as individuals.
Why do we have to link our success with our health?
This question is broader but we have to caution you to make sure you link your health with good habits and not waiting for money to say you will become healthy because your life matters in this very present moment, you can do the following:
- Design your meditation schedule
- Create your diet plan
- Schedule checkups with the doctor
- Setup sleeping schedule
- Exercise
- Document your creative thoughts
- Manage your finance
- Find a way to give back to the community
- Reduce the clutter in your house
You are not limited until you start doing nothing that's why your health is your responsibility and it's very important to link it with good habits as an individual.
Why do we fail to manage our failures?
We have touched on the subject of managing our success yet we have to balance the equation, this means we have to learn how to manage our failures as individuals, by checking the following factors:
- Self motivation
We should be aware of how we motivate ourselves especially during those hard times, because as discussed majority of people end up giving up because they cannot persevere during hard times.
- Courage
If you don't have courage you should recheck your dreams and goals and ask yourself what life you aspire to have if you get something worth thinking about keep it up and be willing to learn how others have conquered failure by reaching out to their courage to face failure.
- Circle of friendship
Sometimes people can pressure us to take action and this can even push us to do mistakes, that's why managing your failures is very important, especially looking at what type of friendship you have, because sometimes people have this tendency of either improving or breaking you that's why sharing your failures can define your weaknesses to others but if you have a true circle of friendships you will be supported during those failing times.
- Reading books
As noted learning from others can assist us to increase our courage and hope because books can teach us to think and even come up with alternative strategies to solve our failures.
- Learning from experts
People who keep their ego suspended by not judging who can teach them always get ahead with life, remember education doesn't mean you can think or solve problems but people can teach you something about life that's why you should select which type of people are you willing to learn from and why.
- Understand cause and effect
To balance failure with success the only option is to understand how the action works, this means you will either get good or bad results when you act and it's very important to understand how to approach these two forces.
- Acceptance
To improve your life requires you to accept that you cannot win every day but you will succeed once you keep on acting.
- Forgiveness
As noted we mourn failure differently some can talk and others can hide but what is important is to learn to forgive ourselves for failing, because remembering failure hurts, and we should not shy away from this truth but be willing to embrace it with courage so we can move ahead with life.
- Managing rejections
This question is broader we have covered it in our book called how to manage your Rejections but what is important is to keep your self-motivation active enough to challenge this process of Rejections.
Improving our skills and experience
Life can present us with new challenges and opportunities but we should keep on managing our attention and focus because failure sometimes can be hidden until we start to the whole picture.
You cannot manage failure until you face your fears and challenge your comfort zone and this can help you to evoke your creativity to come up with the solution.
Health and Life
Title description: 16 July 2021
Why we lack the courage to talk about Health?
The language of health is not advertised as compared to bad news, because as individuals we have to remember how the world is operating, good health is something which can solve many problems , but to give it a platform this can affect many business because junk food is what is controlling this advertisments, as individuals we are constantly bombarded with bad habits news that's why it's becoming very difficult to talk about health, from our families and communities we don't have conventions or platforms which teach people about good health, we have to check how often on our daily basis within our circles of influence or friendships do we talk about good health, this can clarity why it's becoming challenging to talk about this topic because we feel ashamed to express how unhealthy we are and what we are supposed to do , most of us we know we are struggling with bad habits that's why we avoid to talk about good health, so this shows us how our minds are conditioned, we give attention to what suits our egos that's why we feel offended once we are told we are not healthy, because we know how important it is to become healthy, because good life it's all about good health.
Why it's becoming hard for broke people to talk about Health?
We have to observe these barriers such as the following:
- Progress
- Results
- Experience
- Guilty
- Shame
It's hard to talk without any results to confirm your statement, most people judge the wisdom of broke people because they judge their progress and results, that's why most people don't feel comfortable to express how broke they are because the society doesn't care much about your financial issues that's why we always feel traped to talk about how much we need help especially when it comes to generate income, we have to remember that some people are broke for various reasons that's why to judge them without understanding their situation you will be doing something wrong, we live in unprecedented times whereby you have to proof if you have something and this pressure is destroying many of us because sometimes we can be financial stable but because we follow wrong trends we end up finding ourselves into debts and recurring financial problems because we want to finance the lifestyle we cannot afford that's why broke people they end up becoming ashamed to talk about money because our society is so mean whereby people just jump into judging without understanding the scope of the matter that's why sometimes it's worth to keep quite and work on your goals, your results will speak on behalf of you.
Who has the power to talk about your health?
We are the ones who are supposed to talk about our Health and it's not an obligation of others to talk about our health because this activity is regarded as an offense in some legal matters that's why we are so afraid to comment when we see our counterparts who are not healthy, we have reserved this comments because we are not open to possiblities as the society, we have promoted the secret of being unhealthy as a priority that's why we have people who realize later how it was important to understand how good health function, because without proper understanding of what is good health we are doomed as the society and families, but remember you health will always shows if you are not health and people have their own mouth to talk that's why you cannot prevent them to gossip about your health but you can start to get your health in order so you can live a better life, your health will talk on your behalf there's no need to express it or talk too much about it because some people are always jealous about good health that's why do what's right for your life.
Why your health is linked to your goals?
Our health is linked to our goals for various reasons:
- To act on some goals you must be healthy.
We have to remember that focus is a component of good health, that's why we always see how we are supposed to be healthy to focus on some areas of our lives which require improvements, from school to work we are all required to become healthy because if we are not healthy we cannot be productive and this can affect our results, that's why if you want to check your life you must be willing to check how you focus on your goals because if you don't focus you won't achieve that's the rule of life and we have to learn to adjust our diets because overeating can impact your ability to focus that's why your goals should be linked with your health and be willing to learn about your health and seek external professional help because sometimes we can experience challenging moments which can affect how much we eat and focus that's why self-awareness is important when it comes to link your health with good habits.
Can your repetitive internal dialogue create your life?
We have to remember this:
What we focus on we create, with our internal dialogue it's even worse, because as discussed we have people who have convinced themselves as unhappy people and we have people who have convinced themselves as happy people, you have to note down this differences because this can affect your life unware, your mindset works with commands if you give it inputs which are correct it will produce what's correct but if you feed your mindset with negative thoughts this will help you to experience a nagative life,we have to remember how our believes shapes our lives, if you don't believe something is hard to achieve it that's why being the best it's a choice because you have to convince yourself and start acting in that particular fashion because sometimes we talk negative about ourselves and expect to get good results afterwards,you have to know this , what you invest is what you get , if you dwell on negative thoughts you will always get what's negative, our internal dialogue can reveal who we are and what's bothering us and what kind of thoughts are controlling us as individuals, check your thoughts you will figure out what's preventing you to get ahead with this life.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 15 July 2021
Why do we doubt our peace?
We don't doubt without any reasons, as individuals we are often exposed to different types of circumstances some can weary us down and this can affect how we see ourselves as peaceful, take for example if you are constantly having problems some which you cannot solve, this can impact your attention, especially how you see yourself as peaceful because as individuals we are very quick to detect if we are not at peace but we always wait and do nothing about what's standing on our way to explore our peace, we doubt because we question our state of peace as some of us we are not used to feeling peace, we are used to the chaos that's why it's difficult to point out your peace, doubts are always available but it depends how you handle them because we have internal and external doubts that's why you have to figure out which types of doubts prevent you to reach your peace.
How to know about your peace?
It's very easy to know about your peace check the following:
- Achievements
- Family affairs
- Types of problems
- Self-talk
- Emotional control
- Health
- Goal's
- Meditation
- Jealous
- Gratitude
- Adventure
- Financial stability
- Relationship
- Attitude
The list is endless, but as human beings, we can start by questioning our thoughts, especially those recurring thoughts, because Sometimes we can detect the problem within our thoughts, because as individuals we sometimes fear confronting our thoughts that's why we struggle to analyze what's happening inside our imagination, we know when we are not feeling peace, this activity requires us to stop ignoring what we feel because that's most of our problems are created, because to know is to question and do something, peace is not selective, everyone can have it but the requirement is awareness and attention.
Why peace is rare in many individuals' life?
Peace is always available to everyone but is rare is our ability to devote time to explore our peace because we take our peace for granted until we are overwhelmed by circumstances and challenges, some people have conditioned their mindset to think that they don't deserve peace, then who can correct this errors? Everyone is responsible for his or her peace, we have to be aware of how we use our words because they shape our attention and actions, people who are not peaceful some due to chronic issues and with others, this is self-made errors, that's why peace cannot be sold, we all need to find out what's going on inside our and what type of thoughts do we give attention too and why, peace is part of your life, some people are not peaceful because they compare their lives with others, the comparison is one of the reasons why most people never enjoy peace, because your life is unique, and to compare it you are inviting more troubles into your life.
What kind of peace matters?
Everyone can confirm this observation, this kind of peace is what matters:
To live a happy life with freedom.
We cannot live with peace if we are not happy that's why you have to take personal responsibility to match the two because if you lack one you won't explore the full attention of fun freedom, some people are always searching for things which are not searchable. After all, we all have the power to create what we want to feel and this can become challenging because we have this tendency to compare our lives that's why we start to analyze which kind of peace is better than the other, but to conclude this you have to know that peace has no size that's why you cannot measure it but you can explore it because this state of mind is infinite, that's why you have your choices to pick and select which peace suits your life.
What's the difference between peace and happiness?
The difference between happiness and peace is how we define them because, in the end, all these components are states of mind, we have to check how they are linked because to some people happiness comes first and peace follows, this is why you have to check how you understand this two components because as individuals we sometimes give too much attention to happiness and forget about peace that's why so many people never achieve peace of mind, because as discussed external happiness is overrated because we have already linked it with material possessions that's why after achievements we start to reflect on our satisfaction and we realize how powerful attachments have ruined or increase our happiness, but with peace, we are always neglecting this subject because we always separate peace from happiness.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 14 July 2021
The power of male egotism?
Egotism had made or destroy man, histrionic text can point to this statement, males have been given this power to exercise this power called ego, and oftentimes many people never checked what element of powers their ego holds, let's check this four steps of egoism:
- Power
Whenever males are praised for their ego, this can reaffirm their masculinity powers, that's why most males always seek to have power, and this comes from our families and DNA code, but ego is power, especially if a man can start to use it wisely, because sometimes if your ego is mixed up with wrong habits, it can destroy your chances to use your powers accurately, that's why many men were only traped by their habits which end up leading them to lose their powers, because with power comes control and discipline, but if you lack those two factors you will soon lose your powers, pride only matters if you can handle your egotism because that's where most males lose their powers
- Content
Ego has its benefits and consequences, that's why frequently males can test many avenues of life just to get power, because we come from families which teach males to have external powers to control, but not everyone is taught about the content of power which comes with egotism, because males can take more risk's, and this makes them end up seeking praise once they begin to succeed.
- Control
Egotism is based on control and appearance, that's why many men can struggle with low self-esteem because they lack power, especially financial stability, that's why they seek to discover their talents or skills by taking more risks to become successful.
- Leadership
When males find themselves uncertain or they can't lead in their own families this can hurt their egos, because males talk based on actions and results that's why egotism is one of the dangers and weaknesses of many males because you can work hard but destroy your success with your ego, because leadership is all about influence and balance.
Why majority of males fail to accept their mistake?
The ability to understand how mistakes are corrected is one of the rarest lessons you can encounter as an individual, many males are sometimes triggered by their egos because if we can check majority of males struggle to accept certain things, and this makes them end up becoming aggressive and dangerous into the society, take for example a man who struggles to support his family, this kind of situation can turn a man into a monster, because as discussed males feel useless if they cannot use their natural masculinity powers, that's why we still struggle with abusive males into our communities, but it's very important to check the following factors which leads males to find it hard to accept their own mistakes:
- Fear
Most males fear accepting their wrongdoings because they always prioritize their egos more than their emotions, that's why on different occasions males will rather leave with the mistakes than give away their egos, and this has destroyed many families because males don't want to be told or corrected by their wives, that's why today we have this problem of continues abuse on woman and children by male and this fears of not accepting mistakes is something which delays progress within many families.
- Doubts
When a man doubts countless times he is now surrounded by fears and this can create confusion within the mind because by nature males don't hesitate they act, that's why as discussed many males feel useless if they don't have financial power because that's where they hide their insecurities and weaknesses, but doubts always can increase your chances to end up not accepting your mistakes.
- Weaknesses
How many males have refused to accept their shortcomings, majority of them can either accept or deny their weaknesses because by nature males are aggressive and some are capable of killing that's why when a man doesn't have the power he feels so weak and sick because he cannot express his masculinity powers and this can affect how he starts to see live and even love other's because when power is not available many males cannot function that's why some can kill themselves because males hate to become weak that's why even from the society males are often encouraged to become strong individuals regardless of the pain or circumstances.
- Anger
We have to accept this reality man males struggle with anger and anxiety but this situation goes unnoticed because males don't talk when they're angry they rather seek alternative ways to solve the problem that's why alcohol and drugs are always killing males because they somehow fail to control certain emotions and this leads them to end up not taking any corrections friendly because it open wound's for them.
- Values
What is a man without proper values? Nothing indeed because if values are not part of a man's life then chaos is part of that life that's why sometimes we should remember some males never accept mistakes because they lack the values to change their lives.
What makes males ignorant?
We have to check how angry males are today, we have discussed the power of peer pressure, yet we have not talked about how males struggle to find peace because of peer pressure, that's why we have listed reasons why many males fail to accept their own mistakes because they fear to lose their egos, and we should further investigate what makes males ignorant let's check these facts:
- Power
How many leaders refuse to give away power to other new leaders?
How many families are controlled by ignorant males?
How many women are abused by males who use culture and religion?
These questions mentioned above hold very important facts and we can relate to this because power can corrupt or discipline males that's why we have told you how money can hide monsters, that we have to check what builds this ignorance on males by checking the following:
- Success
Success is a weapon of progress, but we should not forget how much it can cause damage to other people, because sometimes males struggle with pain but end up taking that particular pain on others by abusing or holding them into a cage of support, you can check this for yourself, some males success means ignorance and power that's why they don't want to be told even though they are wrong and this can affect how families function because success is something to enjoy not a weapon to cause pain.
- Addictions
Many males struggle with addictions for many centuries because we have given males responsibilities which some are totally out of their control, that's why you can have males, addicts, speak about life, some will narrate how they have tried but their worth was not recognized so they end up becoming miserable and give up on life.
- Ego
Material possessions can affect how males use their ignorance because the ego is part of ignorance that's why males always succeed in this path of mastering ignorance.
- Nature
Some men are born with love but some men are groomed to become ignorant because this makes males survive in their egos, nature cannot tolerate ignorance that's why what you ignore can make you or destroy you.
Why do males care too much about their egos?
Without ego, not all males will cope very well because sometimes, ego it's one of the male's survival biases, so let's check why males care too much about their egos:
- Survival
To improve males should keep on hunting that's why whenever they can't achieve they end up becoming miserable, with ego males are taught to compete and it's healthy for them to end up becoming successful
- Respect
Males once their ego is at play somehow can demand respect by force because as discussed money can increase your ignorance or peace all depends on how what kind of person you are, respect is what males care about that's why they don't want to lose respect on their males' associates.
- Integrity
Every man is highly recommended once the exacts the power of integrity that's why you should check how males behave when they are trusted or not
- Power
With material possessions males feel safe that's why the endless chase of success is mostly chased by males because they want to advertise their powers
- Control
When males cannot control they feel irrelevant that's why many marriages and relationships have been destroyed by this subject of control.
Why do women trap males with their egos?
As discussed males feel better when they are praised by their women and associates, that's why some women can drive males crazy by filling this gap of praising a man, but this comes to the following factors which help a woman to trap males with their egos:
- Attitude
Some women are blessed to deal with male attitudes very decisively, they can handle a man with calmness and understanding that's why we can blame some woman can who take over into some families, but the reality is that males if your attitude is balanced especially with respect they can always keep their ego under control.
- Attention
A woman can trap a man based on direct attention, that's why a man can travel 1000 kilometers to go and see a woman, we have to check how much power some women can have over males especially if they begin to trap them based on their habits and egos because if a man is given the attention he can even go an extra mile for that particular woman, this ego praise has been practiced on different occasions and sometimes it can protect woman to deal with ignorant males, every step of trap can be reflected into how males egos are often massaged by this praise which this woman use to trap and promote man to excel into their field of work and business.
- Care
When the ego is massaged, males can start to pay attention to details, that's why we can give an example of how some males were trapped by their habits and addictions, we can mention a few factors which have tired down many families, the likes of cheating, the woman can care more than the man that's why emotions of love are often carried by the woman but the responsibility of maintaining love is often the task of males because they should safeguard the family
- Listening
When a woman listens to a man he has opened the gate of freedom and peace because males if they are not listened to by their wives they become ignorant of certain family affairs and they can even start to isolate themselves from the family but always come home late and leaving in the morning, male feel respected once they find out that their woman is listening to their concerns and issues because males by nature they don't like to talk too much that's why if you don't listen they will become ignorant to help you out, but the woman has figured out this, they pamper males with care and praise and even more sex then a man is highly trapped for the rest of his life and this is healthy especially if done by married people because it sustains the relationship, a man will always hurry to a house whereby his ego is praised and he is given a space to control.
- Affirmation
Some woman can affirm their man and some can even create this affirmation, when women speak about their man in their families this can affirm the respect a woman holds for his man, that's why it's very understanding your male's concerns can help your relationship or marriage to succeed because sometimes it's very important to understand how to trap males with their nature and this is what some people often regard as the Power of woman on man because this can help your man to concentrate on you and the rest is history.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 13 July 2021
Why sexual performance is an issue for many Relationships and Marriages?
Every relationship or marriage has its benefits and challenges but these issues can affect everyone:
- Financial problems
- Diet problem
- Trauma
- Aging
- Stress
- Change of behavior
- Routines
- Expectations
- Low self-esteem
- Lost of love
- Diseases
Stress is a serious factor, partners should never be ashamed to talk about what's stressing them because sometimes we can solve our problems just by learning to express our emotions, what often challenges partners to end up becoming stressed can differ from one situation to another but what remains important is how stress is handled.
When we age we can begin to stress about certain things and even our sexual appetite can reduce these factors should be taken into consideration because sometimes partners should check the age and what kind of health requirements suits their sexual appetite because some people when they age they start to distance themselves from sex.
Life doesn't care about our plans or dreams, that's why trauma is something that goes unnoticed most of us don't choose which type of trauma we should experience, but it's very important to understand and accept that some traumas can hunt us till to the grave because what's inside our imagination can take time to remove it, that's why you can lose the appetite for sex forever, take for example someone who has been raped, the trauma can be something which helps them to end up rejecting sexual engagements.
It's very important for all partners to be concerned about what they eat because this comes back to help and trace what's happening about the decline of the sexual appetite, some people eat junk and expect to perform very well in sex, this tendency can increase issues into the relationship or marriage because what you eat affect your body and stamina, that's why partners should be aware of their health.
How many times we have seen financial problems destroying marriages or relationships?
Countless times, some partners struggle to focus on sex especially if they're facing financial problems.
Expectations can change how partners end up becoming desperate to achieve certain performance because as you can observe many partners end up bringing sexual performance into concentration once they only have intense arguments that's why this activity has the power to destroy the relationship or marriage.
Routines can change how we perform certain activities because as discussed married people can become addicted to each other that's why it's very difficult to remove the attachment from desires, whenever a spouse fails to understand how and what makes the sexual performance end up declining, all comes back to how communication and emotions are handled
Change of behavior is one area that can affect how much you understand the sexual performance and appetite of it because some people can change their behaviors based on what's challenging or stressing them that's why we have an edge for all of you to have open communication with your partners.
Loss of love can be created by isolation and this issue can affect sexual performance because everyone deserves to be Loved.
Low self-esteem, can affect how we perform during sex because some people can have low self-esteem and even feel better without engaging in sexual activities.
Why health is part of your sexual stamina?
To explore our health we need good bodies that's why you have to check the following:
- Attitude
One of the greatest challenges many partners face is the attitude toward good health because this topic if it's handled inappropriately can bring more problems into the relationship or marriage.
- Focus
Sometimes it's very difficult to focus on something which you were often ignoring that's why good health many partners can talk or know about it but what matters is how healthy are you as partners to keep the relationship or marriage going on.
- Behaviors
We have to check our thoughts and behaviors when it comes to evaluating our general well-being as partners because diseases can challenge the marriage and even cut certain things that's why we edge partners to keep on evaluating what they eat and what kind of improvements should they explore.
- Emotions
Every topic of health can become emotional especially if one partner is told how obsessed he or she is and this should not be taken for granted because as individuals we sometimes read this topic of being overweight differently, some can take it as a token of the lesson and others as a weapon of criticism and rejection, that's why we have to keep our words at review before we can share this type of concerns with our partners and we should edge you to seek professional help to assist all of you to deal with health emotional problems you might encounter.
- Exercising
It's not a must for everyone to exercise but it must choose what kind of health you want especially if you have that particular option, oftentimes we see partners try to change one another by forcing each other to exercise this is good but remember as you are one family it should be a force but an important arrangement to help each other to remain healthy.
Can we give up our sexual stamina as partners?
Life has its consequences and challenges as we grow up they are several elements of power that might lose check the following:
- Speed
As we grow up we can experience the problem of speed, especially about our sexual performance and it's how our bodies function we advise all partners to keep observing this topic because it can encourage the relationship and even improve how you conduct yourself as you approach this activity of sex.
- Taste
Some people can claim we lose taste once we get older and this fact is real, you cannot expect an older person to have a similar taste about sex like the younger person, this should be a lesson to all the partners who are willing to grow together and if possible seek professional help to understand this topic of losing taste on sex and how can you improve this process.
- Performance
An older can not perform the same with a new car, we should stop comparing our youth performance with our adult sexual performance, this topic requires maturity and clarity, because there's a huge difference between a child and an adult, so once you make this comparison you are likely to cause danger into your marriage or relationship that's why learning about this factors which can affect the performance of each of you as partners can improve your relationship and the confidence on each other.
- Preference
Some partners can change their preferences as they get older, take for example the activity of changing sexual positions, this cannot work for everyone, but some can claim we should keep these positions as intact as possible but remember if you are an adult some joint's start to bend and contract, that's why learning about what each of you prefers can adjust the relationship or marriage to explore other possible improvements which can help the relationship to succeed.
- Experience
An older driver is more experienced than a new driver, we talk about maturity here, when we grow older with our partners we get more clarity and experience on how to conduct ourselves when we engage in sexual activities, and we should not take our experience for granted because that's where most of our satisfaction can come from, that's why we have told you about the power of attachment and how some woman have open this opportunity for themselves to trap a man with their egos and even worse use their own body to keep on pleasing their partners, we should remember how much we should keep on improving and won't struggle with our sexual performance.
- Expectations
This question can break or make the relationship as you grow older, some woman or man can require more sex and this should be addressed with careful consideration and even medical intervention is required, because the hunger of sex can become an addiction which can get out of control if both spouse's cannot sit down and explore this topic, when expectations of sex as not meet to the fullest extent, we should not complain or blame but rather take this practical lessons as learning curve, because your union is much more important than sex , we should advice all of you to remember when you marry it was about love not mainly sex , but if you find yourself into this confusion of prioritizing sex more than love then is time to revisit your vows, we don't make vows about sex that's why we have told you this ongoing topic requires creative thinking and maturity, because if one partner turns out to become a slave of sex then we should be aware that what was meant to join us is now challenged by this emotion of sex and we have to remind you about the importance of balance, because as we grow older we can explore our bodies with our partners that's why learning about other types of sexual options can help your marriage to succeed, today mankind is blessed with amply of knowledge and experience to get our sexual appetite under control that's why we advice you to seek professional help to accelerate this learning about how to structure your marital sexual expectations and how can you balance this two elements satisfaction and dissatisfaction.
When should you check your stamina about sex?
As individuals we have to pay attention to what kind of routines are supposed to conduct on our bodies especially going to the doctor for check-ups because they are several factors that can impact our health and affect our sex performance check the following:
- Sex communication with your partner
- How much time did you spend talking about sex as partners?
We should begin to bring this topic into our daily conversation because oftentimes partners struggle with low self esteem about sex that's why it's a taboo to talk about sex with other partners that's why it's very difficult to improve even a simple activity like warming the body before any penetration can take place, we should be open about this factors because sometimes people are hold back by our cultural or traditional believes to end up cutting this conversation about sex out of their marriage or relationship, communication about sex doesn't mean you are cheating we should withdraw this misconception because this is what keep partners to end up becoming afraid to talk about what kind of desires and fantasies they have about sex and each other, we cannot get into a long-lasting marriage of we are not open for each other that's why a marriage is called a union, this means the two are now one and this is what you have signed up for and it's very important to understand how you keep this sexual commutation active.
How many partners attend sexual education?
Only a few because our thoughts and minds have been conditioned to think we can practice good sex that's why many partners realize later how important is to educate each other about sex because we have to remember some partners lack knowledge about sex that's why they become emotional if they should be corrected, it's like someone who can't drive but expect to drive and take you to the next destination, we should keep sexual education at our disposal because marriage is the platform of exploration that's why you are joined together by love.
- Agreements to privacy
As married partners or those who are into a relationship that shows signs of progress and safety, we should set agreements of sexual privacy, this means we have to understand the importance of sharing naughty pictures and videos, but as these technologies can be very difficult to use, we advise you to prioritize the importance of password and keeping this information safe, because we don't want anyone to leak your private information, that's why your phone if you conduct this activity of sharing sexual pictures or videos, it should be protected by all means, and it's very important to take this practical lessons and research how should you protect this privacy
- Open to change
Marriage success comes from being open to changes, and you should begin right now to check what kind of improvements are required for your marriage.
- Visiting the doctor together
Health encourages is power, remember you have agreed to stick with each other through thick and hard times, when one of you falls sick you should draw your strength from your marriage or relationship vows.
- Exercising together
It's an advantage to exercise together and dedicate time to understand how and what type of exercises work for you as partners
What makes a healthy body?
These components can vary from one person to another but they can be common in some areas check this:
To improve our health and bodies we must be willing to learn about what is good health and even encourage each other to keep on exploring this topic.
Check the following to explore your health as partners:
- Exercising
- How often do you exercise?
- Good sleep
- Do you sleep well?
- Good Diet
Healthy relationships What makes your relationship healthy?
The ability to deal with emotions How do you handle crises and obstacles?
Startup Business
Title description: 12 July 2021
Why startup business teams should be trained continuously?
Some startup business have unlocked their business potential by learning how to train their team members because let's not forgotten many startup businesses end up failing because the team cannot sell the product to the right target market, that's why it's very important to understand how your team members function because sometimes we have team's which can have different types of skills and this can confuse entrepreneurs to match tasks with the right people, your startup business should have a training system, especially as an entrepreneur you have to check how you train your teams because what you give them has potential influence on what types of results you will get, well-trained team members always win in the market because they know what they are supposed to do and how to handle the rejection along the way, teams create a welcoming approach into your business that's why the rule of thumb is to hire the right people not only people who qualify alone but people who can deliver the promise which your brand is positioned to deliver into the market area.
Why do Startup Businesses fail to train the teams?
These are key reasons why startup businesses fail to train their team members:
- Poor hiring system
If the startup business begins with wrong hiring techniques, this can assist the startup business to end up failing, because most the startup business at the beginning they can't afford to pay salaries that's why we have told you that a startup is a research model, but because we like to convert our startup business into established business immediately that's why most of this businesses end up failing not because they can't deliver but because the have hired wrong people who can't drive sales or improve the process of delivering the service and products, the poor hiring system is based on hiring friends and family who don't qualify to do the job because Entrepreneurs at the beginning of their startups sometimes become desperate to achieve they end up opting for wrong hiring.
- Ignorance of due diligence
Inability to check who is joining your startup can destroy your business, due diligence is very important because some people have a history of not delivering certain targets, that's why you have to double-check the following factors when you conduct your due diligence check-ups, criminal offense, credit history, fraud, social media comments, and working and experience profile.
- Skill audits
When Entrepreneurs fail to plan which skills they require they fall into this trap of hiring anyone who can just fit into the team but never qualifies to deliver, skill audits are very important because that's where you can test and match each individual with the right tasks for your business.
- Experience reference
Experience in some startup businesses is a must but to others is just an additional tool, but it's very important to check what kind of experience each individual is bringing into the startup business because that's where you can decide which candidate can be hired.
- Hiring friends
The desperation to hire can destroy your startup business because some people only care about the salary you give them that's why it's very important to double-check the following when you hire your friends, skills, capabilities, experience, interests, creativity, behaviors, you cannot predict people but you can analyze them once you put your hiring system into place
- Character matching
Some people by nature are not meant for business and if you fail to understand or check that particular situation you can get stuck into your startup business. After all, you have to find like-minded people who can work together, and matching characters is very important because some people can be introverts and extroverts so you have to balance your work so it doesn't comprise each of your team members.
Why startup business team due diligence matters?
Due diligence is very important because it can reveal which team members should be checked and who is not qualified to work within your startup business, these are some of the basic reasons why you have to perform due diligence:
- Attracting new talents
- Transparency to investors
- Complying with labor laws
- Protection of the business
- Safety concerns
What makes a good startup business team?
What makes a good team is the following characteristics:
- Good attitude
- Openness
- Courage
- Assistance
- Motivation
- Embracing mistakes
- Asking questions
- Discipline
- Learning
- Going an extra mile
What makes startup business teams fail?
This is what makes teams fail:
- Not help each other
- Office politics
- Bad behaviors
- Poor customer service
- Working on the wrong things
- Missed deadlines
Career and Work
Title description: 11 July 2021
Why we are influenced by peer pressure?
Sometimes as individuals we shy away from this truth of Accepting that life is full of pressure, we ignore this truth because we don't want to express our weaknesses as individuals, peer pressure is all over the world, because we somehow grow from great pressure, people sometimes are influenced by peer pressure to succeed an this is a good mentality because if you are interested into peer pressure you should be ready to welcome the consequences which come along with it, because we have to understand that pressure is temporary that's why once pressed you to need relief, and this can take your time to understand because some people use peer pressure as a competitive advantage to accomplish or learn something, peer pressure is a stage of life you cannot run away from it but you can use it wisely for your benefits as an individual, this is some of the factors which have influenced our peer pressure:
- Comments
- Competitions
- Media
- Churches
- Schools
- Us
- Leaders
- Mentors
- Friends
- Families
Check who is helping you to get peer pressure and review if it's working for you to explore that particular peer pressure or if you have to avoid it, as noted pressure requires relief, this means you have a choice to follow what kind of peer pressure is suitable for you and which one is not right for your life.
How to know if you are in a peer pressure circle?
As individuals we have to recognize how peer pressure can drive our lifestyles unaware and it's very important to check the following components of peer pressure:
- Competitive
What is peer pressure without competition?
We are into peer pressure circle because we are under the stage of the competition that's why we feel we should do better than others, that's why it's very hard to compete with yourself because they will be no one to judge your results accept you and with the competition we have good or bad ones, all it's needed for you is to check why you want to enter that particular peer pressure competition, but oftentimes this happens unaware because envy can lead us to end up being into peer pressure.
- Indecisive
If you want to analyze your peer pressure you have to check how you make decisions, because oftentimes people who are driven by peer pressure always think too much about what others will say about their achievements or success that's why they end up pursuing things that some don't add value just to appear as successful to others, that's why many individuals don't make sound decisions when it comes to deal with peer pressure because they are forced by envy and pressure from others to do something.
- Working out of plan
If we are into Peer pressure circles, all we are going to do is act out of our plans because as individuals we always have our plans and we don't find ourselves planning to work with peer pressure
- In hurry
Peer pressure makes us impatient that's why as noted previously it's driven by envy and pressure and all we can do is check why we hurry to obtain results and who is influencing us to make this unnecessary task
- Seek external approvals.
We are pressured to have results that are why we end up seeking approvals from others.
What's important about peer pressure?
They are key factors that can help us to understand why peer pressure is important let's check the following factors:
- Experience
- Mastery
- Collaboration
- Creativity
- Actions
- Skills
- Progress
- Confidence
- Curiosity
- Exploration
- Actions
Some people are only influenced to act because they are into peer pressure, and this can take them from their comfort zone to something new because remember sometimes the pressure is required to unleash your creativity and potential, we have to understand how peer pressure can help us to solve our inactions especially if we start to use peer pressure accordingly, and be positive about the pressure we have received.
Take, for example, in many schools, families, and communities, peer pressure on creativity is always practiced, because we are raised to compete many of us but we didn't enter the competition, by our choices by the pressure of society is what we are facing, whenever we compete for creativity, we start to build not to envy each other, and that's positive peer pressure we are talking about because you will be focusing on embracing your unique creative skills.
When we are using peer pressure positively, we can collaborate with us once we get stuck and seek external help because most people never collaborate to review what kind of peer pressure they are facing with their friends or families, that's why once you begin to act in this fashion you will get assistance.
Positive peer pressure is important. After all, we can go the extra mile to master particular skills or challenges because we have to prove something to ourselves as individuals.
All these factors make peer pressure end up becoming important but it all depends on how you handle each of these factors as an individual because we all have different types of peer pressure we are facing that's why it's very important to understand and check which one of the following factors can help you balance your peer pressure.
Can you succeed with Peer pressure?
This question is broader because as individuals we can have different types of skills and experiences that's why some people can succeed from following certain peer pressure and others can fail decimal because success is a process of your actions and keep on improving your game.
Why do we follow up with peer pressure?
These are some of the elements which assist us to follow up with peer pressure:
- Lifestyle copying
- Environmental influences
- Media influence
- Competitions
- Celebrity lifestyle
- Families
- Churches
- Schools
- Religion
- Culture
Success and Wealth
Title description: 10 July 2021
Why skills create your success?
We have to be concerned about what skills we have as individuals, because as you have noted from our previous conversation we have emphasize the importance of changing your direction of how you acquire your skills, because most people acquire skills which don't make them economical viable, that's why success today is becoming rare , this can be cured by analysing which skills really matters and how you should acquire them, because we have told you about certain industries which are already affected by increased job cuts and some new changes happening into various economies, your advantage is to check which skills are mostly previewed as successful skills which are constantly demanded into the market, because your skills can help you to design your success especially if you match them with the right job markets, but remember you should not only rely on your skills alone you should pay attention to some extended skills which are viable especially those that requires no education per say but practical actions and experience that's where your skills will help you design your success.
Why do we doubt our skills after we have acquired them?
We have listed few examples of how our educational systems is destroying our freedom and skills to succeed, because we are taught skills which don't match the market industry, people who teach us are way far behind or disconnected from what's happening inside the job markets, we struggle to find skills which makes us capable to fit into the new economy because we are bombarded with too much theory and less practical lessons to apply our skills, our doubts eminent from not knowing where can we start to apply our skills because we are not taught this skills from our schools,that's why it's becoming a norm for graduates to become unemployed because they struggles to act on what they have been taught,as you will realize theory is blank knowledge and experience of practice of the knowledge is colored with results and feedback, we have to check how schools adds up to this problem of helping us to have doubts about our skills, is like giving someone a car who can't drive but expect them to arrive on time, that's what's happening with our skills we don't know how to apply them, then our doubts always increase because we asked ourselves what's the purpose of being unemployed but yet qualifed, this can show you that education of the university is limited you need additional information to succeed in life which is the power to apply your skills and experience into the market and it's your choice and responsibilities to act in that particular manner.
How to know about your strength?
The center of possibilities to know about our strength is to take practical actions on our actions, we have to analyze what kind of actions are we taking to explore our talents and strength, we have to realize this, everyone has a skill, but only a few people take action to embrace those strength they have because we live into societies whereby we don't understand why we end up becoming miserable while we have stored knowledge and strength to change our circumstances, we have to be concerned about what levels of strength we have and what can we do to convert our strength into profit, because as individuals our strength builds our success that's why it's very important to take advantage of your strength and add some skills to help you unleash your strength.
Why is important to use your skills?
We have to pay attention to what kind of skills we have acquired, everyone can have skills but the question remains how many people pay attention to how they should apply their skills, as we gather our skills we have to check the following:
- What kind of job or opportunities comes with that skill.
- What kind of success comes with that skill
- How can I apply this skill
- Who has applied this skill before
- What is all about this skill
These questions can help us to deal with how we acquire our skills because many of us have this tendency to just jump into choosing skills and never check their viability of them that's why we end up becoming stuck in the unemployment stats, we have to research what we acquire unless we shall find ourselves into this process of the continues unemployment rate.
The most important part to use your skills is that you will get profit and feedback, that's why you should never undermine your small actions especially taking those practice of applying your skills, remember people who use their skills are always having the advantage to accomplish and become successful, that's why you have to acquire what's working not something which increases your problems.
Skills only work if we understand how to apply them and improve how we use them in our lives.
Why your weaknesses should never stand in your way?
Many of young people are always stricken by doubts and fears to apply what they know , because we have caution you to start paying attention to your internal dialogue, an check who you surround yourself with constantly, because sometimes opinions of others can stand on our way to success, that's why we can find ourselves indecisive about what we should do next with our lives because we are trapped by what others will say once we begin to follow our dreams, people don't care about your plans, people care about your results, that's why we have edge you to use your time wisely and apply your skills on continues basis, because your weakness only matters if you keep them balanced while acting on your plans, we have to stop giving too much attention to our weaknesses, but rather embrace them and check how can we take advantage of those weaknesses, remember having your weaknesses to drive your options cannot lead you to success that's why your capacity to use your strength can improve your life, sometimes we ignore our weaknesses because we feel bad about them, but what remains a fact is this , everyone has the weakness, so you better check and use what is available.
Health and Life
Title description: 09 July 2021
Why we should be concerned about food wastage?
Food is life and wastage creates environmental challenges, as families, and members of various societies, we have to be concerned about how we waste food because sometimes we don't check how we end up becoming the champions of throwing away food anywhere, this tendency of food wastage is challenging because they are serious side effects which come along with this process of food wastage, many of our communities are somehow no longer suffering from hunger but obesity is taking over mankind, and this problem is increasing every day because as we are the consumers we are not taught how to deal with food wastage, we only know how to prepare food but when it comes to discarding it then this end becoming a burden of our landfills, and sometimes this ends up affecting our general well being as members of the society because food is thrown away without any proper guidance that's why we have to be concerned about this challenge.
How to understand your age concerns?
As individuals we have this mentality of ignoring how each an every day we are growing, because to some aging is freaking them out , as you age they are certain elements of concerns you start to be very concerned about them, let's give you a preview of how most people have taken a wrong direction especially when it comes to set Goal's, most of majority of people have been taught about the age 40 and 30 , this challenge has brought many people in fear and hope because we have been brainwashed to think that by the age of 30 you should be all settled with all the basic needs of what the community think success should be all about, this age concern has driven people to end up setting big goals but only few people have achieved them, we have to get back to how reality works, because sometimes we overlook our actions and think too much about our wishes that's why most people when they reach this age stages they start to freak out because they think what they have been taught has not come into fruition that's why your age concern should be driven by your purpose and action, never compare your life with of other because people set wrong directions and influence others to join them.
Who should be concerned about our environmental impact?
We have noted the concern of how food wastage is affecting our landfills, right now is time to check how clean is our homes because these environmental challenges come back to our habits, sometimes we blame the government for not delivering certain services as planned but we as members of the community what is our role to keep our communities clean?
We have adopted an ignorant mindset, we liter everywhere and every day and we are always complaining about how the environment is not conducive to our general well-being, we are the advocates of these environmental challenges as families and members of the entire community, as we have noted we have to take personal responsibility to clean our homes first and then it won't be challenging to clean our community because most of us we struggle from bad habits that's why we never care too much about our clean communities.
Why do we fail to be concerned about our air pollution?
This question comes back to what kind of knowledge we have about the importance of our environmental impact, some people don't know about these factors that's why it's very easy for them to burn certain things and never care about how this affects the individuals and the whole environment, as we look ahead to the future of our countries we have to be aware of our actions because they will affect the next coming generation that's why we have to check why the knowledge about environmental impact does not reach the majority because at the end this affects us all poor or rich is the pollution is increasing this will affect our livelihoods as individuals that are to care about the environment is to care about the health of others and your health.
Why poor health is a concern in our communities?
Poor health has started to become a fashion on many communities this activity has to be investigated because this shows how far we lack knowledge about good health and as we are the members of the community we should ask ourselves who is helping the community to end up following this trend of poor health, because it's becoming a normality that being unhealthy is a good thing that's why we lose most people at the early age, Poor health is a concern because this can come from our families and communities that's sometimes we mirror people and end up using their habits unware that's why today we are struggling with alcohol, abuse and drugs on our communities this has to be checked because majority of people are not aware how our communities slow by slowly are wiped out by this addictions which adds most sufferings into majority of families in our communities, this approach is very hard breaking because because poor health is more expensive and not everyone can afford it that's why crime and addiction is always taking over into our communities, this are real life activities that's why we have to be concerned and start to pave the solution so we can have a better communities.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 08 July 2021
Why do we fail to be aware of our happiness?
As individuals we are aware if we are not happy, but what is challenging is why we keep on ignoring the question which says what makes us unhappy, because awareness is always there with us , but what remains an issue is how we deal what what makes us unhappy, because oftentimes, as individuals we turn out to ignore this activity that's why we can be unhappy for a year unware, because we like to treat what makes us unhappy as a secret, yes people get unhappy for various reasons but we are always somehow liable for certain thoughts which adds up our problems to become unhappy, most people know what makes them unhappy but they fail to confront that particular situation and start doing something, because we are afraid of the unknown that's why forgiveness is not for everyone, we have to change how we see our unhappiness because the opposite of it is freedom and peace that's why you must be concerned about what makes you unhappy so you can know what you are supposed to do in order to rectify that thing which keeps you unhappy.
Why do we rely on others to make us happy?
As individuals we are somehow brought up into different types of families and this can affect our mentality, we have to check this factors which make us to end up thinking happiness is based on external material possessions, because in some families most people don't know about happiness, they copy what the media is saying and transfer it to their own children, that's why we have so many people who are struggling to find happiness within themselves, this comes from our mental conditioning, as we grow up, some of us we don't check this subject of happiness, we just use what we have been taught about, that's why we struggle to accept if we don't get approvals from others especially if we have achieved something, we rely upon others to make us happy because we are attached to the approvals of victory and comment's that's why we have this desire to talk when we are happy but ashamed to speak up once we are not happy because by nature as individuals we turn to ignore this subject of unhappiness, because it draws hurtful memories, we rely on others to makes us happy because we seek to satisfy our Ego's that's why we feel bad if we are not approved by others as beings happy.
Why happiness is so important in life?
We have observed this normality which says that life is based on happiness, yet how many people truly become happy in this lifetime?
We have to check what is happening inside our imagination because sometimes we create our nightmares and start to blame circumstances and challenges, as you unlearn some of the mental conditioning you should now start to train your subconscious mind to think more about what you are grateful for and how happy you are as an individual, as noted countless of time, happiness is self-made from your thoughts, that's why you should not bother to seek it on others because that's the trap which many people fall into, we have to be aware that the meaning of our lives is created by the happiness that's why the most important thing in life is to be happy and be free because as individuals we rank happiness as one of the highest achievement one can obtain because you are the one who should take personal accountability to explore your happiness because at the end of the day this is your life if you make happiness your priority then you are fine with life.
How to judge your happiness?
It's very easy to judge your happiness you have to check what you do frequently and figure out what makes you happy in that particular situation, but remember the essence of happiness is created by your thoughts that's why you have to start within, why because most of us hurry to judge the external circumstances without checking our thoughts, that's why many people know what makes them unhappy but because we have thoughts which are driving us on autopilot, we are stuck to change that mental conditioning, judging your happiness cannot help you if you are not willing to change your thoughts, what's is important about judging our happiness is to seek new ways of thinking and begin to understand that some thoughts can be changed by us and we should own our happiness, it's better to judge while doing something about what can assist you to be happy rather than dying a pool of misery and endless pain of not being happy.
Why we don't listen to our emotion?
People by nature they are Emotional beings, we struggle to hold ourselves accountable to good emotions , because we somehow don't know much about what makes us to be end up having emotions which some are too heavy to comprehend as individuals, we always struggle to find out why some of our days are filled out with emotions of sorrow and some are well balanced by happiness and peace, we have to be aware about how our imagination functions, because the engine of emotions is created by our imagination that's why every emotion is guided by a particular thought, that's why your mind cannot have two thoughts at the same time which controls it , you will experience one thought a time , that's why you cannot be happy and sad at the same time, our mindset always function with one thought a time that's why we have to check our emotions steps by step, because if we want to understand we should be patient and curious that's where we can detect the core roots of the problem, most people use Emotions like electric circuits that's why they are always shocked by elements of pains, you have to know that your emotions function like electricity,if you use them incorrectly you will face dire consequences but if you use them correctly you will experience the better life, we are all aware about our emotions, what is required is to pay attention towards what is happening and start to do something about that particular situation.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 07 July 2021, Manhood and power
Why Man are given Power of responsibilities?
History is filled with information on how man have take control over the world, as we learn from what happened in the history of our civilization, we have to be aware that by nature man have this power to hold certain responsibilities better than woman that's why all wars have been fought by man who where fighting to save their countries and families, today we still live under the same armor of protection which this man still render to our communities and the world in large, we have to check who has given man this responsibility to carry out heavy duties, this dates back to our industrial revolution , because on daily basis man where requires to go and hunt for food and some woman stay behind to care for children, this element of responsibilities is ingrained into our DNA that shows us how from the dawn of time many man where carrying out responsibilities and this power has been inherited from our foreathers because even today in the world man still are seen as people who carry out most of the responsibilities that's why patriarchy is still available and some woman are trying very hard to submit to the responsibilities of man but we can't argue biology we can only work with it , man still use the power of responsibility to control.
What makes males become assets of authority?
Remember as we have noted above man have fought wars and they are regarded as dangerous specie's in this world , because many man are the most assets of authority because they take power by force that's why you haven't seen any lion that is not capable of killing, we have to understand that many man are like lions the only difference is that today most of them have been domesticated into confined communities where they are no longer able to express their hunting skills especially the power to kill , we have seen the dawn of peace and democracy because mankind has wiped the world with blood from wars which where focused on protecting and taking power from others, that's why today in many countries man are still regarded as leaders and this approach is little changing because authority is totally reserved for man that's why in wars you cannot find woman who lead the army , man are authority by nature that's why some animal fear male characters more than woman characters because they know how man doesn't hesitate to kill if is needed, today authority is championed by government which are run by man that's why authority is a rule of power which control Mankind since the dawn of time.t
Why do males demand Respect by force?
The tribe of males is filled with competing powers, check how lion's behave, you will see the demand Respect by force, they can even kill to some extend if the respect is not accorded as planned, with males they always demand respect especially from their own competencies and mastery that's why they are influenced by their own egos to strive for success and better stations in life , with manpower gives them the access to respect that's why in male category of you lack power you feel weaker because power gives man the ability to enforce control and domination that's why some males never accept that they can't achieve certain milestones because they somehow driven by greedy and influence to show others how powerful they are that's why they demand Respect by achievements, man man regard material possessions as their own advantage for Power that's why if you lack material possessions as a man is highly difficult to build a successful family because Respect comes from your ability to succeed as man.
Why males are so Cultural biased?
Rulers, priests, leaders, generals, captains, these people from historical positions were required to be championed by male figures, that's why even most cultures today or from our histrionic books were led by male figures, this approach can show us how man is into authority, and with family rules, man has been taught to become the leaders of this subject, especially from various cultures because with the structure of the family many males are regarded as the head of the families in this can tell us how this biases of Cultures came into part because some males us their advantage to keep their cultures by enforcing it into their own families that's why most males are somehow Cultural orientated because with Culture we talked about the importance of keeping the memory and the practice of our tribes that's why males are so much concerned about culture.
What makes more males Cultural concerned?
If you check many males are very concerned about Culture but they somehow hide their concerned that's why when they get married somewhere along the stage of the marriage some Males start to express their true Culture, some can demand Respect by force and some can begin to use what they have been taught and this can harm or Improve the family, that's why today males are so very quite when it comes to talk about Cultural matters because they have noticed how their powers are not going away because in ancient times males used money to Control the family, so Today some woman have money too , so this equality has reversed some of the powers which males used to control but we still have a long way to exchange the right information especially to look at how males are deigning their own new Culture of abandoning families, this according to culture is totally unacceptable that's why some males today behave differently because they know how much they are failing their own Cultures as they are regarded as leaders but today they are becoming followers, this segment is continued on our book called The lost power of man , we have covered areas of concerns which affect the power of man.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 06 July 2021
If someone married you should they control you?
According to our book of observation and our personal experience, we have discovered that most people once they get married they start to change how they treat each other, and these behaviors come from this normality called this person belongs to me, we have to structure this talk based on what the reality is painting into our perspective and analysis because this topic about who should Control who is a matter of power and it requires holistic views and interpretations from the various perspective of sound minds because if we look at the biology of males and females we can discover that much male use power to make females submit to them, this Control is inherited on our genetic makeup, some males by nature are controllable and some are not and some woman have the power to use this advantage to keep males into the order that's why control is an agreement but in some families and communities is reserved for the male to use it against a woman.
What makes married people use to control?
It's a natural behavior to see married people controlling each other because when people get married they somehow decide which best direction suits their own needs and wants that's why we cannot say control is bad what we can specify is that if control is now based on abuse then we should be aware that something is going wrong into that particular Marriage, we have to understand that to keep some marriages control can play part looking at aspects such as addictions, attachment, affordability, love, care and other relevant elements which create Control to take part, as individuals we have to check how we are controlled and why because we can benefit or get trapped by what Control us into our marriages.
Why control is based on power?
The reality of power is Control, because in many marriages people are not aware how much power some of their partners have over them, that's why you can be in hell or heaven this depends how power is used in your marriage, we have to how we discuss the power balance into our marriages because from Cultural standpoint many males are taught to use power over woman that's why we still struggle to curb the Increase of Abuse because male likes power but do they understand or get education on how to use well structured powers to improve their families not to destroy them by this kind of rules which some often oppression you woman, we have to analyse why males are so concerned with control because from acienet history Males have been conditioned to think control is based on power that's why today males see the influence of money as their own advantage to exercise their powers, whenever males cannot use power some feel like they are not man enough to face the reality that's why most males are the ones who Commit crimes more than woman because control makes males to remain relevant into their tribe of egoism.
Can a marriage last if there's no control?
This question we leave it to you as a reader to answer it based on your perspective, because from our analysis, marriage is an agreement of Control, we have to check and clarify this statement because whenever people marry some seek levels of control to stop commiting certain acts that's why marriage is regarded as one of the highest union of commitment one can find himself into, because if we can Check everywhere some marriages cannot succeed if Control is not taking part and some can never last because some married people should be taught about this importance of control, because we have to check why it's becoming very hard or important to Control our partners, this can tell us about how our insecurities are structured and how we use them, some people prefer to be controlled and some prefer independence within the marriage that's why we have to talk about this factors as married people, if the marriage will succeed all parties should Commit to Communicate and meet each other halfway so they can balance the situation of powers, we know is some marriages the voice of power is hold by males and this should be checked too because it doesn't mean if we are married all decisions should be done by males this is Abuse of power.
How to study your Relationship or marriage control?
It's very important to note this factor which can tell us about the control we are experiencing in our marriages:
- Final words
- Unforgivable
- Criticism
- Jealous
- Insecurities
- Progress
- Truth
- Secrets
- Cheating
- Greediness
Some will ask why it's necessary to check how control is driving our marriages, we have to note how those elements of control take part in our marriages and are willing to learn about the step by step take for example:
• Insecurities
All married even those who are not, all have insecurities, some are for good purpose and others are based on anger or fear to lose our significant other if we don't secure them, that's why covid-19 pandemic has crushed many marriages which were influenced by the power of money because if one partner loses the job or business, this depends on how each of the married people loved one another because poverty or financial bankruptcy can reveal the true colors of other people, if we are insecure we have to tell our partner because this can help us to understand the needs and the concerns of them.
Startup Business
Title description: 05 July 2021, Preparation
Why Entrepreneurs should master planning?
Planning is power because as an entrepreneur you have to check how most Successful people, especially in the business field, have mastered the power of planning because what you plan should be something which is linked to your actions, many Entrepreneurs fail to plan because they fear to take action that's why it's becoming very challenging for the most startup business to succeed because as noted fear of taking action is dangerous because it sabotages your plans and keeps you jailed into one area of life, as you have learned Entrepreneurship is a journey of taking calculated risks as an individual and working with others is important because you can be able to shield your fear with others and collaborate with your plans, learning about the importance of using your plans is key because that's where you will discover your discipline and courage, planning is an advantage especially if you take action.
Why planning is important for your Start-up Business?
How many startup businesses fail because they didn't check what's happening within their business model?
The majority of startup businesses fail due to a lack of sound planning, we have Entrepreneurs who have this tendency of jumping the planning stage and going to the market that's why once they hit the rock bottom they can't come back to the drawing board because at the beginning they were no plan at all, we have check how disruptive innovation works because this activity shows us how important we should keep on planning and challenge the market with different types of techniques, as a Startup Business you are responsible for your progress that's why your capacity to Master Execution and planning should be great, and this power can help you to unlock most of the opportunities as you don't fear to take action as planned.
Why Preparation is the power to anyone's business?
The only boring activity about business is Preparation because this process always allows us to preview the future and the current moment, as we know what happened in the history of our business or some other business, if we want to achieve good Preparation we should welcome to Practices this activity of doing boring process which are very important to our business development, because if we can check planning is part of the preparation and with the ability to understand your preparation you can get clarity of what you are supposed to do with your plans as you move ahead with your plans, the power of preparation separates the amateur and experts because as Entrepreneurs our strength can differ but we are common in one thing, which is the desire to seek to gain profit, that's why you should never dwell too much on distractions you have to prepare and take action as planned that's what Entrepreneurship is all about.
Why we entrepreneurs fail to plan?
Most businesses especially startup ones don't fail to plan but fail to take action because today we have the internet which helps us to advance our planning tactics that's why Entrepreneurs today don't lack ideas but implementation guidelines and techniques because everyone is doing well on some areas of wishing how the business show end up becoming but only a few Entrepreneurs embrace the action to deliver what their plans say, that's why we all can check what we are doing well or wrong because if you don't plan at all you won't succeed, remember actions to be understood and tracked very well we need to plan them and keep on improving our product or service.
What are the advantages of planning?
These are the advantages of planning:
- Control
- Commitment
- Courage
- Discipline
- Advancements
- Evaluation
- Reviews
- Reliability
- Feedback
- Question capacity
Career and Work
Title description: 04 July 2021, Unemployment and Reality
Why we don't afford the same things as individuals?
Many of young people find themselves into uncertainty, because as life progress from covid-19 pandemic to what is called new normal, many young people find themselves more desperate to find some kind of jobs just to make ends meet, we have to accept that most of jobs covid-19 pandemic has destroyed many of them, and some other elements companies have found the excuse to retrench many people, so when it comes to affordability gaps this hard punch of not being able to pay certain bill's, we have to be aware that most people their skills are now become irrelevant in this new technological advances economic growth, and prices always increase and if young people cannot afford to care for themselves this means the country is facing massive economic problems, as you have realized covid-19 pandemic has shown many people the importance of having backups savings which can act in case of emergency, affordability is Power because if you cannot afford you end up becoming desperate and miserable in some areas of your life.
Why affordability is a responsibility?
As you learn about these factors which make us very concerned, we have to look at what we do with our time, many people have good Skills which can earn them a great salary, but the problem we are facing is that our educational systems produce workers more than entrepreneurs, and when it comes to job creation we need Entrepreneurs to develop those jobs, some people have discovered that our skills won't earn us the same amount that's why they keep on employing people who don't qualify to do some jobs, because nepotism and racism this are two of the greatest challenge we are facing that's why we have people who do the same jobs but earning different salaries, color and favoritism always plays a role when it comes to some jobs, that's why we don't earn the same amount, even our skills and experience can separate how we are paid at our respective jobs.
Can money tell us about our affordability?
We have talked about the importance of progress and its advantages, but we have to continue to discuss how responsibilities always reveal how much we can afford as individuals, many people have noticed that the more you have unnecessary responsibilities, the more you end up becoming broke because sometimes we as individuals we have this tendency of spending more than we earn that's why our responsibilities some of them end up making us feel miserable if we fail to account to them, we all want to afford but the truth is that how willingly are we to change our actions and do what is right? We have to be concerned about what we lack, and how can we start finding the solution to solve that particular situation, because if we keep on failing to check what responsibilities are piling up into our attention then we shall find ourselves in this desperate situation called depression and anxiety, responsibility can reveal our strength and weaknesses that's why we always shy away to confront this topic of responsibilities because we know exactly what we are doing right or wrong that's why to afford is one of the important aspects you have to check and acquire.
Why we should afford as individuals?
Affordability is power because we have access to exercise our options and contribution, and this ability can help us to establish our confidence and even extend our power to help others, life requires us to attain progress on daily basis, and that's why we have to master whatever we are doing with our time because at the end of the day we should have better results on our goals or plans, the reasons we chase our dreams and aspirations is because we want to achieve what we want and enjoy those benefits which come along with the other side of affordability, everyone seeks to find the freedom that's why we have to be aware of what we want and how can we get it because to afford in some areas of life requires us to work hard and keep on improving ourselves that's why many people wish to afford but few afford to maintain life these factors are part of reality and we have the power to choose which side of life we want our lives to end up going into.
What makes reality so unfair?
