Happiness and Peace
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What is happiness?
Flow of thoughts whereby one embrace awareness of positive thinking which leads to peace and joy.
Happiness is doing what you believe in, rather than doing what you are told.
Why happiness is important ?
Happiness helps to ease frustrations and makes us appreciate what we have. Happiness make us access our inward peace and let go of things that are beyond our control.Feeling happy is important because we become more compassionate, and healthier both physically and emotionally. More creative, energetic, and fun to be around.
Healing powers of happiness?
These are some of the key elements powers of happiness:
Why do most individuals postpone happiness?
Postponing happiness is easier, hence why
most people don't know what makes them happy, they look for outside things which don't relate to their core values, that's why if you postpone your happiness, no one will hold you accountable but unfortunately you will regret about missing the opportunity to be happy right now.
People can postpone their happiness because they think one-day they will be happy.Postponements should be checked before being executed.
Who has given people the responsibility to make others happy?
No one is responsible to make you happy.
This are some of the reasons:
- Psychological biases: treat others as you would like to be treated.
- Community social acceptance
- Churches, schools, media houses
Health and Life
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What creates a healthy relationship?
Commitment towards one another determination to embrace reality, the capacity to listen with an open mind, acceptance of individuals' weaknesses, problem resolving skills, good health, financial, spiritual, and emotional management.
How does health play a role to boost the relationship?
Firstly, good health boost our emotions, so for each relationship to succeed, spouses should pay attention to what makes them feel healthy and make sure they support each other to understand their bodies, to make sure all emotions are balanced.How can you know if you are in a healthy relationship?
These are some of the following key factors you can check:
- Laugher
- Forgiveness
- Trust
- Honesty
- Good health
- Good financial management
- Peace
- Open communication
- Confidence to say NO
- Shared parental rights
- Balanced housework
What destroys the healthy of relationships?
Pay attention to these red flags:
- Lying
- Lack of goals support
- Negative mindset toward each other
- Postponing celebrations
- Sharing confidential information about your relationship with your friends without your partner's consent.
- Suspicion or cheating
- Selfish
- Poor health
- Conflicting values
- Blame game Closed communication
How do age, sex, diet, and unity help to boost the relationship?
All relationships strive for growth, to boost the overall partnership, spouses should revisit or set guiding milestones that can speak to how they picture themselves within these categories:
Age
Sex growth
Union celebration
Aging together requires a great discipline of commitment to stick to one other through the worse and the good because if a relationship has this picture and spouses embrace what they agreed upon, the recipe for a lasting relationship can be discovered.
In sexual growth, to boost the relationship all partners should be open to new improvements because what often destroys relationships is the lack or the inability to improve sexual growth and it takes time to learn from each other.
Union celebration, all partners have to make sure they participate towards making sure all celebrations are given special attention and postponements should be avoided.
Success and Wealth
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What is wealth?
Wealth is the collection of valuable assets which you have acquired.
How wealth can be acquired?
Using your advantage, which can emanate from different structures as follows:
- - Family advantage ( investment)
- Associate referral
- Skill application
- Business transactions
- Knowledge & experience
Why do people spend more time searching for wealth?
Wealth shapes our personality, so we strive to appear great and achieve our goals to make sure we attain what we want.
What are the advantages of wealth?
Wealth can mean different things to people, that's why others judge wealth with the following components:
- Bank balance Material possession
- Associates
- Appearance
- Charity donations
These are some of the basic advantages of wealth:
- Affordability
- Control
- Access
- Freedom
- Backup
Why wealth is important?
Here is something we have to check about wealth:
- The importance of our efforts most of us love to get results which can help us to progress, wealth becomes important because abundance makes us feel worthy.
- Wealth protects our self-egos and vanity
- We identify a well-lived life by counting how much one has acquired during his or her lifetime.
Career and Work
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Why choosing the right career is important?
These are some of the benefits of choosing the right career:- Freedom
- Happiness
- Commitment
- Pride
- Growth
Key factors which contribute to a good career
- Specialization career isThe importance of career progress?
Progress makes us happy, so a career that helps you to reach your growth expectations, can satisfy you and keep you in good control. - Once a career is progressive we don't mind going an extra mile. - Progress helps us to discover our hidden potential and clarity
Why do people choose the wrong career?
Wrong information is the number one factor that contributes to the path of choosing the wrong career.
- Low self-esteem can play a part in choosing wrong
- Poor research
- Poor decision making
- Settling for less
- Lack of purpose
- Copying others
Why career management is important?
Management keeps us aware, that's why every career has its limitations, it is your responsibility to review how relevant is your career.
Startup Business
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What is business?
A business is a team of people who have a common goal, to sell something to the customer.
Is business for everyone?
Yes, all of us are selling something every day, and the question is how one benefit from his or her efforts, for example, a relationship is a business, why because every day each spouse should give something this applies to all areas of life that's why business is for everyone but it depends what are you selling.
Why research matters when starting a business?
Research helps to get feedback from the market, so it is very important to consider that research can determine the success or the failure of the business.
Why do people fear starting their businesses?
- Fear of failure
- Low self-esteem
- Lack of interest
- Comfort zone
- Job security
- Skill gap
- Poor planning
- Procrastination
- Waiting for the right time
- Thinking you won't make it
Yes, because passion evokes curiosity and this will lead you to seek additional skills to make your business viable, the challenge is most people confuse passion with profitability, if you are starting you can divert from passion to do something which yields profit even if you don't like the segment, what matters is to distinguish what comes first to you before you start a business, either profit or passion.
Marriage and Relationship
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What makes a relationship succeed?
These are the key factors that contribute to making a relationship a success:
- Mutual respect
- Listening to each other
- Critics which are welcomed
- Completing each other's weaknesses
- Honesty
- Healthy plan
- Shared goals
- Problem-solving skills
- Going an extra mile
- Sympathy
- Celebration
Why communication is key to any relationship?
Open communication encourages spouses to trust each and be able to help each other.
How spot if you are into an unhealthy relationship?
Emotional abuse, is one component that most people don't pay attention to and these can affects their general well-being because our emotions can say a lot about what type of relationship we have, and again unhealthy relationships are based on win-lose scenarios, the other partner gives more and the other doesn't contribute, so this makes conflicts to run in cycles because once a partner feels empty while into a relationship, this introduces a lot of sabotage and hidden agendas which end up destroying the relationship.
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- Another cause of unhealthy relationships comes from power balance because it takes time to learn from someone and if you are chasing what someone has, this introduces more power over the other and if someone loses his or her material possessions, that's where most relationships hit the rock bottom.
- Unhealthy relationships can be spotted by how each partner talks to one another and how his or her ego or vanity is shown within the relationship.
- Poor health is another factor to lockout when checking the health of the relationship because a negative mindset is dominant in unhealthy bodies
- Solution prioritize trust first, love follows, why because each an every relationship to succeed, trust should be the foundation of the partnership, which is why if we love without understanding how much we trust each other, this can leads to more problems.
Trust is a process whereby each partner has to stick to certain values and keep his or her word on the relationship vows because love is always available in most relationships, but trust is rare that's why you need to study each other, so you can rely on what makes your relationship trustworthy and how will you deal with trust violations if something happens.
What kind of goals makes a relationship work?
Firstly goals are important and every relationship should consider adopting these common goals:
- Health goals
- Financial goals
- Adventure goals
- Educational goals
- Family goals
- Spiritual goals
Why shared goals are important?
Goals help spouse's to be accountable, responsible, and aware of their relationship progress. Successful relationships take time and determination, that's why goals plays an important role to make the relationship a success.
Having goal's in a relationship doesn't mean doing the same thing, but understanding how to adjust and fill the missing need without attacking the weakness of one another.
Culture and Religion
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What is religion?
Is a guiding system of controlling our core beliefs, values, principles, commitments, habits, actions and behaviours in this life.
Why people defend their religion?
Firstly, for too many people religion is a sensitive matter, and in some areas, some matters are handled as secret. The reason why people defend their religions is to protect the secrets and the principles of that religion.
- Defense is one way that makes some religions to be relevant to this very day.
What's the future of religion?
The world is changing, and even some religions are now adapting to a new change. The future of religion lies in how beliefs will change because each century introduces, new behaviors which shape the religion, e.g Technology will play a role in how we perform certain religious practices. The future is now, the religion is only decided by us.
Does religion lead to wisdom
Wisdom is understanding how your beliefs functions and where they come from.
Why do you need to evaluate the religion of your choice?
Investigation is power because most people adopt religion because they were forced or conditioned to do so.
- Learning to evaluate what type of religion work's for you, takes time and great research about your inner peace.
- It takes courage to choose and change religion, because the change of religion requires determination and support, to walk in a new way, you should embrace the worse and keep on looking for what satisfy your soul.
- Time can help to evaluate the results of the religion you have chosen, that's why your research has to be validated by results not by opinions and you should decide for yourself what is working for you.
What type of happiness makes a difference in life?
As individuals we value different things and this makes our values vary when it comes to evaluating our happiness, these are some of the basic elements which can make a difference in your happiness journey:
- freedom
- Growth
- Achievement
- Health
- Family
- Friendships
- Master
- Adventure
- Finance
- Career.
- Neatness
- Time management
- Advice you use
- Discipline
- Emotional awareness
- Pain tolerance
- Problem-solving
- Decision-making
Can money makes us happy inwards?
NO, happiness is inner work, to others, money can add happiness if it can buy you those material possessions which complete your inner demands.
What confuses individuals is generalizing when it comes to the subject of happiness because we have two types of happiness:
- Inner happiness
- External happiness
Why does honesty play part in happiness?
Learning to understand your happiness journey, requires due diligence on yourself because you cannot be happy if you are not honest with yourself, that's why before you can address what makes you happy you need to begin with how honest are you with what makes you feel good and why.
Happiness is only accessed by your own choices that's why honesty helps to review those choices and it takes simplicity to find out what makes you happy, that's why honest reflections play an important role to structure your happiness journey.
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The importance of reviewing your happiness?
Checking what's going on can help to determine your happiness, because if you are not aware of what influence your happiness and why. Reviews are important because that's where you can rank the value of your activities that contribute to the happiness you have or seek.
Should you depend on others to be happy?
No one should depend on others for happiness, because happiness in itself is self-regulated, and you are responsible to make it for yourself and dependability is always dangerous because it's hard to give others tasks to make you happy because it's not their responsibility.
Can you be happy but lack peace?
Happiness can be temporary, but peace is something that contributes towards making happiness permanent, all come back to your decisions and how they play role in determining your peace level.
What's the fear of happiness?
Some people live in the future by postponing their happiness to upcoming events, and this process increases fear of happiness because the reason you shift your happiness from the current moment to the future is due to the fact that you are fearful of being happy and this has to be checked hence why you stand a chance you increase your miseries if you don't check those fear's .
Can happiness be managed
Its not about management but its all about permanence, because if you are going to rely on management then you will be working on trying to keep up with happiness, so what matters is to create structures that contribute to ongoing happiness activities, because it takes time to position your happiness flow and allow it to flow effortlessly.
08 September 2020 Title: HealthWhy learning about your health increase self caring?
Health is your asset, so learning how to apply your asset is a skill, that's why once you begin to care about your health, it becomes easy to maintain how you care about what is happening to your health.
- Caring is one of the important factors which helps us to safeguard our general well-being because everyone is responsible for how he or she takes care of his health.
- Learning about what keeps you healthy, increases stability and good management of what should not be done that can affect or destroy your health.
How to evaluate your health activities?
Health can be evaluated using the following guideline:
- Daily activities which consume your energy
- What are you eating
- How do you deal with and handle stress
- Check your social lifestyle
What type of thinking helps to expand health?
As individuals we have two structures of ranking our thinking as positive or negative.
The first approach which contributes to boosting your overall health comes from positive thinking because good health is defined by how positive you are towards what you are doing and how it affects you.
Why eating healthy increase good moods?
Food plays an important role especially when it comes to determining our daily moods, that's why eating healthy is very important for you and your emotions.
Should you have health goals?
Life is health, so the primary activity of life is to fulfill the urge of hunger and this makes us survive. - Health goals are important because your general wellbeing is supported by your health.
09 September 2020 Title: WealthHow to develop your wealth portfolio?
Research is very important, because once you decide to analyze what type of wealth you would like to add to the portfolio of your assets, then it's time to evaluate what type of assets increase wealth for you.
Why wealth increase confidence?
As human beings, we have desire different types of wealth, check the following wealth categories:
- Financial wealth
- Freedom wealth
- Health wealth
- Family wealth
- Career wealth
- Emotional wealth
- Physical wealth
- Spiritual wealth
- Educational wealth
- Network wealth
Confidence has two elements, which are internal and external, so with wealth, you can choose how you want your wealth to reveal your confidence because with your own choices you can determine how you use your confidence.
Wealth advantage ?
Everyone has the advantage of wealth, the only problem is that we have been conditioned to see wealth as something related to money, that's why most individuals struggle to explore other wealth categories they have, it takes great research to analyze how you see wealth and how can you use the advantage of your wealth choice.
Learn to design your wealth activities?
Your daily activities determine your overall wealth activities because wealth has to do with how you use Your time.
Problem of not understanding wealth?∆
To be confused, is to let others determine your life direction, so the problem of not understanding wealth is created by asking wrong questions and to rectify this start seeing wealth as a flow of assets that complete your desires.
- Be careful of seeing wealth as a number, because you might end up wasting your lifetime chasing zeros, you need to pay attention to your core values and find out what categories of wealth matches your life plans.
How to choose a viable career?
Firstly you need to check which type of skills and talents you have as an individual because viability comes from validated research. - Viable careers have the capacity for job continuity and you can plan your career around that industry.
How to check your career progress
As individuals we reflect to progress differently, but you can check the following to double-check the progress of the career you have or wish to have:
- Success rate
- Experts profiles
- Knowledge updates
- Economic impact
- Lifestyle vibes
- Remuneration
Why understanding career opportunities help's
Opportunities can be confusing because not everyone is equipped with the skills to grab opportunities, that's why learning to research which opportunities make sense for you and how can you take advantage of them
.Who should you emulate for a better career
Everyone has his or her role model, so with career decisions, you need to check who can you emulate and why, because take time to evaluate this path, so ask yourself these questions if you want to emulate someone:
- What type of character does this person have?
- How does his or she handle a crisis
- Which part of achievements does this person have which I want for myself too
- Why should I choose this person?
- What area of expertise does this person have?
- Which part of their life should I emulate?
Career crisis you should be aware of
Careers get obsolete, you need to be aware of these career cycles and check the following:
- How long will this career last
- What type of technology will change this career
- What type of skills will make me relevant in this industry
- Should I work in one industry?
- Which industry present secured work opportunities?
11 September 2020 Title: Business
What makes a business work?
The business has different areas which need to be combined before of can become viable, that's why what makes a business work comes from various test pilots and validations. - What will make your business work is the continuity of the opportunity the market offers and the new gaps you will be able to fulfill.
Does personality matter when you start a business?
All personality matters, because each industry has its candidate profile, that's why you should check your personality and match it with the job or business you like, because most regrets come from doing things which don't match your key personality, for example, an introvert cannot do public speaking.
How to check your passion if it's relevant to the business you choose?
Passion is overrated, because our interest changes over the cause of time, you need to check impact not passion alone because that's what will make you relevant in your chosen industry.
Why business is not for everyone?
The reality is that we all specialize in different things, that's why business cannot be for everyone.
Can business offers more freedom than work?
All depends on how you have structured your lifestyle because freedom is different from one person to another. Your decisions about what makes you feel freedom is based on what you value and practice as an individual.
12 September 2020 Title: Relationship
Why do relationships fail?
Communication is broader, each relationship has its area of failure but these are some of the common reasons which influence failure in most relationships:
- Fault finding
- Nagging
- Cheating
- Low desire
- Poor communication
- Wrong goals
- Power balance
What type of communications are essential for spouses?
Let's emphasize that greater communication comes from learning to listen and respond correctly, this is SOE of the key factors which contribute towards making a relationship to be an open communication zone:
- Trust to be heard
- Follow up on the topic
- Shared solutions
- Capability to allow vulnerability to flow
- Forgiveness
- Health talks Career talks
- Emotional talks
- Financial talks
- Religion talks
- Family talks
- Responsibility talks
- Adventure talks
- Sexual talks
- Parenting talks
How to deal with relationship problems?
Firstly you need to understand what are you solving and why because problem-solving skills need to be adopted, to make sure each problem is addressed correctly.
- Dealing with problems requires a great understanding of how to handle crises and deal with emotions.
Why learning about your relationship commitment is important?
Every relationship has its commitment level, that's why paying attention to what type of commitment is involved can help spouses to evaluate what's working and what's not.
Who should make decisions in a relationship?
Decision-making should be shared in some areas, but every relationship has its leadership and this means most decisions can be concluded by the leader.
13 September 2020
Title: Religion
Why humankind is religious?
Life is a discipline of conduct of the religion, we have a history which has played role in conditioning us to be religious people, the question is what type of religion do you have and why? because that's where all the information can be extracted about your relationship with the religion you have to this date.
Where does religion plays role in society?
The society is a combined structure of beliefs, hence why each society complies with a certain religion, e.g Christian society has been normalized, and the role of this religion is used especially during our ceremonies like funerals and weddings, that's where you can see the role of religion within the society because we all abide by certain religious norms.
How do we deal with new religious updates?
Updates are part of the change, and we need to adopt these new updates with caution because what's new can become dangerous if used without any investigation. To deal with the update of our modern religion is to first ask why we need these updates and what type of value will they bring to our religion. Yes, change is key but research has to lead us.
What comes first, religion or culture?
It is not what comes first, but what brings you value the most, because our beliefs can vary and this helps us to choose which component of these two guiding principles comes first and why?
Our choices are made out of value not from what others are saying, so you need to make your own decisions.
Which religious standard still makes sense in our modern society?
Religion still make sense check the following:- Funerals are still complying with the religious route
- Fashion is still guided by religion in certain ceremonies
- Talking with adults in some areas of society is still regarded and positioned by rules
- Marriage is still ruled by religious standards, man is the head, woman a tail.