From all the points we have mentioned above you will notice one thing in common which is the power to choose how we use our time. After all, at the end of the day what we have in common or equal in a day is only 24/7 that's why to complain about how unfair life is can only benefit you if you are not broke because you can sit and sip your cocktail and complain but for many of us we have to limit our complaints. After all, we have a lot of work to do especially to pursue our goals and keep on improving our skills, life doesn't care how to talk about it, in the end, you need to get your results, that's why we have told you about the importance of understanding your plans and what kind of actions are you taking for your life dreams, because reality doesn't care about your excuses, all you need to know is that your time on this life is limited and if you waste it, then you will complain but not remember it's normal to blame but is very hard to take full responsibility to fix what you are blaming.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 03 July 2021, Success and Confidence
What makes success so important?
We are the most blessed generation according to history as noted, we have to check how success is important to most of our lives because as individuals we are always working to improve our circumstances, and it's very very important to check what exactly influences us to pursue success, and this is different types of benefits or reasons which makes us see success as an important part of our lives:
- Options
- Contribution
- Improvements
- Progress
- Control
We have talked about the importance of working to improve our progress as noted previously, because what we e keep on doing always creates our achievements or failures that's why success is very important because it helps us to improve something about our lives, eventually when we progress changes can help us to work to better our lives that's why we have talked about how success is a weapon because it can help you to deal with your enemies.
Who does not want to achieve something?
Mankind is influenced by growth day by day that's why we have cautioned you to be very careful about your plans and how you spend your time.
Success is an advantage because it gives us access to contribute towards something, that's why once we are contributing we always feel happy, and with the contribution, we have the power to influence change.
The power of options is what drives us to pursue success that's why we are rating success as an important factor because success gives us power and freedom.
Why people seek success?
As discussed we have noted 4 elements which drives us or make us to end up becoming aware about the importance of pursuing success, because as individuals we are always driven by growth and this can differ from one person to that's why we have to at why we seek so success much and why this activity has become a day to day routine of searching, we have to be concerned about what makes a good life, because most of us we sometimes think money alone is what causes us to be successful that's why some us we realize later how much time we wasted chasing money but unware, money can increase your options to access many expirations which some where limited once you where struggling to make ends meet, but the reasons why we seek Success is because we want to achieve and change something that's why success is one of the important factors in life regardless of how small or big it can be , we all seek success, even by breathing this current present moment your are successful because you have a chance to live.
How to know if you are successful?
We have touched this subject yet we didn't dive deep because as noted most of us we sometimes find ourselves Successful but we somehow struggle to understand our method of success because once you are on the trying stage of life , most of us we use different types of techniques to improve our progress and process that's why to many people we cannot give step by step approach of what lended us to our success because, as discussed we used different methods and we don't track which one works that's why success to many people can come as a surprise, and this can Introduce problems , because we struggle with lack and once we feel we have achieved something which can fulfill that particular lack that's where most people hit the rock bottom of success because some can become complecent and stop persuing their goals, that's why we have to be aware about our daily activities this will help us to know how to manage our success as we progress, as individuals we know how we are successful once we get comments from others and checking our overall progress can help us to justify if we are successful at what we have planned for that's why achievements are very important because they summarize your success.
Why we doubt our success?
Most of us don't doubt our success we doubt how we have lost the opportunity to change our lives that's why it's becoming very important to check what you doubt as an individual and how it contributes towards your success because everyone daily experience doubts that's why we have to check which Doubts are always repeating themselves and why, because to doubt your success can come back to this normality of seeking people to approve your work and comment to you by saying you are most successful that's why your self-motivation can play an important role when it comes to helping you to judge and understand how successful are you on your goals or plans.
Why is important to become financial stable?
People of this new technological advances some have taken this stand point to seek new improvements especially to choose skills which pays them very well, because the reason we have told you about the importance of knowing how to earn money, it was to caution you to start thinking along this lines of understanding the power of financial stability, because most people earn money but still they are broke because as discussed on our other segment, we have to check who has taught us about money and how are we benefitting from those lessons, because financial literacy is important but it only makes us sense once you begin to apply the lesson's learned because as individuals we sometimes fear to deal with our financial challenges that's why we struggle to know which kind of Focus and skills we should deploy on our lives so we can become financial stable, most people when they think about Financial stability they think of millions that's why we have stats of broke people because you have to master small amounts before you can even get into the bigger checks that's why focusing on your skills output can tell you about your earnings and how you are worth into the economic value.
Health and Life
Title description: 02 July 2021 , Health and Finances
Why habits control us?
We as human beings are always Controlled by our choices which some end up translating into our habits because Habits make us as human beings, and the process of understanding how habits end up controlling us and we should never take these lessons for granted because habits indeed they are different and important to our Human survival and production, that's why people always use habits, the only change we can see it's when we start to face challenges and only realize how our habits are holding us back to become successful, habits can control us because we need some commands which should act on what the mind is saying.
Why financial habits are rare?
It's not about only habits alone, we should start to get our eyes on what kind of knowledge we have about money as individuals because most of us come from families which don't understand the language the money that's why it's very difficult to speak about money in many families. After all, what we lack sometimes can make us feel vulnerable and miserable, that's why if we lack money we turn to ignore the questions about money, our relationship with money matters because that's where you can discover if you can understand money. After all, financial habits are always created on how you relate to money as an individual. After all, it takes good habits to know how money functions and how money is always multiplied. After all, financial habits can only be rare to those who don't know what money it's all about and how we should learn about money from people who understand it and have it because some habits can only be taught by people who are using them.
How to understand your life habits?
It takes time and effort to analyse which types of Habits really Control your life, because habits indeed some are hidden on our sub conscious mind and we only see how they function the time we start to pay attention to what we are constantly doing and how we feel about it and what kind of benefits comes along with those particular activities, because habits some we are conditioned to follow them as they are based on survival mechanism and some habits are not so important because they only add problems into our lives, that's why to study your life especially concerning the subject of habits you should start with your own thoughts, because we sometimes miss the chance to learn about what's inside our imagination or mind , we ignore this activity because we don't know about it , that's why we always wonder why it's very hard to change our lives, because the paradigm shift it's very tricky to overcome it , because sometimes we have habits which keeps us trapped into the cage or sorrow until we die that's why we have to check what exactly has developed our habits and how do we behave from those habits we have as individuals.
Can money become a habit?
Money is cannot become a habit, as discussed countless of time in this segment that money is a tool , and if we start to think that money is a habit then this will means money is something which is inside us that's why you cannot use a tool and expect it to function like humans, because people have feelings and money doesn't have such feelings that's why it doesn't care who have it whether educated or uneducated, it works as a tool which everyone can use to their own advantage, and if money is managed by your habits, that's why good financial knowledge is paramount when it comes to deal with money Habits, because some people spend more than they can earn that's why we always link your habits to your bank account in some areas of life , because people's habits can tell who they are and we should never think money can control us but our habits control the money that we have that's why finding out about your habits can save your life, especially if you do something to change those habits which stand on your way to success.
Why we should be aware of our financial relationship with our mind?
Many people never take this action into test, because we think money is separated from our mindset, check everywhere you go, some people have convinced themselves that it's very hard to become financial stable, why because this comes from their own sub conscious mind which controls all our habits, and we don't know why some people believe that money is bad unless we check their family background and what kind of mental conditioning they have recieved while there where young, because if you can notice it's very important to have good mental relationship with money, this means your thoughts should be positive about money, many people think they can rob the sub conscious mind, by saying they like something whenever their actions are always opposite, if you have nagative thoughts about money is highly impossible to have good money on your side unless you have somehow inherited that particular money or won the lottery, that's why as discussed money is a tool and this means we should have good relationship with how we use the tool especially how to manage it properly so it can give us the results we want as individuals, the relationship with money is like love , you have to stay with someone who you admire, because that's where you will find peace and freedom remember the relationship with money start with how you think about money, if you think you don't deserve money it will be that way , and it's very important to understand that money comes to those who take actions not those who make wishes and do nothing about them.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 01 July 2021 , Daily Happiness
Why do we skip our daily activities which make us happy?
Attention to thy self is rare for most people because this means you are supposed to do something which adds value to your life, they are some reasons why we sometimes skip our daily activities which should add to our happiness because we take our happiness for granted that's it's becoming very challenging to prioritize our time to focus on what makes us happy, we have to know how we spend our time and what influences us to end up skipping what's important to our lives as individuals because being aware of your happiness can reduce unnecessary stress and allow you to do what you like the most but you should be aware of some external and internal distractions which can help you to keep on skipping to do what makes you happy.
How to find out about your daily happiness?
Everyone can know what makes them happy the only way to do that particular activity is to check how you spend your time and why because it's very important to know how you act and what exactly influence you to end up taking those actions on a repetitive schedule and you are not aware of what you are doing but keep on acting, people who are aware of what they are doing with their some are careful about what kind of thoughts they keep on entertaining because to know what's happening inside your head is a skill and you need to acquire that particular skill just but starting to become carefully and pay attention to your actions and behaviors because the only part about our happiness which can be stagnant is how we deal with our thoughts and how do we handle our emotions that's why you are required to choose your thoughts careful daily so you can understand which action makes you happy as an individual.
Why it's very hard to change our actions to embrace what we Love?
Actions cannot be changed if we keep on blaming what happened in history or what's happening currently because the first responsibility to understand your happiness is to blame suspension, this means you are required to take full accountability for your actions and thoughts because if you want to embrace your happiness you must be willing to do things which you are not comfortable with them, especially paying attention to details and how you behave as an individual based on circumstances which place challenges on your attention, to embrace what we like comes back to our purpose and passions, because sometimes we spend our precious time on things which we don't like just to fit into the lifestyle of others but failing to accept that we are hurting ourselves that's why when you feel something you are doing is not fine you should be a concern because that's why stress is created unaware.
What influences us to avoid changes?
It's not difficult to change what is difficult is to accept that you are no longer required to do what you are always supposed to do, majority of people realize later how change is important because that's why they start to see how those who have taken advantage of change are now advancing their dreams that's why it's better to act but complain with results on hand not complaining while waiting for things to happen on you, change is a natural principle's and order, no one can avoid it, at the end of the day or year things are constantly changing that's why you have to pay attention towards what's is changing your life, are you becoming the worst person or someone who is improving his or her own life? Change is the only guarantee of growth that's why we are all obligated to keep on changing especially when it comes to things that are under our control.
What kind of happiness comes once we change?
Many people will be amazed how it feels to change your behaviors because the benefits of change always help us to explore the other side of life, and what brings us harmony is to understand that once we begin to change we are opening the gate of freedom that's why we feel very happy once we start to see ourselves overcoming those obstacles which were keeping us trapped, and this can only come once we start to embrace change, this means we are required to pay attention towards what we want and keep on taking action on that particular direction, the only funny thing about happiness is this, people constantly talk how they are supposed to be happy whenever it reality people should talk about how they are creating and maintaining what makes them happy, we have this tendency of paying attention to things which don't add value that's why change to some people it's just a dream because we talk too much and act less on what we want.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 28 August 2021
Why do so many Religious groups give advice?
Religious group are the champions of giving away the information that's why the majority of leaders of these groups have this mandate to give their followers certain types of advice and without advice, many religious groups will lose their powers because to accord to certain dogma's followers should keep the information shared by their religious leader's active enough to live by it, advice is an important tool use by this religious leaders because it helps them to maintain the content and control mechanism to keep the tribe into control, take for example how Christianity especially looking at the bible, how many advice is shared there? Plenty of counsel is shared because as individuals we comply based on who has said something that's why the way these religious groups use advice it's often amazing because they make it appear as relevant as possible that's why people always use this advice, and it's the responsibility of any religious group to advise because that's how people keep into this tribes.
Why some Religious group's advice is outdated?
Majority of religious followers never see any issues when it comes to using the information which was shared a long time ago because sometimes people use what they find valuable that's why from the Christianity approach people are still using the teaching of the bible regardless when it was written because this information is not outdated because they are leaders who always keep this information update that's why oftentimes many people who can complain about the outdated information about the religion mostly are not the followers of that particular religion, yes things are changing but the word which is working doesn't change that's why people choose which information they shipped use today because as we navigate towards this new technological advances we feel everything should be updated.
Why do we take Religious advice so seriously?
Mankind is conditioned from birth until he goes to the grave, as individuals we are brought up into different types of families but the information about religion is always shared by our parents or guardians that's why we have to check how did we know about the religion we are following because whenever we grow older we start to take the advice which is shared by this religious groups so seriously because certain things can affect us that's why whenever people start to learn the importance of praying some can take this advice so seriously because they have benefited something that's why from the Christianity perspective many people are advised to read the bible and pray, to end up taking this very serious it depends on what type of problem or solution you are trying to address with the help of the higher power that's why what this leader's often say people can take is very seriously because they speak on behalf of God that's why it's a serious matter if you don't take this seriously especially if you are around them.
Why do we fail to question the Religious advice?
This is a serious matter because we are conditioned to avoid asking the questions as children because our parents or guardians sometimes don't have answers to the questions we are asking so they end up lying to us and saying certain things that are not questioned to avoid problems and we end up believing this and we find ourselves losing that power of curiosity because we are not allowed to ask but comply to what has been said because that's how things are done and this challenge is still prevalent to this date because how many people are willing to challenge what the religious advice is sharing today? We cannot question if we are afraid because this can even cause problems in our lives because we can be hated or end up being killed because some questions can create confusion and conflicts that's why it's very important to understand that not everyone can challenge this biased approach taking advice without questioning them.
Why do some people always rely on Religious advice?
Advice is an asset because we rely on different types of advice because we as human beings knowledge plays an important role in our survival that's why everyone is following a certain type of advice but only a few can question this approach because sometimes we are raised to believe certain things that's why when our religious leaders are speaking we take whatever they have said so seriously and no wonder the muscle of curiosity is destroyed because this will have created problems for the information not to reach its mandate because advice is power because it can influence us to do certain things or avoid them that's why what we learned from our families or parents or guardians is more about the lessons they have tried to impart into our subconscious mind and we need the advice to succeed.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 27 August 2021
Why your emotional intelligence matters?
Everything we do can somehow relate to certain behaviours or emotions that's why oftentimes we can struggle to understand what exactly regulates our day to day moods because the usually thing about our emotions is that we don't don't know much about them because this type of information requires self awareness education and this can confuse us because most people when they feel something is very hard to blame themselves they just change the responsibility and blame others that's why learning about emotional intelligence is one of the key subject to unlock your self control powers because sometimes we can we powerless because certain emotions can raise certain emotional wound's that's why when people are angry they always tell the truth because the emotions they are expressing are of the truth self that's why it matters to analyse and understand your emotions because they can somehow destroy your relationship with others that's it's very important to practice this rule of thinking before you can talk because that's how you can learn to regulate your emotions.
Why people are not aware of their emotions?
Majority of people are aware of what they are feeling the problem is how to express those emotions to others so they can understand how they are feeling, because emotions are always available that's why every moment we are feeling something but we can train our subconscious mind to ignore certain emotions because we cannot deal with them, that's why on the previous conversation we talked about why man is trained to hide their emotions, this adds us to that particular approach because we sometimes feel bad to express our emotions to others because we don't like to be judged as individuals that's why we end up feeling better if we bottle up our emotions to ourselves because certain emotions to many people are covered by their vulnerabilities that's why they ended up feeling safe to keep these emotions privately.
Why love is based on emotions?
Mankind is a source of emotions that's why whenever people meet each other to start any relationship they feel this power of attraction which unites their sprits together, love on many levels or horizons of life is moved by certain emotions that's why as discussed we are always feeling something as individuals, what matters is do we take full responsibility to analyze what we are feeling and what is causing this type of emotions to end up recurring into our headspace because whenever people love each other they are different types of emotions which can play the part and we have been mentioning these emotions like :
- Devotion
- Respect
- Forgiveness
- Trust
- Care
- Pain
- Control
- Commitments
- Pleasures
- Desires
We as individuals are connected by love that's why people can feel good or bad based on the level of love or care they are receiving from the relationships they are having, love is an emotional tool that's why our emotions are based on emotions.
Why we should feel we love our partner?
Feelings don't lie they are like actions, whenever someone loves you they will show it that's how our natural DNA code is all about that's why many people have been abused or taken advantage of because they are open to show their ability to love and this is how we as human beings are somehow created to be , because to love is free but to maintain the love is still free depends how you add other material possessions which can help you to increase the experience or expenses you give to the Love, but it's very important to understand how feelings function because certain people can have interest on you not feelings for you that's why you should understand this approach because many people have been betrayed by this approach, feelings cannot succeed or last if they are not nourished that's why love cannot die if people keep on maintaining it , we feel obligated to show emotions to our partners because that's the only exchange we can prove our true feelings to them that's why we have already talked with you about the importance to satisfaction and happiness because it always includes the feeling's which some are basically under our control.
Why emotions can reveal our care?
People are like buttons they can reveal what they don't want especially if you can check their actions, some partners cannot pretend long enough that's why when time goes by they start to show who they are and this is because whenever we don't care we don't feel sympathy for others and our actions care reveal if we don't care because certain things we won't do them that's why it's very important to understand if you and your partner are still caring for the relationship you are having because care is very important and oftentimes relationship end up failing because partners no longer never care for each even by simple things just to say sorry it becomes hard because care cannot be forced if someone doesn't no longer care you should stay away because the ingredients of abuse begin once we force our partners to care about our emotions or problems whenever they don't pay attention towards our concerns, care is power.
Startup Business
Title description: 26 August 2021
How to celebrate your Startup Business's small wins?
What is the success of any startup business without any achievements?
We as entrepreneurs should understand how important it is to collect these small wins because the business motivation can be created by the results we are obtaining as we keep on moving forward with our plans and goals, celebration is very important because it can unite the team and even foster a new spirit of working together to achieve common goals, many startup businesses never take time to reflect on what kind of small wins they are achieving because they operate on this mindset of thinking that only we should celebrate if we have a lot of money, and this approach can end up killing the business because sometimes people are more motivated by other things, not money alone that's why motivation and support is key to help you to come into attention with your team and celebrate those small milestones. To celebrate your startup business's small wins you should schedule the review session of the results you have obtained and then set up a date with your team to celebrate even with coffee is still important to embrace these small wins because they can assist you to go and achieve more because results motivate us.
Why do Entrepreneurs avoid celebrating small wins?
Majority of startup business entrepreneurs avoid celebrating small wins because of the following :
- Profit challenges to fund the celebration
- Negative mindset about celebration
- Criticism of small wins
- Avoiding checking what kind of small wins they are obtaining
- Thinking big results are only the ones to be celebrated
This can affect how much you lose to documenting those small wins because you take them for granted and this can even reduce the impact of your business story because you would have missed the opportunity to document something which has helped you to end up becoming successful in your startup business, avoiding smalls memories is dangerous. After all, it makes the profile of the business look as if it has no experience, and this can even impact how your investors and team members see you as a business because stories can prove something about your progress that's why it's very important to document them along the way.
Why small progress matters for Your Start-up Business?
Progress is a weapon because many investors can invest because your startup business is progressing, and it's very important to understand how to collect this small wins because at the end they create your organization progress profile, that's why we have pointed out the importance of documenting your success and failure i stories because to get your business ahead you should pay attention on how to connect the dots especially learning from your failures and improving our success, because the advantage of becoming a productive progressing startup business is what can assist your business to have the right investors, progress is created by understanding how to schedule your tasks and keep on acting on what you have planned to do because sometimes entrepreneurs never progress because they don't take action that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of taking action regardless of how you feel because the possibilities of any startup business is only confirmed by the results you are obtaining.
Why does winning encourage creativity?
The fundamental process of helping any startup business to end up becoming successful is how they win and maintain their failures because whenever teams are given the chance to try and fail without any blame this can encourage creativity and a risk-taking mindset and many successful startup businesses always encourage the room of failure because many improvements or creations some came from those lessons you have learned from the failures you have encountered that's why winning is a system and a tool to keep the business running and to win you should have the team that is mainly controlled by the level of winning mentality and learning to accept failure.
Why Entrepreneurs should master winning?
The very reason why you as an entrepreneur should master winning comes to the following factors:
- Discipline
- Communication
- Collaboration
- Control
- Progress
- Impact
- Motivation
- Results
- Risks
- Goals and actions
These 10 factors can affect how much you win because winning is always available all depends on how you are going to take action and keep on trying until you make it.
Career and Work
Title description: 25 August 2021
Why unemployment is caused by experiencing gap problems?
History is there with information which can confirm what exactly is causing unemployment yet government and leaders keep on avoiding the real facts about why people are becoming unemployed, we have to check this problem of our educational systems, does it produce entrepreneurs or workers?
This question is simple we are often taught 90% of things we end up not using after we have completed our school or universities, then how can the government ignore this approach whenever this educational system is adding more unemployment problems?
Experience gaps can increase the problem of unemployment yet jobs are not created because the majority of people who attended universities cannot start companies because they were not taught at their early stages when they were attending school, we are constantly programmed to work for someone that's why we do que into this unemployment lines because that's how the system is designed to make us feel helpless and have no options to profit from our educational systems, today technology is wiping out many jobs, who cares about this individual who has obtained degrees or certificates which are not ranked as obsolete?
It's hard to understand this truth before it's goings ahead and many people will not work especially since the challenges of the covid-19 pandemic have hit many countries, experience matters, and if you can apply it same, goes with the educational qualifications you have this challenge about unemployment requires creative thinking from different spheres of intellects to start building companies which can absorb the majority of people.
Why Experience is a requirement for many jobs?
Observing from the above facts mentioned you should be worried and be careful about your career because as discussed the new economy is taking over jobs and many people will suffer due to this new technologies because if you can check jobs are lost everyday and some can blame the government but the problem is that today is more difficult to get the job than to lose it , so many companies to thrive into this challenges they are now using the experience model you reduce the process of hiring more people, so this means experience can trapped you from getting the job because some requirements are only created for those who are marginalized that's why certain companies train and recruit from inside, experience is a cage of separation because it can help or destroy the company that's why you should ask yourself where are you going to use your degree and how to get the experience if possible because this lessons are not taught in many schools and we end up becoming unemployed because we don't match the experience but because the new economy is changing and requires new skills you should not worry more about experience what matters is to get those new skills and present them to this employees.
How to build your own experience?
How many people get into those universities and colleges but struggle to understand how to build their experience profile?
Whenever we attend these universities we are not taught to go and give our services for free to these companies because many people cannot afford to reach these companies and draw these agreements because this is how affluent families tackle this issue of experience, they send their kids to get experience while studying that's why this individual always have this advantage of getting jobs without any challenge because to build your experience you should follow that particular model we have mentioned, experience is created once you can understand how to connect those dots.
How to evaluate your experience?
It's very easy to evaluate your experience you can check the following :
- Achievements
- Work profile
- Support
- Talents
- Skills
- Experience
- Voluntary profile
- Recommendation
- Educational profile
- Knowledge base
This mentioned checklist can assist you to come up with new ways to get the experience you want because sometimes you should embrace your creativity to end up becoming successful in what you want that's why checking our experience can assist us to reduce the stress of applying to jobs which we don't qualify for and even improve our chances to get ourselves any entrance job which can assist us to gain experience.
Why experience is an advantage?
Experience is not just an advantage but is a weapon that can elevate you into your next station of success that's why certain people have made it because they have collected different types of experiences and started to apply for the jobs they want, that's why certain companies require experience because they pay based on your experience, whenever you want to achieve your ability to stand apart you should follow that model used by this affluent families to gain experience while studying because your ability to understand how experience is created or gained can help you to become employable because whenever you compete with experience you are likely to get different types of jobs because you have something which many lacks that's why experience is an advantage regardless of how small or big you can see it but at the end, it can open the opportunity for you that's why you should begin to build that particular profile as soon as possible.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 24 August 2021
What makes success so challenging to attain it?
Success cannot be a challenge without these factors :
- Self motivation
- Discipline
- Criticism
- Courage
- Perseverance
- Management of success
- Giving up
- Rejections
- Failure
- Support
Now is critical to check why so many people find it hard to end up making it in life because as we proceed with life we are often challenged by different types of obstacles and circumstances and some can swallow our dreams unaware that's why as discussed people by nature have hopes but what often destroy our hopes and is when we begin to give on what we want as individuals that's why success can become a challenge especially if you don't understand those 10 factors mentioned above because they affect us differently that's why some people have evidence on which factor has helped them to end up becoming successful and starting from now you should choose which area of challenge are you experiencing and start to seek help.
Can we become successful without any challenge?
Mankind is capable of unleashing his potential especially if he is under pressure of any sort, by nature we find comfort once we keep on overcoming those challenges which were standing on our way to success that's why oftentimes many people never talk about their struggles to success, because this information some makes them to feel vulnerable that's why the only advice they can give you is to work hard even though they don't understand your dreams and hope's because sometimes it's very easy to give advice especially if you have made it that's why you should not take advice especially from your hater's, people succeed on different angels some face difficulties and some don't face them that's why some wise man has already said it enough that life is unfair and we should remember this because some struggles can be removed along the journey of our progress that's why you should review which category of life you fall into because that's how you can understand if success for you comes with difficulties or not.
Why do we avoid challenges as individuals?
Many people have been discouraged especially when they were growing up, especially by their families and school even the communities they come from, our fears are somehow self-made some of them and we are conditioned to follow certain standards and rules that's why your mental conditioning should be checked because it can reveal something about you and what you fear, we fear challenges because we were rejected and this process has stayed on our subconscious mind that's why we end reacting when some challenges are brought into our attention and this is subconscious mind problem that's why many people can have ideas for different things but how many people will take those ideas into the market? Few people will do so because it takes courage to maintain your rejections and failures, challenges are hard because we sometimes expect to win that's why when we lose we end up hating the challenges and this can differ from one person to another because our thoughts and action can differ but challenges we read them differently that's why we don't attain the same results, the challenge takes us from our comfort zone that's why it's becoming hard to embrace taking challenge oftentimes because we are connected to our habits which some don't serve us any purpose.
How to deal with challenges?
Life challenges can differ from one person to another because we don't experience the same things, but to deal with some challenges you can adopt the following factors :
- Review your choices
- Attend counseling
- Schedule your actions tasks
- Name the challenges you are facing
- Understand how your thoughts function
Dealing with challenges is very challenging because it can evoke many emotions that's why sometimes people can give up, especially if they feel they are facing something which they cannot overcome that's why it's very important to draw your attention towards this subject because challenges affect us all as human beings, and solving them requires diverse skills and tools that's why some t can deal with challenges and some can be powerless to get ahead after the challenges have hit them, challenges are obstacles of life and you need to start to use your mindset to help your deal with this challenges you are currently facing.
Why do we get improvements from embracing those challenges?
We have to check these factors because sometimes people do succeed because of the levels of risks and challenges they have taken, majority of people never checked how many challenges or risks they have taken before they are confirmed or start to give up because of challenges are very important especially if they can lead you growth that's why certain people who are more successful always keep this approach of embracing new challenges to unlock new opportunities as they move ahead with their lives, success sometimes requires us to get outside of our comfort zone and start embracing those new challenges which are standing on our way, because to get improvements you should start taking action and this is how success ends up becoming your tool because many people like to wait and complain how things are difficult and impossible, whenever the time is going by and at the end, they start to envy those who have taken the action while it was difficult for them too. The time you stop complaining and start doing something it's the time your success becomes possible.
Health and Life
Title description: 23 August 2021
What creates health commitments?
The advantage of health is to analyze the following commitments:
- Discipline
- Goals
- Stress
- Knowledge
- Diet
- Confidence
- Associate
- Attitude
- Courage
How many people end up destroying their lives because they fail to comply with relevant diets?
Countless times people are facing challenges with keeping commitments that's why you should not beat yourself once you fail to keep the commitments but you should check what kind of habits have driven you to end up losing that momentum to keep the commitment you have set up to achieve.
Diet works only if we follow what has been written that's why creating this schedule of health commitments requires self-discipline and courage to keep your words and act on that particular task.
Knowledge can assist us to decide on what's best for our health that's why it's very important to analyze which type of health knowledge you have because knowing only assists us once we start to apply what we know, this takes us back to this normality of skipping basic health guidelines and thinking you will be healthy, that's not how the law of order function, you should follow what is correct to end up becoming successful on your health.
Why we should convince ourselves before we achieve good habits?
Mankind is born with the capacity to choose that's why our habits always creates our lives, either good or bad , our habits always controls us that's why to have bad habits is very challenging because you cannot find peace on others areas of your life because as discussed bad habits are always expensive to maintain that's why to adopt them is very cheap but removing them involves lot of things and this can even affect your general well being as individual because to adopt good habits is what most people will desire the problem is that knowledge about good habits is always taken for granted because it sound basic and simple that's why some people can understand on words how important exercising and eating healthy it is but always fail to achieve this goals, we have the sub conscious mind which controls our behaviours and emotions that's why to convince ourselves to return to those good habits are should change our thoughts and reprogram our sub conscious mind with those affirmations and repetitive actions which introduce new habits into our lives, this can sound technical but to remove bad habits requires courage and strength that's why you need to understand yourself because this is your only life it's either you waste it or make something good out of it.
Why do your thoughts work with agreements?
The greatest wise man once said our thoughts are like magnets they only stick to what is related to them, that's why our habits are created by our thoughts and only a few people can understand this topic because we are mostly taught to get away from this topic of how the mind function, we are like cars without engines, we are becoming bombarded with advertisements on daily basis and this is what connects us to the current affairs of the day but our thoughts are only commanded by those impressed mental patterns, that's why today many people struggle to understand what's happening inside their head space because the internal voice is always loud and uncontrollable that's why the power of repetition is what regulates our thoughts to end up controlling our habits.
How to pay attention to what your health?
Sometimes we should not be ashamed of the benefits of being healthy because that's how you can explore the other side of life, how to concentrate on your health requires the following :
- Discipline
- Progress
- Standards
- Attention
- Care
- Thoughts
- Habits
- Attitude
- Schedule
- Courage
Concentration is power because you cannot attain the state of good health if you struggle to find out what keeps your attention for the type of health you want, remember this information is available and we should make our own choices whether we choose good health or bad habits.
Why some bad habits are self-made agreements?
Bad habits are expensive that's why to have them you will see how they still your peace and happiness that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of choice because that's how you can begin to reprogram your subconscious mind to start choosing good habits, the elements of bad habits are always channeled by our impressed thoughts that's why we can have this hunger within ourselves to fulfill this edge of maintaining this bad habits that's why many people today struggle to remove those bad habits out their lives because the mental conditioning is now functioning automatically this means the habits are now driving you and this always takes away the power of our choices until we get into this stage of taking back this control and start to stop what is destroying our lives and start adopting new healthy habits.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 22 August 2021
Can happiness increase our attitude?
What is freedom without understanding the type of attitude you have daily?
Attitude is an emotion, that's why we either have a good or bad attitude, many of us never check how our attitudes help us to end up becoming happy or miserable, this stems from what kind of thoughts we have inside our imagination because what we often think about can impact the level of our attitudes that's why to understand your attitude you should pay attention towards your thoughts because happiness is a thought, so this means if we can choose which type of thoughts serves us the best then we can find a path to increase our happiness as individuals because our attitudes are always controlled by what we feel and think that's why you have the power to change your attitude anytime and this can assist you to understand what was holding you back from being happy.
What makes us have a good Attitude toward happiness?
Majority of individuals can confirm this observation from personal experience, many of us success helps us to improve that's why those who cannot progress can read your progress as a threat to them that's why sometimes it's very important to keep your work private because hater's and critics are all over the place that's our attitudes can change based on the levels of progress we have as individuals because to remain stagnant is not possible to especially if you are collecting many types of achievements that's why progress is a weapon regardless of any type you are constantly, we change because we are human beings that's why we are not comfortable with failure that's why we have to strive for change, we have a choice to either embrace good or bad attitude as we attain our success.
Why when we progress we change our attitudes?
Humankind can remain happy if he does the following:- Forgiveness
- Loving
- Sharing
- Gratitude
- Praying
We have the responsibility to keep our happiness that's why it's very important to analyze which activities on our daily basis can assist us to achieve our happiness, to keep happiness requires understanding what's getting into your mindset, because as we have been emphasizing, we as individuals we end becoming what we think about frequently that's why happiness is regarded as an individual choice because you have to make up your mind and start to think about what you want and learn to deal with your negative thoughts, those five elements mentioned above can assist us to maintain our happiness in different areas of our lives.
Who should care about your happiness?
The fundamental truth about happiness is how you understand it because many of us have been conditioned to think that happiness is something which we can get from others, that's why it's hard for many people to observe their thoughts because they don't care enough what's happening inside their mindset, that's why to some people telling them about self-love or self-motivation you will realize how we depend too much on outside help, that's why we have to remind you about what is important, you should care about your happiness because you are the one who is supposed to create your happiness, others will complete your happiness, that's why we have to check what kind of thoughts are we giving attention too, that's why care is power because is work's with love, people never care about your happiness until they pick up how you are treating yourself, then they will treat you the same you care about your happiness.
Why our attitude determines our happiness?
What we focus on grows, many of us don't check what are we frequently thinking about, we take our attention for granted that's why we somehow struggle to find the balance between happiness and sorrow, we are supposed to pay attention to thy self because most of our life answers are located inside our imagination or mindset, attention is a commodity because many businesses are profiting from your attention, what we focus on can determine our happiness that's why to understand what makes you miserable you should check what exactly you are focusing on, sometimes we forget about the law of cause and effect, what we plant is what we harvest, negative thoughts cannot create a happy life, what we expect we end up getting.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 21 August 2021
Why reading the holy bible is a requirement of Christianity?
According the holy bible has said it enough that reading the bible is what keeps our hopes and faith intact, that's why if you can check the majority of bible reader's always when they are into some conversation they always included the bible lessons and this is what the requirements of Christianity are all about the word should be part of your life regardless of what's happening, people, who read the bible they have their different types of perspective about this life that's why they always have this mention of encouraging others to keep on praying and to further investigate these requirements you should check the following :
- Sympathy
- Contribution
- Faith
- Courage
- Character
Individuals who uphold these requirements are regarded as true Christian that's why it's very easy to detect if someone is a Christian, their language will reveal it all that's why you should even observe why the bible is so important in the Christian tribes.
Why people should read the word of god?
Majority of us sometimes don't ask this question, because we are somehow asking these questions to the wrong people, you should remember if you want solid answers you should check who is supposed to answer your questions, because on this knowledge about Christianity many people are not educated on this subject that's why to understand how and why we should keep reading the bible it should be informed by the relevant quotes which come from the bible and as pointed out we are supposed to keep our minds open when we approach this subject of Christianity because it has many areas of unanswered questions you can encounter that's why reading the bible always condition your mind to maintain your beliefs, that's why to read it to inquire and it depends what informs your curiosity to end up reading the bible. Reading a bible is a culture many of us have been conditioned to follow this cultures that's why we struggle to ask this question because as believers we are connected to one spirit which is the higher power that's why the stem and the roots all have to work together which means the bible and the holy spirit are connected by your faith.
Can people believe in god without reading his words?
It's highly impossible to believe in God's words without reading or learning about his teaching, we should further investigate this subject because at the beginning we should ask ourselves what creates knowledge?
Knowledge is created from a word that is arranged into a sequence that helps us to make meanings.
The brain has to be conditioned to end up becoming able to act on certain tasks, that's why as you observe the bible says the words of God should be read and applied, and prayer should be done daily because that's how the mind is kept into the circles of this mental conditioning, and if you can check people believe the word's which are repeated into their subconscious mind that's why when we are young we are taught about God and this makes us understand the words of God either we believe or not, remember as discussed mankind has this inherited desire to cry for help, especially during difficult times, how many people cry for help and call God, we are believers in some areas of our lives because this approach is all already been decided and influenced into our subconscious mind that's why if your mind doesn't have words then you know nothing that's why we know God because we have words inside our imagination and mindset.
Why the words inside the Bible are not questioned?
Approaching this question from academic or scientific approach can help or worsen the matters because many people who are gaining the knowledge of Christianity some never question the existence of the bible on it's self, many people are not interested to question this subject because as discussed we are somehow damaged by our parents to stop questioning the bible while we are young that's why we grow older with this fear of not asking but following what has been said that's why as discussed when we approach the bible we should be open to possiblities and new lessons because to question the words inside the Bible can invite and introduce turmoil or hatred especially if you asked the wrong people because the study of the words inside the Bible can be confusing because the writes are different and they say different messages that's why the confusing part about the bible is to mix it with science, you will begin to question the illusions and the real facts that's why sometimes it's very hard to come into the right answers, and this has been documented on our imagination that what is inside the Bible is final and we should respect it as believers.
Why religious knowledge is so powerful?
Religious has power, the knowledge of religion has been championed by many leaders and governments, we should understand that each country has its type of religious practices and knowledge which is supposed to be shared into various communities and clusters that's why whenever you want to come up into different conclusions about which religious knowledge rules your life, check the environment you were raised from and what kind knowledge are you using, religious knowledge is conditioned into our subconscious mind that's why mankind has the religion he or she belongs into and this is the way to protect Mankind existence, that's why we are categorized into communities as people, what makes the Religious knowledge so powerful is that it controls our behaviors as individuals.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 20 August 2021
Why honesty matters for your marriage?
How many partners require to stay with someone who is not honest?
Honest is a requirement of a lifelong relationship or marriage because it unites hearts that's why previously we talked about the importance of learning to trust each other as partners, because what's the purpose of a marriage or relationship without honesty?
Honesty is very important because the way you trust each other can elevate the relationship or marriage to keep on growing because if we are honest we can express our vulnerability and even what's bothering us to our partners, that's why to become honest to each other requires trusting each other with your secrets and shortcomings as partners, honest matters because it can restore confidence and courage on each to help one another to tackle real-life matters which keep on challenging you as partners. These key factors which make honesty matter :
- Increase self-confidence
- Measure trust in each other
- Leads to open communication
- Protects your shortcomings
- Sympathy
Whenever we start paying attention to what makes us honest we are way beyond keeping our marriages succeed.
Why partners are not honest sometimes?
Honesty is a habit, by nature some partners are liars and this is closed coded into their biology that's why this habit should be checked because it can destroy the relationship or marriage, partners can lie yet we have this responsibility to make sure we maintain our lies that's why it's very hard to maintain this process of keep on telling lies and as pointed out above no one ever enjoy to spend his or her time with someone who is a liar that's why knowing the different types of liars can assist you to maintain your relationship or marriage because sometimes we make mistakes and the only way to cover up is to tell those tiny liars and this can end up becoming our habit that's why you as an individual you should choose which path really work's for you liars or the truth because as noted telling liars can end up becoming a habit that's why this activity can cost your marriage or relationship to end up failing because what suppose to join partners together is the truth and love not liars that's why liars are always expensive and very hard to maintain.
Why honesty works with the truth?
It's like care and loves these two go together, this applies to honesty and the truth, we are biological coded to tell the difference if someone is not telling the truth that's why as noted above you should pick which side you fall into because when we start to tell the truth we become less insecure and open to change, that's why partner's who prioritize the importance of telling the truth regardless of what is happening they are always able to solve matters because what everyone welcome is the ability to be told the truth and this approach can increase the trust that's why we have to understand how important it is to become honest to ourselves before we can start extending our honesty into our marriages or relationships because you cannot attain honesty without the truth that's why this is yin and yang all goes together.
Can both spouses become honest?
This question is amazing because the entrance of any successful marriage or relationship is always linked to how each partner is honest, to say all partners should be honest is what all the marriage or relationship vows stand upon,and we are supposed to keep on learning about what can help our relationships or marriages to maintain the importance of remaining honest to each other, because if we neglect to review our ability to apply or approach how honest we are , this can end up introducing many problems into our marriages that's why partner's should be honest this is a rule of thumb, you can choose for yourself but failing to become honest we all know the consequences of it and some people even lose their lives that's why it's very important to understand the importance of telling the truth because this can help the marriage or the relationship to succeed, when people start the relationship they devote their attention to become honest, so if this is the way we begin our relationship why not keep on maintaining this activity because if lying is a habit then there's a way to deal with any habit, you are supposed to quit it or else your marriage or relationship will be destroyed sometimes is all about what we value, so you better check what is important while time still favours you.
Why we should be honest as partners?
Learning from what is already being mentioned on this subject of honesty one should be aware and alert about what can destroy the relationship or marriage especially if fail to check what kind of honesty we have in our marriages or relationships because the information can be shared on how to maintain the power of honesty yet still it's an individual choice to take this practical lessons into account. After all, whenever we value something it's on us how we are going to protect it or destroy it, being honest is very cheap that's why you should review this question and answers them so you can understand how honesty can assist you :
- What kind of honesty is important to me
- Who is helping me to remain honest or not
- What are the benefits of being honest
- Why I am not being honest
- If I keep on telling liars what will happen
The reason we are supposed to be honest is to safeguard our relationship or marriage that's why this question on words can be answered very quickly but when it comes to action it requires sacrifice and commitments, and if both spouses are willing to change how they approach this topic of honesty then success will follow.
Startup Business
Title description: 19 August 2021
How long should Entrepreneurs work?
Business schools, experts, gurus, mentors, and other influential individuals have been on loggerheads with this topic because of how much or how long each entrepreneur should work, the following elements should be taken into account before we can conclude the work hours:
- The knowledge and experience that businesses have are different
- The team of founders of the business is different
- The problem which businesses solve are different
- The business systems are different
- Every business has different types of work
To understand this approach you should start looking at those elements mentioned above and check how they affect your day to day activities of your business because you cannot use the blanket statement and say all entrepreneurs should work the same hours that's why it's very important to understand the type of work which your business is supposed to do and then you can start to decide how many hours you are going to work each day because that's how your schedule can determine the hour's of work but comparing yourself with other businesses can affect your performance because sometimes systems of operations can distinguish between the amateur and experts.
How to discard your old skills?
Majority of new Entrepreneurs never use the schedule because they don't understand how to set up their working schedule, for you to manage your working schedule you should check the following :
- Concentration
- Control
- Content
- Commitments
- Consistency
- Care
- Courage
- Communication
- Curiosity
- Collaboration
We have listed 10 c which can assist you to manage your schedule but to adopt these elements you should review your plans or goals because if you want to achieve or fail stay away from your goals, the majority of entrepreneurs avoid using the schedule. After all, this approach holds them accountable so they avoid feeling guilty that they just work without any schedule to champion their work activities.
How to manage your work schedule?
Entrepreneurship is a working zone because if you can check to succeed in all areas of business you are supposed to add work into your schedule, that's why many startup business entrepreneurs can work out of schedule. After all, we are not taught about what kind of work is supposed to be done by an entrepreneur for his startup business, we have observed how some entrepreneurs end up generalizing because they think they are supposed to do all the work alone, we understand the importance of taking full responsibility to execute the tasks of the business but people can see you being busy yet you should not be taken by wind because what matters is productivity not meaningless work which doesn't add any value into your startup business, entrepreneurship is based on work but you should choose which type of work is viable because working can determine our success that's why picking the right tasks is very important for your overall progress.
Why do Entrepreneurs get work burnout?
Is it necessary to have a good work-life balance...
Work burnouts are created by different types of things let's check the following :
- Diet
- Procrastination
- Postponements
- Unplanned tasks
- Stress
- Criticism
- Wrong target's
- Missed deadlines
- Distractions
- Multi-tasking
Dealing with burnout can be solved by your ability to understand your working schedule, because unplanned tasks always take more energy and effort that's why if you use the right schedule it won't be hard to find a balance between resting and working because sometimes people overwork because they have missed deadlines that's why burnouts are always available, but remember your body has the limitations that's why you have strick this balance between working and finding time to rest because if you fail you might find yourself struggling to focus and become productive as individuals because you have not taken the right steps, never allow busyness to get into your attention if it doesn't produce any planned results for your business.
Why does working on wrong things increase working burnout?
If someone is building without any foundation who is to be blamed?
Entrepreneurs like to work but it's very important to understand and check what kind of work is important because you might find yourself working on wrong targets that's why evaluation is important if you want to achieve your milestones as an entrepreneur because work is part of entrepreneurship yet we should not work because of the sake of working because what can increase your working burnouts is to work on tasks which don't yeild you any results, that's checking those 10 c can help you safeguard your attention and effort because burnouts are somehow hidden that's why when entrepreneurs start to fail most of them get back to their comfort zone to rest and it's very difficult to get out sometimes because devoting your outmost strength and only to realize you have worked on wrong things it can affect your performance and confidence to try again, wrong tasks can increase stress that's why as discussed a startup business is a research model you cannot conduct many research as your resources are limited and constrained that's why it's very important to understand what kind of startup business are you working on and which work is part of that particular startup.
Career and Work
Title description: 18 August 2021
How to adopt new skills?
New skill are everywhere yet we still have problems adopting them, because our schools or universities don't teach mankind how to adopt viable skills, we have to check the gap which has been created by these industries because many people will acquire skills yet they still struggle to find opportunities to use those particular skills, this challenge is problematic because today technology has open many avenues of opportunities so to adopt new skills you should check the following factors :
- What new technologies are used for that skill to work?
- How many people are succeeding in using these skills?
- How long will this skill last?
- Which country is hiring from this skill set?
- What kind of job will this skill lead me into?
- Who can help you to adopt this new skill?
Whenever we don't ask this question we end up choosing the wrong skills that's why you can understand what is it that is creating unemployment, you have to check what exactly are you supposed to study because the purpose is to succeed from the skill.
How to match your skills with the industry demands?
Experts will always caution us about new economic growth or downturn, but how many people understand these stats? We are sometimes confronted with information that says opportunities are available yet people are still struggling to grab those opportunities because most of us don't know how to match our skills with the industry demands, we have skills that are obsolete and redundant that are why checking your skills and looking at which companies demand that skill you will realize how your skills are outdated yet you still have this tendency to upgrade them, to match your skills with what's is changing you have to do the following :
- What kind of new jobs are created in that sector?
- How many jobs are advertised in that job industry?
- What kind of results is this skill producing?
- How many experts are using that particular skill?
We have to check how we fit into these industries because that's where we can analyze which skills are viable to match the opportunities available?
Why some skills are irrelevant?
The word irrelevant speaks for itself, we have been taught to follow certain careers as individuals, but how many people choose their careers based on peer pressure from families and friends?
We are somehow pursuing the wrong careers because we are not taught to conduct career research, we sometimes find ourselves in careers that don't even produce work for us, then why these universities are offering these irrelevant careers to many people?
We should remember these universities are into a business that's why offering what's working is only reserved for those who can afford that's why career counseling is not offered to everyone because matching your career with what the market will require is a skill and sometimes this particular knowledge is privatized, skill end up becoming irrelevant because the government policies are not aligned with what the current new economy is demanding that's why these universities cannot change how they offer this wrong careers, people cannot be blamed because they don't know, that's why if policies are not changed irrelevant careers will always be available that's why knowledge is being taught yet the government doesn't stand out to regulate each course to have practicals because this neglect is what is creating unemployment.
How to evaluate your current skills?
To evaluate is not a challenge but analyzing what you are supposed to evaluate can become a challenge, that's why our skills can vary but what matters for many of us is what kind of results are we getting from these skills that's why you should ask yourself this questions :
- How many skills should I have to succeed
- What new technologies can destroy this career
- How long will this skill last
- What results I am obtaining
- What made me choose this career
Checking is not an issue but what is challenging is evaluating something which you haven't yet tested that's why as discussed practicalities can assist us in gauging our knowledge so we can be able to apply this skill to our personal experience.
How to discard your old skills?
How many people understand or know how to delete what's not working especially those skills you have acquired?
It's very simple to delete what's not working because you just stop using that particular skill but it's very hard to accept that your skills are not working after you have devoted enough energy and effort to study and today you have to dump all those personal sacrifices, we have to understand that if something is no longer working it's either we accept it or resist but the results will always judge our outcomes, check how covid-19 pandemic has pushed many people to adopt new skills, you should list which skills are not working for you and start applying or adopting new skills.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 17 August 2021
How to challenge your life choices?
What is life without a proper understanding of choices?
We as individuals are always confronted with many choices to review and make every day but as we keep on making these choices some of these choices end up becoming our life direction and we have to check what kind of choices are becoming permanent in our lives, because mostly majority of people never check what creating their lives results, to challenge your choices you should check the following :
- Achievements
- Progress
- Impact
- Plans
- Goals
- Types of relationships
- Gratitude
- Time
- Dreams
- Who you are
To improve your life you should be willing to challenge your comfort zone because as discussed we make some choices unaware and they end up affecting our lives that's why regrets are always created from those choices we have made that's why it's very important to draw this line and review what kind of choices are improving your life and how can you keep on maintaining those particular choices because to challenge is not easy as you need a concrete plan to end up succeeding.
How to understand your progress change?
Progress is always linked to our actions and those plans we have executed in our lives, we have to analyze which stage of progress have we attained as individuals because to understand your progress you can check the following :
- Exploration
- Affordability
- Critics
- Lifestyle changes
- Results
- Impact
- Gratitude
- Attitude
- Achievements
- Options
- Contribution
- Control
- Happiness
Progress is the report card of our actions that's why we always emphasize how important you should progress in your life because that's how our lives are protected especially from those who said we cannot amount to anything, to understand your progress you should always remain humble and check those factors mentioned above and see how you relate to them as you progress ahead.
Why change is often difficult to adopt?
Change is a weapon because most people feel very uncomfortable embracing changes that's why as human beings we have this innate biases which can help us to analyze and pick something if someone has changed, that's why we have to check the following obstacles which lead many people to end up refusing to change :
- Doubts
- Fear
- Bad choices
- Ignorance
- Giving up
- Procrastination
- Comparison
- Low self-esteem
- Criticism
- Doubts & Inaction
To improve your life you should be an ally with change because life always pushes us into stages of growth whether we are ready or not we are required to progress in life either with failure or success that's why adopting change can invite many enemies but your life progress is more important that's why you should not entertain naysayers because they will destroy your progress and hopes.
Why access to change requires focus?
Mankind cannot achieve if he or she cannot focus, we should check this reality because it affects all of us as individuals, focus is power yet we still struggle to find the balance between distractions and focus because today we are sold these habits of beings busy but only to realize we are not producing anything but bills and wasting our precious time, take for example the improvements which the internet has come up with, but how many people are now slaves of this networks unware? Today we are facing modern slavery of attaching our lives with these smartphones and we have to check how we benefit because if we keep on wasting our precious time then we should forget about our success because distractions today are given more preference than goals that's why success is so challenging even though opportunities are more available than other previous centuries.
How to challenge your life choices?
Mankind cannot fail without any reason that's why you have to check these factors which lead us to end up failing to change our actions:
- Depression
- Ignorance
- Doubts
- Fear
- Comfort zone
- Bad habits
We can avoid changing our lives but life is changing so it would always hunt us especially if we are still alive, mankind cannot succeed without embracing changes that's why our bodies are always changing and we have to check what kind of changes can influence our achievements to come into practicality as individuals because change is an order that's why to adopt it you should be disciplined enough to face the consequences of new improvements, unless you are not ready to change your life, avoiding change will always cost your life that's why adaptation is what makes successful people remain into their levels of success.
Health and Life
Title description: 16 August 2021
How to arrange your exercise calendar?
Everyone has different types of habits that's why learning to arrange your exercise calendar can identify which type of exercises you should take at your preferred time, to understand this approach you have to check what's important on your weekly schedule because for many people to plan is not an issue yet what is more challenging is to execute the plan tasks that's why as discussed to understand your general well being you should take care of what you eat and what kind of habits are you having because schedules are very easy to be set-up that's why what's always fail is not the plan but the action, so to create a viable exercise schedule do the following :
- List dates of reviews or evaluations of your progress
- List days which you are supposed to exercise
- List your limitations
- List key factors which can hold you accountable
- List your benefits
To apply this activity you should be very careful to understand how to are supposed to take action because the plan is useless if you cannot execute it.
Why your health should be your priority?
Health is an engine of life, whenever we feel sick or healthy is because of our bodies and mainly they are different types of things which can affect our bodies that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of understanding what you consume as an individual because you can get feedback about your health especially if you begin to track your eating habits, most of the people would like to protect and prioritize their health so to make this happen you should follow this :
- Schedule your exercise calendar
- Learn about health
- Read food labels
- Consult with your doctor about your health
- Eat what you have planned
To be happy and healthy is based on how you prioritize your daily activities because sometimes we forget that this is our only body and no one will go an extra mile on behalf of us, we should keep our priorities in review before anything because our lives are cut off short by neglecting to follow basic health practices that's why you should start to choose either good or bad habits are suitable for your life or what because this is your life.
What makes health arrangements fail?
They many things which can lead our health arrangements to fail let's check the following :
- Low self-esteem
- Criticism
- Comparison
- Doubts
- Procrastination
- Lack of time
- Emotional neglect
- Undisciplined
- Bad habits
- Inaction
People have a choice yet you should remember you cannot be busy for yourself that's why it's very important to pause and reflect on your health because one day you will regret not checking this area of importance because if you make arrangements to improve your health you should do as you have planned because if you fail to comply you are teaching your brain to keep on failing you that's why sometimes people can seek improvements on their health yet many ends up being stuck by their habits, to take action for your health is very important because that's where you will find peace and comfort about your health.
Can your repetitive habits determine your health?
Mankind is nothing without his or her habits, from morning till evening we all use different types of habits which help us to conduct different types of activities, yet only a few people can understand this approach because we are not taught about our habits that's why is very challenging to remove some habits out of our lives, we should remember what we repeat we become, if you want to test these facts check your everyday tasks and review your results, you can only find the truth once you begin to be opened to this activity because many of us never check what kind of habits dominant our lives that's why it's very hard to change certain horizons of our lives, we have the responsibility to explore this topic because habits made us be what we are repeating daily that's why your health routines are created by your habits.
Why we don't check what's aligning with our health?
We should understand this truth, many people are afraid to check their health status because this can increase stress and anxiety that's why we can find ourselves in chaotic situations, especially with unhealthy bodies yet struggle to change the direction of our habits because we are not able to check what's aligning with our plans or goals regarding the health we want, people are very good at hoping for wonderful things that's why it's very hard to find someone who can say they enjoy being unhealthy, because we all know the benefits of being healthy that's why you should be aware of how you are aligning your daily activities with good habits because at the end your habits will create you that's why we have healthy and unhealthy people in this world your choices will always help you to come to conclusions which category to fall into as an individual.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 15 August 2021
Why we should concentrate on happiness?
How many of us would like to get our happiness into order?
We have the responsibility as individuals to check what kind of happiness is part of our lives because if we fail to check how can we concentrate on happiness as individuals?
Happiness is a choice yet we have to check what kind of choices are we still making regarding the happiness we have as individuals because many people would like to concentrate their entire lives on happiness yet this approach is hard to perform. After all, our lives are somehow complicated by various things ranging from family to work-life that's why talking about prioritizing our happiness to some people is just a wish because we have many things to focus on that's why knowing about our happiness can assist us to concentrate on what we want, happiness is an advantage because if we can concentrate on it what always happens to us we can all tell, that's why learning to concentrate requires you to understand what exactly are you focusing on, happiness in many areas of life is somehow postponed because we don't focus on happiness.
What makes us fail to focus on our happiness?
Majority of us can fail to be happy looking at the following factors:
- Wrong relationships
- Bad habits
- Procrastination
- Self-doubt
- Comparison
- Avoidance
- Regrets
- Postponements
- Rejections
- Failure
Managing your happiness is simple because you have to pay attention to your thoughts and actions.
Being unhappy or happy what's more difficult is to maintain your unhappiness because whenever we are unhappy we suffer from pain that's why what makes us unhappy should be checked.
Whenever we compare our lives with others we can invite suffering because happiness doesn't stay where it's being compromised that's why we cautioned you to stay away from comparing your life.
How to focus on your happiness?
These are key factors to help to focus on your happiness:
- Love
- Sharing
- Meditation
- Impact
- Purpose
- Curiosity
- Forgiveness
- Empathy
- Goal's
- Care & Help
We have the responsibility to become happy but we should review those factors mentioned above because they play an important role to help us remain or create our happiness.
What are the benefits of focusing on happiness?
These are key benefits of focusing on our happiness:
- Courage
- Control
- Awareness
- Achievements
- Good health
- Happiness
- Peace
- Progress
- Improvements
- Resilience
Why our words determine our happiness?
Our words are the weapons of our realities that's why we have to check what we speak or say especially inside ourselves checking the following:
- Values
- Concerns
- Environment
- Habits
- Repetitive words
- Care
- Truth to thy self
- Desires
- Actions
- Dreams
Culture and Religion
Title description: 14 August 2021
Why repetitive thoughts design our lives?
History is filled with evidence how our thoughts are creating our lives, we have to acknowledge this truth because most people struggle with their own thoughts, that's why if we keep on checking what kind of actions are we taking, we can observe our thoughts, because our actions are the reflections of what's happening inside our imagination or mindset and we have to check this factors because if you want to know about your other self you should keep your attention to observe your repetitive habits because the formation of our automatic habits most were conditioned into our sub conscious mind and we have work very hard to get ride if this sub conscious mind biases because some people have been taught or raised to think based on nagative approach that's why to design your life according to your own choices or options can be difficult especially if you have this voice inside you which discourage you because what is inside is always powerful that's why to design your life you should check your habits because they can reveal what kind of life you will have , this truth is simple because bad habits lewd to failure and good habits leads to success, we have to embrace the truth if we want to achieve.
Why we should master affirmation?
What is prayer without affirmation?
Mankind is born with the need to ask for help, that's why children don't hesitate to ask for help because that's the nature of mankind, we have to return to our core nature which the power to ask and affirm what we want as individuals, as noted previously the internal dialogue or voice which often hunts many people to end up not achieving or having any type of freedom or happiness, is because people never understand the power of repetition, we repeat what's going wrong and we end up becoming powerless to come up with viable solutions for our lives, because affirmation is the product of faith that's why from the holy book it's been noted on various texts how we should keep on praying with our open hearts because the sprit cannot function with the closed heart, affirmation works because as individuals we have this power to choose that's why when we suffer we either affirm to get healing or give up the situation that's why the old sage's have left us with this word's, you become what you think about constantly, affirmation are very important because they can restore our faith and hopes to get our dreams back and even improve our general well being as individuals.
Can we affirm but get the opposite?
Mankind is only confused by his faith, that's why this question can teach us something about our beliefs as individuals they are many people who pray for certain things in this life yet mostly the majority of them get the opposite answers, some will inquire what's the problem here?
The power to understand that prayer is progressive, some people when praying with doubtful hearts, the bible says it's either you believe in God or not because many people try to trick the spirit that's why getting answers from your prayers is based on faith and your actions, remember you should plant so you can harvest, many people are struggling with negative thoughts or that voice which hunts them that's why when they pray their faith is mixed with doubts, affirmation conditioned our mindset that's why you have to pick which side represents your life, because if you don't believe your faith will confirm it that's why when you pray you always get the opposite, and we should remember no one ever told us that once we pray we are going to get the answers we want because prayer is an affirmative action that's why we have to check our thoughts and habits because they create our realities as individuals.
Why some people can't use affirmation?
Some people cannot use affirmation because they don't believe in them, that's why if you don't believe in God then you won't get any answers, this approach is simple yet we as individuals we have this tendency to complicate things because we have this biases which allow us to either embrace our faith or ignore it that's why we have believers and nonbelievers, that's why you have been advised to pick which side you fall into, affirmation is very tricky because they change our perspective and how we think as individuals that's why to affirm is to call your faith in practice that's why it's difficult for many people to adopt this approach because it's not easy to challenge your mental conditioning.
Why prayer is an affirmation activity?
Prayer is a connection of faith that's why we direct our thoughts and emotions to the higher power once we start to pray with open hearts, because affirmation are connection of thoughts which we transfer into our subconscious mind and the higher power, that's as discussed mankind is born with the need to cry for help especially during difficult times, yet we still struggle on why some people pray for a long period of time yet they don't get answers from the higher power, our affirmation can confirm this observation because if we don't believe it's highly impossible to succeed on the prayer that's why when people are suffering some will see this affects as the work's of the evil spirit which is hunting them, and this conclusions all comes from the thoughts or internal voice inside ourselves which says our lives are not functioning as planned that's why learning about your attitude towards your actions and what you repeat everyday can assist you to clarify what type of affirmative thoughts can restore your hopes and dreams as an individual.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 13 August 2021
How to forgive to forget?
Is it possible for mankind to forgive and forget?
We as individuals have choices to make when it comes to what we are supposed to forgive because as discussed we sometimes rush to forgive people while we are still hurting, many people don't know how to forgive because we are not taught the importance or the steps of forgiveness that's why on physical appearance many people can pretend to have forgiven but once they are angry they start to express what happened that's why forgiveness is second abused word used in many relationships or marriages because people can ask for forgiveness to cover their bad treatment towards you and some even ask for forgiveness just to accommodate your pain that's why many people never forget what you have done to them, so if as individuals we don't forget then what's the purpose of forgiveness?
We are not taught about these steps of forgiveness because we sometimes use one element of it which is forgiven yet the following factor which affects our lives is how to forget because it seems as though is very easy to forgive but to forget is more challenging because you have to understand why you should forget and many people never asked themselves if they want to forget while they forgive others, this approach of not forgetting is a memory which we store inside our imagination or subconscious mind that's why once something arises we can tell that what we have forgiven is not working and again not forgetting is a way to protect us against what had happened and even help us to stay cautious about that particular situation or thing which has hurt us as individuals, so the question remains why we forgive but not forget. After all, the two all have to be applied.
How to understand if you have forgiven?
People sometimes cannot analyze what they have forgiven because what is often challenging about life is to forgive someone and still struggle to trust them that's why to know if you have forgiven you should check the following :
- Communication
- Happiness
- Trust
- Freedom
- Peace
- Health
- Improvements
- Gratitude
- Control
- Commitments & Relationship
With the practice of applying what we find peace in we can understand if we have forgiven or not as people because if you didn't forgive your guilty will tell you that's why it's very important to understand how you as individual progress during the forgiveness stage's because sometimes we can take time to forgive that's why peace can be affected by these barriers of not knowing how to forgive because this can hunt us especially if someone has asked for forgiveness yet we still find it difficult to forgive them, and life, as you know, is very short to carry worries about the past because your health and happiness should be your priority that's why you should revisit those elements we have mentioned above and see which area should you utilize to confirm if you have forgiven.
How to ask for forgiveness?
Asking for forgiveness is simple because you have to use your words but asking for forgiveness with your heart is very difficult because your words should align with your actions that's why as discussed many people can pretend whenever they ask for forgiveness that's why some people find it more difficult to forgive them because they are still lying even worse by using the passage of forgiveness, it take time to understand how we forgive because as individuals we always make mistakes and this makes us human but we should not abuse this approach forgiveness because this can multiply problem for our lives because if we don't show remorse then it's not important to ask for forgiveness from other because it really hurts to be asked to forgive while the perpetrator is not showing any remorse, words mean nothing without any actions that's why people sometimes reject to forgive others because this process is more sensitive and others can treat it lightly that's why many people never forgive because they don't like to be taken for granted especially if they are hurt and you start to pretend to ask for something which you don't mean it.
What kind of forgiveness is not relevant?
As partners you should debate this topic because sometimes as individuals we can end up abusing this word I am sorry because we e can end up becoming problem creator's just to know our partners will forgive us, we should not take this approach of forgiveness for granted because even good people have limitations that are why learning to communicate with your partner, is very important because every forgiveness has its limitations and consequences that's why we have to trust each when it comes to caring about each other's needs and emotional concerns because forgiveness is broader and you should learn about this subject as partners.
Why we should keep the relationship or marriage by maintaining forgiveness?
Maintenance of forgiveness is very important because if you want to succeed in your marriage or relationship all partners should respect the power of forgiveness and never undermine it or abuse it because if you want to achieve peace of mind as partners, you need to maintain the process of forgiving, we as individuals we make mistakes and knowing how much it can hurt our partners but we should remain disciplined and truthful to ourselves and our partners.
Startup Business
Title description: 12 August 2021
What is your comfort zone without any bills?
Entrepreneurship is all about taking calculated risks along the way because if entrepreneurs are aware of the dangers of being complacent some startup businesses will have to succeed because the business has its consequences and you have to check what kind of comfort zone are you facing currently, because when entrepreneurs
begin to avoid comfort zone these following improvements start to happen :
- Finish what you have planned
- Commitments
- Discipline
- Creativity
- Focus & Using time wisely
This improvement matter because if you lack them as an entrepreneur you will fail in the business industry regardless of what kind of experience or skills you have because if you want to achieve you should challenge your comfort zone and be willing to go an extra mile for your plans and goals.
How to understand your startup business comfort zone?
Majority of entrepreneurs, never checked how much or what kind of trap comfort zone is destroying many startup businesses because sometimes we take this topic for granted, comfort zone does the following :
- Increase bill's
- Increase fear
- Allows more inaction
- Creates more doubts
- Increase procrastination
How many entrepreneurs lost it all due to bad habits or wrong lifestyles?
The majority of entrepreneurs have never been taught how to remain frugal because as noted most startup businesses are started by entrepreneurs who don't have skills or experience that's why as noted previously success can come unexpectedly to many entrepreneurs, and that's why some find it difficult to escape this trap of comfort zone because you have been hungry for money so this can affect your progress because success on its own has the consequences or responsibility, that's why you have to check how others have conquered certain habits because our comfort zone is created by our habits, so this means the trap is the habit.
Why comfort zone is a trap?
This question is not checked oftentimes because once the startup business starts to grow what are the top activities done :
- Paying staff
- Buying item's
- Celebrating
- Spending money
- Increase bill's & Lending money
The startup business comfort zone can be hidden because if we cannot calculate our income as startup business owners we cannot understand the power of investment, because what often kills many startup businesses is to invest in wrong things or ideas, the comfort zone is created based on the level of success you are obtaining that's why continues innovation is paramount to your business success because if you are always comforted with your current sales pipelines you will always be comfortable with your growth, that's why some startup never succeed because they don't maintain their benchmark point into their respective niche markets.
Why do Entrepreneurs end up being swallowed by complacent?
Complacent is created by our habits, because entrepreneurs can be comfortable with what their business produces especially on the revenue side if you want to achieve success you should stay away from complacent, if you want to check how much many big brands have been swallowed by complacent you have to check the story of Blockbuster and Netflix, you will realize how powerful it is to keep your eyes into the process of continues innovation because as an entrepreneur you can be taken out of the market by any new competitor that's why your startup business should be able to keep up with the right innovation because that's how many successful startup business avoid to swallowed by complacent because to lose is based on what kind of benchmark point are you maintaining into your niche market.
Why Entrepreneurs should embrace ever-changing opportunities?
How many times have we emphasized the importance of understanding how to grab the opportunities as a startup business?
Countless times we have shared tips to deal with this challenge because today entrepreneurs don't suffer from a lack of opportunities but the lack of execution, dealing with many opportunities on its own is a challenge because this activity can confuse you especially if you don't understand the importance of opportunity mapping research because today entrepreneurs can view opportunities but only few can utilize them because taking an opportunity requires diverse skills of execution and courage to keep on taking action as an entrepreneur.
Career and Work
Title description: 11 August 2021
What kind of career support is required?
As individuals we are supposed to check out what kind of support we require to advance our careers let's check the following :
- Motivation
- Counseling
- Financial
- Recommendation
- Advice
Every career has its type of support which is part of it that's why we are supposed to check what we seek so we can ask for help From others, we understand asking for this type of help can be challenging, support is available and we as individuals we can succeed if we start to notice these elements of support structures we require for our careers, sometimes we take for granted the type of support we need, we only realize once we have hit the rock bottom how it was important to be covered by this type of support because indeed individuals who are given support have the advantage to succeed that's why this advantage you should check it in your life and start to analyze what kind of support you require.
What makes career Support so important?
Career support is like taking care of a child as a parent, we have to check how it is important to get this levels of support mentioned above, because we might end giving up because we have not received the level of support we want or need but we have been emphasizing the importance of self motivation, because somehow many families are negative to give support that's why to some this topic of support is irrelevant because they talk from the position of evidence that's why we have to check what kind of families we come from and what was the type of support which we have been given, because success sometimes can threaten others that's why it's highly impossible to get relevant support from people who are failures, because sometimes our family members can cut the support due to lack of courage on their dream so they end becoming mean to us that's why you have to check who is on your side of progress or success and be willing to stop asking help from the wrong people because you will regret, as you have noted support is important but it can be dangerous if you demand it from the wrong people because they might else well use your weaknesses to shame you once you have made it that's why check who are you asking help from.
Why we don't check our Career growth?
They concrete reasons why we fail to check our career growth let's check the following :
- No opportunities
- Less competition
- Criticism
- Rejections
- Continues failure
- Jealous
- Bad habits
- Procrastination
- Doubts
- Unemployment
Whenever we don't check we have lost sight of our plans that's why whenever we keep on failing this can hurt our confidence to keep on trying or paying attention to what is it that is working in our lives, it's very hard to maintain your courage during those hard times that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of self-motivation because sometimes you need yourself to keep it going, progress has the power to increase our awareness towards what we do, and sometimes individuals are impatient to endure the pain of failure that's why they don't make it in this life, we can fear our progress because we know we did what is not expected from us that's why checking those 10 factors which keep our eye's closed from performing those progress evaluation as individuals.
Can we succeed without the support from others?
Mankind survive based on support our biological footprint points out how our communities have been protecting us since the dawn of human civilization because today we have people who ignore this power of support, mankind cannot succeed alone that's why we need each other as people, your success might be something which you think you have worked it alone but remember there's was someone behind you who have inspired you to keep going on, that's why this truth many people never share because it makes them feel ashamed because we are made by others since we are born until to our graves, support is universal because is like a cog and a chain, one cannot function in the absence of another that's why success alone is so difficult and even more impossible because the very knowledge you use today is someone else property and we should check this factors and be able to accept that we are nothing without others as human beings.
Why we need to evaluate our progress?
Progress review is very important to encourage us, that's why those who take this practical example or lessons into consideration always can correct their moves, we have to check our progress regardless of how many times we are failing because if we keep on ignoring this approach we end up losing our goals or plans due to negligence, sometimes your might judge your failures but if you can review the cause of them you will realize how much you have the power to change the direction of your plans and do something else, we have to check to remain relevant because that's the way we keep our focus intact as individuals, progress, as mentioned, is the weapon that's why you should have this weapon to protect yourself because the defense is power and we owe ourselves this levels of success we have hoped for that's why keep on checking what you want and how you are taking action on your life.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 10 August 2021
Why our choices determine our success?
Human beings once they reach the stage of maturity, especially if they start to think along this lines of understanding how they make choices, some will choose or make the right choices about their lives, because if you want to gather the evidence of how others have made it into this life , check the power of their choices, recently we talked about the importance of understanding how perseverance plays an important role into helping us to become successful as individuals, our choices determine our success because with choices that's where most of our actions takes plays at , that's why as you grow older you will realize how your choices have lead you to certain horizons of life that's why choices matters in helping us to make sound or unbalanced decisions about our lives as individuals, those who are successful or failures is all about choices some people give up because they don't understand how failure can help you to gain experience and strength to improve your life, to succeed especially this years of new technologies it's a choice because you have necessary resources to execute your plans.
Why choices matters?
The ability to make sound decisions is based on the following factors :
- Talents
- Goals
- Associates
- Experience
- Knowledge
- Options
- Health
- Motivation
- Courage
- Skills
Choices create our realities that's why it doesn't matter whether rich or poor your choices are always available unless you live in a country whereby your rights are suppressed by the rule of law, but to make sure you understand your choices check those 10 factors because it matters to analyze and evaluate your daily choices because what's the purpose of your life if you cannot research it or review it because if we don't make sound choices we are giving away our lives into chaos and that's not how your life is supposed to function, choices are assets of our attention that's why we have to keep on checking what kind of choices are we making as individuals.
How to track your choices?
Choices are like diets, for you to track them you should be concerned about what makes them, you can do the following :
- Review your choices
- Seek expert advice
- Write down your choices
- Learn about choices
- Set a schedule
Some can take these practical lessons into account yet others will feel this basic information is not relevant because they don't care too much about their choices that's why they are where they are today, our choices create our lives this should stay in your attention because if you want to achieve you must be willing to check your choices because what is a successful life without proper understanding of making sound decisions and choices for ourselves, it matters to track your choices because one-day you will review your regrets based on those choices you have made some unware and other intentionally, our choices are important because they can assist us to know about what kind of life are we creating individual's.
Why decisions are part of choices?
Sound decisions making is a skill because if you can check your decisions affects your life and results that's why your choices can end up becoming your decisions that's why if we can check our thoughts or behaviors we can get together what kind of choices are we making, decisions are part of our choices that's why some people will always tell you about your ability to choose which road you want it's either good or bad that's why today many people have information about success yet still many are struggling to obtain success because as individuals we are holding back by our habits or thoughts that's why your capacity to make decisions to change your life requires bravery and understanding that haters will test you but your dreams will always conquer once you keep on taking action, our choices are very important please check this subject on your life progress you will realize how your choices have to lead you in to where you are today.
Why success is a choice?
From academic standpoint or in broader sense learning from this life , indeed success on words it's a choice but on action is something else because as individuals we have hopes and aspirations yet we struggle to achieve certain milestones because we have been taught that success is for everyone,yet we can conclude this information is not correct because we as individuals we become only successful once don't give up on our dreams and mostly what important is to understand our actions because the choice which we have as individuals is to think and if we can understand how our thinking plays an important role into our success then our choices will always comes from what we keep on thinking that's why success is it was a choice many of us will have obtained it very quickly, but because success is a responsibility then our choices should be strong enough to stand the test of failure and misery as we go along this lines of progress because success is selective and many or few people will understand this approach.
Health and Life
Title description: 09 August 2021
How to align your attitude with good health?
As individuals we have to do the following to align our attitudes with good health :
- Thinking evaluation
- Accountability reviews
- Goal setting
- Schedule diet
- Check routines
We have listed this five steps to help you start improving your life health attitude , because if you begin today to arrange your life according to what you value the most you will realize how simple it will be to analyze your attitude, because if we fail to understand what really creates our bad health attitudes then we are going to struggle with health confidence as individuals, alignment of attitude is very important because our day to day routines can teach us about what we are doing with our lives and what kind of attitude we always have about our general well being as individuals, routines should be checked because they create our realities and results, that's why your comfort zone is dangerous if it leads you to become unhealthy, because your schedule diet to produce results for you then your discipline should be checked because we sometimes eat too much because we have that particular tendency to avoid what is important about our health and we are clueless or clouded by bad habits which controls us , that's why to understand your attitude towards health is very important and requires you to conduct a research on yourself.
How to understand what influenced your behaviors?
Majority of us struggle with several elements of behavior which create many problems for our lives as individuals, to understand this approach please check the following factors :
- Health
- Family
- Friends
- Environment
- How do you spend your time
- Failure
- Progress
- Relationship
- Rejections
- Goals
Some will wonder why we end up not becoming the best versions of our lives, we are mostly held back by our thoughts or behaviors which are already conditioned into our subconscious minds as individuals, and this activity can take time to understand because we somehow overlook what makes us behave in a certain way that's why if you can check those 10 factors mentioned above, you will realize some of our behaviors are self-made and we are supposed to accept this truth and we can only break free once we start to tackle each behavior based on its own needs because if you want to change your life you should understand how basics work's because behaviors are ignorant especially bad ones that's why removing them will be a challenge but is possible.
What makes us fail to align our habits with our goals?
This question is covered in our book called Goal's toolbox Why Goals Fail And What To Do, we sometimes as individuals set big goals with poor habits that's why not everyone can achieve his or her own goals because we overlook our habits as individuals, remember the man who builds without any foundation is just wasting his time and energy because as individuals we can set goals yet we don't check our habits that's why for many people goals are just written or wishes which are shared with others just to move the elements of time while conversing, yet today people are still struggling to attain their Goal's and this problem is going on because we don't check our thoughts or habits as people.
Why changing habits is all about alignment of thoughts?
To change our habits is very challenging because we are going to need or require, to challenge our comfort zone as individuals, change is natural but as people, we have choices as individuals to either embrace changes or neglect them, this topic will be covered on our book called the power of habits, this topic will be revisited we continue on this segment.
How to check your habits sequence?
These are some of the factors to check if your habits align with the planned sequence :
- Happiness
- Peace
- Worries
- Daily activities
- Time spending
- Sharing
- Motivation
- Progress
- Gratitude
- Achievements
- How are you spending your time?
- What kind of daily schedule do you have? Are you working towards change or adding more problems?
- What makes you worried?
- Are you peaceful?
- What makes you happy?
- Are you achieving your goals?
- What do you appreciate about your life?
- Are you progressing?
- How do you self-motivated?
- How are you sharing your impact?
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 08 August 2021
Why do achievements contribute to our happiness?
We seek achievements for different types of reasons, once we unlock our potential we end up becoming happy, and achievements always keep our hopes active and relevant that's why if you can check most people spend half of their lives chasing achievements, and it's very important to understand what makes us feel happy once we begin to achieve certain milestones as individuals, as noted progress is a weapon because if you want to silent your enemies you are supposed to be successful on your chosen goals, many of us if we achieve we become so excited that's why achievements contribute to our lives.
Can having multiple options make us happy?
Indecision is dangerous, because if we keep our cards into doubtful situation, we end up becoming miserable, many of us we don't understand or check what kind of options we have regarding happiness, we can overlook this approach, because we sometimes feel one day we are going to be happy while we spend our very present moment adding negative thoughts into our attention, we should refrain from associating our lives with things we don't want , because too many options for many of us creates more confusion, we cannot be happy if we have too much to think about that's why more people are stressed about what is supposed to make them happy rather than acknowledging what is keeping them happy, options should be approached with clarity because if all of us we really understand how options really work we wouldn't have too many people who are miserable, options are always available for everyone yet we struggle to choose what's best because we never weigh out what we want, too much or more doesn't mean you will be happy that's why your choices matters when it comes to your happiness.
What makes us very concerned about the happiness?
Mankind is born with this advantage of curiosity and clarity, yet we still struggle today to our sense of humor and nature, because as individuals we are brought up into different types of families, yet we are somehow similar with one thing, which is the lessons we are taught, some people are taught what is working and others are mislead, so when we are concerned we are always unlocking our very own powers that's why as young children we where suppressed to ask certain questions to our parents or guardians, we have been conditioned to think based on what we are taught, because only few families do teach their children about the importance of being happy, we can only restore our concerns just by checking what kind of life we want and what are the barriers which are preventing us to access that particular life, when we are concerned with what's happening with our lives, it becomes more easier to understand our happiness, because concerns always raise questions it depends how you answer those questions.
Why when we are happy we can share?
According to mankind history has documented how we as human beings feel better or happy once we start to share something, we have to remember how love unites us as individuals because to share is life and to hate is a responsibility that's why when we are happy we have this need to share our feelings and this is natural, yet we still struggle to cope with certain emotions as human beings, sharing is power because is based on natural standards of survival mechanism that's why we feel so happy if people receive our gift's with humble hearts, happiness is a self-responsibility that's why we feel we can share it with others just for temporary moments and this always takes part on different channels of occasions as individuals, we share because we care that's why we can increase our happiness once we strengthen our hands of sharing.
Can happiness make us have gratitude?
Gratitude is power, we as individuals we have this choice to make in our lives either we become grateful or mean as individuals, we should check this approach very carefully because majority of us never check how or what makes us to be grateful about our lives, we cannot attain a happy or peaceful life if we don't appreciate what we have as individuals, unhappiness is temporary yet it can become permeant once we start to neglect our graduate toward life , misery is part of life yet we still have this responsibility to follow what we want as individuals, sometimes we get ourselves into circumstances which don't favour our happiness but we should remember how important it is for our lives to choose what we want as individuals, gratitude is a choice if you don't have it it's still a choice you have made because indeed life is short to become angry and unhappy that's why you should check your thoughts and make your choices because happiness flows easier once we are grateful as individuals.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 07 August 2021
Why cultural and religious people meditate?
According to the ancient sages mindfulness has been a way out of knowing more about thy self, because as individuals we live in unprecedented times and we sometimes get overwhelmed or swallowed by different types of circumstances and challenges that's why meditation, we always get our attention into order and retain our calmness as individuals, people meditate for various reasons such as the following:
- Problem-solving
- Spiritual connection
- Awareness purpose
- Healing process
- Peace restoration
We as individuals should understand how mindfulness is essential for our general well-being as individuals because if you want to maintain peace and calmness you should consider meditation that's why keeping ourselves active is our responsibility as individuals, no one will care about your peace unless you do something about it.
Why prayer is a meditation?
Prayer is a connection, we all pray differently yet the seeking is all the same, because mankind has this need to cry for help during difficult times, we have the responsibility to pray as individuals, yet some will argue how much prayer has failed them because as individuals we sometimes pray for different things that's prayer is a progressive realization of our hopes and we should be patient with our prayers as individuals because we can give too much responsibility to our prayers if we meditate we seek something to relief certain emotions.
Can we find peace through meditation?
Yes with relevant clarity and discipline actions we can find peace when we keep on meditating because mindfulness is power and to attain this state of mind you should be willing to hold your thoughts accountable and start to do things you are not used to because if we keep our lives around activities of meditation we shall end up becoming free from certain dogma's and bandages which always keep us away from attaining a peaceful life and happiness, many of us we always have the advantage of knowing what we are supposed to do yet we end up becoming overwhelmed by circumstances that's why meditation is one of the medication you can use to get your focus back.
What are the benefits of meditation?
These are the key benefits of meditation :
- Healing
- Recovery
- Stability
- Peace
- Calmness
- Searching for a truth
- Emotional Intelligence
- Solution
- Forgiveness
- Healing & Spiritual connection
Why healing is based on thoughts?
Our thoughts are controlling our actions that's why you should check the following :
- Control
- Communication
- Commitments
- Words
- Worries
- Results
- Options
- Emotions
- Concerns
- Content
When we worry is the reflection of what is happening inside our imagination that's why our thoughts always go in the direction of our focus as individuals.
Words create our reality that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of checking our words because sometimes we are mean to ourselves that's why it's becoming very hard to share kindness with others.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 06 August 2021
How to trust your partner?
We as partners should sit down and review this question, because oftentimes we don't ask ourselves what are the requirements of dating or having a relationship with someone, we keep our desires and fantasies as a priority, and forget how much we should keep the focus on knowing how to trust each other as partners, we have the responsibility to research this topic on our own actions and plans as partners, because trust is an asset, everyone else who want to enjoy the stay of any relationship should make sure trust is prioritize on all elements, because as discussed partners sometimes struggle to trust each other due to some past mistakes which keeps on repeating themselves, everyone can make a mistake but we as partners should talk about what are the limitations to our trust, because sometimes partners end up abusing forgiveness as an entrance of taking advantage of making mistakes and knowing they will be forgiven, to trust each other you should be open to talk about your concern and preferences as partners because if you cannot express what you want it becomes more difficult to trust each other, privacy is another key area to take a look at as partners.
Why we don't trust our partners?
Mankind can become very ignorant because if you can check many partners know what they should avoid doing to maintain the trust levels they are currently having with their partners, these are a few factors that end up leading many partners to stop trusting each other:
- Pretending
- Embarrassments
- Empty promises
- Lies
- Cheating
- Bad attitude
- Disrespect
- Taking each other for granted
- Abuse
- Breaking vows
We as individuals or partners should be aware of these factors because, in the end, no one will enjoy living with someone they don't trust, at the end this increases insecurities and doubts, that's why as discussed we edge all partners to keep on seeking marriage or relationship counseling because trust can be broken and we can struggle to retain it because sometimes as partners we can doubt our partners once they start to change from bad to the good that's why as discussed we should sit down as partners and check how we trust each other and what are the dangers which can compromise our trust because as we move along the stages of our love trust can keep us united regardless of what is happening into our marriages or relationships.
Why trust is an asset in your relationship or marriage?
Trust is an advantage because it always restores or maintains the following :
- Compassion
- Empathy
- Care
- Opportunities
- Progress
- Communication
- Control
- Connection
- Learning
- Listening & Commitments
People who trust each other are always free because insecurities are responsibilities and they can even create problems in the relationship or marriage because if you trust each other you have a certain way of behaving as partners, take a look at how smartphones have a decreased or increase trust issues into many relationships or marriages because as pointed out privacy is important yet we should trust each other with our passwords as partners, what is difficult today for young couples to maintain is how to trust each other because yes new technological advances have created these barriers of connecting with strangers instantly that's why being with someone you trust can safe your stress and depression.
Why being with someone you trust can increase your happiness?
They concrete reasons and benefits to staying with someone who you trust because, in the end, you will have the following:
- Less stress
- Love
- Peace
- Freedom
- Be happy
- Financial management
- Exploration
- Good sex
- Good health
- Improvements
Whenever we choose right and stick to what we want the universe ends up giving us what we want, if you want to be happy you should be able to get yourself a happy person, the problem with many individuals is they don't trust what they want that's why they end up taking whatever that's is available, we don't say you should choose someone like you but get someone who completes you as an individual, because if you want to know about the success of any relationship you and your partner all parties should engage on this subject and be willing to learn what is it that can destroy your happiness as you move along into your journey of life, being with someone you trust is very important because your life will be at peace that's why this answer is simple but we can ignore it because we are used to difficult relationships or marriages.
Why do relationships or marriages fail on trust issues?
Trust is an asset as discussed because what's the purpose of being with someone who you don't trust?
We should restrain from wasting our time and energy because if we keep on eating or having relationships with people we don't trust then we are causing more damage and pain to our lives as individuals. After all, if we want to have a good life or maintain peace, stop having relationships with untrustworthy individuals, people with their actions reveal who they are that's why if you cannot trust your partner you should be aware of these dangers because if someone is not honest so then you can tell how your life will be, we should not take our instincts for granted because sometimes we realize how we knew about someone but we kept them into our lives that's why someone people can marry then divorce, this can be some issues of trust because certain characteristics show up during the cause of the marriage or relationship that's why trust is important.
Startup Business
Title description: 05 August 2021, Success and changes
Why do some entrepreneurs end up ruining their success?
Business success comes after several challenges and obstacles defeated, yet many startup business entrepreneurs end up continuing to ruin their collected success due to the following factors:
- Overeating
- Getting into the trap of new relationships
- Posting unwelcomed videos or pictures
- Spending more than you earn
- Alcohol and drugs abuse
- Buying expensive cars
- Adopting expensive lifestyle
- Borrowing people money
- Bookings unnecessary trips
- Working fewer hours
This list is endless, but very few entrepreneurs will relate to what has been mentioned above, because media outlets have brainwashed us to think that success is all about flashing what you have that's why many startup business entrepreneurs are drawn back by those traps mentioned above, we have to understand good life and slavery lifestyle as entrepreneurs, because if you keep on speeding more than you earn at the end your business will never growth because what is been done is totally out of order, and this approach comes with different elements or reasons behind because sometimes entrepreneurs start businesses while beings broke that's why it's becoming very challenging to balance what we have mentioned because money if you lack it , somehow when you have it you might fall into this trap of getting back to those gaps and try to fulfill them and it's normal but business money doesn't work for personal matters if you want to remain successful, that's why in every startup business all individuals should get a salary especially if the business can afford such this is to avoid this trap of taking money out of the business and doing using it for personal matters.
Why you should manage your lifestyle as an entrepreneur?
Some will agree how it is important to change your lifestyle once you have financial backup, yet only few can research what are the consequences of changing your lifestyle as an entrepreneur, oftentimes people copy others and think that's how each of the entrepreneurs should behave, we understand social appearance is important but this doesn't mean you should get yourself into debts just to look expensive as an entrepreneur, we should warn everyone that money doesn't stay where is not respected , that's why learning to become frugal is very important for you success as an entrepreneur because lifestyle changes comes with different types of maintenance and improvements that's why you should plan this approach because you might end up falling into traps of spending more than you earn, lifestyle changes should be checked and even improve if possible but on agreed terms and conditions because if not you might be working for a lifestyle yet you have not set any goal to spend you whole money into chasing lifestyle changes.
Why success doesn't last for many entrepreneurs?
Success cannot last if we as entrepreneurs keep on maintaining bad habits with our hard-earned revenue, success is in order, if you have checked the list we shared with you, this should come to your attention that if you don't manage what you have you will end up becoming a slave of debts or spreading your money on unimportant material possessions to that's why many entrepreneurs realize later how successful they were after they have lost everything, because the management of success is not taught across many sectors that's why sometimes entrepreneurs end up becoming miserable or confused once the money starts to pop-up, and it's normal to have this anxiety but you should remain discipline to focus on your financial commitments and do what you have planned for, because success is like a flower if you don't water it, be ready to lose it.
How to study your success barriers?
This question is broader and requires lengthy discussions because the journey of success is filled with different types of obstacles yet we shall list ten of them so you can begin to review and clarify which category are you facing currently :
- Low self-confidence
- Rejections
- Hater's
- Doubts
- Criticism
- Mental toughness
- Financial problems
- Information overload
- Unskilled team members
- Too many ideas
Others will say why we didn't include what makes these barriers so difficult to break loose from them?
We have to caution how important it is to understand this basic barrier because oftentimes startup business entrepreneurs never list these obstacles that's why once they hit the rock bottom they end up giving up, success as pointed out in our other segment, requires us to understand how to persevere as individuals because if we cannot keep up with this type of thinking we end becoming confused because barriers are hurt to remove especially if you are surrounded by critic's and hater's that's why learning to study which barriers are part of your success journey can help you to come up with a viable strategy to keep your dreams active and relevant because if you don't understand this approach you will always fail.
Why one success can increase our comfort zone?
We have been emphasizing the importance of reviewing your progress as an entrepreneur, because sometimes we end up becoming complacent about one achievement that's why we never unleash our fullest potential as entrepreneurs because we are taught to achieve and celebrate, and this is how human beings function, but you should never allow yourself to celebrate while staying on your comfort zone and doing nothing, as pointed out many entrepreneurs realize later how they have ruined their success due to spending more than they earn, we should safeguard our hopes and dreams by keeping on working because if you keep on staying on your comfort zone you will always have challenges to outwit certain habits which decrease your chances to multiply your success as an entrepreneur.
Career and Work
Title description: 04 August 2021, Career costs
Why it's hard to build a successful career?
Not knowing how much it cost to choose a wrong career is one of the reasons why many people ended up becoming unemployed, today we are living in unprecedented times, because mostly careers have taken shift to the technological space, and not everyone is able to adjust or adopt this new changes at this fast pace, because our university degrees some don't even match what the new economy is really requiring, and this has created this challenge of finding it hard to build a viable career, because the gig economy requires us to have diverse skills that's why for this generation working 9 - 17 is not working because software and machines are now doing those jobs which we find them as boring, building a viable career require you to understand how trends and economics work's because most companies already have started to advertise which kind of new skills they require that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of learning about this new skills the first place to start is to visit Google Africa skills, you should check out what really matters in this new economy and start building a career along those lines.
What makes us hold on to one job for a long time?
Majority of us we came from communities which have succeed this economic changes and some of our parents have worked until pension, that's why we have been conditioned to think that work has to be left during those retiring times as suggested by others, but today the reality has changed because not everyone will probably get into the pension phase, because they are several factors and reasons to backup this statement, today many people die before the age of 60 , and even worse the new covid-19 pandemic has destroyed many jobs and companies, so the whole thing about going to pension is something of the history of our parents, because if you can look many young people today are desperate to get jobs, that's why holding into one job is becoming an option especially since the covid-19 pandemic has hit many countries, because today its very hard to get the job than to lose it that's why we end up holding to one job due to some reason of survival as individuals, jobs today are given to machines and softwares to reduce the cost which companies are incurring.
Why we hate to face career challenges?
As individuals we don't hate to face career challenges because this makes us feel vulnerable and miserable, check how covid-19 pandemic has done to many people who used to think their jobs were guaranteed, this challenge is devastating because we are still struggling to cope with what is happening to our livelihoods, because being use to a particular salary only to find out sooner you no longer have any job and even more worse your skills are no longer relevant to this new technological economy, career challenges are stressful because we get ourselves into this challenge and sometimes we don't know how to deal with this circumstances because what is new can confuse us, step by step jobs are shifted to machines and softwares yet many people are still persuing careers which are already obsolete in the market, we should open our eyes because unemployment is caused by this careers which don't have any job opportunities, that's why career counseling is important whenever you want to achieve your success because as noted on this segment people choose careers which don't add value into the market space that's why hiring them is more difficult.
Why it's difficult to remove some career mistakes?
Recently many countries have awakened due to this covid-19 pandemic because as discussed our educational systems doesn't produce entrepreneurs, it creates workers, some of these people their skills are not transferrable, which means what you have studied cannot be applied to another industry, it has been a challenge for many people to remove their career mistakes because you need to understand how to conduct research, and even be able to interpret the data that you have collected, mistakes are often not correct because we don't know how to deal with them and even getting the solution is always challenging.
Can you succeed without any career rock bottom?
Life has no perfect space, when it comes to career rock bottom everyone can experience different types of challenges that's why whenever you check the status of any successful individuals you will get a story of struggle that's why we have talked about learning to choose something which aligns with your strength, because if you can check mostly people struggle to come into the gate of success because they pursue careers which they don't like, struggle multiplies once we get ourselves into things we don't like that's why any career has its challenges, and you should be willing to observe and learn this subject on yourself because sometimes we like to compare the rich and poor that's why we end up becoming frustrated, a child who goes to school with an empty stomach, is different from the one who is carrying the lunch box, so there's no perfect road in this life.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 03 August 2021, Change and Success
How to manage your efforts for your success?
Previously we talked about the importance of learning how to understand your progress, especially paying attention to check how are you managing your success as an individual, because oftentimes man people struggle to manage their success due to a lack of information and skills, as discussed many people success comes to their attention while they are not prepared that's why some people end up losing their opportunities due to improper management of their success, learning to manage your success efforts requires you to pay attention to the following:
- Progress reviews
- Relevant associates
- Health management
- Financial management
- Self-discipline
Learning from the five factors mentioned above is not an easy activity, because each category has its habits and challenges that's why everyone willing to understand and manage his or her success must be willing to focus on those areas which always lead many people to end up losing their success.
Why do we fail to take efforts for our success?
Circumstances can increase our ability to either embrace our failures or ignore them, we sometimes struggle to find out what kind of efforts matters, because when you are not successful you will be trying on different channels but as discussed success to many individuals happens as a token of surprise that's why many people realize how successful they were once they have hit the rock bottom of life and we should observe these barriers because we fail to understand or manage our efforts due to the levels of failures we are constantly encountering as individuals because it's very challenging to manage something which is failing that's why as noted on this segments, the entrance of success is not opening for everyone because you must deserve the pathway that's why many people end up giving up due to the pain which comes with failure.
Why Success requires constant persistence actions?
We are not taught about persistence in our communities or families even from our schools, remember what makes the difference between those who are successful and those who are considered as failures is how each individual has managed to maintain this process of persistence, because life indeed is not easy but it's always provide us with the opportunities to close this gap of difficulties as we are still alive, and this always happens once we keep on taking action on our goals, because persistence actions is based on maintaining your self motivation while you are facing the wrath of failure, many people never make it in this life due to lack of persistence actions, many are defeated by the opinions of others because they don't know how to keep themselves motivated during those hard times, persistence actions is a skill because you must be willing to go an extra mile for your plans or goals in order to achieve them, because reality doesn't care about your pain , all that is required is to get the results and persistence actions will always produce results if you use it on continues basis, remember sometimes creativity to end up making sense many people will reject it but at the end victory belongs to those who don't give up on their goals or plans.
Why do your efforts reveal your determination?
We as people can judge our efforts based on what levels of purpose we have as individuals because determination is one of the components of persistent actions if you want something you must be willing to face all the consequences because no one can persevere on your behalf that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of self-motivation because if you cannot motivate yourself it's highly impossible to succeed on certain circumstances because to end up becoming determined as an individual you should know what you stand for and what you want to achieve, if you can understand how courage works you can conquer several challenges along the way of life because many people never struggle with determination but struggle to keep the determination active enough to face all the challenges with courage and strength, how you devote your attention to take action can reveal your determination as an individual because sometimes we can achieve based on what is encouraging us.
Can your efforts create your success?
Cause and effect are rules of success we have covered this topic in our book called Just Do It, Plan To Do, we should never be fooled by people who share information about the instant gratification of success, because in reality if you didn't plant you won't harvest, but as individuals, we have this tendency of ignoring the basics that's why the entrance of success is limited to many of us because we forget about our actions and we talk more about our wishes about this life, we encourage people to keep their hopes intact but we have to warn you, about this factors which lead many people to failure, which is wishing and not doing anything, people by nature they become successful based on what kind of actions and results they are obtaining, and your efforts are like those seeds you plant into your garden, that's why actions speak on behalf of your plans.
Health and Life
Title description: 02 August 2021, Influence and health
Why we don't have similar health attitudes?
We as human beings have different types of preferences and choices that's why it's becoming very hard to convince all people to remain healthy because a certain business or government department will no longer function because as discussed disease helps other businesses to always get profit from the sick ones, health mentality is rare because we are bombarded with unhealthy picture especially from our media networks because this advertisements only finds value if they produce what is often called junk advertisements, we should remember only a few members in our communities or families are concerned about good health that's why the minority cannot defeat the majority because here we are talking about habits and most people are not willing to change their bad habits that's why our health attitudes always differ as individuals because we don't prefer the same things, some people enjoy bad or good habits so it's an individual choice to remain healthy as always emphasized on this segment.
What influence us to have good habits?
These are key factors that can influence us:
- Environment
- Lifestyle
- Knowledge
- Curiosity
- Life longevity
People can choose in some countries what they want , but it depends what kind of knowledge you have about this factors mentioned above, because as individuals we have preference, some people have already started to opt to health products which reduce their ageing issues, today we have diverse knowledge of helping mankind to predict his life span, but because as individuals we sometimes ignore what is important we end becoming miserable by giving out our lives into entertaining bad habits, there is nothing good about maintaining your bad habits all you will receive is pain and increasing medical bills, that's why we all understand this approach of being healthy but we struggle to take action to change our lives because bad habits are like honey it's very tempting to leave them behind and start to get yourself into good diet and exercise, but as individuals we should learn to choose our habits correctly because they end up affecting how we do things in life, that's why what can influence your good habits is how or what type of life you want as an individual, because people sometimes realize the importance of good health once they are confronted with sickness.
Can a good attitude increase your health?
Attitude is an asset, regardless of who you are , what you give attention to end up growing, so as discussed above people have their own preferences of what kind of life they want to live, that's why having your own thoughts or emotions checked based on what you want to achieve as an individual, is very important to keep your attention on what you want, because oftentimes people never take this practical advantage into account, they don't check their attitude towards life, because they take this lessons for granted that's why only few people can teach you to maintain your attitude especially during difficult times, attitude is an element of attention, that's why your health can be increase by how you understand your attitude, because sometimes we have different types of attitude which always comes into our mental attention, take for example the attitude of overeating or dieting, all this two depends on what you want as an individual, as pointed out some people prefer good or bad habits and that's how life is going.
How to check your attitude regarding health?
Checking your attitude based on what you want is an advantage in life because if you struggle to check then you are struggling from ignorance and this will cost you big time in life because your health is your number one asset and you should care enough about your general well being regarding what you are eating or drinking on continues basis as an individual because as discussed media networks always help us to think that junk food is essential for certain lifestyles that's why we end up becoming reluctant to change our diets because we are used to eating junk food, and what did we benefit from this junk food is sickness and bills that's why it's your responsibility to educate yourself about good health because somehow the society doesn't care about your health that's checking your health can increase your attitude to keep your body active enough and following the right health guidelines.
Why our actions are related to our thoughts?
It's impossible to act without any thought, we should get education about how thoughts function because many people wonder why their lives end up going sideways, they always get confused about why others succeed, and some end up becoming miserable and failures, we can get you that particular answer, what we think we become, that's why we have given you some words of caution to check how you use your words because at the end they can create a reality for you that's why our thoughts are always shown on actions, to further investigate this watch yourself and review your actions you will notice that every action you take is championed by a thought that's why it's very important to check what you keep on thinking about because certain people think too much about problems that's why it's becoming hard to find solutions.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 01 August 2021, Progress and happiness
How to achieve your happiness?
Mankind has been on an endless chase of a search for happiness, yet only a few people realize how much they have damaged their lives due to thinking that happiness is something you will get from others, it can take time to understand how happy you are as an individual because we often spend our time not reviewing how happy we are as individuals, but remember to achieve happiness is to keep your thoughts into order, this means you should be able to understand how your mind function as an individual because sometimes we absorb certain things and not knowing how they affect our overall thinking, everyone can be happy if start to pay attention towards what exactly are we thinking on a continues basis and what influences us to think in that particular fashion, to achieve is human nature but this can be achieved only once we get all the basics right, to achieve happiness requires you to know about yourself, especially what makes you feel at peace.
Why achievements are always linked with happiness?
We have been conditioned to think about achievements as a symbol of happiness, that's why it's very rare to find an individual who has achieved but maintain the attention of not celebrating the achievements, we have been taught to link happiness with achievements that's why we have been emphasizing this subject which points out that , not everyone is happy regardless of the success which can ranked as a way to convince others that happiness is only based on achievements, we should warn you about this unbalanced facts, because not everyone can achieve material possessions, so it's better to understand this approach because most people have given themselves this responsibility of saying they will be happy once they achieve certain milestones, yes that's how the society likes us to behave but the truth is this, for each moment you are alive you are achieving something, but we fail to acknowledge this because we chase material possessions and always think once success shows up we are going to be happy forgetting how life is temporary.
Why do we lack happiness?
As human beings we don't lack to achieve happiness we lack to give ourselves time to understand what makes us happy, we keep postponing our happiness because we want to show others how happy we are based on certain achievements, that's why if we cannot achieve this milestone we end up becoming miserable and chaotic, being able to recognize the basics of life always offers us the advantage to accomplish what others struggle to maintain because as discussed we are sold this wrong information to think that happiness is based on achieving material possessions, that's why we never care about what's happening inside ourselves because we focus too much on external circumstances and failing to maintain what we feel, we end up struggling to achieve our happiness because we ignore the basics of life.
How to know if are not happy?
It's very easy to pinpoint what makes us unhappy let's check the following:
- Divorce
- Diseases
- Doubts
- Stress
- Financial problems
- Comparison
- Loneliness
- Loss of loved ones
- Unemployment
- Family dilemmas
These 10 elements mentioned above can come into your life unaware, that's why it's very important to sit down and review each element how is affecting your life because most of us can know about what makes us unhappy but what often confuses or disturb us to change or stop that particular thing which increases our unhappiness because as discussed we somehow have bad habits which help us to be unhappy that's why we end up become powerless when it comes to change our lives for the better when you are unhappy you should be aware of it and be willing to investigate this subject but be careful of overthinking about this factors of seeing yourself as an unhappy individual because how you use some words can affect your emotions and actions.
Can achievements increase your happiness?
Achievements cannot increase your happiness, because if happiness was a buy product many people would have gone and brought it, achievements are just temporary that's why we sometimes gather our tools and efforts to celebrate them because we know many of us live under this cloud of unhappiness that's why this type of celebration temporary suspend that particular pain we are always enduring as individuals, achievements can fool us especially if we keep them as entry points of happiness that's why as discussed on our other segment, many people struggle to accept or deal with failure because we are taught to expect success and hide our failures. Happiness is self-made so if you link it with achievements that are your own choices but remember if achievements were part of increasing happiness we wouldn't have qualified miserable individuals in our societies when it comes to happiness qualifications don't count what matters is how you can use your mind and deal with your emotions that's why if you observe some people will always say the poor are somehow happy because they appreciate what they have and they don't care about what to lose if they can die today, this observation you should investigate it and see how you can conclude it's own truth on your life, achievements are important but they are just tools that's why we are not taught how to find the balance between success and failure.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 28 September 2021
Why does Culture suggest man should lead their marriage?
History can teach us something about masculinity powers, because since the role of leadership has been delegated to men, especially in various cultures, they are different types of reasons why men were given this responsibility to lead, looking at the following:
- Dignity
- Power
- Control
- Bravery
- Protection
Leadership can be confusing when it comes to certain things, because man by nature are protectors that's why history shows us how man were send to wars because of their masculinity powers and this has given them this promotion to keep on leading into their families, leadership is critical because it separate powers that's why even in the bible the head of the family is referred as a man, but because we are evolving some woman are trying to figure out how to get into this leadership positions but still man are leading when it comes to leadership positions, culture has conditioned us to see leadership as responsibility for man that's why in many communities if a man cannot lead his family he is referred as a weak man and this shows how important man should lead not because of masculinity powers alone but based on other characteristics which are rated as key for man to take leadership into account for their marriage, that's why a man in marriage comes with semen and a woman brings the womb.
Why Man don't like to be led by a woman?
Mankind is conditioned when it comes to this statement of being lead , that's why you can make your observations in your environment, you will discover how much man don't take it to be lead by a woman, that's why we still struggle with woman abuse, because man have are failing to account to their mistakes and this cause many problems, because young boys are taught to be strong and lead by if you can check the education of this type is mainly controlled by some adults who can give this young boys wrong advice when it comes to leadership, that's why it's very challenging for a man to talk about how his woman is leading him especially in the company of his friends or associates, man can see if you are lead by the control of a woman that's why masculinity is based on respect for many many and this biological factor can make some man to refuse to be lead by woman, and we can see from our observation how man keep on refusing to be lead by their woman wives and this is natural because the power is to the same that's why man are always focusing on protection and responsibilities, if you want to refer this on a scientific approach check how males lions behave you will see how they maintain this process of control and dominance that's why man feel ashamed of their woman can lead them especially if it was their responsibility to occupy.
How did Culture choose a man to be head of families?
The reality of this matter dates back from our historical societies, because many man were choosen to lead in the absence of their fathers if they were taken to wars that's why this selection of leadership was based on transferring power from one man to another that's why man were given this selection to choose how many wives they can marry , and again this selection has helped man to dominate and even maintain this elements of powers, because males when they are young families start to condition them to think about leadership positions that's why as discussed males are given more hard tasks compared to girls because their powers are always sharpened by this small responsibility they are given on continues basis, even the bible has helped many societies to select man as leaders as it is documented that man are heads of the family and this is something which many of us never argue about it because is happening unnoticed that's why we have talked about the transfer of powers in male tribes, families rank man as leaders regardless of how we as new modern people can try to change or adding new things on this subject, the are many observation you can make and conclude why males are selected to lead.
Why Man feel disrespected if their woman give orders?
This question requires holistic approach because remember man function differently when it comes to orders, you can check this from young boys if their mothers give them orders they are some reluctant to act immediately but when the father gives orders this young boys will act without hesitation that's why it's very important to understand those two analogies we have shared because they help us to reason forward on this subject looking deeply to why most man refuse to take orders from their wives, we should understand the mindset of man if we want to analyze this topic accurately, because woman cannot command the masculinity powers that's why man feel so disrespected when a woman start to evoke their masculinity and push them to do something, this happens oftentimes in many families you can observe this , woman can talk faster more than man that's why with words man are always defeated and this approach can be escalated into something else because sometimes man can turn out to become violent because they cannot argue further and we don't condone this behaviours because if you feel disrespected as a man you should communicate you concerns not express it via physical fights, we understand this type of information is not reaching many many out there but it's very important to check how we as man view orders from our wives, because science has already covered this topic whereby majority of wives complain that their husband don't listen to them, then what is the cause of this, remember from childhood young boys are conditioned to ignore the orders of their mothers? this goes with them even when they are adults man behave it that particular fashion and this should be checked because it can destroy the marriage.
Why leadership is a control button?
The concept of leadership is based on influence and control that's why man want to control in order to feel better in this station of masculinity powers, and this is natural man can become abusive on some elements of powers because whenever man cannot control they somehow feel they have lost their respective powers that's why man today is becoming a symbol of shame because he has turn out to become a monster in his own family, and we should remember many man are not taught to deal with their emotions that's why abuse is always continuing because some man can feel disrespected if they don't control a woman that's why to them leadership is a button they should control what they want, take for example the issue of consent in marriage, many man when they want sex they use their leadership title to enforce this approach and many woman are powerless because man are fearful in some stations in their families that's why to lead as a man is very important because it allows you to control and dominant that's why if a man cannot push the buttons of leadership in his family, then that particular man can feel worthless and this is a fact because nature and style always conflict because nature always win and style always change that's why leadership is still a man responsibility in many countries and we should remember how much man strive to remain as leaders because leadership can cover vulnerabilities and even protect the male ego.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 27 September 2021
Why we should support our partners?
Love lives long whenever both spouses can nurture it with care and honesty, we should not forget why supporting each other can increase trust and reliability, that's you should keep this in mind when you apply this rule of supporting your partner:
- Let them know you love them
- Give small gifts
- Listen deeply to what your partner is saying
- Speak in a loving tone
- Be respectful of your partner's feelings
- Be affectionate and open
- Offer encouraging words
Why do some people go away during difficult times?
Mankind can be traced by his actions and behaviors, several challenges can lead some partners to show up their true colors, that's why we have cited the example of the new normal covid-19 pandemic and how it has destroyed many jobs and some relationships or marriages have fallen apart due to some financial problems, we as individuals we have options to stick with our partners during hard times or just go whenever this types of problems show up because difficulties can teach us about how much our partners value us and what connects us beyond finances as partners, you can check this factors to review what makes some partners run away during the difficult times:
- Negative thoughts
- Independence
- They have lost a sense of self
- Boredom
- There's no emotional connection
- Loss of physical intimacy
How to deal with this:
- Show your vulnerabilities
- Work out problems as they come
- Chill at home alone together
- Have a regular date night out
- Work on your friendship
- Celebrate good times together
- Communicate your feelings to each other
- Be open and honest about your financial situation
How to know if your marriage is influenced by support?
The reality of understanding the support which is part of your marriage or relationship comes with the following factors and you should review to find out if the support is available or not:
- Problem-solving
- Achievements
- Goals
- Vows
- Care
- Health
- Sex
- Self-education
- Finances
- Attitude towards ego
How to deal with arguments on marriage?
According to some relationships or marriage experts arguments play an important role in our lives, especially whenever we are having committed relationships or marriages because if you can master the basics of agreements and how you handle them as partners this can increase the health of your marriage or relationship, you can use the following techniques:- Be curious about the arguments
- Bringing up evidence
- Check the environment
- Check what makes you fail to drop the topic
- Learn the right way to apologize to your partner
- Ask for clarification
- Make requests instead of complaints
- Set the time to talk
Why we should be grateful for the support we get from our partners?
We should express our gratitude whenever we got support from our partners because reciprocity is what can make the relationship or marriage succeed especially if there's no tendency for favours, we have analyzed this normality whereby married people give each other support just because they want something from each other, we should warn everyone about this approach because it can cost your marriage and even it can destroy your union, because if we do support each other based on favors not love then one-day when matters are boiling up we can start pointing out how we have assisted each other and this factors can increase problems, but to show we appreciate the support from our partners we can pay attention to the following:
- Verbal and nonverbal communication
- Honesty
- Love
- Trust
Startup Business
Title description: 26 September 2021
How to manage your Startup Business?
The prices to fail to manage your startup business can go unnoticed until you have no business at all, because the management of this type of entity is challenging as they somehow require full attention and focus, and sometimes managing a startup business comes back to what type of system are you using for this process, but you should check the following whenever you begin to manage the startup business:
- Market evaluation
- Business plan
- Teams
- Capital resources
- The basics
Sometimes entrepreneurs, neglect the importance of learning how to manage their startup business, because the business model is disorganized that's why for the majority of these companies management is something which can destroy them because the foundation of any startup business eminent from the type of founder's who are part of it that's why we have mentioned key techniques to improve how you can start to manage your startup business, but this lessons can take time because remember being a startup business is a challenging activity.
Why Entrepreneurs fail to manage their startup business?
The last thing you can afford as a startup business is to fail whenever they are solid and proven strategies that can help you to get yourself away from these ordinary failures which are often experienced by the majority of startup business owners, we have to be aware how important it is to check how we fail along the business stages because growth can destroy the startup business if there's no system to keep it balanced, you can check the following factors which can lead the startup business to end up failing to manage its operations:
- Customers changing payments
- Growth Market opportunities
- Hidden dependencies
- Intellectual property management
- Qualified teams & costs
Failure can be judged based on the type of system you use, majority of this startup businesses can fail to manage their operations because they take this approach for granted, that's why it's very important to research the pitfalls mentioned above so you can prevent failures, and again protect your startup business.
Can management of a startup business be left alone until the business grows?
Majority of entrepreneurs use this knowledge which says you can only manage whenever the profits are growing, but how many startup businesses are closing because the management team is incapable of managing the operation of the business? many startup businesses avoid investigating growth because they are too comfortable with their own sales pipelines that's why to understand this approach further please kindly check the following:
- Data management
- Profiling
- Portfolio analysis
- Investments
- Research capabilities
Why we don't check our Startup Business growth?
The fundamental of growth comes back to how you as a startup business understand how to pay attention to details because you cannot pay attention to something which you are not interested in it, that's why many startup business owners can try to avoid looking at how much growth they are getting because doing what is important can require focus and determination that's why you should check the following pitfalls which can assist you to avoid taking close look into any growth you are obtaining in your market:- Scaling up to fast
- Lack of focus and alignment
- Hiring prematurely
- Mistaking leadership for management
Growth sometimes can happen unaware that's why the majority of entrepreneurs never check what kind of growth they are acquiring, because they only look at growth with one direction which is profit growth alone, and this always affects how they can get ahead with other essential business operations, because growth is a broader subject that's why it requires a holistic approach, and even focused attention because checking growth works best when you understand how to us metric into your startup business.
How to master your startup business management strategy?
Simplicity helps us to match and master what we can control as startup businesses that's why you should check the following factors to enable your business to analyze and master your management strategy:
- Leverage free or inexpensive marketing and advertising strategies
- Remain relevant
- Embrace proper technology
- Customer service
- Take risks
- Pick the right people
- Keep doing what is working
Remember management is based on a system and its capabilities that's why some startup businesses begin with systems because they are advantages whenever you create the system.
Systems lead to operational efficiency that's why if you can check the list we have provided above you will notice how important it is to have a management strategy system because sometimes systems can protect your business growth and risks, that's why the new normal covid-19 pandemic has proven which businesses can stand the test of time that's why robust systems are very important in any business because sustainability comes from the system which is used to guide the business operations.
Career and Work
Title description: 25 September 2021
Why we should keep on improving our skills?