- Masculinity still rules the society
- Taboos are still regarded as valid
- Prayer is still one principle that is been used in modern society
- You will reap what you planted, this makes sense in all walks of our daily activities.
Why culture is evolving?
Life, in general, is changing, this affects the cultural practices as some of them become obsolete, and with these modern new technologies some impact the structures of our cultures.
- Change is happening every day, that's why as mankind we are evolving and we apply some things which are new to our old cultures, e.g new outfits to practice ceremonies.
Can spouses use their parent's cultures for their relationship?
All relationships are created based on the foundation of culture, but what matters for spouses is to check which viable values and morals can they adopt from their parent's cultures and make their own decisions and practice that culture of their own choice.
Why cultural names are important?
A name is the symbol of history, so the reason why our cultural names matter is because they link us to our family tree, and this plays a role especially when it comes to appeasing our ancestors.
What is cultural privacy?
Culture is based on standards some of them are kept private, e.g surrogacy. The level of privacy differs from one culture to another, but there are some core principles why cultural privacy is important.
• The truth is shared based on maturityWhy is important for young people to learn about their cultures?
We are who we are today because of our history, learning your cultural background is important because without history we are lost and learning this subject helps to guide our new daily lives.
15 September 2020 Title: HealthWhy emotional health is important?
Emotional drives us, and they tell us what's happening within ourselves, emotional health is very important because it regulate your moods and choices during the day.
How to deal with a healthy diet?
Diet is a process, not a destination, learning to master your eating habits requires acceptance and awareness of what are you dealing with inside your body, and why you think diet is viable for you to accomplish that health goal.
Learning to be healthy for yourself?
Health can become a choice if you are aware of it and what to do, because not everyone is familiar with good health guidelines, that's why it's your responsibility to seek information that speaks about the health you want to attain.
Types of key components of health?
Health has different components which play vital roles in our general well beings, take a look at the following:
- Body health
- Spiritual health
- Physical health
- Emotional health
These elements complete us to endure what we value as good or bad health from one person to another
Winning strategies of health
Every student, is coached by the teacher, this means to adopt winning health strategies you should learn from the best teachers, these are those people who practice good health.
- Winning is the day-to-day activity when it comes to designing your health strategies, so pay attention to what you do and see how is your health reacting and what benefits you get.
Why does mental health matter in a relationship?
Stability is power because without taking precautions on your mental health you risk your relationship being destroyed by emotions that can be handled. - Mental health is important because it helps to process, and design great decisions because mental health is all about controlling your capacity to think and eat accurately.
Can stress affects relationship health?
Stress is natural, you need to pay attention to lethal stress and understand the cause so you can seek professional help, as soon as possible, stress can affect different areas of the relationship such as :
- Happiness
- Peace
- Sleep Sexual performance
- Irritation Aggression
- Cheating Lies
- Diseases
- Failure
- Grief
- Competition
Please study these key factors to determine how stress is affecting your relationship.
Which key areas of mental health spouses should be aware of?
Awareness can assist the relationship with mental health to survive major mental breakdown once you apply the following:
How spouses can improve their emotional health?
Learning to think before they talk, because emotional health is all about understanding your emotions and handling them accurately without injuring your partner
Why does food plays a great part in relationship health?Good health is a component of various things such as good food, so to boost your relationship health you need to eat healthily and keep on paying attention to what type of food improves your mental health.
16 September 2020 Health: WealthWho told you to be wealthy?
Family, teachers, pastors, media houses, friends, colleagues, mentors,
associates and books, all have contributed towards this notion of getting wealthy, but the center of the matter is how credible was the person who pass that information of wealth to you and what results have you attained from that.
-As human beings, we choose what wealth means to us and we can even compare the meaning by referencing others who play an influence on our life progress.
- The decision to know or to be wealthy comes from the circle of community you associate with and this can give you answers either you or others who told you to be wealthy.
What are the boundaries of wealth?
Everything we do has limitations, so learning about wealth boundaries is to firstly understand your assets portfolio and what type of protection is there because our work yields us results which we either set boundaries of our safety such as investments or something else.
These are some of the wealth boundaries:
- Security
- Continuity
- Investment
- Accessibility
- Impact
Is the pursuit of wealth relevant?
The pursuit of growth is relevant not for wealth, because most people categorize wealth as having more money, this is one component of wealth, so the path of your overall wealth should support other key areas such as:
- Health wealth
- Emotional wealth
- Physical wealth
- Philanthropic wealth
- Lifestyle wealth
- Knowledge wealth
- Spiritual wealth
- Love wealth
How to time your wealth progress?
Time is a discipline of measurement, so your progress cannot be reviewed without using time.
- Learning to time your wealth requires an understanding of what exactly are reviewing and why, because over some time all we are wealthy on other factors of our lives, the problem is that we don't take time to evaluate the gaps that's why fulfillment is not for everyone but is available.
Can you leave a happy life without wealth?
Firstly there's is a life you choose and the life you want others to see you living, so the happy life is a choice, so like wealth, to further elaborate on this you need to understand that happiness on its own is wealth, so no need to put limitations on this. You have to choose the structure of your life and decide what's working for you.
17 Thursday 2020 September Title: Career.What is a wrong career?
What is wrong doesn't align with your core values, so with wrong careers they are red flags which indicate if what you have chosen is wrong, check the following:
- Feeling of wasting time on what you are doing
- Sadness after payment
- Lack of growth
- Negative mindset
- Family pressure to do what they choose for you
- No creativity
- No plan to expand your expertise.
All mankind is driven by purpose, so what matters is the impact within that career because that's what will keep your purpose relevant to the industry of your choice.
Is talent relevant to your career?
Talent is a gate opener to your career, you need relevant skills to keep your career path.
Career decisions that matter?
Decisions matters, because wrong career advice cost many people to lose faith in their lifetime dreams and goals, these are some of the key questions to review your career decisions:
- Why I am choosing this career
- How will I know if this career is right for me
- Which opportunities come with this career?
- What skills are needed for this career
- Where is the evidence of success from this career?
Questions to review your career?
Questioning what your career is all about bits of help, please check the following:
- What have I obtained since I venture into this career?
- How do I measure my progress
- Which gaps did I fulfill that contributed to my career
- Which achievement have I acquired
- Why do I remain in this career?
Is it viable to start a business with friends?
Firstly is not about friends, but what type of skills and commitment they devote to the enterprise because is not viable to bring people who lack skills and expect the business to be viable, it starts with skills and core vision, and clear execution.
What to look for when choosing a business partner?
We choose people based on relationships, trust, and skills, so to choose a business partner requires due diligence and a clear picture of what is required from that particular business partner, this is some of the basic keys you can look at when choosing your business partner:
- Personality
- Experience
- Skills
- Empathy
- Recommendations
- Confidence
- Creativity
- Health
- Vision
- Goals
- Accountability
- Financial history
Does instinct plays the role of an entrepreneur?
Mankind is guided by instincts, as an entrepreneur, you have to choose which model of truth speaks to you because some people don't trust their instincts, so learning to interrogate facts goes a long way to building your business.
Why specializing makes the business viable?
Speciality is power, and choosing where to specialize helps to build a solid business
Does hardworking still relevant when starting your business?
Hardworking is relevant depending on which type of business you are starting because efforts are only judged by results, so you need to pay attention to what's working and what not to reduce working on wrong projects, and further room for failure should be allowed. What is hard can be viable if you use viable smart skills to get results.
19 September 2020 Title : Relationship
Should we use our parent's rules in our relationships with our spouses?
Parent contributes towards teaching us about how to handle our relationships, the problem is that our parent's relationships are not the same as ours, that's why some rules are not viable, and as partners, you need to agree on which parent's rules are relevant to your relationship and why, because rules can destroy and destruct the relationship.
Is it relevant to include a third person in your relationship when facing a crisis?
All relationships have mediators, but the problem is who is entitled to mediate the situation and why because some relationship problems require an outside eye to judge and provide options to draw new solutions. The agreement should come from both spouses if the problem is beyond their comprehension and who can help with clarity.
Can the truth make the relationship last?
Always the truth makes all the relationship to last, no one loves to be told lies, so the great relationships use the truth as the pillar of the bond.
What to do if your parents don't like your partner?
Liking someone is just basic, people have their reasons why they don't like someone, so what matters as a partner is to ask yourself how do you feel about your partner who is not liked by your parents? - The answer will direct you towards what you should do and rank which step you can take.
How to know if the family envies your relationship?
Families can show you these signs if they envy your relationship:
- Progress judgment
- Inability to congratulate you
- Ask for too much help
- Afraid to say sorry
- Always link your past struggles as jokes
- Gossip about you
- Waste your household food
- Borrow things and never return them
Love is infinite, but the results can be measured, so this differs from one relationship to another.
Why the heart is given the task to love?
The heart has been named as the engine of the body that's why more responsibility is tasked to it, especially love.
What is the importance of I love you in a relationship?
Words are important, so the name I love you has weight especially if used correctly and maintain with viable actions. - I love you is a connector so this makes these word more important to individuals because we relate to love in different ways.
How to spot great love?
Actions speak for themselves, you as an individual need to list which key factors are your definition of a great love such as :
- Respect
- Honesty
- Goals
- Culture
- Motivation
- Support
- Spirituality
- Health
- Skill's
- Communication
Does love heals?
Love heals us because hate injures us.
23 September 2020 Title: Wealth & SuccessWhy do we strive for success?
Success is the foundation of our desires, so we strive to fulfill our core desires to complete the success we strive for.
- Success by itself is working either smart or hard depending on your area of work.
How to spot your success?
Progress can point out which areas of improvement you attain from your success.
- To spot your success you need to measure your results and validate which ones contribute to your success.
What is the difference between success and wealth?
Success is an indicator of what you have accomplished, wealth is your collection of the assets you have collected.
Which success has been popular?
Get rich as soon as possible, this notion has been shared and this is not for everyone to partake, because this influence more pressure especially for young people, and setting impossible goals can even worsen the situation, so what's being popular has to be checked before you can adopt it.
Can success increase confidence?
Confidence is increased by your thoughts not your success, but success can add characteristics that can help to position your confidence.
24 September 2020 Title: Career & lifestyleWhy does lifestyle matter when choosing your career?
Everyone has his or her own planned or unplanned lifestyle, so once you choose a particular career they are some key behaviors you will adopt whether you are aware or not, e.g industry language, so taking precautions is mandatory when you want to position your career towards a great lifestyle of your choice.
How to check the career lifestyle hints?
Every career has its hints, you need to check people who are already in that specific industry of your choice and start looking at what you admire and what not and then set take decisions about what you want out of that industry.
Should you adopt a new lifestyle once you venture into a new career?
It is all based on your own choices, some people can choose change while others won't, what matters is why that lifestyle is important to you.
What type of career lifestyle barriers you can face?
Every industry has its push factors which can stand out as barriers, such as clothing patterns, language specialty, cultural behavior, and standards, this can impact your overall career lifestyle, because if a change is forced you are either going to adopt it or get injured especially emotional. Be aware of these barriers when choosing your career.
How to link your career to your lifestyle?
The career of your choice should not have some components which complete your lifestyle, e.g if you like to contribute towards change in your community, choose a career that gives back to that need, then you will have to link your career path with the lifestyle of your choice.
25 September 2020 Title: Business & StartupWhat is a startup business?
Group of people come together to test a concept using the research.
How can you win the startup traps?
All startups have their traps such as:- market entry barriers
- funding problems
- regulatory issues
- non-customer interactions
- wrong teams
- solving wrong problems
Who should be hired when beginning your startup business?
Learning to hire is like picking your clothes, so you should find the right match, before you can move any further please check the following:
- Which position can this person specialize on?
- Why should this person join this startup?
- What impact can this person deliver?
- Which strengths or weaknesses do we recommend?
- Does this person fit the culture of this startup?
Choose based on facts not from liking someone because wrong hiring is more dangerous.
Why skills matters when starting a business?
Every part of the business requires skill sets, so to understand why picking up the right skills matters check what you propose to deliver on the market, and ask yourself who is capable of fulfilling this?
With the right skills, you can conquer startup traps because no one loves to build a house without a foundation, so skills are those components that make the startup either a success or failure all depends on how the team executes the mission and task's.
Why failure is part of business journey?
Failure is the opposite of success, so whatever you do always remember that failure will always visit you and this means failure should be treated as a learning curve so you can better your course and keep on moving ahead.
26 September 2020 Title: Relationship & loveWhat comes first love or trust?
Trust comes first because to be in any relationship with your partner trust has to be the opening key, without trust love cannot exist in any relationship, so learning to review trust can help to check the possibility of the relationship you want to start
Is love a decision?
Love can become a determining factor in our own decisions, especially if we want to explore what makes us love a person, so decisions always either make us to love endlessly or to avoid love at all.
Which type of love is necessary for any relationship?
Honest love is power because without honesty and open communication a relationship can be doomed, so choose wisely what type of love is important and converse with your partner about that and rank which area is viable for your bond.
Why wrong partners are dangerous?
The word wrong is referred to something which is not good, so never be ashamed to walk away from any wrong relationship for the sake of your health and peace, because wrong relationships can destroy our lives.
How to let go of hurt?
The first thing about hurt is that it can be confusing, so to spot how can you deal with this problem you should understand what made this hurt and how can you benefit from it, and what will happen if you avoid solving it.
Letting go is the final stage if you understand the process of checking the components of hurt, don't rush into letting go if you don't understand what's going on with the hurt you are facing.
Can culture reveal our core history?
Yes culture can show us our previous existence, and it is very important to find out about your culture to match your current history with the old one.
Why culture can lead to suffering?
Everything that is used incorrectly always leads to suffering especially if used repeatedly, so wrong cultural standards can harm us and others because practicing certain things without questioning and understanding the relevance of them, this can make culture as though is oppressing people whenever people are the ones who use culture not culture using them, so suffering is self-made.
What can you do if you and your spouse have conflicting cultures?
Conflicts have foundations, so once spouses cannot arrive at a common agreement on how to champion their conflicting cultures, this can bring turmoil and misery within the relationship, so the best way is to choose a partner with common cultural common practices to reduce conflicts about whose culture is viable compared to another, these agreements should be discussed before spouses decide to get married or commit to each other.
Should spouses use cultural old rules to run their relationship?
New relationship requires new rules, but what matters about older cultural rules is that even to this date they still dominate our day-to-day activities, so spouses should check which old rules are essential to their relationship, and pick what's best for them.
Can spouses create their own culture?
Creation is for everyone, but the adoption of it is not for everyone, so because culture is evolving you can tweak some key features of the culture, but creating your own culture can conflict with your historical ancestors spiritual connection, so when you create start by asking questions like:
-what are you trying to design and why?
Because sometimes people who do certain things must be ready to face the worse-case scenarios of their actions.
What comes first happiness or respect?
Everyone has his or her priorities when it comes to choosing what core values are key, but one of the main important aspects is to be happy before you can start evaluating the respect you want from yourself and others.
Why respect is important when it comes to oneself?
Respect is a discipline of accountability, so taking measures to respect yourself is very important, because you can increase your ability to refuse what you don't want and keep on focusing on what is aligning with your goals and plans.
RespectWhen you respect yourself others can see that and they will treat you with respect and honor.
How to measure your self-respect?
Measuring your self-respect comes to the following factors:
- Ability to say NO without hesitation or apology
- Good habits which support your goals
- Focusing on self-improvement
- Learning to accept what's beyond your control
- Having a good relationship with oneself
It takes great effort to measure what you value as respect towards you, so measurement is part of evaluating the results.
Can happiness increase your respect?
Happiness is the support structure of our core being, so self-respect always increases once you have a happy life, because happy people always respect others and themselves. After all, peace and hope drive their core beliefs and boundaries.
Who is responsible to teach humankind self-respect?
History is the only path that can point out which areas of respect are viable because our moral values and standards come from the previous generation who taught us about respect. Most children are equipped with information about respect, but the question is how relevant is this information and why? because self-respect is an ongoing process and it requires attention hence why most people lost hope, and respect can decline this is challenging but still struggle to point out what type of respect should an individual acquire and from who? Self-respect today can be learned from people who we admire and what they have achieved.
29 September 2020 Title: Health & PeaceWhat is peace?
Peace is awareness of reality
How to check if you have a peaceful life?
Peaceful life is a combination of factors that complete your desires, aspirations, plans, and goals, for all this you can check which area of your life yields you more harmony, especially when o comes to doing things that align with your core values and leads you to impact.
Checking is not an issue because it can be done within seconds, but what matters is how you discover or develop a peaceful life, you can start by using the following questions:
- What is peace for me
- Where can I get peaceful results
- What area of my lifestyle requires peace and why
- How can I measure my peace physical and internally
- Why should I become peaceful?
What makes peace to be unavailable to many people?
As mankind we sometimes overthink and subscribe to this notion that peace comes once you have money or certain material possessions, that's why many people see peace as unavailable to them because of these classifications which block us to see the bigger picture of our lives.
Can good health increase peace?
Good health in general increases harmony within our lives, because peace is awareness and you need good health to exercise this muscle.
Why harmony only functions once we are at peace?
Harmony is a discipline of life because you need to pay attention, especially inside your mindset. After all, all areas of your life come back to what you can think and act accurately because health and peace all are common, they will exist once you start reviewing your life and initiate improvements.
30 September 2020 Title: Wealth & Success
Why success is an advantage?
Success leads to great possibilities which can deliver change from one individual to another, so the advantage of success is based on options that you can exercise especially when it comes to what you can afford and what not.
How to create valuable success in life?
Value is what brings impact, so creating valuable successful life comes back to your goals and the results you have acquired and how you use them to add value to what you have achieved, learning to create a valuable successful life should be designed from the following components:
- Change
- Habits
- Happiness
- Security
- Peace
- Health Finance
- Relationships
- Goals and plans
- Education, knowledge, and mastery
- Lifestyle reviews
These are some of the basic keys to which one can pay attention when starting to create a valuable successful life.