Improvement is essential whether you are educated or not because what's the purpose of your life if you don't improve? nothing but regrets, that's why you should be aware of how important it is to check how can you improve your career so you can earn better and even be able to contribute to some activities which interest you but let's explore how career improvements can assist you:
- Increase your salary
- Gain new work
- Achieve personal and career goals
- Better yourself
- Find fulfillment and satisfaction
- It keeps you healthy
- It opens doors
- It increases your adaptability
- It keeps you relevant
Skills are like gardens if we don't improve them, those gardens will end up dying, the 21st century has opened up new possibilities and opportunities that's why it's very important to analyze how can you start to improve your skills because they are several benefits which come along once you begin to improve your skills and again improvements always create progress that is why the majority of people will judge you based on the level of progress or improvements you have, and with appropriate skills, you can sustain your career.
Why do new skills require us to research them before we adopt some?
Majority of young people are now trapped by these new technological advances because 90% of jobs today require the use of digital skills, that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of choosing a career which doesn't get affected by these technologies so you can remain employable as time goes by, but to do so you should conduct a research which can help you take advantage of this new changes and you can check the following factors on your career and the job industry you want to join:
- Identify problems
- Solution tool
- Evaluate resources
- Stay up to date with industry trends and market demands
Skill auditing is very important because most of us don't understand the importance of researching those types of careers because the cause of unemployment comes from taking careers that don't have economic value, that's why you should ask yourself where are you going to use that particular skill or career, this can sound basic but it can help you analyze options which are available for your success.
Why new doesn't mean opportunity?
Today we live under the impression of many opportunities which are often advertised by these big businesses but how many people can grab these opportunities? only a few people can do so because this new technological economy has reversed how people can get jobs, look where you are you can conclude that many opportunities are available today compared to other previous centuries but how do you as an individual understand this approach of grabbing opportunities is something else because after all people are getting unemployed whenever we preach these new economies, but you will realize how much people are brainwashed to think in this type of direction, opportunities can be available but they are only reversed for those who know how to take them that's why it's very important to arm yourself with this type of knowledge so you can take advantage of this opportunity, but before you dive deep into any opportunity check the following:
- Relevance
- Skills audit
- Experience
- County opportunities
- Corruption
We should keep on checking how we associate ourselves with what is new because some opportunities can confuse us, that's why it's very important to check if the opportunity is sustainable, because oftentimes we don't check these factors, that's why unemployment is raising especially if you can refer to those factors mentioned above.
Why do we jump into new careers without checking them?
What is new can be tempting that's why we can make quick decisions without checking the facts, that's why many people regret later in life how they have chosen the wrong courses due to the lack of researching before they can sign up for that particular career, even today choosing a viable career is still a challenge because possibilities of how new economies are structured require you to conduct research on which jobs are required in the future years by this companies and start applying into this new careers but jumping into new careers without research is dangerous because is what makes most graduates unemployed, check the following factors so you can pause before you jump into a career:
- Competition
- Salary
- Transferrable skills
- People want to connect and network with you
- Changing of opportunities
Man who jumps into the road without checking the road signs is in danger, this means you should look at your career based on a direction lens because sometimes we can jump into careers for other immediate reasons such as desperation that's why we have to emphasize the importance of conducting a career research and skills audit.
Why do we have to pay attention to details before we can leave our careers?
Technology has enabled us to get instant information, but what matters is how we can interpret this type of information, because it's very challenging to switch careers if you don't conduct your research accurately that's why the majority of people can be afraid to change jobs, but to further investigate this subject please check the following:
- Look for the opportunity to progress first
- Company restructuring approach
- What do you enjoy doing
- Reason to change
- Decisions to pursue other goals
- Travel Commitments
- Get some recommendations
- Check your retirement fund
It's very important to check those factors mentioned above because whenever you want to leave your career you should check the worst-case scenario, this can help you to judge your options carefully that's why it's better to regret before you make unsound decisions, and always be prepared to evaluate your options based on fact's and then you can move ahead with your final decisions.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 24 September 2021
How to create impact with your success?
Mankind is remembered based on the type of impact he has created that's why your success is a process of continuous contribution to this world to create impact while you are alive you can do the following:
- Donate something
- Feed someone
- Become a mentor
- Pay it forward: offering something to others
- Pick up trash
- Volunteer
- Tutor someone
- Recycle
- Use apps that give back
- Create jobs
As individuals, we seek success for different reasons, but we should remember the core function of success is to contribute to this world, that's why if you can check closely, your obituary will summarize your success stories, that's why it's very important to analyze what kind of impact you want to create before you go the graveyard because time is passing by, your success should contribute something.
Why success gives you the power of access?
There's a difference between success and failure, one will agree that whenever we are successful we have access to certain things which some people who are not successful don't have that's why to elaborate further let's explore this topic of access even deeper:
- An avenue to exchange ideas
- It makes you noticeable
- Create new opportunities
- Reassessing your qualifications
- Improves your creative intellect
- Support from high-profile individuals
- Self-confidence
- Growth status
- Develop relationships
- Contribution
Ask about what kind of access you have whenever you are successful, and you will realize how you are now able to do things that you struggle to do whenever you were working on your way to success, that's with success we can explore different types of experiences and it's upon each individual to check those fact's mentioned above.
Why we enjoy the impact?
Mankind is a memory of stories, what we collect while we are healthy can impact our happiness and peace, that's why we can enjoy ourselves if we check the following:
- Meaning and purpose
- Commitment to change
- Mutual benefits
- Time left to live
- Effectiveness
- To spread what we know
- Uplifting others: influence
Mankind is a process of collection of stories and memories that's why as indicated, we live for memory that's why we strive to create something when we are alive so we can get our stories alive once we live in this world. We enjoy impact because contribution leads us to freedom and peace that's why when we share we feel good and impact is what mankind is capable of creating.
Can success create opportunities?
This question should be checked because if you want to achieve or change how you do things you should remain committed to this subject of success because how some people end up becoming successful is based on their success, which means they grow from one success to another that's why whenever we are successful we can access certain opportunities with our titles or associates we have but you can check the following factors which can increase your options to get opportunities:
- Networking
- Research
- Achievements
- Recommendation
- Connections
Sometimes is very important to test the waters, this means we edge you to start with your small goals and begin to celebrate your success because opportunities can only multiple if you start to pay attention to details that's why some opportunities can require special preparation and certain skills, and succeed you should be able to deal and be able to analyze the opportunity before you can take it because sometimes mankind delays his success due to fear and doubts that's why the first requirements for success is to think independently and take action.
Why we strive for change?
Change is a natural principle, we are all complied by nature to keep on changing that's why we can strive for change even though we are failing in life because change is what brings us those possibilities we have into reality that's why whenever change arrives it depends how you handle it but we strive for change for this reasons as human beings:
- Problems
- Improvements
- Peer pressure
- Comparison
- Opportunities
If there's no change then death has arrived, that's why if you can pay attention some other things near you are always changing from weather to your emotions, that's why we feel very comfortable whenever we are progressing and with change, we can explore our innate strength, change is very important because it protects us.
Health and Life
Title description: 23 September 2021
Why do we sacrifice for bad habits?
History can show us how mankind has behaved differently when it comes to what he can sacrifice for that's why as individuals we should begin to question what makes us sacrifice for our bad habits by looking at the following factors:
- Unhealthy lifestyle
- Short term mindset
- Excuses
- Wrong beliefs
- Perfectionism
- Multitasking
- Trying to control everything
- Saying yes to things that don't support your goals
- Toxic people
- Need to be liked
- Dependence on social media networks
Everyone can use sacrifice, yet most people are not concerned about what level of sacrifices they are giving away for certain things, because whenever we keep our bad habits unchecked then we are also inviting sorrow into our lives because where there's the sacrifice you find out what kind of courage is there, that's why some people can sacrifice their salaries to feed their bad habits ranging from sex, alcohol, food and other essential factors which make this habits active enough that's why for you to understand your habits you should check what you do with your time, and what you think because as individuals sacrifice can make us or break our lives that's why we should ask ourselves why bad habits are given more preference and attention, we have mentioned some key factors which assist us to end up sacrificing for our bad habits it's very important to check that particular list and start to make some adjustments.
How to understand your health strength?
Mankind can understand if he is curious about what's happening, that's why as discussed many people can share how important it is to remain healthy or stick to good habits but how many people fail to comply with these basic health practices? Understanding your health strength comes to the following aspects:
- What are you good at
- Compliments
- Tasks that drain your energy
- Excellence on tasks
- Hobbies
- Talk to people you trust
- Take a personality test
- Try new things: painting, drawing, dancing, video, cooking
We should not forget, that not everyone is sure about what is it that makes them good at something, and it's very important to question this because we sometimes fail to acknowledge our health strengths due to a lack of sufficient information about ourselves, that's why most people treat their bodies as construction fields, and this makes them think health is separated from their bodies, they only assume only physical health will assist them to use their health strength, and if you can check many people don't realize how important it is to pay attention to your mental health, because this faculty affects the entire body system, that's why you should start now and review the list we have shared above and see what can you do with your health strength.
Why we don't sacrifice our lives to become healthy?
Mankind can choose what he wants this makes him a powerful creature on this earth, that's why we should check why we don't sacrifice for better habits by looking at the following reasons:
- Not being authentic to ourselves
- Giving too much care to what others will think
- Not asking for what you want
- I can't find time to exercise
- My job schedule is crazy
- The kids overtake my day
- I don't sleep well
Whenever we don't know we can endanger ourselves, but once we know but never do what is right we are enslaving ourselves, this means you should do what you know, because health is very important, whenever you fail to commit towards good health, you are damaging your life, not the world that's why pain is not transferrable, especially on the physical body, we can jump all the health basics but at the end, your health is your responsibility that's why if you fail to protect it you will find yourself queuing for medical help, the reason we have given above they should spark your attention, because as noted previously we can sacrifice for wrong things which end up enslaving us.
Why we don't use our sacrifices accurately?
The greatest regrets about life is to comprise your life for others and do things which you don't like just to please others, that's why many people can sacrifice for their side chicks whenever their wives struggle to make ends meet, we have to pay attention on this subject because sometimes people sacrifice based on sympathy or fear that's why we should check what leads us to sacrifice to wrong things:
- Sacrifice priorities
- Work-life balance
- Blame
- Poor skills
- Compromise
The ability to analyse this topic can improve your life, because sometimes we don't check which direction of sacrifices are we using, you might be sacrificing for distractions which increase your bills and even steal your attention to concentrate on important matters of your life, that's why many people can sacrifice their priorities unware, and this can end up becoming a norm into your life, because if you don't comply to your priorities then this means you are not discipline enough to hold yourself accountable, you need to check this factors which leads us to lose our sacrifices, because at the end blame is based on what you fail to do that's why whenever we sacrifice we might be doing some favours for others without checking if it's relevant or not, and this kind of sacrifices can impact how you reciprocate any help for others, remember some people cannot assist you regardless of how much you sacrifice for them during their difficult times, and you should begin to learn this type of behaviours so you won't find yourself as victim of sacrificing to wrong things or people.
Why do we blame circumstances for our health issues?
Mankind can shift blames just to protect his ego, that's why whenever you are not healthy you should not blame others unless it was a natural disease which was passed into your system via genetics, but sometimes we as individuals we make these mistakes of failing to pay attention on our health, we damage our health and when pain arrives we start to blame the circumstances, but the fact remains, we are the ones who have started this and we should face all the consequences, you can check why blame plays an important role to help us to cover our mistakes:
- Blaming others is easy
- Blame means you don't have to be vulnerable
- Blaming others feeds your need for control
- Blame protect your ego
- Blame unloads backed-up feelings
We can blame ourselves because we don't dare to challenge ourselves and find faults within ourselves, remember blame for many people is used as an external excuse cover that's why whenever you find yourself unhealthy, you should seek clarity on what led you into that particular situation, because as individuals we sometimes avoid to comply to health basics and when our health start to change we blame circumstances but remember circumstances can be blamed but this is your life you either take responsibilities or be swallowed by blames and complaints.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 22 September 2021
Can Happiness increase our sexual performance?
We as married people or those who are engaged in committed relationships we should be aware of how happiness plays a role in our sexual performance by looking at the following factors:
- Satisfaction
- Staying in shape
- Enthusiasm
- Managing sex levels
- Routines and consistency
- Openness
Why when we are unhappy our sex drive decline?
Mankind is like a weather temperature, if you don't understand how to how to get yourself safe during the scorching sun you will damage your skin, this means that whenever we are not happy we won't enjoy our sex drive because unhappiness requires attention that's why this factors can help you to understand why whenever we are unhappy our sex drive decline:
- You are tired
- Low on estrogen and libido
- Your sick of the same routine
- Your medication is messing with your sex drive
- You drink too much alcohol
- You are constantly on your smartphones
- Feeling less attractive
- Distractions
- Stress not talking
Why does stress harm our happiness?
Stress is like a knife, it depends on how you handle the knife, majority of us are confident and comfortable saying we are stressed out but how many people seek solutions after there, we can talk about stress but what matters is the healing process of it because stress is something which affects us differently that's why we can struggle to be happy whenever we are stressed, check this following reasons:
- Stress makes it difficult to control our emotions
- Stress can promote diseases
- Stress can affect your life
- Stress can make you look older
- Weakens your immune system
- Overwork: burnouts
Why we should check our Emotions especially if we are not happy?
Emotions are like an engine if you want to use them correctly you should understand how to control them that's why many people don't understand their emotions and this education is rare because we are somehow taught to pay more attention to physical emotions than internal emotions that's why it's very easy to blame others on how you feel whenever you are the one who has allowed your attention to entertaining that particular situation, we should check our emotions because they can eminent from deeper needs or trauma we have experienced:
- Sadness: loss of a loved one
- Guilty: feeling bad about mistakes
- Irritability: lower frustrations tolerance
- Anxiety: worrying about something specific
- Loneliness: find it hard to socialize
- Worthiness: you believe you don't have anything to contribute
- Hopelessness: things will never get better
Why do we fail to accept our poor sexual performance?
Corrections require maturity and confidence because what can hurt us is when our partners start to make jokes or attack us based on our poor sexual performance, even by comparing us with others that's why to understand this approach you need to reflect on these facts which can increase our chances to fail to accept our poor sexual performance:
- Shame
- Fear
- Privacy
- Poor body image
- Worry about ejaculation or orgasm
- Language type
Culture and Religion
Title description: 21 September 2021
Why does Cultural marriage force us to accept certain dogmas?
History can show us what happened before us but what is coming is based on how we structure our choices and actions, look each an every marriage is following certain believes, that's why is very challenging to separate a believe with the culture, that's why whenever we are getting married we go through this cultural counseling, because this is to ensure we keep on complying to our cultures, that's why we are somehow forced by what we have already been taught as young people to follow certain standards of our cultures, because by statement of facts, a marriage is a culture that's why as discussed we have elaborated how each an every one of us belong to a certain culture, and this approach of using culture is evolving but what matters is that we still use culture as long we have already included marriage then we should not confuse ourselves if we think we don't practice culture, remember is our culture to have a family that's why we are somehow forced to have this type of things as members of the community to keep the family cycle to continue.
Why do we sometimes get overwhelmed by cultural practices as married people?
Culture is a biological trap, we cannot escape it because this world is structured based on categories of cultures, that's why young people who are getting married keep on trying to do away with culture but how many of these marriages last? only a few, because culture is the hub of principles which help us to conduct our lives that's why you cannot separate culture from a belief and it's very important to understand why we sometimes feel overwhelmed by our cultural practice, remember changes can add new problems that's why to some people who understand the importance of culture they will keep on saying you should know your roots which means there's something of importance you should comply with it as an individual that's why whenever partners get married they start to use one culture this can be a challenge because our beliefs can conflict and it's very important to check what kind of believe each of you comes with because mankind is completely conditioned whether we like it or not that's why today marriage can become a platform of arguments and even enslavement to others if we find ourselves forcing rules which don't work for us as married people.
Who should use the culture as married people?
The priest when he joins the groom and with his bright, we should draw this lessons very carefully, because they are vow's which are agreed upon during that particular session, and to further this the priest will say something like you are now one thing, what does it mean on this topic, we can learn how you are now regarded as one culture after you have married, because there's no point to get married but find each one of you practicing something differently, remember what the old saying said, take time to know her, because whenever you feel as though there's only one partner who is supposed to practice culture then your marriage is not structured correctly, because the vow's says one family not separated believes that's why in some families you are only required to marry a Christian if your family believe in that particular category, this helps us to clarify this problems about separate believes, and control that's why cultures is broader and we should keep on learning about this factors, because conflicting believes can destroy the marriage, both spouse's should use culture as they are one thing.
Can a marriage succeed without a culture?
Whenever we are referencing the word marriage, we should educate ourselves on this subject, because marriage is a culture, there's no way you can get married without using a culture that's why as partners we should remember how important culture is and how do we conduct ourselves on this subject, because mankind is controlled by culture from birth until death, we are spiritual beings performing our cultural mandates on this world, that's why the practices of culture can differ but they are common with one thing which is conditioning the mindset to behave in a particular fashion.
Why do we accept culture to run our lives?
The concept of culture is evolving but the standards and practices of this subject remain, because as discussed we are controlled by certain cultural practices as individuals, that's why everyone has a culture, we should not be fooled by those individuals who say they don't use culture, because religion comes from the culture that's why every human being has this need to cry for help to the higher power, especially during hard times, we are lead by culture even though we cannot notice these elements, but we can help you to understand this furthermore, whenever a war can be staged against any country especially about dismantling cultural practices you will see how we are protected by these categories from religion to culture because every country has its own culture which helps it to protect its people, we suggest you look into this observation and you will collect your facts
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 20 September 2021
How to appreciate your Partner?
How many people are always forgetting to appreciate what they have until it's too late? many people can find themselves into this trap because we as individuals can become ignorant to pay attention to this subject that's why the majority of relationships or marriages don't succeed because partners don't appreciate each other, but it's very important to learn these techniques so you can restore your ability to value what you have while time is still available by doing the following:
- Say you love each other
- Send a thoughtful note or card
- Give your spouse a holiday break
- Cook a special meal
- Praise each other
- Behave in a grateful way
- Recognize the growth of your relationship
- Let happiness lift your union
- Deal with negative emotions
- Remember what unites you
- Ask questions
Why appreciate creates peace in a marriage or relationship?
Mankind is conditioned to feel something by naming it, that's why any relationship or marriage which doesn't have peace then you know what will happen next because peace is what everyone values unless that particular person is a psychopath, that's why it's very important to understand your peace before you can check others, because sometimes partners treat each other based on their values and beliefs that's why to remain peaceful is a challenge if someone is always trying to ruin your peace, but as partners, you can check the following aspects to maintain the level of peace you want :
- Gift's
- Acts of service
- Words of Affirmation
- Quality time
- Physical touch
Why we don't appreciate each other as partners?
Mankind is capable of choosing, that's why when it comes to appreciating each other people cannot pretend especially if you can start to check their actions and body language continuously, because we lack this type of skills we end up becoming trapped to think our partners appreciate us, whenever we should check the following factors to consider if appreciation is taking part or not:
- Kind of value you don't add
- Lack of self-esteem
- Perfectionism tendency
- Mental illness
- They don't show appreciation
- They don't inform you on important matters
- They speak negatively about you
- Cheating
How to remain humble to your partner?
This segment is based on honesty that's why we keep on advising partners to analyze what we are sharing so this type of information can change lives, but furthermore, to help you understand why you should remain disciplined and humble to appreciate each other you can check the following:
- Admit your mistakes
- Talk less listen more
- Be open to unsolicited pieces of advice
- Learn to accept criticism
- Get used to being uncomfortable
- Be observant
- Value your partner more
- Be grateful, not boastful for what you are accomplishing
- Be more considerate
- Appreciate each other's shortcomings
Can caring become a burden?
Consider these facts, and you will be at peace, sometimes we can love the wrong partners and this can increase our chances to become desperate and miserable that's why as discussed you should check how you care as an individual and what are the return benefits from your partner because certain things can change how we care for each other that's why care can become a burden once these factors start to take place:
- Abuse
- Desperation
- Helpless
- Fear
- Doubts
Startup Business
Title description: 19 September 2021
How to be innovative as an entrepreneur?
The new economy is calling for innovation especially when it comes to new industries, we should be aware of what makes some entrepreneurs successfully innovative because the majority of these individuals have different types of skills but they are common with one thing, they don't give up, that's why we have listed 10 components to learn how to innovate:
- Research
- Trends
- Existing problem
- Easier way
- Accessibility
- Improvements
- Process
- Location
- Cost
- Customer experience
It all starts with curiosity, that's why the muscle of entrepreneurship is focused on turning your curiosity into research and later converting the research into a business, with the ability to analyze concepts and start researching them you can begin to learn how other successful entrepreneurs are opening opportunities by using this approach of innovation because to explore this topic of innovation you require to analyze those 10 components, it can take time but you should remember innovation is a process of continues learning about steps and basics, that's why to understand innovation you should master the research and how to iterate from each concept you build.
Why innovation matters for your Start-up Businesses?
The importance of innovation is to keep the customers, that's why the majority of startup businesses can fail due to this problem of failing to innovate based on customer needs and preferences, because innovation is a process you should check the following advantages of innovation once you adopt it into your startup business:
- Global competitiveness
- Potential acquisitions
- Enter new markets
- Creates opportunities
- Solve problems
Innovation is an advantage that keeps the startup business relevant because what often destroys many startups is the inability to maintain continuous innovation with the right model to acquire and keep customers, that's why to compete as a startup business is very dangerous if you don't know how to use innovation model, because competitiveness requires you to exercise your capabilities as a startup business, with this type of approach you can sustain many opportunities which come along the way, whenever you cannot innovate it means your creativity capabilities are somehow suspended that's why we have been emphasizing that a startup business is a research model, and you should not lose this power.
Why Entrepreneurs Fail to become innovative?
Majority of entrepreneurs don't understand innovation, and this approach leads many of them to end up failing, because in business if you use the wrong ingredients you won't succeed, that's why we have managed to collect a few basic guidelines to help you understand why entrepreneurs fail on innovation:
- Uncalculated risk's
- Not knowing the customer
- Poor Skills
- Bad partners
- Ineffective sales
- Market invisibility
- Pivot paralysis
- Problems with existing strategies
We can point out many reasons which can lead startup businesses to fail to innovate, but sometimes as the indicated majority of entrepreneurs are afraid to embrace the unknown, this is due to this tendency of thinking you lack resources to start with your startup business, that's why it's very dangerous to fail without trying, and this always happens once you allow assumptions to conclude that what you want to do is impossible, and remember all successful people have this tendency to apply their ideas and keep on trying that's why they are successful, innovation is all about taking action and never giving up.
Can innovation create profits for any startup business?
The fundamental mandate of any innovation is to increase profit and acquire new customers, that's why it's very important to understand this approach because big brands can manage to achieve Innovate based on a schedule that's why as a startup business you should analyze this advantage which comes along with innovation:
- It increases employee retention
- It improves existing products
- It improves operational management
- It keeps the company in the game
- Improve sales and customer relationship
- Reduce waste and costs
- Boost your market position
- Improve employee relations
We have given reasons why innovation increases profitability, but you should remember this only applies when you use the right model for your startup business, because as discussed majority of entrepreneurs don't understand innovation they just think of innovation based on concepts alone that's why whenever a particular concept fails then all is doomed, but it's very important to maintain the study of innovation because sometimes customers are wiki to pay more it all depends how you connect those dots inside your business, and how you innovate is based on what you know that's why some companies can sell a similar product but you will find out that the profit margins are not the same, it all depends on how the user is connected to your product or service, profit is just one thing when it comes to the whole business industry.
How to evaluate your innovation skills?
Creativity is a skill that is often displayed or tested based on your actions and feedback you get from the market, that's why many startup businesses have failed because of mismanagement of skills or giving people wrong tasks which require domain expertise, that's why you should check why skills of this nature matter:
- Take stock of your current skills levels
- Flex your thinking preferences
- Use creative problem solving as a process for innovation
- Be mindful
- Do, reflect, learn, repeat
- Collaboration
We have to check what kind of skills we have because they can assist us to analyze this topic accurately. After all, without a proper understanding of which skills you have you won't be able to deal with the type of business industry you want to innovate for, we have already observed these barriers which often trap the majority of entrepreneurs, they want to enter the business without understanding the basics of that particular business industry, remember we have covered the subject of the importance of reading or learning as an entrepreneur, because to research or adopt new skills you should master the basics because with innovation we talk about continuous collaboration of ideas which are taken to test and validated.
Career and Work
Title description: 18 September 2021
Can confidence become an asset?
We as human beings have different types of personalities and this helps us to get full clarity about how we can see confidence as our asset to tackle certain areas of our lives, you can check the advantages which make confidence an asset:
- Expressing our talents
- Communication
- Skill building
- Recommendations
We as human beings either use our confidence or we end up getting paralyzed by doubts and fears, that's why if you can check very closely you will realize every individual is confident in some areas of his or her own life which often damage our confidence is when we begin to seek approvals from others, that's why this ends us destroying our confidence, the ability to exercise your confidence can support you to express your talents without seeking any approval that's why it's very important to understand why confidence is an asset because your confidence communicates on behalf of you that's why the majority of people are somehow afraid of those individuals who use their confidence because their skills are always outperforming those who don't use their confidence at all that's why with confidence you can network with others very easy but this is not reserved for everybody as our personalities can differ as individuals but we all have confidence it depends how you use it.
Why do we lack the confidence to talk about our careers?
Majority of individuals who have hit the rock bottom can express this problem of being afraid to talk about their careers because failure can change your confidence and even isolate you from talking about your career and this tendency can come from the following factors:
- Fear
- Shame
- Guilty
- Judgments
- Criticism
Talking is only easy if you are progressing in the right direction, but if you find yourself hitting the rock bottom this talks about career improvements can hurt your ego, because with such topics progress is investigated based on how far are you stretching your skills as an individual, it's very challenging to talk about our failures because they reveal our vulnerabilities and with this type of talks we can find ourselves hiding or even avoiding to express ourselves about our life progress, career improvements are very important that's why we constantly strive to change our lives by keeping on trying to grow our skills, yet life can be unfair to some because some careers today are now controlled by machines and robots, that's why is very stressful today to see many people who are qualified by this cannot find employment this talk can hurt many people because they have worked hard to improve but only to find out they cannot be employed.
Why some careers can influence your creativity?
The reality is changing about careers because science is helping us to understand this topic even better because they are some careers which can help us to increase our confidence, especially checking the following components:
- Skills type
- Experience
- Salary
- Benefits
- Assistance
Let's observe this topic, they are some careers that can evoke our creativity because we find comfort in them, that's why in this segment we have been emphasizing the importance of choosing a viable career that doesn't depend on employment alone, but it can create some business for you because indeed times are changing and we need to explore our creativity so we can rely on our strength to change our lives, some companies can introduce this type of comfort into your life and you can start to break your creativity and even become the master of your profession, that's why you need to understand that work environments are not the same and this can affect your creativity or performance.
Why do some careers reduce our confidence?
According to some real facts of life many researchers have covered this topic of regrets and they have found out why some jobs can reduce our confidence to the following factors:
- Lack to challenge
- Growth issues
- Bad Competition
- Low payment
- Discouragement
They are several factors that can play out when it comes to finding ourselves losing confidence in our careers or jobs because as individuals we always seek comfort that's why if we work in jobs we hate then is highly impossible to become creative, and this is a fact because it begins when we woke up before going to those respective jobs, we have this type of emotions which always rings to us every day when we go to work either we feel courageous or discouraged, that's why we advise you to explore this feeling in your life and see if you are interested into what you are doing or is just a moving time activity whereby you want to pay bills and that's all, question this approach and you will see how you can restore your confidence.
Why career counseling can improve your confidence?
We are living in unprecedented times because science is breaking out new changes and we have to check how career counseling is important because it can benefit you with the following:
- Support
- Network
- New experience
- Referrals
- Sound counsel
Mankind grows with motivation that's why whenever we begin to get counsel about our career progression from those professionals we can gain confidence on what we are pursuing that's why many companies today they can bring different types of experts to come and talk with their staff members, this is to increase inspiration and even keep the talent within the company because as individuals we are symbols of influence, we always perform very well if we are motivated and even encourage to excel, because career counseling can improve how you make some choices in your life that's why it's very important to attend this type of sessions so you can discover something about your career journey, because what often makes majority of individuals to end up giving up is when they cannot find a network of sound minds to explore and question the stages of their careers, that's why you need to understand how this types of communities can help you to remain motivated and even notice certain trends which can affect your job industry.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 17 September 2021
Why financial counseling is important?
We should take these lessons into account because financial literacy is important and you should seek professional help if you still struggle on this subject of finance, especially if you are covered by debts that impact your life and you are stressed out, and with financial counseling, you can benefit the following:
- To avoid unhealthy financial behaviors
- Therapeutic competencies
- Dealing with your finances
- Increase your savings
- Enjoy better standards of living
- Be prepared for emergencies
- Attain peace of mind
- Definition of financial goals
- Income management
- Measuring progress on your goals
- Financial understanding
Why do we avoid debt resolving?
Majority of us as individuals come from families which don't have information about money, especially how to deal with debts repayment, we find ourselves trapped by piles of debts with just one income stream, and this can affect how we resolve those debts we have because to pay back debts requires a strategy, but we have listed few techniques to help you view this topic differently so you can know how to resolve your debts:
- Stop interest from accruing
- the higher the interest rate the greater the interest rate accrues or builds up
- the higher the principal balance the greater the interest accrual
- even when making the minimum payment interest can continue to accrue
- Grow your savings
- Prevent garnishment and release liens
- Improve your credit score
- Reduce your stress
How to learn about debts powers?
The chains of debts are very powerful to break loose from them if you don't have any existing strategy behind them because by nature debts are powerful because they can assist you to solve or gain certain resources at a given time but you should check what kind of power these debts have on you as an individual because you can take advantage of this knowledge of you want to use the power of debts to support your life needs by checking the following:
- Debts repayment percentage
- Use savings to pay down large debts
- Negotiate for a lower interest rate
- Use your tax refund check to pay down your debt
- Consider cashing in your life insurance
- Sell items for cash
- Make more money
- Do a credit card balance transfer
- Use a statute of limitations laws to eliminate old debts
- File bankruptcy to discharge your credit card debts
Why debts stress is so challenging?
According to our observation we have noticed how debts can be stressful from our personal experience, whenever we as individuals are hunted by debts we don't find peace if we fail to pay back the money that's why you should check which type of debts you have and analyze which kind of stress comes with it by checking these categories:
- Car repayment
- Mortgage
- Health care costs
- Interest payment on credit cards
- Student loans
- Vacation or luxury purchases
- Depression and anxiety: Inability to pay back
- Resentment: blame your employee for not paying you enough money
- Denial: ignore payment reminders
- Stress: worry about how to deal with debts
- Anger and frustrations: hard to accept your mistakes
- Regret: purchase or signing contracts
- Shame and embarrassment: repossession
- Fear: eviction
Why do we lose our financial achievements?
We as individuals can strive very hard to change our lives, but because as discussed we are not taught how to manage our success we can find ourselves losing our earned money due to some mistakes we have committed because financial literacy is something that the majority of people never bother to seek help on it gets some education in this subject, and in some areas of life many people find themselves losing their earned money based on contracts they have signed without understanding them that's why financial counseling is a requirement to help you safeguard your opportunities as you grow with your success because we lose finance based on this two elements:
- Habits
- Knowledge
Health and Life
Title description: 16 September 2021
How to check your habits association?
We should not take our habits for granted because they say a lot about us that's why our actions are mainly controlled by our habits and it's very important to check this association by checking the following:
- Routines
How do you conduct your repetitive daily activities?
This might sound basic, but most of our errors in life come from our inability to check our daily routines if we are hitting in the right direction or not because routines are automatic that's why it's very challenging to explore this topic if you don't pay attention towards what you are doing with your time.
- Habits
Every habit we have is always associated with something either good or bad, that's why habits function in a flow chain, you might wonder why you constantly do the same thing every day unaware, this is based on the mental association, that's why whenever the mind is not operating based on habits this leads the mindset to become silent and calm.
- Lifestyle
Your life is based on a particular lifestyle, you should check which category you belong to because your habits can tell you about the kind of life you have that's why a wise man once said we become who we associate ourselves with.
Many of us are influenced by unaware media of these new technological advances that's why today it's very challenging to focus and you should check who is influencing your habits because either there's a price to pay in the end, that why influence always works with attention.
- Voice inside you
Can you get clarity on what kind of words or phrases you are using inside yourself? this psychology is mind-relieving because whenever you don't understand what's happening inside your head space, then it will be difficult to deal with external habits, that's why failure and success are just words, sometimes as individuals, we use wrong words inside and think we shall get what is good outside, the law of association doesn't work like that, good goes with good and bad always is followed by pain and sorrow, that's why every one of us has this voice inside which run out lives and it's your responsibility to check this and see if you are at the right direction or not with this voice inside you.
- Emotions needs
We associate our habits based on what we need that's why it's very important to analyze your emotional concerns and see if you can start finding a way to give these emotions any support to keep them active and relevant because what often builds our life pains is when we begin to ignore our emotional needs and try to please others, we associate our emotions based on those repetitive thoughts which run out.
- Pleasures
Some will inquire why pleasure is associated with certain behaviors and emotions, you should remember whenever we deal with our pleasures most of us don't pay attention to what has created this type of pleasure that's why we can end up associating pleasure with any type of events which have impressed our thoughts, pleasures is a symbol of openness that's why we only find some comfort if we dwell on certain pleasures.
- Fantasies
The ability to exercise your fantasies is based on what kind of thoughts you keep on repeating as an individual, we associate our habits according to what we imagine that's why some people can imagine bad things happening to them and in the end, this becomes a reality that's why you should check what you think about constantly.
- Environment
Some of our emotions are always based on the environment's influence, that's why in every environment you find yourself in there are these types of thoughts which are occupying your attention this helps us to associate what is happening.
Our goals are always associated with our thoughts that's why it's very painful to find yourself not accomplishing your goals this is mainly associated with your emotions, and again we should edge you to revisit this topic of goals, because we have covered this subject to help you, check our book called Goal's Toolbox Why Goals Fail And What To Do.
How to check who influences your health?
We are conditioned to follow certain people that's why if you can check deeper you can find out who is influencing your life or who has influenced what you are currently facing in your habits, especially when it comes to good health we can draw lessons from this following individuals:
- Leadership influence
- Role models
- Family
- Friends
- Celebrity
- Trend's
Why we don't care about our health?
Humankind whenever he doesn't care any longer this means he has lost his sense of purpose to live this life because oftentimes people who don't care about their health are ranked as abnormal that's why bad habits can present us as individuals who are not normal in some areas of our lives because we are slaves for those habits, we can check this factors which adds to this topic:
- Bad habits
- Sorrow
- Trauma
- Anger
- Influence
We should keep this question and analyze the answers because whenever you no longer care about your life you are approaching the graveside that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of checking our thoughts because people don't just begin with bad habits but they start with good habits as young children but fail to comply to this discipline that's why whenever they find themselves into the trap's of bad habits it's very challenging to abandon some of this habits because the change of this nature requires commitment and endurance of pain that's why it's very easy to become unhealthy, but it's a challenge to remain healthy because you should stick to the basics, and mankind sometimes has this tendency of jumping the basics that's why we can give up on our health unaware.
Why good health boots our thinking?
According to scientific research, whenever we are healthy we can think correctly, that's why good health is related to the good life, but what often boosts our thinking capabilities is these components:
- Concentration
- Commitments
- Discipline
- Focus
- Emotional balance
You can draw your own conclusions here, because you cannot compete with healthy individuals if you are not healthy that's why we have told you that good health is an asset, because you can outperform others only with just applying the basics, that's why when you pay attention to those components mentioned above you will realize not everyone today can concentrate, because we are sold out distractions by this big brands and this impact our mental capabilities, that's why you should not fall into this trap of paying too much attention to distractions whenever your goals and plans requires your full attention, concentration is power especially today because not everyone can utilize this strength, that's why to use it you should be committed to something of importance in your life and it's your choice to either commit on what's is valuable or what will increase your bills and problems, to adopt this type of life requires discipline and courage because if you are healthy it's not a challenge to use all those health components, that's why good health is an advantage because you can balance your emotions and even focus better than those who are trapped by bad habits.
Why we should be aware of our mental conditioning?
From childhood until your death you will be under certain patterns of mental conditioning which control your life, but because mankind is capable of breaking free from any bondage then you can be able to explore these factors which can assist you to understand how to deal with some mental conditioning especially pattern which doesn't serve you any good but increase pain and sorrow into your life:
- Breaking patterns
- Understanding who we are
- Analyze our problems
- Develop emotional intelligence
- Find the solution
This question is broader and even requires our extension to explore it via scientific approach and even personal observation because what is important about life is to analyze our lives, that's why our actions and habits can assist us to conduct this research on ourselves.
It's very challenging to break patterns of habits, because the chain of bad habits is very aggressive that's why most people are struggling to quit bad habits, but it is possible only if you can change your thoughts because that's where most individuals meet mechanical wreck about life and changing habits, they want to treat bad habits with soft gloves, and even accommodate the attention which comes from the bad habits, remember you cannot fix a leaking roof while is raining, most of people postpone to change their habits because they don't see the other side of being healthy that's why to break mental patterns which holds you back from achieving what you want requires aggressive attention and commitment because remember this is your life and you are responsible to make changes, no one will change your habits and if you don't take action, that's why we need to understand who we are as individuals, because this revelation can assist us to determine if we are what we are supposed to be as individuals.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 15 September 2021
How to manage your Happiness?
Happiness is like weather you need to understand how to familiarize yourself with certain things because as individuals we should be aware of our capacity to or responsibility for managing our happiness, we have listed a few techniques that can assist you to deal with this challenge:
- Keep a journal
- Find a happy place
- Read self-help books
- Get active
- Surround yourself with uplifting people
- Encourage positive talk
- Channel your creativity
- Choose happy emotions
- Appreciate the small moments
- Practice self-love
- Find a new interest that brings you happiness
- Practice mindfulness
Why we should empower ourselves with what makes us feel great?
Majority of us as individuals sometimes neglect to question why we spend our precious time doing things we don't want because this question is one of the healing processes as you will gather sufficient information about your life and be able to set up a new direction. After all, what's the purpose of life a worthy life if you don't do what's great about it, it's very important to understand this approach, many people realize later in life what they were supposed to do with their lives, that's why you should remember regrets are expensive that's why you should live your life according to your purpose and impact, check the following factors to analyze how important it is to keep on empowering ourselves with what makes us feel great:
- Being at our best
- Setting an example
- Doing it for yourself
- Health reasons
- Your worth
- Increasing confidence
- Minimize regrets
- Productivity
- Creativity
- Learning.
How to use your Imagination to be happy?
Mankind is powerful by nature, because from all animals is the only man who can think, that's why from this date you should question yourself about what kind of thoughts are always circulating inside your imagination because doing so can assist you with the following:
- Strength confidence
- Increase personal effectiveness in
- Concentration and productivity
- You become more attitude to opportunities that fit your goals and priorities
- Reduce stress and improve mental and physical well being
- You can heal emotional pain and discomfort to move forward with life
- You develop clarity and greater confidence on what to say yes or no
- Improves performance
Why Happiness is a growth process?
The fundamental process of analyzing your happiness is to check what kind of growth you want, because happiness is like a tree, and it depends on how you can manage your internal thoughts because we are always growing as individuals either we become happy or sad but growth is a natural principle which means we should check the following:
- Growth mindset
- Self-awareness and self-compassion
- Knowing thyself to achieve balance
Why being happy reduces stress?
The difference between happiness and unhappiness is only the pain and the peace between, majority of people have experienced happiness yet they still search for more happiness that's why it's very challenging for some people to stick to basics that can help them to remain happy, whenever we have stress we should remember this following advantages about happiness:
- Happiness protects your heart
- Happiness strengthens your immune system
- Happiness combats stress
- Happiness lengthens your life
Culture and Religion
Title description: 14 September 2021
Why does cultural knowledge give us the attitude to understand our marriages?
The advantage of learning about our cultures is to use supporting evidence from adults who have collected lessons before us and share those tips with us, because our attitudes about culture as young people is changing because we are now versed into the new technological advances, but this doesn't mean we don't know about culture, because as married people we somehow bring our different attitudes into one thing which is a marriage that's why with culture or religion we are guided on how to handle this type of attitudes so we can maintain the success of the marriage, and we should remember attitude is based on emotions that's why you have power to change it anytime, and with this lessons as partners we are conditioned to think about marriage as a lasting instrument which we are supposed to get ourselves into it that's why with lessons from wise adults you will channelled to respect your marriage and this can build you up when you approach your time to get married, because today the attitude about getting married is now changing because young people view marriage as a lifelong commitment which can somehow enslave them that's why we have different types of perspectives when it comes to marriage.
Please educate yourself on this topic mentioned below:
- The role of culture in marriage
- Education about the culture
Why do some people behave differently once married?
Mankind can change his behaviors once he is ready to commit to something which he values the most that is why as discussed we go through marital or cultural counseling before we get married, this lesson helps us to understand which category we are now into because it's very important as partner's to understand that marriage is guided by principle's that's why it's regarded as one of the important components of life because sometimes when we are married we can start changing our behaviors due the following factors:
- Openness
Sometimes partners can become open or bottle matters if they are married it is all the foundation of the relationship which is now converted into a marriage.
- Dependability
Changes in roles in a family can influence dependability differently because as discussed men are sometimes confronted with the masculinity powers to lead with family responsibilities, that's why whenever we are married they are several challenges or activities inside the family which can be coined as male or female tasks take for example the approach of sex-based on dominance and submission, you will realize how each partner will depend on this to achieve certain power balance, from history man required their wives to depend on them but today changes are happening man can depend on a woman too.
- Style
Simple observation can be taken, majority of married people have the way how they dress that's why whenever you get married you can find yourself changing how you dress up.
- Agreements
They are different types of agreements which come along with the marriage ranging from responsibilities, caring, finances and many other things, that's why if we are married our commitment are different from those who are not married, for example, you cannot go on late parties on continues weekends while leaving your partner behind.
• Emotional Intelligence
Marriage can test our emotions that's why we are guided by elders to remain humble and companionate to each other, and exercise our patience in what we are committed toward too.
Why arguments are necessary for the marriage?
The reality of life is that arguments are part of every marriage or relationship, yet we should educate ourselves about how to argue with respect because we can tell arguments are not easy because they can evoke certain emotions inside ourselves that's why we need to be careful about what type of arguments are dominating our marriage or relationship and why because this is several benefits of arguments if you handle them properly:
- Fighting can create a new depth of intimacy
- It increases trust
- Feeling better
- It improves the relationship
- Solve the grudges
- Arguing allows you to communicate your needs
- Prevents you from acting out of frustrations
- Helps to learn about each other
- Helps to detect the problem
- Grows the communication
- Prevent the relationship from breaking up if handled properly
Each of you should mark the list and see which option suits you whenever you start arguing, because what is important about arguments is to benefit the marriage not destroy it, we will revisit this topic and explore each component listed above.
Why bad attitude wreck marriages?
The question in its nature answer itself because a bad attitude never builds anything that's why you can learn how a bad attitude can affect your marriage because as discussed whenever partners meet each other they are humble and considerate but to further clarify this we should check why our partners have bad attitude along the stages of the marriage or relationship:
- Addictions to cheating
- Avoiding sex
- Not communicating
- Treat each other as enemies
- Avoiding each other
- Letting someone come between you and your partner
- Not fighting fair
- Forgetting the little things
- Using harsh words
- Having unrealistic expectations
- Criticism in front of families
- Withholding affection and physical intimacy
- Disrespect each other
This topic requires a sober mind because if you don't check these factors you will wonder what makes each of you discover you have adopted a bad attitude toward each other unaware that's why you should seek professional help if your attitude is out of control and again you as an individual you should check how did you develop this bad attitude because sometimes we can mirror our parents and act in this particular fashion into our marriages or relationships unaware, remember habits are transferable.
Why do we entertain bad Attitudes from our families as married people?
The ability to understand this topic is to check the foundation of your marriage or relationship because we can reflect on what we have tolerated from our partners, because bad attitude can be discovered as soon as possible the problem is that most partners struggle to communicate about this type of concerns whenever they start to see any red flags about bad attitude taking place, that's why there's no point to get yourself into a marriage or relationship if you won't be willing to accept mistakes and learn, we have listed few factors which add up to this normality of tolerating bad attitude from our partners:
- We give too much attention to opinions
- Losing control of our decision
- Compromise our needs
- Boundaries are ignored
- Unnoticed sabotage or guilt trap
- Secrets to unmask
- Isolation
- Violation of privacy
- Deflect responsibilities
- Insecurities
- Unmanageable arguments
- Conflicting values
- Fighting for wrong things
We suggest you study these factors referencing from your personal life because we would expand this topic so to better be ready.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 13 September 2021
Why married people cheat?
They various analyses on this topic of why married people end up cheating but as advised in this segment we don't advocate for cheating and it is a choice, not a mistake to cheat, we have listed reasons which cheaters give after caught to be cheating:
- Unhappiness
- Dissatisfaction
- Feeling unappreciated
- Lack of commitment
- Boredom
- Body image or age
- Revenge
- Internet
- Poor boundaries
- Opportunity: absence of other
There is no need to justify whenever it comes to cheating, because in the end what you are inviting is only trouble and chaos, that's why if you can check there's no happiness in cheating just only temporary relief of certain emotions, that's why if you relate your cheating based on how unhappy you are then you are at fault because there's no one who can make you happy beside you that's why we have emphasized the importance of learning about your choices because they create your life, again if you are not satisfied with whatever that's happening inside your relationship or marriage it's very important to address your dissatisfaction with your partner, because sometimes as partners we like to assume that's why we find ourselves cheating as if the problem inside our relationship or marriage will be fixed, mankind by nature requires attention that's why sometimes we feel unworthy if we are not appreciated by our partners but this doesn't mean you should cheat.
How to know if your partner is cheating?
Mankind cannot hide his actions that's why we can know if something is not going well but because we should work with facts, not assumptions whenever we want to find the truth if our partner is cheating we can start checking the following factors:
- Change of schedule without any explanation
- Suddenly unreachable
- Increase or decrease of libido
- Change of friendship
- Phone habits changes
- Change of appearance
- Not around as usual
- Their stories don't add up
- Unable to disclose the details of their days anymore
- They accuse you of cheating
- Past issues are ignored
- Get defensive
Reasons have been given, yet cheaters are still accused and caught that's why we advise you to review the list based on evidence because we should caution you to stop assuming whenever it comes to investigating your partner about cheating because this can destroy your marriage or relationship that's why you should act according to facts, we still recommend you to talk with your partner about what your concerns are all about and even table your assumptions if possible because checking the list mentioned above you will realize how much you don't know about tracing a cheater but this is not your job because honesty should rule relationship or marriage.
What makes married people give excuses after cheating?
We as human beings have this tendency of denial when we are caught doing something wrong, that's why many families have been destroyed by cheating because one partner failed to accept his wrongdoings and this ended up as a revenge cycle, check these excuses which can be given by married people after they are caught cheating:
- Deny cheating
- Questioning the partner's mental ability
- We are just friends
- The affair has ended
- It just happened once
- It was just a fling and didn't mean anything
- All men cheat
- I was thinking about you the entire time
- Too drunk to remember
- Playing the sympathy card: victim mentality
As pointed out above excuses are only important whenever they suit you that's why looking at the facts mentioned above you can educate yourself about why cheating is all about giving excuses because it's very easy to get away with this type of activity but when the time arrives you will regret what you have done that's why at the onset we have talked about the importance for honesty as individuals yet this remains something else because our societies have normalized cheating and even started to accept this activity and some treat this as a way to survive but we should not condone such behaviors because at the end cheating has immersed dire consequences for many people that's why it's all up to you how you view this topic and understand it.
Why married people never leave their families after cheating?
According to some research married people have this tendency of staying in their marriage even though there's cheating, but most married people it's very hard for to leave their families for cheating that's why to some this activity is treated as a relief process but once their worries are cleared many married people can return to their families without hesitation, check this factors which justify this approach:
- Home is the best place
- He just looking for a break
- Thought to find the answer about life in an affair but hasn't yet
- Love his wife or husband
- No courage to change his life completely
- Strong chains like children and a mortgage
- Avoid getting into the pain of divorce
- Realize the mistakes of having an affair
- Image problem
- Wives enable them
There's nothing more important than a family that's why the majority of married people can cheat but it's very challenging to leave their families, because learning from the above-mentioned reasons, you will realize sometimes a partner can make mistakes but when it comes to family these partners are united by something stronger that's why you can ask any side chick, about any married individuals, they will tell you about how protective these individuals can be when it comes to talking about their family affairs unless they are no longer interested in to that marriage then they can criticize their partner, but remember a family is a permanent thing that's why it's challenging to leave them.
Why cheating should be avoided by married or those who are not married?
Cheating is a habit and we should remember how simple it is to cheat but how hard or dangerous it can be in your life sometimes we should check the disadvantages which come along with cheating:
- Infidelity betrayal causes anxiety and depression
- Relationship misery: break out
- Builds revenge cycle
- Loss of trust
- Reputation damage
- Divorce and separation
- Uncertainty and fear
Cheating is like a slow poison, you can take it bit by bit that's why sometimes partners can cheat uncaught but when the time arrives all will be revealed that's why any poison cannot kill you immediately it will require some time to get into your system and they perform it's own function, with cheating there's is time for pain that's why we advise you to stay away from it because is just a waste of your time and energy that's why all you benefit from it is only problems and responsibilities to keep on lying to your partner.
Why married partners don't enjoy cheating?
Remember practicing cheating is a way of giving up on your vows, that's why it's very challenging to find healthy partners who can say they enjoy cheating but because how you value your marriage comes back to how you love each other that's why partner's can cheat for the following reasons just to get that temporary escape :
- Revenge or anger
- Failing out of love
- Situational factors and opportunity
- Commitment issues
- Unmet needs
- Sexual desire changes
- Wanting variety
- Low self-esteem
Any normal individual cannot enjoy a poison, that's all about cheating it's challenging because you should adjust your behaviors so you won't get caught it's like a thief all he will do is hide so he won't get into trouble of beings arrested, but what we like about cheating is that it will arrest you will the truth and guilty even worse with regrets and no one will rescue you because whenever you took the poison you where alone and hiding your track's that's why it's very rare to find individuals who enjoy cheating because mankind by nature is order and discipline is what man is all about that's why where there's is the chaos we don't enjoy anything but find ourselves losing hope and even blaming why we first love our partner because Love can trap us as individuals.
Startup Business
Title description: 12 September 2021
What kind of books should Entrepreneurs Read?
This question has various answers because entrepreneurship is a process of continuous learning, that's why you should begin to understand and check what kind of business are you working on, because books are available, especially those which can fit your type of business you have chosen, but it's very important to check the following aspects about books:- Types
- Author's
- Experience
- Success stories
- Price
- Relevance
- History
- Language
- Availability
- Reference
These 10 aspects can help you to start looking at this topic with broader eyes, because take, for example, the language which is used in the book, most entrepreneurs don't check this aspect, because someone has recommended the book it doesn't mean you will understand it because books have this type of language stages: beginners, intermediate and expert, you should understand your category as an entrepreneur because technical books require the foundation of the beginner's knowledge that's why search engines such Google can recommend books but you should check the language because that's where most entrepreneurs end up becoming confused about reading books because the purpose of your learning is to understand not to get confused that's why it's very important to analyze those 10 aspects when searching for the books you should read.
Why Entrepreneurs are readers?
Reading as an entrepreneur has different types of benefits because to note down this lesson which says entrepreneurship is a continuous learning process, then you will understand this topic even better by checking the following factors:
- Research
How will you manage to achieve and keep the business if you don't read? this question should help you shit this mindset of skipping the basics because whenever we research we become informed about our startup business that's why the entrance of any startup business is to conduct research and reading about how other businesses conduct their research can assist you to get ahead with your startup business.
- Understanding
Reading has the advantage of helping us to understand what we struggle with, that's why in the business world they are processes and techniques which require you to read about them so you can apply them in your day-to-day business. Understanding is power and it builds our skills that's why reading can assist us to understand.
- Collaboration
Whenever we read we are collecting memory, that's why reading can help us collaborate with others about what we have read.
- Connecting dots
The memory we collect, whenever we read, can assist us to connect dots in our business because creativity can be sharpened by what we read and applied thereafter.
- Learning
Entrepreneurs learn from taking action that's why reading is a tool that can assist you to analyse your actions and even improve your techniques of performing your actions.
- Experience
Books are written to help you understand how others have succeeded and even share their experience with you that's why reading can assist you to know about this type of experience which assisted these individuals to succeed.
- Skills
We collect skills whenever we keep reading about the business because several challenges and solutions can be documented in books and even how to apply those skills, that's why reading as an entrepreneur is a must because you can build domain expertise that can make you competitive in the market.
- Tactics
Books give you these tactics for free all you have to do is to analyze which suitable technique is right for your startup business and start to apply it.
- Improvements
Whenever we read we are improving our vocabulary and comprehension, and you should check this approach once you start reading, you will know what others don't know.
- Creativity
To improve your chances to succeed in business, you should understand how to use creativity, and with books, you can gain knowledge about how some entrepreneurs use creativity to leverage their businesses.
Why books are limited?
Books are limited especially whenever you read them and keep on failing to transfer the lessons into your startup business, majority of entrepreneurs don't know how to read like experts, that's why to understand this if you read books you should look at the lesson, not the book pages because by nature pages are limited by lessons in business are endless that's why reading helps you to deal with what is limiting your creativity and even assist you to deal with certain risks which can destroy your startup business, limitations can block our hopes that's why you should change your perspective about seeing books as limited whenever the word limitation is just the possibility of how you understand what you have read.
Why you should apply what you have learned?
It's very challenging to explore this topic because it goes unnoticed and is something that affects the majority of entrepreneurs, to apply what you have learned you should try the following:
- Recognize the payoffs of what you usually do - benefits
- Acknowledge what you lose by doing what you always do - consequences
- Take every opportunity to practice and take pressure off - consistency
- Understand the tasks - relevance
- Track your progress - checklist
Can reading give you a competitive advantage?
Reading gives you a competitive advantage, especially on the following:
• Strategic significance
- You can analyze your business operations and improve them with what you have learned.
- Direction and pace of change
- Industry structure
- Enhancing differentiation
- You can find answers to your business problems
- Opens new opportunities
- Helps you make informed choices
- Brings out your creativity.
Career and Work
Title description: 11 September 2021
Why new careers can influence new dating?
We should observe the new economy and how dating work's as individuals, because since the challenges of covid-19 pandemic arrived many relationships and marriages are failing apart but what is important here is to check why most people whenever they progress with new careers they have this tendency of dating various people, the fact of the matter here is this, some individuals struggle with confidence, so whenever they have material possessions they can hide under it that's why it's becoming a challenge for many young people to find balance on this subject because your career is booming and still you want to begin and find someone who you can spend your life with, this approach is not easy because sometimes people can date you because you have this type of material possessions and always be aware about how money works in this new modern relationships, because to some people it's very hard to date whenever they are broke that's why your career can open this opportunity to get more dates but it all comes back to your values and morales as an individual especially looking at what you want on a relationship. Career titles can influence others to find you attractive when you introduce yourself.
Why do some people never achieve dating even though they're successful?
Majority of people whenever they have progressed to new careers they have this need to get ahead and seek to date new people, but we should be aware about this factors, because as individuals we don't have the same approach about the relationship, some people are looking for love and others are searching for fun that's why many young people can find themselves trapped into this two scenarios mentioned above, because progress can add options, but it all depends who is controlling it , especially looking at the type of habits you have as an individual, to date new people is not an option for everyone that's why we should reflect back to our values to gain information of what we want as individuals, because dating has its own consequences and benefits to us as people that's why the ability to analyze what you want can assist you and the career you are working at , because as discussed today majority of people are only concern about material possessions which is correct but remember not everyone can get this types of assets or liabilities that's why you should check what kind of a partner you want, new beginnings always gives us the advantage to exercise our options that's why some people can look for new dates because they are progressing at the different levels which affords them this opportunity to seek this new dates, but remember life is based on choices whether you have money or not, you still have the option to choose what you want.
Why do people seek new dates once they are into new careers?
It's very unfortunate how many people try to buy love with money, this lessons should take you back to your life experience, because you should check what we are talking about here , because if money was an entrance to buy love many people would have afford to pay for Love, we have been brainwashed to think about success as a way to get us love , that's why in true nature people don't love your material possessions, but they fall in love with your behaviours, ranging from humor, care , peace, attitude, happiness, honesty, trust, we can mention many more aspects which helps people to love you, but because today we have this tendency to think that some other people to love us we should advertise our material possessions to them, this can be very important to get the attention of others but when it comes to love whether you are successful or not love doesn't discriminate, if someone loves you it will show up, that's why young people are struggling to find the right partners before they want to buy people with material possessions, check how many relationships or marriages have fallen apart since this covid-19 pandemic, it shows how important you should check what has united you as partners because material possessions can go at any time but love always remains.
Why dating the wrong people can impact your career?
They are different types of reasons why dating the wrong people is dangerous to our careers because they can do the following:
- Tarnish our names
- Increase our stress
- Put our lives at risk
- Waste our time
- Destroy our confidence to date again
Dating is a possibilities game, because to get the right partner there's a scientific theory on this subject but choosing a partner is a challenging subject because you should be able to get sufficient information about what you want and be willing to find the matching partner, but this approach can take time because to study human beings is a challenge that's why you should look at those factors listed above which can help us to check if we are dating a wrong partner.
Why our careers are somehow attached to our feelings?
The concept of career is something you should explore because, as individuals, we spend 20 to 40 % of our lives on our careers either our dreams or failures, that's why is very challenging to open this type of talk because our careers build us as individuals, that's why our feelings are attached to our careers as individuals, remember we spend too much time at school and universities building our careers that's why it's becoming very challenging today to see how college degree's some are now becoming obsolete due to this new technological advances, and again our feelings can drive us insane especially if we have studied for something but struggle to find the job, that's why we feel pain whenever we can't progress in life.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 10 September 2021
Can saving money lead to success?
We should look at this topic with open mind, because the word saving can be interpreted based on what kind of knowledge you have, whenever we look at saving as individuals either way we can think of budget or investments, that's why the word saving can be broader especially if we begin to use those two term's, success is a process, but we are obligated to check which type of savings can suit our goals or plans, because they are concrete reasons why saving is linked to success, especially if you can be able to multiply your savings to increase your income, we as individuals we can save money for different reasons that's why our success when it comes to money boils down to what kind of information and knowledge when have on this subject of saving, because saving on its own nature is a safety component that's why it always gives us the possibilities to become successful if we know what we want to do with our savings, but you should remember what you save only leads you to success if it aligns with your plans or goals.
Why saving money is power?
Majority of us as individuals have heard about the importance of savings but only a few people can utilize this type of knowledge because saving money is a habit, we have people who can't save money due to bad habits which control them, that's why the new normal covid-19 pandemic has open eyes to many people about reviewing their streams of income because savings are very important to actively help us act during this trying times, that's why those who have already mastered the strategy of saving use this advantage to keep their lives protected, but there are few factors which make savings to have power let's check the following:
- Safety options
- Emergency backup
There is power in savings because not everyone can save money that's why you should get an education in this type of subject so you can protect your savings and enjoy your earnings.
Why do we fail to save money?
Humankind is liable for his actions we fail to save money due to these reasons:
- We don't have the insurance
- We don't plan short and long-term goals
- Paying our college debts with only one stream of income which is our salary
- Asking advice from the wrong people
- We never studied how to be financially literate
- Buying products to please others
- We use spending as a stress reliever
- We spend more than we earn
- We don't live within our means
- We have high credit card debts
- Your car is too expensive
- You don't have a budget
- You pay too much for your smartphones
- You treat your credit card as income so and so has debt, so it's fine if you do too
- Lending money to family members
- You don't have enough money.
- You don't have an emergency fund
- You misuse small money
- You think you will have time to save later
- You confuse wants with needs
How to understand your savings?
According to some financial experts we should look at how we spend money but it's very important to understand the following components which can assist us to gain knowledge about our savings:
- Repayment options
- Lending
- Business
- Salary type
- Investments type
- Estimated monthly spend/savings.
- Monthly on-demand spend
- Understanding calculation
- Linked accounts
- Saving plan terms
Can our savings multiple our success?
Savings can help us to multiply our income once we understand the importance of diversification as individuals because success is a process of mastering this game of numbers and where you put your money but let's explore the advantages of savings :
- Accrued interest
- Savings are insured
- Your funds are readily available
- Your money is kept safe
- You can open the account with little money
- Savings provide automated bill payment
- Protects accounts from overdrafts.
Health and Life
Title description: 09 September 2021
The benefits of thinking about health?
The mindset is like a garden it depends on what you plant on it, why the majority of individuals are conditioned to think of health as a physical component alone, that's why thinking of this nature puts us into this process of failing to understand our health, especially internal health, we are struggling as human beings sometimes because of our thoughts, that's why to think about health is an advantage because our mindset function with commands and affirmations, that's why the greatest wise man said a long time ago, as you think so you become, but how many people end up struggling to think about their health because they feel ashamed to at least try this approach? They are scientifically proven this because our mindset is capable of creating our realities, that's why internal health is something you should check out because it affects our lives unaware, note this down, people mostly struggle with their thoughts, but learning to list benefit which comes along with thinking about health has a greater impact to your general well being because whenever the mind begins to think based on good even the physical appearance changes.
Why we don't have confidence in our health?
Mankind is conditioned as discussed but our confidence on health is something we should look at because as children sometimes we are raised from families which don't understand how to influence us to see good health inside ourselves but they do the opposite by shaming us and calling us with names, majority of people their confidence is damaged from their childhood upbringing that's why it's very challenging to explore your new self image when you are old because memories of this nature can take time to get removed from the subconscious mind, we lack confidence on our health because we have thoughts which regulates this approach telling us we are not worth for any type of good health that's why sometimes people they can understand the basics of health but what often happens they're trapped by this internal dialogue inside their head space because confidence about health requires change of habits and as we all know habits are challenging especially bad ones but confidence remains and element of health because whenever we don't feel confident we should check what's happening inside our mind.
Why we are always troubled by unhealthy thoughts?
Thoughts are like clouds, we should teach ourselves how to adapt to the direction and information which comes along, because whenever any thoughts enters our mindset especially those thoughts which trouble us, we as individuals we have but to get alert about this situation, that's why we should be careful about our awareness, because we can be aware about what is bothering us but keep on ignoring it, that's why as discussed internal dialogue should be checked because it has power to influence our state of mind that's why whenever we talk to ourselves we should check the words we are using because sometimes we are the creator's of our own misery that's why we are frequently troubled by our own thoughts because we don't check what's happening inside our imagination and start to think accurately, we neglect this space and think that bad habits will just leave when time arrives, we should remember any garden requires maintenance that's why it's very important to check what can you do with your thoughts which troubles you and even prevent you from concentrating on your plans or goals.
Why we should think more about what we want?
According to various researches conclusions have been collected based on finding out why we should think constantly about what we want because this type of thinking is like a direction, you wouldn't want to use any map which doesn't get you into your selected destination, that's why it's very important to start analyzing what kind of thinking you frequently use because to discover this factor you can change your life, thinking of what we want is an advantage because we can start to focus on our goals and at the end what's the purpose of filling out our mindset with things we don't want? there's no benefit in that particular activity because what we get from thinking of things we don't want is only worry and confusion that's why we have to check what exactly are we placing our attention into especially those repetitive activities we constantly take without any hesitation, our routine create our realities.
How to check your health thoughts?
The ability to check your thoughts can sound basic but it's very technical because not everyone can understand this type of research, because we are not used to finding ourselves checking this type of situation in our lives, health is a requirement for helping you to enjoy your limited time in this earth, that's why you won't afford to waste your precious time on negative thoughts whenever you can change your thoughts and see what kind of good health you can start with, time is very important when it comes to checking our health thoughts because remember our thoughts are like a garden we still have responsibilities to choose what we want inside our gardens that's why whenever we seek good health our habits should change because what's good can require basic maintenance.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 08 September 2021
Can Happiness increase our sex Powers?
Happiness is an advantage, because we can evoke several emotions especially once we are happy, when it comes to sex we have to look at this distinctive factor's, partners who often have sex are based on two phases, either happy or unhappy, and this can teach us to understand what kind of power will be used for each type of sex used by those partners, because sexual performance is critical but is has different types of elements which can influence it to evoke this power of sex , but remember happiness is a choice and sex is an activity which we use to connect our emotions, that's why whenever partners are happy , this can assist them to have a better chance to engage into good sex if possible , because whenever we have sex while being happy even the performance is not the same that's why we suggest you look into this example and clarify which category really ignite your sexual powers because as individuals we can have different views on this subject that's why our sexual powers are located inside our sub conscious mind and even based on our health status.
Why do we feel good if we are happily sexual satisfied?
Mankind is conditioned to think based on good and bad that's why some relationships are mainly controlled or driven by satisfaction, that's why we have discussed this subject, whereby we have caution you to stop relying on your partner to satisfy you, because this kind of thinking is based on attachment and if you want to enjoy good sex you should withdraw from attachment, why because whenever we are attached we have already give up our powers that's why sex is capable of changing our state of mind and even our habits, but we remain under the control to think independently and take full responsibility towards our satisfaction, because whenever you don't understand why most partners struggle to satisfy each other, is because satisfaction is a thought and you are in control of it that's why as partners we should talk about what satisfy us and what creates that particular satisfaction because happiness in marriage or relationship is safeguarded by open communication that's why to understand why you are not satisfied about your sex you should look inside yourself and check what kind of mental conditioning you have because sex is based on two categories, internal and physical, that's why we should check what is making us happy whenever we explore this two categories, because physical sex doesn't last long but internal sex is based on long term because the mindset should be evoked that's why many partners should check this factors as well as seek professional help to explore this subject of sex.
Why happiness is power in any relationship or marriage?
Mankind is made by his thoughts and limitations, happiness can open possibilities in any relationship especially if all partners are aware of what is happiness to them, because whenever we take full responsibility to make sure we analyze our thoughts and keep our focus on what we want then happiness won't be an issue because relationships which are championed by this power called happiness have this advantages:
- Forgiveness
- Peace
- Love
- Support
- Growth
- Good health
- Unity
- Care
- Problem-solving
- Trust
It can be a challenge to connect all those components into your life but it's all possible especially if you can begin to commit to these lessons because happiness can save our lives and marriages, and this should not be taken for granted because whenever we are unhappy and we never talk about this factors which impact us we end up becoming miserable and this can affect some areas of our relationships that's why happiness is a choice but you should not compromise your happiness to suit your partner's misery that's why each partner should be aware of how he or she is liable for the happiness of any choice because this advantage of being happy can be ruined by your partner if he or she is unhappy, remember misery is contagious.
What's the relationship between sex and happiness?
The fundamental truth we should look at as partners or married people is how do we feel about our sex life as individuals, because we never take time to explore this topic in this category, that's why as we are the students of our own bodies, we have to reflect back at what kind of results are we getting from our sex drive or outcomes, because there's a connection between sex and happiness, that's why we have to dig deep and analyse is there any connection we can detect as partners to justify that once we have sex we become happy , because mankind is capable of creating his own thoughts to fit his desires that's why whenever scientific approach can be included into this talk you will understand how happiness is connected to good sex but as we are learning about this factors we should remember how happiness is owned by each individual that's why some people can find temporary happiness whenever they engage into sex and some it can be a solid foundation, whereby sex makes them happy , that's why it's very important to analyse this topic and even seek professional help to accelerate your learning because if your partner has attached his happiness to sex and whenever things goes bad then the relationship will have problems especially satisfaction issues.
Why unhappy people struggle to enjoy Sex?
Unhappy people can struggle to enjoy sex because their state of mind is at fault that's why we should not mix this two scenarios, happy and unhappy, because as individuals we behave differently whenever we are into each of this state of mind especially whenever we are unhappy we sometimes withdraw our attention on sex because it's very challenging to concentrate on sex especially if you have something which is bothering you that's why we have suggested you and your partner keep on talking about this subject of sex and happiness because whenever you struggle to understand why you are having sex just to please your partner then you are damaging your self image because happiness is a state of mind and where we just do things because we want to please others we are compromising our lives into danger, we have observed this normality whereby partner's think that sex will heal their misery, remember sex is an activity, you should take this practical truth into consideration because if sex was capable to heal our misery the world wouldn't have miserable people in this numbers, because unhappiness is a thought, and if you struggle to deal with that particular thought, no amount of sex can help you to find the solution, we should look at this because sometimes partners give too responsibilities to sex just to hide their own misery and confusions.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 07 September 2021 ,Marriage and culture
The cultural marriage power's
Cultural powers have diverse collective strength , looking back to our history as mankind we have been ruled by culture and religion to this date, we have already take a holistic approach on this subject because marriage is a union, but this type of united efforts is something which we should start looking at, because cultural marriages are dominated by rules which favours man more than woman, let's take for example the topic of submission, woman are often taught to become submissive, and man to become dominant, this dates back to our evolutionary biology, but what often confuse or requires clarity is why this nature is always prevail either we are taught or not , because culture is power and to use it you are supposed to follow certain standards and practices, that's why in cultural terms some man have power to act out of rule yet being supported as man, recently on our book called The Power of Single Woman, we have listed few examples which satisfy this truth, when a young man impregnates a girl it's not an issue for most people to blame the young man but the whole blame will be send to the girl, this shows how masculinity powers are ruling our communities, we are subjected to this culture unaware, that's why this type of man mentioned here once they begin to understand and attain cultural powers they end up becoming authority on their own woman that's why we should look at how cultural marriages function because there's more to learn from that particular angel, marriages can vary but the fact is that they are ruled by a specific domain of power either religion or culture that's why this talk is broader and we shall keep on revist this subject, cultural marriages have power because we are mentally conditioned to follow culture that's why today it's becoming very hard for us as the community to deal with abuse because power is used by some individuals who cannot understand it and they end up costing damage into the society and families.
Why submission is always practiced by the woman?
As we learn from what is mentioned above, this subject of submission dates back to our evolutionary biology, it's very important to understand this approach because you wont be confused, but you will be entourage and enlightened to strengthen your knowledge about this factors which are natural to us as human beings, to further investigate this subject we should begin to review how different man and woman they are and with those distinctive feature we can start to analyse why woman are submissive, this comes back to power, because if you can check man have masculinity powers and abilities to kill that's why woman always their cannot be man and this is part of biology that's why as discussed we are interpreting this subject based on biology and woman it's their nature to submit themselves to man but this is not a gate approach to abuse them or enslave them but to appreciate that's yin and yang are united, and this shows how important both spouse's can be , because submission is not a rule but a symbol of nature that's why we cannot force someone to love us and but we can know if someone doesn't love us, we have covered this subject of satisfaction because it affects how submission function, sometimes partners can submit themselves differently that's why as discussed we are going to review and extend this topic.
Why do we use Culture in our marriage?
We have two kinds of marriages
- Religious marriage
- Cultural marriage
We are united to this system once we begin to marry because marriage is a long-term commitment that's why you should choose which version is suitable for you because along the stages of the marriage they will be rules which govern the union that's why in some communities marriage's can vary based on believes that's why we are always linking the marriage to its type once we have understood the belief the couple's, and this linking is a law because you have to fall into one of the mentioned categories to understand which kind of standards or rules will be followed and why because today marriages are evolving but this versions still stands as a requirement to choose which category suits you.
Why do we use Culture in our marriage?
Observing from the community standpoint, majority of partners some use culture as a system to keep their family names active, and cultural marriages are somehow practiced frequently here is Africa because as you can check , culture for many African people is a foundation of their believes and this dates back to our history as individuals, because our forefathers here in Africa used cultural marriages as a token to establish new families and communities that's why this talk should at least take you back and reflect about your identity as an individual, because we use culture for different reasons and it's upon each individual choices to either use cultural marriage or not because today we live in a new world of diverse options, that's why in some parts of the communities whenever partners marry they can used cultural and religious version at the same time and this is often displayed on their attires they use on their ceremonies, this subject is broader because choices can help us to guide our lives.
How to study your marriage Culture or Religious union?
The ability to exercise this type of study is very important because it can help both spouse's to achieve and understand which kind of rules or oppression they should do away with them, because as indicated we are mentally conditioned from our families that's why this can affect how we run our marriages as partners, because to study your marriage especially what kind of standards and practices are used , this requires collective strength from both partners, because sometimes lessons of this nature can impact the marriage that's why today partners are required to attend marriage counseling because how you understand marriage requires continues learning, and adjustments, it takes time to analyse this fact's but it's worth checking out how they can assist your marriage, and keep in mind that your are all liable to make your marriage a success and this requires lessons such as this one's ,you should understand what is leading your marriage is it culture or religion or you used both of them because clarity on this subject can assist each partner to understand what controls your marriage.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 06 September 2021
Why sometimes married couples feel lonely while even when their partners are available?
Marriage cannot solve loneliness, that's something we want all of you to keep in mind, because if as individuals we get into marriage to try to remove loneliness them we are inviting more problems, because by nature loneliness is a thought and no one can come and remove that particular thought , it's your own responsibility to make sure you understand that you are liable for your loneliness, because certain things in life can add to our loneliness that's why we edge you to look inside yourself and check what has created your loneliness and how can you solve this situation, because loneliness if it's not properly managed can lead to insecurities and even some toxic behaviours into the marriage, they are different types of spouse's who have cheated and give reason that they felt lonely, as discussed on this segment we don't advocate for cheating, this is a platform of honesty, so whenever you feel this edge of loneliness and fail to address it then you should require professional help because as partner's you should discuss this matters of loneliness, and see how it affects your marriage and what kind of solution you can come up with , because your mental state it's very important when it comes to loneliness because some people enter the marriage while being lonely and they will try to address this problem via topics such as satisfaction and commitments, that's why we should not take this subject for granted because it affects majority of people, marriage cannot makes us lonely we as individuals we make ourselves lonely by not paying attention to what's happening inside our imagination that's why we have talked about the importance of not feeling isolated as partners because this can create loneliness and we advice partners to talk about this matter, they are external reason which can makes us feeling lonely such as the following :
- Disappointments
- Empty promises
- Cheating
- Abuse
- Not caring
- Failure
- Comparison
- Financial problems
- Sickness
- Secrets
Loneliness is like a balloon, either you pump it or deflate it but this doesn't mean loneliness should not exist we are saying partners should be aware of which type of loneliness they are experiencing either internal or external loneliness.
How to understand your loneliness as couples?
Majority of us as individuals don't understand loneliness, we sometimes push back when this happens, because we are taught to view loneliness as a symbol of lacking something that's why when we get lonely we can either try to indulge in several elements of pleasures which can ease this loneliness, but how many people end up succeeding on this, we end up becoming addict's because we don't want to understand what's happening inside our imagination, we feel that being lonely is something bad that's why many marriages have been destroyed by this topic of loneliness because as noted loneliness is a like balloon it depends how you use it because at the end loneliness has its consequences and benefits that's why as discussed we have to be aware of what type of loneliness are we experiencing, we have to check the following if we want to understand our loneliness :
- What is the solution to this loneliness?
- When can I talk with my partner about this loneliness?
- How did I know about this loneliness?
- Why is this loneliness important?
- Where does this loneliness come from?
To understand what makes us lonely, we should not be afraid to answer those questions, because to improve our chances to deal with our loneliness require us to look at our image and start to learn from there, because this type of education is very important as it can relieve more problems and encourage support from each partner because mankind has been lonely since that's why love exists to unite us to deal with loneliness.
What's the power of loneliness and challenges in any relationship?
Humankind has absolute powers, and loneliness is another component of power, because whenever are lonely we have different types of questions which we ask ourselves that's why it's very rare to find someone who is experiencing loneliness but who doesn't ask questions, because as you can note , loneliness is an element of question, because whenever we are lonely we can find ourselves filing our mindset with questions and assumptions that's why idleness is dangerous because the opportunity to think independently and accurately requires full attention to thy self, because loneliness is a process of inquiry that's why many people can end their lives due to loneliness, and again with the power of loneliness curiosity is managed because you can discover what is bothering you and what can you do and this power is always available because to remain lonely is a choice because you have the capacity to wipe out any kind of loneliness which is distracting you as an individual, but because our communities and families some don't know about this subject of loneliness they end up blackmailing people who are lonely as lacking something that's why we should understand what is the difference between a single person and a married person, because loneliness doesn't care about this titles that's why being single doesn't mean your are lonely we should move away from this myth because it always creates problems to find out and look into this subject of loneliness with creative thinking.
Why we hate being lonely?
The pain that comes with loneliness is not easy for many people people loneliness is a way to isolate us as individuals, that's why being married can isolate you from those who are not married, loneliness is challenging because we can experienced it differently that's why our loneliness are only common with one thing, which is the inquiry we are exploring, because as individuals whenever we are lonely we can take different approach to run away from what we are feeling that's why to be lonely many people can feel as though your are helpless and desperate that's why they can suggest temporary solution to ease your loneliness, and it's very important to check what kind of pain comes with your loneliness because this can destroy your life, we feel pain whenever we are lonely because we are mentally conditioned to think of loneliness as something painful that's why it's very challenging to celebrate loneliness, we view it as something bad, we hate being lonely because we don't like to be judged by others that's why it's very painful to find out that some people make fun of your loneliness, because this can damage your self confidence and even lead you to give in life, that's why we should not take loneliness for granted.
Can loneliness destroy our marriages or relationships?
Yes, loneliness can destroy our marriage or relationships due to the following:
- Suicidal thoughts
- Giving up thoughts
- Secrets
- No, where to go
- Assumptions
- Unsatisfactory
- Toxic behaviors
- Insecurities
- Cheating
- Blame
Mankind is ever lonely especially if he fails to pay attention to his thought because as discussed we should remember that loneliness is a thought and as individuals, we have the power to choose what type of thoughts we can get into our imagination that's why to pick some observation many marriages end up failing because partners are lonely inside themselves and they end up becoming miserable to each other as they don't know what makes them be married but lonely, your mind is an engine of all possibilities that's why loneliness is inside the mind, and taking care of your minds as partners can assist your marriage to succeed because those 10 factors we have mentioned above they can determine the growth or the ingredients of the failure you are experiencing as partners.
Startup Business
Title description: 05 September 2021, Startup investment
Why business education matters for Your Start-up Business?
The are several factors or reasons which can help us to justify why businsess education is key , because today we are living in the 21st century, education has now become a requirement to perform certain duties or services as an individual, it's even worse for startup businesses because if your want to achieve certain business horizons you should be educated especially on the business industry to have choosen, education plays a vital role to assist the startup business to analyse and come up with creativity ways to enter the market, on our last book called Disruptive Startup, we have talked about this topic and how it affects the entire startup, business majority of startup businesses are developed by entrepreneurs who don't have domain expertise that's why their startup business cannot succeed, education in business is one of the greatest assets to have because it elevate your startup business to become competitive and be able to keep the business going on, the type of education you have is an advantage of you can implement it and keep on improving it because if your are not educated you will be removed very easy by some brands in the market you are operating on.
Why Entrepreneurs should get a specific business education?
Majority of entrepreneurs they fall into this category of generalists, because they don't specialize and this is a fact because when it comes to this type of education it depends which type of school or associates you are cycling with, because many startup business don't pay attention into specialization, they want to be like other brands, that's why profit for this type of businesses is a challenge, because offering the same product which has majority of competition, and only to find out the service offered is not adding or addressing any key customer pain points then this approach leads the startup business to be called generalists, but when it comes to those who specialize they only focus on key problems which requires their solution, that's why to specialize in other educational streams can take time because you have to master your art before you can be titled as a specialist, today what makes other startup business to succeed is the level of specialization which comes from their teams and investors that's why you should pick one specific area which you can specialize on.
Why education helps your business?
The difference between those who are educated and others who are not is the information they have, and they are concrete reasons why business education can help the startup business to succeed let's check the following factors :
- Networking
- Opportunity advantage
- Calculated risk's
- Sound decision making
- Informed research
- Learning from the best
- Creativity approach
- Comprehension
- Improved experience
- Advance skills
We should review this subject because it's very important to understand how education matters because you won't succeed if you don't pay attention to those factors mentioned above, this matter of education is mainly focused on those startup businesses that want to create sustainable businesses who can last and keep on producing profit because today we are into the new economy, the fourth industrial revolution is taking over the markets that are why how you approach this subject will help you to analyze why it's very important to understand how to specialize in your niche market.
What are the educational disadvantages for your Start-up Business?
According to what we have already proposed, this approach of specialization in your startup business can have these problems :
- Specialization is costly
We have mentioned one input to maintain focus on this subject, let's look at this example :
The teams which have to build the social media networks we are using today have managed to build on specialization during their startup stages.
What does this example mean?
It will take you time and effort to analyze what kind of specialization fits your startup business because if you don't have enough knowledge about these factors then specialization will become difficult to attain because to find this domain expertise it's very costly especially if you want to hire these individuals, that's why these entrepreneurs who build successful startup business they use relationships and connection to find talent which can fit the startup business, specialization is costly if your buy it with money but if you attract it with vision and impact it won't be hard to achieve this approach, and again it's very hard to maintain the team of a specialist if you don't have a system at place to keep their specific specialization to get the job done, big businesses always win on this subject because they use systems to handle the specialization that's why to challenge this brands is very hard unless you master the innovation.
Can business education increase your sales or profit?
Business education only work's if you can implement it, sales system are based on education that's why recently on our book called Disruptive Startup, we have mentioned the danger's of using all social media networks as a startup business without any knowledge about how analytics work's, because you are required to make informed decisions once you got the feedback from your customers, today technology has improved how we can add software to help us increase our sales pipelines that's why right now you can see how important business education can be , because to use this type of systems you should be educated, and this requires even training from other experts to help you to get the actual profit you want , that's why as discussed business education is based on specialization because what you will be doing ad as startup business often it to consult to other businesses specialist to make informed decisions and even learn how some other new system function, education is an advantage because it can help your startup business to analyse and acquire the opportunity which others cannot maintain.
Career and Work
Title description: 04 September 2021, Career and resources
Why smartphones are changing our work-life?
History is now challenged with new technologies because our world is transforming into something which our forefathers wouldn't imagine to happen, today we no longer struggle to perform certain duties, because machines and robots are assisting human beings with that task, and mobile advancements are changing how we work today because the platform called the internet has opened up new possibilities to help many people to work remotely, even this has worsened since the new normal covid-19 pandemic, because most people and companies were forced to adopt these new technologies which assist them to work remotely, with mobile advancements we are quick to perform our duties. After all, the software is here to help mankind to explore and do things differently that's why the 21st-century jobs are more technological-based because the majority of people are now using mobile phones to run their lives that's why this new world is transforming many people into instant gratification.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 03 September 2021 , Success and debts
Why debts are important if you can manage them?
The new normal covid-19 pandemic has shown many people how important to understand the importance of savings and how much damage can you cost into your life especially if you are used to debts, because recently individuals are losing job's , this means only few are those who can maintain their debts once they have lost their respective jobs, because debts are like gardens it depends who is managing that particular garden, as you proceed to learn about how debts plays an important role into this new world, it's very important to understand what kind of debts are suitable for your life and what kind of strategy is used by those who are way beyond successful more than you handle that kind of debt, because in some circumstances they are things which requires us to get them via the assistance of debts, that's why you should expand your knowledge about this subject of debts because most people regret about making poor decisions of signing debt contracts without any exist strategy that's why it's very important to analyze how important debts can be and how can you afford to have them into your life, because that's how you can determine if your ready to get debt or not.How to check if your debts are healthy?
Debts can be healthy especially if you can check the following :- Credit score increase
- Rewards for that particular debt
- Understanding of terms and conditions
- Multiple streams of income
- Existing strategy
- Consulting with an accountant
- Emergency backup
- Credit score increase
Debts are discussed they are like gardens, we have good and bad ones that's why to remain debts healthy you should be able to apply or understand the techniques mentioned above because they can affect your credit and life that's why debts should be checked before we can take them especially since covid-19 pandemic is destroying many jobs.
Can debts create a success?
According to research mankind has natural and self made fears , mostly our fears about debts comes from learning or listening to people who don't understand this topic of debts , because what they always look is the negative side of debts that's why to understand this approach you need a balanced equation when you analyse how important debts can be into your life, because sometimes we should look at our dreams or plans to check if we can succeed without debts , because we can fear because of this distorted knowledge which is often shared by this unsuccessful people, because debts plays an important especially if you can take advantage of them to influence your progress, what we often fear about debts is how will we pay them if we can lose our jobs because most people have one stream of income that's why it's reasonable to follow this approach especially if you don't want to take the risk's but our fears only serves us a purpose to keep us safe or locked into the cage of failing to explore what we can do, that's why when it comes to what you fear don't generalize look for fact's which can help you to deal with that particular fear you are facing because debts have advantages and disadvantages, it's better to fear based on facts.
Why do debts destroy many opportunities for us if we don't pay them back?
Unpaid debts are like unhealed wounds you will feel pain until you get treatment for them, many people end up losing opportunities because they have already destroyed their names by failing to repay their debts and this is a challenge because we take debts for different reasons that's why as discussed with we should look at how will we repay the debts before we can sign the contract because majority of people hurry to get debts that's why along the way they find themselves trapped by stacks of bills they should pay and because they cannot afford they end up defaulting payments that's where problems start, because recurring arrears starts to kick in and this increase their possibilities to be blacklisted and even losing trust from those lenders, debts can create opportunities or problems for us that's why you should look at this topic with open mind and seek professional help to accelerate your facts so you can make sound decisions before you can take any debt, either small or big, because we somehow ignore the lessons from those who have destroyed their lives because they took debts without any exist strategy behind.
Health and Life
Title description: 02 September 2021, Health and weight
Why do people plan diets but fail to follow them?
We as human beings have the power to plan, but what is important is to understand what we are supposed to do with the plan because oftentimes diets never fail, people fail to follow the plan to do what the diet says, and this can come from different areas of life, especially this can steam from our habits which controls us because we can plan to change but if we don't check our habits how they align with our plans then we are going to have some challenges because mostly majority of people end up failing not because of diets but bad habits which don't align with the diet they have already planned to follow that's why it's becoming very challenging to follow up with the diet they want, diet only works if we are willing to change our habits, this are some keys which can tell you if you don't fail to follow up with the new diet :
- Fear of change.
- Bad habits
- Poor motivation
- Discipline
Why weight issue is a problem?
Majority of us today no longer have problems with hunger in most parts of the world, but what we are struggling with is obesity and many of us never check these two distinctions because weight issues affect people differently, that's why weight can damage the following aspects in our lives :
- Confidence
- Stamina
- Focus
- Exercising
- Sleep
- Bills
- Goal's
- Relationship
- Shame
- Hate
Obesity is a challenging issue because sometimes is based on genetics, that's why the cure of this problem requires different types of solutions.
Can being overweight reduce your attractiveness?
Attractiveness is based on who sees it and what aligns with their mental association, looking at the above list we have shared, those 10 factors can affect how we see ourselves because weight doesn't remove your attractiveness unless you start to shame your body and some people will join you to come to your realization on how you are not attractive, that's why words can shape our realities and even create habits which can control us, being attractive is all about how you see yourself because your self-image plays an important role when it comes to building your character and confidence that's why your weight should not reduce your motivation but help you to restructure your health so you can attain the type of shape you want, but as people we see attractiveness differently that's why to some being overweight is a not an issue and to others is something they won't take.
Why do we feel ashamed about our body shapes?
According to various researches majority of people have this self-image inside their mindset which regulates how we see ourselves, this is some of the reasons why we feel ashamed about our body shapes :
- Criticism
- Self-doubt
- Fear
- Rejections
- Approval
- Low self-esteem
- Failure
- Disappointments
- Comparison
- Hurt
Why your confidence is important more than your body shape?
Confidence is an advantage because you can use it to get where you want to be, confidence can do the following :
- Increase courage
- Help us to maintain focus
- Decisions
- Performance
- Perseverance
- Motivation
- Personality
- Freedom from social anxiety
- Increased sense of self-worth
- Less fear
- Taking more risks
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 01 September 2021, Happiness and sex
What makes us crave happiness?
Mankind is capable to search for these reasons we sometimes find ourselves on this path of craving to be happy and this can be something which we see from others and start to wish to have, the majority of people only know about happiness because they just look at the external path of happiness, especially material possessions, we can crave to have what others have because that's how some people can define their happiness, to crave is natural but whenever it comes to our happiness we should check what's happening inside our imagination or mindset because our thoughts create our pleasure and habits.
What are the benefits of being happy?
Majority of people can confirm the following factors which can make them happy:
- Financial stability
- Freedom
- Contribution
- Options
- Peace
- Happiness
- Family
- Good health
- Sharing
- Loving
Happiness is an advantage because it safeguards our confidence and peace
What's the relationship between happiness and peace?
The difference which can be learned between happiness and peace is the feeling because once we are happy we can feel the peace that's why it's very hard to maintain happiness if there's no peace in your life because what you will usually do is to use this temporary happiness which is often accessed on external elements such as material possessions that's why if you can check, happiness is twofold, we have internal and external happiness most people often still strive for external happiness because it's often advertised by the majority, that's why peace is something rare to many people that's you have the responsibility to check these facts because the relationship between happiness and peace should be checked and maintained with the right thoughts
How to study your happiest moments?
The memories make us that's why we as individuals strive to collect the memories which can keep our history alive and active, keep the happiest moments it's very important because they can help us to analyze something about our actions, especially how we manage to create those happiest moments of our lives, because to document memories is how the history is kept for those who will be referencing from our lives and it's very important to understand how these happy moments play an important role when challenges hit us because the only strength for mankind is to reflect on what's working and start applying it that's why memories are assets of our life stories.
Why do we disrespect happy people?
Unhappy people are always welcome with blame and complaints because the nature of being unhappy is a choice especially if you have gained knowledge of what makes happiness, these are some reasons why unhappy people are not Respected :
- Bad attitude
- Helpless
- Inability to focus
- Shifting responsibilities
- Gossiping
- Name dropping
- Failure
- Comfort zone
- Jealous
- Time wasters
It's very important to check these people in your life because they play an important role to help you become unhappy.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 28 October 2021
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 27 October 2021
Startup Business
Title description: 26 October 2021
Career and Work
Title description: 25 October 2021
Success and Wealth
Title description: 24 October 2021
Health and Life
Title description: 23 October 2021
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 22 October 2021
Culture and Religion
Title description: 21 October 2021
Why having sex before marriage is a problem in some Religious groups?
Religious groups are strive for order and discipline, and mostly this groups are mainly structured based on several practices that's why sex is regarded as an option for those who are already married, that's why from even the Christianity religion, followers are always taught to respect sex and practice it only after they have entered into a marriage, having sex without any of this types of agreements is ranked as a symbol of sin, that's why in some chapters the bible always caution followers to restrain from having sex before marriage, this types of rules are set-up to safeguard the entire religious structure, because sex is one of the greatest powerful energy, that's why it's very important to analyze this topic based on your personal experience an see if you were not taught to think about sex as a sin before marriage, because religion is based on rules that's why having sex before marriage can destroy certain characteristics which are mainly reserved for adulthood, thing's like family responsibilities and even proper decision making, we should remember how this old lessons are now evolving that's why it's up to you to analyse this topic and see which phase do you fit into and why, because to some people sex is not a sin as long you follow certain standards and practices but with the religion rules are very strict, no sex if you are not married, that's why majority of people today are struggling to comply with such rules they twist them to make sure they fit into their own advantage but remember this is your life you either follow rules or you break them.
Why sex is based on Age?
Adulthood is an advantage because you have access to practice sex without any hesitation, that's why the majority of people who are adults have responsibilities to fulfill and according to some governments, cultures, and religions, sex is based on age because if age is not prioritized, majority of woman and children will be forced into sex, especially children, that's why it's very important to check this sex age rules according to your country of origin because sometimes we don't understand why this age is linked to abuse but if we check according to this age rules, we can get sufficient knowledge about why sex should be based on age because this approach protects people against abuse and even improve the knowledge to individuals to know that sex is reserved for adults, age is very important when it comes to sex because is balance powers and even create this process of control towards what is being done, especially taking full responsibility once something else start to happen.
Why we don't have sex schools but churches?
The reality is there we have more churches than sex schools, this should be investigated from legislative perspective, because governments policies control what has to be done on communities, that's why today only few countries allow prostitution to be done according to law, we can learn how sex is powerful but just looking at how it has been restricted from schools, even the lessons are somehow cut short because teachers are somehow treat this subject as a taboo, that's why it's very important to analyse this type of thinking based on generational mental conditioning, majority of our parents are obligated by old rules to shy away from talking about sex , so it becomes a challenge to create a sex school, because adults won't support that their children should attend such classes but young people will vote for this, but because adults have buying powers and responsibilities they always win on this subject because sex schools are a taboo to many people and they are always abolished that's why from childhood to adulthood you won't encounter a sex school but majority of churches, this is done to balance what we have been saying that churches teach about sex before marriage is a sin, but if this schools are opened then the churches will lose control over that particular subject, and again this approach protects the message of sex before marriage, if sex schools are opened then churches might lose followers in some sorts.
Why sex is not promoted by Religious groups?
We should differentiate between promotion and advertising, churches don't advertise sex they promote marriage, that's why you won't hear the subject of sex in any church without being linked to marriage or evil spirit, that's why it's very important to pay attention towards this lessons because you might get confused, sex shops advertise sex because they should generate income from selling sex to customers, but churches are not profiting from sex business because they just teach about the rules about sex and how one should follow them, that's why today powerful advertisements are coming from the sex industry because mankind anyway responds to the mental association, especially pictures, take for example beauty industry they used a half-naked woman to advertise their services, but churches will promote professional attire to their congregants, this differences should be checked because if not you won't be able to understand why sex in churches is promoted based on marriage.
Why is it a sin to talk about sex openly in some religions or cultures?
We should firstly investigate what is a sin but we still struggle to find meaning of it because it has broader meanings, but from many observation we have made, majority of people always treat the subject of sex talk as a sin, because remember we have talked about generational mental conditioning, so it's very hard to crack the subject of sex and not being labelled as a sinner or someone who is possessed by evil sprit especially if you are not a pastor or a leader of that particular group, it's very important to understand this type of thinking because it's only reserved for those who believe that sex talks are evil and should not be done, because majority of people treat the subject of sex as a private matter that's why talking about it openly is like you are trespassing into their privacy, you can check you won't hear the name sex openly unless it's an campaign about health unless there's a church near but after all you won't hear this word because the subject is only reserved for leaders or pastors to talk about it.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 20 October 2021
What is good about family financial agreements?
Family financial agreement plays an important role in looking at the following elements to achieve common goals as married people:
Involving your spouse in financial planning
Investment and liabilities
Creating awareness among children
Financial independence
Team efforts
Why hiding our finance can impact our marriage trust?
Majority of partners struggle to utilize transparency in their relationships or marriages. After all, it takes time to trust some partners especially if you are not that open individual, again financial transparency is very important because it can help the marriage or relationship to succeed in other terms, but partners hide their earnings for the following reasons:- Shame
- Doubts
- Privacy
- Cheating
- Safety
- Trust issues
- Emergency
- Investment
Why does transparency keep some marriages to succeed?
These are key benefits of being transparent in your marriage:
- Clear expectations
- Increase happiness
- Better sexual performance
- Teamwork accomplish more.
How to understand your Marriage's financial issues?
Inquiry about martial financial issues is something to check but it's very important to review this so you can understand how your finances are running by looking at the following:
Post marriage debts, debts incurred individually are still owed
Personality challenge: saver and a spender
Power plays
- One partner has a job and the other doesn't
- One person earns more than the other
Family financial backgrounds are not the same
Unemployment
Children, to have or not have
Extended family
Why Financial management is important for your marriage?
Financial management is very important in your relationship or marriage you can learn the following:
- Don't set yourself for a disaster
- Discuss your financial issues
- Understand each partner's money mindset
- Set goals
- Don't ignore red flags about your spending
- Stop keeping secrets
- Agree to set up different budgets
- Develop your marriage financial system
- Treat each other fairly
- Attend financial counseling
Startup Business
Title description: 19 October 2021
Why marketing opens up opportunities for startup business?
Marketing is very important especially since covid-19 pandemic has hit many countries and businesses, but what matters is how you market your product or service because as noted our book called Disruptive Startup teaches us about the scientific approach to marketing products, but as you lean forward it's very important to check this types of opportunities comes with marketing:
- Data improvements
- Real-time decision making
- Effective and efficient operations
- Productive management
- Delivery and distribution powers
- Market growth.
- Customer retention
- Customer satisfaction
- Innovation benchmark
- Research capacity
Can you succeed Startup Businesses without market research?
Majority of startup businesses failed because they have abandoned their abilities which is the power to remain as a research model, it's highly impossible to build a successful startup without any research, this is the key danger of not conducting the market research and you won't succeed:
- Inability to change
- Poor marketing techniques
- Wrong team's
- Poor research alignment
- Missing key opportunities
- Failing to pivot
- Not innovating
- Inability to understand the buyer's
- Poor customer service
- Inability to track marketing budgets.
- Delivery on the wrong channels
Why Market strategy is power?
Every startup business should adopt its marketing strategy because as discussed startups thrive based on creativity that's why it's very important to perform continuous experimentations so you can be able to analyze which type of market strategy matches your startup business and what brings power into your advantage once you begin to master your market strategy, but you can further investigate this by checking the following factors to increase your strategic power's:
- Deals with the psychology of the buyer's
- Gives clarity on what's happening in the market
- Creates the benchmark point • Aligns opportunities
- Helps to detect the market
- It promotes the service or product
- Brands the concepts
- Helps to research the value proposition
- Design awareness
- Helps to compete with others
How to borrow market strategy as a startup business?
The viability of any Startup Business comes to the ability of borrowing strategies from those who are more successful than you, but you can do the following to succeed on this subject:
- Pick the niche market
- Analyze the market leaders
- Check the competition
- List the solution
- Research the customer profile
- Find out how sales pipelines are made
- Check the technology behind the concept
- Check what they study
- Review how they attractive investments
- List opportunities they are interested into
- Check the skills and experience
- List the strategy and select what you want.
Why startups should innovate their marketing research?
Innovation is what opens new opportunities but it's very important to analyze how to innovate your marketing campaigns by looking at the following statements:
- Data collection
- Analytics improvements
- Brand enhancement
- Benchmark advantage
- Increase sales pipelines
- Building customer relationships
- Attracting investments
- Building habitual products or services
- Optimization of our services
- Researching our target market
- Branding the niche market
Career and Work
Title description: 18 October 2021
Why we feel the government is failing unemployed people?
They are concrete reasons why most unemployed people feel as if the government is failing them especially if we can check these factors:
- Nepotism
- Corruption
- Reluctant to change policies
- Labor brokers
- Illegal hiring
These five factors mentioned above affect everyone because most people spend their precious time going to school to study only to realize how these factors start to affect their career progression. After all, the system is failing to prioritize its people, and again new technological advances have created this gap of breaking jobs into machines and robotics we have to check how the government is regulating these factors because if this is left the unattended majority of young people will struggle to find employment because the law is not acting according to what is supposed to do.
Why economic growth is important to help boost new job creation?
New economic changes are necessary to boost new creation of jobs because if new companies are set up to absorb these young employed people the economy will grow, because unemployment increase problems in the country, oftentimes people end up resorting to some acts which are not conducive to what they want, that's why whenever there are new jobs, this can decrease a lot of problems for many people. After all, economic growth always protects the livelihoods of people, that's why as discussed we have pointed out relevant reasons about what causes unemployment and why, but because job markets are closing down to some new changes caused by this new normal covid-19 pandemic, we should be aware how important the economy will slowly getting disrupted because the system is under huge pressure and people are now desperate to get jobs that's why creating sustainable jobs is mandatory but it takes a robust system to achieve this goal.
Why does nepotism increase unemployment?
The reality about nepotism dates back from history, the majority of people are held back because of nepotism, we should look at the following dangers of nepotism because in the end major cause of this problem always comes from the following factors:
- Connections
- Money
- Fraud
These three factors play an important role when it comes to nepotism because today in some work industries you need a connection to get employment and money plays a part to help you get the job that's why we have said enough about how the government is failing unemployment people because regulations are not tight to deal with this challenge of nepotism, many people conduct this criminality because the policies are so weak and no one will hold them accountable, that's why hiring unqualified people is now a norm and this weakens the function of better service delivery that's why nepotism is dangerous because it increases unemployment.
Why we don't know how to create our economies as unemployed people?
Unemployment is very challenging because it's sometimes ranked as lacking something, that's why it's very difficult for many young people to develop their jobs because the entire system has programmed them to think based on one option to succeed which is to go and work that's why creativity is still not explored enough. After all, young are discouraged by this unemployment, and some other reasons it's very difficult to start your focus too much on the funding part that's why to create your job you must be willing to do whatever it takes to achieve your goals because sometimes young people wait for jobs whenever they are supposed to take even those small jobs just to finance their ideas to create jobs, but this challenge is genetically inherited because our communities mostly we are workers that's why it's very challenging to start a business and today covid-19 pandemic has closed many companies so the option is yours either you complain or do something about your goals.
What makes economic growth destroy some jobs?
Relying on one system to create jobs is what often destroys many economies to fail to create jobs because take for example the new technologies always automate jobs and many people are always becoming unemployed because their skills are redundant and it's very important to understand this because whenever jobs are not created new technological advances takes that particular gap and create something that's why as discussed you should get educated on how to get this new technological skills because your career soon will be automated and you need to remain relevant by applying this new demand skills.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 17 October 2021
How to evaluate your vision for success?
The process to analyse vision is very easy but many people make it to seems so difficult because we mix vision with goals, that's why sometimes you should sit down and review what kind of vision you have because this can assist you to check the following:
- Preferences
- Progress
- Options
- Opportunities
- Impact
- Failures
- Doubts
- Criticism
- Optimism
- Achievements
Sometimes as individuals we prefer to become successful that's why from childhood upbringing we are taught to envision something we want to become when we are adults, that's why if today you can reflect you will realize you have this vision about your life, but somehow you are trapped by this factors mentioned above but remember your vision is just a direction campus of your dream's that's why to some vision is very important to become it preview our futures and to further investigate your vision you can revisit your goals and plans and see how your vision is playing out to help you be what you want because vision is what brings back our hopes and aspirations and it's very important to check so you won't lose your vision just because things are not working as planned.
Why your life vision matters?
Majority of individuals never check how their visions, because they are different types of challenges and factors which help the majority of people to end up giving up on their visions, and sometimes life can present difficult challenges and opportunities but with the understanding of your vision you will always conquer circumstances because as discussed our ability to exercise the vision of our lives always puts our hopes and aspirations into the right direction of what we want out of this life, that's why you should check this advantages of having a vision and map out your goals and plans so you can cherish your vision:
- Creates hope
- Gives back our motivation
- Shield to carry us
- Develops our courage
- Support our goals and plans
- List our plans and achievements
- Measure our life progress
- Assist to act on opportunities
- Develops perseverance
- Shows us our future
Learning about these factors can help you to clarify how your vision matters because sometimes you should check your vision and see how you use it.
Can your purpose reveal your vision?
What is a purpose without a vision?
Nothing, indeed because our purposes are always created by the type of visions we have for our lives that's why it's all start with the vision and ends up becoming a reality, for many of us we have already explorer and experienced this situation because sometimes your purpose can show up late in your life but your vision was there with you even though you didn't recognize it because you were hit by rock bottom but purpose is something which majority of people are struggling to find because we don't check what is inside our imagination or mindset we keep on focusing too much on external circumstances that's why you cannot realize your life purpose until you check inside yourself and analyse what kind of purpose you have in this world because as individuals all of us we have purpose that's why we are all unique and it's very important to embrace your purpose while your time is available because our lives are driven by this component called purpose, everyone is here to do something either way this is your life your choices can assist you to clarify what is your purpose and why because as discussed you have a vision about your life and that's a statement of fact so go ahead and investigate this subject.
What can you do if you lack vision?
Mankind cannot lack vision, we only lack resources to execute our visions, that's why this syndrome of lacking can challenge your choices and even affect your mindset, take this practical observation, by looking at those people who identify themselves as lacking something, what usual happens this always comes to their reality, we don't say people should fake their difficulties but we are warning you to check how you use your words because they can end up building your life that's why we have covered this topic and we advice you to revisit it because what we lack can separate us from others that's why it's becoming very challenging to explore this topic especially if your life is not going as planned but remember success happens based on those small actions you take that's why we should keep our gratitude at hand because what we lack can discourage us to achieve our visions if we are not careful enough, majority of people never achieve because they only focus too much on what they lack whenever they are suppose to use what they have, practical example if this channel of ours we have used this syndrome called lack we wouldn't have done anything about this vision, because looking into details of writing and editing it cost too much but we have use what we have to take out the message, hope you will learn about this factors because if not you will be trapped by lacking something whenever you are supposed to do what is under your control.
Can your haters attack your vision?
Haters always attack your vision because they understand how important vision can be to our lives, you can check this approach majority of people who don't have dreams always attack the dreams of others because this exposes their inability to get what they want that's why to have jealous is expensive especially if you want to maintain it with checking the progress or achievements of others just by looking at the nagative side of their success, remember some people are gifted to see faults so this is not your responsibility to correct them but your mandate is to act upon your vision because you don't have time to waste with haters because what is important for your life is what you want to achieve, then it's very important to exercise your confidence and courage to take action because sometimes people talk dream's and never take action that's why this hater's always finding a room to criticize you, don't talk too much activity too much then progress will deal with your haters.
Health and Life
Title description: 16 October 2021
Can ignorance Increase problems?
The ability to understand how ignorance functions can help you to deal with your life because sometimes ignorance comes with the following challenges:
- Negative thoughts
- Giving up mindset
- Wrong friendships
- Childhood trauma
- Alcohol and drugs abuse
- Unforgivable
- Jealous
- Comparison
- Doubts
- Rejections
- Low self-esteem
- Recurring failures
- Spiritual bondage
- Lost of love
- Grief
- Diseases
Ignorance plays an important role in our lives because it can teach us about our attitudes towards life, that's why we should check out what kind of ignorance we have and how are we benefiting from it because it's very expensive to maintain ignorance especially if you are struggling to make ends meet.
Why food wastage Increase hunger?
Food wastage is affecting the world and we should consider how we deal with this matter but we should firstly look at this problem which comes with food wastage and how this increases hunger:
- Tragic loss of resources
- The lack of food management and huge
- Food wastage are creating a hungry population
- Weak agriculture industry
- Hungry people live in the conflict zone
- Food price increase
- Poor agriculture skills
- Migration of people.
Why do people never appreciate what they have?
Mankind is made by his thoughts that's why it's very important to check the factors contributing to our inability to be grateful:
- Being people's pleaser
- You pay for affection, you are under the impression that the more you give the more people will like you
- complicated love situations
- You don't set boundaries
- You can't say no
- You are afraid of speaking up
- You want to feel needed
- You have low expectations
- You are afraid of being alone
- You ignore the signs, people are taking advantage of you
- Never think about tomorrow
- Pretending
- You appreciate people who don't appreciate you.
Can food tells us about your wealth?
Eating is based on affordability that's why what you eat reveals your wealth looking at the following factors:
Country
Your country of origin can determine what you eat because foods are split into categories of affordability.
Job
How much you earn can determine the type of foods you can afford to eat, that's why it's very important to check how much you earn and see which types of brands you afford.
Status
Some foods allow us to get certain status.
- Types of foods
- Types of service
- Medical checkup
- Price checks
- Eating timetable
Why do we feel the need to give away food to the poor?
Contribution is what makes us as individuals that's whenever we have something we have this desire to give to those who lack something but we give to them for this reasons:
- Ethical principles
- Compassion
- Extending help
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 15 October 2021
Why do we feel the need to share our happiness?
Whenever we are happy we have this deeper need to share our happiness that's why it's very important to learn from this:
- Kindness
- Love
- Share
- Experience
- Gratitude
As human beings sharing plays an important role, especially for survival needs that's why as discussed we all have this deeper needs to keep on sharing regardless of what that's why if we are the happy majority of us we don't take time to talk about this experience and again we feel much better whenever we share either happiness or sorrow because what leads mankind to have this capacity to think independently is based on how he can share his thoughts with others that's why everyone everyday is sharing something with others, remember we as human beings we still share the same sun and the moon, so that's why with happiness this is universal because we are striving to make sure we are happy while we explore our temporary lives.
Why choosing our words can increase our happiness?
Mental research is helping us to answer this question based on fact's because if you can check word's affects us differently that's why it's very important to analyze those words based on categories such as negative or positive words, because sometimes as individuals we neglect to check our words that's why we can plan or act without any reason and again we find ourselves trapped into this vicious cycle of thoughts which don't serve us any purpose that's why when you think it's very important to check what kind of thoughts are leading your thinking, because sometimes we neglect to question our thinking that's why we end up using word's which affects our psyche unware and furthermore we struggle to deal with words because we are attached to them because as long you use words and never check if they benefit you or increase your sorrow them you should account to what you are experiencing because words always affect our emotions that's why we should use them careful because as you can observe some words are very poisonous and others are healthy for your life, whenever we train our brains to choose then we won't struggle to exercise our happiness that's why as discussed it's all about confirmation when it comes to the mindset that's why you should confirm with your words if your are happy or not that's why word's can reveal your ability to think independently and accurately.
Can silence create happiness?
Silence is a symbol of accessing the unknown, that's why whenever we are silent some people can assume we are thinking or just praying but you should observe and investigate this subject because silence is very challenging especially during this unprecedented times, distractions rules mankind right now that's why for majority of people it's very hard to find a way to become silent and again we should remember how the majority use what they are given without questioning it that's why for you to explore the advantages of accessing your power to become silent comes back to your ability to schedule your tasks and give silence it's own time, because to draw awareness to some circumstances or challenges we need to become silent so the mind can assist us to explore the unknown that's why whenever we are silent we can get clarity on what makes us happy and what we should start avoiding to protect our happiness because today to focus is a rare commodity you can have that's why to be happy you should familiarize yourself with the right time to remain silent, some people are afriad to face this activity because it reveal the truth about what's happening inside their mindset and again we are not taught enough to deal with silent as individuals that's why whenever we see ourselves or someone who is silent we start to assume that something is wrong and we should begin to shift those thoughts so we can understand our happiness.
How to remain silent while being happy?
According to history meditation sessions can help us to get together our thoughts and start to arrange them into a particular sequence to help us deal with our challenges and opportunities to live a happy and better life, when it comes to silence as indicated we still lack sufficient information to gain as mankind because to become successful happy one should master the art of silence regardless of what you are facing in your life, because remember your thoughts cannot control you whenever you are silent, that's why meditation has proven us on how to live a better life by exploring this topic of silence, because for many people to remain happy they always require assistance of material possessions or any other attachments which can satisfy their pleasures or desires that's why on frequent basis mankind is struggling to be happy only when he is using external material possessions to help him ease his sorrows and pains that's why we recommend you begin to review the subject of meditation and see how can you link your happiness with this power called silent.
When is the right time to keep quiet about your Happiness?
There's no right or wrong time when it comes to happiness, what matters is how you deal with the present moment, that's why sometimes we as individuals struggle with this challenge or tendency which says one day we would be happy whenever we forget about the present moment we are living on, that's why to some people if you talk about happiness you can hurt them because they are guilty of their wrongdoings especially the inability to take full responsibility to own their happiness that's why it's your choice to talk about your happiness or just keep quiet because sometimes people can be mean on us especially if we have what they lack that's why what they can do is to trace you during hard times and remind you about you concerns or commitments about happiness, remember it's very easy to deal with challenges especially if you can use your creative powers and again we should check who we share our thoughts with so we can protect our peace and attention.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 14 October 2021
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 13 October 2021
Can hard work become too much?
Hardworking is very important but it's very important to check how you use it because a majority of people use hard work incorrectly that's why it's very important to analyze which type of hard work is necessary for your progress or life achievements, that's why you should double-check this red flags about hard work:
- Burnouts challenges
- Busyness syndrome
Why do some partners give excuses about work just to ignore their partners?
Majority of marriages or relationships end up failing because both partners fail to communicate matters accurately, and giving excuses about work is what should be investigated based on relevant standards and practices of the marriage or relationship, majority of this excuses can invite new problems into the relationship because if excuses of this this nature are not investigated then chaos is something to explore because as you can observe a life of an entrepreneur is more different compare to someone who doesn't run any business, because how time is used can differ but it's very important for entrepreneurs to have work schedules, this can enable you to attend family matters without giving excuses about work, remember life is about balance of you prioritize key activities and then pay attention to your marriage then it won't be a challenge to work based on balance not out of it because endless busyness without any results is something to check, ignoring your partner because you fail to communicate your schedule is dangerous because sometimes people understand if they are informed about what's happening or coming, but remember you should not bring your work at your bedroom unless you want more problems into your marriage.
Why working during your family time requires balance?
Entrepreneurs should be clear when they communicate their schedules with their partners, because sometimes they will be urgent projects which can require you to compromise your family time, but this can happen occasionally but it's very important to balance this work based on what is a priority, and you can check the following aspects:
- Schedule
- Planning techniques
- Deadlines
- Working balance
- Attending family affairs
- Switching off the distractions
- Focusing on priorities
- Timing your tasks
- Communicating any inconveniences in advance
- Balancing schedules.
What makes a family support each other for some work?
Family support is important regardless of how small or big the support can be, looking at the following advantages:
- Advice
- Support
- Connections
- Sense of belonging
- Attachment
- Sharing
- Protection
- Working together
- Place to rest
- Walking the journey together.
Why joint agreements can increase good working culture?
Working together as married people can influence these aspects of your relationship:
- Confidence
- Trust
- Health
- Support
- Happiness
- Communication
- Sex appetite
- Appreciation
- Peace
- Progress.
Startup Business
Title description: 12 October 2021
Can you take irrelevant Opportunities as a Startup Business?
Opportunity is like a direction, if you can take the wrong direction you won't arrive at your destination, it's very challenging to explore if the opportunity is right for your startup because this can involve research, and even more important you require feedback from what you are doing to confirm if the opportunity is right, because oftentimes startup business struggle to choose viable niche markets because they focus too much on many ideas that's why they can quickly move away from one opportunity to another without any success, it's very important to analyze irrelevant opportunities because they can waste precious resources and time again sometime irrelevant opportunities can be detected once you have failed especially if you cannot profit from that particular opportunity that's why it's very important to check these barriers because they can affect how you either succeed or fail in the market.
Why is Startup Business are confused by more opportunities?
Majority of startup business entrepreneurs are somehow confused by new opportunities brought by this fourth industrial revolution, but we have to check facts whenever we analyze questions like this because oftentimes startup owners get confused based on paying too much attention to many ideas at the same time and trying to grab opportunities with limited resources, that's why they end up being overwhelmed by this new norm of planning too much but taking fewer actions, it's high time to observe these facts because as discussed more opportunities can confuse those who don't understand how to specialize and conduct their research, opportunities are selective. After all, you need to focus on one thing and get it right first then you can learn from that particular approach how to remain focused when the opportunity arrives because it's very difficult to maintain focus if you have multiple options and it will be hard to take action.