Why success can attract new opportunities?
Success is a magnet, so it takes courage to understand that one success can lead to other opportunities, because growth comes from winning trials and minimizing failures. Once you can master how to double-check your success and use what you can improve new opportunities will benefit your life.
Elements of success to check?
Success is an open game from one person to another, so checking which elements work takes greater detail of research to understand what are you valuing as success, you can check the following:
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- New opportunities -
- Creativity -
- Impact
- - Recognition -
- Resource availability
Should you work hard for success?
Hardworking is important, this decision of hardworking is an individual choice based on the industry one functions on because today simplicity is been adopted, so this influence more smart work to add weight over the hardworking
.Is private lifestyle important?
Importance of what is public and private is an individual decision, so what matters is what type of lifestyle you have chosen and which category falls into.
Can technology destroy traditional careers offered?
Technology will only destroy traditional careers if people fail to adopt new skills which are required in this modern technological world.
Does a new lifestyle requires new friends?
New doesn't mean you should change for your friends, but it requires maturity to understand how should you apply it within your friendships
Should your life be based on your career aspirations?
Life can be based on whatever you choose, what matters is your happiness and satisfaction, so choose wisely.
How to choose the best lifestyle?
Best lifestyles have the following factors if you want to choose:
- Growth
- Stability
- Challenges
- Impact
- Integrity
- Good friendships
- Great health
- Sound decision making
- Positive and negative emotion adjustments
- Capacity to say NO 03 October 2020 Title: Relationship & Family
- Lost of interest
- Unsolved reoccurring problems
- Constant misunderstanding
- Secret affairs
- Blame
- Unbalanced responsibilities
- Low trust
- Poor sexual performance
- Bad health
- Financial problems
- Wrong advice from third parties
- Separated family goals
- Cultural conflicts
- Emotional abuse
- Lies
- Cheating
- PoorGambling
- Poor health
- Poor financial management
- Giving up on the family goals
- Wrong advice
- Emotional abuse ( words)
- Lack of attention to details
- Unforgivingness
- Pride to say sorry
- Comparison with other relationships
- Bad communication skills
- Solving wrong problems
- Dwelling on the past
- Blaming each other
- Attention to smartphones ignoring each other
- Lack of love
- Empty promises
- Silence over important matters
- Lack of strategic improvement plans
- Drugs & alcohol abuse
- Unplanned children
- Lack support for each other's personal goals
- fear
- anger
- pain
- failure
- lost of hope
- revenge
- jealous
- thoughts
- associates
- shame
- fear
- anger
- pain
- failure
- lost of hope
- revenge
- jealous
- thoughts
- associates
- shame
- Recurring failures
- Family financial issues
- Lack of employment
- Wrong career path
- Inability to try other things or jobs
- Lack of experience
- Irrelevant skills
- Why do they want to choose for me?
- How experienced are they in making this suggestion?
- Which key area of success can I check from what this career brings
- Is this career aligning with my core purpose?
- What type of decisions should I make or delay before taking this path
- Which goal's should be restored?
- How are you going to take action
- Why these goals are important
- What can be changed
- When can you revisit them again
- Family dilemmas
- Unforgiving mindset
- Wrong goals
- Poor financial management
- Cheating
- Poor communication
- Poor health and bad habits
- Emotional abuse
- Honesty
- Open communication
- shared responsibilities
- Financial management
- Similar goals
- Good habits
- Support each other
- Good problem-solving skills
- Lies
- unnecessary competition
- jealousy
- envy
- spending more than you earn
- impatience
- blames
- doubts
- negative mindset
- Unforgiving mindset
- shame
- fears
- no goals
- How can I challenge this doubt?
- Why faith is important to this plan?
- Who has succeeded using this type of faith??
- What type of results do I seek out of this faith?
- When can I test my faith and where?
- I don't have time to be silent
- being busy with wrong goal's
- postponing important plans
- spending time on social media without any purpose
- chasing money as freedom key
- poor health
- wishing without taking any action
- Jealous of others who excel more than you
- Neglecting to appreciate what you have
- poor financial management
- subscribing to a wrong lifestyle
- family recurring bills
- negative spouses
- no support
- wrong advice
- being stubborn to change
- what new change do I have in my life and how does it adds peace to me?
- who can be responsible for breaking my peace, is it me or others, and why?
- when did I recognize that my peace is declining and what did I notice?
- where can my peace comes from and how should I retain it?
- how far I am willing to sacrifice to make sure my peace is restored accurately?
- what is my priority when it comes to my peace
- lost of confidence
- bankruptcy
- divorce
- depression
- trust issues with key stakeholders jail
- Success
- Failure's
- Growth
- Finance
- Expertise
- Lifestyle
- Health
- Retirement plans
- Trust
- Open communication
- Ability to address problems
- Listening techniques
- Forgiveness
- Financial management
- this is what our culture says and it has to be done
- man is entitled to provide
- women should submit to their husbands
- only man lead the way
- man should earn more
- Daily affirmations
- Prayer
- Meditation
- Helping others
- Reviewing what is important to you
- Reducing distractions
- Accepting what's beyond your control
- Thinking before you talk
- Emotional regulation management
- Attention to detail
- Understanding your failures and keep on trying.
- Lifestyle changes
- Emotional health
- Physical health
- Psychological health
- Spiritual health
- Eating habits
- Health
- Emotional
- Psychological
- Spiritual l
- Physical
- Where is my peace ?
- What is peace for me?
- When did find out you don't have peace?
- Why peace is important to me?
- How can I be peaceful?
Why makes the relationship to be hard?
Relationship by nature are simple to be developed, but hard to maintain, so what makes matters worse is when spouses lose commitment to the relationship and fail to rectify this problem because this can introduce more problems and can lead to breaking up the relationship, so learning to understand and discuss what is hard can reveal key issues which can help the relationship to grow.
These are the basic factors that can play a part to make the relationship harder:
It takes courage to review these basic elements and take drastic actions to fix your relationship.
How to improve your relationship after a conflict?
Learning to let go is one of the fundamental principles that spouses should adopt once the conflict has been resolved because improvement means the adoption of new ways of doing things and acting in a certain way.
What to do if the relationship is not working?
All relationships somehow can reach a stage where things are not working as planned, but you need to understand that what matters is those vows, goals, plans, and dreams you as partners have, because if something is not working it means you need to evaluate what is it and what caused it?
The problem with many relationships is that people generalize when they want to fix the problem that's why a relationship ends up seems as things are not working very well whenever is the problem of clarity and sound decisions that should be adopted and executed.
Be careful about generalizing your relationship problems.
Should previous problems be discussed always?
The current moment calls for new thinking and greater actions, so previous problems are like dustbins, you should be careful what is it that you want to bring to your attention, because if a relationship has no mechanism of dealing with previous problems then, then past will always be discussed and prioritized.
Previous problems are to be discussed as an individual choice and it depends on what type of problem is brought into the book because hey some problems cannot be fixed only letting them go can help the relationship to see a brighter future
What damage the relationship?
Damage comes with different forms of weapons which can either destroy the relationship instantly or slowly, but these are some of the key factors which can damage the relationship:
Why does culture builds us?
We are part of different cultural foundations, so culture is rooted within our biology of survival, this builds our beliefs and shapes our thoughts, so culture plays an important role in building us.
How to set good cultural practices in your relationship?
Cultural practices, especially ritual activities, should be based on what's relevant to the spouses not what their families say, because selecting working cultural standards requires a great deal of understanding of what is adopted and why?
Is it important to keep naming our children with cultural names?
This is a self-choice from one person to another, but what should remain key is to teach our children about our cultures so they don't get lost with details when it comes to who they are and where they come from period!
Is respect a culture?
Respect is masked as a cultural standard, but in general, respect is a requirement of living well with others, because as mankind we honor respect for different things, so coining respect as a culture can be challenging.
How to keep your culture evolving?
Learning to adopt change is key, but keeping change rolling is hard, so you need to find balance on what's evolving and what should remain stagnant, because new changes if employed incorrectly can lead to greater damage within our cultures, that's they are something's still need to remain private to keep the culture active.
06 October 2020 Title: Happiness & LoveWhy do we doubt our happiness?
Doubts eminent from different elements such as :
These elements play an important role to increase our doubts to be happy, so it is up to you especially if you want to review why your happiness is declining.
Can happiness extend love?
Happiness is processing, so love is the journey These two all have similar agendas, so being happy in the relationship can increase love awareness and it can even boost trust, hope, and progress.
How to be happy?
Learning to be happy is simple, you should start to be grateful for the day you still have because this can increase your confidence and enthusiasm to look into the future with a positive mindset. Being happy requires you to be aware of your daily activities which can contribute to decreasing your happiness bar.
Can love become a weapon of oppression?
Love is not oppression, but if used wrongly it can be balmed as something which has added oppression, but the truth of the matter is that we as mankind develop problems then we expect love to fix them, so we need to pay attention what we burden love with.
Does the heart understand love?
Our language understands love, not the heart, because the heart to know love it should be spoiled with words that come from the brain, so the issue here is that can the brain understand love? Yes, the brain is the ignition of love but the heart is the house containing that love, so check your mindset before you give your heart that responds to love.
05 October 2020 Title: Happiness & LoveWhy do we doubt our happiness?
Doubts eminent from different elements such as :
These elements play an important role to increase our doubts to be happy, so it is up to you especially if you want to review why your happiness is declining.
Can happiness extend love?
Happiness is processing, so love is the journey These two all have similar agendas, so being happy in the relationship can increase love awareness and it can even boost trust, hope, and progress.
How to be happy?
Learning to be happy is simple, you should start to be grateful for the day you still have because this can increase your confidence and enthusiasm to look into the future with a positive mindset.
- Being happy requires you to be aware of your daily activities which can contribute to decreasing your happiness bar.
Can love become a weapon of oppression?
Love is not oppression, but if used wrongly it can be balmed as something which has added oppression, but the truth of the matter is that we as mankind develop problems then we expect love to fix them, so we need to pay attention what we burden love with.
Does the heart understand love?
Our language understands love, not the heart, because the heart to know love it should be spoiled with words that come from the brain, so the issue here is that can the brain understand love?
Yes the brain is the ignition of love but the heart is the house containing that love, so check your mindset before you give your heart that responds to love
07 October 2020 Title: Wealth & success
Why positive mindset matters when you are creating your success?
self-motivation plays an important role to shape our beliefs, because life is a scope of possibilities, so learning to understand how your mindset function can help you to create great success.
A positive mindset is a habit because not everyone can see good things happening to their lives, so take care of your thoughts then success is a sure way for you.
How to add your wealth?
Wealth is the combination of assets, so adding units of assets requires you to understand which area of wealth you seek and what the essential activities or plans do add to your wealth once you have acquired those results.
What comes first wealth or success?
Wealth comes first because all comes back to your mental campus because if you see wealth as an internal component firstly, it is much easier to determine your external success by taking actions, the first wealth is happiness, then freedom so you can decide what matters to you and choose what should be the priority.
Why wealth should be studied every day?
Wealth is a subject of awareness, so you should be aware of how your assets are yielding you the results you have planned, because, wealth requires attention that's why you have to track and learn what's happening within your units of assets so you can see what needs to be attended daily and what no
t.Can your success determine your wealth?
Success by itself is determining factor, this depends on how your wealth assets are structured, you can check how the results you get from your success add wealth within your units of assets plans.
08 October 2020 Title : Career & lifestyleWhy career development is key to success?
Development means keeping on improving your skills, so making sure you keep your career into a diagnostic approach can help you remain relevant in your chosen industry.
Why careers fail?
Failure comes from different avenues, this is some of the basic factors which
can destroy your career path:
As an individual, you should understand these factors and how they can destroy your career path, and learn from others who have walked the journey before you.
How your lifestyle can influence your career choice?
Lifestyles are key determining elements of our careers especially if you have chosen something aligning with your core purpose, influence will come from what you do daily and this can tell you about the career choice you make whether is viable or not, especially concerning your lifestyle
Should family or friends choose a career for you?
This question has to be addressed accurately because families and friends can choose for you just because they see something you don't see, but what is important is to make your own decisions because it is your life and you are the ones who will be into that career, so this questions can help you to check whether what people proposed to you is key or not :
How to restore your career goals?
Learning to restore is a challenge because you need to understand what is it that requires adjustments and why, because most career goals fail because people neglect to prioritize career development and they work on wrong goals which cannot be rescued at any given time.
Please do the following to restore your career goals:
Why most love relationships fail?
Lack of intimacy is one of the contributing elements because once spouses start to avoid each other there's a problem, these are some of the major failures that can destroy the relationship:
What contributes to make a relationship succeed?
Success is a process, what can contribute to this is joint commitment, which has these elements:
How to listen to each other as spouses?
Listening is not just a skill, but a habit, because miscommunication destroys many relationships, to practice listening to each other requires discipline to think before you can talk and apply patience when another partner is talking because communication is based on what has to be said and how is being received because no finds it attractive to be ignored once he or she is speaking, so spouses should prioritize their speaking tactics so listening will flow smoothly.
Top love relationship traps?
Traps are everywhere, check the following:Why forgiveness makes the relationship to be stronger?
Forgiveness is power because it brings new beginnings if all spouses accept it and apply it, being responsible is to understand that all people make mistakes and forgiveness is your closest asset to living a better life.
11 October 2020 Title: Religion & Culture What is faith?
Faith is a collection of beliefs that you can use to unlock your possibilities.
How to test your faith? Testing of your faith requires you to first understand which area of faith you need to test and why, so try the following:Testing is a process, so you need to pay attention to details so you don't get confused once your results start to unfold.
Why struggles can unlock your faith?
Struggles can open gates of our thinking, all it depends on how you see the struggles you are facing and what possibilities you see from them because the problem with many people is that they are more negative towards their life struggles, that's why it is hard for them to see something good about those struggles because faith is the generator of possibilities so you need to be positive to unlock new solutions within your life.
Which type of thinking boosts your faith?
Thinking in a certain way can help you to channel your positive thinking capabilities, so to boost your faith you need to be aware that new change requires new eyes of possibilities, so positive thinking is the only rock you can use to boost your faith and learn about your mental process.
Why faith is the skill?
Skills are everywhere, but the application of them is rare, so faith execution is a skill because is all within your actions to decide whether you act with faith or fear, so that's why channelling your mindset is controlled by you.
The skill to choose how you apply your faith within your plans, aspirations, and goals all is based on your decisions, that's why your skills on your mental control matters, if you want to see how skillful you are to apply your faith, just double check your faith application because the challenge you will face, is that negative voice inside you, so to overcome it is a skill and faith is your support center to outwit those discouraging thoughts.Learn to use your faith you will see more possibilities for your life and keep on acting.
12 October 2020 Title: Happiness & Freedom
Why does mankind struggle to attain freedom?
Freedom has been set as a goal's that's why most people struggle to attain it because not everyone is capable of making the goal come into practicality, the struggle for freedom differs from one person to another but you can check the following to observe if your freedom is a struggle or not:
Why happiness is always a priority?
Life is meant to be good, we as humankind are the ones who create all these miseries and then blame life, your happiness is a priority because it regulates your mental health and also physical appearance, so you need to prioritize what's important to you and check which activities during your day makes you feel happy and keep on doing those things which makes you happy.
Your laughter is the priority, always make sure your inner peace comes first then a good life is a guarantee for you.
How to be happy?
We are happy, the only stumbling block we are facing is how can we keep ourselves happy every day, so this comes back to what are you doing during your day, because to be happy is a choice and you have that self obligation to study yourself and decide what makes you happy because as mankind we have different things that make us happy, but the key component here is to remain aware that happiness is in the current moment, so never try to postpone it just make it your day to day main priority.
What can you do if your inner peace
When your peace starts to decrease you need to pause and reflect because the problem with many individuals is that they don't understand what is peace to them that's why when it starts to go away it goes they cannot track it, peace is like money if you don't know how much you have you are running into the risk of losing it, so check the following to review your declining peace:
Why does money adds freedom?
It is not money that adds freedom, but what it can buy you, so we should double-check what we want out of money and plan what type of freedom it brings along.
13 October 2020 Title: Health & habits
Why do good habits keep us healthy?
Health on its own is the component of good habits because we become healthier when our habits match our day-to-day eating habits, so good habits are the key factors in determining your health.
What is a good habit?
A good habit is what we refer to as support of all good thoughts which comes together to make your life easier and more productive, starting from physical, emotional, psychological, spiritual, and lifestyle, good habits are what we do every day, so check your life.
How to choose habits?
Choosing a good habit is simple, you need to check which area of your life are you struggling with bad habits, and decide.
Why good life is all about great habits?
Good is designed from what you eat, think, do and contribute, because the definition of your good life comes back to your decisions and actions
Why learning your habits is important?
Learning about your habits is an eye-opener because you will understand what's going on within your life.
14 October 2020 Title: Wealth & power
Why power is defined as wealth, especially in finance?
Financial power has been coined as the symbol of power for many centuries, so it takes wealth to make power viable in financial management.
How to become powerful by using wealth?
Power builds, power destroy, it all depends on which type of powers you seek, because wealth on its own it's power, so what matters is how can you use it to your advantage and live the best life.
To be powerful you need to understand your strength and weaknesses and start looking at gaps in which you wish you exercise your powers, it all begins with what you want and how can you get it, and how?
Why power is confusing if you are not disciplined?
Power is based on solid strength, so if you miss practicing patience you will always lose your Powers because what confuses people is the capacity to handle what you have acquired professionally and keep on adding chunks of powers within your wealth reserves.
Where can you use your wealth to gain power?
The first component to start using your Powers is within yourself, learning to use your mindset and control your emotions, because wealth is what you see as an asset to you. Double-check your plans, actions, goals and what results do you get, then verify where your can gain your wealth, and further you can partner with others who are wealthy to expend your asset portfolio or knowledge.
What danger's come with misused powers?
Power if misused, leads to different types of dangers like this;You should double-check the risks which come along with the powers you are seeking because it's all on you and what you do, risk mitigation is sometimes avoided, so to safeguard your life and your career always have risk adjacent strategies.
15 October 2020 Title: Career & LifestyleHow to choose a modern viable career?
As you navigate towards reviewing your career choices, you should use these criteria when you want to pick a viable career:
How technology is destroying old careers?
It, is not technology alone that is destroying old careers, but even our inability to accept that life is changing and we should adopt new beginnings, so to be aware of what's being destroyed in an old career check the following:
- Speed of doing things
- machine doing more jobs than human beings
- Fewer costs to use new applications
- Social media connections
- Free online learning
Why do new skills protect your next career moves?
Skills are securities, all you should be aware of is what type of skill you have and which industries require that skill for the long term.
Should individuals be educated on new technologies to power their careers?
Yes, continuous updating of your career can safeguard your life because you will always have the ability to position yourself within different industries and you can have options to choose which type of work is more viable for you because your skills are in demand.
What do if you choose the wrong career?
All you can do is research a viable new career and start venturing into it.
17 October 2020 RelationshipsWhat are the pillars of a successful relationship?
This has to be said, the foundation of love is a sample to identify, and a bit hard to maintain in some circumstances, so these are the basic pillars of a successful relationship:
Why does cheating reduce love?
Cheating on its own is a destroyer weapon, so love cannot exist once you start cheating on your partner, because you have violated the right of trust and honesty. After all, it takes time to identify if your love is decreasing and why, because this can show up once the damage is at stake, so we advise our readers to avoid cheating.
Why does blame destroy the growth of a relationship?
Blame is a sharp blade that can tier the relationship into pieces, so you should be aware that you cannot live in a harmonious relationship if blame is ruling your bond.
How to pay attention to your partner?
Firstly you should exercise your appreciation, gratitude, affirmation, support, and attention, learning to set time to review what's important in your relationship can help you to avoid losing attention to important details which makes the relationship function properly.
How determine if you are in the right relationship?
In life we don't know who's right for us until we start to trust our gut feelings and follow them, because that's the only innate power which can help to give us clues, but further you should check the type of the person, especially his or her behaviors, habits, and personality, but this doesn't constitute that the person is right, because characters can change, so only your heart can answer who is right and why, because the only judge of who should be the right partner is all based on how your partner holds the same views, so this is not a simple answer to get on one day, it can take time to find out what's right and sometimes we don't want people to be right, but to remain relevant in the path of love because the engine of the relationship is the endless love and trust to keep on learning.
18 October 2020 Religion & CultureWhy we are cultural?
We are cultural because we have been conditioned, as young kids we are taught to follow cultural norms, so this ends ups making us follow the culture of our parents, teachers, or guardians.
Which aspect of culture can be addictive?
Habits are the foundation of making us addictive, it all depends on which aspect of your culture is practicing to make sure you are into the addictive circle like the following:
Why do we fail to question our cultures?
Questions are tough to be asked because we might be avoidant to question our cultures. Most we live under this trap of doing things we don't like, just because we are covered by the tribe of our cultures.
It's not sample to question culture, because not every adult is capable to be open about their culture and those limitations attached to culture, so many aspects are treated as secret, so you need to exercise caution if you want to have legit answers and start looking for answers from adults who are open to learning and have the ability to point out the biases of the culture.
What's the best time to study your culture?
The best time is now because we sometimes postpone studying our cultures because we don't understand them, so you should question where is your culture coming from, and what benefits it provides.
Why we are identified as cultural people?
It's a title which we are born with because all the daily activities we perform are the definition of our cultures.
19 October 2020 Happiness & successWhy money adds happiness?
Money is a tool, so what matters is how you use it because happiness is twofold, internal and external happiness, so you should be aware that your happiness comes from what you value, money will add material possession only, so keep yourself aware about what's important to you.
How to create your happiness
Creation is a symbol of power, so you have the responsibility to design your happiness, by checking what makes you happy and how should you maintain the happiness momentum.
Can success lead to the good life?
Success leads to good or bad outcomes, you should pay attention to these details because most people are they are obsessed with the success of others, they ignore their progress, that's why we recommend you to define what success means to you, then you can add inputs on how your success can add your happiness and lead you to a good life.
Who is responsible for making you happy?
Only nature is responsible to make us aware of our actions, so happiness is a flower it all depends on how you nourish it on daily basis, you can use the following components to own your happiness because you are responsible for your happiness:
As you start to be aware of your power to choose your happiness, please remember happiness is not a goal, but a journey, so be careful about what you think makes you happy for temporary moments, because it takes good habits to maintain greater life and happiness.
Why emotional regulations can keep your happiness?
Emotions are the buttons of our awareness, so being able to control your emotions can help you to reduce unnecessary stress and give you the power to retain your focus on any given circumstances trying to confuse you because the reality of life comes to what we can handle mentally, and emotional, hence why failure to exercise this power can lead you to be into the trap of emotional abuse and depression.
20 October 2020 Health & habits
What is the importance of healthy habits?
Healthy habit makes us feel good, so having the ability to position your life around healthy habits can increase your lifespan.
Why bad habits are challenging?
Bad habits are burdens because you cannot focus and you are leaving in a rut, so the challenge is to understand how can you remove them because not everyone is ready to change his or her habits..
How to build good habits?
Habits are built from your own choices, reasons, and actions, so the building is simple what is necessary is to fix your thinking, especially to adapt to new routines of doing things, because most people try to jump the steps of building without understanding the foundation which is the mindset.
Why do we avoid good habits?
We avoid because we feel safe, shame, fear, and doubts, because new change requires sacrifices, so either you avoid or you start doing what is right for you.
Why consistency can help to develop new routines for healthy habits?
Consistency is a driving force that determines our intentions, and actions, because to adopt new good habits, you should pay attention to these areas:
These are basic steps, so check your day from what you are doing and examine which activities influence most of your bad or good habits, then start working on one habit at a time. 21 October 2020 Wealth & Success
Why we want to be wealthy?
We have been taught to be wealthy because our lives are always championed by our habits, desires, plans, actions, results, emotions, health, and goals, we want to be wealthy because we have seen how wealth is from others and what good things it can bring into our lives.
Should wealth be the priority of life?
This depends on what you do and choose because priorities are components of your intentions and decisions, so you can make your life a success if you can start by researching and understanding your priorities and what they mean to you because your reasons will drive what wealth is to you.
When can you evaluate if you are wealthy or not?
Starting from today you can review your wealth by looking at these components:
- Where is wealth in my life? - When did you start seeing wealth in your life? - Who is responsible for your wealth - How did you become wealthy or not - Which area of your wealth should you improve
Why success is wealth?
Success is power, you either look at it with two eyes: positive or negative. Your wealth comes from what you have, and how you feel about it, that's why you should define what is wealth to you so you can always see your success as wealth.
Why wealth has viewed as an asset?
Assets are key elements of wealth, we see wealth as a shield, that's why we identify it as an asset. 22 October 2020 Career & choiceCan you change your career without checking your choices?
It's very dangerous to move from one career to another without checking your choices because change can be exhausting, and you need to double your career choices and what benefits will you get.
When is the right time to design your career map?
Career maps can be designed before you can venture into a new job or business because planning is essential when it comes to designing a viable career.
Should you look at money when choosing a career?
Money is motivation, we suggest you look at the impact which you want to influence because you should decide for yourself whether the money comes first or impact then follow that blueprint.
Why retirement should be decided earlier?
Retirement can determine our life span, because if you look at your life into the retirement age, especially using old ways then you can see that you will rest only once your old, so the best way to decide is to first know what retirement means to you and when is the best time to retire.
• How choices can ruin our careers?
Wrong choices can sabotage our life happiness and health, so you should decide which choices are best for you and why.
24 October 2020 Relationship & AdviceWho should give you relationship advice?
Its not about giving advice is how you can understand the process of what advice is and how to apply it because people can share advice they haven't tested, that's why you should not look at getting advice but pay attention to the process of the advice so you can make your own decisions.
Why love advice cannot work for others?
Love is endless, but love advice can differ from one person to another because our DNA markup can be one of the barriers when it comes to learning what's not working for you. After all, the problem is within the biology of how you respond to love as an individual and what is working for you and your partner because what is working for other partners can become a disaster for you.
Should a relationship be in open communication?
All relationships are open communication, the issue is how the communication is been used, some use abusive words while others use compassionate words, so you should make your own choices to evaluate what is an open communication for you and your partner because sometimes people use strategies without checking them that's why information always conflict if they won't share something.
What to do if the advice is not working?
All you can do is to evaluate what part of advice did work firstly because understanding what has worked requires attention to detail and careful consideration of what to do next because it takes efforts to find out what is not working and do something about it.
Why copying other relationships can be dangerous?
Firstly you are unique, so copying should be understood, because you can take your relationship into problematic stages by comparing your love journey with of others, you can be destroy what is good in your relationship, so before you can start comparing ask yourself the following questions:
- Why should we copy this relationship?
- What is it that we like about that relationship that's worth for us to copy?
- Which areas of power do we lack that can be copied and why?
- Where is the success we love to see after copying these specific areas from that relationship?
- What's the worst-case scenario from copying this relationship?
Why does wisdom comes from experience?
Learning is the collection of thoughts that end up building experience and you can start to select which knowledge is transferrable to be stored as wisdom because trials and failures once they are refined with a viable solution they are called wisdom.
How to study religious wisdom?
Studying is the discipline of observation and understanding so you can apply the lessons learned because to study is to a problem, but who should you study, or what to study, because the region is broad, and you as an individual you can should what is it that makes you curious and start searching which region has answers and they start from there.
What is religious wisdom?
Religious wisdom is the capacity to apply experience to hard or simple problems because from the wisdom we talk about mastery of certain skills which are sometimes rare or collected over a long time, e.g doctors who perform surgeries some apply wisdom to excel in those operations this applies to everyone who should consider them as a wise person who has wisdom.
What to do if you know you don't have wisdom?
If you don't have wisdom is not a problem, all you need to ask yourself why do you need wisdom and where can you acquire it, and when, because sometimes we can search without understanding why, so the best way to start is to question your experience and knowledge to find out which area can wisdom play the part.
Where can wisdom be gathered?
Wisdom can be gathered from different sources of manuals, people, and from your thinking because the first part which one has to study is his or her soul because that's where you can gather some answers about your wisdom and where it comes from because as individuals we can differ on how we collect wisdom, and this has to be checked because that's were people sometimes consider themselves as not wiser enough because they end up setting limitations without checking the overall capabilities and potential they have within themselves, so you can start internal or external to gather wisdom.
Be careful, because wisdom doesn't mean you should know better, but it means having the capacity to do better.
What is peace?
Peace is the ability to understand reality and be aware of your thoughts good and bad.
Why peace seems so scary for many people?
People keep on postponing happiness and peace that's why people some of them cannot find what is peace for them.
What to do if you are not peaceful?
Firstly learn to research what makes you unpeaceful and ask yourself the following questions:
What is the importance of practicing peace in your life?
Happiness will always be part of harmony because you can practice being peaceful if you start to understand how your mindset function.
Where can you find peace?
Pieces can be found inside you and what you do with your time.
28 October 2020 Wealth & ProgressWhy wealth is part of progress?
Wealth is a collection of results that we define as progress from one step to other because it takes effort to learn what made you progress and how?
Wealth can reveal your progress either privately or publicly because it all depends on how you position and project yourself.
What can progress do to your success?
Progress is part of awareness, because once you understand that you are successful then look at how far you have come from those trials and errors. This can teach you about what you should do about your success, especially how to improve so the progress can be part of your success journey.
When can you identify your progress towards success?
Identification is key once you start to observe what progress means to you and where it comes from, because it takes courage to look at your progress especially if you are not succeeding towards the milestone you have set, what you can do is to learn to face the reality of the results you are getting so you can pay attention towards what is contributing towards your success.
Which area of progress should be studied ?
The first part of progress to pay attention to is what have you done because the revelation of all the process of the progress is based on actions which were initiated and what results were obtained because progress always comes either good or bad we always progress towards the next stage of growth, what is challenging is that we always look at bad as the worst-case scenario, that's why others will shy away from studying their progress.
What are the dangers lack of progress?
The most danger you can acquire from not progressing as planned is pain, and doubts, because those are weapons of taking most people's dreams down to the drain of shame and procrastination, so if your not succeeding you should ask yourself questions and seek assistance from others who are excelling in the industry you aim to succeed on because it takes skills to remove dangers, which can impact your progress and focus.
29 October 2020 Career & decisions
Why sound decisions can lead to good careers?
Sound decision comes from accurate thinking, that's why once your decisions are driven by research you can make viable career decisions and stand a chance to create a great career for you.
Why passion should be linked to skills to find a viable career?
Passion is the unlocking button for curiosity, so to find a viable career you need skills that can stand the demand within the work industry of your choice, because once skills are understood, then passion will thrive.
What is career consultation?
Consultation is the path of inquiry, especially to those who have knowledge and experience within that field of your protected success you want to acquire, it takes sound thinking to choose which viable career consultation is right for you and why, because you cannot choose if your are in a doubting stage or lacking sound information to validate the decision you have taken, that's why help from others can work especially if your pay attention towards your skills and what dreams you want to achieve from that work industry.
What type of decisions can determine future career?
Decision can differ from one career choice to another, but what you should pay attention to is the life cycle of the career you have chosen, because today technology is making more jobs to be automated and this absorbs many careers and create new jobs by destroying old ways of working, so as an individual your capacity to understand how your work will be short-lived ,this can determine your relevance and what decision you should take to make your career viable for the next future work within the work industry.
Why some people fail to choose the right career?
Poor planning is one reason of choosing the wrong careers, because if you lack sound information you are the risk to choose something which is not needed within the work industry, so what always destroy many careers is that people pay attention to interesting careers more than what is viable after completion of that particular career.
What matters is that can you find a job or create it once you have acquired those skills from that career you have decided to choose?
What is working comes from accurate information and deliberate actions and back up research from experts. The responsibility to review and ask others of possible ways how one can establish a viable career and what can you do to make sure you remain in demand within your expertise and your dreams is crucial, because times have changed and technology is taking over many jobs , so its a process to finalize this decision, because majority of careers become obsolete after five years, so take your personal initiative to research your career and don't let desperation rule your decision but let proven information guide you.
Doe's manhood leads to power over others?
Power from various religions has been focused on manhood, because it's been on the historical calendar that power is on man, and women have fewer powers, that's why even to this days man still win within their biological makeup which gives them an advantage of powers that's why manhood leads to power over a woman.
Can masculinity be a requirement of responsibility?
Masculinity is part of responsibility from different dogmas because man is a symbol of strength especially when it comes to protection and security for his own family, indeed masculinity is a responsibility.
Why region has power to oppression others?
Over decades, centuries religion has made sure oppression is part of the discipline guidance because it takes time for people to understand what is oppressing them and why? because the power which religion has injected into our subconscious mindset is so powerful and this will require careful study to remove those barriers that keep us into this rut of continuous oppression.
What type of oppression are there on relationships caused by religion?
Religious oppressions differ, but all are common in making sure you remain into the stage of fear and shame if you fail to comply with rules and the laws of that dogma, relationships are mostly controlled by religious subconscious mindset oppression because what is difficult or easy can either make you live a good or bad life, this are types of oppressions you can encounter:
- Never question this practice
- It is all been done this way
- You are responsible to follow this
- It is your religion
- Man should have power woman should be submissive
What can you do about religious oppression?
Firstly you need to understand what is oppressing you and what will be the best way to get out of that thing oppressing you, because what matters is your mindset and what actions you will take to improve your current situation and what can you learn from others who are free from what is oppressing you.
02 November 2020 Happiness & LoveCan love increase happiness?
Love is the foundation of happiness, indeed love can make us happy and live a great life once we start to understand the basics of reality, and accept things that we cannot control over our lives.
How love helps to improve our happiness?
Love always points us towards harmonious options, what you should pay attention to is to understand what makes you happy and what elements of improvements are necessary for you to be happy continuously, because love is just a foundation and you need other factors which can support too to be happy, caution happiness is not a must but an option to help you to be aware of the reality your facing.
Why does love always relieve pain?
Love is an asset of healing us, pain cannot survive once love starts to take place, because we all deserve love, but the pain is essential to show us what is not right within our bodies and we have the mandate to embrace pain as a temporary thing, not as an everyday activity because we can lose our love if we give pain too much attention without fixing it.
What type of love can lead to a fulfilling lifestyle?
Greater lifestyle are always part of good habits because you cannot be happy while you still overburdened by bad habits which impact your awareness of love, without understanding what type of love you have for certain things that make you happy, you risk your life of getting lost into bad habits that can destroy your lifestyle and your health.
This are basic steps to review the type of love you have :
- Doing what's best for you
- Attention details
- Capacity to eliminate distractions
- The ability to deal with reality and adapt
- Healthy lifestyle
What is the importance of having love and happiness in life
Life is love and happiness, this are fundamentals of what makes us enjoy all those material possessions we have acquired over time because it takes time to review what is important to you and start to do it everyday hence why improvement is a plan of action. You are responsible to do what's important for your life, because you live once and you deserve to be happy and love others and yourself while you still have time.
03 November 2020 Health & ExercisingWhat are the benefits of exercising?
Benefits are the motivation of our desires, when you start to exercise you will gain valuable benefits from different angles of your body and the lifestyle you have, because greater health is a combination of components, once you start to improve your health by exercising you will reap the benefits of exercising.
Why do we avoid exercising?
Avoidance is the sign of concern either hidden or expressed, because as individuals we see certain things as important and others as not, that's why you can avoid exercising because you don't have sufficient reasons to exercise, avoidance is a sign of excuses.
Can health be destroyed by insufficient exercising?
Health can be destroyed by insufficient exercising because your body requires exercising as the boost mechanism of keeping your stamina active and your body muscles intact, and you can learn from others who avoid exercise and check the signs of dangers they are experiencing and what type of thinking they always practice and the benefit's they are reaping from the lack of exercising.
When is the right time to exercise?