Can opportunities trap your Startup Business?
Opportunities are like tickets, if you want to get to the right destination you should get the right ticket, or else you will be trapped and drift from one place, majority of entrepreneurs should be aware of how some opportunities can trap your startup business especially if you fail to research what you are getting yourself into because in business traps are always there but it's your responsibility to understand and even improve your strategy to overcome this traps because the majority of startup business end up failing because of they are unable to deal with market's traps such as the following:
- Price increase
- Payment of staff members
- Signing contracts without paying attention to fine prints
- Missing key deadlines to deliver
- Conflicts with key suppliers
- Heavy competition
- Hiring wrong people
- Unable to pay debts
These traps can push the startup business back, especially if the opportunity was viable but because the startup business failed to deal with the trap it will end up failing that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of remaining as a research model.
Why we should evaluate the Opportunities before we take them?
Any Startup Business failing to check the opportunity ends up closing down, because as discussed these new technological advances or markets opportunities can confuse many startups entrepreneurs because remember this individuals majority of them don't have the necessary skills or resources such as big businesses that's it takes time for them to evaluate opportunities because remember these enterprises are still at the research stage that's why for many of them it's very challenging to maintain focus on evaluating the opportunity whenever they are hungry to grab it that's why as indicated they are traps whenever you deal with new opportunities because if you rush to get into them without understanding or evaluating the worst-case scenario then you will reap the rewards when problems show up, evaluating opportunities is paramount if you want to achieve your business success.
Why startup opportunities are important?
Opportunities are very important because they can help the startup business with the following:
- Profit
- Traction
- Growth
- Talent acquisitions
- Customer retention
- Investment attraction
- Knowledge improvements
- Technology advantage
- Research capabilities
- Resource management
Whenever opportunities show up the startup business can profit from that particular opportunity if all steps are followed properly because knowing how to grab these types of opportunities is a skill, that's why in the market only those who understand how to deal with opportunities will see growth because customers are always ready to help your startup business to get into another level as long as you provide value and keep on delivering based on your promises them it won't be difficult to expand your business structure.
Career and Work
Title description: 11 October 2021
Why failing to deal with doubts increase our failures?
Doubts have side effects, and we should double-check the factors contributing to our doubts:
- Self-criticism
- Poor self-image
- Negative thoughts
- Giving up mindset
- Failures
- Jealous
- Attitude towards changes
- Progress
- Impact
- Victim mentality
Everyday as human beings we doubt something and it's our nature, but what we should be aware of is when we have this repetitive doubts, that's where we should start to pay close attention into that particular situation, because doubts don't just begin and repeat themselves without any reason, majority of our doubts are somehow linked to our personalities or personal goals, problems and some challenges we are facing, that's why many people fail before they can even start trying because they give too much efforts to what they doubt more than what they believe, that's why whenever someone doubts and convince themselves how things will turn upsidedown after they have tried then what will happen is what we have imagine, that's why doubts can build this internal character inside ourselves unware, and it's very important to review the list we have shared above and see what kind of doubts are contributing towards your failures and what can be the solution after, because failure by its own nature nourish our doubts and increase our fears that's why you should pay attention whenever you have this recurring doubts.
Can we succeed without Doubts?
Mankind face challenges, especially this thought called doubts, this is key factor to help us to understand how success is an option of dealing with doubts:
- Character
- Obstacles
- Perseverance
- Strategy
- Improvements
- Will
- Self motivation
- Problem-solving
- Pain tolerance
- Faith
Doubts are very important, because to make sound decisions we should be able to deal with our doubts and start to pay attention on what is beyond those doubts, remember how you handle doubts is always related to what kind of skills or experience you have or either way some strategy you are learning about, when it comes to success they are always options, that's why we have failure and success, what matters is to balance the lesson's, because if you fall into this trap of failing to deal with doubts especially if you have gathered sufficient information about that particular doubt, then you are causing problems for yourself, because we don't succeed without doubts that's why if you can check the profile of most successful people you will realize they have encountered many doubts but they have overcome those doubts by taking action and see how things can turn around, even from this segment we have doubted to setup this platform, but we followed what experts do , we took action that's why it's very important to analyze this topic based on your personal or draw lessons from others, we only succeed once we start to tackle doubts we are facing.
Why do we care too much about doubts?
The only time we begin to fail to analyze what is bothering us as individuals we end up caring for doubts and some can serve us no purpose at all but this can be created from the following:
- Awareness
- Maintenance
- Nature
- Habits
- Attitude
- Emotional needs
- Love
- Pain
- Trauma
- Problems
Doubts are very important, because if you don' check what kind of doubts you are currently facing, then it will be difficult to face these doubts, but it's very important to learn from the list mentioned above because as human beings we do care about our doubts, the problem is how we express and deal with our doubts, because sometimes our doubts can be tricky, and they somehow require attention to details that's why whenever we care too much about this doubts and do nothing then we are inviting more chaos because doubts only give us information of what is happening inside or outside our lives.
What are the benefits of learning about your doubts?
Some will argue or wonder if they are truly benefits for our doubts but we have compiled this list to help you to review these benefits and start applying these lessons:
- Knowing thyself
- Analyzing what's happening
- Feeback of your actions
- Improving your results
- Dealing with your worries
- Finding the solution to the problem
- Accepting your mistakes
- Forgiving yourself
- Accepting what you cant control
- Living by your own choices and rules
Some people will always shy away from this type of conversation because whenever we treat our doubts are trash, we are imposing dangers on ourselves, because as indicated our doubts are very important because they give us awareness about what's happening in our attention or lives, that's why to doubt is not an easy journey, but it's very important to draw some lessons from our doubts because the list above have summarized this subject in a way whereby you can check and question what can you start learning from your doubts, because only a few people pay attention towards their doubts, and some don't know how to deal with this doubts that's why negligence of our doubts always end up harming us.
Can doubts create your stress?
This question is broader but remember it's normal to doubt what is dangerous is to find yourself collecting stress because of your doubts this can come from the following elements:
- Lack
- Comparison
- Jealous
- Hatred
- Criticism
- Failures
- Negative thoughts
- Embarrassments
- Self-doubts
- Low self-confidence
- Giving up mindset
The majority of individuals don't pay attention to what is causing their doubts, they assume stress is normal as usual, but to further investigate this subject, you should start to understand that your doubts end up creating your stress levels, that's why it's highly impossible to find someone doubting constantly workout any stress behind, that's why those elements listed above can help you to analyze what kind of doubts are helping you to develop that particular stress you are currently facing because doubts are real especially if you don't know what you are supposed to do about your life.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 10 October 2021
Why progress hurt your enemies?
Enemy always works against us that's why we should look at how we succeed, because remember we have been emphasizing the importance of learning how to keep yourself relevant enough so you can keep your success active because enemies only enjoy your downfall that's why whenever you are progressing enemies feel bad because there's no room to put you down but you don't check how enemies can improve us to keep on succeeding just to prove them wrong, progress is important looking at the following factors:
- Comparison paralysis
Can small changes introduce new enemies into your life?
Majority of individuals never look at their small wins that's why your enemies begin by checking your small actions and start to criticize you, that's why you should learn these factors leading small wins to become very important before we can link them to how they hurt enemies:
Why we should keep on achieving our goals?
Continues improvements are what fuel our achievements but this doesn't mean we should avoid small actions because sometimes one active achievement can lead us to end up becoming complacent on one area of improvement, but it's very important to check how many achievements are important and why we should pursue them:
- Continuous learning
Can outside criticism make us lose our focus direction?
According to psychological research, criticism can affect us differently that's why we should check the following factors about criticism and how it can affect our focus:
- Doubts
- Self-confidence
- Embarrassments
- Procrastination
- Rejections
- Negative thoughts
- Concentration
- Emotional needs
- Fear of failure
- Giving up mindset.
What makes some people hate your progress?
Remember you cant be liked by everybody that's why it's very important to understand that whether you do good or bad some people will always hate to and this it's non of your business because we don't choose for people to like us that's why we have to educate ourselves about letting go of this attachment of feeling to be liked by others because we might end up compromising our happiness in this process of forcing people to like us, sometimes it's better to allow people to hate and you live your life with peace and happiness because life is too short to talk about hater's because there's more to explore about peace and freedom, we have the responsibility as individuals to choose that's why whenever people hate they are always trapped by emotions of pains and again remember to some people to hate is what they enjoy so as discussed you should not force this activity of seeking to be liked because this happens naturally that's why sometimes people are taught to hate that's why what matters for your side is to focus on what you can control in your life which is your attention to focus on those positive thoughts and learn how to give yourself space to observe those negative thoughts which trap you from accessing your peace of mind.
Health and Life
Title description: 09 October 2021
Can dieting improve our health?
They key important improvements to consider whenever we approach this subject of fasting because as individuals our bodies can differ when it comes to dealing with fasting but these are the benefits of fasting that can increase our health:
Opting for a balanced adequate and varied diet is an important step toward a happy and healthy lifestyle
Vitamins and minerals in the diet are vital to boost immunity and healthy development
Healthy diets can also contribute to an adequate weight
Improved gut health
Better moods
Improves memory
Weight lose
Getting a good night's sleep
Promotes better health by fighting inflammation
Could delay aging and extend the longevity.
Can fasting impact our focus?
Fasting is a challenge if you are not used to it because for most people to get the focus they get energy from food that's why you should double-check this:
Cognitive functions
Fasting for some people can make them productive and others not that's why as indicated we have to check how we feel whenever we begin to fast because that's where we can contribute to this topic with personal experience.
Why do people fail to maintain theirs diet's?
Majority of people fail to achieve their diet plan for these reasons:
- Drinking less water than your body needs
- Sabotaging your progress: eating what you want
- Eating too much or too little during your fasting window
- Forgetting that stress and poor sleep can cause weight gain
- Giving up before surviving the day transition
- Bored eating
- Bad habits
- Comparing the progress of weight loss with others.
Can fasting become a habit?
This question requires evidence because as we explore it the majority of people will have different perspectives about it but this comes to the following statements:
Fasting is done for different purposes such as:
- Weight lose
- Religious or cultural ceremonies
Whenever we talk about fasting we should understand we are referring to this kind of discipline of sticking to what you said you will do, that's why fasting if done properly can help us to shift some bad habits which add trouble to our lives, fasting is a habit because our bodies have this cycle of taking food and that particular time of releasing food out of our bodies, that's why whenever your habits about fasting are working into your advantage then fasting is good for you, but we should remember that every day our bodies goes through fasting, that's why we eat based on intervals, mankind cannot eat all day long, there is a limit to what you can eat.
Fasting is a natural habit that helps our bodies to sustain themselves.
What are the benefits of mastering fasting?
These are key benefits of mastering fasting:
- Boost cognitive performance
- Protect from obesity and associated chronic diseases
- Reduce inflammation
- Improve overall fitness
- Support weight loss
- Decrease the risks of metabolic diseases
We should observe this challenge according to our own lived experiences because sometimes we perform differently whenever we are fasting, that's why to some people their cognitive functions reduce or increase when fasting all depends on your body makeup, that's why we recommend you to seek professional help before you can enter into this process of fasting because they are benefits and consequences to be checked.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 08 October 2021
Why do beliefs have power over our bodies?
We as human beings have different types of believes, but what is common about our believes is how we trust the believe on itself, because if you can check majority of people are not aware about their own believes, this can be lead some people to end up feeling they don't believe at all, but remember mankind cannot function without this shield called believe that's why certain body characteristics can reveal your believes, either health wise, cultural, religious, and other key factors which can identify our believes, because whenever we believe our actions follows that particular believe that's why even by your clothing attire some people can learn about your believe that's why certain believes can shape our bodies and even help us to function in a particular fashion, believes shows up into our bodies differently and even help us to behave in a certain way that's why whenever we begin to shame our bodies this comes from our believe systems and what we have been told by others that's why when it comes to believe our bodies react differently because we can either become emotional or just ignore the believe totally but this is not easy.
Why do we feel the need to fulfill our beliefs?
Mankind is nothing without a belief that's why we have indicated how our communities or families condition us to believe certain things, take for example the belief about religion or culture, as you grow older you will have this deeper needs to fulfill the belief practices you learned from your parents or guardians that's why we can believe into different things but they need to fulfill this deeper need is common to all human beings and again our believes always function based on practices that's why it's very challenging to remove certain beliefs from our lives because we are already living that particular believe that's why the majority of people are not willing to change this approach because it will involve extensive evaluation and additional efforts to remove the old believe and sometimes we are comfortable with our own believes that's why we keep on practicing them on continues basis.
Why believe has no size?
Mankind can become very confused when it comes to measuring a belief because this approach requires nothing to do with numbers, that's why it's very challenging to explore or explain what is a small belief and what creates it because beliefs don't have sizes due to the following factors:
- Beliefs are mental states
- Believes are habits
- Believes are thoughts
- Believes are hopes
- Believes is a will
From this above list, you will realize how powerful and how little we know about the belief because if you want to measure a belief you will have to understand how illusions work because who can measure hope? we can only talk about it once it has been translated into actions that have created results that's why as discussed the subject of beliefs is very broader and requires some technical attention to explore even further.
How to deal with belief conflicts?
Conflicts are part of life many people will want to run away from these conflicts coming from the beliefs they have already adopted:
- Personal conflicts ( opposing opinions or goals)
- Natural conflicts ( animals, weather)
- Societal conflicts ( character against ), tradition
- Supernatural conflicts ( ghosts)
- Internal conflicts
- Destiny conflicts ( fate, luck, god).
How to unleash your creativity believe powers?
Remember whenever we approach this subject of creativity, we should put our thinking caps because if you want to achieve or explore this topic without exercising your thinking them it will be very challenging to understand this topic because sometimes we don't go deeper to explore how can we use our creative power's to unleash our believes, we work on what we have been taught or given that's why sometimes it's very important to analyse your ability to exercise creativity on your believes, because each and every belief we have was created by us or others that's why a believe cannot exist without any creation done by mankind and moving forward to unleash your believes requires you to check your habits, thoughts, and actions because the creative power's can help us to get better results on what we believe on, take for example the power of meditation sessions, this activity helps us to use our imaginative creative power's to channel our believes into the direction we want that's why as discussed mankind is made by his or her own believes.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 07 October 2021, Religious food's
Why it's taboo to eat certain foods in some Religious groups?
We are continuing with this topic, as analyzed previously, food is regarded as a medicine, so this helps us to understand better how certain religious groups don't consume some foods, we have to observe these barriers because as we live food is one of the greatest priority for our daily survival and needs, that's why in come religions eating foods which are prohibited can lead you to suffer in some sorts that's why religious leaders have key guidelines on what their followers should eat because this can help to avoid or detect several illnesses based on that particular religious groups that's why food is ranked as one of the greatest medicine since the dawn of time because what we eat can determine how much we feel and even what we think because it's a taboo to eat meat in the religion of Rastafarians, we should look at this taboos and educate ourselves enough to understand how this taboos function.
Why we are given Guidelines on What we should not eat in our Religion?
We should reflect on this subject because as indicated in our previous conversation, religion is a group of people who follow certain principles, which makes these individuals follow a particular belief, that's why every follower of any religion or culture understands or ignore what they have been taught to each that's why it's very important to check which category do you fall into because we are giving this matching orders as we have made vows to follow this groups, that's why it's very important to observe this rules and double check how much they affect your life, because sometimes what we eat is often guided by this lessons we have been given that's why we know what we should eat because of this individuals, the reason to give away this type of information is to prevent some illnesses, and even is to ensure order and power is maintained.Why some foods are reserved for Religious or cultural ceremonies alone?
The reality is there, observe this from your daily activities, or what you attend, ceremonies are guided by types of foods which speak to that particular theme, take for example the Passover of Jesus Christ, majority of Christians will start to eat certain foods to honor this ceremony, even in some cultural ceremonies, some foods will not have salt, especially in funerals, that's why as discussed you should take this practical examples from your personal lived experience because sometimes it takes time to understand why we are eating certain foods when that particular ceremony arrives because these reservations were made to maintain order and relevance of those respective ceremonies, and again it's to keep rules active so everyone can follow the procedures without hesitation.
Why food conspiracy is an issue?
Food conspiracies are challenging, because from the medical point of view what we eat has an impact on our general well being that's why we should check these factors about food conspiracies:
- Food labels
- Manufacturing country
- Experts behind the product
- Chemical included
- Expiration dates
- Diseases
- Side effects
- Tests done
- Education behind that food
- Safety concerns.
Why eating and abstaining many religions or cultures advocate for?
There's a huge relationship between food and abstaining from sex, because of you can check majority of cultures or religions always link this two subjects together that's why to have a good sex life you should master the art of abstaining as partners, because as indicated from our previous conversations sex is not all about physical contact alone, they are key layers which are somehow required to be explored as you grow older into your marriage or relationship, eating healthy is what most of this groups advocate for, because this helps control certain emotions, that's why in Christianity sex before marriage is regarded as a sin, that's why it's very important to analyze this topic looking at your experience about what you eat and how you abstain from sex, because this subject is very important as it has power to restore your health and other key factors of your life, that's why rules set by this religious groups always holds powerful guidelines about discipline to thyself, because that's where you can maintain order of your life.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 06 October 2021
What makes most issues never get solved in some marriages or relationships?
Solving matters are not easy and again sometimes married people struggle to solve issues because of the following reasons:
- Surrounding themselves with unhealthy people
- Choosing to hate
- Act as if your happiness is more important than your spouse
- Not putting the relationship ahead of everything
- Inability to start from scratch
- Taking one another for granted
- Not praying together
- Failing to attend counseling
- Changing Commitments.
Why do some partners never achieve in their marriage?
Achievements are very important when it comes to reviewing your marriage but these are key pitfalls that can lead the spouse's never achieve anything in their marriage:
- Lack of investment: time, money, education, health
- Unforgiveness: taking offense
- Not showing up for your spouse: lack of support
- Forgetting the friendship: no more fun
- Unspoken expectations: ignoring opportunities
- Lack of flexibility: Inability to change or explore
- Societal pressure: family drama
- Lack of self-knowledge: failing to accept each other
- Poor goals
- Comfort zone problem.
Can unsolved issues create conflicts?
Unsolved conflicts are very dangerous because they keep on recurring that's why you should reflect on this subject by looking at the following factors:
- Emotional intelligence
- Problem-solving
- Trust issues
- Counseling
- Bottled issues
- Discipline
- Unforgiveness
- Poor communication skills
- Family dilemmas
- Unrealistic expectations and goals
Responding to problems is not easy because oftentimes this happens when we are not ready and by surprise that's why whenever some problems show up we might find ourselves confused and depressed that's why on many occasions partners can end up entertaining problems with blames and complaints due to the following reasons which lead them to become incapable to respond to problems they are facing:
- Lack of interest
- Attending an affair
- Lack of clear boundaries
- Addictions
- Poor planning
- Financial problems.
What makes communication fail in a relationship or marriage?
Studies have pointed out the importance of learning how to communicate as partners but for many relationships or marriages communication still challenges the majority of partners and this comes back to the following facts leading communication to fail:
- Money issues
- Time problems
- Health issues
- Concentration issues
- Discourage words
- Secrets
- Fear
- Judgments
- Privacy issues
- Listening issues.
Startup Business
Title description: 05 October 2021, Innovation
What's the purpose of start-up Research?
The advantage of startup business research is paramount that's why you should look at the following benefits of research:
- Helps businesses to strengthen their position
- Minimize any investment risks
- It identifies potential threats and opportunities
- Helps to discover competitors' strengths and weaknesses
- It facilitates strategic planning
- It helps in spotting emerging trends
- Assist the business to stay ahead of the competition
- If the focus on customer demands and needs
- Helps to evaluate the success of a business against the benchmark.
Why Entrepreneurs avoid doing Research?
Majority of startup business entrepreneurs avoid conducting research for the following reasons:
- It's too costly: additional budget
- Spending on wrong operations
- Fear of criticism
- Not evaluating market feedback
- Poor planning
- Excuses about time
- Not understanding the business values
- Fear of approaching the customers
Research is the bedrock of all possibilities to help you to validate your concept in the market, that's why as always emphasized a startup business is a research model, and if you won't able to master the research path you won't succeed, because research is what teach new startups to be proven businesses, that's why entrepreneurs who avoid conducting always fail to validate their market's.
Research for a startup business should be guided by simplifying basics and getting feedback because whenever the research part becomes expensive it's very difficult for a startup business to maintain its benchmark because as indicated a startup business doesn't have the full operational capacity to handle certain activities that's why focusing on what you can it's very important, we recommend you to check our book called Disruptive Startup we have dealt with this topic and even provided answers to overcome this challenge.
Why do some startups Master the elements of research but fail to act?
We have touched on this topic again because not everyone who starts a business can master the importance of taking consistent action you should check the factors which prevent many startup businesses to avoid taking action:
- Procrastination
- Fear
- Failure
- Doubts
- Lack of planning
- Low self-esteem
- Too many ideas
- Organized system
- Poor skills
- Fear of rejections
We shall leave this approach for you to go and investigate in our book called Disruptive Startup because we have listed 3 phases a startup business should master to balance the equation of taking continuous action, but in the meantime try to learn from that list we have provided.
What kind of research matters for Your Start-up Business?
The fundamental of research can vary from one business to another but it's very important to check this type of research and how they affect the whole business operations:
- Online research
- Experimental research
- Survey research
- Casual comparative research
- Correctional research
- Website visitor research
- Case study research
- Focus group research
- Interview research
- Book research
Whenever you start to analyze what type of research suits your startup business, you should check how you interpret feedback because the majority of startups fail to analyze the feedback and act according to it.
How can you become innovative in your startup business Research?
Innovation is just a process of continuous research that's why you should check the following key elements which can assist you to become successful in innovative in your market research:
- Embrace uncertainty
- Seek small innovations
- Don't isolate innovation
- Don't rush to scale
- Define what innovation means to you
- Analyze what has made the company successful so far
- Align your innovation activity with the innovation goals
- Review your innovation goals
The whole part of this approach is documented in our book called Disruptive Startup it's very important to check the book so you can understand the factors we have mentioned above.
Career and Work
Title description: 04 October 2021, Career Doubts
Why we should be vigilant about unemployment stats?
We have to check these factors which increase unemployment so we can educate ourselves on how to remain relevant in these new markets by checking the following:
Two types of unemployment we should check :
- Structural unemployment
- Frictional unemployment
- Advances in technology: computer and robots replaces workers
- Voluntary work: short term
- Job outsourcing
- Relocation: companies moving to other countries
- Newly entering the workforce
- Re-entering the workforce
- Demand deficient: few jobs than applicants
Becoming aware of these factors can structure your career path according to market demands and changes because sometimes people fail to research these stats and interpret them based on what area they fall into because unemployment can affect you if you are working. After all, if prices are increasing and the majority of people are not working your earned money will be used to help your family that's why either way whenever unemployment raise it affects all citizens in some areas and we edge you to investigate this subject based on your personal experience and see how this situation of unemployment affect you.
Can the word unemployment decrease your confidence?
Majority of individuals never check how much words can affect us because some words can discourage us that's why to some people whenever you talk about unemployment they start to associate the situation with lack of something that's why words can affect our thinking as follows:
- Reflect our beliefs
- Shape the course of destiny
- Transforming our emotions
- Speaking positive words leads to positive thoughts
- Right words can make you happier
- Regulates our reactions
- Sharing experience
- Ignite change to move ourselves to action
- Improves the quality of our lives
- Boots our health
- Increase peace
This list shows us how words can affect us differently that's why the opposite side of this list is very bad because you cannot stand it and the majority of people use the opposite side of this list as they don't know how to deal with negative thoughts, because it's very challenging to remain positive while you feel you lack something that's why most of the people once they become unemployed they reflect or use negative words and again remaining positive should be followed by continuous actions because sometimes people give up because they don't take action and they somehow seek immediate results as noted it's very easy to get out of work but is difficult to get a job that's why you should understand this balance because your words can tell you if you will make it or not that's why words are creators of our lives especially if we take action and never give up.
Why we fear being unemployed?
The reality of being unemployed is challenging because as individuals we have hopes and aspirations that's why we can gain fear while we are unemployed because possibilities can discourage us, especially looking at this type of fear:
- Fear of loss of responding to emergencies
- Fear of loss of lifestyle improvements
- Fear of not getting the job
- Fear of loss of control
- Fear of criticism
- Fear of losing a relationship or marriage
- Fear of losing weight
- Fear of being embarrassed by your status as unemployed
- Fear of losing your responsibilities
- Fear of being left alone
- Fear of Feeling useless
- Fear of affordability
- Fear of repossession
Why do some people hate unemployed people?
The way some people can treat you while you are unemployed says a lot about them because whenever we lack something some people find it very welcoming to blame and even shame us that's why it's very important to check the following factors which can lead others to hate you because you are not employed:
- Blaming circumstances
- Complaints
- Financial problems
- Destress
- Lost of hope
- Giving up
- Shifting responsibilities
- Emotional intolerance
- Not accepting the reality
- Failing to take action again
This tendency of failing to take full responsibility for your actions is something one should pay attention to because if you want to achieve your goals to get ahead it's very important to stop blaming the circumstances and start doing something about your problems. After all, if you keep on blaming while doing nothing you wasting your precious time, that's why some people can hate your attitude towards not taking full responsibility to make new changes in your life.
It's very easy to complain because no one can stop or bill you, but remember complaints are very important if they are sent to the right person to deal with them more than that complaints can waste our time if we complain and do nothing about our lives.
Can being unemployed increase your worries?
As discussed being unemployed is not easy as it involves different types of challenges and again you can check these types of worries:
- Post-traumatic stress disorder
- Obsessive-compulsive disorder
- Specific phobias
- Social anxiety
- General worry
As human beings we cope differently when it comes to unemployment, that's why our worries can teach us to learn about what is bothering us and dealing with those particular worries is what will assist us to overcome our worries, whenever we are unemployed we can choose to solve our problems or just keep on complaining about matters as unsolvable, remember sometimes people don't know what is bothering them that's why they end up becoming miserable with their problems, unemployment is one of the greatest challenging element of life because it always reduces confidence and even invites hater's that's why it's very important to check your job industry while working if you can get another job and always save money for rainy days because covid-19 pandemic has proven to us that some jobs are not permanent that's why you should pick the right direction.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 03 October 2021, Success and haters
Why do we care too much about our haters?
Achievements matters that's why if you can check we spend half of our lives seeking achievements that's why if we are not commented about our achievements we end up becoming doubtful about our my achievements but we care for the following reasons:
- Sense of Identify
- Memory collection
- Restoration of courage
- Recognition
- Value-driven
- Survival
- Pleasure
- Dignity
- Career profile
- Benefits
Can we rely on others to comment we are the best?
Mankind is conditioned to seek approval is some sort that's why from childhood upbringing majority of children are programmed to be appreciated only if they have done something good and this goes a long way because we grow up with this mentality of thinking that only others can confirm we are the best by congratulating us that's why for most people achievements don't matter if they are not congratulated and we won't blame this activity because it's based on mental conditioning that's why whenever we are told we are the best we turn to behave differently that's why discouragements can ruin our lives and again some comments matters because they assist us to unleash our creative powers that's why every individual is motivated by something and how you do your best comes from how you understand this approach of being the best.
Why do people hate you once you become successful?
Mankind cannot hate without no reason that's why we have collected this list to help you why some people can hate you for being successful:
- They are not doing anything to change the life they don't like
- You took step's necessary to make it happen
- Your success reminds them the norm is not fulfilling
- Your success reminds them that they gave up on their dreams due to fear, uncertainty, and societal pressure
- You didn't follow the status quo
- You improved
- You surpassed them
- They don't understand what you went through to achieve the success
- Your success reminds them they have unfulfilled dreams, but they aren't working to make them happen
- You doing well
- You are evolving
Can haters prevent you from being successful?
The greatest regret is to give up because you are criticized by enemies, that's why it's very important to understand the role of enemies because sometimes we as individuals can prevent ourselves from taking action because we give too much attention to our enemies that's why in this life no one can prevent you from achievement but only you and it's upon you to either take action or allow your enemies to talk about your inability to succeed, because the reason we have enemies is to check out the direction and pursue our goals because enemies are very important as they help us to test our potential and even do our best just to prove them wrong, and again enemies can disturb your comfort zone that's why Success, as we have indicated, is a weapon because it can calm down your enemies.
Why do we care too much about our haters?
Remember haters are like flies, if we don't care where they fly into we will end up having a spoiled menu, haters can reveal your vulnerabilities that's why the only way to silent haters is to succeed and keep on improving your life because haters will always be there regardless of what you do that's why as noted haters are like flies you should understand how to deal with them before they can disturb your attention, again we care about haters for this reasons:
- Acts of kindness from us
- How they put us down is how we draw our motivation
- Get engagement by trolling back
- Take compliments
- Change criticism to fuel us
- Stick to our commitments
- Listening to criticism but pushing forward
- Access to learning something
- An opportunity to check within ourselves
- Learning to manage our emotions and be grateful
Health and Life
Title description: 02 October 2021, General wellbeing
Can family and friends support improve our health?
Support play an important role into our lives that's why whenever we are sick we are surrounded family members and it's very important to understand this path because mankind belong to a certain community that's why as mentioned isolation can destroy us, illness's can humble us that's why whenever we find ourselves sick we start to see life different and even pay attention to those basics needs such as appreciating the time we still have in this world, remember sickness always alert us about death that's why we feel so good to see our family members supporting us during this difficult times of our lives and family support can assist us to improve our health because sometimes as individuals we seek that additional hand or motivation from our key family members just to mention few of this support motivational words, like being told things will be ok, this can encourage us to recover because hope is what mankind requires during this testing times because with family members we can find comfort and peace to accept and even see the brighter side of life that's why this support structures given by the family is more important than anything you can imagine.
Why we should rely on ourselves to be happy and healthy?
Independence is power that's why if you want to analyze this topic even further check how you conduct your daily activities, you will realize how much efforts are required from your side to succeed on what you do as an individual, whenever we rely on ourselves we begin to reduce this challenge of expectations because if you can check our disappointments always reduce our focus span that's why sometimes as an individual you should draw strength from thyself and start to trust your true potential and skills to do what you have planned because life is too short to rely on people who don't deliver that's why to increase our expectations can harm your confidence especially if those people don't deliver that's why self reliance is power regardless of what circumstances are you facing because whenever we rely on ourselves we use our imagination and mindset to find the solutions for our challenge, you can begin to test how you rely on others or your self and check which kind of reliance is working for life because most people always rely too much on others that's why it's very easy to give up whenever those people fail to deliver or assist you, remember this is your life.
Can friends and family destroy your health?
There's something our families and friends can do especially destroying our health, this is called emotional suppression, majority of people end up struggling from this problem because sometimes our families can shared words which can discourage us especially if we are sick that's why it's very important to understand how this emotional suppression work's , because whenever people start to share discouraging words about our health status we can end up losing on our health, this can sound basic but it's very emotional challenging because certain individuals always points the truth whenever they find our health status that's why whether you like it or not people will judge your health regardless of you good health that's why sometimes you should rely on your self motivation because sometimes words can only destroy you if you give them attention that's why it's very important to understand the importance of paying attention towards your thoughts because people destroy us based on what we accept to be truthful into our health status.
Why we should check our family or friend's habits?
According to scientific research our habits can be associated with the habits of others that's why it's very important to understand who you spend your time with because they can affect your habits that's why the wise man said it enough when he points out how birds of the same feather flock together, whenever you give too much attention to bad habits you should reflect who you spend your time with constantly that's why our lives are sometimes either improved or destroyed by people who we spend time with them the most that is why our parents can condition us to function in a particular fashion and even adopt certain habits from them and it's very important to check your habits and see who is having similar habits from your family or friends and review if this habits helping you to succeed or not.
What makes it so hard for some friends or family to support each other during hard times?
Support plays an important role because each one of us requires support from each other that's why if we are supported we end up feeling not loved and this are key factors which can make our family members or friends fail to support us during hard times:
- Priorities
- Access
- Affordability
- Revenge
- Unsolved conflicts
Most people can start to neglect to support each other based on unsolved conflicts and revenge, because as individuals we sometimes take conflicts very personal especially if we no longer have any good relationship with our friends or families that's why it's very difficult to support each other during hard times because mankind doesn't with what happened that's why if someone is sick we check the relationship we have with them that's why support can reveal true colors of some individuals that's why sometimes people can seek revenge on you especially if you are sick, sicknesses can advertise your vulnerabilities that's why only family members and friends can cover you with support.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 01 October 2021 , Happiness and food
Why some people are naturally happy?
Our thoughts are not the same as individuals, they are several people who are naturally happy and we advice you to observe this individuals from your society, then please review this even further, they are some individuals who are miserable by naturally, all this factors can be traced back to our thoughts because remember what we have been emphasizing, happiness is a choice, and this individuals we are about here they always give more attention to what they can control and we sometimes see them as happy people without looking what is happening inside their mindset, some times it's very important to understand how happiness is created because you can outwit unhappiness just by changing your thoughts, this can sound basic but it really works for those who are willing to take action on it, remember mankind is born happy it's just the meanings we used as individuals which can confuse us, that's why to confirm happiness you just look at your thoughts and how you feel about certain emotions, because majority of people end up comparing their happiness with others that's why we end up saying others are naturally happy than us but we should review how do we know about this because without proper comparison we don't know about this subject.
Can being stubborn make us happy?
Mankind is conditioned to do certain things, that's why we should look at how being stubborn can affect us as individuals, because the information about why there's something good on being stubborn it's not properly shared, because as individuals we view stubbornness with only one approach which is negative mind, that's why if we hear this word stubborn them we begin to associate it with bad attitude, but sometimes it's very important to understand how stubborn you should be when it comes to protect your happiness, because people who are stubborn are very challenging to interact with that's why even if you are happy it should be hard for some individuals to ruin your happiness, because the foundation of your happiness is safeguarded by stubbornness, this can sound crazy but remember our capacity to remain happy always lies on us that's why it's all about you when it comes to happiness to thyself, that's why no one can approve your happiness or misery until you confirm it with your words.
Why does being greedy make us care less?
The basic element of greediness is to search for this illusion called more, that's why if you can check people who seek more are somehow greedy in some areas that's why if you are interested to explore this topic even further, check how greedy are you as an individual, we sometimes escape to check ourselves when it comes to this topic, because we view greediness as something which is done by others not us that's why we can get easily blame them for being greedy whenever in some instance we are part of that particular greediness, and again whenever we are not caring then we should question our state of mind, because sometimes it can be something which requires medical intervention that's why to some people being greedy is ranked as an illness.
Can being happy increase your confidence?
According to science happiness is a choice that's why even our confidence is under our thoughts and control that's why sometimes whenever we are happy we find it easy to express ourselves especially by pointing out our deepest desires and fantasies, but happiness is all about self-confidence because you should keep on sustaining it by maintaining your self-motivation and even improve your ability to exercise your options, especially by choosing which type of thoughts you can give attention too, because if mankind is not happy their chaos is always available that's why we associate unhappy people as trouble maker's because they lack proper courage and confidence to face their thoughts and change to become happy individuals.
Why do some foods help us be happy?
Food is medicine, that's why several scientific theories have been documented on this subject, and we should draw lessons from this because some foods can make us feel slightly slow and others can increase our productivity that's why you should perform this research on your diet and see which types of food affect your oxytocin and why because we cannot be masters of our lives if we don't understand what we are eating because food is medicine and if we ingest wrong medicine then we are affecting our lives that's why good health with appropriate diet can increase your happiness because sometimes our thoughts are mainly controlled by what we eat that's why we feel in a certain way after eating some foods and again food can increase our strength that's why it's very important to check the subject of food on a scientific approach because you can improve something about your life.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 28 November 2021
Why do some married people dress the certain way?
Clothing plays an important role, especially in different cultures or religious groups, many people who are married are required to wear certain outfits, this is historical documented, some people will always prefer to wear certain outfits for some occasions, that's why it's very important to understand that marriage on its own has something to add on what we wear as individuals, because sometimes as married people enter their union, sometimes cultural or religious principle's can caution these individuals to wear certain outfits for various reasons, that's why in many societies people who are married we can sometimes identify them with the outfits they wear, that's why how you cloth can say a lot about your marital status because certain outfits indeed are mostly reserve for married people.
Why do women who are married choose clothes for their husband's?
The first thing we should remember about marriage is how people end up becoming one thing, that's why it's somehow within our biological footprint to see many married people choosing clothes for their man, this is something to consider because regardless of how you see this topic somehow married people are always regarded to be one thing, that's why many women will always go an extra mile to make sure their man is preventable because if their man is not presentable this comes back to them, that's why sometimes we should understand the nature of women and man because when it comes to how man cloth sometimes their women do make those choices that's why if a man is not presentable many people will not blame the man but his women, it's within our biological nature to see women as nurtures, that's why if you are not married or not into a committed relationship it's highly impossible to find yourself with someone intervening on your clothing attire.
Why clothing can reveal if someone is married?
How we cloth can categorize us as individuals, because if you can check mostly partner's who are married turn to wear certain outfits that's why this goes with relationships categories, because if you are not married somehow you won't have this restrictions to what you are supposed to wear, again we should remember how our cultures and religions plays an important role to conditioned us to think that if you are married you should wear certain outfits, this is happening regardless of how mankind is evolving on this subject, many people still hold back to this believes, because if you can check as married people or those who are into committed relationships, you can have this tendency to care too much about how you appear as partners especially on certain occasions, that's why it's very important to understand that how we wear has something to do with our relationships or how we feel, that's why it's very easy to see if someone is single, the outfit and the body language can reveal all this information.
Why married people's cultures or religions choose clothes for them?
The fundamental facts are there, because as individuals we come from different types of this influential institutions, we should not forget to check our history about marriage, because sometimes people can fail to understand this topic because they don't trace back what happened in the past, that's why if you can check sometimes people still conform to this historical believes on what the married people are supposed to wear, this is something to investigate, because sometimes they are different reasons why certain cultures or religions will always prefer to make sure married people wear certain outfits, this can help the society to identify them and even start to treat them based on their relationship status, that's why discrimination is something which goes a long way, because by certain outfits we can find ourselves discriminating those who are not married, that's why before you can adopt this clothing standards you should seek clarity on how they link to your believes and your family history, because sometimes people can evolve but this believes still remains.
Can married people wear what they want?
The ability to exercise choices is one of the fundamental advantage most married people have today, because if you can check the following factors which were forced into marriages, especially clothing attire is now being loosen up, because people are changing and challenging this believes, but we should remember mankind is still leaving under this guilty trap of attaching his status to what he has been taught, that's why it's not normal in some instances to wear certain outfits, regardless of how liberated you can be , sometimes our cultural and religious believes are ingrained in our sub conscious mind that's why it's very important to understand that what is inside can be something which makes us feel guilty if we wear certain outfits, that's why married people can wear what they want but they somehow understand the restrictions to what they are suppose to wear based on different occasions that's why as discussed this clothing subject is broader because sometimes we have adopted this believes from our parents and families that's why it's very hard to remove them, because if we appear to wear something inappropriate we know how we are going to face certain criticism, that's why to be liberated on this subject will take time and it can require additional skills to reprogram the mindset.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 27 November 2021
How to use correct communication to solve your marriage stress?
Many relationship and marriage experts will always give advice about learning how to communicate to each other as partners, yet up to so far many partners still find it hard to master this part of communication, we should remember how important it is to understand the nature of human being especially when it comes to self expression, we sometimes have different types of personalities, some partners are introvert and extrovert, that's why the communication subject for majority of people can become a chaos, because bas you learn you partner you can realize this differences, that's why it's very important to understand the nature of our personalities before the advice of communication is given, because oftentimes partners will try to communicate but somehow the communication can fail because of our personalities style's, that's why you cannot solve something if your partner is not willing to listen, again your stress can be created because your partner doesn't listen or interprete your message wrong, but what matters here is to allow partners to begin to learn about theirs personalities styles but because most partners who struggle with this challenge of failing to solve problems with communication, will always blame the other partner because sometimes communication matters because we can express our deepest concerns that's why it's very important to start learning about communication and match it with your personality styles.
Can too many insecurities cause stress in a marriage or relationship?
Love connect's us as human beings, most partners never realize how powerful Love can be until something start to get out of control, that's why to love somebody is something beautiful but it can turn out to be dangerous if used incorrectly, that's why we as human beings we are born with love and we attach ourselves to it based on different types of feelings and choices, that's why any relationship or marriage without love is a nightmare, because with love comes care and compassion again once partners love each other they have this ability to exercise some of this creative power's to channel their relationship or marriage towards success, because love cannot fail us unless we don't pay attention to what we are doing that's why if you love someone you will go an extra mile to protect them even though they have failed you but with love mankind turns out to be less judgemental that's why to love is one of the greatest blessing you can find yourself into as an individual, because once love takes place you will always be driven by different types of emotions that's why we are so attached to Love.
Why we are so attached to love as partners?
The way you understand the topic of insecurities always can increase or decrease your confidence, because as noted above partners will differ based on personalities styles, that's why we have some partners by nature they are insecure because of their personalities styles, some times as individuals we don't study this science because we begin or rush into the relationship or get married, that's why we can realize later how important it was to check this red flags about insecurities from our partners, because sometimes this insecurities can stem from deep memories or psychological problems that's why if you can check this approach of abuse is somehow influenced by the problem of insecurities, because we as individuals we don't check what is good or bad about this insecurities from our partners and again we can tell you it's very simple to study this factors especially if you can begin to pay attention towards the body language and their actions you can learn something about their insecurities, because at the end you can become stressed because you have married or committed to an insecure partner and this can increase your chances to end up becoming miserable or even get emotional abused, because sometimes being insecure can lead others to be selfish and ignorant.
Why do we avoid reality by consuming too much sex?
Partners will always used sex for different reasons, that's why if you can check mankind is going through a lot because somehow as partners you can be overwhelmed by challenges of life and sex can assist you to escape from such stress you are facing, sometimes we don't check the importance of sex that's why we should remember that majority of people are addicted to sex by they are ashamed because sometimes our cultures or religions don't allow people to talk about sex again with proper sexual engagement, partners can begin to learn about what interest them and what they should stop doing, because with sex we can explore different types of our desires and even our deepest pleasures that's why with sex we become connected to our natural powers that's why as you begin to revist this topic of sex you should be opened to possibilities because sometimes partners fail because they don't open themselves to express and explore the other side of sex, that's why it's very important to understand that sex is not about penis and vagina, there is more into this subject that's why to have sex is important but part of life and if you can check our stress can reduce once we use sex accurately not abuse it.
How to evaluate your marriage's sexual health?
The fact is this sex plays an important role into any relationship or marriage, that's why lack of sex can introduce many problems into the relationship, because partners if they don't have sex then what's left can be something dangerous because human beings always seek connections that's why cheating is one of the greatest challenging element especially if one of the partner is having low libido, because with sex comes connection that's why if you can check majority of partners struggle to find out why some problems cannot be solved especially their emotional stress, because if you are open to talk and fix your relationship or marriage problems you stand a chance to have a healthy sexual life, because performance goes hand in hand with focus and concentration that's why if you have too much problems into the relationship or marriage this can affect your sexual performance as partner's that's why it's very important for partners to learn about this factors as they can increase problem into the relationship again to evaluate this matter you need to be aware this can take time and even require both partners to work together because sometimes partners fail to understand that problems can end up becoming habits that's why you can lose your sexual interest because you have given too much attention to problems and you take them into your bedroom and again health issues can increase your chances to perform very well on this subject of sex.
Startup Business
Title description: 26 November 2021
How to Innovate from data?
- Automation
- Convenient sharing of files
- Cost-efficient
- Security
- Usability and accessibility
- Disaster recovery.
- Scalable
- Synchronization
- Convenience
- Multiple users
How to take advantage of your stored data?
Get a single, holistic view of business performance to drive innovation.
• Improve and simplify decision making
Our experience as a transformation partner has shown that organizations with a robust data foundation also ensure their people can make informed decisions. A single data repository, secured by account-based permissions, enables and accelerates this.
• Disrupt business models with innovation
Wherever business models are disrupted by AI and machine-learning.
• Empower innovation for all employees
Our research suggests firms that gain the most from technology have also invested in skilling their people. It follows that leaders who build a culture of continuous learning into their data journey will be the ones who achieve the most success.
How to master data Execution?
- Planning
- Research
- Experimentation
Why Startup Businesses fail to execute on data collected?
Burned out/lacked passion. Work-life balance is not something that startup founders often get, so the risk of burning out is high.
- Product mistimed.
- Poor product.
- Disharmony among team/investors.
- Pivot went bad.
- Regulatory/legal challenges.
- Pricing/cost issues.
- Wrong team.
Can data Execution create opportunities for your Start-up Business?
- Continuous learning
- Improvements
- Investment attraction
- Leading innovation
- Traction
Career and Work
Title description: 25 November 2021
What makes success to become so difficult?
They are key factors that contribute to what makes some people end up not becoming successful, we have listed a few contributions:
- Focus
How many people fail because they don't have focus?
- Discipline
How many people don't comply with accountability?
- Commitment
How many people set goals and dumb them?
- Patience
How many people become impatient because things are not working out?
- Failure
How many people give up once hitting the rock bottom?
These questions should help you to understand how others end up failing because they don't comply with the basic standards of success, it's very important to understand that it takes time to figure it out, especially what's working because if you can check most people never bother to focus on their goals that's why we have too many individuals who are envious about the success of others this stem from not achieving your goals that's why success only becomes more difficult if you fail to pay attention to this factors we have listed above.
How to match your skills to achieve your success?
Majority of individuals don't know that success is a set of skills which some are working and others failing, to match your skills to succeed you should begin to pay attention to the following elements such as :
- Goals
- Plans
- Schedule
- Action
- Evaluation
What kind of goals do you have, we have done astonishing work to help you to deal with this challenge, we have covered this topic in our book called Goal's Toolbox Why Goals Fail And What To Do, it's very important to read this book so you can understand the importance of matching your skills with the right information and action to succeed.
Why we don't check the success requirements?
How can you check something you don't pay attention to?
It's very important to understand that sometimes people can avoid checking what is important not because they are not aware but due to these factors majority of people miss to fulfill the success requirements:
- Ignorance
Sometimes what we ignore can add more trouble to our lives, that's why if you are ignoring it's highly impossible to succeed in some areas of your life, basic things will always seem impossible for you because you are using ignorance.
- Doubts
Your doubts create these self-made imposing beliefs, that's why you can qualify with skills and experience but if you operate your life based on doubts it can be a barrier to succeed because our doubts create our failures that's why if you don't check these requirements you can blame life whenever you are the solution to your problems.
- Lost of hope
Hope is a requirement for success, regardless of what you do for things to work out for you, hope should be part of your tool, because sometimes people fail to meet the requirements for success because they lose hope in their plans and dream that's why you can fail mentally and emotionally that's why success takes diverse skills to accomplish it.
- Negative mindset
Your thinking plays an important role in your overall success, sometimes people end up becoming cynical about their lives because they begin to compare their lives with others and this can affect your ability to concentrate on your life that's why negative thoughts don't benefit from them but always pay the price of suffering to maintain these thoughts that's why negative mindset can fail you especially if you want to do something worth about your life.
- Comfort zone
This is one of the greatest reasons why the majority of people always fail to meet the requirements of success, the comfort zone this attitude to strive for instant gratification success cost many people to be rejected by success because with the comfort zone comes bills that are why you cannot be comfortable while you are broke and this is confusing because sometimes people take this subject of comfort zone for granted, that's why we have told you how success is selective, we hope as you read this topic you can understand what makes others succeed.
Can success become a habit?
The law of cause and effect is important because if you can check our results are mostly created by our habits, so this helps us to analyze this topic based on facts because success and failure all these factors are habits, that's why to help you to understand this approach further we have listed these elements which cause success to be a habit:
- Routine
Your daily activities determine your results
- Behaviours
How you behave says a lot about your success
- Attitude
How you treat yourself says a lot about your success
- Character
How you present yourself says a lot about our success.
- Results
The outcome you get from your actions says a lot about your success.
All these factors contribute towards your habits, that's why if you can check your routine you can discover what delays you from becoming successful that's why with routine multiple habits are created and some end up operating automatically, again with your routine you can manage to create this good healthy habits for success.
Why we fail to become successful?
Mankind by nature always strive for something, and success is one of the greatest goals most people can dedicate their lives to work and sacrifice for it, but they're some leading reason why some people cannot be successful looking at these facts:
- Impatient
- Criticism
- Waiting for the perfect time
- Fears
- Doubts
- Bad habits
- Low self-esteem
- Poor goals
- Failures
- Negative thoughts
- Not paying attention to details
- Failing to focus on what's working
- Not taking action
Success and Wealth
Title description: 24 November 2021
The power of saying NO?
Mankind always can choose what to say about regardless of what challenges they are constantly facing, because as human beings we are mentally conditioned to shy away from expressing ourselves, that's why the power to say no can be something threatening to many of us because to say no it requires you to be brave enough and be willing to take your grip at what you want or feel it's right, because whenever we start to exercise our capacity to say no, somehow we begin to free ourselves from anything which was imposed on us, that's to say no it requires power, and with the right approach to say no you can be able to maintain your peace of mind because sometimes people end up struggling due to this inability to say no, again there's power with our words that's why no can trigger our mental memories and it's very important to understand the power of your no because sometimes you can protect your life based on using your no's accurate.
Why we hate no?
Majority of people are raised from families which oftentimes teach them to say no, but it's very challenging because this happens unconsciously, that's why if you want to trace this matter you are supposed to review what kind of no's have you received and which ones have build something inside yourself and why, because sometimes we end up hating certain things or circumstances because we were rejected by others, no is one of the greatest powerful word , because the more you get it the more you can lose confidence or increase it all depends on how you state of mind will respond towards what you are facing, but most people can tell you how they hate to be told no, because whenever we are rejected we turn to judge and justify, that's why to understand how you cope with this word no, you should check out how often you get it and how you react, because sometimes hatred can be hidden,you can hate someone because they have rejected with no, sometimes people can give up because they are told they won't amount to nothing that's why we emphasize the importance of checking yourself how you deal with this challenge of receiving your no.
Can saying NO become your skill?
It's highly recommend to get yourself into this process of understanding what kind of behaviours or thoughts can assist you to enhance your skills to master your capacity to say no, because most people suffer from saying yes to things they don't want, that's why misery is always available to many, because sometimes it's very important to check how you use this skill of saying no, again whenever we start to maintain this skill of saying no without feeling any guilty or offence then we are utilizing our innate powers, because sometimes our regrets are created by our inability to say no, because so many people are afraid to say no because of the fear to be judged by others, that's why the best way to analyze this topic is to check what you say yes to and you don't feel okay about it, you are supposed to begin there and start step by step to learn to say no, because sometimes we can create chaos into our lives unware that's why with this power to say no you can protect your focus and attention even your happiness, the skills are always inside yourself or you can learn this from someone even by reading this blog you are adding knowledge to yourself to say no.
Why procrastination is a challenge?
We procrastinate for different reasons but what matters is that not everyone is aware of what keeps them trapped in this process of continuous procrastination, because sometimes natural we can procrastinate not because we don't know how to meet the deadline but because we just need some time to figure out that particular thing, that's why it's very important to understand how procrastination takes part into our lives because to procrastinate can help us to understand why we are delaying something, that's why it's very important to check your habits and skills when it comes to procrastination because one cannot succeed with procrastination if you don't check what is happening inside your mind, that's why sometimes people can use procrastination as an excuse to avoid taking and even fulfilling certain responsibilities which require their attention and efforts.
Why do we feel bad to say No?
We feel bad to say no because we are human beings who constantly find ourselves controlled by our thoughts and emotions, that's why to some people saying no can be one of the greatest challenging activity to say, because sometimes saying no will require some strength, because as discussed we are not trained to say no without feeling guilty, that's why we can suffer with some behaviours because we don't know how to say no, again saying no is a skill, because when time goes you become better at saying no to things you don't want, and feeling bad to say no is one of the greatest mental barrier you can find yourself into, because if you can check they are plenty of things waiting for you to correct and you should start looking at what you can say no to and why, because as indicated we have entered the fourth industrial revolution majority of people are constantly facing this instant gratification distractions that's why it's very important to understand what why saying no can assist you to better your life and again saying no it only becomes bad if you share it but not being honest to yourself that's why you can suffer from this attitude of failing to say no whenever you know that what you are doing is wrong and you need to change the direction of your plans.
Health and Life
Title description: 23 November 2021
How to check your positive thoughts?
Many people will always struggle to find out what kind of thoughts rule their lives, because mostly we are taught enough about how to deal or check our thoughts, that's why if you can check majority of people can manage to check what's happening inside their mindset but because we sometimes struggle to find answers we turn to think that others will know better about our lives more than us, that's why continues suffering is taking part, because mankind is drifting to accept his thoughts and start changing what's not working, dealing with our thoughts is hardwork, because we should be discipline enough to act on certain agreed mental conditioning or start to remove this patterns, checking your thoughts is very easy you just look at what you are doing with your life and how you are you feeling about the results you are accomplishing, because sometimes people can miss this steps, and try to figure something opposite from what's happening inside their mindset, that's why we can manage to cure or change our lives if we begin to utilize our thoughts to our advantage not to our disadvantage, because what matters at the end is how you feel about your thoughts and actions.
What are the benefits of paying attention to positive thoughts?
Science is providing evidence and even concrete reasons on how we benefit from utilizing our positive thoughts, because at the end you life can be determined by how you view this topic of thoughts, you can take a practical observation and check who are the most successful people and what kind of mentality they are using and you will realize most of this people have build this self motivation and they keep on maintaining their thoughts and even improve what they value the most, that's why they are key benefits for adding positive thoughts into your life because you can change your life and even be able to improve something which was impossible, because on occasions we don't benefit too much from our negative thoughts, we do suffer from entertaining them, sometimes it matters to accept that this nagative thoughts but it's very important to check if your life is not structured around this negative thoughts because at the end you might find yourself trapped by your negative thoughts to accomplish certain goals or plans, that's why it all begins with a thought that's why is very important to understand how you deal with your thoughts and even keep on checking which thoughts helps you to improve your life on continues basis, the most problem people encounter is that they fail to remove this negative thoughts because they are used to them and this is very challenging and it will require time and even change of habits to win this challenge.
Why it's very hard to overcome bad thoughts?
Changing our thoughts is not easy, because it will involve extensive personal discipline and order because if you can check most people don't enjoy life not because they lack money, but because they have bad habits which controls their lives, that's why without good habits it's very hard to enjoy life, because at the end bad habits are difficult to maintain and even burdens in our lives, that's why we can suffer from this nagative thoughts which helps us to maintain this bad habits that's why on constant basis majority of people are seeking ways to quite from this bad habits but only few people succeed, because changing the routine will always demand change on your behaviours and most people will rather die of this pain to keep this bad habits than to change the direction of their lifestyle, it's very hard to change if you still want to look at the back that's why there's no habits that can be removed without your consent that's why if you can check it's your choice to stop engaging into this bad habits, sometime the best advice is to tell yourself enough is enough and start taking action on what you want to change, because habits only rule us if we lose power to say no to them, that's why it's very important to understand how you make your decision because they can assist you to remove this bad habits.
What's the value of good health thinking?
The yin and yang scenario is part of our lives, but sometimes they are key reasons why good thinking can assist us to improve our lives and the world, you should observe how much efforts it will take to maintain bad thinking, because for some reason mankind end up becoming miserable or stressed because he fails to think accurately, that's why we still emphasize the importance of checking your thoughts and pay attention to details on what kind of life is your thinking creating for you, because if you think about bad it's very important to understand that bad things will always come over you, that's why we edge you to reflect on your mindset and start questioning your thinking, because at sometimes you will realize you can be the problem maker for your life and even the solution maker that's why good thinking is very important and it's more beneficial to our lives, again with bad thinking we just have to learn how to balance the equation because we can learn more about what makes this negative thoughts before we can move ahead to apply positive thoughts, that's why it's very important to understand how your mindset function, because for some reason you either use positive or nagative thoughts on daily basis that's why good thinking helps us to track this mental patterns and start to apply our choices for what we should think about constantly because this helps to build our lives.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 22 November 2021
How to know if you have attained happiness?
The way you view this topic can tell us about your ability to understand what makes you happy because most people never took time to check what makes them happy, that's why we should be careful to think that laughter is happiness because most people can struggle to attain happiness because sometimes as individuals we turn to postpone certain things and think that one day will come when we are going to be happy, sometimes people can think that if they will have more money they will be happy, that's why to know about your happiness, it's very important to check your habits and thoughts because somehow mankind is capable of building his traps and suffer because he is not aware of what's happening inside his mind, again for some reason to know if you have attained happiness you need to check your feeling about what you are doing and how life is unfolding for you as an individual.
Why it's becoming hard to be happy if we are not grateful?
Majority of us as individuals we sometimes suffer from being happy because we fail to acknowledge the basics things about happiness that's why if you can check, whenever we are not happy most of us we don't check the cause, we turn to pretend as if is how life is all about, again for happiness to be part of your life you need to be aware about your thoughts and actions, because sometimes people can fail to check what's happening inside their mindset that's why it's very very hard for some people to research their happiness, because they fail to practice basic things such as being grateful about something in their lives, that's why if you can check being unhappy is one of the greatest challenging and even the cause to our nagative thoughts, that's why if you are not happy you should ask yourself what is creating that particular situation to lead you to be and what you are supposed to do in order to accept what's beyond your control, again during this 21st century, most people can find it hard to be happy because this social media networks have created this new lifestyle of competition.