It is not only about the right time, but the actions of the priorities you can devote towards making sure you remain disciplined to exercise at the planned time and keep moving forward to exercise because what's challenging about exercising is that we like to postpone it and seek it once we are into serious problems that's why many people cannot keep up the promise to exercise, but what matters is that it's your body if you take exercise for granted you will get the results of not complying to what's best for your health..
Does good health requires exercising?
Good health is the definition of great exercising, you cannot be healthy if you cannot understand the importance of eating, exercising, and thinking healthy because health is a collection of components that can make you healthy, what is important is to understand that your exercising is just one thing that can add value towards supporting your health structure, that's why you should include medical advice to win this game of exercising, eating and thinking healthy by talking with your doctors and trusted experts on your contacts, remember only you can change your health by taking personal responsibility to act on what's good for your body at this right time.
04 NOVEMBER 2020 Wealth & legacy WednesdayCan legacy be created without material possession?
Legacy can differ from one person to another that's why we should not attach it based on physical assets alone we should even check the lessons we have collected during our lifetime because they can be part of what is called legacy.
Why we fail to understand wealth and legacy?
Failure is the definition of missed steps, that's why it takes courage to get back to the drawing board to check which box was not ticked correctly, you have the responsibility to evaluate what's working for you and what contributions it adds towards making sure you are creating your legacy, you should even be aware of ignoring small details because they end up becoming lifetime error's which sometimes cannot be fixed, to understand you should question the right things so you can have a viable solution
.Which type of legacy is dangerous?
The only dangerous stage is to fail to plan and expect results without taking any action, you have the responsibility to check from others what has destroyed their path to creating ongoing legacies because that's where your concrete lessons will come from and you will see what is dangerous and what is safe for you because the danger is always part of the plan, but with accurate planning, you can mitigate it using creative strategies to work it out of the way.
Can wealth create problems for us?
Wealth has its problems like other factors of life, that's why you should have a plan of what wealth means to you and what type of risks are attached to what you're looking for because most problems come from our actions or inaction to execute the next step, that is why you are liable to check from those who have to succeed on that field of your choice how do they work out the problems which are necessary to destroy the wealth you have created, what matters is to understand that the solution can be simple or complex it all depends on which type of information are you using.
What's the importance of setting up a legacy?
What is important comes from what we value most, because you cannot set up wealth or legacy without passing this stage of understanding the importance of what you are doing and why, because it takes time to create a legacy that can stand the test of time, that's why you need to consult with various experts so you can arrive to the best conclusion of how the setup of your legacy will be.
05 November 2020 Career & relocation
Why you should relocate once your career improves?
Relocation is a choice you have your own decisions to exercise on what is best for you and why relocation will work for what you are facing currently or previous because improvements can vary from one industry to another that's why it is very important to understand the scope of the opportunity and what steps should be taken to advance your career growth.
Career relocation choices that can ruin your confidence or add stability?
Relocation has its consequences and dangers one should research and pay attention to because sometimes you can choose the wrong place and end up in debt and fail to concentrate on your work, that's why you have the option to study what makes you feel confident about moving from one place to another and what are the reasons behind and the stability of the option you have chosen is it viable for your budget or not.
Can career relocation increase new opportunities?
Career relocation are improvements and they can present new opportunities for you and your career's next path to growth because it takes courage to find new opportunities and grab them, that's why learning to study what's happening in the market can increase your chances to elevate your career to another level and move from one place to another.
Why we should never take relocation for granted?
Relocation is another new path of life improvements, that's why we should never take relocation for granted because it can be something which will improve us forever and keep us happy within those dreams we have, so never take options for granted if you want to make a viable decision and keep moving ahead with your career growth.
Should spouses relocate together?
Decision of relocations can destroy or make the relationship that's why clarity on why spouses should move together or not should be discussed professionally so both partners can understand what's needed to be done once the relocation starts to take place because without prioritizing what's important within the relationship you can end up losing your career growth and staying within the same path.
07 November 2020 Relationship & forgiveness
Can love lead to forgiveness?
Love is the foundation of life and forgiveness is a tool for making love continue, we cannot love without forgiving because the opposite is that our lives always bring some challenges which hurt us, that's why forgiveness is our tool to ease the pain or remove it, love leads to options it all depends on you how do you see those presented opportunities and use them.
What is forgiveness?
Forgiveness is the ability to accept the truth, why because your self-judgment can impede the process of whether you are ready to forgive or not because we forgive for a reason that's why your self conclusion upon the matter which is on the table requires those sound decisions you should take and move ahead if possible.
Why relationships are challenging during a crisis?
Testing times can evoke, and reveal different types of emotions from spouses, that's why once a challenge is presented by reality most partners focus on what's wrong more than what can be done to remedy the situation.
Hence why a crisis can even destroy the relationship if matters are not handled accurately, because once individuals cannot decide accurately their stand into the gate of blaming and this can hurt one partner or both so it takes a great amount of understanding to deal with personal relationships crisis decisively because your actions can determine the next outcome.
When can you let go of the pain that's hurting you?
Time plays an important role when it comes to letting go of some of the things that have been bothering you because a wound by nature cannot heal immediate but can be healed instantly internally, that's why learning to understand how your mindset functions can give you the greater advantage to see the brighter side of forgiveness and why it is so important to improve your overall well being, so what's hurting you it's important, you need to take personal initiative to address this by either accepting change or dwelling on pain, yes it might take time but it is very important to ease or remove the pain out of the way so you can start to feel good because you deserve a happy life.
Can a relationship leads to peace?
Peace we all have it, what is challenging is that others cannot express it or tap into it, so without understanding what makes you feel peaceful you stand a chance to get lost in cycles of searching for what's beyond your control and invite misery, because you cannot accept to be peaceful if you don't take personal courage to research yourself and make your own decisions on what is peaceful and what is not, a relationship cannot lead us to be peace because we are the ones who are suppose to make a relationship peaceful from our actions and promises.
08 November 2020 Culture & marriageWhat makes marriage to be a success?
Marriage success can be predicted if all spouses understand that shared responsibilities always lead to success because what you value as spouses can determine the success of the marriage these are some of the basic key elements which can create marriage success:
- attention to details
- open communication
- forgiveness
- healthy habits
- caring for each other pains
- shared goals
- the ability to differ but agree or disagree
- clear financial structure
- region acceptance
- honesty and respect
What types of moral values should be followed by spouses?
All moral values can differ from one marriage to another but what stood the test of time is this, do to others what you would like to be done unto you. Morals cannot work if discipline, respect, and care are not enforced properly because what you decide to follow as the spouse can lead to success or failure.
Can marriage leads to happiness?
Marriage cannot lead to happiness, because happiness is an individual responsibility, what marriage can do is provide the structure of making spouses create their happiness and what's best for them.
Why marriages fail?
Failure can come as an end result , but what we can tell is that most marriage failures comes from missing to understand small details or ignoring them overtime, because what create failure is the foundation of the recipes used to guide the marriage, that's why you cannot forge ahead towards a successful marriage if your relationship foundation is build on wrong values and vows, because most spouses find it easy to leave the marriage because love has subsided, that's why all arguments, misunderstandings , angers, pains, unfulfilled promises ,and recurring problems should be guided with sound skills to rectify what's within the control of both spouses and what made them to choose to marry each other , because without dealing with what is hurting the progress of the marriage always leads to continues conflicts which end up seen as unsolvable, that's why marriages fail, we understand the nature of all bad things that some spouses can do which can destroy the marriage, but what matters is to do what is best for your heart and your own well being, because it takes time to resolve or fix what has been broken unaware which is love , care ,honesty, sympathy, peace and vows.
Can you use old rules to run your new ?
We are the creation of old rules, either you use them or not, because from childhood stage we are taught to be greater versions of ourselves's most of us, so we can be able to create sustainable families, so we use old rules differently that's why you need to pay attention to what is it that you are adopting as your guiding rules in your relationship, because what can work for you is to use what's best for both of you as spouses, and it takes old ground to built what is called new beginnings.
09 November 2020 Happiness & forgivenessCan forgiveness increase happiness?
Forgiveness brings awareness of what was hurting you, happiness is what you value to make you feel at peace we cannot overrate to say that forgiveness is the solution to happiness because sometimes we do forgive for certain reasons just to be healed not be happy.
Why do we often lack happiness?
We don't lack happiness, we often struggle to understand what makes us happy and why? because we are searching for our happiness or researching it using wrong strategies that's why lacking is always something which disturbing many individuals from becoming happy.
What type of action one should take to forgive?
Attitude to forgive is not so hard to be followed but what matters is the process of forgiveness because the healing journey is progressive, not instant that's why you need to master the steps which are necessary for you to move from one step to another once you start to forgive.
The type of actions you should master are as follows:
- why I am forgiving?
- what is it that I'll like to forgive?
- which actions should I take to start forgiving?
- How will this forgiveness help me?
- when can I know if I have forgiven?
What is the importance of understanding your happiness?
Happiness comes from the options we prioritize as values or purposes because your understanding is what you have information about that's why it's very important to review what you know about your happiness up to so far, that's where you can begin your happiness understanding.
Why do we doubt our peace?
Peace is with us every day, that's why doubts always impact our overall drive to use our peace.
10 November 2020 Wealth & progressWhat type of value does wealth provides?
Values are core principles of life, the level of wealth you get comes from what you are best at and those results you get, these are some basics types of wealth
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- health -
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- passion -
- learning -
- good habits -
- family -
- travel -
- sharing -
- prayer -
- asset's
Can wealth become a scarce resources?
Rare resources are hard to be found, because it takes relevant skills to pull resources together, because without understanding what type of resources are available at your disposal, you need to prioritize what's working for you so you can automate it and monetize it.
Why progress is part of planning and action?
Planning is growth, action is a discipline, and to progress, you should understand the direction of the results you are getting and what tools you have for the work.
Should wealth be your priorities?
Prioritizing your moves comes from, your own decisions, it takes courage to understand what is your key priorities.
Why people don't progress?
Wrong plans can contribute to the reason why people never progress, again hardworking on wrong priorities and lack of execution to change into a working plan.
12 November 2020 Career & skillsWhy specialized skills matter?
Specialized skill makes you tap into your unique capabilities, be in demand for work or opportunities and this mastery of capitalizing your skill based on your specialized skills can determine your career direction and progress, because your ability to pick skills can tell how and what you are good at, that's why you need to understand how to measure success and deal with failure.
Should you start a new career without research?
You cannot move to the next direction without understanding where you are going, that's why research is key when you start to choose a new career, choices come from options
Why do we need career management?
Career management is your toolbox of progress because you can start to understand what's working from what you're pursuing, because most careers are not managed properly, that's why they get obsolete within a short time, you need to master creative skills and monetize them.
Can your career change your thinking?
Thinking is based on what you decide upon, your thinking can determine whether you are not into a viable career you can start to check your level of thinking.
What challenges come with new careers?
From one individual to another all have different challenges, but all are similar in another form like this:
- growth problem
- Changing industry
- irrelevant skills
- being lost in something hate
- poor health
- wrong irreversible decisions
- wrong goals
- no passion
- feeling time is run out
Why breakups are harder to deal with?
Firstly breakups make us feel vulnerable and aware of what's happening within the relationship and we can differ on how we handle the break-up point of the relationship, but what is hard is to remove someone you love from your heart because this is what makes all the breakups to be hard, because once you were into a relationship for while the love can grow that's why the process requires preparation and strategic actions to deal with it
What's the solution to the broken heart?
Hearts don't get broken, but words make the heart feel broken that's why you need to understand that you are the solution to what is hurting you, and you have the power to deal with those thoughts that are impacting your thinking and the solution will come from what you decide to do and stick to it, sometimes you need to practice the patience of letting it go.
Should spouses forgive each other after breaking up?
Forgiveness is a choice, not a must that's why you can determine your new healing process by checking how far are you willing to forgive someone who you have broken up with because it's your own decision to either forgive or stick to the pain, what happens after the break up always is under your control to either accept it or refuse to accept that's why your choices matters once you meet the break-up point.
Can a relationship survive without temptations?
Temptation are part of every relationship and you need them to test the foundation of the relationship you are in because sometimes we fail the test of temptation by not understanding that growth comes from evaluating what is working and what is not, and deciding which direction is good for the relationship and accept temptation as challenges, not as threats.
How to deal with break up process?
The challenge it's not merely dealing with the breakup, but how prepared are you to face the worst-case scenario, because the process of letting it go easy to be uttered but hard to follow suit, that's why you should understand the problem before the solution, your path to healing will come from your thinking and what you value as what we call new beginnings and opportunities to start again before the process unfolds check the following
- why did the relationship fail? what were the most problems I was facing and what did I do best or worse?
- when did I become aware that this relationship is no longer working for us?
- where is the evidence that breaking up from this relationship can lead me to a new start?
- which area of pain can I deal with immediately so I can start to forgive step by step?
- how will I handle my emotions once it is over and who can be there to support me and why?
Abstaining is order, we as humankind use different methods to abstain from our habits because the importance of using abstaining is to support our good habits and be aware of what is it that is keeping us away from being holy and pure. If we are abstaining, we value this method of abstaining by understanding what's important to us and what not.
Should celibacy be promoted?
Celibacy is a choice, and from traditional to digital promotion, it's been promoted in various religions sometimes it can be privately promoted but to this date, people are being taught to abstain from sex, and some end up subscribing to celibacy.
What are the consequences of religious celibacy?
Religious celibacy is an agreement of total holiness of not having sex for the result of your life, the disadvantage of this method is that sex is biological support of our own human well being and, this can affect one person to another differently because sex is part of life and it's human choices to either discard it or practice it.
Why when mourning people should abstain from sex?
Sex absorbs energy and it can deplete strength that's why from traditional religious practices we are taught to abstain from sex while mourning the passing of loved ones so we can allow the path of total holiness to take place and this practice is still important to this date, as we some keep up to this ancient practice.
What is the relationship between sex and religion?
The connection between sex and religion is based on the relationship both spouses have because sex to be practiced is required by both partners and again we are taught to see sex as something entitled to married people or those who are adults, because it has been religious practices to establish rules which makes it clear that sex should be respected and religion should guide the motive of sex by joining two families before spouses can engage into sexual practices, that's why the relationship between sex and religion is valid to date and respected by many religious people.
17 November 2020 Health & dietWhy diets fail?
Our diets can say a lot about the well-being of our health, because what is overrated is that people should lose weight, but often many of these lessons fail hence why most diets don't focus on removing old habits and this is not shared accurately, however many people default their diets within the completion of the diet lessons, and again people rush to get into diets because it's convenient for them and this put lot pressure into the mindset, which is why many individuals never achieve planned results from their dietary plans, what matters is to deal with habits before you initiate any diet plan.
What is a good diet?
Good habits can influence good diets because to understand what is great you need accurate information supported by planned action so you can start to enjoy your diet. A good diet is the ability to keep on eating healthy and continue to improve your eating habits.
Why we fail to eat properly?
Failure can become a habit if you keep on making the same errors without improving them because we fail sometimes because we don't pay attention to the results we are getting and we ignore to face the worst-case scenario of the current reality of our errors within the eating habits we struggle with, that's why you need to first understand why you should eat properly and what is required from your menu or recipes to fulfill good eating habits because what's proper is basic and easy to be taught that's why many individuals avoid it, so to safeguard yourself you should not follow wrong advice, seek good counsel from experts and you will enjoy your food because wisdom is not sold but can be shared.
When can you revise your eating habits?
If you are serious about your health you will begin right now because the opportunity to change is based within the current moment and your actions cannot be executed in the future.
What is important is to understand the right process of revising your diet plan using accurate information, because if you want best results you need to understand what is speed and pace, so you can determine which one fits you, because what brings total failure within this process is to rush into execution without proper techniques.
From now begin to question your level of habits you want to deal with firstly and remember one task equals to one move if you have followed proper direction, so to begin your quest start to evacuate where you are with your diet and begin to seek expert counsel to add support to deal with this matter because without proper steps no house can stand the storm of temptation.
Why good health is cheap?
We can talk and talk, but some of us have been taught the basics of good health such as eating fruits and vegetables, exercising, praying, and choosing good friends, so these elements remain the core foundations of what we call cheap health and all of us it is free because we can access some of this components freely, what is challenging about human beings is that they need a problem to act or fix something. Hence why cheap health is overrated and people take it for granted until they hit the rock bottom of declining health.
Then what is right will be forced to be acted upon, that's why waiting for someone to caution you about bad eating habits whenever you know is part of ignorance and stupidity, and no one can cure this attitude unless bad habits now punish you with pain and then you need the new direction of changing your diet. Remember you are responsible for your health unless you don't know.
What makes careers fail?
Different thing can contribute to making a career fail such as the following factors:- wrong advice
- inability to make sound decisions
- wrong information
- not specializing
- family and friend's peer pressure
- changing job market
Can wrong careers be changed?
Wrong careers are devastating because they hold us hostage and we cannot move from one step to another step, because changing what is wrong is based on sound options and relevant action to follow through with your plans.
Why do we spend the most time on careers?
Life is based on careers either professional or not because our time is mostly spent on various tasks which are based on workforce and skills and we cannot live without spending accurate thinking.
Can you succeed without a career?
This question is based on your options because as we said your life is part of a career and you need to understand that success means different things to people and that you cannot succeed without a proper structure of support or career.
Whose responsible for changing your career?
You are responsible for changing your career and nobody can enforce change on your life.
21 November 2020 Relationship & secrets
Can a relationship be formed without any secret?
As human beings we hold different types of secrets and when a relationship is formed we sometimes suggest starting on a clean slate, that's very important to understand what type of secrets you have and how can you reveal them, because a relationship on it's own is a secret mandate which holds us into privacy and accountability, that's according to any relationship spouses do have secrets that units them together
.Why partners keep secrets?
Secret keeping is a form of protection because we all have vulnerability and are entitled to protect our partner's weaknesses against any enemy because to master vulnerability is a skill and you need to make sure you keep some private topics within your relationship bond because what often destroy many relationships is sharing your partner's weaknesses with other people, that's why to understand to keep secrets of this nature can help to build a long-lasting relationship based on mutual trust and love. The word secret means you are the secretary of that secret so you are obligated to safeguard it.
What danger does secret-keeping can lead to?
Not setting an agreement to protect the relationship secrets is one danger that can impact the trust level and destroy the relationship, because if spouses didn't have any agreement of understanding what is obligated to be shared with others this can pose danger because no one loves his or her vulnerability be shared without his or her consent that's why we often see more conflicts which cannot be solved because the foundation of the relationship is at faulty, and you need to understand the impact of holding secrets because you can either destroy or build your bond by keeping what's important.
How can spouses discuss relationship secrets?
Communication is one area which we recommend for partners to exercise because you need to master your recipe of discussing what's private to all of you and what is not, this will help all parties to draw an agreement to understand what's expected from each other and again you need to make sound decisions on what will be the worst-case scenario where you need expert advice and what is required.When is the right time to reveal secrets?
The only time to share the secret is when you are ready to talk because there's no universal time to share but there is a discipline one should follow to talk because mostly secrets are revealed once people are angry and this can expose the relationship to vulnerabilities and it's very dangerous to share secrets once you are angry because this is the indication of being immature and not thinking before you talk. We suggest you seek additional counsel on what and how you can reveal the secret because sometimes secrets can lead to fights and in danger your life that's why before you talk seek protection and clarity.
22 November 2020 Culture & marriageIs the marriage a culture?
From the historical point of view and relevant facts marriage is a culture, from one generation to another we are taught to follow certain dogmas and this makes our marriage to be a culture and again we live in a cultural society that's why we are classified according to different cultures.
What is the importance of cultural marriage?
Respect, upholding family names and sustaining the cultural factors are very important especially for making sure we understand why and how should we keep our cultural marriages and the regions we belong to because from ancient wisdom a family is part of marriage either legal or not because as from cultural perspective marriage ties two families together to expand family names and cultural dogmas, the importance of using cultural marriage can vary from one person to another that's why you need to understand where you come from and what is required from you to get to the cultural marriage.
Who is responsible to keep cultural norms in the marriage?
We as partners are the ones who are responsible to keep our cultural norms because it is based on the decision we set to pass this education towards our children and make sure the lessons of our culture are sustained because history classifies us and its from our own choices whether we champion this education forward or discard it, everyone can change the reality but not the history.
What is cultural marriage oppression?
Marriage has its oppression from power balance to dominance and masculinity , feminity and rules, so to keep an eye on what is oppressing you need to check the following:
- understand what are your values?
- what is not mandatory for you ?
- what type of agreement you have with your partner about what's being viewed as cultural marriage oppression?
- what you should avoid practicing to make a successful marriage?
All this lessons come from evidence and you are obligated to either take them or refuse. Culture is not oppressing us we struggle to change the habits which oppress us.
Should culture rule the marriage?
Rules are the foundations of any cultural marriage and you and your partner should understand what's working and what's not in your relationship, especially when choosing guiding rules for your cultural marriage because sometimes we use wrong rules to run marriages that's why we have problematic relationships, we need to change what's not working and adopt working rules so we can keep the belt of cultural marriage rolling.
23 November 2020 Happiness & sabotageWhy we sabotage our happiness?
We have different options which can lead us to sabotage ourselves, especially if we start to live according to someone else opinions, happiness is caged once we fail to think independent that's why we can blame others for not making us happy.
Sabotage is an option but we have to decide why we cannot rely on others to make us happy, we sabotage our happiness because we give others the responsibilities of making us happy.
What can you do about your negative thought?
We all have negative thoughts but we have the mind that regulates those thoughts that's why we are capable of changing what we do and feel, because without taking into consideration that we are liable for those negative.
Why pride can destroy our happiness?
Pride is a confidence element, all we have it but we express it differently that's why we cannot be at fault if we start to learn why and how should we use our pride over others, because the function of pride is to see you better than anyone else and this is a natural element of life.
We can destroy our happiness by overstepping our boundaries like talking without thinking, being overly confident, and being stubborn to rectify our mistakes, we all have this attitude of destroying our pride.
Can ego sabotage our happiness?
Ego is part of confidence and pride we all need these elements but we should control how we use them because your ego can give you an impression of being rude to others and fail to say sorry, that's we can sabotage the good relationship by using our ego carelessly.
Why we can become disloyal to what we value?
We are not loyal once we start to compromise our core values, because you cannot be happy if you fail to become honest to yourself, because all struggles come from our thoughts, that's why being disloyal can hurt our souls.
24 November 2020 Health & adviceWhy we fail to act on health advice?
Our actions come from our thoughts, we don't fail because we have planned but because those some bad habits can drive us insane, so we cannot succeed on health guidelines if we didn't deal with those bad habits that keep us locked into the rut of failure.
Again health advice can be defaulted due to lack of following instruction, procrastination, and ignorance even lack of knowledge, that's why you need to deal with the mindset first before you can start to adopt new health advice, we often fail because we skip the basic rules and we take time to rectify this errors.
How can you use health advice?
How is not a problem what matters here is why should you use health advice and when are you going to start? because we all know how we should take into consideration practices like walking, eating healthy and sleeping well, but often we ignore this exercises because they sound to be basic.
We look for something complex that's why we often fail to follow the right direction, to use health advice you need to find out how your mindset operates because the beginning of all cures comes from the mindset. To use health advice what you can do is follow the expert counsel and execute the instructions.
What can you do if you need health advice?
We are all capable of asking for help, but the question is who is the right person to advise you and why, because the majority of individuals end up hitting the rock bottom because they use wrong health advice and keep on following them, for better health advice you should look at people who are healthy and seek counsel from them and add your knowledge by seeking expert counsel so you can have specialized knowledge to deal with your health. After all, when it comes to health advice we are not given the same treatment because our problems are not the same as the symptoms we have that's why good advice can be expensive or cheap it all depends where you are getting it.
Should health advice be given to everyone?
From traditional education to the modern world school's have worked so hard to educated people about the basic elements of health such as washing of hands before eating, sleeping accurately and many more but the advice was given as a lesson of choice, not as a must.
Hence why we often see people who have sound knowledge of health but still fail to use it, because there's a huge difference between a lesson and the experience, that's why to be healthy is now a choice, not a must, we live according to our choices which drive's our day to day habits, so everyone can know how to Google but that doesn't mean people are well equipped to use that information, advice is a choice, not a rule that's why we either take it or leave it.
What are the dangers of following wrong health advice
Firstly you will meet with the following:
- stress
- anger
- misery
- pain
- ignorance
- sabotage
- procrastination
Wrong advice is free you either stay with it or change the course of your mission direction, that's why understanding the dangers can save your life and help you to stay in the right direction. 25 November 2020 Wealth & age
What is the universal age to be wealthy?
Life has no universal age for wealth because as we have mentioned wealth means different things to people your version is what you should take into consideration, because if you can follow the majority you can be lost because the standard rule people have set for themselves is age 30 & 40 to be financially stable, so you should look at your plans and take your own decision before you can determine which age is suitable for you to be wealthy and why because what matters is your own decision and action's not what the majority is saying about age when it comes to wealth.
Should we dream about wealth?
Dreams are free, we all have the desire to improve our lives, yet what stands on our path is doubts, shame, ignorance, and criticisms, that's why your dreams about wealth should be kept privately. All you can do is execute your plans so your results can speak for you, not your words because what often discourage individuals is talk or sharing your plans with the wrong people who bring you down, hence our dreams can be dangerous if shared with enemies. Dream privately act publicly.
Why preparation mixed with action can lead to wealth?
From ancient history to this date preparation has been one of the greatest assets, and action has been a discipline to make the dream come to fruition, that's why when you are prepared action is easy to be enforced, and wealth is a matter of preparation and you need to follow what you see can make you wealthy
Why anyone can be wealthy at any age?
Life is changing especially today we live in a modern world of technologies which change how we do things, that's why age today is not a matter when it comes to being wealthy, because the market today is looking for valuable innovative product's and services this makes anyone qualify to be wealthy anytime as long what you provide is improving customer lives, then you have qualified to be wealthy, some wealth restrictions have been removed by new technologies, that's why it is your responsibility to check what can make you wealthy and do it.
Why you need a plan to be wealthy?
A man without a plan cannot move from one step to another, why because life is a series of plans where some plans fail and others succeed, that's you need to have plans for your life, especially if you want to create wealth. Because your capacity to plan and execute the plan can reveal which results you should look at and why you should stop doing certain things, because a plan is just a direction and results are the ingredients to testify if the plan is working or not, that's why we all need good results to validate that our plans are functional and stable, wealth is a plan.
26 November 2020 Career & life direction
Why life direction can affect your career?
Life direction is based on choices we made and keep acting on them, because a career can affect how you live your life, that's why what you choose has to align with your core values, so you can avoid the trap of getting into the wrong sector and live under the rut of blaming and shame, because not everyone is capable of changing the direction of their careers. What affects us is change not only victories we acquire.
How to determine if you have chosen a life career?
Choices always drive our action's towards the results we want, to understand whether something is for you or not check how you appreciate or complain about it because we sometimes choose careers in a rush that's we end up facing worst-case scenario and we are not yet prepared to change the direction of our careers due to some life-affecting circumstances such as financial stability or any growth, so to evaluate what you have chosen is right for you double-check your happiness and ask yourself was that your dream career or not then make your decision for any change you want to take.
What options are available for changing your l career life direction?
Firstly your decisions are key to changing the direction of your career, because it takes sound thinking to change what you think is not working for you and keep moving ahead, because what's challenging is to make decisions based on wrong information.
Before you can change, your need a backup plan to get into another sector because often individuals leave careers without any workable strategy to move ahead, we suggest you start looking for another job while you are still on that career or save enough money that can sustain you once you begin to change it, those who look at the worst-case scenario are capable to deal with risks. Change with a plan, not with the opinions of others, this is a great task that you need to exercise caution before you move ahead.
Should you trust your instincts when choosing a lifetime career?
Instincts can be trusted every day because to survive we are driven by instincts to move ahead, but the rule of thumb is to double-check your instincts before you can initiate the decision and check from others how did they succeed in making that type of decision you want to make and what are the alternatives are available for you to pursue that instinct choice.
Why life careers matter?
We all have lifetime careers either academic or not, because what we collect in this life is memories and experiences that we pass to others, what matters is how we feel, the impact we can create from our career, and what level of freedom we have to exercise our options to control our lives, and be free from what's oppressing us which is doubt, shame, and ignorance.
28 November 2020 Relationship & arguments SaturdayWhy arguments are healthy for a relationship?
Healthy argument is signs of caring, concern, commitment, love, and attention to detail because as partners we have our differences and bad behaviors which can impact our relationship, that's we all can be angry but what matters is how we handle our emotions because a health argument means not holding grudges, but dealing with matters decisively and be able to accept what's wrong and move ahead, again a health argument is the ability to differ but agree to differ and move ahead without any blame.
How to spot dangerous arguments?
Firstly our recommendation is to check the body language because words can be the opposite of what the emotions are revealing the dangerous part is to fail to understand that words boil emotions which can invoke any fight or an ongoing conflict because as spouses we react differently once we are provoked. That's why learning to master the body language can help to spot any dangerous argument and avoid it.
What is the strength of arguments for spouses?
Learning to argue professional is a skill because you need to firstly master the trap of thinking first before you can speak so you can maintain your strength of negotiating based on facts, not emotions that are influenced by opinions that don't have any ground on your relationship vows.
That's why your relationship strong side is the ability to solve problems and keep working on what you have planned for, again you need to set what we call arguments limitations, stop talking without thinking and this can help you to restore the dignity of your relationship and respect because sometimes arguments can reveal weaknesses, that's why you should maintain what we call arguments limitations to strengthen your relationship.
Can an argument destroy a relationship?
Unmanaged arguments are the elements of destroying any relationship, because if you fail to solve problems as partners you risk the chance to grow but destroy what you have built because unresolved problems always come into the picture if any argument takes place that's endless arguments end up destroying the relationship because unmanaged conflicts destroy the stability to solve problems in a relationship, you need to take into consideration that you are liable for what you allow to argue about because problem-solving skills is what is often lacking in those relationships.
What to do if you are in an argumentative relationship?
All we are in an argumentative relationship, but what differs is what noise and what protocol is followed to establish an argument and what to do about it.
29 November 2020 Culture & mindsetWhy do parents condition their children to follow their culture?
Children don't have the power to make sound decisions for themselves because they are still under the guidance of learning from their parents and they don't have the power to refuse what they are subjected to.
Parents have the advantage to condition them toward their direction, that's why we learn and adopt some of our parents believes and live according to what we were taught, but the mental condition is essential to pass wisdom from one person to another. Hence why parents are obligated to pass this lessons towards the children, because failure to do so can lead to major dangers for a child because the purpose of mental condition is to follow certain procedures and standards and it's very important for the growth of family lineage and culture.
What is the importance of evaluating cultural practices?
From the standpoint of a new modern perspective cultural practices are evaluated and cracked with improvements, so you are obligated to check what it is that you value within the circle of the cultural practices you perform because it takes courage to choose from what you have been given because the society mostly points us towards what we have to follow as majority and it's your own choice to determine what is working for you and what not so you can remain sure of what you value as important to you as the basis of your own culture.
Do people have choices to choose what culture to follow?
Humankind has the power to decide and can act on what he or she wants, because life is a circle of choices, and we can change what we don't want by exercising our options of change and doing what is best for us.
We all can choose the culture that we want especially once we reach the stage of making sound decisions as adults, but what is often challenging is that it will take time to remove old habits than to build new ones, because from childhood we are conditioned to follow certain procedures and standards of our parent's culture, that's why once you want to change, you need broader clarity on what it is that you should change and what is next for you to choose as your own culture because as human beings we can choose and reject what we don't want , that's why your own decisions of choices can drive you towards what you want to follow as a culture.
Why mindset is targeted by religious or cultural leaders?
The mindset is the foundation of all controls of human behavior, the reason why repetition is used as a weapon of targeting the mindset is that once we can function on tasks by using unconscious functions or autopilot, we are on the road to what culture classified as a dogma of discipline and this makes our mindset to run according to certain fears and rules which runs our day to day mental functional activities, because humankind is mind and mind is the power, that's why the target is on the mindset not on the body because culture or religion are the clarification of beliefs targeted to condition the mindset to function in a certain way, hence why cultural or religious leaders master the psychology of influence.
Can someone live without being taught about culture?
It's impossible to live without any culture because culture is a clarification of certain actions which makes us follow what is the discipline of living, and this is on our DNA codes, we are cultural beings who exercise different options and we use lessons according to the mental condition we have.
30 November 2020 Happiness & pleasure Monday
Why happiness is associated with pleasure?
Pleasure is a symbol of habit satisfaction which comes from our desires, we often look at pleasure differently but the motive of pleasure is to satisfy certain habits, so we sometimes link these pleasures with happiness that's why most people feel happy if they indulge in certain pleasure such as the following :
- food
- sex
- alcohol
- reading
- sharing
These are the basic elements that form part of pleasure zones which often drive our habits, happiness is not pleasure, hence why you can indulge in those elements we mentioned above but still lack happiness, because what you associate your happiness with is not happiness but a support mechanism.
Again we learn from the society to think that to be happy you should indulge into certain pleasure and this is not accurate, because sometimes we use the information without checking the merit's of it, that's why it becomes so difficult to change the direction of what's not working in our lives, happiness is total emptiness of thoughts no attachment is required.
What is the role of pleasure ?
We are conditioned as human beings to follow certain pleasures which develops our core habits which run automatically, so the role of pleasure is based on survival bias because we have desires which should be satisfied daily, hence why pleasure is important and one of the protection mechanism we have inherited. We indulge into pleasure based on our choices because our bodies are driven by our thoughts, which we have total control over them if we can pay attention, so the role of pleasure is to complete the desire and to keep us alive.
What is the danger of over-indulging in pleasure?
Firstly over indulging is one area of concern that needs to be discussed in depth because we consume without checking and this ends up impacting our general well beings as human beings, so even to this date technology has worsened the effect of overindulging in pleasures without any restriction to balance what we consume, furthermore eating, sex and alcohol are some of the problematic elements which destroy mankind today. Because we can overuse these desires that's why pleasure is now one of the dominating habits within any market, so it's your responsibility to check the effect of what you consume and what you should avoid because pleasure has no limitations but you as an individual you have the choice to limit what you are consuming.
Can pleasure increase happiness?
Pleasure is a supporting mechanism of invoking habits to drive the motion of satisfaction, happiness cannot come from pleasure because we would have happy people in the world if alcohol, sex, and food makes us happy as we consume some daily, so pleasure is focused on filling the gap of hunger for certain desires, what it can do is to influence you to think you are happy but if you can check that's a lie because our five physical senses are based on protection mechanism not on happiness, you cannot be happy by using the five senses, but you can draw emotions that evoke your hunger bias which requires pleasure to fulfill it so you can be satisfied not happy, what confuses us is that we like to associate happiness with attachments.
How to study your pleasures to understand your habits?
Thinking is the first part you should take into consideration if you want to study your habits and functions, because you cannot control the ships if you fail to understand the control mechanism of it which is the mindset, study what you consume and track your feelings and double-check what pleasure are you over indulging on and what benefits do you get and start to balance what's working, because self-research is a game-changer if conducted accurately.
Why is rare to find a school for wealth?
Public or private schools got their agendas, yet wealth is still not included in the curriculum, because we see wealth as something which needs to be taught by those who have acquired it, that's why it becomes so difficult to teach about something you don't have, and schools cannot have wealth lesson's because separation rules the society, as this lessons are treated as private matters, therefore even today wealth is self-made or transfer of assets to many people, no one will couch you unless you ask for counsel about wealth and this makes this subject of wealth to be rare. We all desire to improve our lives, but few can attend this class about wealth creation.
Why most people fail to study wealth?