Can being grateful increase your happiness?
Grateful People can be able to pay attention to what makes them happy, and somehow accept what's beyond their control, sometimes people fail to be happy because they don't pay attention to thoughts and actions, that's why if you can check the more you become grateful, the more you start to appreciate little things which are working in your life and what life is bringing to you as an individual. After all, if you are not happy they are key reasons why you are not happy and the majority of people will always shy away to face this truth because it exposes their failures to comply to the basics of life, that's why if you can check more grateful people can turn to be successful, because sometimes the law of attraction take part into our lives, especially if we start to pay attention towards what we expect to happen on our lives.
Why does the truth make us feel happy?
The way our society has conditioned mankind is absolutely challenging, because oftentimes as individuals we turn to be challenged by the truth, somehow not everyone is ready to face this monster called the truth, because as discussed we are somehow taught to think that the truth is most hardest thing you can ever face, that's why we end up suffering as human beings, because we never check this mental conditioning, again we find it difficult to tell the truth because we are not used to be feeling or even the consequences of standing up for our truth, that's why if majority of people can begin to tell the truth mostly people will be cured from some mental conditioning, and even some negative thoughts can start to shift away, because the more you lie the more you create this internal deeper problems with your soul, that's why we always feel guilty and we don't check what is creating this guilty inside ourselves, the truth is very important become the more we associate our lives with the truth the more we start to be happy and even begin to live a health and peaceful life.
Why do we hide our true happiness?
The way we are mentally conditioned is difficult to take this practical observation, because as human beings we turn to associate or behave based on the environment we live under, that's why you can be happy inside but if you live under this oppressive environment you can find it hard to express your happiness, take for example this new technological advances, majority of people can hide their happiness on the picture, that's why how to associate with those social media networks can affect how you end feeling, that's why we can pretend to be happy on this social media networks yet we know deep inside we are hiding something which is bothering our lives, again, as human beings is very hard to express our happiness because majority of people are not happy, that's why to others being happy is a blessing, because not everyone is happy, that's why if you can check you can spend your entire life not paying attention towards what makes you happy, because sometimes as we grow up we turn to ignore our happiness that's why we end up becoming bitter and and even more negative about life.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 21 November 2021
Who should tolerate pain in our marriages?
Pain is part of life, we should remember that mankind is often feeling pain, it's not because marriages don't work, sometimes we as human beings we bring our emotional burdens into our marriages or relationships, that's why its very important to understand that no one is more better or demanded to be an individual who can feel pain, that's why if you can check mostly partner's can interpret pain differently, and this can differ from what the cause of pain can be , that's why if you want to check this out, sometimes married women or not can be regarded as people who can tolerate pain than man, that's why this ongoing debate we have recently about sexual consent it drives our points back to this topic that women can be subjected to sexual pain in the name of love or marriage or relationship titles, that's why pain is equal no man or women feel less about pain but because our society has made it easier for man to hide their pains that's why mostly in marriages or relationships man can avoid to talk about their pains because it is regarded as a symbol of weaknesses that's why man can cause pain and pretend they are not aware about their moves, pain should be checked as partners because sometimes it can extend some problems into your relationship.
Why woman are seen as emotional people who can express their emotions?
Biological mankind especially women are blessed with this instincts to interpret the emotions that's why mostly women's they can prioritize what they are feeling more than what they can think, because as we can investigate this subject, sometimes we should look at the biological factors which adds this facts, because sometimes women do carry emotional burdens like man but because as we can observe our society has done huge damage on man to dominate this subject of emotions as people who don't have emotions and heros who don't feel nothing, that's why today we have this society of man who are abusive towards our families, because man is out of control because he cannot understand this emotions and woman can be capable to raise this emotion, that's why man can lie with words but women can detect the truth with your actions and how you make them feel as a Man, because women can suffer from expressing their emotions publicly, that's why we can see them as individuals who are emotional and this creates this society of man who can don't care about emotions but act with emotions to create this process of continues abuse.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 20 November 2021
Can too much worry destroy your marriage?
Worry is an integral part of life, because most people never pay attention towards what creates their worries, that's why sometimes people can drift from life, because they fail to understand how to deal with their worries, sometimes as individuals we do worry for different reasons that's why what matters is to check those repetitive worries you have on continues basis, because if you can trace this worries you might find something meaningful, that's some partners can worry about each other but fail to communicate their worries with one another, that's why insecurities always can increase awareness of many things, because according to our observation too much worries can create this barriers whereby one partner start to feel suppress by their thoughts unware, and this can increase moods and even trigger this attitude of assuming than asking what's happening, sometimes partner can change their behaviours and this can introduce this worries that's why marriage or any relationship can be destroyed by assumptions that's why it's better to ask if you see something you don't understand about your partner, than to worry alone and start to trace what's wrong whenever you have that particular individual near you who can answer your questions, too much worry can affect how we treat one other because it can stem from a place of safety or anger that's why it's very important to communicate about this factors which can contribute to your relationship.
Why we should worry about our partners?
Majority of partners do worry about each other and this is natural because as we start to build this emotional connection with others once we begin to spend too much time with them, that's why sometimes people can struggle to understand why worrying about each other has this advantage on our emotional well-being, because as individuals we have to look deeply at this topic of worrying, because as partners do date or marry or even commit to one another there's is this attachment spiral that will automatically take place unconsciously, that's why we cannot see ourselves whenever we begin to love unless we start to pay attention on our actions and thoughts, that's why whenever we start to worry it means we already created this emotional connection with our partners that's why as discussed previously, we should be aware about how important worry can be into the relationship, because it involves caring about each other, unless if it's now abused them it will be seen as insecurities, but what is important is that whenever we stay together we have this emotional obligation to connect and this makes us to worry about each other on continues basis, it's very difficult to look at this topic because you can find yourself worrying too much about your marriage or relationship that's why open communication is important when it comes to address your worries, because with proper worry, care will always remains and love goes with care.
Can worry become care of love?
The best way to analyze this topic is to look at the beginning of each relationship, because sometimes people fail to evaluate this matter properly, because as individuals whenever we start any relationship we begin with interest, that's why we can devote our emotions instantly to what we are doing, but when it comes to worry mankind do worry regardless of how long the relationship have been, because as stated previously we do worry for different reasons, that's why you can meet someone and begin to worry about them, and the reasons will differ from what you have already experienced with that particular person, that's why sometimes whenever you can check what makes you worried about your partner, you should look at this topic using a positive mind, because you will realize most of your worries will comes from a place of concern and curiousity and it's very important to understand this approach because that's what creates care in a relationship, again whenever your worries are clear you can manage to understand why you care about each other as partners, because as discussed if you don't worry about you significant other then what's the point of staying with them, because our worries about each other resemble this caring biases we have as human beings, that's why if someone doesn't care about you then it's impossible find that particular individual loving you.
How to talk with your partner about your worries?
Everything we do with our partners can introduce some levels of worries, that's why any relationship or marriage there's always something that can create stress fore both partners, that's why it's very important to understand that worry is one of the broader subject you can encounter as a partner, because sometimes we have this tendency to avoid our worries and start to assume we if things are going well into our marriages or relationships, that's why once partners start to bottle matters it becomes a huge problem, because once those problems start to burst, most people will say that their relationship or marriages are so depressing or miserable, we should remember that our human nature is based on conflicts that's why we do survive through balanced conflicts and manageable arguments, because sometimes people can avoid to talk about their worries because they feel they won't be listen, that's why this attitude can affect the marriage or relationship because if you cannot express what is bothering you, then you will suffer emotional, again it's very dangerous to find yourself into that particular state of mind, because you will always struggle to solve matters as partners because you don't have the skills to sit down and talk about your matters and seek solutions if possible, sometimes whenever we are worried is not because something is going wrong it might be something which helps us to pay attention to what we are avoiding or something to stop doing, that's why if partners fail to trust each other about such matters as expressing their worries to each other, then something is wrong with that particular relationship, because our worries are like our secrets that's why we don't share them with anyone we don't trust, it's very important as partner's to discuss about this subject.
Can Marriage worries be solved by avoiding them?
Many relationship or marriage were destroyed by avoiding to face the truth, that's why as human beings we sometimes fail to account to our mistakes because we feel vulnerable to face what we have done wrong, that's why whenever you find any relationship or marriage whereby matters of key importance are avoided, you should be aware that something is not going right, because whenever we avoid to talk about what is happening inside the relationship we are inviting this problem creator's such as assumptions to run our relationship unware, that's why if you can check most partners who avoid talking about their relationship matters, you will find out that care is no longer available, but what is left is to pretend to love each other, we should remind our reader's that love cannot be bribed, if someone doesn't love you it's very easy to notice, because their actions will reveal everything you want to know, that's why to avoid is something which most partners struggle to remove from their relationship, because sometimes solving matters can be devastating but it's very important to solve matters as partners so you can pave a new way forward, because whenever matters are avoided we can turn into this state of mind of endless worry but not finding the solution that's why it's very important to check what both of you as partners do avoid and what informs that particular avoidance because as discussed today majority of relationship can be destroyed by this instant new technological advances especially social media networks, because you might be interested into them but only to realize you are avoiding your partner through using them on their presence that's why as discussed the rules of using such tools as social media networks should be discussed and boundaries should be set because sometimes too much attention on this networks can introduce more problems especially if the relationship is at the rock bottom stages, and again people can find themselves seeking comfort through this social media networks, that's why to avoid talking is dangerous because there's someone who can give your partner attention and we don't recommend such behaviours unless you talk with a professional who can guide you during this path of endless worry and avoidance you are facing, sometimes we cannot change others but we can learn to accept how we want to associate with them, that's why never avoid what bothers you unless you are ready to endure that emotional suppression.
Startup Business
Title description: 19 November 2021
How to create your startup business data strategy?
Create a proposal and earn buy-in.
- Outline your data architecture.
- Create a Data Strategy Roadmap.
- Set Goals for Data Collection and Distribution.
- Identify the Types of Data You Want to Collect and Where It Will Come From.
- Build a Data Management Team and Assign Data Governance Roles.
Ask yourself these questions:
- Where will the data live?
- What type of data will you be collecting and from what sources?
- How will the data be organized?
The goal here is to understand the structure of your data.
- Assign ownership.
- Establish data governance.
- Reassess regularly.
- Wherever you fall on the data maturity model, your data strategy will always need some tweaking.
How to learn about data strategy?
Reimagine data collection.
Ask the right questions.
- Improve your data skills.
- Use the right tech.
- Make intelligent learning recommendations.
- Make smart internal recommendations.
- Use wider benchmarks.
- Learn from other industries.
Why data strategy matters for your startup business?
Focusing your data efforts where it matters most
• Technology is developing so fast these days, that many businesses – particularly smaller and mid- msized companies – feel like they’re struggling to keep up. Sometimes, this leads the company to dive eagerly into new data opportunities, investing in new technologies and fancy analytics that
aren’t right for their business. And sometimes, it leads to inaction, or a compulsion to bury heads in the sand and ignore the data revolution. Either way, these businesses don't fully realize the possibilities of data.
• That’s why you need a data strategy, to set out how you want to use data in practice, clarify your top data priorities, and chart a course for reaching your goals – including what kind of data you need, where you'll source that data, how you'll store and analyze the data, and so on. The data strategy helps you drill down to your core business needs and create an achievable plan for the future.
There are key ways businesses are using data:
- To create additional revenue
- To improve internal operations
- To provide smarter services and products
- To understand customers and trends
- To inform decision making
- Monetizing data When you use data to make smarter decisions, optimize business processes, and so on, it's likely to have a positive effect on the bottom line. But this link between data and the bottom line can also be much more direct. In other words, data can be monetized to increase revenue and create a new income stream.
- Improving internal operations The ability to optimize business processes, streamline operations and run the company in a more efficient, cost-effective manner is an attractive prospect for any business. Thanks to data, it’s easier than ever to make improvements and generate efficiencies.
- Delivering smarter products and services One of the big benefits of knowing more about your customers and markets is being able to give them exactly what they want: specifically, smarter products and services that react to each user’s unique needs and habits.
- Understanding customers and trends Identifying market trends and understanding customers’ needs is a key driving factor of most sales and marketing activity.
- Making data-driven business decisions
How to use data strategy as a startup business?
- Making Data More Visible and Accessible.
- Management and Use.
- Streamlining Data Collection and Sharing.
- Setting Clear Goals and Objectives for Data
- Integrating Data and Eliminating Silos.
- Making Data More Actionable and Easily Share
When can you multiply your data strategy?
- Define your organizational commitment to why data
- Map your data goals to your strategic mission
- Chart a course of action for closing data gaps
- Set expectations across departments and teams.
Some common challenges your data strategy can help address include:
- The needs of your donors and funders
- How your policies and ideas are consumed and adopted.
- The effectiveness of your programs’ efforts
- The audiences and communities you serve.
Career and Work
Title description: 18 November 2021
Why success requires mastering options?
The way success is structured somehow it makes sense to check the option very well , because sometimes people end up struggling to get ahead because they fail to master the options, it's a fact somehow it is very difficult to understand that to end up becoming successful you should master the options, and this options can range from career, habits, lifestyle, commitment, discipline, and goals, this options can sound basic but they can affect your progress toward success, that's why it's very important to check what kind of options you have to end up becoming successful, because majority of people never take this practical self reflection exercise to review what kind of options they should master to make sure they remain successful, recently we on our topics we covered this subject of learning to master and manage your success, because sometimes more options can lead us to end up becoming indecisive that's why it's very important to check what options you have so you can be successful.
Why options are your advantage?
Options create this process of giving us this advantage to understand the opportunities and even possibilities, remember they more you begin to study the option you have the more focus and even committed to your goals, options plays an important role in our lives, because with options our choices are created, that's why even by reading this blog you have an option to advance your knowledge base that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of playing attention to details, because today most people do struggle to concentrate not because they can't but because they have started to prioritize thing's which don't add value into their lives, it's an option to waste time and remain broke, that's why to advance in this life you should stack your options very well , because time will judge you based on results that's why it's becoming very challenging to explore your options especially if you don't see any progress on a meaningful achievement on your life, but remember you mind is a powerful tool you can start to get into this process of thinking about what you should improve and the mind will provide options and even improvements.
Can options Reduce our actions?
The fourth industrial revolution, is taking place and majority of people struggle to focus because they see more options as a way to success, we should caution you about thinking that too many options will lead you to success, many people end up failing because they struggle to deal with too much information, earlier covered the subject of information overload and how it will reduce our concentration and even worsen the strings of poverty for many people, it's very important to analyse this topic based on facts, because at the end you cannot succeed if you fail to master this options that's why steps are very important to create your success that's why if you can check the more information you have the less you become productive or actionable that's why as you read along you should remember some people get information just to play with it and others use information to gain upper hand and even succeed, that's why we have been emphasizing the importance of using time accurately because the more you waste time the more you add problems into your life that's why more options can lead us back to our comfort zone.
Why do we feel safe once we have more options?
Today is the norm to find people who are informed but broke, that's why if you can check many people end up becoming miserable because they attained wrong qualifications and this can even suppress their confidence to see the brighter side of life because we feel secure once you r begin to master our options especially if we begin to profit from what we are doing that's why more options can lead others to practice the power of choice and to others, it can lead them to the pit of failure that's why you should be aware of the type of information you have because it can affect your life, that's why we have two kinds of people when it comes to using information, those who cannot use the information and those who can use it, this can help you to understand that if you start to review your options your begin to get your facts and even more focus on your way to success.
Why we fail to use options?
The ability to exercise your options is very important but the fact remains people do fail to master the options because of the following factors:- Not checking the details
- Negative mind
- Not setting up a schedule
- Bad habits
- Poor goals
- Waiting for the perfect time
- Failing to fix their mistakes
- Using advice without questioning it
- Failing to ask qualifying questions
- Failing to follow their purpose
- Wasting time
These are key reasons why you can find yourself failing to get ahead but remember options requires skills, especially action and thinking skills, majority of people know what they are supposed to do or improve on their lives but because they are holding back by their bad habits it's very hard to get ahead on this life, remember your options create your choices and decisions that's why if you can begin to review your options your might find yourself unlocking new opportunities which you have neglected or taken for granted that's why with options comes possibilities and hopes.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 17 November 2021
Why do we fail to meet deadlines?
Most entrepreneurs will face this constant challenge of failing to meet deadlines because of the following factors:
It's very hard to accomplish some tasks if you are not disciplined enough to get into the task and finish it as planned, most entrepreneurs will find it hard to get rid of some distractions which leads them to end up not becoming organized to complete the tasks.
- Bad habits
Good habits do count for making your entrepreneurship journey a success, that's why if you can check those entrepreneurs with bad habits don't hold success for a long time because bad habits will always lead you to failure that's why it's very easy to missed deadlines especially if you have bad habits which are already dominating your life and prevent you from performing certain key duties on your business.
- Procrastination
The majority of startup business entrepreneurs have to deal with this challenge of failing to meet the deadlines because they can procrastinate and this can stem from different types of challenges and even fear that's why meeting deadlines is one of the greatest business disciplines you should have as an entrepreneur.
- Not planning
If you don't plan you are unlikely to accomplish that particular task or goal, majority of entrepreneurs can avoid planning and only to realize later they fail to meet the deadlines not become they are incapable to deliver but because they didn't plan what should be done that's why planning is the cornerstone of success in any business.
- Fear to take action
We have already documented this process in our book called Disruptive Startup, we have delved into this subject and even listed key factors to help you to deal with the fear of taking action as a startup business because you can miss the deadlines based on your fears.
How to master your deadlines?
The importance choosing and dedicating your time to get the tasks done is very important for your business success because sometimes entrepreneurs can struggle to master deadlines, but to further get this process accurately you should pay attention to the following elements:
- Schedule tasks
- Follow up
- Remove distractions
- Eat healthily
- Find time to reflect
Can deadlines increase our fears?
The reality about our fear's as entrepreneurs are that whenever we begin to miss certain deadlines we turn to become fearful about the success we wanted to accomplish, that's why to analyze this topic we have listed these key important areas to check out:
- Guilty conscious
- Emotional pain
- Blame
- Anxiety
- Missed opportunity
Why do we procrastinate until the deadline comes?
Procrastination is very important because you can check what you are avoiding doing and again you can gain awareness about what's preventing you to end up failing to become successful in your startup business, that's why we have come up with this list to assist you to deal with your procrastination:
- Lifestyle
As an entrepreneur it's very important to check your lifestyle because sometimes you can be trapped by something you can deal with, for example, you can realize you spend too much more than you profit, that's why your lifestyle as an entrepreneur will always constitute your startup business success, because how you conduct your life can affect your entire business progress and improvements.
- Habit's
Bad habits can lead us to fail to meet deadlines because if you can check they are consequences attached to bad habits. After all, you can end up missing key opportunities because you have bad habits, that's why as we have been emphasizing, success is more associated with our habits.
- Fears
Sometimes entrepreneurs can fear to plan or act and this builds up this procrastination mindset
- Surrounding
Sometimes entrepreneurs can struggle to understand why some environments turn to increase our focus and somehow find it difficult to focus, this process is created by the atmosphere of the environment because we procrastinate based on our comfort zone that's why checking your working environment can assist you to understand why you end up failing to meet certain deadlines.
- Workload
The more work we have the more we risk the chances to find ourselves procrastinating as we work out those tasks we have, that's why your workload can eventually increase your fears.
How to manage your plans and deadlines?
Management of tasks is very important because some plans to end up becoming successful, you should check the following factors to help you increase your success:
- Set up a schedule
A working schedule is very important because it helps to keep your focus on one thing and complete it, again whenever you begin to manage your tasks based on the schedule you turn to perform better and stand this opportunity to become successful at what you are supposed to accomplish.
- Learn to say no
The power to say no always protect our attention and focus, that's why understanding how to deal with deadlines somehow requires the discipline to say no to some distractions.
- Focus on what's working
Productivity increases once you begin to pay attention to something that is working because on occasions majority of entrepreneurs can be demoralized by working on something which is not working only t realize they were supposed to focus on something working that's why managing your tasks is very important.
- Train your mind to deal with failure
Failures are invertible, as an entrepreneur you will somehow fail but this comes back to your ability to deal with these failures and focus on the lessons.
- Pay attention to your results
Maintaining a good focus on results is very important because, in the end, your ability to understand how to get results will help you to increase your motivation and even improve your focus and multiply your startup business success.
Health and Life
Title description: 16 November 2021
What is a good attitude?
We have to check our lives, because attitude plays an important role in our life, from success to failure, that's why to emphasize this point again is very important, we become what we repeat, that's why good attitude is one of the greatest assets you can have because at the end human beings feel better whenever they begin to associate themselves with positive energy, that's why with a good attitude you can manage to get ahead on life because sometimes people associate themselves based on attitudes that's why with a good attitude you can manage to build healthy successful relationships with others and good attitude always sell us on others and it even reflects on how we treat ourselves, that's why as human beings we have this biological skills to detect bad or good attitude, and this helps us to associate better with others.
Why we hate bad attitude?
Majority of people can confirm we somehow hate bad attitudes regardless of who brings it, because as human beings we are biological created based on order and discipline, that's why whenever someone gives us a bad attitude we feel we should either correct them or ignore what they are transferring to us, that's why bad attitude is based on how you feel others have treated you, again with the bad attitude we can find ourselves trying to isolate others based on their behaviors, that's why you cannot hide someone with a bad attitude because that's how they live and it's very important to understand why some people hate bad attitude because at the end with a bad attitude can create more conflicts and even troubles that's why some people will hate to see bad attitude because they know the consequences of it and what can transpire once bad attitude is tolerated on continues basis, even by checking yourself you don't want bad attitude near you, that's our nature as human beings.
Why do we avoid a healthy Attitude?
We cannot avoid if we know the consequences, because at the end of the day we as individuals we have choices to make that's why with healthy attitude you are are the one who is responsible for it, again with good attitude as discussed we should be able to understand our thoughts because at the end we are our thoughts based on the actions we take on continues basis, that's why sometimes we can avoid to remain with our good attitude because we have allowed someone to provoke us, that's why with bad attitude sometime people can blame others for pushing them to act in a particular fashion, again whenever we have good attitude we are more likely to be healthy and happy that's why your attitude counts when it comes to this life, because if you don't check your attitude you will always wonder why sometimes people or opportunities just pass to by because at the end we know that with good attitude you have an advantage to advance your life than the bad attitude, that's why paying attention to good healthy attitude can assist you to progress on your life.
Can Attitude represent you?
Attitude is one of the things we can check whenever we meet others or interact with them continuously because sometimes people always look at how you behave but this is done unconsciously that's why your attitude towards life or work or any relationship is tighter to what kind of behaviors or thoughts you have because what represents us is our mental attitude, that's why we can categorize people based on good and bad, again is because we understand that our personalities can differ but our attitudes are somehow self-made that's why we can tell what represents you based on your attitude, because your actions can reveal your attitude, again with the attitude you can be able to analyze what represents you, especially looking at the results you get from your actions and the attitude you receive from others.
Why we must understand how our attitudes function?
Key factors which can help us to understand our attitudes are as important as what we should remember because with the attitude we can find what is preventing us to progress on certain things, that's why to understand how your attitude function, you should begin to check how you respond to your failures and criticism because sometimes we can be mean to ourselves that's why we can feel others are provoking us whenever they point out those habits or behaviors we should change because what hurts human beings is to be told the truth that's why your attitude will tell you what kind of human being are you and what you value because your results can assist you to understand how your attitude function.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 15 November 2021
Can Happiness increase your blessings?
Everyone has an equal amount of disappointments, disease, suffering, broken hearts, and unhappiness. If they don’t have it now, they will have it later.
Some people hide it and appear happy all the time when they are crying inside. They do
this so that they don’t burden other people with their problems. Very considerate of them.
Some people can let it go and believe in a better tomorrow. They give it to the universe to worry about because they know that worrying about it will make them miserable. They chose another state of mind.
Some people look at the bright side of the situation (I may not have a boyfriend, but I have a place to live, a friend, clothes, etc.) Again, a choice they make for their mental health.
All you have is 1) your ability to hope and 2) your ability to do something about your situation
3) your ability to change the way you think about the bad stuff that happens to you.
Why we feel some people are blessed with happiness?
Our feelings towards happiness comes from acceptance, because as you check some people can make this mistake to compare their happiness with others, that's why you cannot understand happiness if you use that mental conditioning, because with happiness we are only liberated to exercise our choices, that's why you can see others thriving on this journey of happiness because they have made their choices to be happy, sometimes people never bother to check their happiness because they are too much concerned about what others are having and this adds more problem into their lives, that's why if you want to be happy it's you choice, because if your blessings are based on what others have and you feel you lack such then you won't be happy, because happiness is selective is their you do the right thing or you will be miserable, because being happy is free especially if you are aware about what creates your day to day happiness, some people are blessed because they use those blessing to appreciate what they have and improve what they lack that's why happiness is a journey, today you can be happy tomorrow be sad but the fact remains happiness is always there in this life.
Can we bless ourselves with happiness?
How you spend your time can affect your happiness, sometimes people fail to understand the importance of learning about what they are doing with their time, because if you what to bless your life you better start checking what are doing with your time, because sometimes people spend their precious time on chaotic situations and accept that happiness will come for them, we should remember what happens outside can affect what is inside especially if you don't enjoy what you are doing with your time, happiness comes with personal responsibilities, that's why if you want to understand what you are grateful about you can start blessing yourself with happiness you want, mankind is powerful to change the circumstances regardless of what the situation can be , that's why to bless ourselves with happiness always comes back to our thoughts, actions and how we spend our days, that's why if you check your day you can understand what makes you unhappy and you can begin from there to change something about your life, because blessings are selective especially if you want to achieve the state of happiness.
What makes us feel jealous about others' happiness?
Feeling envious:
- When Other People's Happiness Bothers You
- No one dares to say it out loud, but it happens often: we’re not happy when others are happy. All humans are vulnerable to this because feeling envious is just human nature.
- When we love someone, we’re supposed to be happy for them when things go their way and cry with them when they’re sad. That’s how things should be. But in reality, that doesn’t always happen. We want to feel happy for others, but sometimes end up feeling just the opposite way.
- Most times we’re not capable of admitting it. We simply congratulate others while we’re seething on the inside. Or we even try to belittle their accomplishments with a “But…” or “Be careful, it may not be what you think it is”.
- Deep inside, we know their success frustrates us somehow. Why does that happen? How can we change that? When other people’s happiness bothers us It doesn’t always bother us when others are happy. Sometimes, we may genuinely feel proud of their success. It’s a wonderful feeling that fills us with joy and strengthens our relationship with them. Thus, you may ask yourself why you feel envious in other situations.
- First, let’s get something straight: we’re all human and can feel any emotion, whether good or bad. Thus, although it’s not something to be proud of, we shouldn’t punish ourselves for feeling envious of someone we love’s a success.
- It bothers us that the other person is happy because we’re not happy. Maybe we’ve worked hard to get a similar outcome, but that other person reached their goal and we didn’t. We value them, but it’s impossible not to think about our unfulfilled desires.
- Without wanting to, we compare their happiness to our sadness and we decide that it’s unfair.
- Other people aren’t a reflection of who you are
- All this happens to us when we see the other person as a reflection of ourselves. In other words, we perceive their life as if it was our life. Usually, feeling envious means we set aside their success and focus only on the results they got because we wanted them for ourselves.
- Broadening that perspective is the key. Don’t just look at what that person achieved, but analyze all they had to go through to get it and all the things they haven’t accomplished yet.
- This is a way of humanizing the situation and finding those elements that set us apart from them.
- Don’t judge yourself due to other people’s success. That’s a big mistake. Each person’s personal development has nothing to do with anyone else’s.
- You can stop feeling envious if you identify the feeling and accept it. Recognize with kindness that other people deserve their success and that your love for them must go beyond those small and insignificant thoughts.
Why do we feel we don't deserve happiness blessings?
Mankind is experiencing difficult times because sometimes people can struggle to understand what keeps them trapped or even away from being happy because without happiness mankind struggles that's why if we don't change our thoughts we can find ourselves not appreciating what we have because happiness is a choice and if you don't master your choices you can find yourself into this traps such as the following:
- You chose to be happy only when all of your dreams come true.
- You compare yourself to others.
- You hold onto the perceived idea of control.
- You believe everyone should play by your rules.
- You worry
- You don’t make time for the right things.
- You seek materialism over everything else in life
- You are stuck in the past
- You are unhealthy
- You are lonely
- You keep thinking about your future and can’t enjoy today.
- You haven’t discovered your purpose.
- You don’t make time for the right things.
The above list can show us how much we harm ourselves by not paying attention to our thoughts because we end up becoming miserable. After all, we don't check what we are doing with our thoughts.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 14 November 2021
Should married people ask for sex from their partners?
The way society has conditioned mankind is very hard to talk about sexual matters, that's why if you can check masculinity is based on power, that's why mostly sex is regarded as a way to connect people, but it's very important to understand that not everyone will be able to voice their needs about sex on some relationships, that's why it can take time to review if consent is followed properly, because in some instances many man and women will take it as an offence if their partners refuse to have sex with them, because this approach can raise arguments and even start to create problems, mostly people don't ask about sex they just act and things just happen, because we are somehow conditioned to act on sex not to talk about it, that's why it's very important to understand that sex plays an important role in some relationships, because if you look at this topic of consent, many people don't ask to have sex because sometimes it can be a hurtful journey to ask and be turn down by your partner on regular basis, that's why consent can destroy the relationship if handled inappropriate, because if one partner start to refuse to have sex the other one can start to feel something is not going right and even the other person can susceptive about cheating, because as discussed sex is very important and learning about it to many people is a taboo that's why we still struggle to understand why sometimes people can struggle to maintain consent because it's within their mental conditioning or knowledge to follow certain dogmas, that's why to refuse to have sex in some relationships or marriages can be regarded as an insult and even a taboo, man can ask for sex by actions and even women too can follow that particular model. Married people can open up to each other to ask for sex but it's very important to understand the love language of your partner because sometimes you might be using word's whenever that particular command turns your partner off that's why as indicated sex is broader subject because you are supposed to learn from each other as partners and see what is working for your marriage or relationship.
Why do we feel we own our partners once we have married them?
Biological mankind is made to maintain this attitude of thinking they can own others, that's why sometimes marriage can teach us something about this topic of ownership, because sometimes people can get married but find it hard to understand why they are too bossy or complicated, because sometimes our religion or culture gives us this perspective to think that once we are married we own each other, this process can be a challenge, because sometimes people can use it to abuse each other, that's why ownership can be one of most critical part you should check if you want to be married, because sometimes people can view you as a their assets to some instances, that's as indicated previously sexual consent can be one of the greatest challenging subject to investigate, because sometimes partners can feel they own their sexual preferences, and only to find out the other partner thinks he or she has the ownership to get sex anytime he or she wants, that's why marriage is one of the greatest school of love and exploration, because this examples we have mentioned they usually take places oftentimes that's why sometimes sex can destroy the marriage especially if one partner start to use ownership to oppress the other partner with, we should remember we still have a long way to change the mindset of those individuals who think they own others once they marry them.
Why sexual consent is power?
The only time sexual consent can be powerful is at the beginning of the relationship, because if you can check most people start to lose their sexual consent during that particular starting point, because if you have trained your partner to get sex as he or she wants at anytime, this can affect your ability to exercise your full consent to say no, because your ability to adapt to this normality can be one of the greatest attachment spiral you can ever encounter, because if the normal routine of your sexual life as partners doesn't have any no's, then it can be a challenge if you begin to say no to you partner about sex, that's why consent many woman can master it because they can pretend to be sick just to avoid having sex and again this approach can help them to rest because sometimes man can demand too much sex and even lose the interest to maintain the part of foreplay, that's why most women will complain that if they don't use consent they find themselves used as tools by man, because as discussed many man can only focus on the ejaculation part, that's why they can missed the greatest part of sex again, consent is powerful because it creates this ongoing interest into the relationship, that's why if consent is maintained properly the relationship can succeed, because sometimes routine can lead partners to see sex a house chore that's why it can end up leading many partners to fill that they are losing their consent to say no to sex because they have signed to this notion that married people should have sex to make the relationship to succeed.
Why we should respect our partner no about sex?
The greatest hurtful pains we can ever encounter is when we are told NO, recently we covered this subject about the power of NO, we conveyed this message which says that we as human beings we take NO as an offence, and something bad to get , that's why it's even more worse when it comes to any relationship or marriage, because as individuals we are not taught to deal with this challenge about understanding how to cope whenever we are told NO, remember as indicated sexual consent is based on NO and Yes , that's why we need to understand how respect of such command's should be followed, because sometimes we lose the interest because we are told NO, remember if you partner keeps on saying no if you want to have sex with them this can hurt your ego, that's why many women are blessed to switch this subject with valid excuses to make sure their man won't lose interest in the relationship, because if you can check many people understand consent the problem is that we should start to review what makes others to pursue others and see NO as a Yes , this usual happens to many man, because they always interpret the message wrong, if they are told for example I feel pain, sometimes man can see this as a pleasure, that's why we should understand the biological behaviours of mankind, because by nature man is powerful and capable to kill that's why maybe if told about pain he can see it as pleasure, we should remember many women can suffer from this approach of consent because many can fail to understand what the woman doesn't want in sex that's why as you move ahead it's very important to understand how you and your partner's see this topic of one night stand.
Why do we feel bad when told no about sex as if someone is cheating on us?
No is a weapon because it evokes our deepest emotional concerns, that's why if you can follow up all this factors we have mentioned in this topic of sexual consent you will realize that many people struggle to accept sexual consent, because it they view it as a sign of cheating, that's why as discussed women can deal this subject decisively, because they can give more excuses about sickness or family stress's or even fatigue, that's why man can confirm that their women will have an excuse to have sex that's why some man can feel hurtful, if they hear about this factors of consent especially if a man wants to have sex this can create this disappointment effect that's why man and women can differ when it comes to consent but we should condemn this notion which says if someone doesn't want to have sex they are cheating on you, this stem from a place of assumptions and we should remember that if a relationship is ruled by assumptions it's unlikely to succeed, because consent is very important, we should not take this consent matter as an option to abuse each other because mostly partner's can begin to abuse each other, sometimes this is because if we don't manage our insecurities we end becoming miserable and abusive to each other that's why sex can be abusive if consent is not managed properly.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 13 November 2021
Why whenever people are sick some left the relationship?
Mankind is capable of changing the direction whenever matters get harder, since the new normal covid-19 pandemic has arrived many people have lost their loved ones and many lost their jobs, this can worsen the chances of some people leaving the relationship because as individuals we are different when it comes to enduring more pain to see our partners suffer with illnesses, that's why marriage is one of the bidding agreement you can sign into, or a relationship because it's very hard to betray your partner whenever they are facing worst case scenario about their lives because sometimes people can have different types of health challenges that's why people will always choose to live the relationship or start because sometimes they are choices people make whenever it comes to support each other as partners when one of you is facing this sickness.
Why we should care about our Partner's sickness?
The first doctor if you are into a marriage or relationship it will be your partner, because most people never take a close look at how much emotions can be invested into the relationship, that's why if your partner is negative about your healing progress, this can affect your sub conscious mind to react badly to your healing, because sometimes we as human beings we are connected emotional, that's why your cannot love someone and never feel pain if they are sick, most people do feel this emotional pains, but because mankind will always try to ignore what he feels but always we feel pain whenever our partners are sick that's why sickness can change our lifestyles, and behaviours on our relationships, because some sickness can introduce more acceptance and others troubles and even blames, that's why it's very important to check what kind of support you are supposed to give each other whenever one of you is sick or not, because this emotional support begins before we get sick that's why sometimes people can struggle to support each other during difficult times because they are not used to the lend each other support that's why it can take time to understand what makes others to break up with their partners. We care about our partners' sicknesses because they are part of our lives.
Can some sickness destroy your marriage?
Indeed we should dive deep into this topic because sometimes we have to check the real facts about how some diseases are created, if you want to understand this approach better, sometimes we have self-made diseases, and others are natural, firstly let's look at it this challenge, if someone goes out and cheat and bring back the diseases, what should be done? this challenge is happening because sometimes cheating can contribute towards increase the sharing of diseases, that's why it's very important to understand that whenever we are into the relationship trust is most important aspect, because you cannot allow your life to be destroyed by someone who doesn't care about your health, that's why whenever it comes to Sexual diseases all partners should be honest about their status, but because as indicated on our book called the One night stand, mostly people catch diseases because they fail to use condoms appropriately, again people turn to loosen up by starting to have unprotected sex once they have dated for a while without going to the doctor and check the health status, it's very important to understand that many marriages and relationships were destroyed by self made diseases, because it's very hard to accept that you get this types of sickness from your trust partner, this can affect your mind and you can seek revenge by sharing the diseases with others, we already touched this subject on our book the one night stand. This negligence of not performing protected sex can destroy the relationship or marriage.
How to deal with your sickness and stress?
It's very important to seek professional help when it comes to dealing with sickness stress because sometimes people don't feel safe to share their secrets with others about their health issues that's why you should choose the right people to talk with and see what kind of help you can get. After all, sometimes people can be sick and try to hide this truth that's why we have individuals who are angry and share diseases with others without any agreement, that's why sexual diseases are devastating because you might find yourself trapped by these diseases unaware that's we advise partner's to understand their health status and keep educating themselves about this factors.
How to talk about your sickness with your partner?
It's very difficult to talk about our sickness, unless we have accepted and healed, because sometimes it takes time to understand our sickness, because they change our behaviours and lifestyles, that's why to be sick is one of the greatest challenge you can ever find yourself into, because whenever we are sick we can start to understand that life is temporary and our time is limited, that's why sometimes people can suffer from this type of emotional challenges, because we hate to face the truth, that's why you cannot talk about your sickness to others because sometimes people are negative and they can blame you from your mistakes that's why people can die earlier because there's no one to share the experience of their sickness with and this can hurt them inside and even lead them to give up on some other things, because with sickness we can feel our bodies and even the mind, that's why there's no one who enjoys to be sick, because there's no harmony on sickness, that's why to talk about what's affecting you can lead you to healing, again it's very important to create this relationships with others, to increase your support to deal with such matters.
Startup Business
Title description: 12 November 2021
How to evaluate your Startup Business data usage?
As a startup business is very important to understand the following factors contributing to making the data evaluation more smoothly and even understandably to your team members looking at the following:
- Is the data reliable?
- Does anyone else have access to the same data?
- How does it help their (and other) businesses?
- What types of data does a company collect?
These questions can sound basic but they will affect your startup data strategy structure that's why with a proper question such as those listed above you can begin to draft your data strategy evaluation techniques because it takes time to develop such models.
Why Entrepreneurs avoid data Evaluation?
Majority of startup business entrepreneurs avoid evaluating their data management system because they don't know about the importance of managing data, that's why in our book called Disruptive Startup, we have covered this topic, to help you to start deciding on the feedback you are getting from the market, again they are some other valid reason why startup businesses can avoid to evaluate their data looking at the following:
- Affordability
- Skills
- Experience
These 3 factors can affect how you view this topic because if what you are supposed to manage requires money you will always be trapped by this, but today thanks to these advancing technologies because you can use free software, to begin with so you can manage your data properly, remember we said a startup is a research model, so you don't need to worry about this expensive software you can't afford, you better use what's available to make sure you eliminate these barriers of waiting for money to come by.
Why data can increase your Performance?
The ability to exercise your data strategy can increase the chances to have become more productive and even start to innovate based on what is useful because data helps the startup to perform better that's why you should check the following factors to analyze if your business is performing accurately on this new technological advances:
- Data strategy
- Collect the Data
Data collection and analysis is an investment just like any other, so you should evaluate whether it is justified the same way you would do to any other type of expense. Weigh the costs against the benefits that this collected data would bring to your business, and decide whether it is worth investing in it, or you should focus on another goal or issue instead.
- Analyse the Data
Raw data is not of value – it is the insights that you get after analyzing the data that can enable considerable business improvements. Of course, even when analyzed, data will not have any power until it is presented to the right people in the company and transformed from just a piece of information to action.
Learning from these factors can help your startup business to perform better and even stand the chance to succeed.
How to master your startup business data Innovation?
Data management is still at the infancy level, the majority of startup businesses sometimes never bother to categorize or organize this data because as discussed in this startup business some of them don't know what they are doing that's why failure is whipping and wiping them out of the market because your data as startup business helps you to measure, progress, decide and even create what is useful that's why data management should be prioritized because it holds a great amount of value to the business to succeed, we have listed few tips to consider as to begin to compile your data strategy:
- innovate your product, process, or service with data available in your company
- future-proof your processes, services, or products and increase your competitive edge.
Can data interpretation help your startup business?
Data interpretation is very important because as you move along with your data strategy evaluation you should be able to master the feedback and start to implement based facts that can lead your business to the other levels:
- It enables segmentation:
- It promotes product development:
- It encourages agility:
- It enables disruption and innovation:
Stages to evaluate your startup business data:
- Identify the problem: Like most research, you need to start with a question. It’s not enough to know what data you want to gather, you also need to know what you’re going to do with the data and insights once you have them. What problem is your company looking to solve? How is this data going to solve it? This approach helps to focus your analysis and tailor your research to ensure the resulting data is both relevant and applicable.
- Get the metrics right: To apply insights to your business in a practical way, you need to be using the right metrics.
- Have the right systems in place: The data will potentially be used to influence top-line decisions in your business, so you need to make sure it’s reliable.
- Use experts: You need well-organized teams and skilled data experts to bring your data out of raw spreadsheets and map it to the market in a useful way.
- Execute and deliver: Collecting and analyzing data isn’t enough to produce results.
Career and Work
Title description: 11 November 2021
Why more information is dangerous?
The advantage of instant information is taking part especially since the start of the 21st century, advance technologies frequently change how we interact and even conduct ourselves, but things are not so quite as good as these improvements wanted to achieve, because recently mankind is becoming a slave to this technologies, and again the use of information is not used properly, they are concerns and even underlying reasons why too much information is dangerous, because if you can observe we constantly facing this norm of constant attention to what's happening, but how many people do succeed from having too much information? The only way to understand this approach is to check what you know and how you profit from such knowledge, we should remind you about the importance of information overload principles because not everyone understands that sometimes we consume too much information and fail to take action, recently we covered this topic on our book called Goal's Toolbox Why Goals Fail and what to do, sometimes now not that people lack skills alone, they can be reasons why too much information can delay us to become successful, because more options can lead us to become indecisive and even doubtful about what we are supposed to do.
Why do we fail to use more information?
Sometimes is not that people fail to use information, but people can fail because they don't ask about the information they are acquiring, but we have tips to assist you to understand this topic better :
- Poor goals
- Not planning your life
- Failing to fix your mistakes
- Failing to question your results
- Acquiring wrong skills
- Failing to maintain continuous learning
- Attaining certain academic records for the sake of the title
- Dealing with complex knowledge
- Reading and failing to think
- Dreaming without no action
Failing to use information is dangerous because we need the information to succeed that's why this topic is very important because it can destroy your life or career because with the right information you stand a chance to succeed and even help to improve the world.
Can more information create opportunities?
The reality is there majority of people are informed today but unemployment is increasing even worsen since the beginning of the new normal covid-19 pandemic, we should be aware about this changes, because what we should investigate is what kind of too much information majority of people have, some will say social media information indeed is a fact most people hold this type of information that's why success is a rare product for majority of people because as discussed not everyone is taught to use information accurately that's why is very challenging to be successful on such type of information because it's obvious what most people can get for free can be taken for granted that's why it's very important to check why the media house preach this message of telling people that more opportunities are available today, but what is more confusing here is how many people are succeeding from this more opportunities, because the fact remains unemployment is raising especially within this individual who are informed, that's why as discussed we should be concerned about this opportunities which most people don't profit from them because the fourth industrial revolution is somehow focused on companies to invest and profit, majority of people are constantly losing jobs because opportunities do favor this companies to keep on succeeding while leaving this informed individuals broke.
Why do we use the information without checking it?
Information usage skills we can link them to someone who take a driving lessons from the driving school, because if you can check things are going so fast in a manner where by majority of people ignore to check what kind of information they are using and what kind of benefits are attached to what they are doing, because if you can check those who don't check always pay for too much for basic errors which were supposed to be taken care by just paying attention to details, that's we can avoid to check what kind of information we are using because we come from this societies whereby majority of people fail to master the basics and even question what they are doing that's why it's very difficult to remove this type of behavior because sometimes people do what they have been taught that's why even wrong information is now a norm to some people, because we fail to verify what we are using because we do lack this questions to ask, because 90 % of failure comes from using wrong information that's why to be successful you should pay attention on what's working and start to ignore wrong information.
How to use information accurate?
The concept of using information accurately will be described in our upcoming book called the power of overload information, but in the meantime, we can give you a hint to start using the information accurately, and start to ask the why question.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 10 November 2021
How to focus on your strength?
Mankind is capable to focus what he devotes his attention on, that's why to understand how to focus on your strength you should check what kind of action you are supposed to do and what skills or experience are required to perform certain activities, majority of people find it difficult to understand their strength because it takes time and energy to understand what kind of strength you have , because with certain types of strength one should be aware that we only discover our potential strength once we start to take action on our plans, talents, goals and dreams, again we can focus if we pay attention towards our results and failures, that's why majority of individuals can know about what they are not good at because we live in a particular society whereby criticism is given more attention than motivation that's why some people can struggle to understand what kind of strength they are suppose to focus on and how to build that particular strength to advance their careers or lives, but you should be aware if you want to achieve your focus on your strength, it's very important to check what kind of goals, plans and talents you have and review where can you learn about that particular strength you are supposed to focus on.
How to understand what you are supposed to focus on?
One cannot understand what to focus on it he or she is going to neglect the important part which is to find out what you want, from this life and what kind of action you are supposed to take for you to succeed, because what can create chaos into our lives is once we start to wish and fail to take action, for some reason wishes are basic necessities to unleash our creativity or potential, but it's very important to understand that we as individuals we can differ when it comes to focus, because some people can focus better and others can struggle to switch off the distractions, that's why we have been emphasizing that focus is a rare skill to find today, because most people don't have enough discipline to focus on what they have planned that's why instant gratification success is what majority of people are somehow focusing on because is very easy to follow shortcuts, that's why to understand what you should focus on you must revist your goals, if you struggle to find answers, you can check out our book called Goal's Toolbox Why Goals Fail and what to do, this book will assist you to come up with answers.
Why focus is an advantage?
Focus is an advantage because you have one step ahead, that's why as discussed you cannot outperform someone who focus better than you, because when it comes to focus we should be aware this topic is a broader subject,it involves different types of categories and meanings, that's why success is a seed of continues focus, because if you want to achieve you are supposed to focus and take action on what you have planned to do, that's why sometimes people can succeed based on what they are focusing on and who is behind their support, because focus is an advantage regardless of what,we only improve our skills and experience through focus, that's why even by reading this blog you are supposed to focus because it not you can won't get the message right and again today people suffer from attention span disorder, this element is dangerous because if you don't train your mind to focus then it's impossible to get your life into order that's why focus is power and you should start looking at the advantages you have whenever you begin to use your focus capacity as an individual.
Can we Succeed without Focus?
We should be aware about generalizing when it comes to success, because with certain types of success some people do inherited certain material possessions which makes their lives more better and successful, but what we want to address here is based on those individuals who start from the ground to create their own success, because what's the purpose of focus if you don't take action, this can teach us something about our inability to check what we focus on can cost to our lives, especially if we take time to correct our mistakes, because sometimes we can be trapped by our thoughts and habits, that's why to some people they can judge you life based on your focus, because this reveals your results and efforts that's why if you don't focus it's very difficult to achieve certain milestones, because no one ever enter the gate of success without some Focus unless you have inherited material possessions then for you focus won't be an issue because you are given the things and you didn't focus, that's why we should not generalize when it comes to focus because some are given success and some do work for success.
Can the focus be learned?
Mankind can learn how to focus what is required is to first select what you want from this life, because it can be difficult to focus if you don't select your life direction properly, that's why you are supposed to check the following factors which can assist you to focus better:
- Sleeping patterns
- Habit's
- Lifestyle
- Food
- Environment
- Self motivation.
- Discipline
- Exercising
- Stress management
- Relationships
Health and Life
Title description: 09 November 2021
Why are our emotions linked to what we think?
Previously we talked about the importance of paying attention towards what you think and what creates that particular thinking patterns, because at the beginning of all thoughts, we have the sub conscious and unconscious awareness, that's why practical speaking everyday we are feeling something, the more we are aware about what's going on inside our imagination the more aware we can be about what kind of emotions are linked to our thoughts, because the reason we attach ourselves into certain emotions is because we have thought about that particular thing, that's why to think is to understand the flow of thoughts and be able to pause and remove or reflect back on what you want to do with that particular thought, again we attach our emotions to what we think because we have this five physical sense, that's why you should observe your feelings based on weather, smell, touch, sound, taste, , words ,contact, you will realize each category has its own level of feelings, but because as human beings we are busy creatures, we end up ignoring this emotions, that's why whenever we feel certain weather changes we just involuntary start to think according to what we are supposed to do when the weather is like that, this happens frequently, because we are protected or destroyed by our emotions that's why they regulate our mood's and again this comes from what we are thinking about, the lessons still remains check what you think about constantly you will see what kind of dominant emotions rule you.
Why we are emotional when we are not healthy?
Mankind is creature of habits, somehow we have to check what makes others to refuse pain even though they have created it by themselves, because 90% of our internal pains were self inflicted by us, they most problem we are facing as individuals is to accept that we are the creator's of our own problems, because if you can check most of our illnesses we can cure them by starting to follow basic health practices, but because mankind use choices, then it's becoming very challenging to understand why you damage your health then become unhappy to accept what you have sign up for, because as individuals we know what is good for us that's why guilty conscience will always hunt us because we are doing what is wrong about our health, no one enjoy bad health, that's why it's very challenging to accept the circumstances and the consequences of your bad health, again you should be aware some people can restore their health by changing those bad habits which makes their lives miserable, that's why you should check what kind of health is your life focused on, we are emotional whenever we are not healthy because we know how it feels to be at good health and what are the benefits of beings healthy.
Can being healthy benefit your health?
Obviously so , those who are healthy don't get the same benefits compared to those who are not healthy, because being healthy is one of the greatest asset you can have as an individual, because today not everyone is paying attention towards their health, that's why some diseases are preventable, if you can check what kind of basic health practices you should follow as soon as possible, because those who are healthy always have more power than those who are not healthy, that's why you should check this on your life, because you might be healthy but not realizing this advantage to keep going forward, because today we live under unprecedented times because distractions are taking over our attention to do what is important, that's why to focus today is a rare skill, because it requires discipline and to do so you must be healthy to concentrate on some subjects, because with the benefits of good health you can outcompetes others very easy, this is a fact you cannot excel better if you are not healthy that's why even if you want to achieve some results on this life you should be healthy to concentrate because without that you will be swallowed by failure and pain.
Why do your Emotions represent your thoughts?
It's very important to start learning people based on their body language because many people will always reveal their state of mind whenever they talk with others, that's why our emotions can tell us what we are feeling, especially if we begin to check our body language, somehow people cannot hide their body language that's why our thoughts can be nailed down to our body language and what we are feeling, this practice requires some investment to this subject of how human beings use their body language to express their emotions because sometimes people can show us what they are feeling if we can check the body language, we always link our thoughts to our emotions that's why we as human beings we have this natural biases to submit to our feeling's constantly and with our thoughts, we can be able to discover our feelings, that's as indicated we always feeling something that matters is to draw attention to details and start to analyze the benefits of that particular feeling.
Why do we fail to question our thoughts?
From childhood upbringing we are programmed to stop asking questions, because as adults not everyone of us have answers to some questions and this comes back to what we were taught to as adults when we were children, because this vicious cycle is taking place, children are programmed to stop asking questions by adults that's why whenever we grow up we repeat the same pattern to stop asking questions because we have understood that they are no answers, that's why when it comes to question our thoughts, this can be a challenge to explore, because we are not used to ask that's why we can ignore our independent human mental capacity, because we don't see ourselves as individuals who can provide answers into our problems, that's why to cure this mental patterns you should understand that change take time, and pain will be part of change, again we cannot get ahead if we take for granted our state of mind, that's why to start to get answers you should check what kind of advice you give yourself to change your life, because small answers can help you to discover big answers about your life, questioning our thoughts is hardwork when we begin but it becomes easier with time, because of have to remove the mental conditioning that's why to understand how important questions help us to change our lives, you should check your dreams and goals and see what kind of question you have about your life and what kind of thoughts are dominating your life, because at the end you should get results that's why it's very important to question what you are thinking about and where that particular thinking is taking your life.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 08 November 2021
Can travel increase our happiness awareness?
Many people can confirm how important it is to explore the external world and some can get this external happiness while traveling that's why you can benefit from your traveling as you start to see these changes as the following:
- More self-confidence
Not everyone will be confident about their traveling, that's why when it comes to self-confidence is all about inner work, but some people can increase their confidence while traveling because sometimes new experiences always bring back our awareness of our very own nature that's why you can check those who travel, some are confident and others will not be confident, because at the end the travel it's all about appreciated and awareness that's why it's very difficult to say that adventure will make you happy whenever deep inside you struggle with your negative thoughts and depression.
- You make new friends
It's very important to check how some relationships are created because our lives are more open to possibilities especially if we start to build meaningful relationships with others, that we can collect friendships on our adventures.
- Disconnect you from social media
Recently we have been emphasizing how distractions are taking over our attention and even controlling the majority of us, but once we begin to travel we can disconnect from these technologies and enjoy nature.
- New beautiful memories to share
It's very important to find out why travel journeys can help us to collect memories because as human beings we connect better with others once we start to share our stories with them and travel can assist us to get these types of stories to share them with others.
- Travel is learning
Our perspective is always challenged once we start to travel because we can ask questions about certain things on our travel journeys that's why learning is part of travel because you will explore and experience what you don't know that's why you can increase your knowledge about certain things if you keep on traveling.
- Makes you a better person
You can be better before you can travel, but you can be worse once you travel, that's why our societal mental conditioning is to think that those who do travel more are better than us, this type of thinking is dangerous because we compare experiences without understanding the implications of what others have experienced that's why we cannot say if you travel you are better this is very wrong.
- More time for yourself
If you disconnect from those distractions you are way better to find time to concentrate on some other things, that's why for some people traveling helps them to find time to rest, and that's why as you read this blog you will realize how important it is to check your thinking while reading this information we are sharing.
Can we Maintain travel Happiness?
Majority of us brought ourselves this notion that says we can find happiness whenever we can travel more, this type of thinking is more challenging because if you can check it becomes more challenging to maintain our travel happiness because what we usually experience will always change with time, that's why as human beings it is more difficult to be happy outside while you experience misery inside, we have listed few tips to assist you to come up with way's to maintain your happiness traveling journey.
- Stay present
- Seek enriching experiences
- Take time to self-Reflect
- Savor and share your stories.
Can we Maintain travel Happiness?
The way you view happiness is mainly linked to your knowledge and what you have been taught, sometimes people don't know about their inner happiness, they think more about physical happiness as a way to enjoy life, that's why if you can check with the journey of happiness one should check the following elements:
- Be kind
- Practice gratitude
- Meditate
- Build quality relationships
- Choose happiness.
Can adventure heal us?
Healing process begins from within, some people can be healed based on what they believe in and adventure can be one of them because as human beings we have this capacity to create our realities with our thoughts that's why to be healed sometimes can require us to check out our thoughts and actions, because if you want your adventure to help you heal, then you should be prepared to evaluate your thoughts as you travel your journey because sometimes people don't prepare their thoughts that's why it can be difficult to be happy on their adventure, this is basic benefits to help us understand how adventure can help us to heal:
- Treat health problems
- Adventure knows no age limit
- Hiking sharpens the mind
- Grow as a human being
- Experiment with various lifestyles
- Replenish your spirit.
Why do we doubt our happiness?
The concept of doubting our happiness is situated in our subconscious mind because most people spend their entire lives failing to understand what kind of happiness they have and what makes them doubt their state of happiness, we have listed key factors to help us investigate this subject to get some answers:
- Past experiences and mistakes
Sometimes people can judge themselves based on previous mistakes, and this can range from different types of:
- Childhood upbringing
- Comparisons With Others
- New Challenges
- Fear of Failure / Fear of Success.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 07 November 2021 , Culture and abuse
Should our families choose partners for us?
The reactions towards this subject will always have this attention of which religion or culture you come from, because as pointed out on this segment, rules and standard will always vary from one culture to another religion, that's why if you can check mostly parents have this tendency to choose partners for their children, but this happens for different reasons, because as parents people who are informed about life, sometimes there's a great lesson to take from this wisdom of our parents, because we should remember that each parent will always protect his or her children, that's why it's very important to push this subject beyond the boundaries of religion or culture, because it's human nature to behave in that particular way , we do have this biases to choose what is good for our children that's why sometimes even family members can be part of this selection process, because something we should understand about choosing who to marry is well documented on someone else's personality or character, that's why it's very challenging to explore this subject if you don't understand the ground levels of your family history and why your family is likely to choose someone you should marry, today this options are loosen up, because people can find it balanced to use their rights to marry the person they want not what the family says, but it's very difficult to come across something like this which doesn't affect you, because if your family doesn't like your partner this will affect you, because what is important is that family is part of our lives that's why arranged marriages are now becoming obsolete, but sometimes there's is huge difference between those who have been taught to choose and those who choose for themselves, it's very difficult to understand what makes others to fail to marry the right partner because there's no guarantee when it comes to marriage either arranged or not that's why it's very important to make your decision and see which option suits you better because you are the one who will face the consequences. Our families should help us to understand our options not choose for us that's why it's very important to understand that marriage is a vow that's why your family can assist you to review your decisions on what you want to enter into because vows require management.