We don't fail because we want, sometimes we use the wrong tools, when it comes to wealth the fastest way to fail is to do businesses that you don't understand or ask counsel from people who don't have sound knowledge about wealth. As we said it wealth is your asset and you need to define which elements which you are seeking, and failure can come but only sound knowledge mixed with accurate actions can cure it, that's why you should understand what you want before you can start asking.
How to find wealth?
Wealth is acquired on different avenues, yet still today mankind is still incapable of securing Wealth, first let's put this on the your perspective, check this tool's: goals, aspirations, action, knowledge, networks, dreams, and plans this are the elements which wealth can be found from because wealth on its own is a broader subject as it means different things to people, but what matters is to be rich on what you are doing that's why you cannot ask for something that you are not prepared for it. Wealth is power and it takes courage to acquire it.
Should you devote your life searching for wealth?
It depends on your choices or goals, indeed from what you plan you can decide which direction you want your life to unfold, because wealth on its own is the process of continuous search and storage that's why to be wealthy is based on what you value and how you define wealth. Because there's no general rule in life which can prevent you from devoting your life towards searching for wealth, what matters is the happiness and freedom want from that particular wealth and the rest is history..
Why wealth increases reputation status?
From societal observation mankind is respected for what he has acquired, because this had been something which stayed from long tests of times, yet status reputation cannot increase if you are not trusted by those who worship your wealth, because as individuals we have weakness and wealth can cloud the eyes of the society. That's why others once they see you material possession they turn to respect what you have not you entirely, because others they see reputation as a symbol of material possession and others see it differently that's why we cannot tell you that wealth increase reputation if you are not trusted, so wealth is a weapon of trust, that's why most people respect a wealthy person..
03 December 2020 Thursday Career & goals
Why we should have career goals?
Career goals setting plays an important to give us motivational guidance which keeps our dreams relevant. The reasons we are career-oriented is because the influence we get from the our families, peers or society, we set goals based on what we know is possible for us, hence why it's very important to keep your goals into check, so you can strive to make a better means for your life, because caree
rs indeed classify us as humankind.How to select viable careers plans?
Planning is the foundation of viable research if we can tell you because no plan can become progressive if your plan is faulty that's why you need to make sure you seek counsel from experts and Lee your eyes open towards future industries because your plan has to be viable to keep you relevant on the market because sometimes what often destroy careers is new technologies which automate some work and you need a plan to work this disruption that's is currently happening.
How to execute your goals for the career you want?
Before you can go forward you need to check the direction of your plans, why because you can hurry to execute your goals yet with the wrong tactics that's before you can start with your career execution, your research should point you towards the strategy you should use because what matters at the end is the results you are getting not how many times you failed, you need sound knowledge to make your plan to come into fruition that's once you begin to plan you need to understand the execution techniques so you won't be stacked on details and what-if questions?
Why career relocation is challenging?
Change is challenging that's why we sometimes avoid it, career relocation comes with consequences because mostly this can happen when we have not yet planned to move from one place to another, but what is more interesting about this is that you are moving out of your comfort zone and this can change how you see things and bring new opportunities and challenges for you.
But what is important is to firstly look at what was your plan all about? and where you want to be as individuals? because sometimes desperation can leads us to the wrong path, hence why you need to check what's the worst-case scenario about your relocation plans and decide from that standpoint.
What to do if your career goals are failing?
Failure is always there, whether we are experts or students of the craft we deal with, yet what is problematic is how you respond to failure because it takes seconds to fail but years or months to rectify the careers failures. That's why when something is failing you need to pay attention and check which area requires adjustments and what next steps should be taken.
Without careful attention towards your results you can be swallowed by failure because what will always be on your mind is how did I fail? which is often a fair question but you need other methods to deal with your failure, like asking the following questions:
- why this failure is important to me?
- what did I learn ?
- how did I know about this failure?
- can I win if I try again?
Can a relationship succeed without goals?
Indeed this question raises awareness and curiosity because from ancient times goals were there yes we can point out that families who had succeeded used this model of goal setting, that to be into a relationship that has no goals means you are hitting the wrong direction and you cannot succeed without this steps of following accurate goals.
Should we aim together as spouses to strengthen the relationship?
Aiming together is the fundamental structure of setting viable goals which come with support and actions because often if the relationship spouses fail to connect their goals and work together this ends up bringing more conflicts and slow growth within the target which is set to be achieved.
That's why your relationship strength comes from working together to bring change and accept reality as failure will sometimes show up, but with both hands of partner's it is always possible to overcome obstacles easily and forge ahead.
Why goals matters in a relationship?
Goals firstly are designed to set the direction of the relationship, the reason goals become so important is because you can trace and measure the progress of failure once you work on your relationship goals and this can bring change and stability within the relationship as you as spouses are aware of what's wrong and what's working in your relationship because goals can be treated as vows, plans or dreams.
But we suggest you draw a plan on how you as spouses you will want your dream's and aspirations of the relationship to unfold and what guidelines are you suppose to follow to reach those milestones and keep improving what you are doing.
How to set viable goals as partners?
Setting goals is not a problematic approach within many relationships, the issue here is the execution part, we recommend you to check our book called why goals fail and what can you do to rectify that, viability comes with great steps followed from your sound information and research, because sometimes spouses set impossible goals and expect reality to give them the results without any proper checkout of what is possible to be achieved and what not.
Why goals improve the relationship?
Improvement is a plan which is on the motion of action and it can be tracked, we all require the best out of what we do and this makes us keep on seeking improvements that are healthy for our growth and health, that's why with the right goals and actions you can enjoy your overall relationship as improvement keeps on showing up, we need goals to succeed and we need improvement to realize our efforts and progress.
Sunday 06 December Religion & spiritualCan all people become spiritual beings?
As human beings we all have spirit and we ought to find out what is it that makes us feel good about following the spiritual realm, because spirit is what drives us and as a unit of humanity our existence is tight to the spirit, that's why we are all spiritual being's.
Why religion is linked to spiritual?
Religion is the foundation of spirit, from ancient history we as human beings we follow a religion, and these practices are linked to our spirit because what we cannot find even today is why we practice religion and linked it to spirit, the issue that is prevalent to this date is that we understand religion, yet we still struggle to know what makes the spirit? that's why we end up being confused about linking this two elements and make them universal.
Can spiritual religion destroy us?
Can we pray without including the spirit?This is one of a broader question, because mostly we are destroyed by what we do and keep on doing it, spiritual religion is practiced differently from one nation to another but what often destroys mankind is that we fail to question, because this has been put on us to follow certain dogmas which don't serve as any purpose, we struggle to challenge and change the chain of doing things because we are obligated by the society to perform certain dogmas yet religion can be used as something which oppresses us and it can lead to pain and ongoing misery, that's y we are saying check what is being practiced and ask yourself questions.
How to trace your spiritual campus?
We can start to double-check our core spiritual realm from what we believe in and what benefits and problems are we getting, because we all have the power to access spirit, yet we use different modes of approaches to practice what we call spiritual prayers and it takes sample research to acknowledge that you have the spirit which requires nothing but focuses to access it, we can trace our sprit by keeping on checking our emotions and where they come from and the thoughts that have created them.
What is the importance of spirituality?
Prayer is important because as humankind we are spiritual whether we express it or not but what we call death others can refer it as the spirit departure from one field to another, we need to pay attention to our spiritual capacity because this is what defines us as mankind.
07 December 2020 Monday Happiness & loveCan love increase happiness?
Love is the foundation of all moods, indeed the sure way to increase your happiness is to first understand what makes you happy and what you love because you cannot increase something if you don't understand its core roots and how to measure it, love can make us happy yet it's our responsibilities to find out what can make this happiness of our own choice to flow and increase if possible.
Why we struggle to be happy?
We don't struggle to be happy in most cases, we ignore to understand that happiness is always free and we have the power to access it any time. The problem we are facing is this attitude of planning a date to be happy, that's why we are always struggling and dissatisfied with what we plan as something which can make us happy.
All human beings are capable of changing the direction of their thoughts and choose, so we struggle because we like to attach happiness with other things and this can bring turmoil and reactions hence why you should understand what makes you think that happiness is not for you? and start from there to research how can you access it.
What traps do love brings for our happiness?
Love can be used as a weapon of sabotage and ignorance because sometimes emotions are attached to love, and this can make us seek love from others even though we didn't tell them, that's why mostly in relationships spouses are obligated to love even though this rule of thumb is not viable to others because love is a lesson that has to be studied and applied every day when people get trapped by love is because they fail to understand what was the purpose of love because sometimes others suppress each other based on love motivates that's why you should be aware of love traps from abuse, alcoholism, emotional sabotage and cheating, these elements can trap love and turn it to something which we don't like and hate.
Can we rely on others too makes us happy?
Happiness is self-made and it's your responsibility to make sure how you control your thoughts, others can lead us to the path of temporal happiness which sometimes we get from accessing pleasures such as sex, jokes, adventure, food, and appreciation, yet we cannot rely on them to keep this game rolling towards our lives, because some people are searching for happiness which they don't even understand what consequences will it bring, that's today we have addict's who are on the verge of desires which they claim they bring them to happiness, you should mind your own business of thoughts if you fail to want to be happy and be able to avoid the opinions of others.
Can happiness be brought?
Yes external material can bring our desires to the table and give us access to tap into temporal happiness and this should be understood that materially adds happiness only if you can link it towards what your thoughts which regulate your daily emotions, you can buy happiness just by paying attention to your thoughts and start to focus on what you love the most and add material if possible, but the happiness of life cannot be brought because we already have it all we can do is to access it and make sure we are accountable of what we add towards our lives.
08 December 2020 Health & sex
What is the relationship between sex and health?
The connection between sex and health is the emotions, that's why we feel good after engaging in sexual activities, and again the emotions which drive our desires to have sex are always linked to our thoughts and this makes sex have a secret place in our bodies because it evokes emotions which excite us and this makes us healthy to realize those emotions.
What is good sex?
Good is the process of understanding satisfaction and feelings of yourself and what your partner requires from sex because sometimes we use wrong steps and expect to get great results from our sexual performance.
Good sex is an ongoing education between spouses and this will require both parties to take full responsibility to own up their desires and express them openly so the functionality of sex can be improved and kept active because in many relationship spouses have sex just because they are obligated to do so, that's why they end up not being satisfied or feel as though sex is just a norm we just do it even though we don't pay attention to our emotions, and this brings turmoil and ignorance, that's why we recommend spouses to learn about sex and keep on seeking expert counsel to improve your health.
Why a healthy body counts when it comes to sexuality?
Performance is one key area that can clarify that your body is not functioning correctly from obesity to other related health issues, that you need to seek assistance from your doctor about what is the required body size and what you should do to eat healthy, because laziness spoils sexual performance and this can create a lot of problem's if spouses fail to address it correctly because sexual starvation caused by negligence is what sometimes influence spouses to end up cheating. After all, if one party is incapable of performing his or her sexual mandate, good health can increase greater sex.
Can sex drive decline due to bad habits?
Sexual drive decline comes from different corners of health issues, such as related health diseases, stress, obesity, depression alcohol, and drugs, that's why you cannot expect bad habits to give you greater results.
All you will have is what is called decline performance and this can destroy your stamina and introduce problems within your relationship that's why we advocate for healthier bodies so you can be able to perform well and enjoy your sexual life with your partner, good health decrease problems bad health double problems.
Why we should eat healthy to improve our sex drive?
Good sex comes from what we eat, learning to sleep, deal with stress, exercise, learn to appreciate our partners bodies because sex is just an activity which requires stamina, so what you eat can help to power your strength and better your sex, again exercising is another factor which can help to improve your sexual life that's why you should pay attention towards your health and give it what it supposes to get if you want to have good sex.
09 December 2020 Wealth & assets
Why wealth is defined by assets bases?
We used different definitions to identify what wealth is all about to ourselves, that's why some people rate you based on what you have as a definition of wealth, but wealth is a broader subject and you need to find your meaning before you can adopt what others say about wealth, because often we use wrong meanings and act on them and once we are trapped we cannot find help, so be careful how you classify your wealth based on attachments..
Can we be wealthy without material possession?
Wealth meanings differs from one person to another, and to most people, wealth is the classification of material possession, so many people have this perspective and others see peace as wealth so by nature we are wealthy because we have access to think and act in a certain way, this makes us wealthy compared to other animals. So having and lacking all comes from what you value because others see wealth as a symbol of strength whenever others see emptiness as a wealth, so we have choices which define what wealth is all about to ourselves.
Should we dedicate our attention to searching for wealth?
There's no rule to chase for wealth and we are the ones who set this plans and goal's to search for wealth, that's why humankind can be confused from childhood until adulthood because sometime we follow wrong paths and keep on navigating towards wrong direction.
Most we are taught to seek yet we are not warned about the right time to stop searching after we have acquire what we want, because sometimes we can chase endless illusions which consume our precious time and energy only to regret on our deathbed that we spend our time doing wrong things, that's why it's very important to understand the limitations of your goals and plans, before you can start to execute them.
Today we live in societies were instant gratification is a norm and being wealthy is a must on some circumstances because we compete on different directions which some don't even add value to nature, that is why if we understand that material possession are only for temporary time then we can devote our attention in other important courses which can add value towards humanity and community improvements.
Sometimes we are consumed by selfishness of attainments and protection of our assets and forget that wealth on its own is a temporary journey in this life and we need to pay attention to our time and who we love so we can live the best version of ourselves..
Can wealth change us?
What changes us is the options we adopt not wealth because we use different options to control wealth, from publicity to privacy, so we cannot blame wealth for changing us whenever we are the ones who adopted that change or any improvement. Change can be a symbol of improvement, that's why others can define you once you appear based on material possessions..
Why do people pretend to like you once you are wealthy?
Pretending is normal especially when you have new or old opportunities which are improving your life.People who always pretend are the ones who envy you and somehow willing to see you fail so they can cherish your downfall, that's why wealth especially material possession to others can attract enemies and pretenders and you are responsible to evaluate who should be part of your progress or else you will end up on the rut of cycle's of pretenders because a lion is powerless if attacked by armed soldiers.
Check who are pretenders in your life and stop acting as though they are your true trustee and counsel members of your wealth, be careful about who you bring on your room of wealth.
Can life choices drive our career path?
Career drives our lives whether we pursue them or not because what you do every day is part of an activity which is contributing to your career path, life choices are hard to be predicted because we don't know what the future will bring but we still can choose how we want our lives to be and where to end if possible because careers indeed shape our lives and what we do on our daily basis, that's why from a young age we are a caution to choose what we want out of life because life is a collection of memories which some of them come from the career path you are verging on that's you need to master what you choose so you can face all the consequence along the way.
Why career choices should be checked before you can choose them?
Career decisions are like clothes, or road stop signs, one should be able to stop and check because sometimes people do take lifetime decisions in hurry and regret later in life about what was not meant for them.
Hence why before you can finalize your decision to get into a new career ,you should tick all the boxes from your research because sometimes it helps to delay what you don't have enough information about, until you are confident and content that you can decide based on facts and move ahead with what you have chosen.
Why being indecisive can destroy your career?
Decision-making is a discipline, and when it comes to many careers choices, many people regret later that they were indecisive to change the direction when the opportunities presented themselves, that's why before you can change, you need self-analysis on what are you doing and what alternatives are available for you to go ahead? because some choices can hold us into hostage for a long time, hence why you have the responsibility to make sound decisions.
What are potential of knowing about viable careers?
The advantage of knowing what you should pursue is always a bonus because you are not into that circle of settling for something you don't want from your career life and this even adds options for you to determine which direction is viable for you and what opportunities are available for you.
Should people be taught about career options?
Indeed learning about career viability should be prioritized, because this can reduce the backlog of unemployment and expose necessary skills on the market because today changes are presented by new technologies which pose major challenges of making jobs automated and obsolete in some industries, that's why you need to understand the direction of what future opportunities does your current career has on new markets, because without sound knowledge you will run in circles of unemployment, because you are educated but not relevant towards the economy, careful consideration should be followed before you can adopt a new career.
13 December 2020 Care & love
Can spouses buy care?
Indeed care is a set of combined elements of actions and signs, to buy material possession can add a part on caring for each other but care on its own we have our different definition from one relationship to other that's we cannot generalize and say care cannot be brought or not but we can say that care is based on two elements :
Why often do relationship requires love and care?
Love is not a requirement for hate but care and tenderness, because we are human beings and love drives us from one emotion to another, that's why ove and care always go hand in hand.
How should spouses care for each other?
As it has been said earlier on care is based on two elements, externally and internally, what spouses can do is learn from each other what elements of care do speak to each of them because our emotions sometimes require a different set of things to be fulfilled, that's asking each other about how to care for each can open a learning curve towards understanding what you are all required to do because a relationship on its own is a negotiation stage, you should find it easy to talk and act.
Why care is fragile in relationships?
Care is private, that you cannot play games on it, we all can access it, but once we start to hate, doubt, envy or be joyous, care will go away that's to find out if any relationship is no longer working you should check how each partner care of one another, care is fragile because it protects us against hate unless we force our thoughts to entertain hate then we cannot care for one other.
Why care is an entrance to love?
Care evokes the emotions of love, because we all desire to be loved and cared for, so to be in love retirement is care either you express it externally or internally it all depends on what strategy are you using but people to love each other they are firstly connected by care before love start to take the place, that's once care decline love goes away.
14 December 2020 Believe & religion
Why do we believe in religion?
Religion is our core foundation of developing beliefs we have today, the reason we believe in religion is that we are conditioned by our parents to follow certain beliefs as a way of protection and identification within the society, that's why we are classified as believers of different dogmas on the society, we believe because we are following what has been said by those who lived before us.
What are the benefits of religion?
We are protected by religion on different elements because as humankind is classified to be a religious symbol, within any community we are connected on one thing which is the belief and we protect each other, so as units of mankind we benefit from education, connection, love, relationship, food and sex which are categorized within the religious standards we follow, hence why religion is a powerful tool which controls mankind even to this date, because it reveals our identity and strengthens our core values and impact.
Can someone live without a belief?
Life on its own is a journey of belief, we all have beliefs, either religious or non because what we do every day is part of the religion of our thoughts which comes from the five senses and the subconscious mind, that's why we believe on different things and we ought to respect one another in order to express our beliefs without any fear or doubt.
Life is set of what you believe on or what not that's why the summary of each of us once we are death is defined by what we did and what believes we hold in our lives.
Why we worship in many traditions?
We worship because we trust what we are requesting will come from the higher power, that's why our religious identification symbolizes us based on the religious creed we have.
Remember you can find out what individual worship creed based on their devotional commitment to their fait, because traditions are different, but all are in common on one thing which is worshiping, that's why we are all believers yet we don't worship the same things.
Can everyone be taught about believes?
Indeed this education about belief is not a request but a must, because to survive you need to be identified and classified based on any belief creed which you are comfortable with, but education on beliefs is changing today due to new modern technologies, that's why we believe on different things and the education on believes today is voluntary and you need to be careful before you can say its all people who should be taught about believe, but as we have mentioned mental conditioning from childhood its must for any child to be taught about believe and it depends who and what is being taught to a child and again we adopt believes sometimes from copying others, that's why we are not merely taught everything about believes.
15 December 2020 Happiness searchWhy humankind is searching for happiness?
We are taught from the childhood stage to search for happiness, yet mostly we are not pointed towards the right direction of where can happiness be found.
We end up searching for meanings and lifestyles which can help us to find this happiness, we search because we lack, and we are conditioned to act on wrong biases that's why we should be careful enough to think and act from what has been said by the majority without checking real facts about what's all about happiness, because as we have mentioned previously happiness has different meanings for people.
That's why we should find what makes us happy and how can be able to access it.
Can all people be happy?
We are all Happy, the problem is the meaning we give towards what we don't have, and this makes us feel we are not happy at all.
Life is a journey of happiness whether you are thinking that happiness is reserved for others who happen to have what you lack, but the fact of the matter is that to be alive your body is happy to keep you safe and active, that's why we have the power as individuals to make our definition of happiness to become a reality, so it takes effort to understand happiness because is already there and always on the motion.
How can happiness impact our lives?
Happiness can be used as a tool of separation amongst individuals, that's as we said lacking certain things and comparing them as though they can help you to happen can even increase your pain of not being happy, because sometimes we act out of envy to think that happiness is based on certain requirements and standards no wonder why addictions are swallowing many people's lives today because we don't understand that happiness can become dangerous if you use it carelessly, that's why we can be impacted by lack of happiness until we die because we failed to master what we can control and what not.
Why happiness is a life priority?
As humankind we see happiness as important because it helps us to feel good and enjoy what we have, that's why people value happiness more than money, because life is what we believe in and it takes courage to prioritize what makes you happy as an individual because priorities can define us and what we value.
Can life be identified by how happy you are?
From society to great observation of wise education about life, all you are defined about is your results and actions that's we as students of the society we see people who think that material possession makes people happy, indeed to others it does but not to everyone, because debt stress is what is chasing many individuals, we cannot say because you have certain things you are happy that's not an accurate statement. After all, happiness is what you value and defined as something that diver's your inner peace or external entertainment.
15 December 2020 Exercise & excuses
Why we default our exercise plans?
We as mankind has this tendency of postponing what has to be done just to feel good for temporary moments, and we have different attitudes when it comes to giving excuses on why are we defaulting our exercise plans because we are afraid of pain and discipline that's we fail to act on good health.
Why old habits can challenge new ones?
Being uncomfortable is challenging especially if you want to change old habit's because you are used to those benefits you get from old habits and its hard to cut them away, that's why new habits to many individuals don't succeed because their thoughts are dominated by a multitude of heavy bad habits which run automatically and it will take time to remove a mountain of old habit's especially if you are not prepared and unable to make personal sacrifices to keep up with the new habits, because most sufferings come from bad habit's.
Why people make excuses of time to avoid exercising?
Time excuses are part of what lead many people's lives into chaotic life because no one will exercise for you and once you start to create excuses you are doing bad towards your health not for others, that's why if you lack time to exercise you will have time to consume medication because not everyone can exercise yet they are different channels to be used to keep your body healthy and intact because excuses double the problem that's why you cannot move ahead.
Why do we aim to be healthy but follow bad health?
Thoughts drive us from internal to external actions that's why you should have dominating health thoughts to master exercise plans because we follow what our thoughts tell us whether we are aware or not that's why paying attention to details can help you to understand why are you doing certain things and what results are you getting because evaluation can open your eyes and can lead to a new path of actions.
Can good health determine your lifespan?
Health is the master driver of life, if your health is declining due to a certain illness you cannot live longer, that's why we are obligated to be healthy if we want to live longer, and even from practical evidence we all know the importance of being healthy yet ignorance rule us because we are tighten by bad habit's and we take time to recognize them and even worse we sometimes ignore them to destroy our health.
16 December 2020 Powers of wealth
Can wealth be dangerous?
Indeed wealth attained from greediness can be dangerous for mankind, because being greedy is a symbol of ignorance and not caring about others that's why a greedy wealthy person especially financial is hated by most people because life doesn't keep greedy people in harmony but always expose their bad actions.
Why humankind is searching for wealth?
The search for wealth is challenging and is a self-based activity because wealth means different things to people, that's why the chasing of it, is different, some are searching for spiritual wealth, financial wealth, emotional wealth, physical wealth, and lifestyle wealth to mention the few, yet to this date, not everyone is winning on this game of this search because the strategies are different that's why wealth is categorized as something reserved for others who can access it and explore it.
Can wealth lead to Good life?
For any individual who doesn't understand what wealth is for them, they can think that material possession wealth is a definition of a good life and we cannot argue that statement but we can warn you to be careful of using meanings of others and think all it is right without any research which satisfies your inquiry because a good life is broader and it cannot be classified to one thing which is wealth.
Why wealth is attained by few people?
From general observation financial wealth is one thing which is attained by few people because they have the capacity, connections, networks, skills, experience, and backups, this means financial wealth has a private gate because you should be able to master what others fail to do and be able to keep on what you do because most individuals are searching for financial wealth yet they lack strategic actions and skills to attain it that's why it all seems reserved yet we can access it all as mankind because we can choose and act in a certain way.
Should life be a wealthy journey?
Life is a wealthy journey because we either decide to spoil it with untenable goals which drive us insane and make us forget that we are temporary in this life and we came with nothing so we live without anything, that's why the journey of life is to make sure you master the basics and all is the history.
17 December 2020 Career Milestone'sWhy you need career milestones?
Milestone are guidelines of the roadmap of your plans, and your career results will come from those targets you meet and keep working on improving your skills because milestones are easy to be set yet they require discipline and good habits to be acted upon, that's why without discipline achievement is impossible
Why achievement should be managed ?
We as units of mankind are driven by the collection of memories we get from the achievement we get out of what we do, so we need to manage the urge to keep on improving wrong things in our lives because sometimes we allow pleasures of life to ruin our overall achievements just by destroying our reputation and integrity, so achievement should be guided by discipline so you can keep your name clean from what can destroy all your, efforts and achievement memories.Why careers are becoming obsolete?
Fourth industrial revolution is taking many jobs and making new careers by destroying old ones because the world is shifting towards technologies that are often on rapid innovation to change how we do things and how we work. Careers are becoming obsolete because some skills are no longer relevant in the marketplace.
Should you spend your entire life on a career?
This is the individual answer we choose how we want to spend our lives, so others prefer to retire whenever to some is all about working on their careers until death remove them.
What comes first, purpose or career?
On an evidence basis, purpose comes first followed by what career matches the purpose of your choice, because sometimes we don't know our purpose that's why we end up becoming miserable and worried about not getting what others are receiving from following their purposes.
19 December 2020 Digital relationship
Digital relationships privacy & dating?
Privacy in a relationship is what protects the foundation of it, but today because spouses use technology careless by allowing it to intrude on their privacy this ends up comprising the relationship trust and attention, because sometimes images, voice notes, and videos can destroy the relationship because accessibility doesn't mean you understand, that's why we still caution spouse's to refrain from using technologies which can sabotage what they value which privacy and integrity.
Why privacy is comprised of digital relationship?
New dating is what is referred to as online partners, and this had made the world of love change its direction because people today meet partners online and start a relationship via that medium of contact from these new technologies, and dating today is easier as we are more connected towards the internet and having cellphones to reach each other.
What are the dangers of digital attention towards your smartphone in a relationship?
Digital attention towards your smartphone can destroy the relationship because we all love to be heard and be prioritized, so if a partner maintains attention on the phone and neglects to attend to his or her partner this can introduce problems and conflicts that's why modern relationship majority of them never last because partners care more about their mobile devices than their partners and again cellphones are used to ignore what has to be solved as partners.
Why cheating has doubled since the introduction of digital relationship?
Access to simple contacts and dating which comes from simplified technologies which connect people instantly have to take a path to increase cheating because it's easy to date multiple people online and hide, but what is the reality today is that not everyone is succeeding on this game of new dating because what should be taken into consideration is that sex is now priced and published using different techniques to convince mankind that's why cheating is creating major problems on many societies.
Why quality time is taken by messaging on relationships?
Attention to one another is now declining from messaging which is used instantly and incorrectly because spouses if they forget it pay attention to their significant other can destroy the relationship and the quality of attention is devoted to one other.
20 December 2020 Powers of traditions
Why traditions are powerful?
Tradition is the foundation of all societies because everyone comes from a particular community where certain traditions are followed and this makes what we are following have power, especially if practiced by the majority of people, so the tradition is the core symbol of power, that's why we having tradition which rules us as humankind.
Why are we classified based on tradition?
Classification is the symbol of recognition because to know which one belongs to each tradition we use different elements of identification such as language, clothing, prayer, greetings, color, status, etc, but this classification some are good and bad all depends on the community one reside on.
Why we are using tradition?
Tradition is what we mimicked from others and use and some we are conditioned to practice it, so we end up using it because is what others are doing and for better identification amongst individuals, we relate to each other based on what core traditional beliefs, values, purpose, we have as human beings.
Can tradition change us?
We are changed by our thoughts, not tradition because we have the power to choose especially if we are old enough to make our own decisions
What is the importance of traditions?
To keep us within the respect history of our core values
21 December 2020 Title: Can happiness increase wealth?
Why happiness happens unaware mostly?
As human beings we are not often aware of whether we are happy or not, because we have taught ourselves to identify the situations or memories which make us happy, so awareness of happiness is tricky because we can be influenced by different things which can trigger our emotions to classify happiness and this makes a lot of us get confused on what makes us happy, as our interest change with time.
Why should we tell others we are happy?
It's a universal norm to express ourselves on good or bad reflections such as I'm feeling happy, I'm not happy at all, so we are conditioned to choose based on good or bad scenarios, that's why when this emotion kicks in we sometimes feel obligated to share them with others, because from our biological makeup we have habits of sharing and this makes us human. Happiness express our biological triggers.
Why so many efforts are devoted to think wealth bring people happiness?
From media, schools, churches, families, and workplaces, humankind is somehow given tips on how to be happy and be wealthy, yet we still need to inquire how many people benefit from this advice, because happiness is a journey of thoughts and wealth can be seen as something tangible to many, that's why others devote attention to link happiness to wealth and this can even lead to more confusion because the two require strategic balance to work together, that's why you can find a financial wealthy individual, but still lacking happiness, it's all about the balance of options and how they work together.
Does happiness choose people?
Happiness does not discriminate, yet we as the individual can choose which ways lead our actions to happiness we have selected for ourselves because we have the power to direct our choices towards the results we want which can be thoughts or emotions, especially internally voices which drive us as mankind, so happiness does not discriminate people we all have the access to obtain it, the question should be how one can establish ways to live a happy life because life is a matter of perspective and acceptance, that's why others feel happiness is all about money acquisition no wonder why majority still cannot find happiness.
Can life be a happy journey?
To be alive indeed is one of the greatest opportunities any person can have, because by nature we are given only one life to live, so happiness or not life will be still good even though we fail to understand that we cannot be happy every day but we can be grateful every day about having this precious moment which can lapse any time, that's to find a happy life is a bonus because others never reach that stage as they search from wrong avenues and misery is what follows them.
22 December 2020 Title: Can good health increase longevity
Why we should talk about good health?
Longevity is a rare topic talked about because as human beings we sometimes view aging as something which affects particular people, that's why it is very hard to learn about our biology of aging well, because health is more related to age, with different food we eat, longevity can be tracked using new technologies and even expand our lifespan by following medical guidance about what we should eat at a certain age.
Longevity is not about good health alone, but the quality of living the greatest life because this two are always related.
Why aging is based on health?
We age differently as our genetic coding is different, so others take time to show signs of aging yet with a quality of health you can observe this from young peers who grow together but choose different habits, the only way to learn about their age is to check what habits dominants each and what benefits are there because we can affect our genetic codes of aging by damaging them with bad habits and this can even leave us to appear that we are old enough if though we are still young compared to our peers, so aging is part of healthy growth.
Can people choose how they age?
From schools of thought, wise teachers have elaborated on the subject of choice and decision, yet even today medical scientists are still searching on why we quickly age and what can be the possible solution to help about this matter.
We have heard the master of thinking talked about food as a medicine, so this concludes that we have the choice to delay our aging but we cannot avoid it, so we can use different models shared by this collective wisdom, from sleeping, eating, sex, adventure, family, sharing, impact, learning, and lifestyle, etc.
We can find aging viable once we accept that we are mortal beings and growth has limitations, especially on our bodies that's why some parts of us cannot be replaced once damaged by growth. You're young as you think.
Why health can identify your age?
We as human beings have an internal system that helps us to pick the personality of others and classify them based on age because we have the power to understand each other on a deeper level, that's why we all know when someone is angry, happy, sad, or pretending so it is our genetic codes which drive these instincts to help us to know people ages without asking them just by looking at their character, and deteriorating health can tell the age of someone that's why all young people are referred as energetic and productive than old people because strength declines with time and wisdoms expand with age.
Can good health support aging issues?
According to new studies on the medical aging issue more discoveries are now being revealed that good health can support our metabolism of aging well because our bodies are like gardens they get cluttered by wits if we don't pay attention to what the garden requires to be attractive and fertile.
So what we eat, think, do can affect the psychology of how we age, because what is often done on repetition can either make us or destroy us. Good health is the combination of different things that's why what can support your body should be an ongoing inquiry with the various experts counsel so you can be able to deal with age issues that sometimes kill others.
Can lessons shared by wealthy people work?
We learn differently, and we learn for various reasons, what others share can either be truthful to you or a lie to others, that's why advice works for others, and to some, it's just a total failure, wealth books, seminars, talks have been shared yet some people are still struggling to make that knowledge profitable to them, so should we blame that the information is faulty or people cannot use this method?
Wealth can be taught but the application of those lesson's to be applied is an individual choice, that's why it works for others not everyone, if learning about wealth was a requirement for all we would have a peaceful society because others are chasing wealth without even understanding what are the benefits or consequence of it.
Why wealth is a process?
Wealth can be defined as Mount Everest journey, no one ever climbs it without following steps and processes, because wealth is a combination of skills, experience, and continuous learning, that's why we refer wealth as a process of getting what you want without reaching the limitations, so the process is open to everyone willing to make personal sacrifices and commitment to get what he or she wants out of this life. The Mount Everest journey is not conquered by everyone, but we can learn how to climb to the pick of it, so wealth becomes a day to the day learning curve.
Can people be taught to be a wealth?
Throughout all walks of life from historical accounts people always have the knowledge to be wealthy yet to some knowledge is limited due to ignorance to learn from experts of this subject of wealth, so schools, churches, and other institutions push the agenda of mankind to be wealthy in some areas of knowledge, so to be alive and go through life is part of wealth either to you or others who can use your talents, skills, and experience, so mankind is always taught about wealth the problem is that lessons can differ based on the subject of knowledge.
How much wealth is enough?
Once we start to understand that our limitations come from our thoughts, then we are the ones who can determine what limitations are there for us to accumulate wealth, because it takes sound thinking to understand this and apply it because more can frustrate you and keep you trapped, that's why you should understand that size, and quantity are not the same thing, so like wealth and freedom or happiness, to be aware of this you need to inquire about your plans and start to analyze what results you want and what limitations are there, and do you have control or not to change those results?.
Why people struggle to understand wealth?
As human beings we value wealth differently and we see the world differently some see wealth as a weapon on continuous subdural, while others see it as something difficult to be acquired and reserved for others or available to certain groups, so the problem is the thinking, not the actions or results, that's why we can differ when we define wealth.
24 December 2020 Technological careers opportunities
Why automation is changing old careers?
Automation is changing how careers function today, because technology is presenting new capable systems which help human beings to pilot test those tasks which require machines and assistance from computers.
The level of automation is taking place from different sectors and we should embrace these changes, for example, our albums, mail, books, money, communication are all transferred to automation technologies so we are should be aware how this can will impact old careers.
Career technology limitations?
Technology has limitations from search to innovations because for example technology cannot replace human lives, we live in an autopilot world where we think technology is everything, yet we forget that this technology is made by us and sometimes they can be superior to us and this points us that limitations come from the question which doesn't have answers.
Can more opportunities lead to career frustration?
More on its nature is problematic because people don't understand the true meaning of more to this date, so we live in a world where opportunities are exceeding the demand of accumulation of results, so the more opportunities are not grabbed the more people become more desperate and confused because digital opportunities are not understood by everyone that's why people can know about technology and it's potential to create opportunities but the question remains that not everyone can capitalize on this opportunities.
Why data is ruling on many new opportunities?
Data is the new commodity of this new world of technologies, so today we have opportunities to share and get but we should use the data to be connected to the internet so this makes data rule on many industries and most decisions today are made out of data polls so to be informed you need to keep up with this new changes and be able to learn.
Should everyone adopt technological skills?
Adaptation is a choice, not everyone is cut out to use technology, so it is an individual choice to equip him or her with new technological skills because some work will always remain not automated so technology will always lead based on how it's been promoted on communities .
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