Why do we feel abused by these arranged marriages?
The boundaries about this arranged marriages are now loosen up, because since we entered the 24th century, mankind is shifting from old rules to the new ones, and it's very important to understand that this arranged marriages are still practiced on many societies, but today this is done differently, because it's now taken upon the emotional level, this means our families can emotional blackmail us by sharing negative comments about our marriages, that's why we can feel abused emotional but still live with this family members, sometimes families do take matters into consideration by choosing for their loved ones partner with word's, and it's emotional devastating to hear such words whenever you know you don't love that particular individual they choose for you that's why today many people cannot find long term relationships, because the age of arranged marriages is hitting it's obsolete stage's, that's why sometimes we can feel abused whenever we are given this option to choose someone to marry but we should remember today we have choices but still many people struggle to choose the right partner, that's why we can view this arranged marriages as abusive but what about our chosen one's, sometimes is not what is arranged but what connects people, it's very important to understand that marriage is a institution of love, you better start to analyse which kind of love suit's you because both marriages arranged or not all have this common aspects, if you are forced to get into that particular relationship you won't succeed and happiness won't be there that's why it's very important to understand what suit's you before you can talk about what can abuse your soul.
Can arranged marriages last?
Historical documented this arranged marriages have lasted, because the rules where clear and understandable, if you marry someone only death will separate each on of you, that's why as you preview this subject it's very important to research this topic and see the difference we are talking about, because as discussed today majority of people don't succeed into marriages, and we should investigate this causes based on history and the current realities most people are now facing, because sometimes marriages do last because both spouse's are committed to make the marriage to work, but sometimes what can last is always based on what really connects people, that's why love is very important because if you both love each other it's very important to understand that each an every one of you will have his or her shortcomings but what will keep the marriage to last is to pay attention to what's working and make peace with what is beyond your control as partners, because sometimes this arranged marriages can teach us about what our forefathers wanted to achieve when setting up this marriages , because they picked people based on genetics and family classes, that's why today this options stilt happens, some people will not marry certain people based on what they have been taught.
Why we should understand how Cultural marriage functions?
Cultural marriage have their own ways of functionality, that's why to understand this topic you should check if you are using the western style of the African approach, because when it comes to understand how our historical background about this marriages, it's very important to check your family history, because what your forefathers did can help you to understand what kind of behaviours or options you should understand when it comes to this cultural marriages, because from history each tribe always have it's own set of way to practice their cultural marriages that's why you cannot find a missing link between culture and marriage, because all this works together, if you do get married you are following a particular culture, that's why marriage is called a union, because it represents the culture you have choosen to spend your life or time with, because to learn about our cultural marriages we should be willing to revist the history of our marriages and what kind of values they uphold to our social morality as individuals, because sometimes marriage can assist us to understand the other path of life, that's why it's very important to check what kind of information you have about this cultural marriages and which option suits you.
How to deal with the drama of an arranged marriage?
The ability to understand how to deal with this challenge always will come from what you have been taught as an individual, because many people can be coached before marriage but along the way the following challenges can arise and somehow you requested to face the matters alone that's why sometimes it's very difficult to deal with family members or friends who don't want your partner, because at the end you still require to balance your social activities, that's why it's difficult to deal with some of this dilemmas, because we as human beings we sometimes feel ashamed about our options especially if some people can disapprove them that's why sometimes whenever you don't understand why some people hate your marriage progress is because you might be having something successful on your marriage so they want to destroy it or there's something you don't see about your marriage that is not working so this critics will always be there that's why it's becoming challenging to remove yourself from such matters.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 06 November 2021
What's the difference between grief and pain?
Mankind is faced with multiple challenges, because sometimes people can endure more pain but one should be aware of the difference between grief and pain because pain is something which can be temporary or permanent all depends on how you feel about that particular situation, but whenever we talk about our griefs mostly is when someone has passed away, that's why with grief we can get together and even connect because sometimes we don't understand our griefs, that's why we can feel pain but we can live with grief forever because sometimes pain can be located but grief cannot be located that's why we can suffer with grief and find it difficult to remove it because most people can know about pain but when it comes to grief most people don't have any knowledge about it.
Why we worry about our Partners?
Majority of individuals who are into marriages or committed relationships will always confirm that their connection to one another is something which makes them to worry about each other, because as discussed previously care is very important in a relationship, because if partners no longer worry about each other then something is going wrong, that's why to understand how you worry about each other as partners can assist to restore love and attention, because today we live under this continues distractions created by this social media networks, that's why to some people they end up worrying about their partner as they give too much attention to this social media networks while they left them isolated, worry is important because it resemble care especially if managed properly it can assist the relationship to go forward, that's why if someone doesn't worry about you it's very likely to find that particular individual hurting you and not caring about your feelings that's why we have caution you to start studying your relationship so you can better understand this factors which can restore love and care. We worry because we love and with this attention, our emotions are connected.
Can anger destroy your marriage?
The subject of anger is one of the underlying health condition and most of the greatest challenging element which destroy many relationships, because sometimes people can come with their angers into the relationship and it's something which most people never look at, because with this type of anger, mostly it's hidden until you trigger someone to explore it, that's why as you begin to learn further you should be able to check what kind of anger you have and what created that particular anger, because as discussed on our book the one night stand, most people are hurt by this activity of one night stand, but because we are not vocal about it end up becoming a norm that people always live under this continues traps of pain, again our families, friends and colleagues even members of the society can contribute towards building our anger, that's why sometimes partners can argue but sometimes they can shift their anger to each other unware that's why as discussed we need a relationship school because most people require healing and education about this matters of relationship and love.
Why do we grieve our break ups?
We are emotional human beings, that's why whenever we disconnect with others we feel pain, that's why to love is one of the greatest blessing you can ever explore, because if you love someone you will feel pain whenever they depart from your life, regardless of what the blame or the cause of their departure, but the fact remains, people love each other so deeply that's why we can have some challenges with abuse and murders because as we are into the relationship we invest too much to one another that's why it leaves us with this wound's inside if we broke up with our partners, because connections are powerful and very challenging to remove them, because as we live under with others we build this emotional connection attachment with them, that's why we can suffer from depression and anxiety even suicidal thoughts, because love can lead us to pain if we struggle to let it go, this subject is not easy because people will react differently when it comes to this break ups that's why you should start to learn yourself and check what kind of emotional pains have you encountered since you were hit by this break ups, because our wound's for love takes time to heal that's why even by reading this blog you might start to evoke the previous memories so you can reflect back an check what went wrong.
Can we grief without silence?
The ability to analyze this topic of grief can teach us something about how we react to grief, 90% of people will always grief silently, because this space is reserved for private matters, that's why whenever we lost someone we sometimes requested time to grief, that's why many people will always struggle with grief, because there's no manual to direct us on what we should do when we grief, that's why we prefer this private spaces yet we still don't get the solution because most people don't know how to deal with their emotions that's why people can be paralyzed by this accidents mentally because sometimes our inability to understand how the mind function always affects us especially if we are supposed to use the mind to get the solution of our griefs, the problem with mankind is that we can forget we are temporary into this world that's why whenever we are confronted with such accidents we are overwhelmed by our emotions which can trigger us to fail to understand the real facts about life, that's why someone can pass away today but you can grief their death until you die,we should remember this subject of grief is hidden because it happens under this notion of privacy title and sometimes people are not open about their grief because they don't want to be feel vulnerable or judged by others, but sometimes it's better to be criticized so you can get healing, because what we hide can destroy us inside.
Startup Business
Title description: 05 November 2021, Startup resources
How to use date for Your Start-up Business?
- Decide on a clear objective
- Develop a data-driven mindset across the organization.
- Invest in the right storage infrastructure
- Make the most of data with the right visualization tools
- Ensure global compliance
Sometimes, data can be like a double-edged sword since organizations need to be up to speed with issues related to the usage of this data, privacy, and the various regulatory requirements, which may differ based on the geography and the laws of the region.
What's the purpose of understanding data for Your Start-up Business?
- Start with a simple process and iterate.
- Find your cadence for measuring your data and follow your ritual routinely.
Gathering useful data requires you to consistently pull numbers over time, and to make informed, timely decisions, you’ll need to analyze those numbers in real-time.
- Make your data actionable.
- Be transparent.
- Evaluate where your company stands.
- Compare your data practices to companies around you.
- Set tangible goals.
- Connect data to innovation.
Data is fundamentally important for your startup, and focusing on data maturity as your company grows is vital to your success. Establishing a plan to continuously expand and deepen your use of data will set your company apart from competitors and transform your business into an industry leader.
Why data management is an advantage for your Start-up Business?
- Importance of data management:
Data increasingly is seen as a corporate asset that can be used to make more-informed business decisions, improve marketing campaigns, optimize business operations and reduce costs, all to increase revenue and profits.
Types of data management functions:
- The separate disciplines that are part of the overall data management process cover a series of steps, from data processing and storage to governance of how data is formatted and used in operational and analytical systems.
- Databases are the most common platform used to hold corporate data; they contain a collection of data that is organized so it can be accessed, updated, and managed. They're used in both transaction processing systems that create operational data, such as customer records and sales orders, and data warehouses, which store consolidated data sets from business systems for BI and analytics.
- Database administration is a core data management function.
- Data management tools and techniques
- A well-designed data governance program is a critical component of effective data management strategies, especially in organizations with distributed data environments that include a diverse set of systems. A strong focus on data quality is also a must. In both cases, though, IT and data management teams can't go it alone. Business executives and users have to be involved to make sure their data needs are met and data quality problems aren't perpetuated. The same applies to data modeling projects.
- Data management best practices
- A wide range of technologies, tools, and techniques can be employed as part of the data management process.
- Benefits of good data management
- A well-executed data management strategy can help companies gain potential competitive advantages over their business rivals, both by improving operational effectiveness and enabling better decision-making. Organizations with well-managed data can also become more agile, making it possible to spot market trends and move to take advantage of new business opportunities more quickly.
- Effective data management can also help companies avoid data breaches, data privacy issues, and regulatory compliance problems that could damage their reputation, add unexpected costs, and put them in legal jeopardy. Ultimately, the biggest benefit that a solid approach to data management can provide is better business performance.
Why does data hold startup business progress?
Proper data management is very important to increase business progress, somehow it takes plenty of time to sort out data but this can lead to key benefits which can assist the business to function better and even manage to grab opportunities as you progress on your business stages, with data you can find ways to better deliver your product or services that's why as pointed out above you should pay attention to what kind of data you need so you can be at the better position to dominate your niche market, again progress is an ongoing business journey, that's why it can take time to master certain opportunities, but with data management, you can start looking at the following progress guidelines to win the business:
- Start measuring process goals
- Stop deciding under the assumption
- Check what's working
- List key deliverables to be measured
- Revisit your mistakes and fix them.
Progress will always require a close look at what you are doing that's why tracking the number of key factors in your startup business will require proper data management system so you can check which area is in demand for improvements.
Why data is your startup resource?
Data is one of the greatest assets your startup business should have and even manage better because with properly managed data you can manage to do the following:
- Improves innovation.
- Safeguard key important assets
- Accelerate productivity
- Spend accurately
- Fast decisions
Career and Work
Title description: 04 November 2021 , Opportunities and information
Can distraction make us Successful?
The reactions to our distractions is overwhelming because we have entered this new fourth industrial revolution world, and things are changing so quickly, we are somehow left with few options, because today our attention span is too little, that's why many companies do thrive with this instant gratification advertising tool which sell us instant pleasures, that's why to look at this matter you should check your habits within this new technological economy, because sometimes we are addicted to our smartphones and others internet related tools, because we have been conditioned to think that we are supposed to be updated on continues basis, this makes most people to be glued into the internet without any reason that's why wasting time can be seen as a hobby since the dawn of this modern technological advances, distractions cannot make us successful unless we are those companies who sell this distractions, but without that, what's the profit we gain than pleasure which some of us cause stress, anxiety and even depression, because we have been conditioned to respond to this distractions, that's why to focus as we have been emphasizing it's a rare skill to have, because most people waste time on the internet that's why success is a continues process of focus, no amount of distractions can makes us successful you can check those facts by yourself looking at which type of people succeed those who pay too much attention to distractions or those who don't pay attention towards this instant gratification distractions.
Why do we pay attention to distractions constantly?
Mankind is switching to the instant gratification attention, our biological nature is based on this alert system which is ingrained inside our genetics, because we respond to this distractions based on this alert system, because as we have entered this fourth industrial revolution, majority of people struggle to find balance between maintaining focus and removing distractions out of their attention, because within this distractions we build this types of habitual attachments, because we end up feeling we cannot live without engaging into this distractions, we should remember there are some key benefits and disadvantages when it comes to this distractions, that's why some can be successful or failures all depends on how you manage this distractions, that's why today the society has accepted that we get attached to this distractions because freedom is opening many opportunities that's why sometimes people can respond to this distractions as way to connect or associate with others, we respond to this distractions because we have this hunger to connect with others.
Can distraction become a habit?
We have to check this based on the scientific approach, because you can discover how you have these technological distractions, we should remind you that distractions can differ that's why we have picked the new dominating distractions which have come with the new fourth industrial revolution technologies, because the majority of people have this habits which are already created by this social media networks, because sometimes people don't check their habits about this social media networks, because it feels as the normal thing to be addicted to this type of distractions, that's why your capacity to understand your habits can help you to analyze how you spend time on the internet, because today social media networks these companies use Neuro marketing to cage users attention that's why it's very difficult to remove some of our social media addiction, because we have included this habits into our lives, that's why with your routines you can be able to understand your social media habits.
Why you can miss opportunities if you give too much time to distractions?
Our attitude, habits, lifestyle, environment, skills, routines, relationships, actions, constitutes our behaviours towards attaining certain opportunities, because with distractions one cannot succeed unless you know what you are doing, that's why you should check how discipline you are when it comes to pay attention towards your goal or plans, because most people miss the opportunities because they give more attention to things which don't add value into their lives, that's why you might find yourself trapped by this miserable lifestyle of this new technological distractions, sometimes you should ask yourself hard questions, especially looking at how you waste your time on those distractions, because sometimes people can allow chaos as lifestyle but when time arrives to remove such chaotic situations it's very challenging because distractions can delay us from attaining certain opportunities that's why you should ask yourself where are you focusing your life at and what kind of benefits are part of that focus, because wasting time is free that's why no one will blame you about wasting your time but you cannot be successful by giving too much attention to this distractions.
Why it's becoming very hard to remove distractions?
The fact of the matter is already backed up with sufficient fact's and studies one can draw lessons from, because as discussed above we have listed key factors which helps us to understand why we are constantly adapting to this new technological distractions, somehow people since this dawn of the fourth industrial revolution majority find themselves lonely, so this social media networks plays an important role to help them to connect with others, that's why it's becoming challenging to live without this distractions because somehow they serve a great purpose to categorize us into this world of instant gratification connections, that's why to understand your attachment within this new technological advances you should check how much time you are spending on this platforms and check if they help you or add problems into your life, because no one can afford to remove something which they are not ready to face, and distractions are taking part of our lives that's why self control and discipline should be your priority if you want to achieve or deal with this distractions.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 03 November 2021, Habits
How to review your discipline?
Discipline is part of human nature, sometimes people don't struggle with discipline alone, they are key factors which can contribute towards making some people find it difficult to review their discipline, because somehow to identify what makes you discipline is very easy, but the most challenging part is to follow up on those discipline habits, that's why to review your discipline you should be able to check what you are doing with your life and what creates your results at the end because to find out about your discipline sometimes you should ask yourself what are you doing with your time and efforts because regardless of what is happening you are still liable to hold yourself discipline towards those plans or goals you have set for yourself, that's why it can take time to review your discipline, especially looking at some habits which control your life.
How to learn about your discipline?
The first step to learn about your discipline is to check what type of life you have, because your life can reveal the kind of discipline which controls your actions, to learn for most people is not hard , but to apply the lesson's is something which most people find it difficult to embrace, because at the end you cannot understand how discipline you are until you begin to pay attention towards your actions and thoughts even those habits you are struggling to remove, because sometimes people learn and fail to act that's why majority of people know the importance of choosing a good lifestyle, yet most people do the opposite, because they are not discipline enough to follow through on what they have planned, that's why even in with the new normal social media networks, most people are aware how they waste their time, that's why you cannot say you are learning if you don't apply the lessons that's why to remain discipline requires order and courage, because there's no way to success without any proper discipline habits.
Why success requires healthy habits?
Recently we listed the benefits of a healthy lifestyle, right now its time to evaluate some of the key factors which can assist you to understand how important success is created, and this comes back to the following elements:
- Sticking to your no's
- Learning to apply
- Finishing tasks
- Attention
- Focus
- Emotional Intelligence
- Self motivation
- Knowledge about your skills and experience
- Asking for help
- Understand your limitations
These 10 elements can teach you how some people will always outcompete others because with Success we talk about habits, and mostly healthy Habits, because as indicated you cannot outperform someone healthy whenever you are not, that's why the principles of success require order and dedication to discipline yourself on what you are supposed to do, that's you can take this practical observation and check this 10 elements on those successful people you will realize they have these characteristics which make them even better to perform certain tasks, that's why success requires continues management of your habits and skills set.
Can discipline create our success?
The fundamental facts remain, with those 10 elements of success listed above you can take a challenge for yourself and apply each element, what you can realize is some people are using these elements to advance their lives, that's why without discipline it's very challenging to become successful unless you have inherited material possessions from your parents or families, but with success, discipline is a requirement regardless of what you have, because at the end if you are not disciplined it's highly impossible to achieve certain milestones that's why from childhood upbringing until adulthood, you can trace if someone will be successful or not just checking their lives based on discipline, because without proper understanding of how you should be disciplined you might find yourself drifting from one area to another without any meaning, that's why your habits are controlled by your discipline.
Why not being disciplined is expensive?
From what we already shared about discipline life, one should be aware right now of the importance of restoring your discipline, especially looking at your plans and goals, because 90% of people fail because they are not disciplined enough to do what they have planned that's why most people can regret later in life about failing to be disciplined enough to take action on their dream's and aspirations, that's why to remain not discipline is very expensive, because you should maintain habits which don't benefit your long term results, that's why if you are not disciplined you know the consequences of what you will happen with your life, you won't be able to achieve what you have planned and this can increase your anger and frustrations even worse your envy towards others who have to achieve the same thing you want, but because you fail to apply your discipline then you are supposed to face the consequences of your actions.
Health and Life
Title description: 02 November 2021, Positive thinking
What is all about healthy thoughts?
Thoughts are created by our sense's conscious and unconscious, that's why most will struggle to find out what creates certain thoughts into their imagination, because as human beings our minds function better with those impressed mental memories or pattern, that's why from childhood we are programmed to think in a certain way, that's why our thoughts 90% of them are self made by the knowledge we have gathered, somehow it can be challenging to remove certain thoughts, because we have this huge relationship with them, that's why we believe based on the thoughts we have impressed into our imagination, our thoughts are created based on what we give more attention to and keep on repeating, that's why from school we are taught to repeat certain words until they build into thoughts, this can help us to better understand why thoughts can be created differently, but the purpose is to allow the mind to be controlled and function in a particular way, even by reading this blog you are creating this mental thought, all depends on how you will repeat this type of knowledge.
What is all about accurate thinking?
Science is working tirelessly to help us understand the importance of thinking accurately, because if you can check from your personal experience, we have thinkers in our environment, the most threatening situation to mankind is when he start to abandon his capacity to think for himself and start to see others as better thinker's than him, this attitude is created from our society, because we are taught to compete with others whenever our potential is not the same, that's why sometimes people can give up on themselves because they have this thoughts which discourage them as individuals who cannot think, this can come from different area's especially family, friends, teachers, associates, criticizing you based on your inabilities to do something better and comparing you with someone who is doing it better and this can affect your state of mind, because to think accurately you must have this irresistible power to reject thoughts which don't serve you any good purpose, but this comes with mental training, because at the end Mankind is not taught how to think accurately that's why chaos always follows him, again accurately thinking is skill, because you have to understand the flow of your thoughts, actions, emotions, motivation and believes, that's why to think is the most hardest thing you can do because it requires attention and honesty that's why so people will run away from thinking independently because they're afriad of their own thoughts. Good thinking is the process of continuous learning of thyself.
Why healthy thinking matters?
Healthy thinking is a way in which you programm your thoughts to focus on health, some people are always positive about good health and others are negative when it comes to health, this shows us how each individual will think when it comes to health, because not everyone is taught to think about good health, that's why we can suffer mental because of our thoughts, some people can cure themselves with their positive thoughts, whenever you want to test your health thinking, always check when you are sick, review what kind of thoughts dominate your attention, some will say it supposed to be pain and anger, but well some people can find it easy to embrace positive thoughts whenever they are sick, that's why healing is progressive, you cannot think healthy if you convince your sub conscious mind that good health doesn't exist for you, remember some people can respond to health challenges differently based on their thinking, that's why good health is a process of impressing your thoughts based on what you feel is good for your attention and focus.
Can good thoughts increase our happiness?
The greatest example you can check is to analyze yourself, check what kind of thoughts makes you happy on daily activities, for some reason you need to check your social media networks, friends, families, associates and the environment you live on, because sometimes people become happy based on what they focus on, that's why some environment will always give you this opportunity to feel happy, because you have not external things which bothers your attention, for example the ocean or open space, sometimes people forget the importance of embracing nature that's why some can struggle to understand what makes other people to become happy on certain environments, again your ability to reflect after checking the social media networks can assist you to gauge your happiness, because sometimes we build our happiness on what we focus on, that's why good thoughts are like a garden all depends on what you do into your garden and how you manage it, because sometimes happiness is available but because we are conditioned to think that we need certain things to be happy that's why your thoughts can tell you about your happiness, you don't need more information about this subject you just need to check what you do and how you feel about it on continues basis, because our repetitive thoughts become our actions, that's why some people can use their mind's to maintain happiness regardless of the circumstances because they have already trained the mind to operate in a happy fashion, again your thoughts determine your emotions that's why you should check what you are thinking about and what informs that particular thinking.
Can bad thoughts destroy your health?
Thoughts are like a garden, bad weather can damage your garden, this comes back to our ability to think accurately, because sometimes we as human beings we don't check what we are thinking about, that's why whenever pain comes into our lives we see it as a bad thing, again this stem from our childhood upbringing, because we are not taught to understand pain, that's why we struggle to find balance between pain and joy, because, 90 % of some people's lives is based on pain, and sometimes the situation is self made or inherited, that's why whenever we are sick majority of us we are dominated by nagative thoughts, why because it what we are used to, we should look at this facts accurately, because you cannot be positive whenever you don't understand your attitude towards accurately thinking, that's why healing as described is a process of continues progress, sometimes we can be healed by our thoughts that's why if you can check some people are killed by what they think about about, if you don't see yourself getting healed, nature conforms towards your commands and translate that particular command into action, that's why misery is twofold, we have physical and internal misery, many people suffer to restore their health based on internal dialogue which conforms into their misery, that's why to get sick is part of life but living under this internal deeper misery is a prison, because you can destroy your health with your nagative thoughts, that's why people can tell between a nagative or positive individual because the action and appearance will differ that's why even if two people are admitted into the hospital what will follow is to check their state of thinking some will see death and others healing z that's why life is a yin and yang you should choose which part suits you better.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 01 November 2021 , Happiness and options
Can Happiness become a gift?
Happiness is a choice of our thoughts, always we can determine the state of our happiness once we start to pay attention to our gratitude, because what life can offer us is something amazing, we have the capacity to think, that's why to some people being happy requires more material possessions, yet to find out what kind of gifs happiness can give you , you will need to check things you cannot buy with money, because sometimes people overlook things like this, that's why somehow you can fail to appreciate your gifts because you don't check what you have and why it's very important to have that particular thing, sometimes we look forward to get more that's why we can struggle to appreciate our gifts, that's why to increase our happiness because e need to check what matters to us and why, because money if you lack it you might think that once you get it you will be happy, sometimes you can be happy but this temporary happiness doesn't last, because we don't have any emotional attachment with material possessions, that's why we can care for this material possessions if we don't have them and we can start to careless once we get them, that's why it's very difficult to appreciate your pair of shoes, because you are looking into more that's why your cannot increase your happiness if you fail to understand the basics gifts you have right now infront of you.
Why we should share Happiness but hide the pain?
Mankind by his nature can prioritize what makes him feel good, that's why we can have more people who are addicted to drugs and alcohol even sex , because this elements can offer you this temporary escape from your reality, that's why we are more likely to share good news with others but hide the bad ones, because what is bad always reveal our vulnerabilities, that's why not everyone will be able to talk about how bad is their life, because at the end we as individuals we judge ourselves based on what we want or have or what others have, that's we have noted this attitude of seeing many people struggling to accept their failures just because they want to please others, but at the end you are the one who is feeling pain, that's why when it comes to pain no one can feel it for you on your behalf, that's why we can hide our shortcomings because we live a fake life, sometimes you need to confront yourself and ask who you are fooling, because we as individuals we can look at the good part of life and neglect to study what makes some things to fail that's why to some people it's very hard to learn about their failures.
Can we all become happy?
This question is like asking if everyone can have a meal in the world, we all know it can happen, but it's very important to understand how we as human beings behave because happiness is a choice not a need to some people, that's why we cannot be happy the whole world, it's simply some people don't want to be happy that's why you cannot change that situation it's how they view the world, again when it comes to happiness we make our choices, only through our choices the world can find happy people, and this will require careful balance on what we choose to focus on and why, because at the end our lives are driven by our choices.
Why do we reserve happiness for achievements?
Historical we are mentally conditioned to think we should celebrate achievements, that's why we can find ourselves into this predicament whereby we reserve our happiness for achievements, and the bad news is that not everyone achieve, that's why the world is having more miserable people than the happy ones, that's why sometimes people can find themselves trapped by waiting for celebrations to make them happy, and oftentimes people can get this escape from this celebrations but the fact remains you are not happy, that's why we regard happiness as a journey of your choices and thoughts, because you cannot wait if you don't understand why, reserving happiness dangerous, because you can rely on things you are totally not in control of them, that's why you can set expectations for the celebration to make you happy only to find out there's no happiness but more pain, that's why it's very important to understand what makes you happy internally, because at the end you ability to embrace what's good for you it's a choice.
Can Happiness be sold?
To answer this question, we should check the real facts, because we have two kinds of happiness:
- External happiness
- Internal happiness
To some people external happiness can be sold out because it involves acquiring material possessions, that's why most people can chase this type of happiness because it makes them appear professional especially to oppress others in some areas, that's why external happiness can vanish so easily because the duration of it always is limited, that's why with external happiness people can chase more, that's why they think more stuff will buy them happiness, what is external always has the limitations, that's why whenever you lack something once you find it you start to search for something else, this shows how we get ourselves to think we can buy happiness.
Internal Happiness is free that's why you should be careful about your choices because they determine your emotions and actions.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 28 December 2021
Who should make family rules?
This question will always differ based on the type of family, because sometimes if you are a single parent you have to make rules alone, and if you have a partner you will somehow share the responsibility to make rules which govern your family, that's why as partners or parents we fee this obligation that our children should follow certain rules, that's why rules create order and discipline within the family, the best way to understand this approach you are supposed to check what kind of a family are you dealing with because sometimes family structures are designed differently because rules will always differ based on our gender codes, a woman has a way of giving rules and man do have their ways too that's why there's no equal balance because we are different as human beings and only through the collective agreement we can manage to achieve stable rules.
Why children don't follow rules?
Children are rebellious because they are somehow taught many things that's why whenever they grow up they start to get into what they want or prefer and this can affect those rules set up by their parents because what often confuses many parents is that they somehow forget children do learn from our actions that's why as indicated we as human beings are so blessed to pick up the certain emotions from others, that's why children can be rebellious on what they are taught, because sometimes we as human beings we are free if we don't follow certain rules, because rules cage us and we can become detach to certain rules because we don't think we are supposed to follow them, that's why if children start to think for themselves they always begin to break certain rules and it's within our human nature to break rules as we grow up.
How to teach your children rules?
Everyone will agree that parents feel this obligation to teach their children something, that's why sometimes rules can be a challenge especially if you teach what you don't practice because children do learn from our actions as parents, that's why teaching is seen as a responsibility of adults, but rules can differ from their practices and understanding, that's why we cannot give a blueprint at what kind of rules you are supposed to teach your children because it's your choice to decide but what we can offer you this basic rules which can assist you to decide the rules you want to teach your children:
- Respect of God
- Respect of time
- Respect of money
- Respect of others
- Respect of life
Mankind is capable of living under these types of rules that's why if you can check your life is still under these rules even if you can break them but you still live based on these rules.
How to evaluate your rules for your family?
As a parent you should check how your children behave when you are not available and are willing to get feedback from others about your children's behaviors because the evaluation of rules functions better if you begin to review how each member of your family is adopting and complying to this family rules you have set because rules are the foundation of any family functionality because if they are no rules, mankind will still struggle to follow certain standards that's why with the evaluation of rules then comes morals and values, because whenever a family is structured under those components of respect.
Why do family rules create discipline and order?
Rules help the family to exercise the process of continuous discipline, family rules are the bedrocks of our day-to-day life because with rules we can manage to achieve certain milestones, especially looking at the moral values and standards of our own lives, family rules always helps us to safeguard the family because the rules are not made only for children, even adults are required to follow certain rules because rules protect us from dangers.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 27 December 2021
How to enjoy family time?
Majority of will agree on how family time is very important because they are certain things you are supposed to do with the family that's why if you can check family time today is now distracted by this new technological advances, because people during the family time seating some are still glued at their smartphones, this makes the family time to be divided, especially if it's time to eat because some people have adopted this new behavior of eating while pressing the phone, this should be condemned because as a family they are certain rules all members should abide with because this helps to build this connection of caring about each other that's why it's very important to understand that sometimes to enjoy family time all members of the family should be free and open to speaking with each other because family time is all about engaging into different types of conversations and learning from each other, that's why a family is a shield of protection against isolation.
What spoils family time?
Majority of family time can be spoiled by the following factors:
- Unresolved issues
- Bad behaviors
- Focusing on the smartphones
- Complaining during dinner
- Half cooked menu
They are other several factors which you can add but we managed to list the basics of these characteristics of making the family time end up going south, that's why as a family it's very important to seat down and discuss issues and see a seek a way forward to solve certain things before unresolved matters can create chaos during dinner time because some people have this tendency of spoiling dinner by bringing up unnecessary topics which can evoke emotions and even cause more turmoil during the family time, that's why as a family it's very important to understand how to deal and tackle certain matters before they get out of control because if a topic ends up entering the dinner table and spoil the mood it means that particular topic or problem is very important and requires immediate attention because it takes time to understand what kind of rules should be followed as a family.
How to understand family barriers?
Family barriers are like those standards and values your family should follow, this creates this process of helping your family to express its boundaries to other relatives because boundaries do play an important role because sometimes as a family you should agree on certain things and rules because sometimes our relatives can take advantage of our boundaries by trying to get into the things which don't include them, that's why as discussed as a family they must be a process of addressing matters and even more importantly boundaries at what is not supposed to be shared on the dinner table because our boundaries help us to maintain this path of discipline and respect that's why it's very important to pay attention on what kind of boundaries you as a family have set up and what benefits and consequences are attached.
Why we should have a families support?
Family support is important because we are connected as family members that's why blood is thicker than water because we have some similar genetics this makes us be one thing, that's why if family members struggle we as other members of the family can pretend as not feeling nothing but deep inside we feel pain about their lives, because the connection is huge and even biological coded, that's why if our families don't praise us or support our dreams we turn to feel as if we are not loved because as human beings we are attached to certain behaviors and standards that's why we turn to seek approvals even though we know we won't get much, but we still require to be recognized by others that's why success if you are alone or lonely to most people, is just worthless exercise and wasted efforts that's why is very important to understand why family support is important.
Startup Business
Title description: 26 December 2021
How to budget for your Start-up Business?
Budget creation plays an important role for various reasons as a startup business, that's why it's very important to understand what exactly you are supposed to add into your startup business budget because sometimes entrepreneurs struggle to create viable budgets for their business that's why a budget is a process listing what is supposed to be tracked down in your business day to day operations. After all, whenever you begin to create a budget it will serve as a blueprint of your startup business, a budget is an advantage because you can manage to achieve certain milestones and even be able to track unnecessary costs and improve your business growth, sometimes they are key factors which makes a budget to be workable, especially looking at what exactly you are supposed to add inside the budget, the creation of the budget is supposed to be informed by what kind of resources, expenses, costs, again technological tool's can assist you to create a budget for your startup business.
Why Small budgets matters for Your Start-up Business?
The importance of choosing what kind of tasks you pay attention can have a huge impact on what kind of results you can obtain, small budgets are very important because you can learn what you can handle as a startup business, because sometimes most entrepreneurs never check out the importance of learning from this small budgets and how they are suppose to handle them, because if you can check it takes basic steps to understand how a budget functions, that's why sometimes small wins can motivate you to improve your skills at managing this small budgets, again we should warn startup business leaders to stop thinking they know it all, because sometimes startup business fail because a leader wants to manage everything, again whenever you start to master the winning mindset of making sure you execute according to what the budget say's and even be savvy and lean at some process this can help you to increase your knowledge about managing and keep on winning on this small budgets as a startup business.
Why Entrepreneurs fail to budget?
Failure comes from different types of challenges and circumstances, but it's very important to understand how a budget functions because sometimes startup businesses turn to become ignorant when it comes to budget. After all, this comes from not paying attention to those small wins they keep on achieving. After all, a budget is a guiding tool to help the business track and record the costs and expenses, leaders can fail to understand the importance of budgeting because they wait for the money to start coming in then they start to think of a budget framework can be adopted, this leads many startups businesses to end up failing because if there's no budget you turn to be unorganized that's why it's very important to revisit the basics components of a business budget.
Why we should check our cash spending as a startup business?
How a startup business manages its budget this has a huge impact on what kind of spending and cost is incurred because sometimes leaders can find it difficult to remain savvy because sometimes startup business leaders or teams turn overspend when it comes to using the enterprise funds, that's why it's very important to appoint an accountant to help you to remain lean that's why it's becoming hard for some startups to maintain the process of remaining savvy because overspending is created by many factors, that's why it's very important to understand what the difference between a salary and shares or the equity, because sometimes startup business never set up this type of systems, that's why they can find themselves trapped by this continues challenges of overspending, again learning to evaluate what kind of expenses and costs are part of your startup business, this can lead you to end up overspending whenever you are supposed to remain lean as a startup business.
How to create a viable budget for Your Start-up Business?
A viable business budget can be created based on what type of feedback you are getting because if you can check a budget is just a guiding tool to help you to understand what exactly or what costs or improvements, sometimes it takes time to get clear at what is viable because this requires extensive research, especially at your business processes, again whenever you dealing with a budget it's very important to understand the importance of growth because to judge what is viable you should look at key performance indicators, especially your profit growth rate. After all, if you want to achieve viability it's very important to understand how you close sales and how you maintain growth within your market geographic area.
Career and Work
Title description: 25 December 2021
How to reset your skills?
We have proposed this framework on our book called The Power of information overload, but to tackle this topic we should look at what exactly creates a skill, because sometimes people don't know what is all about a skill, firstly to understand how your skills function you should check the theatrical version and the practical lessons, because oftentimes people end up becoming stuck to change their skills because they failed to test the skills and see if that particular skill offers any sound results, because as discussed most people so far have skills but what is challenging about those skills they have acquired is that practical lessons are not applied that's why we have talked about what creates unemployment, so in order to reset your skills you should check how your skills fit into the market and where can you use them, because sometimes people whenever they look at their skills they think more about employment alone that's why you should also ask yourself if you can make money by applying your skills without working for someone that's why the ability to test your skills can assist you to rest them, especially since the beginning of the fourth industrial revolution you are obligated to add new skills.How to research new skills?
The right skills are picked based on sound research, we should sometimes look at the economic framework because somehow companies do function according to the economics of the market landscape, that's why every industry has its type of skills which are viable and sustainable, but because we still lack knowledge about this only few people can manage to receive this kind of information, because remember we talked about the importance of career planning, this adds up to our point, which suggests that if you have this tool behind you the career planning, it's very easy to get into this job markets and even manage to use the right skills to get this jobs because picking up any new skills can somehow make us profitable or even broken but the rule of thumb here is to conduct a skill audit and check what is available and what you can do.
How to pick the right skills?
This question is recurring and again it's a broader question because one should be aware we as individuals can get some skills not by going to school alone, that's why it's very important to balance theory and practicals because people find it hard to research whenever they lack knowledge about the fundamental step's about career requirements, it takes time and effort to research a career by yourself that's why you should look into those economic indicators and even try to seek professional help from experts about this subject because some careers will always require a mentor behind them that's why to understand and research that particular skill you want to add you will need help from experts and others because our skills can differ and even the research will be different again even the advice will not be the same some skill will require theory and others practicals that's why to understand this you should check which area you fall into.
How to use your skills?
Since we have been talking about this subject about skills we have to tell you about something, most people don't know how to use their skills, why because sometimes schools and universities don't teach people to act, that's why it's becoming very challenging to test some skills after you have graduated, how you can use your skills comes back to who has taught you about that particular skill because sometimes people learn by themselves that's why it's very important to research were did you acquired that particular skills you have currently because sometimes you can struggle to use your skills because you don't understand how they are supposed to be applied that's why the how part is the most critical component which can assist you to get clarity about if that particular skill is viable or not because the reason you have a skill is to use it not store it that's why it all depends where you learn the skill if we want to use it.
How to measure the value of your skills?
The skills audit matters, why because sometimes people can acquire the wrong skills, that's why is very important to understand how you have acquired the skills either in theory or practicals, because sometimes it takes time to conduct this skills audit on our personal life because only companies are somehow famous on this subject of conducting skills audit, it's very important as an individual to take that approach into your life because you can discover what kind of skills should be discarded and which ones can be adopted because to check the value of your skills you are supposed to check the amount of impact and money you get out of that particular skills set you have that's why as discussed this subject can sound technical by is doable if you can follow the necessary steps we have shared.
Success and Wealth
Title description: 24 December 2021
Why we should have the purpose?
Purpose is direction, we hope you have already understood the meaning because if you don't have any direction then how will you succeed at what you are doing most people fail because they don't have a clear direction of what they are doing with their lives, that's why as emphasized people can waste time and blame life on how unfair and miserable it is but remember the more you discover your purpose the more you start paying attention to what you want to do and blame for you will be something you keep on suspending because with purpose comes responsibilities and focus that's why if you have a clear direction of what you want out of this life and take action you will end up becoming successful, even if it can take time but remember your purpose step by step is coming into the reality that's why it's very important to have a clear vision about your life so you can be able to manifest your purpose.
Why success is designed by your Actions?
Actions bring results, how many people do you know who have succeeded without taking action?
Zero, this shows us how important it is to understand the power behind taking action because most people can plan but only a few people will act that's why our book called Just Do it Plan To Do, will assist you to get more insights on how to maintain your actions and results because the action does count regardless of how small or useless you can think about, remember the creation of success comes with taking action that's why it's very important, to begin with, this type of mentality of learning to just do it because sometimes you should think more about the action so you can be able to succeed as you move ahead with this subject of success because sometimes people fail not because they don't have necessary skills or experience but because they lack action and discipline that's why the remaining question is to ask yourself can you succeed without taking action?
Remember success is designed by our actions regardless of how small or big they can be but with actions come results and improvements that are why the more action you take the better you stand a chance to succeed.
Why most individuals don't have purpose?
They are some good reasons why most people don't have purpose about their lives, and this is because people never sit down and question their lives, most people follow the same living patterns which are setup by others that's why it's very important to reflect on what exactly you what, because if you can check the question it's self can reveal something about your life, remember we said a purpose is a direction, this means if you want to get the direction about your life you should be able to ask right questions especially looking at your actions and plans even what you stand for, because most people do have their purpose the problem is that majority of them fail to pay attention on what their hearts and dreams are all about that's why most people do have plans but majority lack action that's why your capacity to understand your purpose will assist you to take action because you will understand the type of direction you are supposed to take that's why if you don't utilize your purpose you end up becoming unsuccessful at what you want to achieve, because direction matters when it comes to achievements and progress that's why it's very important to check what exactly is your purpose and how can you start to use it.
Why do we fail to understand our Purposes?
The meaning of our lives it's very important because it helps us to point out the kind of purpose we have as individuals, people do fail to understand their purpose due to the following factors:
- Failing to question their lives
- Giving up on dreams
- Paying attention to the opinions of others
- Comparison
- Focusing on problems more than solutions
- Failing to take action
- Not planning their goals and plans
- Failing to apply the right advice
- Failing to rectify mistakes
- Blaming circumstances
- Not paying attention to what they feel
- Ignoring their instincts
- Failing to accept what is beyond their control
- Chasing the wrong things
- Pleasing wrong people
- Not spending time alone to think
This list is endless but we hope you have at least picked up some reasons why sometimes people fail to understand their purpose, again it's very important to reflect on the list we have shared because sometimes people can delay rectifying mistakes because they postpone taking action that's why if you want to understand don't hesitate whenever you see the answers just apply the lesson's and see what can come after.
Can you succeed without purpose?
The fact is that our purpose is one of the determining factor when it comes to our success that's why you cannot succeed for some many reasons, but purpose counts, because sometimes people can use this advantage unconsciously that's why it's very important to understand the importance of having a purpose because your aims represent your purpose that's why you should check how you act because sometimes you can find meaning why having a clear purpose lead to success because as discussed a purpose is a direction, so what we should understand here is that how many people do succeed from using wrong direction, no one ever reach their destiny with the wrong direction that's why you can open up this argument and say most people don't care about their purpose but they have succeed,we can tell you most people do have purpose but not aware about it that's why if you want answers about why purpose matters asks people who are successful about this subject you will get answers because the flip side of purpose to some is mostly categorized on the factors of setting up goals and plans.
Health and Life
Title description: 23 December 2021
Can time teach us about happiness?
Mankind always functions according to the discipline of time, that's why we have been emphasizing on this blog the importance of paying attention to your thoughts because many people avoid learning about their happiness because they were told that one day they will be happy, we should tell you time exist now that's why we cannot predict tomorrow because we don't know what will happen that's why postponing your happiness to tomorrow is dangerous because you might die today, that's with time you can deal and recognize these thoughts which are troubling your life that's why we learn through time because happiness is a component of time because they are some times you will be faced with unhappiness but what matters is to train the mind to recognize these facts, time works with our actions and happiness comes from our choices which create our actions that's why how you spend your time can assist you to determine your happiness.
Why some people are always unhappy?
Majority of individuals are unhappy because they don't pay attention to what is happening inside their mindset, people turn to ignore what is bothering them inside and try to fix it with external things that's why as discussed we as human beings can become our problem creator's, we should ask ourselves what make us to be unhappy, this question is very simple to answer it, but very hard to apply the lessons because sometimes people can know but fail to take action because our habits can control us that's why it's very important to understand that it's not your responsibility to make other people to be happy but it's your responsibility to treat others with kindness and understanding because to be unhappy is normal for some people because they have accepted the reality of what is causing their unhappiness, we should remember sometimes people can program themselves to be unhappy by repeating this word of saying they are not happy we should understand how the mindset function what you focus on grows, it's up to you to understand this approach because being unhappy for a long term is a choice not a must.
Happiness and Peace
Title description: 22 December 2021
Why fail to be aware of what we feel?
Mankind is always aware the problem is that people struggle to express certain emotions because as the world is changing most people are now too much busy that's why even if you want to talk with others their attention span is limited and this can affect our ability to exercise this awareness because the more we feel we are neglected the more we begin to closed up our awareness that's why most people know what bothers them but what is hard is to find people who can listen to their problems, because if you can check we begin to have more miserable people than peaceful individuals because most of time majority of people never sit down and reflect about what is happening into their lives, they are on autopilot that's why it's very difficult to share something with such individuals because they don't pay attention and again we can fail to be aware because we have trained our mind's to ignore certain situations and emotions it's like a broke man who keeps on saying things will be ok but he doesn't take action tchange his circumstances that's why we can be aware about our problems but be reluctant to take action to change our lives because this attitude comes from our sub conscious mind which regulates our reactions and feeling that's becoming aware can increase our chances to succeed because you will do what others fail to do even though they know they are suppose to do such activities because ignorance is very expensive.
Can Self-awareness create peace?
Self awareness is the gate opener to our peace, because the more you are aware the more you can start to pay attention to details what is preventing you to attain your peace as an individual, because most people never check what is impacting their peace they just move along with the go that's why we have few peaceful individuals and majority of miserable people this show that only few people pay attention that's why as discussed success is selective because you are supposed to pay attention to something which majority of people are ignoring in order to be happy and peaceful in your life because peace is free most people buy into this lies which states that you will become more peaceful if you are wealthy or financial stable but the opposite side is there more people never become successful peaceful by material possessions because our peace is a state of mind not things that's why peace is very important regardless of what you are experiencing because you always have it at your disposal what matters is to pay attention on it and start to expand it.
Why we should be careful about our self-awareness?
Self awareness is an internal school you are in regardless of whether you ignore or pay attention, because as living human beings we are actively aware everyday, but this depends on what makes that particular awareness that's why it's very important to check if you are aware about the right things or not because majority of people are somehow aware about things which don't add any value into their their lives that's why misery is always after them because if to don't pay attention on your awareness you are selling yourself into this distractions which don't care about our life that's why the more distracted you become the more you become miserable because it's very dangerous to fail to be aware about what's happening inside your mindset because that can destroy your chances to be happy and successful because awareness is a discipline of attention to thyself that's why you should take this personal initiative to reflect on what you are aware about and what good or bad are you getting from that awareness.
Can peace increase our happiness?
The first thing we should be aware of is to understand the difference between peace and happiness, one should be aware that happiness is a choice peace is a state of mind, this means we should be careful whenever we approach this subject because you can be at peace but not happy that's why this topic requires an open mind because without peace happiness doesn't exist that's why the more peaceful you become the better you start to become happy because with peace comes possibilities that's why whenever we are at peace we sometimes don't think too much about happiness because we know that peace covers all of this important aspects we seek as individuals, to be happy you should check what makes you feel at peace and the starting point is to check what you are doing with your time because if you are aware of what you are doing you can discover what increase or decrease your happiness because with the peace we can discover what is bothering us.
Can ignorance create awareness?
Ignorance is a state of awareness, whether you see it or not because some people can see your ignorance that's why we should ask ourselves what kind of ignorance is good or bad for our lives because most people whenever we begin to talk about ignorance they just into the nagative side of it, that's why they can struggle to see the good part about ignorance because even by reading this blog you are practicing to ignore something that's why it's very important to see the difference between the good and bad of the side of ignorance, because mankind by nature he is ignorant regardless of the circumstances either good or bad that's why the more ignorant you are the more aware you can be especially if you begin to pay attention to your actions and results because without proper management of ignorance mankind will always suffer the harsh realities, with ignorance we can discover our potential and even stand a chance to improve what is preventing us to succeed as individuals.
Culture and Religion
Title description: 21 December 2021
Why marriage education matters?
Marriage education is very important because as partners if we enter the marriage space, we should begin to review and research what kind of knowledge we are supposed to get and check how we relate to that particular information, because most partners will still use their previous knowledge some will come from what they were taught from their respective families, we should begin to question this notion of marriage education, because it seems most people are somehow misguided when it comes to this subject, why because according to our observation, majority of partners get counseling before entering the marriage from their families, but what is challenging is that this type of lessons are only shared for that particular situation alone, that's why mankind understand based on repetition, so one lesson is not enough that's why we can struggle to learn further about our marriages because we neglect this subject about learning to improve our marriages as partners, marital education is a long term learning proces because it evolves many things and we hope to cover this topic on our upcoming book called family dilemmas.
Why self-education matters as partners?
Empowerment plays an important role, because as discussed above partners if they can start learning about their marriages they can be able to solve and improve their lives, because with empowerment comes curiosity and clarity that's why it's very important to check what kind of self-education each partner is adding as you move ahead with your marriage or relationship because what often confuse and create most problems for people who are into relationships or marriages is when one partner starts to improve their knowledge and the other one remain unwilling to learn or improve their knowledge about marriage, we should remember marriage is a school that's why we are all required to learn and empower each other as partners because self-education is very important to help your marriage or relationship to succeed.
How to manage your marriage education?
Good question indeed, we have to understand some people by nature they don't like to learn, but life is a station of education, we should remember education we are not talking about reading books or going to school alone, we still refer to some lived experiences and lessons you gather as an individual, because to improve your marriage education you are supposed to pay attention towards what kind of knowledge, experience, skills, values, and beliefs you and your partner consult or follow, that's why some will still struggle to understand this meaning of marriage education because we sometimes associate this word education with school and reading, that's why to improve your marriage it's very important to be empowered and again be willing to learn from others who have to succeed on this path of marriage because improvements require efforts and attention that's why if all partners take action to improve their knowledge about marriage this will help them to succeed.
Why learning about each other matters as partners?
Marriage is a school as indicated above, we should be aware and even start to analyse this topic because partners regardless of what is happening they are always learning each other either conscious or unconsciously, that's why learning is a path of life we are always learning about our partners, the challenge is that we don't document this lessons on books or manual's, because as human beings we are constantly learning so it will be hard work to document this lessons again this attitude of learning from each other as partners brings awareness and it increases respect on our difference and preferences, because learning from others indeed requires an open mind, because sometimes people can find it difficult to learn from each other if ignorance is leading them, again learning is all about understanding what is being shared and start to apply it step by step as you move ahead with your relationship, because sometimes it takes time to learn about things in your marriage that's why if you study you should be opened to challenges and improvements, because partners who learn from each other always build this connection between them and this can assist the relationship to succeed.
Why we feel the need to learn about our partners?
Learning is within our biology as human beings, that's why this includes why we constantly relate to certain things, because if you have a relationship with someone you will be obligated to learn something about them regardless of what the term of relationship can be, because if we interact with others we stand a chance to learn something new that's why we have this innate biases to choose and pick people based on what kind of knowledge we have, sometimes if you see your partner there is this memory attached to you with them, that's why to question that particular memory you will discover how you have collected this lessons but we as human beings can ignore what we have learned because it requires courage and confidence to retrieve this type of memories and see what exactly are you learning from your partner, because as human beings we are different and even unique that's why sometimes if we learn we can start to judge others even more less because we can understand how this constant evolving challenge mankind and even get better understanding at what we cannot control as partners because learning is broader and it takes time that's why you should be patient to learn about your partner and ask for clarity if you don't understand something.
Marriage and Relationship
Title description: 20 December 2021
How much romance is enough?
Majority of partners will still struggle to understand how romance function, because sometimes majority of relationships begins with this spark of continues romance , we should remember whenever people start a new relationship they are key factors which increase attention, that's why the romance during this stage will be so powerful, again this approach is within our biological genetics, because we turn to pay too much attention to something new, that's why it's very challenging to measure romance unless we look at the beginning of the relationship, that's were we can manage to judge the changes, but if you can check romance is not enough regardless of what we give our attention to, because sometimes people can seek emotional connection from others, that's why as discussed on our book called The one-night stand, satisfaction is self made, again romance can help us to understand our true desires, remember we have talked about the power of attachment, sometimes we can find ourselves feeling we don't get enough romance because of our unsatisfactory human desires, romance become less if we don't love and care for each other as partners.
Why Partners avoid romance?
The key reasons why most partners will avoid romance looking at the following factors:
- Stress
- Ignorance
- Routine
- Boredom
- Fatigue
- Grief
- Health challenges
- Guilt
- Cheating
- Unsolved problems
We should notice how most partners can find themselves trapped by the factors mentioned above, because sometimes as individuals we can avoid romance. After all, there's is something happening in our lives, again the lack of romance is what decreases love and care because as partners we should understand our connection which is Love that's why romance cannot die if we care and pay attention to our relationships or marriages and even start to talk about this factors as partners, lack of romance disconnect us from each other as partners that's why this problem can lead the relationship to fail step by step because if you can check most relationship problems comes down to money and lack of romance or attention that's why we recommend you your partner to review the list we have shared and check what kind of challenges you are facing and start getting ready to search the solution.
Why we should play romance as partners?
We know that whenever a relationship starts they are different types of activities which took place, it's especially playing, we mean romancing as partners, this shows us how much people do understand the importance of romance, but it's very challenging for some people to maintain these activities to continue because as we get used to knowing our partners we turn to switch into this path of routine, we can lose interest and start performing romance as a duty, that's why we can lose interest if begin to adopt this mentality, because sometimes if just romance for the sake of performing it we can start to train our brains to behave differently, that's why romance is the language of care and attention because we have the power to restore our romance if we are willing to learn about those factors mentioned earlier on because if romance is managed properly partners will keep this ability to play with each other and be happy.
Why romance is a roadmap for exploring our desires?
Romance plays an important role in any relationship because most of our desires are somehow explored through this activity called romance, with romance we have this opportunity to engage with our significant other on deeper levels because romance can connect souls that's why whenever there's this spark of romance, you can manage to explore some emotions, because romance awake those powerful emotions, and the roadmap for continues romance start by paying attention to small details as partners, because it's very important to understand how romance function because sometimes partners can struggle to keep this spark of romance active because they neglect small things such as telling each other how they love each other, even worse saying thank you, this can sound basic, but this can affect your entire romance journey because without care and attention romance will lose its grip.
Why we should learn about romance?
Learning about romance is very important because oftentimes partners can stop paying attention to the romantic side and just treat this subject as a chore that's why we have to warn everyone to start paying attention to their partner, because sometimes if basic steps about romancing are not prioritized and properly managed then we will have those 10 factors that which helps most partners to avoid romancing because on constant basis majority of partners can suspend the likes of foreplay because they think the routine is obvious that's why if we can get into this topic of romance, all partners who be willing to learn and even open to possibilities, because sometimes partner forgets to romance because of certain things and reasons, but we recommend you revisit the list we shared so you can begin to see where you and your partner can start learning about this romance activity, remember love helps us to explore.
Startup Business
Title description: 19 December 2021
How to manage your Startup Business customers?
We have to cover this topic about customer service again, because any business do exist because of customers unless you are a research model, that's why as continues emphasized, startup business should be able to develop this type of systems which can enhance them to function smoothly, because sometimes how you manage your customers comes back to what kind of knowledge and skills you have about this subject, it's very important to adopt what is called customer relationship management system, this type of system will always help you to manage your startup business customers, particular looking at the feedback and data you are receiving from this customers, because sometimes it helps to understand the profile of your customers so you can be able to improve your customers service when time goes by, because without building this type of system you will somehow struggle to maintain the return of customers, because any interaction with a customer it's a lesson that's why your capacity to use the customer relationship management system can assist you to even reduce inquiries and increase customers satisfaction.
Why customers matters for your startup business?
The first thing we should check when answering this type of question is to ask what is the importance of a customer because if you can check all processes and research comes to conclusions once we have a customer who can give feedback about the product or service, customers do matter for different reasons that's why the first important reasons if the opportunity to get feedback about what you are offering, sometimes leaders can jump into conclusions and say customers matters because they pay the business bills we do understand that particular thinking and reasoning, but it all comes back to the feedback you are getting from what you are rendering in the market that's profit is the feedback that you get from your customers that's why as discussed the interaction with the customer is what matters because you will manage to get feedback at what you are offering, customers matters because they give us data about our product or services.
Why we should keep our customers happy?
This question of keeping our customers happy is overrated because as time goes by customer satisfaction and preferences of how this customer views or what certain things are changing, that's why whenever it comes to happiness it's very important to understand you won't make others happy but you can offer them a choice to help them understand their happiness, that's what why whenever it comes to this subject most startup businesses make mistakes by thinking customers have all the powers on their brand's that's why they can be trapped by this notion of competition not dominating because it takes time to find loyal customers that's why you cannot keep making all customers happy that's why inquiries are very important because you will be able to understand what kind of challenges your customers are constantly facing when using your service or product, again keeping customers happy is all about the value you provide.
How to increase your customer retention?
The fundamental advantage is to use a customer relationship management system because sometimes customers can help you to get another customer but it all depends on the level of value you are providing because what is valuable we turn to share it that's why on our book called Disruptive Startup we mentioned key factors and reasons why this new leading companies some manage to achieve and maintain the process of customers acquisitions. After all, they follow a particular system which helps them to return customers without any hustle, again customer retention works according to what kind of value are you providing which can assist others and share your stories with others. After all, what makes other startup businesses succeed is how they manage to keep returning customers who end up becoming loyal customers.
How to market new customers?
The concept of marketing is now being simplified since the new dawn of social media networks, we should remember not every customer will be reached through the internet that's why you should understand the geographical features of your target market, because sometimes leaders do make mistakes by paying attention to the online business side and fail to track the physical interaction, that's why even today some customers will find it difficult to buy online this is the psychology you should understand because you might be wasting your time on this online platforms where by you don't even profit that's why as discussed on our book called Disruptive Startup, majority of startup business struggle to be profitable on this online platforms because they use free software and services that's why it's very important to understand how to get profit not just this usual appearance on this platforms which don't add anything into your bank account.